You can just tell when someone has class even if they're wearing cheap stuff or expensive stuff. Their manners and general vibe far outshines whatever clothes they're wearing.
True, but you would never see someone with class wearing a plain white T shirt and basketball shorts.. It's not about whether it's cheap or expensive it's about classic style.
40 years ago I visited a shop in Bangkok. I noticed the fabric, which I liked. It was a combination of kid maher with silk. They had 7 different colours and textures. I bought all seven, took it back home and ordered a tuxedo and seven suits from Valentini. 40 years later and I still look the most elegant and well dressed man in any company. Because they were made to measure and the high quality fabric, the suits are very comfortable. My daily watch is a limited edition Omega, which I bought in Beverly Hills, LA. My dressing watch is Van Cliff and Arpels. I have never seen anybody with those watches. I have cufflinks with diamonds, expensive, but not flashy. Most of my clothes are timeless and good quality. I try to buy clothes and accessories which I will not see on other people. I also remember a conversation of two aristocrats from "Count of Monte Cristo", when one complimented Cavalcanti on a well tailored suit and another agreed, but said that it looks like he was dressed for the first time in his life. It isn't just what you wear, but also how you wear your clothes.
"It isn't just what you wear, but also how you wear your clothes". I'd say how you wear your clothes is the most important. Because when you wear a suit you should feel natural, like this is your normal clothing, not like you're wearing a disguise - which most guys feel, unfortunately. Most man nowadays don't feel comfortable even wearing a white shirt (a classy shirt, not t-shirt!) so even if it fits well they feel like they dressed up for some comic-con event or something. It's all in their heads. If you wear a perfect fit suit (doesn't have to be tailored-made, but sure for skinny or overly fat people, a tailored-made would make wonders; while "standard" people should find a perfect fit in one store or another, where most of the suit stores offer some free corrections on-site) and you feel comfortable in it, like in a t-shirt, you will look amazing everywhere, and everyone will treat you with respect. Otherwise, if you just dress up like a disguise, it will look worse than a t-shirt. This is also true for men who are required to wear a suit, eg. for work. They often don't care and make all possible mistakes (from wrong fit, to selecting wrong ties and accessories for the suit, like a wide tie for narrow suit etc. or wearing the tie too low or too high, too loose; and/or snapping the suit jacket on all buttons or wrong buttons etc.) making even a good suit looking like a disaster. It's not so hard to get all this right, but it requires a 15 min research and a motivation to do so, which most people don't bother anymore.
@@MarinCipollina Many people are fake fraudsters and try to be something they are not. What you wear is meaningless unless you're shallow and are impressed by clothes and jewellery. I regularly frequent a five star hotel and the people dining there do not wear five star clothes. They are regular people with money.
Well if you are not presentable it might matter that you would have treated people well, you might not get the opportunity. Remember before you even interact with people, they have to meet you.
I agree. But I think metal is a bit more versatile. Leather looks great with a suit or smart casual outfits but it falls short when one puts on a polo shirt and sneakers, or the like. With the right watch, a metal strap can work with almost any outfit. Also there's less bother with color matching because it's usually easier to match metals than it is to match leathers in our outfits.
@@LaVerdadeslaverdad I'm British...and not wearing socks (or even no-show socks) with any style of formal dress shoe, even a loafer, is a mortal sin punishable by being strapped to a chair and exposed to non stop episodes of Miami Vice until you understand why.
@ Was only referring to loafers. With all other shoes of course socks should be worn. Can’t remember the last time I saw anyone under 50 wearing socks with loafers.
@@LaVerdadeslaverdad Perhaps in warmer climates of Europe but not in the UK. People here walk around in shorts and Tees in snow showers but not wearing socks is rare now no matter your age. Was trendy in the eighties but not so now. On vacation to warmer southern Europe it would be acceptable to not wear socks if utilising a cream, pink, sky blue plimsoll or similar pastel colour, but a black or brown leather part formal shoe should always have showing socks...let's people know you haven't got smelly feet and shoes for a start. A bright coloured loafer would be acceptable for ankle socks on warm days....all just my opinion but based upon many decades of practical usage and observation of others styles.
John Hamm on Mad Men exemplified this. While few can wear clothes as good as he does, the tailoring on every piece of clothing was his character wore was always impeccable.
That is that point exactly. You absolutely do not need to impress anybody. The moment you do need to impress someone with a label is the moment you loose all confidence.
I am a blue color worker that from time to time likes to dress up. It's always about confert and fit. It's not difficult, it's all about confidence and masculinity. Know who you are!
I agree 100 % additionally one of my personal rules is : either go in monochrom colour/look or only choose maximum two colours including shoes ! This way you can dress to impress even if you do not have too much money to spend. In my opinion a good classic solid shoe is a key item to every outfit. If you wear a expensive suit paired with a sheap shoe ,it ruins the hole outfit but if you wear a classic well made shoe to a middlepriced suit it will upgrade the hole outfit/look
Bespoke tailoring, and no labels, that is quality, if you watch James Bond Film's as well men can learn something from that as well he never ever wore a ton of jewelry, he wore a wrist watch and that's about it, other than his cuff links, maybe a tie tac, or a tie clip, and maybe a quality pair of shades from Persol.
Yes. A gentleman will have watches that complement the clothing appropriate for the occasion. Also. Avoid Rolex. Go with A. Lange & Sohn, Glashutte Original, or Chopard, which all indicate you know what you're doing.
Good for you ! It means you know yourself, and don't feel you have to prove something to others. I am the same way. Yes, I have several nice suits, and a nice black tuxedo. I haven't worn any of them in years. I haven't had occasion to. If you see my own comment, I, like you, dress in what I find practical and comfortable.
I find this video amusing. It IS somewhat correct, but it also reflects ideas that appeal more to new money than old, to those still insecure about themselves. I wear timeless styles. My suits are NOT "in style" nor are they "out of style." I buy clothing that is not flashy but which will still not draw attention 10 or even 20 years down the pike. Unless I have to go formal, I have a uniform that I find comfortable. All year 'round I wear blue jeans. They are practical and rugged. I don't waste money on the most expensive brands, but buy jeans that wear well and give me at least several years of service. In the summer I wear blue chambray shirts, a habit I acquired in the Navy. They are comfortable, practical, and wear well. If I am going to a party I like to wear Hawaiian shirts,, the more colorful the better. In winter I switch to quilted flannel shirts, "CPOs" . Again, practical and comfortable. I know who I am. Take me, or leave me, I don't give a damn. If style makes a big difference to your judgement, it just shows me you are a shallow creature who is not worth my time.
For a number of years I worked for self made millionaire, he said always check someones shoes. Many buy quality/expensive clothing but forget to do the same for shoes - Cheap shoes steer clear
Every man needs the following: a light gray suit, a black suit, and a brown suit. Yes, the brown is not as essential, but there will be funerals, weddings, certain functions you need to dress up for. Next, a good blue sport blazer, white shirt, and khaki (tan) pants. Ties is an area people lose control with. STRANGE patterns and colors and designs are not your friend. The tie with any suit should complement it. With the blue blazer, a solid blue, red, or yellow looks amazing (shades of the primary color can be a danger area). Footwear. Leather, leather, or leather with suits and the blazer. No glued construction. Leather soles. Trends today for daily go to work shoes might have a Dainite rubber sole (black or brown) are popular today, but for formal events, no. Also, a hand-crafted shoe properly made can be resoled many times and the shoes can last a very long time. Clean your shoes and keep them highly polished. You will look sharp and your shoes will last longer. I live on a ranch. I work the ranch. Workwear and boots are critical. I do like look to look nice at an event.
While I struggle with actually finding clothes that suit my taste, I'm glad that this video showed me that said tastes are in order. Thanks for the reminder.
I have been focused on revamping my wardrobe with natural fabrics. The synthetic fabrics are uncomfortable and fall apart easily. Flip flops outside of the beach or pool looks tacky and I have no interest in showing my bare feet anyway. Distressed denim makes one look like a bum who cannot afford a decent pair of pants so that is something I would never be caught wearing. However I do like to incorporate nice looking colors to my outfits. Nothing too flashy or overbearing, but wearing only dark, neutral colors is boring.
Agreed natural fabrics generally but high tech moisture wicking stretchable synthetic fabrics can and should be worn for activities such as running, hiking, tennis, golf, and so on. Especially in warm weather.
I have a pair of black Phillip Plein pants with some rips but not through to the skin and a flashy t shirt with a skull embroidered beads. Apparently not what they are calling for here but I get a lot of women looking and smiling when I make eye contact. #1 is stay slim and not have a gut protruding. I pretty much agree with everything though. Although I like my Paul & Shark white shirt with all the logos.
Also depends on where you live. You can have a lot of these designer type clothing and never wear them because of the world has gone to a casual look unless it’s a formal event.
Attention aux revers de vestes de costume trop petit et aux pochettes (mouchoirs) de poches assorties à la cravate, le style "sartorial" à ses codes et briser ces codes peut être désavantageux pour celui qui s'y hasarde sans avoir une base solide .Watch out for suit lapels that are too small and pockets (handkerchiefs) that match the tie. The 'sartorial' style has its codes and breaking these codes can be disadvantageous for those who venture into it without having a solid base.
…a well trusted tailor is a must. A large bit of the US does not put any emphasis on “fit” therefore tailors are not quite accessible unless in well heeled enclaves like here in 94027.
Meh, the best tailor I ever had was an Italian guy in a middle class city in Virginia. Only took cash and legit spoke basically no English outside of the immediate words needed to do his job. But man, you could buy a suit off the rack at men’s wearhouse and walk in with a $50 bill a picture of the fit you wanted and in 3 days you’d walk out with the best fitting suit of your life.
@ …I have not been but I have seen their adverts. I guess if you need a basic suit and it works for you, voila! But for other items bought off the rack such as jeans or a button down shirt or a jacket or trousers are always fine tuned by my tailor. It is a tad pricey but if it fits well you carry it like a breeze and it is another motivation to stay in shape. It is just something I’m accustomed to.
Good content. A number of your illustrative clips and images were the antithesis of the accompanying narrative. Whether you are upper class or not, no self-respecting man who wants to present the best version of himself in public would want to be seen wearing dirty, worn-out, or badly creased clothes. Lastly, for added interest to an outfit, there is nothing wrong with introducing a little colour in a shirt, neck tie or pocket square when wearing a a suit or jacket. Neutrals are fine, but not to excess unless you are deliberately aiming for a monochrome look.
Ive worked for a lot of so-called upper class men. I can assure you that not all of them dress well. But there is a lot of good advice here. Less is more. And good, well- cared for shoes are noticed by females.
I work in a prestigious law firm in NJ. The senior partner is a top NJ trial attorney and is now semi-retired. He drops in to the office once a month in his old T-shirt and cut off jeans, driving his Lamborghini. He can wear anything he wants, but his money and status allows him to wear whatever he wants without being judged. Elite men don't need to impress anybody. Money, influence and fame gives you that freedom.
@giloro85 the advantage of having money is to not follow any rules set by others. No one laughs because rich people follow their own rules. If I wanted reservations to an exclusive restaurant, I may have to make reservations a month ahead. People with influence and power can walk in any time and they'll find them a table. That is the reality of life.
I agree with Navy, White, Gray, Black…, however, I Like Tropical/Island/Hawaiian print Short Sleeve Shirts too❗️🤔😎 Also, Cotton, Wool, Silk… Great, yet I like Rayon too!🤔😳😎
When I turned 50 I gave all my graphic tee's to Goodwill, except for 1 Metallica shirt. Its solid black with just the word Metallica (in their font) across the front. Ill always be a die hard metalhead, but nowadays I dress more "old man casual". Im actually on a polo kick these days and have discovered Psycho Bunny and other obscure brands. I also scour ebay for cool vintage polos and other casual wear. I recently scored a vintage (late-1980s) Wilson's leather jacket in mint condition for $32! The problem with ebay though is all the fakes. You gotta do your research before buying. I became a Lacoste nerd while learning how to spot fakes. Do you know the story of the "alligator polo"? Its actually funny.
I had a pair of bespoke boots made over 20 years ago and they're almost as good today as they were new. I've probably gone through 10 pairs of shoes in the same time period so getting boots or a suit made for you is far better value. Buy once, cry once!!
I agree and will add to that. My go to are RM Williams (made in Australia and Red Wing made in USA). Made in Italy also acceptable. Made in PRC never ever acceptable
You must update your references. Since the Loro Piana family sold to LVMH, the quality, luxury and exclusivity have declined significantly. Because of the LVMH marketing machine, there's nothing quiet or exclusive about the brand. It's increasingly accessible to everyone.
Lol. The vid uses stock footage which uses models pretending, and cheap clothing incl the box sets like the one you spotted. It's pretty funny, actually.
I think there is a huge discrepancy in the description of " Upper Class " and " Stylish ". The two are not the same thing at all. There are many, many people who are " Upper Class ", and are in no way " Stylish. Style is not something you can buy, you either have it or you don't. The most stylish people are generally NOT well off nor Upper class, but can put looks together that wipe the floor with most people of money.
You missed on #8. Visit any country club in the U.S., or golf/ racquet club in Europe, and one will find a sizable proportion of men wearing bright colors and loud patterns, either on the golf course or at cocktail hour.
There were a lot of ill-fitting suits in this "classy" line-up. And... it's not classy to wear dress shoes without socks... Cheap shirts all throughout; the ill-fitting ties with those askew and too-small collars...
a T, shorts and sandals, no accessories, except for sunglasses and a phone, and I don’t care what other ppl might think. Bc the best way to kiss your money goodbye is to look expensive. And yes, I am a new money, so I can afford to wear light colors after the Labor Day 😂
I rarely wear branded clothes.....its a matter of good taste...stylish people will wear what fits them ...nothing to do with money like socialites or sports people. Less is better.
Words are good but what happened with the images? As the voice talked about the importance of a well fitted suit, you provided images of ill fitting suits! Then contrasting metal accessories, poorly tied neckties, ridiculously over sized watch just as you were talking about too-big watches…..I could go on. Really bad.
Dude, you have to understand not every man needs to look like that. Like me, I'm a fitness professional who has a passion for music. So I don't mind rocking them Metallica tshirts and adidas and dri fit tshirts. It's who I am and I am comfortable with my style. I'm not wearing 'em loafers to work. When i go to the mall i wear shorts, crocs, jordans, sports brand shirt. That doesn't make me look "immature" or less sophisticated, it's who i am.
I have worn a suit exactly once in my entire life and felt like an utter fraud. My entire summer wardrobe consists of T shirts I bought at concert. Am I classy? Hell no. Am I me? Oh yes.
Your video, sadly, shows some truly awful clothes, whatever they might be made of - I'm not entirely sure what you mean by "upper class", and probably that varies from country to country. But in the UK, most of the conventionally-described upper class men I've met tend to wear their grandfather's tweeds and ancient corduroy.... largely because a) they were well-made, b) finding well-made clothes anywhere now is not impossible, but is difficult, c) the old upper class doesn't have the disposable cash it used to have. So bespoke isn't an option, unless your tailor permits payment by instalment - and most won't. Why do I criticize your description of "old money", and your display of clothes you allege to be "sharp"? Two reasons: the innocent one is that hip-fitting trousers don't, er, fit; they lurk about the hips, constrict the body, and as you get older, seek to display musculature you no longer possess. The less innocent reason is that I just like to criticize...... It's a hobby with me, and the longer I live, the more I find to criticize.
I agree with everything, but the last comment about colours. I mean that men should wear "loud" colours to make a statement, just for the fun of it. A nice tie, pochette, or even a pair of trousers in a stricking colour may very well complement the style. Example - I have a pair of tailor made curderoy bright red trousers. Usualy, I combine these with a nice dark blue jacket, a pair of brogue derby black shoes and a few other details here and there, trying to balance the brightness of the pants. I love this look. I do follow the rule of simplicity, but I feel that this is my chance to make the following statement: classic does not have to be dull, boring, overly conservative, nore restrictive.
As an Englishman, I object to your use of the term “upper class”. You don’t need to be upper class to have taste and understand classic, timeless styles.
I'll agree with the jeans full of holes that look like they "went through a war zone" not looking great, but then again, maybe the dude wearing them has real adventure to talk about - who knows? As for no synthetics, I would disagree, because, for instance, shirts made of a mix of cotton and synthetic do not need ironing after drying from the wash. A well-made fleecy worn over a shirt or sweater can look sharp too, and will stand the test of multiple washing machine cycles. As for flip-flops, I prefer not to have sweaty smelly feet on a hot day - unless I really have to wear closed shoes for some reason. Last but not least, a vile punk in a smart outfit will still be a vile punk: classy behavior has nothing to do with what someone is wearing, IMO. Some of your suggestions could in fact be a shade outdated, according to what I see in city streets these days.
Rock em! Not in some fancy place where you'd be the only one showing toes or at work - unless it's a beach bar or a scuba shop etc. But on your own time, sure.
Flashy watches !? Our overpaid footballers favourite accessory ! Usually they have a vast collection. Proof , if any was needed , about the relationship between money and " class ".!
Thanks for the tips but nope, I am not here to impress those who judge people by what they wear. I usually wear the first thing I grab out of my wardrobe. In Summer you'll usually find me in worn out jeans, cut off just above the knees, minimalist sandals (no socks) and just any tee shirt. The only reason I don't wear bright colors is because they wash out long before I've finished wearing them (I tend to wear my cloths until they fall to pieces). And I have my hair cut maybe once every 6 months, if I find time. I go in this attire to parties, discos, bars, visits to the theatre and even to the office. I don't know if my boss likes it, I've never asked his opinion, but I offer qualities and skills that he values. Learn a skill that people highly value, try to be nice to everyone and stop worrying about your clothes. Good people see beyond what you wear and those that don't are not worth the bother.
You can just tell when someone has class even if they're wearing cheap stuff or expensive stuff. Their manners and general vibe far outshines whatever clothes they're wearing.
indeed
Bingo!
¡BRAVISIMO!
True, but you would never see someone with class wearing a plain white T shirt and basketball shorts..
It's not about whether it's cheap or expensive it's about classic style.
10:15 The suit with an open shirt, sans tie, is a HELL NO! 😮
This is just good taste, and has nothing to do with being rich or poor.
'They avoid piling on oversized watches'. Shows oversized watch at 3:00
lmao I don't think the proofwatcher noticed that
Unless it’s a tool of the trade (Speedmaster Professional), cuz as a supersonic jet instructor I can pull it off
My thoughts exactly. 😉
I wouldn't wear an oversized watch to a Rock fight or anywhere else
Rich Kings wear a giant watch around their necks like Flava Flav.
Great video, I totally agree! The key is: good quality, good fit and low profile. You'll never go wrong with a bit of classic
40 years ago I visited a shop in Bangkok. I noticed the fabric, which I liked. It was a combination of kid maher with silk. They had 7 different colours and textures. I bought all seven, took it back home and ordered a tuxedo and seven suits from Valentini. 40 years later and I still look the most elegant and well dressed man in any company. Because they were made to measure and the high quality fabric, the suits are very comfortable. My daily watch is a limited edition Omega, which I bought in Beverly Hills, LA. My dressing watch is Van Cliff and Arpels. I have never seen anybody with those watches. I have cufflinks with diamonds, expensive, but not flashy. Most of my clothes are timeless and good quality. I try to buy clothes and accessories which I will not see on other people. I also remember a conversation of two aristocrats from "Count of Monte Cristo", when one complimented Cavalcanti on a well tailored suit and another agreed, but said that it looks like he was dressed for the first time in his life. It isn't just what you wear, but also how you wear your clothes.
"It isn't just what you wear, but also how you wear your clothes". I'd say how you wear your clothes is the most important. Because when you wear a suit you should feel natural, like this is your normal clothing, not like you're wearing a disguise - which most guys feel, unfortunately. Most man nowadays don't feel comfortable even wearing a white shirt (a classy shirt, not t-shirt!) so even if it fits well they feel like they dressed up for some comic-con event or something. It's all in their heads. If you wear a perfect fit suit (doesn't have to be tailored-made, but sure for skinny or overly fat people, a tailored-made would make wonders; while "standard" people should find a perfect fit in one store or another, where most of the suit stores offer some free corrections on-site) and you feel comfortable in it, like in a t-shirt, you will look amazing everywhere, and everyone will treat you with respect. Otherwise, if you just dress up like a disguise, it will look worse than a t-shirt. This is also true for men who are required to wear a suit, eg. for work. They often don't care and make all possible mistakes (from wrong fit, to selecting wrong ties and accessories for the suit, like a wide tie for narrow suit etc. or wearing the tie too low or too high, too loose; and/or snapping the suit jacket on all buttons or wrong buttons etc.) making even a good suit looking like a disaster. It's not so hard to get all this right, but it requires a 15 min research and a motivation to do so, which most people don't bother anymore.
Dude, if you managed to stay the same shape and weight that you were 40 years ago! You are a winner.
Class is how you treat people not what you wear.
I AGREE BRAVO!
What you wear can signal your class.
@@MarinCipollina Many people are fake fraudsters and try to be something they are not. What you wear is meaningless unless you're shallow and are impressed by clothes and jewellery. I regularly frequent a five star hotel and the people dining there do not wear five star clothes. They are regular people with money.
Well if you are not presentable it might matter that you would have treated people well, you might not get the opportunity. Remember before you even interact with people, they have to meet you.
@@roundnround365 You can learn a lot about a person’s character in terms of how they react to what OTHERS wear.
Upper class men never wear
0:32 Overly branded clothing
1:44 Ill-fitting suits
2:39 Excessive accessories
3:39 Trendy sneakers
4:49 Synthetic fabrics
6:17 Casual flip-flops outside of beaches
7:36 Overly distressed denim
8:52 Flashy colors or patterns
Hahahahahahaa. What every single day ,really?
I think leather straps on watches are classier than metal. Just my opinion.
That depends on the watch.
You are absolutely right. ‘Dress watches' such as the Blancpain Villeret or the Patek Philippe Calatrava are only supplied with a leather strap.
I agree. But I think metal is a bit more versatile. Leather looks great with a suit or smart casual outfits but it falls short when one puts on a polo shirt and sneakers, or the like. With the right watch, a metal strap can work with almost any outfit.
Also there's less bother with color matching because it's usually easier to match metals than it is to match leathers in our outfits.
My 40 year old Speedmaster Professional would beg to differ.
I agree! 👍👍👍
if you going to promote "good fitting" the photos need to be "good fitting' not exactly the opposite
First rule: Stay in shape.
Not one of the suites in this vid fits the models...and good God, wearing leather dress shoes without socks...jeez...
Or no show socks
But you are American. In Europe loafers should be worn with no show socks.
@@LaVerdadeslaverdad I'm British...and not wearing socks (or even no-show socks) with any style of formal dress shoe, even a loafer, is a mortal sin punishable by being strapped to a chair and exposed to non stop episodes of Miami Vice until you understand why.
@ Was only referring to loafers. With all other shoes of course socks should be worn. Can’t remember the last time I saw anyone under 50 wearing socks with loafers.
@@LaVerdadeslaverdad Perhaps in warmer climates of Europe but not in the UK. People here walk around in shorts and Tees in snow showers but not wearing socks is rare now no matter your age. Was trendy in the eighties but not so now. On vacation to warmer southern Europe it would be acceptable to not wear socks if utilising a cream, pink, sky blue plimsoll or similar pastel colour, but a black or brown leather part formal shoe should always have showing socks...let's people know you haven't got smelly feet and shoes for a start. A bright coloured loafer would be acceptable for ankle socks on warm days....all just my opinion but based upon many decades of practical usage and observation of others styles.
I've learned to stick with quality pieces and generally neutrals and subtle patterns for the most part.
John Hamm on Mad Men exemplified this. While few can wear clothes as good as he does, the tailoring on every piece of clothing was his character wore was always impeccable.
An average person wouldn’t be able to tell that Loro Piana is high quality
That is that point exactly. You absolutely do not need to impress anybody. The moment you do need to impress someone with a label is the moment you loose all confidence.
It's enough If you know, you do IT for yourself!
I am a blue color worker that from time to time likes to dress up. It's always about confert and fit. It's not difficult, it's all about confidence and masculinity. Know who you are!
I agree 100 % additionally one of my personal rules is : either go in monochrom colour/look or only choose maximum two colours including shoes ! This way you can dress to impress even if you do not have too much money to spend. In my opinion a good classic solid shoe is a key item to every outfit. If you wear a expensive suit paired with a sheap shoe ,it ruins the hole outfit but if you wear a classic well made shoe to a middlepriced suit it will upgrade the hole outfit/look
Bespoke tailoring, and no labels, that is quality, if you watch James Bond Film's as well men can learn something from that as well he never ever wore a ton of jewelry, he wore a wrist watch and that's about it, other than his cuff links, maybe a tie tac, or a tie clip, and maybe a quality pair of shades from Persol.
Don’t wear a chunky diving watch with a formal suit
Yes. A gentleman will have watches that complement the clothing appropriate for the occasion. Also. Avoid Rolex. Go with A. Lange & Sohn, Glashutte Original, or Chopard, which all indicate you know what you're doing.
@@kevinh5349 There's nothing wrong with a Rolex Submariner or Daytona.. It shouldn't be your only watch though.
Right on par with this. 👍
I like good quality cotton/synthetic blends.
i feel bad for those people standing in a long row to get in a Moncler or Gucci store to buy an 1000$+ Tshirt only supposed to advertise the brand
Blatant branding is for poor people
All very good rules.
Not sure how I got to this post, but I wear the same thing everyday, work clothes!! Something I can wipe my hands on.Nuff said!!
I wear that French brand on weekends- JC Penay.😉
Good for you ! It means you know yourself, and don't feel you have to prove something to others. I am the same way. Yes, I have several nice suits, and a nice black tuxedo. I haven't worn any of them in years. I haven't had occasion to. If you see my own comment, I, like you, dress in what I find practical and comfortable.
I find this video amusing. It IS somewhat correct, but it also reflects ideas that appeal more to new money than old, to those still insecure about themselves. I wear timeless styles. My suits are NOT "in style" nor are they "out of style." I buy clothing that is not flashy but which will still not draw attention 10 or even 20 years down the pike. Unless I have to go formal, I have a uniform that I find comfortable. All year 'round I wear blue jeans. They are practical and rugged. I don't waste money on the most expensive brands, but buy jeans that wear well and give me at least several years of service. In the summer I wear blue chambray shirts, a habit I acquired in the Navy. They are comfortable, practical, and wear well. If I am going to a party I like to wear Hawaiian shirts,, the more colorful the better. In winter I switch to quilted flannel shirts, "CPOs" . Again, practical and comfortable. I know who I am. Take me, or leave me, I don't give a damn. If style makes a big difference to your judgement, it just shows me you are a shallow creature who is not worth my time.
For a number of years I worked for self made millionaire, he said always check someones shoes. Many buy quality/expensive clothing but forget to do the same for shoes - Cheap shoes steer clear
If we had half as many channels telling women what to do instead of all these channels telling men what to do society wouldn't be so fked...
Nice video
I would have said tasteful men and left class out of it.
Every man needs the following: a light gray suit, a black suit, and a brown suit. Yes, the brown is not as essential, but there will be funerals, weddings, certain functions you need to dress up for. Next, a good blue sport blazer, white shirt, and khaki (tan) pants. Ties is an area people lose control with. STRANGE patterns and colors and designs are not your friend. The tie with any suit should complement it. With the blue blazer, a solid blue, red, or yellow looks amazing (shades of the primary color can be a danger area).
Footwear. Leather, leather, or leather with suits and the blazer. No glued construction. Leather soles. Trends today for daily go to work shoes might have a Dainite rubber sole (black or brown) are popular today, but for formal events, no. Also, a hand-crafted shoe properly made can be resoled many times and the shoes can last a very long time. Clean your shoes and keep them highly polished. You will look sharp and your shoes will last longer.
I live on a ranch. I work the ranch. Workwear and boots are critical. I do like look to look nice at an event.
Some synthetic is better today because bacteria don't grow on it, wrinkles free and colors don't fades
👍👍 Yup, and we gave a saying in extreme cold weather areas. Cotton kills!
While I struggle with actually finding clothes that suit my taste, I'm glad that this video showed me that said tastes are in order. Thanks for the reminder.
I have been focused on revamping my wardrobe with natural fabrics. The synthetic fabrics are uncomfortable and fall apart easily. Flip flops outside of the beach or pool looks tacky and I have no interest in showing my bare feet anyway. Distressed denim makes one look like a bum who cannot afford a decent pair of pants so that is something I would never be caught wearing. However I do like to incorporate nice looking colors to my outfits. Nothing too flashy or overbearing, but wearing only dark, neutral colors is boring.
Great points 👏
I live in Milan and here , 'trying a bit too hard' is commom amongst the men.
Agreed natural fabrics generally but high tech moisture wicking stretchable synthetic fabrics can and should be worn for activities such as running, hiking, tennis, golf, and so on. Especially in warm weather.
I have a pair of black Phillip Plein pants with some rips but not through to the skin and a flashy t shirt with a skull embroidered beads. Apparently not what they are calling for here but I get a lot of women looking and smiling when I make eye contact. #1 is stay slim and not have a gut protruding. I pretty much agree with everything though. Although I like my Paul & Shark white shirt with all the logos.
Excellent video
Also depends on where you live. You can have a lot of these designer type clothing and never wear them because of the world has gone to a casual look unless it’s a formal event.
Attention aux revers de vestes de costume trop petit et aux pochettes (mouchoirs) de poches assorties à la cravate, le style "sartorial" à ses codes et briser ces codes peut être désavantageux pour celui qui s'y hasarde sans avoir une base solide .Watch out for suit lapels that are too small and pockets (handkerchiefs) that match the tie. The 'sartorial' style has its codes and breaking these codes can be disadvantageous for those who venture into it without having a solid base.
…a well trusted tailor is a must. A large bit of the US does not put any emphasis on “fit” therefore tailors are not quite accessible unless in well heeled enclaves like here in 94027.
Meh, the best tailor I ever had was an Italian guy in a middle class city in Virginia. Only took cash and legit spoke basically no English outside of the immediate words needed to do his job. But man, you could buy a suit off the rack at men’s wearhouse and walk in with a $50 bill a picture of the fit you wanted and in 3 days you’d walk out with the best fitting suit of your life.
@ …I have not been but I have seen their adverts. I guess if you need a basic suit and it works for you, voila! But for other items bought off the rack such as jeans or a button down shirt or a jacket or trousers are always fine tuned by my tailor. It is a tad pricey but if it fits well you carry it like a breeze and it is another motivation to stay in shape. It is just something I’m accustomed to.
"Upper Class" 😁😁
Good points, really appreciate it except sandals part. Successfully and prosperous many men wear sandals including Steve Jobs.
Good content. A number of your illustrative clips and images were the antithesis of the accompanying narrative. Whether you are upper class or not, no self-respecting man who wants to present the best version of himself in public would want to be seen wearing dirty, worn-out, or badly creased clothes. Lastly, for added interest to an outfit, there is nothing wrong with introducing a little colour in a shirt, neck tie or pocket square when wearing a a suit or jacket. Neutrals are fine, but not to excess unless you are deliberately aiming for a monochrome look.
LOL. It is confidence not clothes. Confidence (not arrogance) because you've got game.
Ive worked for a lot of so-called upper class men. I can assure you that not all of them dress well.
But there is a lot of good advice here. Less is more. And good, well- cared for shoes are noticed by females.
I work in a prestigious law firm in NJ. The senior partner is a top NJ trial attorney and is now semi-retired. He drops in to the office once a month in his old T-shirt and cut off jeans, driving his Lamborghini. He can wear anything he wants, but his money and status allows him to wear whatever he wants without being judged. Elite men don't need to impress anybody. Money, influence and fame gives you that freedom.
Your senior partner is a clown then. No matter how much money he has. Could be Elon Musk for all I care, a clown is a clown stays a clown.
That's what you think. Old money and prestigious military families see that and laugh in private 😂
@@jerseyneil1 🤡 is a 🤡 and stays a 🤡, no matter how much money he has.
@giloro85 the advantage of having money is to not follow any rules set by others. No one laughs because rich people follow their own rules. If I wanted reservations to an exclusive restaurant, I may have to make reservations a month ahead. People with influence and power can walk in any time and they'll find them a table. That is the reality of life.
@@jerseyneil1 They are still clowns in the case you elaborated. No matter how much money they have. :) A clown stays a clown.
I agree with Navy, White, Gray, Black…, however, I Like Tropical/Island/Hawaiian print Short Sleeve Shirts too❗️🤔😎 Also, Cotton, Wool, Silk… Great, yet I like Rayon too!🤔😳😎
Subtle😂😂😂 Brooks brothers certainly doesn't scream subtle!!!
When I turned 50 I gave all my graphic tee's to Goodwill, except for 1 Metallica shirt. Its solid black with just the word Metallica (in their font) across the front. Ill always be a die hard metalhead, but nowadays I dress more "old man casual". Im actually on a polo kick these days and have discovered Psycho Bunny and other obscure brands. I also scour ebay for cool vintage polos and other casual wear. I recently scored a vintage (late-1980s) Wilson's leather jacket in mint condition for $32! The problem with ebay though is all the fakes. You gotta do your research before buying. I became a Lacoste nerd while learning how to spot fakes. Do you know the story of the "alligator polo"? Its actually funny.
Amen to that!
I had a pair of bespoke boots made over 20 years ago and they're almost as good today as they were new. I've probably gone through 10 pairs of shoes in the same time period so getting boots or a suit made for you is far better value. Buy once, cry once!!
I agree and will add to that. My go to are RM Williams (made in Australia and Red Wing made in USA). Made in Italy also acceptable. Made in PRC never ever acceptable
But, I am not an "upper class" man.
You must update your references. Since the Loro Piana family sold to LVMH, the quality, luxury and exclusivity have declined significantly. Because of the LVMH marketing machine, there's nothing quiet or exclusive about the brand. It's increasingly accessible to everyone.
Why would anyone wear anything advertising the manufacturer or brand? Tasteless.
I tell the testing station not to put their sticker on my car. Likewise the garage that sold it to me.
I think big fat and overly long ties and clownish wide lapels are a dead giveaway of lack of class.
Something else that's lacking in quality and "refinement" is the tie/pocket square box set, like at the 5:19 mark.
Lol. The vid uses stock footage which uses models pretending, and cheap clothing incl the box sets like the one you spotted. It's pretty funny, actually.
I think there is a huge discrepancy in the description of " Upper Class " and " Stylish ".
The two are not the same thing at all. There are many, many people who are " Upper Class ", and are in no way " Stylish. Style is not something you can buy, you either have it or you don't. The most stylish people are generally NOT well off nor Upper class, but can put looks together that wipe the floor with most people of money.
I always did that since college, till mid 40s now.
I have $10.99 jeans from rural king. I think they have a tag on the waist. They're nice.
I asked and ragged jeans are only for women. But will wear old ragged working or very hot weather at the park or on the way to the beach.
You’re completely wrong about one thing: there’s a huge difference between plastic foam flip flops and Birkenstocks or hand made leather sandals.
You missed on #8. Visit any country club in the U.S., or golf/ racquet club in Europe, and one will find a sizable proportion of men wearing bright colors and loud patterns, either on the golf course or at cocktail hour.
Flip-Flops? Ok, you are from USA...
There were a lot of ill-fitting suits in this "classy" line-up. And... it's not classy to wear dress shoes without socks...
Cheap shirts all throughout; the ill-fitting ties with those askew and too-small collars...
Never judge a book by its cover
Number 9 Upper class men do not watch youtube videos like this.
no, they don't - from childhood they were brought up to dress well. But what if you weren't but want to look decent ?
Bullshit. They do watch these.
I wear unbloused Hawaiian shirts all summer over chinos or linen slacks.
Carrharrt clothing is real quality.
I usta be all flipflops,but now only at the beach or backyard.
a T, shorts and sandals, no accessories, except for sunglasses and a phone, and I don’t care what other ppl might think. Bc the best way to kiss your money goodbye is to look expensive.
And yes, I am a new money, so I can afford to wear light colors after the Labor Day 😂
The guys in this video look terrible, cheap and definitely not old money.
Sneaker wise I've transitioned to white sneakers and my running shoes.
I rarely wear branded clothes.....its a matter of good taste...stylish people will wear what fits them ...nothing to do with money like socialites or sports people. Less is better.
Words are good but what happened with the images? As the voice talked about the importance of a well fitted suit, you provided images of ill fitting suits! Then contrasting metal accessories, poorly tied neckties, ridiculously over sized watch just as you were talking about too-big watches…..I could go on. Really bad.
Stock footage
And shoes (loafers) without socks…🤮🤮🤮
As an upper class man, I beg to differ dear boy.
Time is changing …. Rich guys dress simple !!!!
The funny thing is that upper class men know how to break the rules with class and confidence.
You must look expensive because women only want you if you earn a six figure sum ! Oh and over 6’ tall also 😊
Well fitted leather chaps are a must to exude class😂😂😂
Just watch actor Bill Nighy going about his daily business. That's all anyone needs to know about class and style.
Ich habe Furz und Durchfall! 😂
Dude, you have to understand not every man needs to look like that. Like me, I'm a fitness professional who has a passion for music. So I don't mind rocking them Metallica tshirts and adidas and dri fit tshirts. It's who I am and I am comfortable with my style. I'm not wearing 'em loafers to work. When i go to the mall i wear shorts, crocs, jordans, sports brand shirt. That doesn't make me look "immature" or less sophisticated, it's who i am.
It's fine if you're happy with it, but it's absolutely less sophisticated. Significantly so. Can't have it both ways.
I work in a gym. What sophistication? I wear loafers and a tailored suit?
@ Read the title of the video, pal. "Upper Class Men." Yeah, wrong hood, homie. Get that IQ checked. 🙄
I have worn a suit exactly once in my entire life and felt like an utter fraud. My entire summer wardrobe consists of T shirts I bought at concert. Am I classy? Hell no. Am I me? Oh yes.
Your video, sadly, shows some truly awful clothes, whatever they might be made of - I'm not entirely sure what you mean by "upper class", and probably that varies from country to country. But in the UK, most of the conventionally-described upper class men I've met tend to wear their grandfather's tweeds and ancient corduroy.... largely because a) they were well-made, b) finding well-made clothes anywhere now is not impossible, but is difficult, c) the old upper class doesn't have the disposable cash it used to have. So bespoke isn't an option, unless your tailor permits payment by instalment - and most won't.
Why do I criticize your description of "old money", and your display of clothes you allege to be "sharp"? Two reasons: the innocent one is that hip-fitting trousers don't, er, fit; they lurk about the hips, constrict the body, and as you get older, seek to display musculature you no longer possess. The less innocent reason is that I just like to criticize...... It's a hobby with me, and the longer I live, the more I find to criticize.
I agree with everything, but the last comment about colours. I mean that men should wear "loud" colours to make a statement, just for the fun of it. A nice tie, pochette, or even a pair of trousers in a stricking colour may very well complement the style. Example - I have a pair of tailor made curderoy bright red trousers. Usualy, I combine these with a nice dark blue jacket, a pair of brogue derby black shoes and a few other details here and there, trying to balance the brightness of the pants. I love this look. I do follow the rule of simplicity, but I feel that this is my chance to make the following statement: classic does not have to be dull, boring, overly conservative, nore restrictive.
As an Englishman, I object to your use of the term “upper class”. You don’t need to be upper class to have taste and understand classic, timeless styles.
Sire sire, the peasants are revolting ! Oh I know !
If someone is wearing a super brand name - the thing is going to fit.
I own 10 sports jackets and wear them instead of a windbreaker in cool weather.
I'll agree with the jeans full of holes that look like they "went through a war zone" not looking great, but then again, maybe the dude wearing them has real adventure to talk about - who knows? As for no synthetics, I would disagree, because, for instance, shirts made of a mix of cotton and synthetic do not need ironing after drying from the wash. A well-made fleecy worn over a shirt or sweater can look sharp too, and will stand the test of multiple washing machine cycles. As for flip-flops, I prefer not to have sweaty smelly feet on a hot day - unless I really have to wear closed shoes for some reason. Last but not least, a vile punk in a smart outfit will still be a vile punk: classy behavior has nothing to do with what someone is wearing, IMO. Some of your suggestions could in fact be a shade outdated, according to what I see in city streets these days.
NO LOUD COLORS----GUESS YOU NEVER SAW A PAIR OF LIME GREEN OR PINK TROUSERS ON CAPE COD OR PALM BEACH
What about sandals in a beach community like myrtle beach or ocean city?
No. Never
I believe sandals are acceptable as long as the toes are kept clean.😂
Rock em! Not in some fancy place where you'd be the only one showing toes or at work - unless it's a beach bar or a scuba shop etc. But on your own time, sure.
@AlexKarasev yeah thats what im talking about. Sandals that are $100 plus and at a bar. Im not talking about going to a nice restaurant in them.
Dressed up in a suit but drinking out of a Starbucks - style cup on the street doesn't appear overly stylish to me 😂
Why are running shoes are now called kicks? Nonsense.
Not giving up my boot cut jeans and leather boots.....most comfortable ever!
Flashy watches !? Our overpaid footballers favourite accessory !
Usually they have a vast collection.
Proof , if any was needed , about the relationship between money and " class ".!
Remember Schwarzenegger in tight suits....you got it
There’s some great general advice here - but an upper class man dresses however the hell he wants.
What if i'm cheap ?
Looks AI-generated.
Thanks for the tips but nope, I am not here to impress those who judge people by what they wear. I usually wear the first thing I grab out of my wardrobe. In Summer you'll usually find me in worn out jeans, cut off just above the knees, minimalist sandals (no socks) and just any tee shirt. The only reason I don't wear bright colors is because they wash out long before I've finished wearing them (I tend to wear my cloths until they fall to pieces). And I have my hair cut maybe once every 6 months, if I find time.
I go in this attire to parties, discos, bars, visits to the theatre and even to the office. I don't know if my boss likes it, I've never asked his opinion, but I offer qualities and skills that he values. Learn a skill that people highly value, try to be nice to everyone and stop worrying about your clothes. Good people see beyond what you wear and those that don't are not worth the bother.
6:47 You gotta be kidding with those sneakers on the right, those are for working on a cement truck. Frankenstein sneakers