But it’s actually right, the main difference between an „experienced“ person and an inexperienced is : the inexperienced would want to learn and try new things and so on, while the „experienced“ would refuse...that’s actually why I’ve given up on men older than me who boasts that they have experience 😹 I find a person who is my age or max up to 5years younger than me, who’s telling me he would be willing to learn more, fare more attractive 😻
I really like this TRIO but Byungeun expressions definitely deserve a special edit really hilarious, Hoseung pretending not to understand questions & trying to prove his innocence,controlling laughter gosh he has so many things to do at once 😂😂 and Heejae is always bold & honest darling.
Question 6: My theory is that we women want a man who appears to be bad but isn't. I think it is because women are drawn to a man she feels can offer her security. A man that commands respect, is strong, and can protect you is incredibly attractive. I believe we want to be treated well though. Although, there may be women who pick men who are actually bad to them because they likely suffer from low self-esteem or saw that modeled when growing up.
Guys please don't take this comment as representative because it's really not and isn't nuanced enough. I feel like the bad boy thing is more because people like tsunderes and the idea of someone who is only good to them, and isn't close to too many other women. Not necessarily because they like people who appear bad lol. Same reason why guys like tsunderes too.
yes i was so impressed with the fully educated and thorough answers she gave, i guess i always saw south korea as quite conservative and they have some old views but her mindset was so refreshing and cool to me especially it being published on youtube and it will defiantly be a great influence for a lot of people.
the reason girls can talk with other girls about skinship with their partner is because no one is going judge (at least most girls from my experience ) and we keep it to ourselves but if a guy talks about a girl it may ruin her reputation and it may spread like the guys said it's true but that's how society is rn also the reason girls take so long in the toilet might be because they're changing pads lol when I go in I usually spend few mins fixing my hair lol
exactly!! we’re in 2022 now BUT there’s still double standards when it comes to sex, talking about a girl in an intimate moment can definitely mess up her reputation. Now when it comes to guys, most people don’t care about it - there’s less judgment going on (for example, it’s ok if guys sleep with many women but it’s not ok for a women to sleep with many men)
thats... true.... Cuz def I heard one dude tell all his friends how he got a blow job from his friend and immediately in the high school that girl was labeled a slut.... and I thought it was so sad, cuz I wasn't even friends with this girl, and I thought she was nice--- but everyone knew the story cuz he said it.... cuz he said things like "oh she was good at it I guess she has a lot of experience" and then it kind of went out of hand..... I don't know if the dude meant it to get spread wide and far but def I do think guys should be more careful cuz... when I guy says a girl is "good at it" is different from when a girl says a guy is "good at it" especially in like a tight knit community.
Why couldn't it ruin a guys reputation? And do you really think that girls don't judge and are honest enough to keep everything to themselves? From my experience it's often the guy who gets reputation damage, wouldn't be the first time I've heard a guy in school being broken up with because of his "skills" or "size". Nor would it be the first time to hear a girlfriend of mine, or simple a girl classmate/colleague gossip about the sex life of their friends, and it's often their bf they talk negatively about. Probably best to keep your partners privacy in mind, or ask permission to share such intimate information about your sex-life no matter the gender.
i can't explain enough how much i love and respect the fact that you are promoting and encouraging talking openly about things like this! BRAVO AWESOME WORLD! :))) also, i really love these peeps. they're all so sweet and charming. :')
I agree. I'd also tell them to talk to their female friend(s) about anything they want to know in terms of dating because most girls love to impart the wisdom they have in this area. I know I love schooling guys. ;P
Heejae, stay empowered and honest! To see the guys say things about "damaging their girlfriend's reputation" shows that Korea is still very conservative, which is totally cool and fine cause we should all have respect for others cultures, BUT it is still very cool to see people opening up and not having shame when they talk, like Heejae. I think it is very mature and healthy👍
Don't think that's anything to do with being conservative. It's more to do with respect, You wouldn't want people talking about you when you're not around
@@DVS_BSTD What I intended to mean is that talking about sex among adults shouldn't damage anyone's reputation because sex isn't shameful. If they did mean it is because their girlfriends are not there to speak for themselves, that's something I missed and didn't take into consideration with my original statement. Thank you for your input ❤️.
When it comes to what do boyfriends do when it comes to their girlfriends on their period, I’d recommend they notice what type of pads or tampons they use, so in case they need more, they’ll know which kind to get, plus any sweets that they need to distract their girlfriend from the period pain. Also be patient with her, if she snaps or complains a lot about anything and everything, just understand that’s she’s experiencing a lot of pain and just needs some space, but do be there for them if they need you or anything. That’s really the best thing that boyfriends can do for them in the week or moment. Edit- I haven’t gotten this attention for a comment before, if we disagree with something I said about people being doormats during the time for girls on their periods, I’m ok with that. It’s ok if we don’t agree with everything about this situation. I was just stating my little opinion.🙂
lol you basically just said - buy things for you, be a verbal punching bag that isn't allowed to show any frustration, don't be around you but also be there in case you want something...
@@RD-jz8mf umm yes... shouldn't have to explain it for you, but ok, I guess you're a simpleton. 1. Buy tampons & sweets 2. Let her snap/complain a lot about anything and everything 3. Be there for them, but give them space
@@DVS_BSTD does it have to be taken so negatively , they literally bleed and get cramps so their mood swings are self explanatory And besides the comment above explained an ideal example of a considerate partner. If u really care for ur partner, then u will prob do all those things without hesitation. 🙄
@@DVS_BSTD umm it’s literally js buying pads. isn’t it a kind gesture for him to get necessities for her while she’s in pain? and i believe the original commenter didn’t mean “verbal punching bag” but being more understanding during that time of the month
When it comes to the size thing, I think from an aesthetic point of view, people say bigger is better, but when it actually comes down to using it, average feels way better. Too big can hurt (most women I've met do NOT like their cervix abused 🙃) and for some reason, guys who are big think their pogo stick is magical and think they can get a woman off without actually doing anything 🙄. It really comes down to personal preference and physical compatibility tho
The way I always viewed it was size does matter, but other things will matter more or less based on the girl. Like has been said, a guy with a big one who doesn't know how to use it isn't worth it. But that same girl who meets another guy with a big one who knows how to use it and be gental may be the best.
Things a partner can do when their so is on their period: a wholesome thread - make something warm to drink (I like tea or hot chocolate) -ask if we want cuddles or just to be nearby -literally do any household chores that I can’t do if I’m curled up in a ball for an entire day or two. ex: laundry, making dinner, dusting, cleaning the bathroom[obviously this is more if you live together but if you don’t you’ll get bonus points if you help out with whatever needs to be done (and whatever she’s comfortable in letting you do) once in a blue moon.] -I personally get really depressed or anxious right before, be understanding if I’m crying a lot more than usually I swear I’m okay 😂 (just let me cry, watch a sad movie with me and hold my hand but that’s just me) - any problems I’m crying about are true problems that need to be talked about seriously either then or after. It could be small and stupid but is definitely something that has been bothering me for a while. It doesn’t need to be fixed right away but does need to be acknowledged that it’s a problem that matters to us. Bonus: -some girls get extra horny right before or right after or during. So… discuss 😉❤️ and be safe because that could be prime baby making time for some. -also if a girl asks you to buy pads or tampons you need to know type, brand, and size in order to get the right one.
A petition for this 0:59 to be the intro for every videos you guys put out. Hee Jae is just so freaking cute..no one can resist her cuteness and charms 😊
Really like and respect Heejae for her answers and always making sure that some things doesn't always apply to all girls and it depends on person to person. Also, she's always bold and honest which is so great! I don't really like vague answers and people being embarrassed of everything so whenever I see her I click as fast as I can haha
I'm so glad you mentioned Adult stores. I have been managing adult stores for over 20 years, it has definately changed, and it is now more about everyone, whether you are single or with a partner, there is so much to explore. Nothing to ever be embarrassed about. When I get to travel overseas, which obviously not lately, I love going into adult stores in other countries to see what they have
From my experience most women don't like bad boys beyond bad boy styling in their clothing. It's usually that we fall for nice guys, who after 3-4 months stop being nice to us and by then we already like them so its hard to let go.
Ok I'll take a chance here and see if I can do this in a non embarrassing way...the size question, I mean it comes up a lot here on you tube and in real life, I think as far as just the physical part, it only matters if someone is unusually big or unusually small, BY FAR the most important thing is having the right chemistry with each other, thats pretty much 100% ...have a good day!
yeah, and i think taller men are often seen as more attractive because they are on average more confident, so when a girl thinks of a tall guy she associates the character with being mroe confident more often than not, my point is, if your penis isn't a shrimp, it might be alot more about the man being insecure having a smaller member, if it's just smaller than average and nothing less, if he doesn't give it a care in the world, she won't either. TLDR: if a man is insecure about a small d, she will be insecure about his small d, and as a result not value him as a strong man.
The girl answers the questions so smartly and practical.. Who is she?? Shes honest, direct and straightforward.. No hint of shyness or awkwardness on her part!! Girl crush for sure..
Seriously Felt Sad that the Video ended soon. Need A Part 2 of this and also girls ask boys difficult question to. It would be fun to learn their perspective also.
I love how heejae answer the questions. korean people don't talk a lot about sex, period and that kind of stuff but she is so relax about it because it's something so natural. Heejae I love you so much I love her so much
From an American (ace/pan/cisgender) 30 year old woman’s POV: (Please know every woman and every person is different. No answer about your sexuality and the way you feel is wrong.) 1. Women do discuss things, the closer we are with each other, the more detail it is. Also, it’s mostly a certain age range (15-30 I’d say) when we are less sure about ourselves and things we do. As humans, it is natural to want to check in with people we trust and know ways to please our partner that maybe other people have explored and also get a bit of an affirmation that we aren’t weird for what we like. We want to learn from each other’s experiences and mistakes. 2. Like Heejae said, it depends on the person. If a woman does a full beauty make up it can take a long time. Especially if they are doing their hair, too. If they are just doing basic makeup, it doesn’t necessarily take them much longer than it does a man. If I don’t need to shower, I can be ready to go in five minutes. Makeup is a hassle I really don’t have time or energy to care about and I’ve shaved most of my head. My sister, however, can’t leave the house in under 30 minutes. 3. No. Size rarely matters. Only about 25% of women orgasm through vaginal intercourse consistently. Most girls have to be stimulated another way to orgasm or are just left hanging (usually by male partners, a much higher percentage of women reach orgasm when their partner is female). So it’s not the size. It’s what you do with it and everything else you have. 4. A few reasons. We are fixing makeup maybe, or chatting with someone else in there, or playing on our phones. Or if it’s a girl who likes social media: bathroom selfies. Bathrooms and dressing rooms have the best lighting. 5. First, don’t act like you have to “survive” us. We literally have zero control over how we feel and act, so pity us as much as we pity ourselves. Bring us sweets and fried food we like. Expect that we WILL cry or be angry about something insane, sometimes both at once. Remember that we feel absolutely disgusting and revolting, we don’t like what is happening to us, and we are sorry if it upsets you (not sorry). 6. It really depends on the maturity level, personality, and the life stage the woman is in. When we are younger, bad boys are made to look appealing to us. The teen romances emphasize the archetype of the misunderstood guy from the wrong side of town who gets in trouble but is tamed by love. It is literally a subplot in tens of thousands of movies around the world. But then as we get older and want to enter a phase in our lives where maybe we are thinking about settling down, be it working and being independent or maybe getting married and having kids, we start to look for someone who can be reliable and steady. We need less of a “bad boy out causing trouble I can tame” and more “tame guy who has his shit together and we can join his shit with my shit and live a nice, settled life with as little trouble as possible.” They can maybe still have the image of a bad boy, it it’s the actions that really decide it, not the way someone looks. But if someone isn’t really at a maturity level where they want to settle down and be with someone in a solid relationship, maybe they enjoy going out and hooking up (which is fine if you are safe about it), or maybe they prefer to live a less structured lifestyle, they may still find a “bad boy” as an attractive desirable person to be connected with. Maybe someone just doesn’t want the 9-5, white picket fence life, and they prefer someone a bit less tame. It’s really what suits the person and what they are looking for. 7. No. What would be a bigger turnoff is a guy who only cares for his own pleasure. Someone with no experience can be eager to try things or want to please their partner even if they need guided through it. But an experienced jackass is still a jackass. 8. If a girl likes you, she will make reasons to be around you or will initiate conversations. She will let you know even if it takes her a minute to say it. But if you have feelings for her, don’t play mind games. That’s the fastest way for a woman to get fed up and over you.
Exactly so. The brain is the only sex organ a human has, and its workings are always mysterious. But as a heterosexual female, I would really like men to comprehend that just arousing a woman is only the first step in the whole process. Unfortunately men generally seem to think all they've got to do is the arousal part, they get satisfaction, and it's perfectly okay to leave the woman unsatisfied. No, it isn't guys. It's pure selfishness. Then men go on about "blue balls" and women teasing them, but the vast majority of males are just fine with leaving a woman aroused but no orgasm. They need to study up on homeostasis and how the body needs to restore balance after stimulation of whatever kind. Orgasm, laughter, tears are ways to restore inner hormonal balance but why should women only have tears? Somehow men's education on how the basic process works is lacking. It's not women versus men; we're almost technically, physically the same in actual fact. It's just women's bits are mostly hidden, and men's aren't. We have the same basic reproductive structures and hormonal responses to stimuli men do; women can even ejaculate in some cases. We shouldn't be living in the dark ages on this topic.
I swear these three in a video brightens up my day than anything else. Also heejae is so upfront and honest also very good at explaining that makes her so pretty and attractive. 🥰 Also Byungeun getting flustered by Heejae gets episodes after episodes 😂 and what to tell about hoseung. Our gentle all knowing but not showing beast hehhe
Like the actual resolution or the quality of the content. You probably had data saving on or something before or you got lucky with wifi speed today xd cause it has always been 1080p
Mine only hurt when I lifted my arms like if I was reaching for a high shelf. But the injection itself was painless. Didn’t hurt with the booster (I’m an immune compromised medical person) at all but it did pinch when I was given it. Depends on who gives it.
it did hurt for me but i know many of my friends were terribly sick after their second (and some even after their first) shot so i guess the after effects really just depend on the person
Hoseung (The Beast) pretending not to understand the size question and acting embarrassed when Heejae mentions adult shops! LOL Heejae is such a good sport about these things. I like her more every time I see her. All of them, really.......though I miss Sehee.
For the bad boy I know I was into it for the aesthetic xD(black and edgy fashion is my favourite). I think the main attraction is there seems to be more play and teasing involved(not even sexual just messing around with eachother) but I think you don't have to be a bad boy to do that just a person with the same sense of humor. Honestly I think most girls would prefer someone nice who respects them. But respecting boundaries and consensually making fun of eachother, mmm the best.
Question 3: To be honest, it's yes and no. I personally think size does matter because that's my preference. Although, I have had sincere girl talks with other female friends who say that it does not matter to them. Girls who prefer larger will typically date or be with a taller man. I believe it is similar to how guys prefer different body parts on a woman as well. We all have difference preferences and reasons why we like what we do. There is someone out there for everyone. You should not feel bad or ashamed of your size. Your body was given to you the way it is and you had no hand in it.
Honestly its totally alright to have a preference nd being honest abt it with your partner is a good thing as long as u make sure that u dont hurt the other person or make them aware of ur preference in a way that it ends up being their inferiority complex... as long as u can make it clear that its ur preference nd not precisely the other person's shortcoming.. m not sure if i made my point clear😅😅
Bad guys. Actually, the one I heard most was different from other people. I heard from other girls that the nice looking guys are usually a jerk. There was one girl that I had heard from, the nice looking guy was actually two timing her. Which was definitely unexpected. While the bad guy, who looks nothing like a good guy, never looked at other girls and go through thick and thin with her through their rough days. It just means, don't judge a book by the cover.
They do a great job. 👍 People learn too late that you need to know your body. Diet & exercise, but know the male/ female functions too. Knowing is not sinful it is part of life.
Byungeun and heejae would make A amazingly pretty and cool you know what I mean LIKE ITS SO NOTABLE BYUNGEUN ALWAYS GETTING BLUSHED BY HEEJAE'S MOMENT REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE SO cute 💞💞
I used to be attracted to bad guys easily back then. Like everytime they show up on kdrama, manga or manhwas. I'd be like-- "he's definitely my type". For me, i think it's because the thought of them being bad to someone but is different when it comes to you, implying that you're the only one he likes. Mostly bad guys in fiction stories are described as someone who can fight. I think that also sums up the feeling of being protected, you can rely on them. But in the end they're just fictional, if i've actually seen someone like that irl, i'd definitely run
I think the answer for question number 5 will be different for all women, I for example like to be given some space. I don't like to be under constant attention, but I also like little gestures of affection from time to time like belly rubs/massage or some tea made by my partner By the way I adore this trio so much!
Imagine if we had Americans being honest and have real conversations like this, that would be great. We are now only accusing each other for everything over here. The assault on healthy relationships is going to hurt us in the future for sure. That is why I love watching people from other countries so much. They still love each other as just humans. Thank You! This kind of stuff cleans my Soul.
Doing nothing is fine, it’s not good. If u want to be good, ask her how she feels, if there’s something you can do or if there’s anything that she wants to do. If you divide chores, offer to do some of her more physically demanding ones
question: how many dates does it take to increase physical intimacy? I just started dating (for the first time in my life and I’m 21) and we just started holding hands on the 5th date. I’m fine with being intimate but I’m a little scared of what comes afterwards. Do y’all have anything you can share?
Nothing is written in stone, honestly every relationship is unique, because every person is unique. Don't worry about any kind of timeline or standards you think you're supposed to meet, just relax, enjoy your time together, and talk openly and honestly with your partner about what you want, what they want, what you're comfortable or uncomfortable with, etc. Don't try to force anything. Instead, just ask what they want. Your relationship is just between you two so it can look however you both want it to.
Take it to bed on 2nd or.3rd, lol. Unless you are both virgins. I dunno, for me it was always 2nd (and one time 3rd), cos if did not happend there is no next date. Usually it takes one or two dates to check whether it clicks or doesn't. But i'm adult man >30yo in the 2nd marriage
In this episode, the many reactions of Hoseung are giving me life. shy beast, embarrassed beast, happy beast, pretending like I don't know what 'size' they're talking about beast lololol me while watching him: I love him so much ♥
honestly heejae being completely honest is just perfect. It’s really frustrating when someone walks around the question because they’re shy also, someone take heesung home 😂
Regarding number 6: The power of attraction comes from demand and supply, really. You don't want something you can easily access, and you don't really know what you need until it's available. Obviously once you know what you might want (through trial and error), this theory no longer applies to you as you don't let the lack of supply dictate your actions. In short, we want what we can't get, but we eventually get what we need. Other factors such as emotional abuse/nurturing/insanity are external factors that built on this core.
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Heejae saying “I can teach him” when asked about experience is a power move
But it’s actually right, the main difference between an „experienced“ person and an inexperienced is : the inexperienced would want to learn and try new things and so on, while the „experienced“ would refuse...that’s actually why I’ve given up on men older than me who boasts that they have experience 😹 I find a person who is my age or max up to 5years younger than me, who’s telling me he would be willing to learn more, fare more attractive 😻
@@alexandrau6096 it seems you have a job to do
@@alexandrau6096 that... makes no sense. It's all about the individual.
@@alexandrau6096 The more "experience" you have, the lower your value is in the eyes of men. It's just how it is. No amount of copium will change that
@@bendover7841it goes both ways tho
Am I the only one obsessed with this trio??!
Everytime they come together,the vibe gets chaotic lol!
I can't agree more with you. I am obsessed too
Same I love seeing them all together 😭
Sameeee
@Joseph Baker where are they
Sameeeee 😅😅😅
I really like this TRIO but Byungeun expressions definitely deserve a special edit really hilarious, Hoseung pretending not to understand questions & trying to prove his innocence,controlling laughter gosh he has so many things to do at once 😂😂 and Heejae is always bold & honest darling.
so true
Hoseung no longer proudly proclaims that he's a ✨BEAST✨😅
@@OrangeMilkBlossom 😆 he proclaims himself as GENTLE BEAST .
getting wrinkles for views haha
Not Hoseung acting like he doesn't understand the size question, then really paying attention to Heejae unnie's answer lolololol.
right😂😂
😂😂
@President Namjoon but she's older to me
Is unine part of her name
@@shanrathenam3105 No it just what you say if the person (a girl) is older than you (It means sister)
Question 6: My theory is that we women want a man who appears to be bad but isn't. I think it is because women are drawn to a man she feels can offer her security. A man that commands respect, is strong, and can protect you is incredibly attractive. I believe we want to be treated well though. Although, there may be women who pick men who are actually bad to them because they likely suffer from low self-esteem or saw that modeled when growing up.
Nice theory.
I wonder why I get the complete opposite 😂
I don’t even know if a guy is bad to me or not unless they are obvious about it because I’m always clueless 😅
thats messed up af
poor these good men got pressured by society to be "badboy"
Yes
Guys please don't take this comment as representative because it's really not and isn't nuanced enough. I feel like the bad boy thing is more because people like tsunderes and the idea of someone who is only good to them, and isn't close to too many other women. Not necessarily because they like people who appear bad lol. Same reason why guys like tsunderes too.
HeeJae gives good, honest answers based on she and her friends and most girls in general. Very good panelist.
Depends on some parts, but it’s still acceptable
I don't think so hmmm
yes i was so impressed with the fully educated and thorough answers she gave, i guess i always saw south korea as quite conservative and they have some old views but her mindset was so refreshing and cool to me especially it being published on youtube and it will defiantly be a great influence for a lot of people.
the reason girls can talk with other girls about skinship with their partner is because no one is going judge (at least most girls from my experience ) and we keep it to ourselves but if a guy talks about a girl it may ruin her reputation and it may spread like the guys said it's true but that's how society is rn
also the reason girls take so long in the toilet might be because they're changing pads lol
when I go in I usually spend few mins fixing my hair lol
Well my observations have generally been the exact opposite
exactly!! we’re in 2022 now BUT there’s still double standards when it comes to sex, talking about a girl in an intimate moment can definitely mess up her reputation. Now when it comes to guys, most people don’t care about it - there’s less judgment going on (for example, it’s ok if guys sleep with many women but it’s not ok for a women to sleep
with many men)
@@amandaacruz yes! virginity for example is just a construct to oppress women
thats... true.... Cuz def I heard one dude tell all his friends how he got a blow job from his friend and immediately in the high school that girl was labeled a slut.... and I thought it was so sad, cuz I wasn't even friends with this girl, and I thought she was nice--- but everyone knew the story cuz he said it.... cuz he said things like "oh she was good at it I guess she has a lot of experience" and then it kind of went out of hand..... I don't know if the dude meant it to get spread wide and far but def I do think guys should be more careful cuz... when I guy says a girl is "good at it" is different from when a girl says a guy is "good at it" especially in like a tight knit community.
Why couldn't it ruin a guys reputation? And do you really think that girls don't judge and are honest enough to keep everything to themselves? From my experience it's often the guy who gets reputation damage, wouldn't be the first time I've heard a guy in school being broken up with because of his "skills" or "size". Nor would it be the first time to hear a girlfriend of mine, or simple a girl classmate/colleague gossip about the sex life of their friends, and it's often their bf they talk negatively about. Probably best to keep your partners privacy in mind, or ask permission to share such intimate information about your sex-life no matter the gender.
Heejae saying don't be embarrassed talking about sex toys...
Hoseung covering his face then screaming Embarrassing! 😂😂😂💘
I love heejae's confidence lol she just say whatever she wants while the boys are blushing 😅
i can't explain enough how much i love and respect the fact that you are promoting and encouraging talking openly about things like this! BRAVO AWESOME WORLD! :)))
also, i really love these peeps. they're all so sweet and charming. :')
I agree. I'd also tell them to talk to their female friend(s) about anything they want to know in terms of dating because most girls love to impart the wisdom they have in this area. I know I love schooling guys. ;P
Heejae, stay empowered and honest! To see the guys say things about "damaging their girlfriend's reputation" shows that Korea is still very conservative, which is totally cool and fine cause we should all have respect for others cultures, BUT it is still very cool to see people opening up and not having shame when they talk, like Heejae. I think it is very mature and healthy👍
Don't think that's anything to do with being conservative. It's more to do with respect, You wouldn't want people talking about you when you're not around
@@DVS_BSTD What I intended to mean is that talking about sex among adults shouldn't damage anyone's reputation because sex isn't shameful. If they did mean it is because their girlfriends are not there to speak for themselves, that's something I missed and didn't take into consideration with my original statement. Thank you for your input ❤️.
@@mortalopus idk but I have never heard or seen guy talking about his sex life, in America or Korea (my experience)
Where do you live? Because I'd like to see a place, where (especially younger) women don't get shamed for having sex.
Heejae's honesty and openness is so refreshing as usual.
The best trio. Periodt.
(HEEJAE IS GORGEOUS)
When it comes to what do boyfriends do when it comes to their girlfriends on their period, I’d recommend they notice what type of pads or tampons they use, so in case they need more, they’ll know which kind to get, plus any sweets that they need to distract their girlfriend from the period pain. Also be patient with her, if she snaps or complains a lot about anything and everything, just understand that’s she’s experiencing a lot of pain and just needs some space, but do be there for them if they need you or anything. That’s really the best thing that boyfriends can do for them in the week or moment.
Edit- I haven’t gotten this attention for a comment before, if we disagree with something I said about people being doormats during the time for girls on their periods, I’m ok with that. It’s ok if we don’t agree with everything about this situation. I was just stating my little opinion.🙂
lol you basically just said - buy things for you, be a verbal punching bag that isn't allowed to show any frustration, don't be around you but also be there in case you want something...
@@DVS_BSTD eh no not really
@@RD-jz8mf umm yes... shouldn't have to explain it for you, but ok, I guess you're a simpleton.
1. Buy tampons & sweets
2. Let her snap/complain a lot about anything and everything
3. Be there for them, but give them space
@@DVS_BSTD does it have to be taken so negatively , they literally bleed and get cramps so their mood swings are self explanatory
And besides the comment above explained an ideal example of a considerate partner. If u really care for ur partner, then u will prob do all those things without hesitation. 🙄
@@DVS_BSTD umm it’s literally js buying pads. isn’t it a kind gesture for him to get necessities for her while she’s in pain? and i believe the original commenter didn’t mean “verbal punching bag” but being more understanding during that time of the month
When it comes to the size thing, I think from an aesthetic point of view, people say bigger is better, but when it actually comes down to using it, average feels way better. Too big can hurt (most women I've met do NOT like their cervix abused 🙃) and for some reason, guys who are big think their pogo stick is magical and think they can get a woman off without actually doing anything 🙄. It really comes down to personal preference and physical compatibility tho
yes true true!!! its so lovely to read the comments and nod--
The way I always viewed it was size does matter, but other things will matter more or less based on the girl.
Like has been said, a guy with a big one who doesn't know how to use it isn't worth it. But that same girl who meets another guy with a big one who knows how to use it and be gental may be the best.
It's not the length that is important, but the width!! And how he uses it! 😉
It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean
@@Cinnthemidget The size of the boat matters but so does the actions of the captain
Things a partner can do when their so is on their period: a wholesome thread
- make something warm to drink (I like tea or hot chocolate)
-ask if we want cuddles or just to be nearby
-literally do any household chores that I can’t do if I’m curled up in a ball for an entire day or two. ex: laundry, making dinner, dusting, cleaning the bathroom[obviously this is more if you live together but if you don’t you’ll get bonus points if you help out with whatever needs to be done (and whatever she’s comfortable in letting you do) once in a blue moon.]
-I personally get really depressed or anxious right before, be understanding if I’m crying a lot more than usually I swear I’m okay 😂 (just let me cry, watch a sad movie with me and hold my hand but that’s just me)
- any problems I’m crying about are true problems that need to be talked about seriously either then or after. It could be small and stupid but is definitely something that has been bothering me for a while. It doesn’t need to be fixed right away but does need to be acknowledged that it’s a problem that matters to us.
Bonus:
-some girls get extra horny right before or right after or during. So… discuss 😉❤️ and be safe because that could be prime baby making time for some.
-also if a girl asks you to buy pads or tampons you need to know type, brand, and size in order to get the right one.
Finally someone who got it all right! I second that!
You are absolutely right
Horniness is definitely before and after and gets worse as you age
A petition for this 0:59 to be the intro for every videos you guys put out. Hee Jae is just so freaking cute..no one can resist her cuteness and charms 😊
Really like and respect Heejae for her answers and always making sure that some things doesn't always apply to all girls and it depends on person to person. Also, she's always bold and honest which is so great! I don't really like vague answers and people being embarrassed of everything so whenever I see her I click as fast as I can haha
I'm so glad you mentioned Adult stores. I have been managing adult stores for over 20 years, it has definately changed, and it is now more about everyone, whether you are single or with a partner, there is so much to explore. Nothing to ever be embarrassed about. When I get to travel overseas, which obviously not lately, I love going into adult stores in other countries to see what they have
From my experience most women don't like bad boys beyond bad boy styling in their clothing. It's usually that we fall for nice guys, who after 3-4 months stop being nice to us and by then we already like them so its hard to let go.
I love Heejae's honesty. She's such a positive source of information 💚
5:53 " I can teach him" BYUNGEUN's reaction woahhh....🙈🙈😂😂😂🥳💜✨✨✨✨✨✨
😂😂 u must not miss Hoseung expression the way he is trying to control his laugh & keeping that straight face is funny.
@@lucksheme243 yeah I didn't 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@taehopegirl1525 why were they laughing
@@user-rv9vp8jg7p 😂😂😂😂yaahhh are U serious....
This girl is so cool! She talks openly about everything always with care and respect. I like her opinions!❤️
Heejae unnie is like the older sister I never had. Thank you so much.
This girl's voice is really similar to Jisoo's and she's so cute :)
Blackpink Jisoo ? Yeah why not 😂
Heejae is really nice and straightforward. She's also very attractive. Whomever gets to be her boyfriend is one lucky guy.
I love Heejae! Talking about things without getting embarrassed ❤️ refreshing
Ok I'll take a chance here and see if I can do this in a non embarrassing way...the size question, I mean it comes up a lot here on you tube and in real life, I think as far as just the physical part, it only matters if someone is unusually big or unusually small, BY FAR the most important thing is having the right chemistry with each other, thats pretty much 100% ...have a good day!
yeah, and i think taller men are often seen as more attractive because they are on average more confident, so when a girl thinks of a tall guy she associates the character with being mroe confident more often than not, my point is, if your penis isn't a shrimp, it might be alot more about the man being insecure having a smaller member, if it's just smaller than average and nothing less, if he doesn't give it a care in the world, she won't either. TLDR: if a man is insecure about a small d, she will be insecure about his small d, and as a result not value him as a strong man.
Same with women's breasts.
The girl answers the questions so smartly and practical.. Who is she?? Shes honest, direct and straightforward.. No hint of shyness or awkwardness on her part!! Girl crush for sure..
I wonder how many subscribers are Heejae stans. it seems like a lot and I'm so here for it. She is by far my favorite. She be giving girl crush vibes.
hoseung's reaction Everytime they mention something "nsfw" is hilarious
Seriously Felt Sad that the Video ended soon. Need A Part 2 of this and also girls ask boys difficult question to. It would be fun to learn their perspective also.
I love how heejae answer the questions.
korean people don't talk a lot about sex, period and that kind of stuff but she is so relax about it because it's something so natural.
Heejae I love you so much
I love her so much
From an American (ace/pan/cisgender) 30 year old woman’s POV:
(Please know every woman and every person is different. No answer about your sexuality and the way you feel is wrong.)
1. Women do discuss things, the closer we are with each other, the more detail it is. Also, it’s mostly a certain age range (15-30 I’d say) when we are less sure about ourselves and things we do. As humans, it is natural to want to check in with people we trust and know ways to please our partner that maybe other people have explored and also get a bit of an affirmation that we aren’t weird for what we like. We want to learn from each other’s experiences and mistakes.
2. Like Heejae said, it depends on the person. If a woman does a full beauty make up it can take a long time. Especially if they are doing their hair, too. If they are just doing basic makeup, it doesn’t necessarily take them much longer than it does a man. If I don’t need to shower, I can be ready to go in five minutes. Makeup is a hassle I really don’t have time or energy to care about and I’ve shaved most of my head. My sister, however, can’t leave the house in under 30 minutes.
3. No. Size rarely matters. Only about 25% of women orgasm through vaginal intercourse consistently. Most girls have to be stimulated another way to orgasm or are just left hanging (usually by male partners, a much higher percentage of women reach orgasm when their partner is female). So it’s not the size. It’s what you do with it and everything else you have.
4. A few reasons. We are fixing makeup maybe, or chatting with someone else in there, or playing on our phones. Or if it’s a girl who likes social media: bathroom selfies. Bathrooms and dressing rooms have the best lighting.
5. First, don’t act like you have to “survive” us. We literally have zero control over how we feel and act, so pity us as much as we pity ourselves. Bring us sweets and fried food we like. Expect that we WILL cry or be angry about something insane, sometimes both at once. Remember that we feel absolutely disgusting and revolting, we don’t like what is happening to us, and we are sorry if it upsets you (not sorry).
6. It really depends on the maturity level, personality, and the life stage the woman is in. When we are younger, bad boys are made to look appealing to us. The teen romances emphasize the archetype of the misunderstood guy from the wrong side of town who gets in trouble but is tamed by love. It is literally a subplot in tens of thousands of movies around the world. But then as we get older and want to enter a phase in our lives where maybe we are thinking about settling down, be it working and being independent or maybe getting married and having kids, we start to look for someone who can be reliable and steady. We need less of a “bad boy out causing trouble I can tame” and more “tame guy who has his shit together and we can join his shit with my shit and live a nice, settled life with as little trouble as possible.” They can maybe still have the image of a bad boy, it it’s the actions that really decide it, not the way someone looks. But if someone isn’t really at a maturity level where they want to settle down and be with someone in a solid relationship, maybe they enjoy going out and hooking up (which is fine if you are safe about it), or maybe they prefer to live a less structured lifestyle, they may still find a “bad boy” as an attractive desirable person to be connected with. Maybe someone just doesn’t want the 9-5, white picket fence life, and they prefer someone a bit less tame. It’s really what suits the person and what they are looking for.
7. No. What would be a bigger turnoff is a guy who only cares for his own pleasure. Someone with no experience can be eager to try things or want to please their partner even if they need guided through it. But an experienced jackass is still a jackass.
8. If a girl likes you, she will make reasons to be around you or will initiate conversations. She will let you know even if it takes her a minute to say it. But if you have feelings for her, don’t play mind games. That’s the fastest way for a woman to get fed up and over you.
Exactly so. The brain is the only sex organ a human has, and its workings are always mysterious. But as a heterosexual female, I would really like men to comprehend that just arousing a woman is only the first step in the whole process. Unfortunately men generally seem to think all they've got to do is the arousal part, they get satisfaction, and it's perfectly okay to leave the woman unsatisfied. No, it isn't guys. It's pure selfishness. Then men go on about "blue balls" and women teasing them, but the vast majority of males are just fine with leaving a woman aroused but no orgasm. They need to study up on homeostasis and how the body needs to restore balance after stimulation of whatever kind. Orgasm, laughter, tears are ways to restore inner hormonal balance but why should women only have tears? Somehow men's education on how the basic process works is lacking. It's not women versus men; we're almost technically, physically the same in actual fact. It's just women's bits are mostly hidden, and men's aren't. We have the same basic reproductive structures and hormonal responses to stimuli men do; women can even ejaculate in some cases. We shouldn't be living in the dark ages on this topic.
@@bitcheslovecannons5769 Exactly so.
I agree with you, I think majority of female population fall in what you said.....🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁
No cause I love this trio 💗💗. There connection with each other is crazy and so entertaining. Love y’all 💗💗
Honesty is the "best medicine"!
i really like this trio together especially Heejae she's sooo real i just want to be her friend i think our personalities will get along well
I swear these three in a video brightens up my day than anything else. Also heejae is so upfront and honest also very good at explaining that makes her so pretty and attractive. 🥰
Also Byungeun getting flustered by Heejae gets episodes after episodes 😂 and what to tell about hoseung. Our gentle all knowing but not showing beast hehhe
Heejae was so honest and open and I love it!! Even being in America we have very similar ways of thinking 👍🏽😊 Hoseung is sooo innocent 😇
This trio is so real and genuine
Seriously, i could watch a 2 hour podcast by these 3 anyday everyday
I love how she says her friend tamed the guy while smiling and when she said I can teach him and the guys got shy that made me laugh
I don’t know why but this video looks so good. Like the quality has become better or something.
Like the actual resolution or the quality of the content.
You probably had data saving on or something before or you got lucky with wifi speed today xd cause it has always been 1080p
Heejae got vaccinated…
Hoseung:Touches her arm!
Heejae:”It hurt:((“
P.S.Only those who got vaccinated know the pain!
I got vaccinated, buy it didn't hurt, or was I just dreaming? 🤔💀
@@mykealberttayoto7331 It doesn’t hurt when you get it but the after effect I got was “woowww miserable” lmao
My arm hurt so bad for 3 days.
Mine only hurt when I lifted my arms like if I was reaching for a high shelf. But the injection itself was painless. Didn’t hurt with the booster (I’m an immune compromised medical person) at all but it did pinch when I was given it. Depends on who gives it.
it did hurt for me but i know many of my friends were terribly sick after their second (and some even after their first) shot so i guess the after effects really just depend on the person
These two in black looks great together ;)
Heejae is so open and I love that
Hoseung (The Beast) pretending not to understand the size question and acting embarrassed when Heejae mentions adult shops! LOL Heejae is such a good sport about these things. I like her more every time I see her. All of them, really.......though I miss Sehee.
Heejae is so straightforward and honest she always get them flustered haha 5:57
This is the first video I've seen but the second Heejae was like "I can teach him" you can BET I smashed subscribe.
Ayoo!! Me too.. 🤣🔥
I love how straight forward and open she was with all her answers
i love the interaction with these 3 so much, thank you awsome world for another awsome video
Yes, yes it does. The motion of the ocean is important too.
For the bad boy I know I was into it for the aesthetic xD(black and edgy fashion is my favourite). I think the main attraction is there seems to be more play and teasing involved(not even sexual just messing around with eachother) but I think you don't have to be a bad boy to do that just a person with the same sense of humor. Honestly I think most girls would prefer someone nice who respects them. But respecting boundaries and consensually making fun of eachother, mmm the best.
Question 3: To be honest, it's yes and no. I personally think size does matter because that's my preference. Although, I have had sincere girl talks with other female friends who say that it does not matter to them. Girls who prefer larger will typically date or be with a taller man. I believe it is similar to how guys prefer different body parts on a woman as well. We all have difference preferences and reasons why we like what we do. There is someone out there for everyone. You should not feel bad or ashamed of your size. Your body was given to you the way it is and you had no hand in it.
Honestly its totally alright to have a preference nd being honest abt it with your partner is a good thing as long as u make sure that u dont hurt the other person or make them aware of ur preference in a way that it ends up being their inferiority complex... as long as u can make it clear that its ur preference nd not precisely the other person's shortcoming.. m not sure if i made my point clear😅😅
This is my opinion. Size doesn't matter when the man doesn't only use his p**** to satisfy his partner.
@@nivie1996 of course
How much we talkin here??? Like 7-8 inches or...???
Bad guys.
Actually, the one I heard most was different from other people. I heard from other girls that the nice looking guys are usually a jerk.
There was one girl that I had heard from, the nice looking guy was actually two timing her. Which was definitely unexpected.
While the bad guy, who looks nothing like a good guy, never looked at other girls and go through thick and thin with her through their rough days.
It just means, don't judge a book by the cover.
@Awsome world, thank you for reducing the sound effects. It's better now. The video was very informative
Please, AW, more videos with this trio. They are the BEST! 👍💕
She is pure and sincere.
You guys are so adorable. Really great answers. Don't be shy anymore... It's natural to ask and get answers 😉
This trio is the best.... I'm obsessed with this trio they are amazing.
Okay so being honest, hoseung faking being innocent pisses me off
Other than that, good video💖👍🏾
Love hearing Heejae’s open answers…😘
I'm in the 1% of girls who are currently not attracted to bad boys, I like cultured and thoughtful men much more
Even me 🤍🤍
What is cultured men ??
@@skyoce1247 It means a man of values, self-conscience. I don't know if I made myself understood.
the way byungeun looks at heejaeee
when heejae and byungeun first met they did recreation of kdrama act need tht again but include hoseung too
I like her she is so straight and truthful answering the Questions
The trio i asked for served me more. Thank u PD. They really are visuals.
I was binge watching on this channel and I got a notification!!! Such a cute video . TRIO ROCKS!!!!
Continue doing an amazing job!. You are amazing 👏!. Love you 😍.
They do a great job. 👍 People learn too late that you need to know your body. Diet & exercise, but know the male/ female functions too. Knowing is not sinful it is part of life.
can we get a yeonjin,heejae and Byungeun,it would be wholesome😂😂
I love this trio!!! I see them, I click
Byungeun and heejae would make A amazingly pretty and cool you know what I mean LIKE ITS SO NOTABLE BYUNGEUN ALWAYS GETTING BLUSHED BY HEEJAE'S MOMENT REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE SO cute 💞💞
Heejae is representing all women in the world. And our request too.. So Heejae, we depend on you..!!
Random but can we appreciate how cute heejae’s short intro. 1:00
Heejae is so beautiful. I just love the way she responds and dress ❤️
"Why am I knowing this?"🤭😂
I almost choked giggling while trying not to wake my family up.
Awww I think that HeeJae and Byungeun will make such a cute couple 🤗💞
I used to be attracted to bad guys easily back then. Like everytime they show up on kdrama, manga or manhwas. I'd be like-- "he's definitely my type". For me, i think it's because the thought of them being bad to someone but is different when it comes to you, implying that you're the only one he likes. Mostly bad guys in fiction stories are described as someone who can fight. I think that also sums up the feeling of being protected, you can rely on them. But in the end they're just fictional, if i've actually seen someone like that irl, i'd definitely run
I honestly on Heejae's side at this. My answers are all the same with hers lol ❤❤❤
Heejae could be a mother so caring she is
Aaawww I like Heejae! She such a smart lovely girl! ❤️
The beautiful Heejae is just to cool. She does her best to be honest without being revealing and has the cutest smile while doing so.
I think the answer for question number 5 will be different for all women, I for example like to be given some space. I don't like to be under constant attention, but I also like little gestures of affection from time to time like belly rubs/massage or some tea made by my partner
By the way I adore this trio so much!
Imagine if we had Americans being honest and have real conversations like this, that would be great. We are now only accusing each other for everything over here. The assault on healthy relationships is going to hurt us in the future for sure. That is why I love watching people from other countries so much. They still love each other as just humans. Thank You! This kind of stuff cleans my Soul.
Best line from Heejae: "I can teach them"!! Hahahaha I bet she can!!!
We love guys who appear like strong bad boys but secretly love to show affection when just two are around bc it makes us feel special.
I like her, she is straightforward 💜
Topic disscussion on point👍😂
Can not wait to see more😊🇷🇺
Lots of pressure on Heejae here but she handled it well. Oh and Byungeun is insanely handsome.
Doing nothing is fine, it’s not good. If u want to be good, ask her how she feels, if there’s something you can do or if there’s anything that she wants to do. If you divide chores, offer to do some of her more physically demanding ones
Good video! Her answers where perfect
question: how many dates does it take to increase physical intimacy?
I just started dating (for the first time in my life and I’m 21) and we just started holding hands on the 5th date. I’m fine with being intimate but I’m a little scared of what comes afterwards. Do y’all have anything you can share?
Nothing is written in stone, honestly every relationship is unique, because every person is unique. Don't worry about any kind of timeline or standards you think you're supposed to meet, just relax, enjoy your time together, and talk openly and honestly with your partner about what you want, what they want, what you're comfortable or uncomfortable with, etc. Don't try to force anything. Instead, just ask what they want. Your relationship is just between you two so it can look however you both want it to.
Take it to bed on 2nd or.3rd, lol. Unless you are both virgins. I dunno, for me it was always 2nd (and one time 3rd), cos if did not happend there is no next date. Usually it takes one or two dates to check whether it clicks or doesn't. But i'm adult man >30yo in the 2nd marriage
In this episode, the many reactions of Hoseung are giving me life.
shy beast, embarrassed beast, happy beast, pretending like I don't know what 'size' they're talking about beast lololol
me while watching him: I love him so much ♥
honestly heejae being completely honest is just perfect. It’s really frustrating when someone walks around the question because they’re shy
also, someone take heesung home 😂
i fall for heejae everytime she speaks
Was waiting for this one tbh
Thanks for talking about such topics openly and without judgment
The girl didn't hesitated a bit or stuttered even a little. You're awesome
Regarding number 6:
The power of attraction comes from demand and supply, really. You don't want something you can easily access, and you don't really know what you need until it's available. Obviously once you know what you might want (through trial and error), this theory no longer applies to you as you don't let the lack of supply dictate your actions. In short, we want what we can't get, but we eventually get what we need. Other factors such as emotional abuse/nurturing/insanity are external factors that built on this core.