okay, important points about how many men need to behave differently...can we also please recognize how many women do similar things to men? Touch deprivation is a good example. If a mother is never affectionate to her child we call that neglect and touch-deprivation, yet when a woman refuses to touch or even be touched by her partner you call that her right even when touch deprivation has devastating psychological effects on most people. Can we agree there are misandrist women? How can we heal our society to raise happier, healthier children and improve the reality of women, men, gender expansive people, and children? We need to recognize and address each other's needs and heal our society with mutual respect.
Oh my! How times have changed! the definition of a misogynist used to mean: a man who hates women. When you water the word "hates" down to "strongly dislikes", your perception of the reality of the situation you are in with the misogynist can be way off the scales. When you come to the realization that a misogynist is ROOTED in hate towards you and NOT just a "strong dislike, you can make better mental health decisions for yourself and your future.
@@SarahSkittles1435 When a person perceives that another person "strongly dislikes" them, they may adopt beliefs and strategies to minimize the damage to their self-esteem caused by the misogynist's behavior. For instance, they might convince themselves that the dislike is not directed specifically at them, but rather extends to everyone. Consequently, they may hold onto the HOPE that once the misogynist learns to like them, their actions will change towards them. When deception becomes a source of HOPE, they employ coping mechanisms to endure the abuse. Their primary focus for the future becomes self-preservation and maintaining Hope for change. Living with this mindset, they experience waking up every day with toxic thoughts of low self-esteem and low self-worth. To add to that, their focus would be to find a way every day to appease the misogynist's anger until the day finally arrives that the misogynist finally starts liking them. Their true selves remain suppressed both at home and in public. They internalize negative beliefs about themselves and adjust their lives accordingly, enduring these conditions for an extended period of time. Sometimes for over 20 years! On the other hand: When a person comes to the realization that someone directs deep-rooted hate specifically towards them, they no longer deceive themselves by believing that the person simply hates everyone and will one day change their mind and start liking them. Instead, they cease enduring the abuse in the HOPE of a future transformation. They understand that their self-esteem and self-worth should never be dependent on someone who genuinely hates them. By acknowledging this reality, they grant themselves the opportunity to process their emotions and engage in a more effective self-evaluation. They become capable of setting boundaries, asserting their self-worth, and prioritizing their needs both in the present and for their future. With a newfound understanding, they take realistic steps towards building a life filled with genuine happiness and emotional well-being. They will know this person does not value who they are and will step out to find people who do. This shift allows them to let go of false hopes and embrace a more authentic path. They recognize that their worth is not defined by the hatred they receive, and they can move forward with a renewed sense of HOPE for a fulfilling and genuine existence.
@@Tyme4t2wow. I've just read through your comment. This is such a loving, KNOWLWDGE-filled, wise and educated writing. Thank you so very much for writing this down. Reading and understanding this makes a huge positive change in my life right now and for my future too. ❤😊And because no-one else liked this or commented on it yet, I feel it was specifically messaged through you to me from God/Universe/Source/Oneness/Consciousness itself! ❤❤❤❤ thank you ❤❤😊😊😊
This old saw. Women view their own sex like men do for the same reason the poor often see themselves through the lens of the rich. That's why consciousness raising was performed in the seventies. Women don't murder, set women alight, rape or throw acid in their face the way men have been known to do. This is an androcentric world, and one in which women unfortunately are acculturated, to adopt men's outlook on things.
Misogyny is not only that. It can be ingrained prejudice, or contempt aswell. So I can like woman as a whole and still think of them as lesser. I love dogs, although I think they are lesser than human beings.
The adoptive mother normalized rationalized and minimized the abuse I endured via the adoptive father and I ALWAYS got BLAMED for his phisical and emotionally abusive behaivours towards me! Thanks to them I've endured DV from several exes in my past and it's bcoz of that I am now a self proclaimed misandrist and my psychotic vengefuelled anger is always directed at men! Shame tbh but that's wot childhood abuse trauma does to victims!
both my mom and dad guided me and guided eachother through tough times …. There’s nothing wrong with this. It depended on the day who lead who and it depended on who needed support that day. Why can only the man be the leader. They can both lead and they can both need leading. Depends on the day.
The woman is a guide for the man. She helps him to make wise choices. The man leads his family while protecting and providing. That doesn't mean he has the last say in everything. He has a responsibility to listen to his wife. God says He will not listen to a man's prayers if he is not being a good husband.
The rate of misogyny in Africa is appalling, and the truth is it will continue to go unnoticed till we begin to tell our stories. The linens are already dirty, we might as well wash them in public.
As always, it depends on the context a lot. I never thought that my gynecologist was mansplaining my health to me. But there were instances of mansplaining. And my male boss standing next to me was far more appalled than I was.
I’m a misogynist I can genuinely and Confidently say that I hate women. I’m not gay and I’m not hurt. I just can’t think of 1 good quality or attribute to a woman besides sex. I truly don’t see value in women besides reproducing. It became hate when they scam, cheat, lie, twerk, loud etc. now I just see the things I hate in women.
"I really beleive that the man was created to lead and provide...." Laides this is where yall lose everytime. Women will with no guilt whatsoever say its a mans job to protect and provide, but when a man says its a womans job to cook and clean hes a sexist. Women EXPECT men to play thier role in relationships and most women will NOT accept otherwise. But womens role is optional and negotiable all of the sudden. Thats the issue they're having. You want to be independent but not really cuz you still expect men to take care of you. Im not on their side or saying their abuse is okay, I'm just pointing out the fact that its kinda silly to expect someone to care for you as if you cannot care for yourself and then expect to be on even playing ground with them. When a woman is having kids, thats different. But in my experience most women want men to take care of them regardless of if they currently have kids or the kids are grown or whatever. Women expect the men their men to take care of them, babies or no babies. If you believe they are supposed to serve you in this way then why is it unfair for them to expect you to serve them as well?
And I wanna add I had the term wrong the whole because I thought it meant “someone who does find interest in women” someone who can mind their business without the attraction of women” 😵😵😵
Someone else said men hate women cause they can have babies and they feel less than women cause women can and they can’t. But pregnancy isn’t valued, so why would they be jealous? Because they’d rather be pregnant and work at the same. They don’t want women? Having a baby doesn’t give you advantages? So why they jealous? What does it give to men if they can have babies? Being a parent means cleaning up for free, and having to do a lot, why they jealous of that?
It's all about power. Being able to house and bring up life is a position they would want to fill for power reasons (if any), but wouldn't be able to nurture a houseplant past day one. Being the seed bearers isn't enough for men like that. They sure as heck don't want women to have power, the power being the literal gateway of all human being in existence, and this is one thing they can't take from us no matter what they do, so of course, they gotta poo-poo on it, and regulate it in some regions to something painful, r@pey, woeful, call is co-called cursed, and hideous.
If someone is a misogynist. Then they wouldn't want anything to do with women. Because misogyny means someone who hates women. But in all honesty you shouldn't focus on trying to find what and who hates you..facts or undeniable facts.
Untrue. Misogynists get married because they have needs like any other man but they are abusive towards their wives behind closed doors...because they hate women.
There are some men who likes the body parts of women but don’t actually like women. Being educated on how to weed those men out helps for a better quality life and easier dating
@@emmie1176 he might be ignorant on the meaning of misogyny, but it does not mean he doesn't care about woman. I think men and woman misinterpret what misogyny truly means, but it does not mean they are for or against woman. I would argue that saying someone's education on a term has to do with their care for woman is more likely closer to misandry than his ignorance is closer to misogyny.
Ignore the actual definition of misogyny, it's anything men do that women don't like.....LOL Words don't matter in feminism, just make up whatever bullshit you want to suit your narrative!!!
@@calmdownsir907 since the beginning of time men always lead and women always follow..............even if women wanted to be a leader they still want to be lead
@@made.in.ja.2250 not anymore men can't really own women like how they did back then, women were force to follow men cause that's all we could do, women now a days can be single moms, own businesses and but a part of the government council, etc so I wouldn't really say back then or now it's men "leading" women it's really them controlling women
Have you seen the internet lately? All men do is cry and whine while they keep repeating the same mistakes. Men have become just as bad as Feminists. Lacking self awareness in the damage they've contributed too.
Men are entitled to view woman's sexual attributes as the paramount value in a relationship. Sexism is part of reality. A man that sees a woman as recreational use only is sexist. A woman that sees men as a security resource is sexist. Why is that a problem? People are allowed to view others any way they want in the domain of relationships. It's different to treat woman like a sexual object in any other circumstance, but in the sexual marketplace, it's normal. Woman have no problem judging men on their ambition, confidence, social calibration, and independence. Why can't a man judge a woman on her sexual promiscuity?
@@sampl7117 I think women see men's stability/ earning capacity as a necessary part of leaving the workforce to have a family. It's extremely difficult to balance both - or regain your career/ income.
If your man's role model is Andrew Tate ,you know you are in trouble.
👏👏👏 Then they wonder why life is working out for them.
where are all the actually male role model yall failed your kids i tried to help my nephew but
Yikes I think my bf likes all this guy's videos. I believe he even sent some to me as examples of how women are or how I should be. 😮
Or Kevin Samuels
@danyelleorr-mcneil4711
Scamuels was taken out
for a reason
This is the 21st century. There is no excuse for any man to treat a woman like this as if it were 1950. Actually, it wasn't right in 1950 either.
okay, important points about how many men need to behave differently...can we also please recognize how many women do similar things to men? Touch deprivation is a good example. If a mother is never affectionate to her child we call that neglect and touch-deprivation, yet when a woman refuses to touch or even be touched by her partner you call that her right even when touch deprivation has devastating psychological effects on most people. Can we agree there are misandrist women? How can we heal our society to raise happier, healthier children and improve the reality of women, men, gender expansive people, and children? We need to recognize and address each other's needs and heal our society with mutual respect.
Oh my! How times have changed! the definition of a misogynist used to mean: a man who hates women. When you water the word "hates" down to "strongly dislikes", your perception of the reality of the situation you are in with the misogynist can be way off the scales. When you come to the realization that a misogynist is ROOTED in hate towards you and NOT just a "strong dislike, you can make better mental health decisions for yourself and your future.
I couldn't agree more. Having the right perceptive on any matter places you in a position to make better choices.
In sorry, could you please give an example on how it would change things to make this distinction between hate and strong dislike? I'm really curious.
@@SarahSkittles1435 When a person perceives that another person "strongly dislikes" them, they may adopt beliefs and strategies to minimize the damage to their self-esteem caused by the misogynist's behavior. For instance, they might convince themselves that the dislike is not directed specifically at them, but rather extends to everyone. Consequently, they may hold onto the HOPE that once the misogynist learns to like them, their actions will change towards them. When deception becomes a source of HOPE, they employ coping mechanisms to endure the abuse. Their primary focus for the future becomes self-preservation and maintaining Hope for change.
Living with this mindset, they experience waking up every day with toxic thoughts of low self-esteem and low self-worth. To add to that, their focus would be to find a way every day to appease the misogynist's anger until the day finally arrives that the misogynist finally starts liking them. Their true selves remain suppressed both at home and in public. They internalize negative beliefs about themselves and adjust their lives accordingly, enduring these conditions for an extended period of time. Sometimes for over 20 years!
On the other hand: When a person comes to the realization that someone directs deep-rooted hate specifically towards them, they no longer deceive themselves by believing that the person simply hates everyone and will one day change their mind and start liking them. Instead, they cease enduring the abuse in the HOPE of a future transformation. They understand that their self-esteem and self-worth should never be dependent on someone who genuinely hates them.
By acknowledging this reality, they grant themselves the opportunity to process their emotions and engage in a more effective self-evaluation. They become capable of setting boundaries, asserting their self-worth, and prioritizing their needs both in the present and for their future. With a newfound understanding, they take realistic steps towards building a life filled with genuine happiness and emotional well-being. They will know this person does not value who they are and will step out to find people who do.
This shift allows them to let go of false hopes and embrace a more authentic path. They recognize that their worth is not defined by the hatred they receive, and they can move forward with a renewed sense of HOPE for a fulfilling and genuine existence.
@@Tyme4t2wow. I've just read through your comment. This is such a loving, KNOWLWDGE-filled, wise and educated writing. Thank you so very much for writing this down. Reading and understanding this makes a huge positive change in my life right now and for my future too. ❤😊And because no-one else liked this or commented on it yet, I feel it was specifically messaged through you to me from God/Universe/Source/Oneness/Consciousness itself! ❤❤❤❤ thank you ❤❤😊😊😊
Misogyny is a hatred of women. Both men and women can be misogynistic.
This old saw. Women view their own sex like men do for the same reason the poor often see themselves through the lens of the rich. That's why consciousness raising was performed in the seventies. Women don't murder, set women alight, rape or throw acid in their face the way men have been known to do. This is an androcentric world, and one in which women unfortunately are acculturated, to adopt men's outlook on things.
Misogyny is not only that. It can be ingrained prejudice, or contempt aswell. So I can like woman as a whole and still think of them as lesser. I love dogs, although I think they are lesser than human beings.
@@sampl7117Dude, that's so cold.
@@Kelle0284 I'm a doggist
Women are misandrist
When a word is misused, abused, and misunderstood, it looses its value
A woman cannot be a misogynist? This is disgusting
The adoptive mother normalized rationalized and minimized the abuse I endured via the adoptive father and I ALWAYS got BLAMED for his phisical and emotionally abusive behaivours towards me! Thanks to them I've endured DV from several exes in my past and it's bcoz of that I am now a self proclaimed misandrist and my psychotic vengefuelled anger is always directed at men! Shame tbh but that's wot childhood abuse trauma does to victims!
both my mom and dad guided me and guided eachother through tough times …. There’s nothing wrong with this. It depended on the day who lead who and it depended on who needed support that day. Why can only the man be the leader. They can both lead and they can both need leading. Depends on the day.
The woman is a guide for the man. She helps him to make wise choices. The man leads his family while protecting and providing. That doesn't mean he has the last say in everything. He has a responsibility to listen to his wife. God says He will not listen to a man's prayers if he is not being a good husband.
The rate of misogyny in Africa is appalling, and the truth is it will continue to go unnoticed till we begin to tell our stories.
The linens are already dirty, we might as well wash them in public.
it is NOT misogyny when a man disagrees with a woman, comments on her health, or explains things.
U clearly don't know what misogyny is.
As always, it depends on the context a lot. I never thought that my gynecologist was mansplaining my health to me. But there were instances of mansplaining. And my male boss standing next to me was far more appalled than I was.
Ofc it didn't duh you need listen but she's saying when he disagrees with a women because she's a women is wrong
@@joannajung9279 Your male boss was standing next to you when you were speaking to your gynecologist about your health? What?
Duh nigga
AMEN!
I wish people would stop watering down the word misogyny. It originates from Greek and LITERALLY means 'hate women'.
Misogyny is a problem
Feminism is a problem
Turns toxic at 3:20 :(
Thank you for addressing this topic
They open their mouth
This relationship expert isn't an expert at all. Women can lead themselves.
Yeah women can lead themselves to their own demise and then blame men for not protecting them. Theez broads just say anything lord smh 🤦🏻♀️
@@95Everan you are the misogynistic broad.
@@95Everan Says the misogynist with 'boss' as part of his moniker.
@@Dory8 and ???? You must be a woman because your good at NOT making sense or a point 🙄.
I’m a misogynist I can genuinely and Confidently say that I hate women. I’m not gay and I’m not hurt. I just can’t think of 1 good quality or attribute to a woman besides sex. I truly don’t see value in women besides reproducing. It became hate when they scam, cheat, lie, twerk, loud etc. now I just see the things I hate in women.
signs to know a wemon is crazy
WEMON LMAO
The way you d*** eMons get creative with insults is what is repulsive
Alone*
"I really beleive that the man was created to lead and provide...."
Laides this is where yall lose everytime. Women will with no guilt whatsoever say its a mans job to protect and provide, but when a man says its a womans job to cook and clean hes a sexist. Women EXPECT men to play thier role in relationships and most women will NOT accept otherwise. But womens role is optional and negotiable all of the sudden. Thats the issue they're having. You want to be independent but not really cuz you still expect men to take care of you. Im not on their side or saying their abuse is okay, I'm just pointing out the fact that its kinda silly to expect someone to care for you as if you cannot care for yourself and then expect to be on even playing ground with them. When a woman is having kids, thats different. But in my experience most women want men to take care of them regardless of if they currently have kids or the kids are grown or whatever. Women expect the men their men to take care of them, babies or no babies. If you believe they are supposed to serve you in this way then why is it unfair for them to expect you to serve them as well?
And I wanna add I had the term wrong the whole because I thought it meant “someone who does find interest in women” someone who can mind their business without the attraction of women”
😵😵😵
So women cant be misogynistic?
To be a skinhead, a misogynist, in the KKK, a Nazi, or misandrist all = the exact same thing.
Cowardly copouts for the weak/lowbrow set.
What about men who say y'all women this and y'all women that often?
They are probably southerners. LOL.
Managing misogyny in a spouse? Divorce him.
Someone else said men hate women cause they can have babies and they feel less than women cause women can and they can’t. But pregnancy isn’t valued, so why would they be jealous? Because they’d rather be pregnant and work at the same. They don’t want women? Having a baby doesn’t give you advantages? So why they jealous? What does it give to men if they can have babies? Being a parent means cleaning up for free, and having to do a lot, why they jealous of that?
It's all about power. Being able to house and bring up life is a position they would want to fill for power reasons (if any), but wouldn't be able to nurture a houseplant past day one. Being the seed bearers isn't enough for men like that. They sure as heck don't want women to have power, the power being the literal gateway of all human being in existence, and this is one thing they can't take from us no matter what they do, so of course, they gotta poo-poo on it, and regulate it in some regions to something painful, r@pey, woeful, call is co-called cursed, and hideous.
I've always thought misogyny was outright hatred of women. Are there degrees? Can misogyny be nuanced?
Absolutely! Women can sense subtle control and or sense of unsafety from a man.
If someone is a misogynist. Then they wouldn't want anything to do with women. Because misogyny means someone who hates women. But in all honesty you shouldn't focus on trying to find what and who hates you..facts or undeniable facts.
Untrue. Misogynists get married because they have needs like any other man but they are abusive towards their wives behind closed doors...because they hate women.
Try educating yourself and assessing your own behavior critically Alkebulan, if you care about women it would help greatly
A misogynist puts up with women in order to use them. Misogynists are often narcissistic and sociopaths.
There are some men who likes the body parts of women but don’t actually like women. Being educated on how to weed those men out helps for a better quality life and easier dating
@@emmie1176 he might be ignorant on the meaning of misogyny, but it does not mean he doesn't care about woman. I think men and woman misinterpret what misogyny truly means, but it does not mean they are for or against woman.
I would argue that saying someone's education on a term has to do with their care for woman is more likely closer to misandry than his ignorance is closer to misogyny.
Fellas want your woman to submit make her sign a bdsm contract!
Don’t forget to give that broad a pre-nup if u get married
If a woman doesn’t submit to you she doesn’t respect you. Why don’t women respect you?
It's hypothetical
Ignore the actual definition of misogyny, it's anything men do that women don't like.....LOL Words don't matter in feminism, just make up whatever bullshit you want to suit your narrative!!!
Sign #1. He doesn't agree with all of your beliefs. Damn feminists.....
nitty
They just say anything an Never really think things out . Women just make me sick when they talk bra ughh
@@95Everan scratter
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Thanks, now Im a better misogynist. Stay toxic kings👑
Thanks now i know how bad chad community is, stay king. ✨
@@first761 Thank you, king. You're the first
Go date men and leave women alone. Bastard.
Im masculene strait russian male im support Tate
Is this nor woman splaneing lol..
Men lead....... women follow
That's wrong and women and men lead now a days it's not 1950 anymore
@@calmdownsir907 nah
@@calmdownsir907 since the beginning of time men always lead and women always follow..............even if women wanted to be a leader they still want to be lead
@@slimxafton yah
@@made.in.ja.2250 not anymore men can't really own women like how they did back then, women were force to follow men cause that's all we could do, women now a days can be single moms, own businesses and but a part of the government council, etc so I wouldn't really say back then or now it's men "leading" women it's really them controlling women
Y'all want things go your way.......through the female lens Y'all see things through alonr
We been treated wrong for thousands of years and the one time we want to be treated right and equally were wrong?
@@calmdownsir907 WE ARE NOT THE SAME!!!!!
@@calmdownsir907 plus most females like it when guys treat them bad
@@made.in.ja.2250 Who hurt you in life? You need Jesus.
@@saltycat662 lol wow ............I'm good.........Allah is on my side☪️☪️
You never see this on the opposite spectrum.....bc we just don't give af. But go ahead, y'all can go on ahead and talk about nothin'.
Because we're always hated on
Have you seen the internet lately? All men do is cry and whine while they keep repeating the same mistakes. Men have become just as bad as Feminists. Lacking self awareness in the damage they've contributed too.
Lol there is no such thing as mansplaining
Capppp get tiktok
@@calmdownsir907 lol seriously........tiktok is trash and I don't use it at all
True. It's simply called "Manipulation".
misogeny is justified.
*Misogyny. But yeah, I agree. It is supported by science, after all. Anyone who thinks otherwise is just denying reality.
@@OzzyNe0n If you hate women. Go marry a man instead.
@@OzzyNe0n why tho? We just want to be treated fairly?
@@calmdownsir907 They're ungodly men who will be rotting in Hell one day. Don't pay mind to them.
Go for it, - womanslaine it to us???
I think you meant womansplain. I can help you with that. What part of the video your little brain couldn't comprehend?
Men are entitled to view woman's sexual attributes as the paramount value in a relationship. Sexism is part of reality. A man that sees a woman as recreational use only is sexist. A woman that sees men as a security resource is sexist. Why is that a problem? People are allowed to view others any way they want in the domain of relationships. It's different to treat woman like a sexual object in any other circumstance, but in the sexual marketplace, it's normal. Woman have no problem judging men on their ambition, confidence, social calibration, and independence. Why can't a man judge a woman on her sexual promiscuity?
Lol. You fool.
@@Light-jc3fj why?
@@sampl7117 apologies, re my reply...just read it and it was bit rude. I can't stand men with double standards, which is what she was implying.
@@Light-jc3fj I understand, I was just saying there are double standards for men and woman. That's it lol not trying to start a fight haha.
@@sampl7117 I think women see men's stability/ earning capacity as a necessary part of leaving the workforce to have a family. It's extremely difficult to balance both - or regain your career/ income.