Storytime | Not being able to conceive | Vithya Hair and Makeup

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  • Another story time about motherhood...even though I am not a mother.
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    Another story time about motherhood, not being to conceive, and not wanting children.
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  • @menakarajaram1436
    @menakarajaram1436 Місяць тому +77

    To me Parenting is an emotion, learning, understanding, fulfillment and much more through nurturing. Of course sooo tiring and the most critisised aspect of our lives.
    You already ooze them all to your students, followers, and the kids and cousins you meet.
    Motherhood is not just breast feeding n changing diapers. Its nurturing. You truly are a positivity nurturer. The most beautiful mother❤

  • @msaigol87
    @msaigol87 Місяць тому +18

    You're so brave Vithya. I'm 36 with no kids because life just panned out that way so I can empathise with you. My heart really goes out to you and other women in your shoes. May you be happy always

  • @riznafathima7991
    @riznafathima7991 Місяць тому +7

    Vithya, I could relate to you. I’ve literally been down the road and now I am happy the way we’re together as a couple. Your video is making me feel I’m not the only one has gone through this. Thanks for sharing your experience Vithya!

  • @geethasukumaran8257
    @geethasukumaran8257 29 днів тому +2

    One of the greatest videos of how a person could get triggered/offended when really low, and how a close friend stays & shares her life happenings no matter what and how you have gone through the entire process of denial& slowly moved towards acceptance.. I’m speechless of how well you have articulated. Hats off👏👏👏

  • @geetz_
    @geetz_ 23 дні тому +1

    Nobody’s life is perfect. Even after being a mom I’m seeking myself and trying so damn hard to get settled with the unexpected chaos that’s happening in life. Lots of love for you Vidya! You inspire me so much. ❤

  • @poojyathavenkatesh2980
    @poojyathavenkatesh2980 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this and being so vulnerable. I’m sure you’re helping so many people.

  • @checkandtick
    @checkandtick Місяць тому +13

    You really are like a big sister I never had! You inspire me so much!! ❤

  • @harmonyskies19
    @harmonyskies19 19 днів тому

    I admire your grace and consideration of others opinion. Honestly, thank you so much for sharing this. No one’s entitled to this, but it will undoubtedly resonate with so many people.

  • @Maddy44979
    @Maddy44979 25 днів тому

    I admire your maturity in the way you talk, put things forward and in making decisions.. it shows wisdom and strength. ❤

  • @jayviswanathan7511
    @jayviswanathan7511 Місяць тому +6

    Vithya, I have been to listening to all your story times and huge respect to you on this one. I haven't had any of your experiences, but I love how REAL you are with sharing your vulnerabilities so openly. It takes a lot of courage to do this. And the way you try to not hurt anyone else, you are incredible 🙏🙏🙏🙏. I was a fan of your make up videos and content on Instagram. But now I am a life time fan of your personality. Really wanted to give you hugs at certain points.

    • @vithyamakeup
      @vithyamakeup  Місяць тому +1

      This is so so kind, thank you ❤

  • @user-wi1cn6tw2i
    @user-wi1cn6tw2i Місяць тому +2

    That is such a mum thing to do to send photos of your kids. I have done this to be inclusive of women who may choose not to or can’t have kids they should be embraced for who they are and they are worthy. I love celebrating all women!! 💗

  • @Praseetha_M_Das
    @Praseetha_M_Das 18 днів тому

    Thank you, Vithya, for sharing such a vulnerable topic with us, and doing so with so much grace. As someone who has not experienced the situations you mentioned in this video, it provided me with great insight into how to speak to others with kindness and thoughtfulness. This video taught me the importance of acknowledging difficult and challenging situations, analyzing them rather than running away. I could relate to your feelings in different situations and learned how things could be handled more positively and gracefully. Thank you so much. God bless you. ❤

  • @suzannavinoth6284
    @suzannavinoth6284 26 днів тому

    Love, love, love the way you express yourself but also how you put every aspect so nicely together. This is a very sensitive topic, and you carefully and nicely elaborate all the elements. Thanks for sharing with us. I'm definitely sharing this with my sisters. Lots of love. Suzanna

  • @sharmilamunees5634
    @sharmilamunees5634 Місяць тому +34

    Hi vithya...such a thoughtful video..... I am getting lot of maturity just by watching your Story time about how you got through all the stuff in your life and how hard you have worked to be in the place you are now.... Its very nice of you to help other people also by making these videos...thank you....

  • @malberrybush7194
    @malberrybush7194 Місяць тому +2

    Vithya sis I just love your strength and your positivity, that’s great . So much inspirational conversation…
    I love you a lot ❤️❤️❤️

  • @nandhithapreethikaravikuma3708
    @nandhithapreethikaravikuma3708 27 днів тому

    This is such a thoughtful video❤listening to this, have changed my perception on so many things.Thank you and wish u all the best for everything that you are looking forward to do!! Cheers🎉

  • @prakandi2
    @prakandi2 Місяць тому +1

    Really sorry to hear this. Thank you so much for sharing. More power to you and your partner.

  • @HaarthiHarikrishnan-jt4yt
    @HaarthiHarikrishnan-jt4yt 26 днів тому

    You're so brave to talk about this, love you for who you are❤️

  • @sowmyaramaswami908
    @sowmyaramaswami908 Місяць тому

    Bless you, Vithya for showing so much maturity. And bless your friend for being such a genuine soul for you. We need people like your friend. Stay blessed always! A lot of my make up inspiration especially the eyebrows come from you! Now more than the make up tutorial you share, I’m really beginning to respect you as a human being.

  • @pasuriz
    @pasuriz Місяць тому +3

    Hi Vithya.. i am so overwhelmed..in a similar situation. have come to accept as it is. Maybe God has a different purpose for me.Also there are so many blessings to be thankful for. I pray and wish love and happiness for everyone. Lovvvvved the conversation ❤❤

  • @kokilavanigopal903
    @kokilavanigopal903 Місяць тому +1

    I am listening to your entire video while cleaning my kitchen. I tell you, literally I can really relate every single word that you are saying. Gosh. It's like my mind is speaking out in your form. Being a Tamil, I went thru the similar things with the surroundings.

  • @michellec6170
    @michellec6170 Місяць тому +3

    Thank you for sharing your story, got emotional in the middle. Wish I could give you a hug 🤗 Luv from Washington DC 💕

  • @rebeccashamasundari4047
    @rebeccashamasundari4047 Місяць тому +3

    This video couldn't have come at a better time. I had been feeling overwhelmed lately with similar thoughts, but in a different situation altogether. Thank you for sharing your story, Vithya, which has helped me put things into perspective just when I needed it the most. Sending lots of love your way ❤️

  • @shanthasuriyakumar6715
    @shanthasuriyakumar6715 28 днів тому +1

    You are such a brave girl. I enjoy watching your videos. I did not have Kids for 5 years and I understand how people look at you and say things to your face. Have a happy married life Vitdya. God bless you.

  • @Daisy-xt7pi
    @Daisy-xt7pi Місяць тому +2

    Thank you so much for discussing this. It was very relatable and I also learned a lot from it 😊❤️

  • @lalithakirsnan
    @lalithakirsnan 23 дні тому +13

    Thanks for the video, Vithya. I’m 39, married for 13 years with no kids. I’ve always wanted to become a mother because I’ve got an amazing mum and looked forward to the time I would get to be just like her to my kids. I was pretty devastated when I miscarried and couldn’t conceive thereafter. However, I found my purpose in life and once I realised what my work in this world is, the pain reduced significantly. I do get emotional too on Mother’s Day when people include me. I know exactly that feeling of inclusion. It makes a big difference.

    • @vithyamakeup
      @vithyamakeup  22 дні тому +1

      Am so sorry for what you went through. Thank you for sharing ❤

    • @chinny3361
      @chinny3361 12 днів тому

      ⁠​⁠​⁠@@vithyamakeup Dear Vithya, if you r still desiring to have a baby, I want to ask u something, do u really think is there anything impossible for JESUS?
      I have been in similar situation, 5 years of trying all the treatments, I broke out cried like Hannah in the bible and left the medications evrything. Just prayed with ONE HOPE , ONE TRUST is JESUS.
      I want u to read this Deuteronomy 7:13 “ He will love you and bless you and increase your numbers. He will bless the fruit of your womb, the crops of your land-your grain, new wine and olive oil-the calves of your herds and the lambs of your flocks in the land he swore to your ancestors to give you.”
      Please keep saying this verse and pray with faith. And Remember JESUS loves u❤️ will pray for u too.

  • @anitahelen4093
    @anitahelen4093 Місяць тому +1

    Big Respect to you ❤ I’m in such a situation right now and I’m literally tearing up once you start talking from beginning.
    I can totally understand and I’m glad that you bring up such topics.
    More love and respect to you ♥️

  • @yamunayashwanthi5322
    @yamunayashwanthi5322 29 днів тому

    I am so happy that you choose this topic.. Your just speaking up my mind off.. Tq

  • @MahilthiniRanjan
    @MahilthiniRanjan 12 днів тому

    Thank you for sharing your experience. I am turning 41 and in a similar situation and listening to you is helpful to find a way to heal and deal with societal situations. I am still trying to be content with the cards I was given.

  • @saachicoolz
    @saachicoolz Місяць тому +4

    Well said, huge respect on yur perspective❤ loads of love ❤

  • @jasmine777ification
    @jasmine777ification 26 днів тому

    Go Girl….. Such a wonderful video. Kudos for such a brave attempt of sharing your experience

  • @karthikam5427
    @karthikam5427 25 днів тому

    Thank you for posting this. I cried after watching this as I am going through some of the emotions that you described and I always felt alone. Thank you.

  • @sahityarao9939
    @sahityarao9939 Місяць тому +2

    Vithya! You know what .. you are sooo talkative 😄
    Btw I was following you from 2017 and everything about you is soooo inspiring. I once met you in one of the malls in Malaysia ❤️

  • @thushathillainathan2952
    @thushathillainathan2952 Місяць тому

    ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for sharing, you are truly amazing 🙏🏽

  • @bhavanic8231
    @bhavanic8231 28 днів тому

    Hi Vithya, thanks for sharing. Not easy to speak about such a sensitive topic. Was just surprised that you didn’t speak more about your Godchild. But great video. Take care

  • @Sowmya.36936
    @Sowmya.36936 Місяць тому

    I completely understand you and support your words . God bless you

  • @allthingsnam
    @allthingsnam Місяць тому

    More power to you for sharing something so intimate❤

  • @dourgaCh
    @dourgaCh 23 дні тому

    Thanks for your story, I'm going thru some questioning about all this baby idea, knowing your experience helps me 🙏

  • @gracious2018
    @gracious2018 26 днів тому

    Blessed Sister, thank you for sharing in open heart conversation.
    Some points to learn from here in your storytime. Be happy always!
    Beauty in your ways❤❤❤❤
    Gracious

  • @aishwaryagunasekar1338
    @aishwaryagunasekar1338 Місяць тому

    You r mothering me welll with these story time my god 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏thankyou Vithya mom ❤️. Literally had tears like how mom says stories to their kids and express their emotions. I experienced it all in this videos 🌷🌷🌷🌷sending u so much love and good vibes now and ever ❤

  • @christophermenu9026
    @christophermenu9026 17 днів тому

    Hi… Vithya, this video is so relatable… love you so much… u r so strong and r an inspiration for all the women…

  • @srihihi
    @srihihi Місяць тому

    Loved this episode! ♥️

  • @BhuvanaSriramAaryanKutty
    @BhuvanaSriramAaryanKutty 5 днів тому

    One of the bestest video. You are such an amazingly truthful soul and may God bless you in abundance ❤ I honestly feel women with 2 kids vs 1 kid debates..which I have seen.. society is so judgemental and unfair..leta spread positive vibes and people like you are so beautiful inside out❤

  • @MrandMrsMallusb2couples
    @MrandMrsMallusb2couples Місяць тому +1

    Thank u so much dear for this vdeo💕💕💕💕💕

  • @RamiyaaS
    @RamiyaaS 13 днів тому

    You are truly amazing sis ❤️
    *hugs*

  • @minduvasatharaj6471
    @minduvasatharaj6471 Місяць тому +1

    Hi akka you are a great human I watch all your videos. You are an amazing woman. Akka You inspire many youngsters God bless you akka.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @keshonajugine3237
    @keshonajugine3237 Місяць тому +2

    You are an amazing woman❤️

  • @snehakonidenamohapatra9285
    @snehakonidenamohapatra9285 28 днів тому

    I love this Honest conversation❤❤❤

  • @sophiyaperumal6155
    @sophiyaperumal6155 Місяць тому +2

    Wow Vithya i have no words express .... But every one should learn to respect women or even men in this situation rather passing comments and offending them how much can someone go through with just a simple question when are you having a child??!! ...😔😔 need to think... Ur a wonderful wonderful person who has shared so many things on social media ... Thank you so much 👍👍 regarding your decision it's wonderful 👍😊 thank you for sharing your experience loads of love from Bengaluru Karnataka 💐 India 🎉🎉❤❤🫰🫰💐💐

  • @anithaniranjan3656
    @anithaniranjan3656 Місяць тому +2

    Hi, vithya ….❤️ bless you
    You are amazing

  • @aryaram0588
    @aryaram0588 Місяць тому

    Appreciate you being so vulnerable on a public media platform and being very honest about your life choices. Very inspiring. ❤️

  • @rayvelusamy785
    @rayvelusamy785 18 днів тому

    Thanks for sharing ❤ Find your Joy 🎉 Live your life!

  • @AnuAnu-qo7hf
    @AnuAnu-qo7hf Місяць тому +4

    Watched the entire video! It was definitely emotional rollercoaster for me. All i would like to say now is god bless you 💖 lots of power, joy and strength to you ❤

  • @kanchanatschudin1378
    @kanchanatschudin1378 23 дні тому

    This is such a great video! We are 6 years married and we don’t have children. I know and understand every single situation you talk about. Now I also stopped explaining to people why we don’t have children. I just say: we don’t have any children and walk away. My life is more peaceful that way!
    God bless you ❤️

  • @ashvinis5126
    @ashvinis5126 Місяць тому +1

    Vithya its your decision.. more power to you

  • @tiffanytalksxox
    @tiffanytalksxox Місяць тому +2

    So true!!! I’ve been married for nearly 3 years, & anytime we see Tamils all they ask is where’s the good news? Is everything alright? As if there’s something wrong with us.. but little do they know that we are just living life & going with the flow! It was tough!!! But now I know how to handle them- be sarcastic 😂ask if they’re gonna come look after the kids! They’ll shut up lol😅, anyway loved this! so brave of you for sharing this, much love to you as always & I pray that God blesses you always 🫶🏻

  • @thresa9093
    @thresa9093 29 днів тому

    You are so strong girl.. i will pray 4 u...huggsss

  • @hrishitapatel405
    @hrishitapatel405 Місяць тому +8

    Honestly children r not the be all and end all in life. Ther is so much more to life than just kids. 🤷‍♀️😬

  • @shobanamurugan1124
    @shobanamurugan1124 Місяць тому

    ❤ Hugs and huge respect for sharing such great thoughts ♥️

  • @sowmyamuthukumar8103
    @sowmyamuthukumar8103 Місяць тому

    Pretty much I am also on same boat.. Sometimes it is difficult feeling for me. Virtual hugs to you.

  • @Jasathangam
    @Jasathangam Місяць тому +1

    Loved listening in ♥️

  • @Deepika10617
    @Deepika10617 29 днів тому +2

    You are so sensible and thoughtful in the way you are sharing your thoughts and experience ❤️
    And ur experience how u didn’t want to look at children, i had the same experience because I struggled to fall pregnant and it was making me deeply sad looking at others with small children. I can fully understand and relate to all what u say. But u made the important statement, the important thing in life is being happy

    • @vithyamakeup
      @vithyamakeup  29 днів тому +1

      Awww! Hope you are ok now ❤

    • @Deepika10617
      @Deepika10617 28 днів тому

      @@vithyamakeup yes Vithya ❤️

  • @sheilasunith1852
    @sheilasunith1852 Місяць тому

    Thanks for sharing ❤

  • @mvidya3
    @mvidya3 Місяць тому +3

    To each their own❤

  • @1ife1ove
    @1ife1ove Місяць тому +6

    Hi, Vithya. It was mixed emotions for me also. I did have similar emotions about going to family gatherings. I am so proud of the growth and the women you turned out. You inspire me to be better and also just to grow as a person, mother, partner, friend 🧡 lots of love ❤️

  • @bhuvaneshwarimalayarasan4119
    @bhuvaneshwarimalayarasan4119 Місяць тому +2

    One who showers love n care is a mother

  • @pavithravenkatesh9762
    @pavithravenkatesh9762 Місяць тому +5

    Hi vithya!

  • @savagequeen4894
    @savagequeen4894 26 днів тому

    May God Bless you 🙏 with much 🙏 Power and Strength 💪to overcome this it's so Sorry to hear but still giving birth doesn't stop u from being a mother Motherhood is loving ❤️ Unconditionally You can adopt a child and pour all ur love ❤️ to her or him There are so many Women i know who are mothers but doesn't love ❤️ their kids Unconditionally being cruel and selfish 😢😢sadly i have an evil mom So Don't worry God bless you 🙌🙏

  • @geethakalaimani2401
    @geethakalaimani2401 29 днів тому

    ❤❤❤love u vithya ❤️

  • @yourneetpartner5086
    @yourneetpartner5086 Місяць тому

    Lots of love to u vidya , god will bless u with a beautiful child . Ur an inspiration to many . ❤❤❤

  • @aisvaryanarasimhan4530
    @aisvaryanarasimhan4530 Місяць тому

    More strength to you!!
    Really happy you got to open up. I’m certainly about to say something definitely didn’t intend to affect you in anyway. Have thought about freezing your eggs ? Because people tend to change their opinions as they explore more or as they age. Maybe somewhere in your 50s if you feel like having kid, you should still have options before you think it’s too late to have one. Freezing is really expensive but maybe a ray of hope somewhere in future if you need one.
    I’m really sorry if this affected you in anyway.

    • @vithyamakeup
      @vithyamakeup  Місяць тому +2

      Thank you but it’s not something I would like to do.

  • @terrorrose91
    @terrorrose91 Місяць тому +1

    That ‘Thu Thu Thu’ Moment 😘🧿✨ Stay Blessed ❤

  • @mohithaparameswaran6288
    @mohithaparameswaran6288 24 дні тому

    Lots of love ❤

  • @anithabangaru439
    @anithabangaru439 Місяць тому

    Uou are amazing ❤

  • @lakshmisharma991
    @lakshmisharma991 Місяць тому

    ❤️❤️❤️I love you just the way you are you are perfect

  • @niveditakathirvelu7852
    @niveditakathirvelu7852 23 дні тому +1

    Going through the same phase. People literally hurt me by asking for a baby. Nobody is actually worried about my health ... This is really so difficult

  • @nishab6150
    @nishab6150 Місяць тому

    Love and Respect u darling ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Sneha-my7dc
    @Sneha-my7dc 27 днів тому

    Great video

  • @user-ln9zn9fh4u
    @user-ln9zn9fh4u Місяць тому +4

    It’s really ok ❤,
    I have been a mother for 3 years , my child passed away
    I never had or wanted any child , I am happy with the children in my family , ,
    Adoption is great to those who want it ,
    Being childless is also fine ❤❤ just be happy

  • @user-wi1cn6tw2i
    @user-wi1cn6tw2i Місяць тому

    I know someone who doesn’t want kids and now that they are older easier for them than what it was when she was growing up.

  • @VillaDeRose
    @VillaDeRose Місяць тому

    Nice make up❤

  • @migigeorge7322
    @migigeorge7322 7 днів тому

    All love to you❤

  • @raindrops8665
    @raindrops8665 Місяць тому

    Thank you for opening up.. I'm also struggling to conceive for one and half years. Society is so rude

  • @benitaesther5121
    @benitaesther5121 Місяць тому +1

  • @timplenanjundan5307
    @timplenanjundan5307 Місяць тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @dhackshinicguptha8380
    @dhackshinicguptha8380 Місяць тому

    Thank you for sharing. Respect to you. I get you 💯 you're not alone. Respect to your friend with twins. Women walking along side women is beautiful. Love to you 💓

  • @sanikaanjanesh9449
    @sanikaanjanesh9449 27 днів тому

    ❤ to you ..

  • @priyadivakaran3284
    @priyadivakaran3284 28 днів тому

    ❤❤❤ love to you....

  • @rhytmicmelody
    @rhytmicmelody 5 днів тому

    Great ❤decision

  • @narmazworld
    @narmazworld Місяць тому

    Nothing to say about this but I love you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😘😘

  • @shanthukalashanthukala7333
    @shanthukalashanthukala7333 Місяць тому

    😍❤️

  • @sukikulam
    @sukikulam Місяць тому

    Love you darling 🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️

  • @Pavitirathayalan
    @Pavitirathayalan Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @larissa-prk
    @larissa-prk Місяць тому

  • @rashmiravindran53
    @rashmiravindran53 4 дні тому

    💕

  • @living546
    @living546 Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @bala4115
    @bala4115 15 днів тому

    🤗

  • @Rya852
    @Rya852 Місяць тому +1

    34 no kids 🙋🏾‍♀️born with endometriosis

  • @sandhyavino5031
    @sandhyavino5031 26 днів тому

    omg 😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @jenniferkanye7231
    @jenniferkanye7231 25 днів тому

    Woman should has choice to have child or not!!
    Woman don't accept other woman who are not married, into their friendship circles I personally had this experience, and some think that they get treated differently?
    I am not married and now I will not be having kids as I'm older, now but even before that I choose not to have kids, but to have happy life with my partner, so I for some reason I haven't been able to get suitable partner either,
    So everyone in family friends circle would ask oh why she is not married yet,??
    As u discussed I actually stopped going family function

    • @vithyamakeup
      @vithyamakeup  22 дні тому

      I am sorry for the questions! But am proud of you for living your life your way ❤