Watch this if your parents don't support your dreams.
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- Опубліковано 12 чер 2024
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Staright facts. Speaking from experience, this works wonders 🔥
das what im talkin bout gang
Wait you've only ever talked about your grandma and never your parents....
Grandparents are also parents
His grandma is probably his parent figure
no in one video he also talked about his parents house
@@Channingwinsgold u can't say this openly ..its kinda sound rude
In one of his older videos he briefly mentioned that his parents are divorced
My parents divorced when i was 3. My dad remarried and his wife (my Stepmom) would psychologically and sometimes physically abuse my older sister and i . They often separated us from my mom and my stepmom made my dad believe we're brats . I became depressed at 9 years old and i finally called my mum at 13years and told her what had been happening . Things are still being solved but i learnt that sometimes its not always your fault and things became better. I am stronger and dont let her words get to my head .❤
you are strong my friend
@@m4rchchild thanks 🫂
What I learnt from this video:)
1. The reason why parents want us to become a doctor is because they want us to have money, to have status, and to be happy
2. Instead of telling them your goal, show them your results. Work hard to fulfil their wants and then show them the results
3. Gain their respect. Prove to them and yourself that you’re able to work hard and be disciplined.
Rmb that this only boost your chances of your parents supporting your dreams, it doesn’t gauruntee it. Still try tho;)
Rn I am following whatever my asian parents want since i haven't yet figured out my passion but great advice. Will def rewatch this once I explore my options. Thanks ruff
My parents support my dream but I watched it anyway. I wish everyone here to convince their parents that their dream matters.
Ruff has experienced something and share his experience with others. Great work Ruff!
You tend to fight a lot since childhood until you can't anymore. you sorta just spark out a little bit of the dreams you had from time to time when you collect enough courage to do so. Tired people are beat and can't just do anything anymore.
King Ruff has posted 🔥😤
Factual information. Also speaking from experience
I dont know why, but everytime I'm struggling with something Ruff uploads a video talking about the exact thing im struggling. Great Video!
Man I needed this video real bad
Ever since I found your channel, I've been motivated to do many things🙏 I always thought of myself as a lazy person but I feel really motivated, idk but I just feel great
Yooo I’ve been doing this subconsciously the whole time 😂
My mom’s like “do what you love” but when I found something I loved “No. That doesn’t make any money”
So then I found something I love _that also_ makes money and “that’s too unstable and you can’t succeed at that long-term”
So I decided to just shut up & doit in, and now I’m getting consistently profitable, but I’m also not gonna tell her I’m profitable until I’m *truly and undeniably profitable* so she can’t shut me down 😗👍 maybe it’ll be a full time career, maybe just a hobby - u gotta be okay with not knowing, and just appreciate the experience and fun of what you’re doin
What’s the something that you love and makes money?
omg 2 vids this week?! thanks so much for da value broskii
I see you working extra hard well done bro 💪
If your parents don’t support your dreams. It doesn’t matter. It’s irrelevant. Do it for you.
ruff don't burn out 🙏
Excellent video! My parents to doesn't support my dream like they think that its not possible for me to achieve it but i will do my best to prove them !
I want to do something in my life.I had big dreams in my life.This year i got admitted in a public university .I wanted to pursue my education somewhere far from my home, so i can learn to be independent .But my parents dismissed this without a single thought.My dad told me that he wouldn’t allow me there even if i got the chance to get admitted.From this year ,I started tuition to make extra money on the side . You know just to buy this and that.But my dad even refused that.Even if he himself has all kinds of bills thats due .I really detest their misogynistic views it makes me hate my life
I don’t think they will ever support me.
Well what can i do
I cant leave even if i want to
I am dependent on them
And they wouldn’t even give me a chance to become self sufficient
I am already 20
I guess this is the fate of some south east asians
It sometimes makes me hate them and their religion 😅
Well we just have to keep going
Who doesn’t have adversity in their life
“I would rather die on my feet than live on my knees “
are u indian ??
You should leave the home. You might have some pocket money or some savings right? Even if you don’t, you are grown up enough to do that. Please don’t give up
your amazing ty
Love u ruff
Thanks so much, Ruff: I'm so lucky to know this channel and I'm so grateful this channel exists: thanks!
My parents want me to go to pre-med but I love literature, humanities and philosophy: I TOLD THEM after watching this.
I WAS EXPECTING THEM TO KILL ME. (LOL), But they UNDERSTOOD(WIREDLY)....
After 2 hours of convincing.
IF YOU LOVE SOMETHING: DO IT.
Thanks, Ruff for giving me the courage.
daym i am early today. thanks for daily uploads.
But what if I'm a teenager and they keep taking my money that I'm saving up for the future?
Yo ruff take action!
20 minutes and 326 views, ruff ain’t fumbling
understanding their pov is so hard. usually im open to ideas but still...
ruff should do a workout video on how he got so jacked
comment from a fellow singaporean
Pls add subtitles rufff the yt subs are wonky 😂
Saving this
Ruff my parents want me to get into the top engineering college of my country " IIT" i also wanna go there it's also my dream but sometimes i just wonder why we all chasing each other in this rat race while we can all purse our dream courier but the thing i realized is that sometimes it's just better to listen to other advice.but follow our own as the concusion. Anyway thanks for this many uploades during a week❤ and I'm still young so i will figured out my way i started a yt channel after getting inspired by you 😅 but is procrastinating a lot between uploades btw keep it up man
whats yout channels name
@@lily-ms9ue this is my self improvement Channel 😅
LOCKED IN ⭐
Worst part is parents that push their dream on you bc they're unsuccessful and unhappy
IIT , AIIMS we all are stuck in these things we need to crack this exam that exam why don't we live once, you are right this a race rat , for sure JEE , NEET , CUET , SKAUST i'm pissed off with these exam .
please bring back captions
My parents always wanted me to be a doctor and recently I developed an interest in human biology which made me further look into the pathway. I found that the medicine pathway would be something I would want to do in future but I’m still not sure if it’s really something I want to do or just the thought of making my parents proud or is it both. But at the same time I don’t think there’s another career pathway that I want to do. So I’m really confused.
Next: how live on yourself cause you have toxic parents & household ..Basically how to be self reliable person ...
u realise i live at home with my family so i have literally 0 experience with living on my own
honestly instead of living on ur own i think the first option should be fixing ur toxic relationship before considering anything else O_O
easier said than done I can relate
WOORK HARD
I want to do engineering. I want to be a programmer. That interests me. And i learn it with interest and ease. I am supposed to take admission this july. But suddenly my mom isnt apporoving me of this. I understand that because i didnt score that good in my highschools last year. But i scored good every session before that. I was well- depressed this year so i couldnt. But she doesnt understand. I feel like dying.
stand for yourself . its your right . tell them ki aap hamesha mere liye decision ni le sakte . bol ki teko engineering hi kerni h . bahut saare log aise hi kerte h. not everyone is from good clg . cuz itne clg hi ni h. or tu kisi saste clg me chale ja . i know its hard . but do it for yourself . someday or other you have to stand for yourself.
keep updating me ok.
great video, but I have something to ask, not related to the vid.
I've been following u since before you had 100k, but you're vids are always directed towards guys, why is that? I'm a girl and very much resonate with what you say and gain a thing or two from them. Just asking.
same! I'd also like to know. It would be better imo if it was neutral (for both genders not just guys nor girls)
@@DestivaKukurice cuz. I think he is making them from the point of view of guys. there are already many female UA-camrs who are making female-oriented content. there is nothing bad in making guys-oriented content. and if as a girl you learn from this channel, it's good to just take the learnings.
@@lily-ms9ue Thanks for the reply. I already take the learnings. It just feels like he doesn't appreciate his female audience, with the language.
@@DestivaKukurice ohh . umm yeah maybe ....but i am following him from an year now i havent felt that. and even if he dont appreciate ..i think it should not affect us from taking his learing . 😚
unrelated but please make a room tour video
It's not for me, but I still gotta give it a go😊
so if they support my dreams, i don't have to watch the video ?
I have a question, this video actually motivated me to take my goals seriously but then a thing about me is that I tend to forget this feeling of motivation and would someday fall off until I would find another reason to motivate myself. There's this like cycle of getting motivated and losing this motivation and it starts when I forget. How do I make sure that I would never forget next time or stop this from happening in the future again? I tried finding ways to remember as well.
Please make a youtube guide too on youtube
EPIC
Indian here, dunno I really wanted to become a Artist/Designer, but my parents remain strict as they want their Son to be Doctor, Give the NEET (National Eligibility cum Entrance Test) get hella good results and stuff like that
Dunno, I am good at science and maths
Literally a question mark it is right now....
how to sleep outside please
Claim ur within 1 hr ticket
👇(feel free to not like im fine)😅
Ruff please can u talk to my parents, they are chill parents but they don't take me seriously enough. They think of my dreams as a mere hobby but I'm actually serious about it. I've explained them so many times, but got no success.
show them results. start doing something .
Jai ruff anna🔥✨️
bro usko kuch samajh nahi aane wala.
@@niravhebbar6545 🤣🤣🤣right
2 kises in one video? Yes. And i'm down for it? Yes.
(please, im not a *creep*)
😭
sir, i need help, ive commented about 5-6 times on your videos, please respond ruff sir, i aint asking for any money, all i need is advice please help me sir...
yooo what's ur mic
I want to say it's a razer siren mini V3 ?
Attended
bro the b roll isnt good enough
No views 20 secs. FELL OFF
Why do you wear mask?
probably because he doesn’t want to show his full face for privacy
Bros voice Is becoming manlier ahahahah
2 mins ago
4 minutes late ;-;
4.5k views after 3 days bro fell off
Weird
take a look at this guy guys