Shit I have kids from not such great guys and one came to the hospital with a bullet hole in his pants cause his dad tried to stop him from driving drunk 😂
Exactly!! Hearing their own words insecurities and saying it’s God. Imagine being cheated on and asking how you have to change to keep him from cheating??? Lmaooo! What?😂😂😂😂😂
He cheated. God said stay. He cheated repeatedly. God said stay. He choked her. God said stay. He belittles her. God said stay. He laughs at her pain. God said stay. He isn’t remorseful. God said stay. Her husband is her God.
Yeah but don't be a baby mama either better to be married if you want the burden of a kids so bad . At least you probably can get some benefits baby mamas get only child support if that@@p.gizzle90
This was thoughts as well, Sidechick wouldn’t be his door mat…he wanted them both…while the wife was ok with playing the Sidechick to her husband, clearly the Sidechick wasn’t having it!
So true, my ex did the same thing, and I let him come back and love bomb me, and I used him up like she did and kicked him to the curb. The sidechick showed me who he was and how to treat him.
As a woman who experienced this, I will say that a woman NEVER forgets the way a man treated her when she needed him. It will never be the same, and you’ll never trust him.
Yep. When you open your eyes and understand the significance of your husband leaving you at your most vulnerable. YOU NEVER TRUST THEM AGAIN! Eventually you will just leave. You are just delaying the inevitable by going back.
Right, that's what I thought. I mean, this woman seems a bit forgiving she must have felt like she was not being a good wife to forgive that behaviour it would ha e taken and would take me a lot longer to forgive she is a better person than I am ❤
You are absolutely right, there are many women who truly have a pure heart, are young, inexperienced in love/ relationships, etc. Most of us were once like this, the sad part is some dont have to Live through the BS to GET it!! Then there are many who Trust, believe when others tell them anything ....... they havent been mistreated, lied too, used until this person came into their lives. Hope this made sense, some of us are a little slower to lifes lessons.....
Judeo-Christian sims program had me like that. Now I see a whole new world, where I forgot who I was for a moment. Woman are taking back their power and understanding the debts of the endocrination but this one has her karma to pay still I guess. I'd like to hear about this In 10 years .did she give that agape love after she finds out again or left. No problem with still loving him but to sever the possibilities of new friendship even romantic relationships under the marriage slave contract does a disservice to humanity.
GUUUURL... The fact that she apologized and did not once mention him saying sorry, trying to atone for his transgressions, not a mention of counseling (prayer IS THE PROBLEM IN THIS CASE) either.... This whole situation got me screaming internally and I'm not even in it!😮
Right. I'm amazed at how absolutely warped her mind is. She really seems like a nice person and wants to be a good wife. She was probably already being a good wife and he convinced her she wasn't. It's going to burst her bubble when he leaves her again.
I watched their joint discussion and he admitted that he beat her during their marriage he emotionally and physically abused her. This is the man that she was begging and praying to take her back.
@@peachyrose5245 no I didn't see that. But that's just crazy I feel so bad for her. I've been through a situation where I was abused by not just by my ex but by his family as well I pray that she gets the help that she needs emotionally and mentally
My dad has been moving mad, his family always takes my mum's side, begging us to bear with him, covering his ass at times. They know he's wrong in many cases, I guess because they are all above 60 and Christians in Nigeria, divorce is weird to them. But at least he hasn't just left us like this man🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️. He's been around and actually made my childhood memorable in many good ways. Who leaves a pregnant woman and expects to get back with her? And the mother is in support? Damn
Once I find out my husband was having sex with another women, I never allowed him to touch me again, he was now spoil as a man to me, and I don't want that, for myself.
Yes!!! I have never been married but the thought of someone I’m married to and in love with being intimate with someone else is flat out disgusting to me. Just the thought of it makes me want to throw up. That is something I will never tolerate!
Yup an ex cheated on me and had porn issues and didn't understand why I stopped being enthusiastic about intimacy. It became a chore, I hated myself and resented him because even though he seemed like he looooved our sxx life, he was sxxting and trying to sleep with other women the whole time. All while smiling in my face and enjoying the sxx life we shared. Once I found out, I felt sick any time he tried to touch me.
Correct. One thing I heard from anointedfire's channel is that "the narcissist is your punishment for idolatry". Hard pill to swallow, but a powerful truth
@@tinaelert2865 EXACTLY! I know because I myself was once in idolatry and that’s exactly what happened to me, I ended up with a narcissist. She’s being deceived and I’m pretty sure he’s still not treating her according to what the word of God says. I just pray she come out of that deception and be delivered.
@@sincerelysamanthas me too. My ex fiance was my God, looking back. Quick story: we met in 2015, I got saved in 2019. Never had a thing to do with Christianity in my life.... but it got proven to me. That's a story within a story. But God made it clear to me that fornication was wrong. How could I cut my man off from sex though? Will he think I'm crazy or mean? I did it with him a few more times... but i didnt feel right about it. The man had no reason for not marrying me yet. He proposed after 5 years with the shut up ring. I finally said we really shouldn't do it again until after the wedding. I said I can forget about my fancy wedding ideas and we could just get married tomorrow in our living room. I really meant that! So he became distant, picked fights, cheated on me, made me homeless, stole my cat, flaunted his new girl to me at my place of employment, took money from my parents before he did all of this and completely planned the most evil discarding of me possible. But WHY? Because I finally chose God over him, and that's when the demon knew it had lost my worship. Nothing will enrage a demon quite like that. It all made sense to me because I was saved. So as long as she keeps worshipping this man and using God as the reason, she's in sin and the sin keeps you bound. Me choosing not to sin anymore is what set me free. I put God over the man. That guy never wanted to marry me, he was just sent by the devil to eat up my time and use me. God could have let me waste more time but he delivered me from this mans brainwashing. God reveals things to those who obey him, Jesus did say I am the truth, the truth sets you free. Sorry that wasn't very quick but I got going.. this is heavy stuff
This one was just too much. My teacher Sister Josephine used to say that is just putting too much on God. He gave us free will to be able to make choices. This girl heard all the wrong things that her desperation was saying to her, not God.
Thank you! I was thinking to myself, “Ma’am, I know the Holy Spirit was not telling you all this.” If anything there were red flags before there before she made the decision to marry this man. I’m sure the Holy Spirit was speaking to her then and telling her not to marry that man.
I am so glad I saw this comment, and video! Until I did, I was sitting here, looking at, evaluating, judging myself and my own mess and questioning if maybe my faith was lacking or I wasn't doing "it" correctly and it was a flaw within me. There's only so much we can place on the Lord and give to Him, and so much we can just blindly live through, but we are also in our human existence and not impenetrable to straight up *CRAP* behavior and circumstances! I'm sure there is forgiveness in me and that there is a better woman of God to be brought out through my madness here, but right now, I need a few (or many, many more "fews"- if we are BSFFR😂) days to get myself and my heart right and I j cannot just jump into turning the other cheek to cheating w/ several other women -AND MEN- and walking away from me while I was getting diagnosed with lupus and suffering a major injury risk the steroids they pumped into me, that cost me 1 of my lower legs... and him walking away from me with ✌️ I swear, thinking how easy it was going to be to meet up w/ his others while I was trapped in the hospital for 3 weeks- and my trying to tell myself that THAT is not ME and MY fault!!! Girl, when I tell you how much I beat myself up or questioned what I was doing wrong or needed to provide, or whether my inability to create a family was on me and if I drive him away I didn't place enough faith in things, or ask God correctly, just everything that was on me and ME alone, words cannot even do it justice. Sorry for getting so into that comment and leaving a full diatribe... but I just want to send a truly, TRUE, "THANK YOU and BLESS YOU". You don't even know what this video did for me, plus, then reading the comments. You genuinely "rescued" me from myself and my mind and I cannot give you enough love for that!!! It's a good reminder that just bc people make it sound so good and heavenly and faithful, to stick in that kind of situation and to make it sound so obedient and trusting, how wrong and straight up SILLY we can be and how sometimes it simply is just some complete BULLSHIZZZ we need to recognize and escape!!! 😂 And THAT is okay too!!! Our Lord certainly doesn't want us here being straight up delusional fools!!! Jesus was a Lion and sometimes we need to be too!!! I really needed this video!!! THANK YOU FROM THE DEPTHS OF MY HEART AND SOUL!!!! Truly, I only wish you knew how much I needed this and what it did for me!!! THANK YOU and BLESS YOU!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
She sounds stupid! It's nooo way I'm a say I went through something similar 20 years marriage and he cheated repeatedly I took him back forgave him. And guess what he went right back. He's doing whatever he wants and knows she's stupid for him. I promise he's not going to stop rather with same woman or another woman. Girl bye ❤ I'll pray for her she's going to need it
Yeah, because religion and a true relationship with God aren't the same. Religion is the reason Jesus was k*ll'd. People, please know the difference and stop blaming the Lord for your foolishness (own selfish desires/lack of wisdom) and stop blaming Him when you're not successful. All good things come from God, period. ❤
I agree 100% with these reactions. She has low self esteem and would’ve taken anything he dished her. I hope the same God opens her eyes to build her confidence and know her worth because he is going to do it again.
My husband, My husband, My husband, My husband, My husband....He aint your husband because he loves you. He became your husband to keep you in the dark. I feel so bad for her and her kids.
I went through a relationship like this with a narcissist and because my mama was a narcissist, I thought that’s what love was like. God intervened time and again to show me He had better for me. I eventually moved on and now he has a new victim. God doesn’t want his children to suffer from abuse like that.
My heart breaks for this young lady. She clearly has an anxious attachment style and her husband knows that. How can your wife just had a baby and you left to go be with your mistress?!
This woman, like many women, is living under a religiously oppressive system. 🤦♀️ I grew up in a system that encouraged such thinking for women in marriage. I was sold out to the religion, but I rejected their view of relationships, and as such, I am single. The work of christian researcher Sheila Wray Gregoire really helped me. She did scientific studies on sex and relationships in such Christian communities. Her research showed how such views create the same effects in a woman as SA.
I would love her to understand the truck bag she's now placed herself in.. Infidelity is the biggest sign of disrespect to a partner.. is She has given him an OK to abuse her, further down the line,
If someone dishonors you in marriage and you give them a second chance it will become a vicious cycle because when you accept any form of abuse you teach people that you share their value of how you honor yourself as well.
But I’m prettt sure he was getting them cheeks while they’re “building a friendship “ I feel so sad for this girl. I hope she finds the strength. She’s so scared to be alone. I hope she truly heals on her own.
Look I don’t judge people who stay together after one incident of infidelity BUT leaving someone while pregnant, bringing home outside children or STDs or when someone is constantly cheating, is where I draw the line! If someone isn’t happy first thing should be communication and not stepping outside of the relationship.
This‼️An AFFAIR, is a choice that someone continues to make over and over again. That is no mistake. That is the ultimate form of disrespect and disregard
This is so scary. This is what happens when the church reveres marriage and punishes women for men's fault. Wow. This is spiritual psychosis. Anybody else feels how dark the energy is...
most men have feelings for their mistress believe it or not I think that's why men self project their always talking about if a woman cheats on the her Man she has feelings for the sidenigga n probably likes him more than you lol. Honestly it also depends on which mistress/ side girlfriend she is number 123 etc each one serves a purpose but there's always one he likes just as much as the main n loves but not in love with clearly that's why she's not the Main "wifey"(girlfriend or wife) Woman. I ALWAYS TELL LADIES IF YOU THINK A MAN DONT CARE ABOUT YOU/OR LIKE YOU HE DON'T. THE SIDE 2 3 4 5 ETC YOU DONT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT HE JUST USING THEM. HIS HOMEGIRLS ARENT WHO YOU SHOULD WORRY ABOUT EITHER SHE MOST LIKELY DONT WANT HIM LIKE THAT,HE DOESNT WANT HER, OR THEY DONT WANT EACH OTHER.BUT IF SHE ALWAYS BEING RUDE TO YOU THEY PROBABLY HUNCHED , SHE HAS A CRUSH ON HIM , or she just knows yall aren't compatible(you n her not your Man) n just plains don't fxckin like you has nothing to do with your man. THE WOMEN MOST LADIES SHOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT IS THE H*ES IN THEIR FRIEND GROUPS N THEIR OWN FREINDLY FEMALE FAMILY MEMEMBERS.
Mine said he wasn’t done so I let him go be with the her and restarted my life. I don’t have the right to stop anyone from finding their true happiness. Shooot
@@Jacee191Period. 😩🤦🏽♀️ I feel sorry for this delusional woman n I feel even worse for all the women/girls and men and boys she will have believing in her nonsense.
My heart breaks for her because she seems like someone who has a pure, kind heart. I pray that she wakes up before it’s too late. She never said when he apologized and was repentant but she forgave him and took him back several times. I feel sad for her children too
This is gonna be an unpopular opinion, but I believe that this is literally due to the doctrination of black women in the black church. We are constantly taught to fall on our sword like Jesus and we are never taught to empower or free ourselves, like God in the Old Testament. Now i have learned that many a women are lacking in appreciation but that does not make a man's choices our responsibility We are constantly told that if a man strays, it is our fault, our responsibility, our problem to clean up Our lack of femininity, our void as a woman, mother and wife, I have yet to go to a church where I see men held just as accountable, if not more when they are supposed to be the head. I. Also, feel like because of a woman's desperation to be loved needed and supported by a man oftentimes. It is so much easier to believe that God told you to do certain things when god want you to be happy, loved and protected. And oftentimes, when we do go through these phases with men and self sacrifice ourselves over and over again, the outcome of it is to learn not to do that. That is the true lesson
I'm white and grew up southern Baptist. It's the same way in white churches. Women are supposed to just take whatever their husband's throw at them with a smile and move on. I'm agnostic now and a large reason for that is because of the things I saw, heard, and experienced growing up in those churches.
Darlin this is not an unpopular opinion. I'm always trying to figure out how we relate those stories in the Bible to how we need to adjust to someone else's bad behavior. It's a horrible lesson for our young girls to think that you putting up with someone's crap is obedience to God.
This woman heard what she wanted to hear and listened to that. Whose to say he's not going to do this again? And SHE apologized to HIM? Oh hell no! I'm sorry but if my husband leaves me for another woman she can have him! He saw that he can walk all over her and even cheat and she'll take him back. There's so much I'd like to say but my fingers can't type that much right now 😂 But I truly hope their marriage is happy and faithful and will continue to be because she's not going anywhere.. The girl with the clear frame glasses and black shirt was funny asl 🤣 Ricky Raccoon! 😭
God also allows divorce for those who goes outside of the marriage. You can get beaten, berated, and go through hell and never get back, but as far as adultery goes, that's where the line is drawn. If they can't communicate with you before going outside the marriage, they don't deserve a new better you. Let them see the elevated version of yourself through the window. Trust and believe that majority of men wouldn't do the same.
I just wish that we could get an update when he decides to fall for his next co-worker. But I’m sure after all the “negative” reactions she got, she will choose to suffer in silence n never speak of it again🤦🏽♀️ May God help her get through it n finally hear him for what he’s been trying to truly show her all along.
This is so sad. He just realized having a new born and being in 2 homes was 2 much. And he couldn't afford the divorce. I dont believe God told her anything. He didnt want her at all but was grieving the other lady bc he wanted her...but it was too late bc he already started a family.
I'm sorry.... but what?!!!! SHE LET THIS MAN HAVE PHONE CALLS FROM ANOTHER WOMAN IN HER FACE & she thinks he would be willing to work on their marriage??????!! That man is STILL cheating. I'm praying that the Lord opens her eyes to the nonsense she thinks are messages from the Lord & opens her eyes about her husband. Lord have mercy.....
God blesses us with the gift of knowledge, wisdom, and discernment. He also gives us 2nd chances to get what he truly has for us if we believe we deserve it. When people and situations walk out of our lives, let them go every rejection is for a protection. The devil saw your desperation and preyed on your vulnerability. You have to love yourself more than this man but the good news is he is back to teach you that very lesson you need to learn. I wish her nothing but God's grace and mercies.
What a beautiful story. Your love and faith is so strong for God, your husband and children. I also love how you are reaching out and helping others to succeed in their own marriages!!
You cannot blame God for your toxic relationship. God said stay and work through your marriage UNLESS there is infidelity if there is infidelity then leave!
15:43 i had to stop watching. God really gave her all the signs and evidence. He even got this man to move out willingly and you did everything but be your own peace. You apologized to him and begged for him back. He couldn't even take you out and be atound you telling you he grieving the sidechick...... He had no problem flaunting her and being with her so why does your husband who lwft you need space from you to be friends again but he dipping in and out when he wants your energy all while you're raising his newborn child thathe didn't support you while you're carrying? You had every sign that he is checked out mentally from that relationship. Begging isn't fixing the problem it's prolonging it.
I felt a certain way while listening to her. I stayed on my marriage for years, waiting for changes.... because I loved him and I made a promise. My ex-husband did not cheated, but the toxic behavior & other things killed that promise & love. She is still so innocent & one day, she will open her eyes to find herself years of mental abuse, more of what he is doing today & regret all that wasted time on the wrong man.
This video is weird to me. I was expecting hear her husband gave her some compelling reasons why she should take him back. I expected him to be begging her after leaving her in such a vulnerable state but instead she is doing the begging. This is just weird. He will do it again keep cuddling him
The crazy part for me right now is that fact that I know they have at least 2sons who are going to grow up expecting their wives to be as “Godly” and “submissive “ as their mother. God save them
But wait a minute didn't he leave her when she was pregnant so why would you get pregnant by this man again when he left you when you needed him while you're pregnant
This woman was very young when her husband decided to explore other options while his wife was pregnant with his second child. She is still young now 6 years laters. She is not taking into account that he did learn during that episode. He learned that a single woman will not satisfy every want he wants. A side peice is happy for good times, not full time caretaking of a mamas boy. He learned that his wife will take him back no matter how racket he goes. He learned that in future, he will have to seperate all those aspects to keep it neat. She on the other hand thinks she got the holy grail of marriage fixing down...so thinks she has what it takes to advise other women who may actually be in even worse conditions than just being absolutly ignoring you that your husband did. Dangerous situations, in this STD, HIV, multiple baby by multiple women, beatings, soul destroying, financial ruining, and straight up family extinction situations. She is so delusional. If she is really hearing voices that she think is God, it is not God.
I'm so grateful to know a God who restores marriages, mends broken hearts, and binds up wombs. Everyone has a different journey. No one's opinion matters, only God's Word matters. God is sovereign. He is still speaking. God gives grace. May He bless all of you naysayers to experience His perfect grace.
I don't want to anything mean, but the side chick has more seld respect than the wife. And the religious part is just disingenious. Like how was it good? What did you learn? Be a doormat with no dignity? Just to keep a cheater who hates you and who will keep on cheating and never have an ounce of respect for you? What did you win exactly? It s so sad. Her MIL is horrible to her too, but she won't stand up for herself. I hope she teaches her kid better values. I feel bad for her but at the same time it bothers me. Anyone else has the same issue?
I watched a clip which had comments that claimed that the sidechick was the favorite dummy. This right here is the proof that the wife is the favourite dummy. Why? The wife gonna always take him back. The sidechick may not have her name signed on the legal financial documents but she gets to walk away from the emotional trauma. I repeat this, the wife isn't even the favorite she just the dummy
LOOK IF ANYBODY EVA LEAVE ME TO B WIT SUM BODY ELSE…I WUD NEVA TAKE DEM BAC..DA ONLY REASON DEY CUMN BAC CUZ WHO DEY CHOSE IS NOT WORKN OUT DEY REALIZED DEY CHOSE WRONG..ITS NOT MY LYFE TO MAKE HIS MISTAKE RITE…WEN SUM1 LEV U FO SUM ONE ELSE DONT TELL UR SELF ✨GOD✨TOLD U TO GO BAC DATS UR SELF LYING TO U SO U CAN FEEL BETTA..✨GOD✨GAV U A BRAIN USE IT..CUZ IF DEY CAN LEV U DAT EASLIY N U TAKE DEM BAC DEY GONA DO IT AGAIN
This was harrowing to hear...her word salads were nauseating - a complete lack of self awareness! Damaged people damage people...just sorry for her children being exposed to such high level of toxicity 😢 God is not an author of confusion - the devil is a liar! And she's running workshops... If delusion was a person! I choose peace - everytime❤
I only clicked on this to read some of the comments to see how many women were going to cosign this. I'm glad to see some of you see a situation for what it is.
This scares me as someone trying to find religion. If the devil is always tempting you, how am I supposed to know I'm making the right moves when I'm asking for something that's not good for me? She keeps saying God told her she would get him back but this man left her during pregnancy and she's thinking God told her she wasn't doing what she was supposed to do as a partner while he was cheating the whole time? Ma'am i don't think God was behind that you just wanted him back, and your husband made it easy for you to do so after the affair didn't work out.
who is that woman who spoke at 32:25? Gurl, I was laughing so hard I was crying!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You got a way of getting a point across! And I loved it!! Thank you for sharing!! ❤❤❤❤
My husband and I accepted God's help in our similar marital problems. It wasn't easy, and we both had and still have a lot of hard work to do, but now we're better than ever. ❤
Hmm what it sounds like is after things didnt work with the coworker that he actually wanted to be with, he then settled and went back to her. Its not where he actually wanted to be. I do wish her the best and hope everything works out for her.
Any male who puts a pregnant woman through hell, especially while she's carrying his seed... possesses a special kind of evil.
I 💯 agree!! Even if he doesnt truly love her ...... hed have been there for HIS child/ baby!!
Shit I have kids from not such great guys and one came to the hospital with a bullet hole in his pants cause his dad tried to stop him from driving drunk 😂
YEP
He made her pregnant about himself like a true narcissist. She’ll be back at her mamas house sooner than later…
She gives me the d'naia jaxn vibes before she saw the light.
I am sick and tired on this. “God saved my marriage “. NO ! Y’all
Just being manipulated back into toxicity. Bye.
Exactly!! Hearing their own words insecurities and saying it’s God. Imagine being cheated on and asking how you have to change to keep him from cheating??? Lmaooo! What?😂😂😂😂😂
Girl that ain’t god!
Dat part
Periodt!!!💯
EXACTLY !!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 IT'S REALLY HOLY SATAN.
God had nothing to do with you being foolish. He's showing you his red flags and you just ignoring them
Exactly! God do like confusion!
Amen 🙏❤
@@JodiTheIslandGirlGod doesn’t like confusion.
God is not the author of confusion the devil is.
He cheated. God said stay.
He cheated repeatedly. God said stay.
He choked her. God said stay.
He belittles her. God said stay.
He laughs at her pain. God said stay.
He isn’t remorseful. God said stay.
Her husband is her God.
The devil said stay.
Thiisss 😂😂
Oowwwweee! 👏👏💯👍
That part.
It’s crazy cause GOD gave the ok for divorce for women just like her. She ignoring that part tho.
Married women often ask single women when they’re going to get married, meanwhile telling stories about their nightmare marriages. 🤦🏾♀️
Right!… _every chance they get._ ☹️
Marriage isn’t easy but it’s nothing like this!!! This is just outright disrespect and emotional manipulation!
Yeah but don't be a baby mama either better to be married if you want the burden of a kids so bad . At least you probably can get some benefits baby mamas get only child support if that@@p.gizzle90
😂 this ! And she can keep him too absolutely tf not .
Exactly
Poor thing. She doesn't know that the sidechick kicked her husband to the curb or he couldn't get her to do what the wife did...
This was thoughts as well, Sidechick wouldn’t be his door mat…he wanted them both…while the wife was ok with playing the Sidechick to her husband, clearly the Sidechick wasn’t having it!
So true, my ex did the same thing, and I let him come back and love bomb me, and I used him up like she did and kicked him to the curb. The sidechick showed me who he was and how to treat him.
Facts
Woman stay placeholders for many years. They feel like there's better pit there.
If you take him back take his money then bounce.
Girl that was not God it was the devil.
Exactly 💯
Trust me even the devil is like “this bitch is too dumb even for me” 😂😂😂😂
The devil don't want no victims set free😭🤦🏾♀️
Thank you
RIGHT!!!!!
As a woman who experienced this, I will say that a woman NEVER forgets the way a man treated her when she needed him. It will never be the same, and you’ll never trust him.
Agree. It’s trust. In life you need a partner/ equal or better and when they don’t meet those standards you start seeing them, below .
Something in my spirit is telling me that she's stupid enough to forget everything he's done and pretend that she's living happily ever after.
Yep. When you open your eyes and understand the significance of your husband leaving you at your most vulnerable. YOU NEVER TRUST THEM AGAIN! Eventually you will just leave. You are just delaying the inevitable by going back.
@@SongSingsSoprano Exactly!
Right, that's what I thought. I mean, this woman seems a bit forgiving she must have felt like she was not being a good wife to forgive that behaviour it would ha e taken and would take me a lot longer to forgive she is a better person than I am ❤
This is what it looks like when gaslighting is successful, this is the result. When you are apologizing to your abuser, it's Stockholm Syndrome.
You are absolutely right, there are many women who truly have a pure heart, are young, inexperienced in love/ relationships, etc. Most of us were once like this, the sad part is some dont have to Live through the BS to GET it!! Then there are many who Trust, believe when others tell them anything ....... they havent been mistreated, lied too, used until this person came into their lives. Hope this made sense, some of us are a little slower to lifes lessons.....
Judeo-Christian sims program had me like that. Now I see a whole new world, where I forgot who I was for a moment. Woman are taking back their power and understanding the debts of the endocrination but this one has her karma to pay still I guess. I'd like to hear about this In 10 years .did she give that agape love after she finds out again or left. No problem with still loving him but to sever the possibilities of new friendship even romantic relationships under the marriage slave contract does a disservice to humanity.
GUUUURL...
The fact that she apologized and did not once mention him saying sorry, trying to atone for his transgressions, not a mention of counseling (prayer IS THE PROBLEM IN THIS CASE) either....
This whole situation got me screaming internally and I'm not even in it!😮
What's even scarier is that she really believes her story is inspirational.
Only to other desperate fools.
😂😂😂😂
I said the EXACT samething!
Right. I'm amazed at how absolutely warped her mind is. She really seems like a nice person and wants to be a good wife. She was probably already being a good wife and he convinced her she wasn't. It's going to burst her bubble when he leaves her again.
I'm so lost 😅😅
I watched their joint discussion and he admitted that he beat her during their marriage he emotionally and physically abused her. This is the man that she was begging and praying to take her back.
Where can I find the video you watched
🙄@@SheSpeaksVolumes
@@SheSpeaksVolumes I saw it on Yanie Real Talk, and he said he choked her
@@peachyrose5245 no I didn't see that. But that's just crazy I feel so bad for her. I've been through a situation where I was abused by not just by my ex but by his family as well I pray that she gets the help that she needs emotionally and mentally
I figured she was abused. God kept letting her out of the situation, and she kept inviting the devil back in.
very delusional, this is not God's work. She needs therapy
She is out of her rabid mind.
😂😂😂
Funny how the lord showed her everything except her husband not wanting her. 🙄 But her husband this...her husband that. 😂
The only reason she got him rn is because the other lady moved tf on…🤷🏾♀️
Precisely 👏🏾‼️
With her coming forth I pray the sidepiece don't reveal more to this or another sidepiece rear her HEAD cause she's definitely the tail
His Mother isn’t a good woman. How can you sit and tell that girl that he’s just having fun with his other woman…I would’ve cussed her out!
Exactly!!! Definitely an enabler
She’s the reason he’s like that…too much enabling
lol 😂 I’m on the floor ..
Me too😂
😮
And FYI God don’t bless no mess 💯 she lying talking about God said ‼️
This‼️
❤ this here!
She is lying on God
That mother in law does not like her. Ain’t no way she supposed to tell her “they just having fun”. Tf
My dad has been moving mad, his family always takes my mum's side, begging us to bear with him, covering his ass at times. They know he's wrong in many cases, I guess because they are all above 60 and Christians in Nigeria, divorce is weird to them. But at least he hasn't just left us like this man🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️. He's been around and actually made my childhood memorable in many good ways. Who leaves a pregnant woman and expects to get back with her? And the mother is in support? Damn
Mama's boy......
Once I find out my husband was having sex with another women, I never allowed him to touch me again, he was now spoil as a man to me, and I don't want that, for myself.
This‼️
Yes!!! I have never been married but the thought of someone I’m married to and in love with being intimate with someone else is flat out disgusting to me. Just the thought of it makes me want to throw up. That is something I will never tolerate!
Yup an ex cheated on me and had porn issues and didn't understand why I stopped being enthusiastic about intimacy. It became a chore, I hated myself and resented him because even though he seemed like he looooved our sxx life, he was sxxting and trying to sleep with other women the whole time. All while smiling in my face and enjoying the sxx life we shared. Once I found out, I felt sick any time he tried to touch me.
These damn males need to be held accountable for their childish behavior. They gotten a pass for too damn long.
Absolutely 💯 Women need to stop enabling these behaviors….they are Boys in grown man’s body ‼️
From the women who choose to deal with it. Until we all put our foot down then this will continue because what one wont do the other will
Well women need to hold them accountable.....
This woman is struggling with IDOLATRY and God gave her over to her IDOL. God is not in this at all.
Correct. One thing I heard from anointedfire's channel is that "the narcissist is your punishment for idolatry". Hard pill to swallow, but a powerful truth
@@tinaelert2865 EXACTLY! I know because I myself was once in idolatry and that’s exactly what happened to me, I ended up with a narcissist. She’s being deceived and I’m pretty sure he’s still not treating her according to what the word of God says. I just pray she come out of that deception and be delivered.
@@sincerelysamanthas me too. My ex fiance was my God, looking back. Quick story: we met in 2015, I got saved in 2019. Never had a thing to do with Christianity in my life.... but it got proven to me. That's a story within a story. But God made it clear to me that fornication was wrong. How could I cut my man off from sex though? Will he think I'm crazy or mean? I did it with him a few more times... but i didnt feel right about it. The man had no reason for not marrying me yet. He proposed after 5 years with the shut up ring. I finally said we really shouldn't do it again until after the wedding. I said I can forget about my fancy wedding ideas and we could just get married tomorrow in our living room. I really meant that! So he became distant, picked fights, cheated on me, made me homeless, stole my cat, flaunted his new girl to me at my place of employment, took money from my parents before he did all of this and completely planned the most evil discarding of me possible. But WHY? Because I finally chose God over him, and that's when the demon knew it had lost my worship. Nothing will enrage a demon quite like that. It all made sense to me because I was saved. So as long as she keeps worshipping this man and using God as the reason, she's in sin and the sin keeps you bound. Me choosing not to sin anymore is what set me free. I put God over the man. That guy never wanted to marry me, he was just sent by the devil to eat up my time and use me. God could have let me waste more time but he delivered me from this mans brainwashing. God reveals things to those who obey him, Jesus did say I am the truth, the truth sets you free. Sorry that wasn't very quick but I got going.. this is heavy stuff
Thank u. She is delusional
This one was just too much. My teacher Sister Josephine used to say that is just putting too much on God. He gave us free will to be able to make choices. This girl heard all the wrong things that her desperation was saying to her, not God.
I really think it was all in her head too…
Yea I was questioning. Who and what would have you do such things? These religions be having all of us going through the unnecessary
Thank you! I was thinking to myself, “Ma’am, I know the Holy Spirit was not telling you all this.” If anything there were red flags before there before she made the decision to marry this man. I’m sure the Holy Spirit was speaking to her then and telling her not to marry that man.
I am so glad I saw this comment, and video!
Until I did, I was sitting here, looking at, evaluating, judging myself and my own mess and questioning if maybe my faith was lacking or I wasn't doing "it" correctly and it was a flaw within me.
There's only so much we can place on the Lord and give to Him, and so much we can just blindly live through, but we are also in our human existence and not impenetrable to straight up *CRAP* behavior and circumstances!
I'm sure there is forgiveness in me and that there is a better woman of God to be brought out through my madness here, but right now, I need a few (or many, many more "fews"- if we are BSFFR😂) days to get myself and my heart right and I j
cannot just jump into turning the other cheek to cheating w/ several other women -AND MEN- and walking away from me while I was getting diagnosed with lupus and suffering a major injury risk the steroids they pumped into me, that cost me 1 of my lower legs... and him walking away from me with ✌️ I swear, thinking how easy it was going to be to meet up w/ his others while I was trapped in the hospital for 3 weeks- and my trying to tell myself that THAT is not ME and MY fault!!!
Girl, when I tell you how much I beat myself up or questioned what I was doing wrong or needed to provide, or whether my inability to create a family was on me and if I drive him away I didn't place enough faith in things, or ask God correctly, just everything that was on me and ME alone, words cannot even do it justice.
Sorry for getting so into that comment and leaving a full diatribe... but I just want to send a truly, TRUE, "THANK YOU and BLESS YOU".
You don't even know what this video did for me, plus, then reading the comments.
You genuinely "rescued" me from myself and my mind and I cannot give you enough love for that!!!
It's a good reminder that just bc people make it sound so good and heavenly and faithful, to stick in that kind of situation and to make it sound so obedient and trusting, how wrong and straight up SILLY we can be and how sometimes it simply is just some complete BULLSHIZZZ we need to recognize and escape!!! 😂
And THAT is okay too!!!
Our Lord certainly doesn't want us here being straight up delusional fools!!!
Jesus was a Lion and sometimes we need to be too!!!
I really needed this video!!!
THANK YOU FROM THE DEPTHS OF MY HEART AND SOUL!!!!
Truly, I only wish you knew how much I needed this and what it did for me!!!
THANK YOU and BLESS YOU!!!!
❤❤❤❤❤
She sounds stupid! It's nooo way
I'm a say I went through something similar 20 years marriage and he cheated repeatedly I took him back forgave him. And guess what he went right back. He's doing whatever he wants and knows she's stupid for him. I promise he's not going to stop rather with same woman or another woman. Girl bye ❤
I'll pray for her she's going to need it
Religion should not trump common sense!
This IS the one!!!! I’m listening with my jaw on the floor. This man showed out then returned after the party was over. Poor dummy.
Can someone with good sense explain to me why these "tests" always have to be about God?
@ShamikaCrouach and why is god always testing!?
Yeah, because religion and a true relationship with God aren't the same. Religion is the reason Jesus was k*ll'd. People, please know the difference and stop blaming the Lord for your foolishness (own selfish desires/lack of wisdom) and stop blaming Him when you're not successful. All good things come from God, period. ❤
@@queenred.6159 Just the consequences of their actions, we have free will.
I agree 100% with these reactions. She has low self esteem and would’ve taken anything he dished her. I hope the same God opens her eyes to build her confidence and know her worth because he is going to do it again.
Amen 🙏🏾
Probably currently is
My husband, My husband, My husband, My husband, My husband....He aint your husband because he loves you. He became your husband to keep you in the dark. I feel so bad for her and her kids.
I went through a relationship like this with a narcissist and because my mama was a narcissist, I thought that’s what love was like. God intervened time and again to show me He had better for me. I eventually moved on and now he has a new victim. God doesn’t want his children to suffer from abuse like that.
Did she ever consider that, that could have been the devil speaking to her because... damn!😯
My heart breaks for this young lady. She clearly has an anxious attachment style and her husband knows that. How can your wife just had a baby and you left to go be with your mistress?!
I agree!
This woman, like many women, is living under a religiously oppressive system. 🤦♀️
I grew up in a system that encouraged such thinking for women in marriage. I was sold out to the religion, but I rejected their view of relationships, and as such, I am single.
The work of christian researcher Sheila Wray Gregoire really helped me. She did scientific studies on sex and relationships in such Christian communities. Her research showed how such views create the same effects in a woman as SA.
😮Wow, blown away . This is a must read!
I would love her to understand the truck bag she's now placed herself in..
Infidelity is the biggest sign of disrespect to a partner.. is
She has given him an OK to abuse her, further down the line,
If someone dishonors you in marriage and you give them a second chance it will become a vicious cycle because when you accept any form of abuse you teach people that you share their value of how you honor yourself as well.
Wow preach ❤
Agreed
But I’m prettt sure he was getting them cheeks while they’re “building a friendship “ I feel so sad for this girl. I hope she finds the strength. She’s so scared to be alone. I hope she truly heals on her own.
Oh so because his other relationship was toxic he came back to you. She strong.
God’s strongest soldier 😢
Exactly 💯 husband or not I wouldn't want him back. He's going to do it again. She loves him. But he doesn't love her.
😂 yes yes, the delusion is strong with this one ..
No she isn't at all... desperate
Yeah , she so strong. She has crack head strength because this is ridiculous!
Look I don’t judge people who stay together after one incident of infidelity BUT leaving someone while pregnant, bringing home outside children or STDs or when someone is constantly cheating, is where I draw the line! If someone isn’t happy first thing should be communication and not stepping outside of the relationship.
Cheat once gone forever tf cheat on a man and see how fast he leaves
I can't get behind going back after someone cheated once I genuinely don't understand how someone can look past that level of disrespect.
This‼️An AFFAIR, is a choice that someone continues to make over and over again. That is no mistake. That is the ultimate form of disrespect and disregard
Once I heard “The Lord” I knew it was going to be some bs. This is ab*se. I pray God shows her fr and not just in her mind.
This is so scary. This is what happens when the church reveres marriage and punishes women for men's fault. Wow. This is spiritual psychosis. Anybody else feels how dark the energy is...
Brothers and sisters I pray for our discernment and the control of our emotions. In the name of Jesus. Amen ❤
And the audacity of him talking about how he mourning the side chick😮
I couldn’t believe it….he knows she will take anything. It’s so sad
most men have feelings for their mistress believe it or not I think that's why men self project their always talking about if a woman cheats on the her Man she has feelings for the sidenigga n probably likes him more than you lol. Honestly it also depends on which mistress/ side girlfriend she is number 123 etc each one serves a purpose but there's always one he likes just as much as the main n loves but not in love with clearly that's why she's not the Main "wifey"(girlfriend or wife) Woman. I ALWAYS TELL LADIES IF YOU THINK A MAN DONT CARE ABOUT YOU/OR LIKE YOU HE DON'T. THE SIDE 2 3 4 5 ETC YOU DONT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT HE JUST USING THEM. HIS HOMEGIRLS ARENT WHO YOU SHOULD WORRY ABOUT EITHER SHE MOST LIKELY DONT WANT HIM LIKE THAT,HE DOESNT WANT HER, OR THEY DONT WANT EACH OTHER.BUT IF SHE ALWAYS BEING RUDE TO YOU THEY PROBABLY HUNCHED , SHE HAS A CRUSH ON HIM , or she just knows yall aren't compatible(you n her not your Man) n just plains don't fxckin like you has nothing to do with your man. THE WOMEN MOST LADIES SHOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT IS THE H*ES IN THEIR FRIEND GROUPS N THEIR OWN FREINDLY FEMALE FAMILY MEMEMBERS.
Mine said he wasn’t done so I let him go be with the her and restarted my life. I don’t have the right to stop anyone from finding their true happiness. Shooot
@@Jacee191Period. 😩🤦🏽♀️ I feel sorry for this delusional woman n I feel even worse for all the women/girls and men and boys she will have believing in her nonsense.
My heart breaks for her because she seems like someone who has a pure, kind heart. I pray that she wakes up before it’s too late. She never said when he apologized and was repentant but she forgave him and took him back several times. I feel sad for her children too
Exactly! Praying no daughter came in their union the second child was a boy as well
Wow this guy did not love or respect her 🤦♀️
Not even close…. He came back because maybe the sidechick wouldn’t stand for his foolishness. More than likely he’s going to do it again.
I wouldn't want this toxic marriage restored. We'd just coparent amicably.
He doesn’t love her. He never did.
The situation is a no for me and my low tolerance for bs is probably why I am single
Young lady you sure God restore that marriage,or he came back because things didn't work out with the side chick????
This is gonna be an unpopular opinion, but I believe that this is literally due to the doctrination of black women in the black church. We are constantly taught to fall on our sword like Jesus and we are never taught to empower or free ourselves, like God in the Old Testament. Now i have learned that many a women are lacking in appreciation but that does not make a man's choices our responsibility We are constantly told that if a man strays, it is our fault, our responsibility, our problem to clean up Our lack of femininity, our void as a woman, mother and wife, I have yet to go to a church where I see men held just as accountable, if not more when they are supposed to be the head. I. Also, feel like because of a woman's desperation to be loved needed and supported by a man oftentimes. It is so much easier to believe that God told you to do certain things when god want you to be happy, loved and protected. And oftentimes, when we do go through these phases with men and self sacrifice ourselves over and over again, the outcome of it is to learn not to do that. That is the true lesson
I'm white and grew up southern Baptist. It's the same way in white churches. Women are supposed to just take whatever their husband's throw at them with a smile and move on. I'm agnostic now and a large reason for that is because of the things I saw, heard, and experienced growing up in those churches.
Darlin this is not an unpopular opinion. I'm always trying to figure out how we relate those stories in the Bible to how we need to adjust to someone else's bad behavior. It's a horrible lesson for our young girls to think that you putting up with someone's crap is obedience to God.
Classic trauma dumping. Go 2 therapy and heal instead of telling strangers your business.
Therapy would actually help, this enables her to thinks she is right. She is getting a lot of support.
Exactly
she is angry people have opinions,when she brought herself to the internet. Strange people.
Her marriage is broken. She doesn't see it yet. The trust is no longer there. She forgives him yes, but the pain will never go away. He failed her.
This woman heard what she wanted to hear and listened to that. Whose to say he's not going to do this again? And SHE apologized to HIM? Oh hell no! I'm sorry but if my husband leaves me for another woman she can have him! He saw that he can walk all over her and even cheat and she'll take him back. There's so much I'd like to say but my fingers can't type that much right now 😂 But I truly hope their marriage is happy and faithful and will continue to be because she's not going anywhere..
The girl with the clear frame glasses and black shirt was funny asl 🤣 Ricky Raccoon! 😭
That apology ran up my blood pressure! She has serious self esteem issues…it’s evident and she’s such a beautiful girl.
I know a woman that took back her husband and after 10 yrs he went back to his old ways. So i hope it wk out for her
As I say…a leopard never changes its stripes!
Another woman told her story on here too and even she admitted that the few years of happiness are better than none at all.
I guarantee he didn't "go back to his old ways". He never changed, he was just better at covering it up.
God also allows divorce for those who goes outside of the marriage. You can get beaten, berated, and go through hell and never get back, but as far as adultery goes, that's where the line is drawn. If they can't communicate with you before going outside the marriage, they don't deserve a new better you. Let them see the elevated version of yourself through the window. Trust and believe that majority of men wouldn't do the same.
I just wish that we could get an update when he decides to fall for his next co-worker. But I’m sure after all the “negative” reactions she got, she will choose to suffer in silence n never speak of it again🤦🏽♀️ May God help her get through it n finally hear him for what he’s been trying to truly show her all along.
I hope this lady gets the help she needs. This is sad
Bingo she's wanting ppl for her workshop
This is so sad. He just realized having a new born and being in 2 homes was 2 much. And he couldn't afford the divorce. I dont believe God told her anything. He didnt want her at all but was grieving the other lady bc he wanted her...but it was too late bc he already started a family.
I'm sorry.... but what?!!!! SHE LET THIS MAN HAVE PHONE CALLS FROM ANOTHER WOMAN IN HER FACE & she thinks he would be willing to work on their marriage??????!! That man is STILL cheating. I'm praying that the Lord opens her eyes to the nonsense she thinks are messages from the Lord & opens her eyes about her husband. Lord have mercy.....
WELL, I GUESS HER STORY BACKFIRED!!!! CAUSE BLK WOMEN WAS NOT PLAYING!!!!!
God blesses us with the gift of knowledge, wisdom, and discernment. He also gives us 2nd chances to get what he truly has for us if we believe we deserve it. When people and situations walk out of our lives, let them go every rejection is for a protection. The devil saw your desperation and preyed on your vulnerability. You have to love yourself more than this man but the good news is he is back to teach you that very lesson you need to learn. I wish her nothing but God's grace and mercies.
Ladies Never and I mean absolutely Never take a cheater back Ever
I heard about this story but didn’t get a chance to watch. Just how she started is already upsetting
Thanks for watching
God is so amazing and he does miracles. All Grace be to God and I thank the Lord that he saved your guys's relationship that's amazing. ✝️🙏🏻💞
What a beautiful story. Your love and faith is so strong for God, your husband and children. I also love how you are reaching out and helping others to succeed in their own marriages!!
I don’t believe she went 9 months pregnant alone and didn’t file for divorce. I’m like not understanding this.
You cannot blame God for your toxic relationship. God said stay and work through your marriage UNLESS there is infidelity if there is infidelity then leave!
15:43 i had to stop watching. God really gave her all the signs and evidence. He even got this man to move out willingly and you did everything but be your own peace. You apologized to him and begged for him back. He couldn't even take you out and be atound you telling you he grieving the sidechick...... He had no problem flaunting her and being with her so why does your husband who lwft you need space from you to be friends again but he dipping in and out when he wants your energy all while you're raising his newborn child thathe didn't support you while you're carrying? You had every sign that he is checked out mentally from that relationship. Begging isn't fixing the problem it's prolonging it.
What even made her come out and tell this story?
Not even the government could beat this out of me…but I think it’s a marketing strategy to sell her course
I felt a certain way while listening to her. I stayed on my marriage for years, waiting for changes.... because I loved him and I made a promise. My ex-husband did not cheated, but the toxic behavior & other things killed that promise & love. She is still so innocent & one day, she will open her eyes to find herself years of mental abuse, more of what he is doing today & regret all that wasted time on the wrong man.
He came back to finish her off 🫣
This video is weird to me. I was expecting hear her husband gave her some compelling reasons why she should take him back. I expected him to be begging her after leaving her in such a vulnerable state but instead she is doing the begging. This is just weird. He will do it again keep cuddling him
I despise men like this. So bc it didn't work out with the other one, now you're running back?
She is exhausting and delusional!
He will repeat the same thing trust
Im glad she is standing soley on God and Gods word and not that of people. Gods word doesn't change for anyone.
I agree with your last sentence ❤
The crazy part for me right now is that fact that I know they have at least 2sons who are going to grow up expecting their wives to be as “Godly” and “submissive “ as their mother. God save them
But wait a minute didn't he leave her when she was pregnant so why would you get pregnant by this man again when he left you when you needed him while you're pregnant
This woman was very young when her husband decided to explore other options while his wife was pregnant with his second child. She is still young now 6 years laters. She is not taking into account that he did learn during that episode. He learned that a single woman will not satisfy every want he wants. A side peice is happy for good times, not full time caretaking of a mamas boy. He learned that his wife will take him back no matter how racket he goes. He learned that in future, he will have to seperate all those aspects to keep it neat. She on the other hand thinks she got the holy grail of marriage fixing down...so thinks she has what it takes to advise other women who may actually be in even worse conditions than just being absolutly ignoring you that your husband did. Dangerous situations, in this STD, HIV, multiple baby by multiple women, beatings, soul destroying, financial ruining, and straight up family extinction situations. She is so delusional. If she is really hearing voices that she think is God, it is not God.
Husband or not, I wouldn't want him back. He's going to do it again. She loves him. But do he love her???
I’m Defective 😂😂😂 this sister, had me rolling and saying Amen in the same moment.
Because, her reaction was serious and funny all at once!
God bless her for allowing GOD to use her testimony
Why you bring the lord into it, he doesn't want anything to do with that mess
This man is going to leave again and I don’t wish her bad but anything of the best .
I'm so grateful to know a God who restores marriages, mends broken hearts, and binds up wombs. Everyone has a different journey. No one's opinion matters, only God's Word matters. God is sovereign. He is still speaking. God gives grace. May He bless all of you naysayers to experience His perfect grace.
I don't want to anything mean, but the side chick has more seld respect than the wife. And the religious part is just disingenious. Like how was it good? What did you learn? Be a doormat with no dignity? Just to keep a cheater who hates you and who will keep on cheating and never have an ounce of respect for you? What did you win exactly? It s so sad. Her MIL is horrible to her too, but she won't stand up for herself. I hope she teaches her kid better values. I feel bad for her but at the same time it bothers me. Anyone else has the same issue?
This is so sad. She really honestly believes that this is an uplifting love story. I want to cry for her.
I watched a clip which had comments that claimed that the sidechick was the favorite dummy. This right here is the proof that the wife is the favourite dummy. Why? The wife gonna always take him back. The sidechick may not have her name signed on the legal financial documents but she gets to walk away from the emotional trauma. I repeat this, the wife isn't even the favorite she just the dummy
LOOK IF ANYBODY EVA LEAVE ME TO B WIT SUM BODY ELSE…I WUD NEVA TAKE DEM BAC..DA ONLY REASON DEY CUMN BAC CUZ WHO DEY CHOSE IS NOT WORKN OUT DEY REALIZED DEY CHOSE WRONG..ITS NOT MY LYFE TO MAKE HIS MISTAKE RITE…WEN SUM1 LEV U FO SUM ONE ELSE DONT TELL UR SELF ✨GOD✨TOLD U TO GO BAC DATS UR SELF LYING TO U SO U CAN FEEL BETTA..✨GOD✨GAV U A BRAIN USE IT..CUZ IF DEY CAN LEV U DAT EASLIY N U TAKE DEM BAC DEY GONA DO IT AGAIN
Facts
This was harrowing to hear...her word salads were nauseating - a complete lack of self awareness! Damaged people damage people...just sorry for her children being exposed to such high level of toxicity 😢 God is not an author of confusion - the devil is a liar! And she's running workshops... If delusion was a person! I choose peace - everytime❤
I only clicked on this to read some of the comments to see how many women were going to cosign this. I'm glad to see some of you see a situation for what it is.
This scares me as someone trying to find religion. If the devil is always tempting you, how am I supposed to know I'm making the right moves when I'm asking for something that's not good for me? She keeps saying God told her she would get him back but this man left her during pregnancy and she's thinking God told her she wasn't doing what she was supposed to do as a partner while he was cheating the whole time? Ma'am i don't think God was behind that you just wanted him back, and your husband made it easy for you to do so after the affair didn't work out.
All I can say is...anything that makes you feel better about yourself boo boo👏👏👏 If you like it, we love it for you.
The mom and the husband left her in the hospital alone !!??
She was playing sidechick to her own husband
I love the Sisters on "incoming stitch" calling this crap out!!!
Yasss
After one incident i’m done. There’s no going back on that ❤
Last video was amazing. Thanks Jodi!
This Man has a spell on her😢
who is that woman who spoke at 32:25? Gurl, I was laughing so hard I was crying!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You got a way of getting a point across! And I loved it!! Thank you for sharing!! ❤❤❤❤
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My husband and I accepted God's help in our similar marital problems. It wasn't easy, and we both had and still have a lot of hard work to do, but now we're better than ever. ❤
I pray you are both happy and your marriage is in a better place 🙏🏾
Hmm what it sounds like is after things didnt work with the coworker that he actually wanted to be with, he then settled and went back to her. Its not where he actually wanted to be. I do wish her the best and hope everything works out for her.
"Boo tha foopoooooool" took me out. 😂
Somebody talk or smack some
Sense into this woman. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Chile that wasn’t God, that’s the devil. I hope people stop getting the two confused