the "why are you so sensitive?" question gets me more angry when I'm not on my period tbh like "No, I'm not on my period, can't I just feel and express that I’m angry/upset/frustrated/emotional WHEN I AM angry/upset/frustrated/emotional??"
When you get older it doesn't get any better. Guys switch from blaming your period, to blaming menopause, whether or not you are actually menopausal. 🤬 It's basically gaslighting and learned misogyny.
@@Anacaona4 Honestly I don't like that as a joke. I like humor, but it's not really funny enough to blurt out even. It actually pisses me off to hear tasteless jokes more than something offensive directed at me. I'd rather an insult than a bad joke. Hah
I got this a lot from my dad when I was younger and every time I would SheHulk out...now he's smart enough to discretely ask my mom rather than make a smartass remark to my face😈 just because I have a 'b!tchy' personality and hotheaded temper does NOT mean I am constantly 'on the rag', it just means that stupid people shouldn't mess with me for their own safety and my own sanity!
Questions I've been asked: 1. "Are you virgin?" 2. My aunt actually asked me this one, "why don't you wear makeup and dress like other girls" I told her *"well I'm me and they're them."* 3. "Why are you still single?" I think I'm the only one from all my friends from high school who is still single. Most of them already have kids and married. I know some people are honestly curious, while others are kind of mocking. But the way they ask sometimes seems so insulting and rude.
Yes am me and they are them why am I still single I told the class and kinda of single and the question for if u are still a virgin gets me I always tell that person its my private life no sharing Such information
@@doreenbayoa3829 There's nothing wrong with being a virgin and I hate people who make it seem like there is. Just cuz you've decided to throw your virginity away doesn't mean I also have to follow blindly🤷
I’ve had the whole “You have wide hips. It’d probably be easy for you to give birth.” Listen, all the women on my mom’s side of the family have wide hips and every single one of them had difficult births. Labour lasting days, epidurals, last minute C-sections, etc. Things WAY WORSE but I don’t want my comment blocked. Its not just the hips, it’s how you’re built on the inside, the size of the baby, etc. There’s SO MANY things that can go wrong. Also I don’t want to have kids and the assumption that every woman wants kids is so antiquated.
This is true for my family too. My mum was really slim and petite with small hips, and she was the only one out of all her sisters to give birth naturally. It really has no correlation! People have no idea 🤦♀️ Like you said so many other factors come into it. I don't want children and haaaaate all of the assumption comments, like its any of their business what I want to do with my own body.
The lighting IN THIS VIDEO IS FUCKING GORGEOUS! Such an important subject and such a beautifully filmed video! My god, the beauty of Seung Woo in this video is absolutely boundless!
Seungwoo seems like he is the sweetest person. I really enjoyed today's video. I got so annoyed that seolhwa friends would comment on her weight. She is amazing the way she is 🥰
Very important conversation between Seolhwa, Seungwoo, Byungeun on aspect of sexism. Seolhwa pointed out the fat-shaming and questions about her body that are inappropriate. The guys related their own experiences with body shaming and learned how we can be sexist without realizing. Feel like everyone learned something. That’s why Awesome World is awesome!
It’s the same everywhere. I got marry at age 25. Before that people will ask me when will I get married. After I got married people will ask when will I have kids. I waited five years to have my first and only child till now. The same day my son was born I had family members asking me when will I have my second child 🙄 I was so fed up I told them that my dream of been a mother have been fulfilled. But if they offer to babysit and support my child I will have a another one. ( I of curse want to have another baby, but is not that easy for me as people expect). People should learn to mind their business.
Thank you for making my world better! All of you at Awesome World put in so much hard work, and it really shows with the amount of great content you provide.
Asking someone why theyre sensitive, if theyre on their period, etc etc is such a dismissive thing to do. It's literally blaming them for not being happy with you. If you ever ask those questions, know that its your actions that is the problem and you're being a butthead.
@@Anacaona4 It's not even really gaslighting. It's just being dismissive. It just so happens to also make out that the only reason someone could be upset is because theyre sensitive or on their period. Its not a 'I'm going to make you believe this is your fault' gaslighting attempt, its a 'I'm not going to recognise your feelings as valid because thats hard so I'm going to brush them aside with an immature and pigheaded statement'.
i loved it! love all three, and love the fact that each video Byungeun seems much more open-minded and mature. I really enjoyed, really loved it. I want more videos 💗 Lots of love to Seolhwa, Seungwoo, Byungeun and the whole awesome world group
I think the most annoying question that people ask me is like they always start with "you are very active, what do you do in a day?" And I'll be like "yeah, I go to the gym, I run, I walk 20K steps and I do yoga daily." And they will be like "then why you don't lose weight?" And I'm like 😐 That topic have been stressing me for like a 5 years now. I can run, I can ride a bike in long distances, I can lift weights, I can do splits, I can walk 25km in a day but all that narrows to the final results in people's mind: that I'm not losing weight in the process.
@@16poetisa you can't even imagine how many times I got that question and like in my mind I know that they are not completely right but that question always lowers my self esteem, I feel like what ever I do it will never be enough....
I hope people understand that motherhood is not for everyone, and babies deserve people who love/want them. I am one of those who does not want to have a child, as seolhwa is, i am also a tattooed and have different hair colors everytime (so you can also see why ppl around me think differently most of the time, i am raised in a christian household and conservative community), and being 27 and single, it is really is annoying being asked things about marriage and babies when it is far from your goals as of the moment. but the sadder thing about this is, it always comes from people within your family/
The dumbest question as a women that I been ask is. Are you afraid to ruin your body? It’s that why you don’t have any kids? That was before my son was born, little did that rude person know, that I was having problem conceiving; because of my stressful job. The stress was affecting me. The moment I went on holiday , stress free, my husband and I were able to thank God conceive.
Today's video topic was really good. I'd like to lay down what I felt about some of the comments they discussed.. 1. About the babies: actually having a baby or not after marriage is actually something very personal to the couple who are married. I think it should not be a concern of a third party to be worried about it. It could be that they aren't ready to have one, may be they don't want to or maybe they are dealing with something.. it doesn't matter. However I find it really offensive. 2. About being pretty and dating a lot; like byungeun oppa said it could be a compliment.. but it's slightly offensive too.. i think it's a 'sugar coated rude comment' coz.. saying that you are pretty is okay... but having dated a lot could be coz it's as if they go dating around whoever is attracted towards them bcs of their beauty.. it kind of gives that vibe... specially in South Asian countries where its yet more Conservative dating a lot is really seen as if the girl sleeps around with people... (not that it's different for the boys yet it's stricter towards the girls) Like they said it's best if people mind their own businesses... its good that u show interest but trying to be too involved is offensive and could be too stressful to the person.
Seol Hwa is literally one of the prettiest girls I've ever seen, literally stunning and gorgeous. Never let anyone ever tell you otherwise, unnie!! 💖💖💖
4:42 My relatives and friends are always reminding me to sit like a lady but I ignore them. Their words come in my head from one ear and go out from the other.
After watching this video. Now I would love to see Soelhwa in her natural self, without any restriction of words/attitude😂😂. I feel so relate to her and would like to see some of that on youtube lol.
The "You should not go out at night, it's dangerous" was really triggering to me when you have a twin brother who's allowed to stay out at night, go partying and drinking while you can't cross the street to the park IN BROAD DAYLIGHT because you're a girl
I like that SeolHwa is no longer just being featured because of her beauty. She's got some amazing insight. I especially appreciated her comments about not wanting children. I don't know where I stand with that myself, so it's nice to hear someone reaffirm that, should I decide not to become a mother, I'm not a bad or selfish person. Only think that irked me about this vid was the "you're approaching 30. Time for marriage." THIRTY! I'm now OVER thirty and very few of my friends and family are married. Let's push this number up to 40 or 45. lol Anyway, applause all around for another fine vid.
*I’am shocked to see this was only 1yr ago. It is a shame to see these normal Q’s are deemed - Worst Q’s for a woman. In the olden days talking about periods etc was a taboo subject. Which is a basic normality, hence it’s spoken about freely in many countries. Although I’am aware in South Korea there’s a large lack of awareness in too many sectors & as a psych that saddens me. For those whom are trying to normalise this issue at hand, are truly admirable. There’s zero reason to why men can’t talk about it, without feeling like their committing a crime. There’s many strong, independent, inspirational, admirable woman in the world. Whom are also “Realists” meaning they do not turn such scenarios into a negative spectacle. Instead embrace the moment, open the floor for conversation. Which plays a big role in moving forward from the orthodox times. Not the best tittle to label all women with this overly super sensitive brush. We are living in 2024, ironically people/countries talk about equal rights, raising awareness, breaking the toxic taboo culture, moving forward with the times etc. Yet make massive issues out of basic conversation. How do people expect to progress with this mindset. MH is totally covered up there. When I go for charitable work, families ask me & my colleagues to visit late at night to people don’t see & if anyone asks please say your tourists asking people questions. They suffer in silence behind closed doors, as if what people think is more of a priority/important than getting their loved ones the medical help they need to heal & live a happy healthy life again. I have made it a personal goal of mine to go SK yearly until we have a breakthrough with their medical sector. The working class citizens must be provided with assessable clinics. SK has had the highest % of abortion rates, MH related S for too many years now. What angers people & understandably so. On top of all challenges, when someone commits S. People then start crying & wondering why they did it & they could’ve just talked to us. 1 life lost, is 1 life too many. Then people go back to their old lives. Making zero changes to help prevent such tragedies. Statistics do not lie, SK statistics unfortunately have continued to rise yearly on a extreme concerning level. Gut wrenching to say the least on a high level. I meet so many people who say they want change x,y,z. Yet don’t put their money where their mouth is. Sending much love to all from🇬🇧Remember it’s ok not to be ok & if your struggling please seek help asap ~ Prof V* *P.s Apologies for all grammar errors, I’am currently on the road. Hence using auto voice typing.*
I'm worried that many girls think that they can only have two meals a day so they won't get bullied like that... please don't skip your meals, enjoy them and tell those people to mind their own damn business! it's not a crime to gain weight, I just hate when people feel so entitled to tell you what they think about your body or what you should look like. I know every culture is diferent, but two meals a day seems a bit extreme to me... take care, everyone, it was a great video and it gives me hope to see young men like them also agreeing on how rude those questions are towards women, we stan some respectful kings :) and SeolHwa, girl, you look amazing as always, so don't listen to those who call you nasty names! stay healthy!
I can totally relate with weight gain and dressing too sexy. I gained a little weight by being on the birth control shot because of a medical condition. Then i was diagnosed with R.A and prescription gave me hips. Dating and society make it difficult
I'm a single woman in my mid 20s and I hear this quite a lot: "You're so beautiful, why are you still single?" to be honest it doesn't feel like a compliment for me. I do admit that I'm not bad looking, but it's kinda annoying when someone says that to me. So you say, only beautiful women are all taken while the ugly ones are all single??? "beautiful" women can be single too, you know?? And who are you to say that someone is beautiful or ugly? Stop judging people, pleaseeee!!!
It stresses me out that I have to divide my time between reading subtitles and looking at Seungwoo's beautifully proportioned, gorgeous beautiful delicious face oh gOD
@@taoist32 nah..im not a fanatical creep or some obsessed fanboy. I can wait patiently for the next appearance. I just like saying nice things about folks sometimes.
Any question related to babies piss me the hell off. I feel like asking "when are you gonna have babies?", without even knowing if I want them, makes it look like a woman's only here to have children, nothing else. And if you say you don't want them, the shock! I especially hate when they ask young girls about it. 👺
Love SeolHwa! I think she’s a great role model for today’s modern society in Korea. She should really have more focus bcuz it’s really refreshing to see. ❤
periods are normal I dont know why these boys and girls are making this so sensitive . I have remembered , lot of my guy friends helped me during my periods and not making it a sensitive and humiliating topic.
heyyyy! don't give up, fightinggg~ i have my bad days as well, some days are reeeeeally hard but this week things are actually very chill and happy?! i'm sure your better days will come as well! sending you lots of good energy
Some of these questions, if they are all coming from men, sounds more like a culture to culture influence thing to me. They might sound weird but not necessarily offensive.
Even if the reason for my sensitive mood is my period, I don’t want the person to comment on it. I mean duh, when I’m in horrible pain, having to worry about leaking blood and have to constantly fear a collapse, while still trying to act somewhat normal- yes I’m going to be in a bad mood?! But I could also be in a bad mood for another reason so why do some people always think they have to comment on this?!
She is much more open minded and relaxed then any girl I have dated, but there are still those questions that are going to get the "Do you want to die" glare. lol
Tbh.. "You should dress like a girl or boys wouldn't like you" I get that from my classmates NGL... My parents support me in my style my AESTHETIC (tomboy).. even though we have uniforms in school, there are particular times when you don't have to wear a uniform... Or like you're doing a get together with yr classmates ... Or like yeah like hanging out with yr frnds- and all ..... I mean.. y'all get it... Right? So.... I dun really dress all that girly stuff, my hair is also in a tomboy cut.. even tho my besties support me... They even tell me "Gurl! M jealous of you, how in the world can u pull of being a girl and a guy!?! Yr just perfect!" And encouraging things.. but my classmates are totally against it.... One of my classmates once told me "Don't you think you should try wearing like a skirt or.... Like tanktops? I mean wearing a shirt which looks like you stole from your dad and wearing these jeans which almost reaches your toes is just a little... Too much NGL..." Is this fair PPL? No! I think everyone should have freedom in what they want to be!
oooooh SeolHwa smile bring me real joy... what a wonderfull smile🖤 maybe someday i catch her or the korean streets and tell her about it... but now im just leave this message here😏
why peoples are being so conservative even in developed country like south korea? I think I have enough right in country like india so that i have never heard words like sit like a boy or do this do that...
My family tells me I'm getting too old to have children, lol, I just say " well, you don't have to worry about me then, I'm in no rush." I'm 36. Or I can be a little rude and say "then you have one"
On the "Lose weight" question, My mom often calls me chubby so I try to lose weight and belly fat by not eating much, doing chores, and dancing. But when I try to go on a diet, my older siblings say that I shouldn't because if I don't eat well then my health will be in trouble. These days, I was told to eat light food than heavy food, in which for me, it's a good thing because I don't want to get a stomachache.
I'm commenting from my husbands account lol but where I live it is more common to get married in your young 20s and have a baby soon after. I got married when I was 24 and had my baby when I turned 25 I am 26 now. I kind of wanted to have my babies young because I know that fertility drops when you are older and all of that IVF stuff is expensive so I would rather not deal with that
Heck...I thought the girl was Sulli for a second😭❤️ I love Sulli so much and that girl is gorgeous 😍 I love her hair colour, her smile and eyes they're pretty
Not only fat shaming, you should also add thin body shaming (I don't know if there is exact word for this) I always hear " you are too thin. You should eat well" , " if you are too skinny, it will be a problem after marriage (to have baby)" , " eat well, otherwise it will be difficult to search a match for you" , " if you gain little more weight, you will look beautiful" What the heck I might be skinny, but I am not a patient. Why should I try hard to gain weight when I am healthy? Just to please others? It is really very very annoying.
I think one of the most beautiful things in life are the differences between men and women, I don’t think we should get rid of all of them in the name of everyone being the same. We should celebrate our differences but at the same time if the sexes want to have some cross over thats fine too
“You have wide hips. It’d probably be easy for you to give birth.”This statement is weirdly objectifiying women as if they are only capable for pregnancy . Its none of your business whether a woman will have kids or not.
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the "why are you so sensitive?" question gets me more angry when I'm not on my period tbh
like "No, I'm not on my period, can't I just feel and express that I’m angry/upset/frustrated/emotional WHEN I AM angry/upset/frustrated/emotional??"
FRRR IT MAKES ME SOOO ANGRY
When you get older it doesn't get any better. Guys switch from blaming your period, to blaming menopause, whether or not you are actually menopausal. 🤬 It's basically gaslighting and learned misogyny.
You're being hysterical. Jkjkjk lol 😂💚💙💛
@@Anacaona4 Honestly I don't like that as a joke. I like humor, but it's not really funny enough to blurt out even. It actually pisses me off to hear tasteless jokes more than something offensive directed at me. I'd rather an insult than a bad joke. Hah
I got this a lot from my dad when I was younger and every time I would SheHulk out...now he's smart enough to discretely ask my mom rather than make a smartass remark to my face😈 just because I have a 'b!tchy' personality and hotheaded temper does NOT mean I am constantly 'on the rag', it just means that stupid people shouldn't mess with me for their own safety and my own sanity!
i love how seolhwa kind of became from a model in most of these videos to being a part of the regular cast, her personality's great
The guys already know SeolHwa that well to say ‘Dont curse, you shouldn’t curse’ 😂
That was so funny to watch😂
Questions I've been asked:
1. "Are you virgin?"
2. My aunt actually asked me this one, "why don't you wear makeup and dress like other girls" I told her *"well I'm me and they're them."*
3. "Why are you still single?" I think I'm the only one from all my friends from high school who is still single. Most of them already have kids and married.
I know some people are honestly curious, while others are kind of mocking. But the way they ask sometimes seems so insulting and rude.
Are you? 🙂
jk I don't want to know 😂
Yes am me and they are them why am I still single I told the class and kinda of single and the question for if u are still a virgin gets me I always tell that person its my private life no sharing Such information
Coz when u say u are a virgin its like u have committed a crime I would rather lie to them end of story
@@doreenbayoa3829 There's nothing wrong with being a virgin and I hate people who make it seem like there is. Just cuz you've decided to throw your virginity away doesn't mean I also have to follow blindly🤷
@@Terminario I agree just that we have different choices
I’ve had the whole “You have wide hips. It’d probably be easy for you to give birth.” Listen, all the women on my mom’s side of the family have wide hips and every single one of them had difficult births. Labour lasting days, epidurals, last minute C-sections, etc. Things WAY WORSE but I don’t want my comment blocked. Its not just the hips, it’s how you’re built on the inside, the size of the baby, etc. There’s SO MANY things that can go wrong. Also I don’t want to have kids and the assumption that every woman wants kids is so antiquated.
The assumption that every woman should risk their lives to have kids is honestly offensive and almost sadistic
This is true for my family too. My mum was really slim and petite with small hips, and she was the only one out of all her sisters to give birth naturally. It really has no correlation! People have no idea 🤦♀️ Like you said so many other factors come into it.
I don't want children and haaaaate all of the assumption comments, like its any of their business what I want to do with my own body.
@@laurenh6668 I agree with url.....and i was like so I'm not the only one who doesn't want kids 😅😅
Same here bruhh
Periods are enough for me to bear it ...
The lighting IN THIS VIDEO IS FUCKING GORGEOUS! Such an important subject and such a beautifully filmed video! My god, the beauty of Seung Woo in this video is absolutely boundless!
Seungwoo seems like he is the sweetest person. I really enjoyed today's video. I got so annoyed that seolhwa friends would comment on her weight. She is amazing the way she is 🥰
Very important conversation between Seolhwa, Seungwoo, Byungeun on aspect of sexism. Seolhwa pointed out the fat-shaming and questions about her body that are inappropriate. The guys related their own experiences with body shaming and learned how we can be sexist without realizing. Feel like everyone learned something.
That’s why Awesome World is awesome!
Those two guys are absolutely precious..so polite and understanding! Loved this episode! And SeolHwa is gorgeous!
It’s the same everywhere. I got marry at age 25. Before that people will ask me when will I get married. After I got married people will ask when will I have kids. I waited five years to have my first and only child till now. The same day my son was born I had family members asking me when will I have my second child 🙄 I was so fed up I told them that my dream of been a mother have been fulfilled. But if they offer to babysit and support my child I will have a another one. ( I of curse want to have another baby, but is not that easy for me as people expect). People should learn to mind their business.
Who's up for byungeun's primary school photo ? 🖐️
Only if its his choice to show it. He may not want to
SeolHwa really be sayin the quiet parts out loud and the guys' faces have me crackin up 😆
Thank you for making my world better! All of you at Awesome World put in so much hard work, and it really shows with the amount of great content you provide.
Asking someone why theyre sensitive, if theyre on their period, etc etc is such a dismissive thing to do. It's literally blaming them for not being happy with you. If you ever ask those questions, know that its your actions that is the problem and you're being a butthead.
It's gaslighting.
@@Anacaona4 It's not even really gaslighting. It's just being dismissive. It just so happens to also make out that the only reason someone could be upset is because theyre sensitive or on their period. Its not a 'I'm going to make you believe this is your fault' gaslighting attempt, its a 'I'm not going to recognise your feelings as valid because thats hard so I'm going to brush them aside with an immature and pigheaded statement'.
@@sinbeforegød It definitely isnt just friends or partners that says dismissive statements like that
thanks for telling, I'm too dense for this I was a bit confused at first but I finally got it, so Once again I'm very Thankful
i loved it! love all three, and love the fact that each video Byungeun seems much more open-minded and mature. I really enjoyed, really loved it. I want more videos 💗 Lots of love to Seolhwa, Seungwoo, Byungeun and the whole awesome world group
I think the most annoying question that people ask me is like they always start with "you are very active, what do you do in a day?" And I'll be like "yeah, I go to the gym, I run, I walk 20K steps and I do yoga daily." And they will be like "then why you don't lose weight?" And I'm like 😐
That topic have been stressing me for like a 5 years now. I can run, I can ride a bike in long distances, I can lift weights, I can do splits, I can walk 25km in a day but all that narrows to the final results in people's mind: that I'm not losing weight in the process.
They seriously can't even be impressed and compliment you on being so fit? Damn.
@@16poetisa They'd rather focus on the negative than the positive, wow.
@@16poetisa you can't even imagine how many times I got that question and like in my mind I know that they are not completely right but that question always lowers my self esteem, I feel like what ever I do it will never be enough....
@@princesserika9899 you are completely right
The most annoying question to ask any girl is "Why don't you smile more?".
I hope people understand that motherhood is not for everyone, and babies deserve people who love/want them. I am one of those who does not want to have a child, as seolhwa is, i am also a tattooed and have different hair colors everytime (so you can also see why ppl around me think differently most of the time, i am raised in a christian household and conservative community), and being 27 and single, it is really is annoying being asked things about marriage and babies when it is far from your goals as of the moment. but the sadder thing about this is, it always comes from people within your family/
The dumbest question as a women that I been ask is. Are you afraid to ruin your body? It’s that why you don’t have any kids?
That was before my son was born, little did that rude person know, that I was having problem conceiving; because of my stressful job. The stress was affecting me. The moment I went on holiday , stress free, my husband and I were able to thank God conceive.
Today's video topic was really good.
I'd like to lay down what I felt about some of the comments they discussed..
1. About the babies: actually having a baby or not after marriage is actually something very personal to the couple who are married. I think it should not be a concern of a third party to be worried about it. It could be that they aren't ready to have one, may be they don't want to or maybe they are dealing with something.. it doesn't matter. However I find it really offensive.
2. About being pretty and dating a lot; like byungeun oppa said it could be a compliment.. but it's slightly offensive too.. i think it's a 'sugar coated rude comment' coz.. saying that you are pretty is okay... but having dated a lot could be coz it's as if they go dating around whoever is attracted towards them bcs of their beauty.. it kind of gives that vibe... specially in South Asian countries where its yet more Conservative dating a lot is really seen as if the girl sleeps around with people... (not that it's different for the boys yet it's stricter towards the girls)
Like they said it's best if people mind their own businesses... its good that u show interest but trying to be too involved is offensive and could be too stressful to the person.
6:25-6:33 I relate to her so much with this!! I hate when my family says "just wait until you're older and get a boyfriend" LIKE NOOO
Seol Hwa is literally one of the prettiest girls I've ever seen, literally stunning and gorgeous. Never let anyone ever tell you otherwise, unnie!! 💖💖💖
seungwoo is such a sweet boy :(
SeolHwa, what a woman!😍 You haven’t gained weight, you’ve gained more beauty, you are perfect! ❤
Your videos really help me in understanding Korean better thank you awesome world❤️❤️🔥🔥
SeolHwa looks amazing! you don't need to lose weight!
4:42 My relatives and friends are always reminding me to sit like a lady but I ignore them. Their words come in my head from one ear and go out from the other.
After watching this video. Now I would love to see Soelhwa in her natural self, without any restriction of words/attitude😂😂. I feel so relate to her and would like to see some of that on youtube lol.
The question
"Why do u eat so much?"
I hate thattt
Ikr, every time i was asked this question, i lose my appetite straight away.
The "You should not go out at night, it's dangerous" was really triggering to me when you have a twin brother who's allowed to stay out at night, go partying and drinking while you can't cross the street to the park IN BROAD DAYLIGHT because you're a girl
I like that SeolHwa is no longer just being featured because of her beauty. She's got some amazing insight. I especially appreciated her comments about not wanting children. I don't know where I stand with that myself, so it's nice to hear someone reaffirm that, should I decide not to become a mother, I'm not a bad or selfish person.
Only think that irked me about this vid was the "you're approaching 30. Time for marriage." THIRTY! I'm now OVER thirty and very few of my friends and family are married. Let's push this number up to 40 or 45. lol
Anyway, applause all around for another fine vid.
Seolhwa dialect is so cute omg
*I’am shocked to see this was only 1yr ago. It is a shame to see these normal Q’s are deemed - Worst Q’s for a woman. In the olden days talking about periods etc was a taboo subject. Which is a basic normality, hence it’s spoken about freely in many countries. Although I’am aware in South Korea there’s a large lack of awareness in too many sectors & as a psych that saddens me. For those whom are trying to normalise this issue at hand, are truly admirable. There’s zero reason to why men can’t talk about it, without feeling like their committing a crime. There’s many strong, independent, inspirational, admirable woman in the world. Whom are also “Realists” meaning they do not turn such scenarios into a negative spectacle. Instead embrace the moment, open the floor for conversation. Which plays a big role in moving forward from the orthodox times. Not the best tittle to label all women with this overly super sensitive brush. We are living in 2024, ironically people/countries talk about equal rights, raising awareness, breaking the toxic taboo culture, moving forward with the times etc. Yet make massive issues out of basic conversation. How do people expect to progress with this mindset. MH is totally covered up there. When I go for charitable work, families ask me & my colleagues to visit late at night to people don’t see & if anyone asks please say your tourists asking people questions. They suffer in silence behind closed doors, as if what people think is more of a priority/important than getting their loved ones the medical help they need to heal & live a happy healthy life again. I have made it a personal goal of mine to go SK yearly until we have a breakthrough with their medical sector. The working class citizens must be provided with assessable clinics. SK has had the highest % of abortion rates, MH related S for too many years now. What angers people & understandably so. On top of all challenges, when someone commits S. People then start crying & wondering why they did it & they could’ve just talked to us. 1 life lost, is 1 life too many. Then people go back to their old lives. Making zero changes to help prevent such tragedies. Statistics do not lie, SK statistics unfortunately have continued to rise yearly on a extreme concerning level. Gut wrenching to say the least on a high level. I meet so many people who say they want change x,y,z. Yet don’t put their money where their mouth is. Sending much love to all from🇬🇧Remember it’s ok not to be ok & if your struggling please seek help asap ~ Prof V*
*P.s Apologies for all grammar errors, I’am currently on the road. Hence using auto voice typing.*
Seungwoo♥️♥️🥰
These guys are the true treasure... Thank you Awesome World.
I'm worried that many girls think that they can only have two meals a day so they won't get bullied like that... please don't skip your meals, enjoy them and tell those people to mind their own damn business! it's not a crime to gain weight, I just hate when people feel so entitled to tell you what they think about your body or what you should look like. I know every culture is diferent, but two meals a day seems a bit extreme to me... take care, everyone, it was a great video and it gives me hope to see young men like them also agreeing on how rude those questions are towards women, we stan some respectful kings :) and SeolHwa, girl, you look amazing as always, so don't listen to those who call you nasty names! stay healthy!
Yepp this are some uncomfy questions
Seol Hwa your body your choice....no one else....it is your life.
I can totally relate with weight gain and dressing too sexy. I gained a little weight by being on the birth control shot because of a medical condition. Then i was diagnosed with R.A and prescription gave me hips. Dating and society make it difficult
SeolHwa is very pretty and also has a great body!!
I'm a single woman in my mid 20s and I hear this quite a lot: "You're so beautiful, why are you still single?" to be honest it doesn't feel like a compliment for me. I do admit that I'm not bad looking, but it's kinda annoying when someone says that to me. So you say, only beautiful women are all taken while the ugly ones are all single??? "beautiful" women can be single too, you know?? And who are you to say that someone is beautiful or ugly? Stop judging people, pleaseeee!!!
SeolHwa is so attractive! Very beautiful!
She's so pretty!
It stresses me out that I have to divide my time between reading subtitles and looking at Seungwoo's beautifully proportioned, gorgeous beautiful delicious face oh gOD
SeolHwa posture is my goal in life haha it is so good! Love this vid
Hyeni is a treasure, and we all need much more of her in our lives.
Too bad she wasn’t in this video.
@@taoist32 i know!! While i enjoy everyone that was in this video, Hyeni has an unmatched energy, and personality
@@joshualabuz41 You can always go to her IG.
@@taoist32 nah..im not a fanatical creep or some obsessed fanboy. I can wait patiently for the next appearance. I just like saying nice things about folks sometimes.
@@joshualabuz41 Alrighty then.
The girl is so pretty! 😍
Any question related to babies piss me the hell off. I feel like asking "when are you gonna have babies?", without even knowing if I want them, makes it look like a woman's only here to have children, nothing else. And if you say you don't want them, the shock! I especially hate when they ask young girls about it. 👺
Man, I knew this was gonna get me feeling a certain way… This happens to women everywhere.
Your video's always make me laugh n happy lots of love from INDIA 🇮🇳💜🇰🇷
Wow she is gorgeous
Those two guys are so good and understanding 🥺
I genuinely think some people don't understand which questions are good and which are bad.
Love SeolHwa! I think she’s a great role model for today’s modern society in Korea. She should really have more focus bcuz it’s really refreshing to see. ❤
periods are normal I dont know why these boys and girls are making this so sensitive .
I have remembered , lot of my guy friends helped me during my periods and not making it a sensitive and humiliating topic.
She looks SO PRETTY in this outfit ❤
Im shipping seolhwa and byungyeun❤
Early Gang!
SeolHwa's bod is goals !!! 🥺😭
FIRST among the 10 others.. 😌😌
I love these three! ❤❤❤
i'm so glad seolhwa is part of the group now! I'd love to see her give the guys makeovers lol
I don't think i would hate it if someone said that i have gained weight cause bro i m underweight asf and gaining weight for me is almost impossible
Actually being able to express ur thoughts can help others to and I like no i love Awesome World 🤗
Your pass 30,you should get married...Im so sick of this question hahahaha everyone keeps asking me this...nakaka.asar😅😅😅😅
You guys make me not wanna kill myself lmao, keep going! You're doing great!
heyyyy! don't give up, fightinggg~ i have my bad days as well, some days are reeeeeally hard but this week things are actually very chill and happy?! i'm sure your better days will come as well! sending you lots of good energy
Some of these questions, if they are all coming from men, sounds more like a culture to culture influence thing to me. They might sound weird but not necessarily offensive.
i would have liked it more iif heejae was there
I swear there’s something between byungyeun and seolhwa i can smell it bruhh
I think, instead of saying, " it's dangerous for a woman to be out late" there should be measures taken so everyone feels safe going out at night.
Even if the reason for my sensitive mood is my period, I don’t want the person to comment on it. I mean duh, when I’m in horrible pain, having to worry about leaking blood and have to constantly fear a collapse, while still trying to act somewhat normal- yes I’m going to be in a bad mood?!
But I could also be in a bad mood for another reason so why do some people always think they have to comment on this?!
Awesome video
0:42 Dang, she just gave them that “for real?” look right there. Lol
I think a school days photo reveal video would be fun to be honest. But only if the cast participants are comfortable.
Keeping all aside for a moment, I lost my shit everytime Seungwoo imitates the line like really🤣🤣🤣
They REALLY need to bring their school pictures to the studio. I think at this point we deserve to see them.
2 meals a day is too little
She is much more open minded and relaxed then any girl I have dated, but there are still those questions that are going to get the "Do you want to die" glare. lol
Jeez I turn 30 in March and I've never even had a relationship...
SeolHwa's figure is incredible. She makes any outfit look good.
Please 😭😭we want to see heejae & byungeun together❤️❤️ in the upcoming videos 🙏🙏
Tbh.. "You should dress like a girl or boys wouldn't like you" I get that from my classmates NGL... My parents support me in my style my AESTHETIC (tomboy).. even though we have uniforms in school, there are particular times when you don't have to wear a uniform... Or like you're doing a get together with yr classmates ... Or like yeah like hanging out with yr frnds- and all ..... I mean.. y'all get it... Right? So.... I dun really dress all that girly stuff, my hair is also in a tomboy cut.. even tho my besties support me... They even tell me "Gurl! M jealous of you, how in the world can u pull of being a girl and a guy!?! Yr just perfect!" And encouraging things.. but my classmates are totally against it.... One of my classmates once told me "Don't you think you should try wearing like a skirt or.... Like tanktops? I mean wearing a shirt which looks like you stole from your dad and wearing these jeans which almost reaches your toes is just a little... Too much NGL..." Is this fair PPL? No! I think everyone should have freedom in what they want to be!
oooooh SeolHwa smile bring me real joy... what a wonderfull smile🖤 maybe someday i catch her or the korean streets and tell her about it... but now im just leave this message here😏
yes now also they say pit your legs together and sit 😒
why peoples are being so conservative even in developed country like south korea?
I think I have enough right in country like india so that i have never heard words like sit like a boy or do this do that...
Developed country ≠ good mindset.
Developed country = throw your culture to hell and only think about yourself (not family or others).
My family tells me I'm getting too old to have children, lol, I just say " well, you don't have to worry about me then, I'm in no rush." I'm 36. Or I can be a little rude and say "then you have one"
On the "Lose weight" question,
My mom often calls me chubby so I try to lose weight and belly fat by not eating much, doing chores, and dancing. But when I try to go on a diet, my older siblings say that I shouldn't because if I don't eat well then my health will be in trouble. These days, I was told to eat light food than heavy food, in which for me, it's a good thing because I don't want to get a stomachache.
Seol hwa ❤️❤️❤️
I'm commenting from my husbands account lol but where I live it is more common to get married in your young 20s and have a baby soon after. I got married when I was 24 and had my baby when I turned 25 I am 26 now. I kind of wanted to have my babies young because I know that fertility drops when you are older and all of that IVF stuff is expensive so I would rather not deal with that
Here is an idea;
Hispanic compare and contrast vs Koreans!
(Figured it’d be cool since there was a Latin one. I’ll go 😭)
Heck...I thought the girl was Sulli for a second😭❤️ I love Sulli so much and that girl is gorgeous 😍 I love her hair colour, her smile and eyes they're pretty
Seolhwa's body is GOALS!!! 🌋🌋
Not only fat shaming, you should also add thin body shaming (I don't know if there is exact word for this)
I always hear " you are too thin. You should eat well" , " if you are too skinny, it will be a problem after marriage (to have baby)" , " eat well, otherwise it will be difficult to search a match for you" , " if you gain little more weight, you will look beautiful"
What the heck
I might be skinny, but I am not a patient. Why should I try hard to gain weight when I am healthy? Just to please others?
It is really very very annoying.
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 승우 언니~~
I love her
I think one of the most beautiful things in life are the differences between men and women, I don’t think we should get rid of all of them in the name of everyone being the same. We should celebrate our differences but at the same time if the sexes want to have some cross over thats fine too
"Are you on your period" can boil my blood anyday, anytime
Seolhwa showcasing how she don’t give af about what anyone says about her in general 🤩
I was asked the very first question!!! And yes .it's kinda irritating
The world is a vast space filled with people who judge all day long and who think they are not in the judgment...
“You have wide hips. It’d probably be easy for you to give birth.”This statement is weirdly objectifiying women as if they are only capable for pregnancy . Its none of your business whether a woman will have kids or not.