Lonnie's Girlfriend, Divorce & Dating Again

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  • Опубліковано 16 січ 2024
  • Time to spill the tea and answer all of your questions from my failed marriage that has ended in divorce, dating again, Lonnie's girlfriend, pneumonia, and how all of the kids are doing now in 2024.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 135

  • @lacookie292
    @lacookie292 5 місяців тому +113

    I’m sure you know this, but please be very careful about choosing who you pick to date and then bring to the house. I’ve heard horror stories about men that find women with vulnerable children and then do horrible things to them when the mother is gone. I have two autistic sons myself and I don’t think I could date anyone (if my husband and I ever got divorced) just because there are too many creeps out there. I really wish the best for you and your kids. ❤

    • @OurLANDingCrew8
      @OurLANDingCrew8  5 місяців тому +89

      💯 I honestly doubt anyone would make it to that point 😆 I’m extremely picky for myself but even more so around my kids.

    • @lacookie292
      @lacookie292 5 місяців тому +3

    • @ericaaubie860
      @ericaaubie860 5 місяців тому +6

      ​@@OurLANDingCrew8You explained so well about what each kid is up to. Thanks for such a detailed update. So glad Lonnie Junior is doing so well, and graduating. When you don't give up, and determined you can do anything.

    • @nancyfarkas3592
      @nancyfarkas3592 5 місяців тому +4

      That is not as bad as you think. Yes it happens but the news like people to think that men are all awful. They arent

    • @AlternativeHomesteading
      @AlternativeHomesteading 5 місяців тому +4

      Agree with all you stated. When I was divorced I didnt introduce my daughter to anyone until it was more serious. I didn't want her to become attached and also didn't want men in the house when she was young. It takes a long time to know a person, especially now. People become involved too soon after a divorce not taking into consideration how long children take to adapt.

  • @Angela-yo8pn
    @Angela-yo8pn 5 місяців тому +6

    I was SOOO excited to see this update!!!❤. So happy your family is doing so well right now! I’m so looking forward to future vlogs, when you are ready!🙌

  • @stacymcintosh6831
    @stacymcintosh6831 5 місяців тому +6

    I have watch since the beginning! Your growth has been amazing. You are an amazing woman. I have watch your growth and decided to do my own spiritual journey and have never been happier!! So thank you! You listen to yourself with the health and happiness of your family and it truly a breath of fresh air!! Girl you manifest all those good things yall deserve it!!❤

  • @carriebowlen3785
    @carriebowlen3785 5 місяців тому +9

    I love being a member of your LANDing Crew! Yeah Steph!
    Your hair looks amazing
    I am so proud of you and LBS are amazing
    I am so glad we are friends
    i am so glad i found yall in my life
    i love you all so much

  • @robylove9190
    @robylove9190 5 місяців тому +6

    I'm glad everyone is doing so well. You look great! Sending love and healing energy for Lonnie Jr.❤

  • @lthompson9853
    @lthompson9853 5 місяців тому +5

    Love hearing how well the kiddos are doing!! We are actually moving from Florida to Colorado sometime in March for better services for our 3 autistic kiddos. I'm looking forward to future vlogs❤

  • @melodiethornock1406
    @melodiethornock1406 5 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for sharing updates on the kids. I am so glad everyone is doing well and hope Lonnie Jr. gets over his pneumonia soon.

  • @Abwavey
    @Abwavey 5 місяців тому +3

    Your energy in this video is so self-assured, I love it!! You look great and I'm happy things are falling into place! Hope Lonnie Jr gets well soon!

  • @laurayost7567
    @laurayost7567 5 місяців тому +5

    Thanks for the update . Glad you're all doing well !

  • @donna9227
    @donna9227 5 місяців тому +2

    So happy for your family thank you for the update wishing you all well ❤

  • @dianemejia1027
    @dianemejia1027 5 місяців тому +3

    I am so glad to hear you guys doing well and see you beautiful and happy. God is good he got you and the family through the hard moments. Blessing

  • @chasetf2005
    @chasetf2005 5 місяців тому +1

    So happy things are going well! Your channel is an inspiration.

  • @jennyann5405
    @jennyann5405 5 місяців тому +1

    Great video. Thank you so much for sharing the udates on everyone. I'm glad everyone is doing well. I look forward to future videos.

  • @alchemyofcolorandstyle
    @alchemyofcolorandstyle 5 місяців тому +55

    You’re the picture definition of “post-divorce glow up” 🤗 get it, grrrl 💕

  • @alexandramoyer8785
    @alexandramoyer8785 5 місяців тому +6

    Just wanted to say you look amazing and Lonnie jr as well. Wishing nothing but the best for you and your family ❤

  • @amypearsall
    @amypearsall 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for the updates. So glad to hear P. has 50-100 words!

  • @amyholley8725
    @amyholley8725 5 місяців тому +24

    Stephanie you look amazing and so does Lonnie Jr. I’m so happy for you and the kids that you all are doing great. I think it sucks that you have to pay alimony. I’ve been following you since you had Liam and I remember some of the things you have been through and that’s all I’m going to say. I hope whoever you’re dating treats you right and I wish you nothing but happiness sweetheart

  • @janefromtennessee
    @janefromtennessee 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for the info. You're doing so well. Much love to you all.

  • @kimberlymasslock3669
    @kimberlymasslock3669 5 місяців тому +1

    Thanks 4 the updates❤😊

  • @laurainthesky3765
    @laurainthesky3765 5 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤ to your family. Happy to hear everyone is doing well and just living life 😊

  • @p.j.driton4528
    @p.j.driton4528 5 місяців тому +1

    My prayers are with you and your beautiful family!

  • @Ashley.Alvarez
    @Ashley.Alvarez 5 місяців тому +6

    Steph, I've been following you for years & i appreciate you so much. Im in Fl with 2 ASD boys. It's been a pain, plus not having any family & no breaks as a mom is burning me out. Could you speak more on how colorado has been for the kids in general? i know you've touched on it, but could we get an update. ❤

  • @airheads1012
    @airheads1012 5 місяців тому +2

    Wow i remember when lex was 4 so hearing that hes 8 and everyones growing up now makes me realize how much time has gone by

  • @kristinej22
    @kristinej22 5 місяців тому +1

    Glad for an update. You’ve been beautiful at every weight but you definitely seem happier and that’s what’s most important ❤️

  • @angelaruiz5323
    @angelaruiz5323 5 місяців тому +1

    Stephanie you look amazing. Aww Penelope is so cute. Wow all the kids are doing amazing! You made my day.

  • @slsmith-xp2hq
    @slsmith-xp2hq 5 місяців тому +3

    I would love to hear about your fitness journey!

  • @DiariesofaDisabledmom
    @DiariesofaDisabledmom 5 місяців тому +4

    I’m autistic with only one autistic child. He’s 8 but being a content creator and a mom is hard af but I’m also chronically ill which has some impact on that too. Haven’t had a lot of time to watch UA-cam so I have to catch up on ur vids. Hope the transplant lasts Lonnie jr a while ❤ u do look alot happier. Omg cute puppy!!!

  • @krystlereese2543
    @krystlereese2543 5 місяців тому +5

    I would love a “what I eat in a day” video!!!!! You look fantastic!

  • @teresanew9247
    @teresanew9247 5 місяців тому +1

    You are looking fantastic with your weightless. You hair has grown so much too. Have missed you on here. I'm glad that the children are doing so well.

  • @ruebennomura9143
    @ruebennomura9143 5 місяців тому +3

    You are my favorite vlog on this channel

  • @torishajackson2670
    @torishajackson2670 5 місяців тому +1

    So happy that you are happy and everyone is doing great ❤ love you girl 🥰❤️❤️❤️

  • @kristinemcmanus3452
    @kristinemcmanus3452 5 місяців тому +1

    So wonderful to see you all doing so well! So many positive changes. Hope your year continues to be positive. 😊

  • @karenkane3220
    @karenkane3220 5 місяців тому +1

    Your hair is looking great!

  • @shannond5203
    @shannond5203 5 місяців тому +3

    I just want to say.. gurl you look fabulous!

  • @oober5150
    @oober5150 5 місяців тому +1

    I like the new eye makeup look

  • @sybleythomas3496
    @sybleythomas3496 5 місяців тому +3

    Steph you look amazing ❤

  • @nancyfarkas3592
    @nancyfarkas3592 5 місяців тому +1

    I wish more divorced parents could get along for their kids like this. Too many times I have seen the result when they don’t

  • @Mommyvisions
    @Mommyvisions 5 місяців тому

    Great updates

  • @reneegoodin1317
    @reneegoodin1317 5 місяців тому +1

    When do you get time to sleep? And do you get good sleep? ❤

  • @wyllowyck2826
    @wyllowyck2826 5 місяців тому +2

    You're a strong woman! I like that. Lady you do us proud! Hug the kids for me.

  • @sherriewofford2136
    @sherriewofford2136 5 місяців тому +2

    They just diagnosed my great grandson at 28 months level 2 autism

  • @officiallysavannahkelly
    @officiallysavannahkelly 4 місяці тому

    My name is Savannah Kelly. I just wanted to say congratulations to your family by the way your family amazing keep the excellent work up because you got this.

  • @carolfink3991
    @carolfink3991 5 місяців тому +4

    Noah Congrats on graduating the ABA center great job.

  • @lorriemangum6734
    @lorriemangum6734 5 місяців тому +1

    You look awesome. Great job

  • @Lady_Tism
    @Lady_Tism Місяць тому

    Aww I’m sad to hear this. Glad you’re doing well tho. 💜

  • @LauraGiral
    @LauraGiral 5 місяців тому +1

    I am proud of you girl. Love from holland ❤😉.

  • @stephaniemoore2385
    @stephaniemoore2385 5 місяців тому

    I love watching your UA-cam channel

  • @stacyb6461
    @stacyb6461 5 місяців тому +1

    You look great! ❤

  • @louiseleonard1992
    @louiseleonard1992 5 місяців тому +1

    Oh my goodness the dog is so cute

  • @patriciamora2915
    @patriciamora2915 5 місяців тому +1

    My granddaughter was diagnosed at 18 months she is 5 now.

  • @kate825
    @kate825 5 місяців тому +1

    You are looking so great ❤❤

  • @cherylduncan5158
    @cherylduncan5158 5 місяців тому +1

    You look amazing ❤

  • @DaegSteorra513
    @DaegSteorra513 5 місяців тому +3

    Steph, how is Lonnie Jr doing with the prednisone (mood wise etc)? It can be really hard for some people to deal with and I can’t imagine being on it so long and teenage hormones😮

  • @dianab1945
    @dianab1945 3 місяці тому

    We have a Grandson who is Autistic.
    We love him to pieces.
    God Bless you and your family.

  • @DogLover1718
    @DogLover1718 5 місяців тому +1

    Can u link Noah’s UA-cam channel bc I didn’t see the link

  • @irishgirl1753
    @irishgirl1753 5 місяців тому

    Stephanie is your hair extensions it’s really nice 👍❤️🤗

  • @user-ck2qw4qe8g
    @user-ck2qw4qe8g 5 місяців тому +1

    Can you do pictures of all the kids I've been following you since you were pregnant with Penelope and I really miss seeing all the kids

  • @melissaahlers5615
    @melissaahlers5615 5 місяців тому +2

    I have a learning disability when I was in school I was in special ed.

  • @Emostar118
    @Emostar118 5 місяців тому +2

    Self care treatment for me is having my favorite food or beverages.

  • @irishgirl1753
    @irishgirl1753 5 місяців тому

    I am amazed by you god bless ❤️🤗🥰

  • @amypearsall
    @amypearsall 5 місяців тому +1

    Wondering if when you buy a home will you be looking for land as well and possibly homesteading? Or, was that more Lonnie Sr.'s idea or a couple plan that isn't something you'd do single?

  • @jeanmorgan5410
    @jeanmorgan5410 5 місяців тому +1

    My grandson is one verbal and can communicate some. But it is nit functional so he is still considered none verbal he is level 3 autism

  • @mcrchickenluvr
    @mcrchickenluvr 5 місяців тому +3

    I do respite and habilitation care for kids and adults that are on the spectrum. When I take the kid I work with out in public we hear more crap from adults than we do kids. When we come across kids that want to say anything it’s usually questions about why he does the things he does. We, his mom and I, will answer them. Adults on the other hand, I’d love to duck tape their mouths shut at some times. So it is true that adults could learn from kids.

  • @83lulube
    @83lulube 5 місяців тому +5

    It's pretty obvious and it was obvious back then when they were that little. I'm VERY observant of body language, etc. Probably too observant. Lol. I could tell.
    I had correction surgery for strabismus bc apparently it was so severe I saw everything blurred and in doubles. I would not have been able to function visually otherwise. I was 2, I believe, when I had the surgery.
    I think it's good you aren't divulging as much info on the kids like before. I mean, I love the education surrounding it, but also wondered where that fine line is to where it could be too much info. Just my thoughts....

    • @OurLANDingCrew8
      @OurLANDingCrew8  5 місяців тому +3

      No I agree. There has to be a line. I think it’s just easy in social media to feel like everything has to be shared and it doesn’t.

  • @Stalemarshmallow
    @Stalemarshmallow 5 місяців тому +1

    You look beautiful Stephanie ❤❤❤

  • @sofiasousapires
    @sofiasousapires 5 місяців тому +2

    Good for you for getting on top of guardianship for Noah like Fatheringautism did! You look amazing Steph!

    • @DebraDarkandTwisty
      @DebraDarkandTwisty 5 місяців тому +2

      Stephanie does look great. I just wanted to point out to the commenter not to compare anyone you like to FA. You think they got on top of the guardianship? Oh you sweet summer child ...

    • @GroundhogBaby
      @GroundhogBaby 5 місяців тому

      ​@@DebraDarkandTwistyI agree with that 💯 Fathering Autism is nothing but a money hungry and deceitful fraud. Guardianship for one daughter while he totally ignores the daughter he has that he keeps hidden. 🤔 I hope that catches up with him one day.

  • @amysettle85
    @amysettle85 5 місяців тому +7

    I'm confused so if Lonnies paying child support and you are paying alimony then doesn't or shouldn't that cancel each other out. I understand if you choose not to answer if I went to far. I apologize and I mean no disrespect.

    • @OurLANDingCrew8
      @OurLANDingCrew8  5 місяців тому +4

      No because it’s 2 different reasons and amounts. Alimony is more than child support.

    • @GroundhogBaby
      @GroundhogBaby 5 місяців тому +1

      ​@@OurLANDingCrew8Wow that's surprising!! In my mind, I thought child support would be more, considering there's 5 children involved and 4 are special needs. I wish I would have gotten alimony when I got divorced. I got child support only.

    • @wileybunch2001
      @wileybunch2001 Місяць тому

      Alimony is also taxable.

    • @amysettle85
      @amysettle85 Місяць тому

      @@OurLANDingCrew8 oh thank you for explaining that. I've gone through 2 divorces and the way you put it is more understandable than the way the divorce atty did.

  • @melissaahlers5615
    @melissaahlers5615 5 місяців тому

    My parents are divorce to

  • @autismvlogger1697
    @autismvlogger1697 5 місяців тому

    No one asked this so i will hope its okay, lets say lonnie wants to see the kids on thursday or whatever is he allowed too? Are you still going to be fruends though? Also makes me sad in a way how much everyone has grown and changed, i remember liam when he was a baby. Im happy for Danielle thats exciting for her, although im sad shes going to be moving on. Also love Lonnie jr. Photos i bet hes excited to graduate. Thats cool that lex wheres glasses i hope he lets you show him sometime, i wear glasses when wearing them since i was probably Penelope age. Anyway really happy for you. I hope lonnie Jr doesnt let being sick bother him. Anyway keep up the work when you can. Have a great day Stephanie

  • @andrewmorton395
    @andrewmorton395 5 місяців тому +1

    I have Autism it's really hard

  • @nicolel.1619
    @nicolel.1619 5 місяців тому +3

    Is Lonnie able to get vaccinated for flu, pneumonia, etc.? I’m not sure how that works once you’re immune compromised.

    • @OurLANDingCrew8
      @OurLANDingCrew8  5 місяців тому +3

      Yes, they encourage vaccinations and I honestly believe his flu shot is the reason his flu was very mild considering.

    • @GroundhogBaby
      @GroundhogBaby 5 місяців тому +1

      ​@@OurLANDingCrew8 I wish I had gotten my flu shot. I had Flu type A last week. Finished the Tamiflu and still coughing, sneezing and sniffling.

  • @laurascrimgeour2330
    @laurascrimgeour2330 5 місяців тому +4

    What is alimony? I am confused as to why you’re paying money to your ex? I understand the child support as you have the kids x

    • @OurLANDingCrew8
      @OurLANDingCrew8  5 місяців тому +5

      It’s because I make considerably more than him. It’s to give him the same lifestyle of living he had when we were married.

    • @laurascrimgeour2330
      @laurascrimgeour2330 5 місяців тому +4

      @@OurLANDingCrew8 ah got it. Am Scottish and we don’t have that over here x

    • @OurLANDingCrew8
      @OurLANDingCrew8  5 місяців тому +9

      That makes sense! Should’ve moved to Scotland 😆

    • @maritoh.6710
      @maritoh.6710 5 місяців тому +1

      Usa is crazy... why should you support him if kids are with you most of the time! ​@@OurLANDingCrew8

    • @GroundhogBaby
      @GroundhogBaby 5 місяців тому

      ​@@OurLANDingCrew8 it's still confusing to me. I thought alimony was only if the ex spouse wasn't able-bodied and isn't capable of supporting themself.

  • @sarahwhite9774
    @sarahwhite9774 5 місяців тому +2

    How many respite hours do you get a month? They only give me 40 a month and it’s rough. 😮

    • @OurLANDingCrew8
      @OurLANDingCrew8  5 місяців тому +2

      I get 65 but its per child so that’s 260 for all 4 of them, then we also get community connector and homemaker hours ❤️

    • @sarahwhite9774
      @sarahwhite9774 5 місяців тому +2

      We live in Indiana. I wish we had more resources.

    • @niebieskimotyl3308
      @niebieskimotyl3308 4 місяці тому

      We have up to 240 hrs a year in Poland, but most people don't get any

  • @Sammyrox1989
    @Sammyrox1989 4 місяці тому

    love seeing your vids you are looking good girl. people think being tested for Autism or other disabilities under 2 can't be done, Genetic testing. Even 1st year of life can show signs of autism . Anyways My daughter has special needs people thought she had Autism because she showed characteristic of it Stemming of the mouth and Spinning but she's not on the spectrum even in her genetic tests she was down as DD and now intellectual disability She 9 in grade 4 at special school i also have a 9 month old baby girl now love from Australia

  • @carriebowlen3785
    @carriebowlen3785 5 місяців тому +3

    I can tell your hair is getting super long
    I love my Autistic kids
    when kids have autism they come to me and ask me questions

    • @OurLANDingCrew8
      @OurLANDingCrew8  5 місяців тому +3

      I love that for you! And my hair are extensions

    • @carriebowlen3785
      @carriebowlen3785 5 місяців тому +2

      @@OurLANDingCrew8 you are amazing! It is amazing

  • @bettypecoraro8104
    @bettypecoraro8104 5 місяців тому

    🌺👍👍🌺

  • @tatianamatrosova8463
    @tatianamatrosova8463 5 місяців тому +1

    Did you say you paying alimony? That doesn't make sence.

    • @BlackKaida
      @BlackKaida 3 місяці тому

      The individual making the most money pays the other the difference when they divorce. It's so their standard of life can be maintained.

  • @melissaahlers5615
    @melissaahlers5615 5 місяців тому +1

    I have a special needs i do special Olympics will your younger kids do that it is fun?

  • @emeraldgypsyheart
    @emeraldgypsyheart 3 місяці тому

    How weird. You pay alimony and he pays child support. But whatever works.

    • @OurLANDingCrew8
      @OurLANDingCrew8  3 місяці тому

      I agree lol

    • @emeraldgypsyheart
      @emeraldgypsyheart 3 місяці тому

      @@OurLANDingCrew8 I didn’t mean any disrespect Sheehan or. Sorry if it came off that way.
      How is Lonnie Jr? That kid is awesome!
      You’re so amazing! As much as you have had to handle these past few years… I’ve watched since before Liam was born.

  • @awakened3651
    @awakened3651 5 місяців тому

    Semiglutide again.

  • @4everpee
    @4everpee 5 місяців тому

    No other baby please.

    • @OurLANDingCrew8
      @OurLANDingCrew8  5 місяців тому +5

      Oh man. That was on my to do list 😒

    • @4everpee
      @4everpee 5 місяців тому

      @@OurLANDingCrew8 Shame to you.

    • @candi0826
      @candi0826 5 місяців тому +3

      @@4everpeeyou know what’s shameful telling a complete stranger what they should do with their bodies. If she wanted to have tons more kids that’s on her. If she chose to never have anymore that’s also fine 😑

    • @4everpee
      @4everpee 5 місяців тому

      @@candi0826 All of her kids are very very disabled andThere is enough disabled kid in the world.

    • @sterlingmatsui154
      @sterlingmatsui154 5 місяців тому

      @@4everpee Obviously, you are not bright enough to understand sarcasm or to MYOB:(

  • @SchmidtBitch
    @SchmidtBitch 5 місяців тому +6

    Not trying to be rude, just curious. Wouldn't child support or alamoni zero the other out?

    • @OurLANDingCrew8
      @OurLANDingCrew8  5 місяців тому +5

      No because they're for two different purposes and two different amounts. This was the plan before - he wouldn't pay me child support (other than half of specific expenses for the kids) and I wouldn't pay him alimony but he changed his mind when our divorce got dismissed out of court before which is his choice. I could've gotten an attorney and fought it but it just isn't worth it to me tbh. I just want this chapter of our life closed and over.

    • @SchmidtBitch
      @SchmidtBitch 5 місяців тому

      Absolutely no judgment. I was just curious cause it kinda Seems like you guys would be giving back the money that you already gave to each other. I feel every situation has their own Set of situations and if it works best for that family, then that's the best solution. Thank you responding you've never replied to me

    • @OurLANDingCrew8
      @OurLANDingCrew8  5 місяців тому +6

      Alimony is more than child support so he “makes” money from it and will profit even more once Lonnie Jr turns 19 and doesn’t have to pay child support on him anymore as I have to pay alimony for 9 years

    • @claudiadebrida1938
      @claudiadebrida1938 5 місяців тому

      I can see why 😅

    • @GroundhogBaby
      @GroundhogBaby 5 місяців тому +2

      ​@@OurLANDingCrew8you can always go back to court and have it reassessed as each child ages out, because It won't be long before he won't be paying child support for Noah either. In reality he should have to pay longer since the kids have special needs, because you are going to have to help care for them longer after you get guardianship.