It is healthy. After all, crying is a natural reaction. But a "man up" attitude isn't always bad either. Sometimes we need to stop emotion from getting in our way.
@@ironclad-m3q sure it isnt, you probably meant something like not letting your emotions control you but the "man up" talk and just repressing your emotions is pretty toxic and thats what the conversation is about. Its how you phrase things.
@@duckling4073 Just like anything in life, I'm not taking the man up thing as a whole, not as black nor white. Only parts that I think make sense. I think I already made it clear which part in my first comment.
I kind of wonder what guys say about getting hit to the groin versus geting hit to the nose. Honestly, as a woman, getting hit between the legs hurts like crazy. But I'd say nose is worse, knee almost dislocating feels equally bad, a nail flipping or the not normal period pains that send us to the ground .... when it comes to all humans then we can all relate to many terrible pains. The one reason why "ball to groin" stands out as "special", appears to be, that it's an instance where we socially agreed on men/boys having explicit permision to display pain in public and receiving public compassion without it (feeling AND receiving compassion) being framed as "weakness". Aka a remnant of so called "toxic masculinity" principles (or rather "unhealed masculine" principles). In future, the reactions will hopefully be caring and compassionate no matter who gets hurt where and under what circumstances!
As a guy who has been punched in the balls several times, along with punched in the nose/headbutt in the nose a few times, getting punched in the balls hurts way more than anything to the nose. Breaking my nose and deviating my septum ultimately hurt less than getting punched in the balls. There’s been a few times where I’ve gotten hot and cold flashes from it and it feels like my entire body is empty at the same time. Kind of contradicting the feeling of the body being empty, at the same time it feels like this constant lingering pain that refuses to go away after the initial strike to the balls. The majority of the time though, any sort of hit to that area, light or not, will illicit that lingering effect down there in that general area afterwards. To be fair though, they were some very accurate nut shots, and I’m not sure if anyone else I know has experienced the hot and cold flashes before.
4:29 as a man. Getting hit in the balls is terrible. When you get hit the pain not only is in the balls part but the abdomen, balls, chest. It knocks the wind out of you. Immense pain you can’t breathe or talk. It’s like a kill switch for men.
The guys answered like how most of us guys even here in the U.S react about that stuff. So it's not surprising how they were able to explain it with nothing too explicit, but they still did it good.
I think the elders ask about marriage because they hope to witness it, not because to pressure anyone. I wish my grandparents could have been at my wedding. Missed them.
Lol to me these three handled this perfectly...with maturity and humour...which helps flow of discussion Mind you I'd like to experience what it's like as a fella for a few weeks, I feel they have life far easier with everything, haha! 😎 Is there pressure for marriage? It's not for everyone 👍👍. Sweet video thou ❤️❤️
i spent the whole video thinking that hanseul was super cute... maybe because of the sweater covering his hands, or him covering his face when laughing... really cute guy
but it also hurts girls a lot , when they get hit in this place , ask the gymnasts ,when they fall on the beam .There is not much flesh, it is a blow to the bones, think of a kick in the shin, and transpose it to this place
I hate the “When are you getting married?” question so much! So in years of being asked that by elders “When God will let me know you'll be the first to find out through a wedding invitation. OK?” They just stop after that. 😁 I'm Eastern European by the way.
Being a male in the U.S.A. I have been asked many times by girls. "Why are you not crying?" As for trying to get women to understand what it is like to be hit in the testicles. I tell them to imagine their breasts were shrunk to the size of a walnut but they still had the same number of nerves in them. Then place them between your legs in a very fragile bag that doesn't stay in one place.
Honestly getting hit in the boobs is already plenty painful. And given that getting kicked in the nuts is said to be a shorter équivalant of giving birth... I feel se bad for you guys. That's bad
That first one is bout morning wood. It's like an antenna that helps you with dreams or sleep, so when you wake up it would still be hard. Also when you go pee it would cause an issue since some random reason will prevent you from peeing normally. 6:15 he's holding in a fart next to the pretty girl lmaooo
@@Rezzmari thats why the expression that guys have "All his blood went to his dick than his brain, thats why he did dumb shit" happened XD But yeah, the reason why it gets hard is because everything gets tense there and the blood flow will increase. Thats why guys pass out after the release happens sometimes. I've been mostly tired after so its not out of the realm of possibility XD
I empathise with guys who get hit where they shouldn’t…I cannot imagine the level or extent of pain but it makes me cringe…I’ve never found them getting hit there funny, but unfortunately we’ve normalised laughing at such situations so much.
I'm curious because I'm not used to it, when someone asks you how old you are do you give the Korean age or international age? I recently found out the difference and realized how often age comes up in shows and I'm trying to learn. Ty.
The whole boys aren't supposed to cry because they're men is just downright stupid. We're all humans! We have emotions and if that's a problem in your eyes, that sounds like a you problem.
Well I have seen the men around me cry as much as the women so for me i find it pretty ridiculously foreign idea. I don't know if in foreign countries men crying is actually a thing
Guess what, people are different and it's nonsense to force them through the same system on a superficial filter basis like gender. Especially if htat system is a crazy inflexible type. So being forced to interrupt careers and any life situation just cause you meet the critera "male" plus "x age" (
@@KxNOxUTA ight then maybe they should make some changes into the system. don't know excatly which all things have to change and how because i'm not a politician but it would be a very expensive investment to make it completely volunteer. plus i also went through military service (and I was not asked if I want to join or not)
@@LeinoSmaul they are literally still at war with a country that threatens to blow them up I don't think they can scrap or change it. They did decrease the time tho but it's not optional for them they give up their early 20s to go serve
@@likhwezititus yea I know they can't just change the whole thing around bc I also went through mandatory service and didn't think it was that bad. i think literally the only thing they have to change is the way they treat people there.
This group is so comfortable talking about these kinds of things 😅
Me and my gang too😂
Me and best friends
She looks like the actress from mr.queen
@Kepler 186-F hello
@Kepler 186-F I am fine you.?
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Gotta love Hyeni, there would never be a dull moment with her around.
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Saebom and Hanseul exposing them selfs without thinking, they are officially awesome family!
Hyeni is such a good reactor.
Definitely would watch her if she have her own channel.
I never knew there was such a thing known as good *reactor* 💀
@@rbhhndw2669 you must be living under a rock then.
@@ironclad-m3q maybe in the future there will be courses on,
How to be a good reactor. Lol 💀
@@rbhhndw2669 Maybe there should be, given how dilemmatic things have been with reaction videos recently.
Gays relax 😂 Korean people react like that is common in there, they overreact like the ki ohh yaa 😯😮😦they react it's common
Watching the two boys flinch when Hyeni demanded *"How much do you love me?!"* was the highlight of my day 😹
the way Hanseul speaks...is just on point...without making things awkward...This trio hits!!!!!!!!👏👏
HanSeul's voice is so deep and wonderful 😍
I saw hyeni and immediately clicked! One of my favorite girls 🥺
Love this group!!! Soooo funny and so honest and that coffee drip explanation was amazing and will stick with me for life ❤😂
Such a smooth epi!! Not even an awkward single moment!!! Loved it!! ❤️🔥❤️🔥👍🏼✨
Not gonna lie, I cried on a tram when Dreamcatcher won their first music show. I'm a grown man. Crying is healthy you guys. F the haters. :-)
It is healthy. After all, crying is a natural reaction.
But a "man up" attitude isn't always bad either. Sometimes we need to stop emotion from getting in our way.
@@ironclad-m3q tf
@@duckling4073 world isn't just black and white bro
@@ironclad-m3q sure it isnt, you probably meant something like not letting your emotions control you but the "man up" talk and just repressing your emotions is pretty toxic and thats what the conversation is about. Its how you phrase things.
@@duckling4073 Just like anything in life, I'm not taking the man up thing as a whole, not as black nor white. Only parts that I think make sense.
I think I already made it clear which part in my first comment.
I know that everyone will be comfortable with Hyeni.. The boys look more comfortable with her than others fr.
I kind of wonder what guys say about getting hit to the groin versus geting hit to the nose. Honestly, as a woman, getting hit between the legs hurts like crazy. But I'd say nose is worse, knee almost dislocating feels equally bad, a nail flipping or the not normal period pains that send us to the ground .... when it comes to all humans then we can all relate to many terrible pains.
The one reason why "ball to groin" stands out as "special", appears to be, that it's an instance where we socially agreed on men/boys having explicit permision to display pain in public and receiving public compassion without it (feeling AND receiving compassion) being framed as "weakness". Aka a remnant of so called "toxic masculinity" principles (or rather "unhealed masculine" principles).
In future, the reactions will hopefully be caring and compassionate no matter who gets hurt where and under what circumstances!
As a woman getting hit in the boobs hurts real bad too. I've never been hit in the crotch so I've no idea what that's like.
@@Rezzmari ah that can hurt so badly. Getting an elbow hit on your boob is so freaking painful. Like why???
As a guy who has been punched in the balls several times, along with punched in the nose/headbutt in the nose a few times, getting punched in the balls hurts way more than anything to the nose. Breaking my nose and deviating my septum ultimately hurt less than getting punched in the balls. There’s been a few times where I’ve gotten hot and cold flashes from it and it feels like my entire body is empty at the same time. Kind of contradicting the feeling of the body being empty, at the same time it feels like this constant lingering pain that refuses to go away after the initial strike to the balls. The majority of the time though, any sort of hit to that area, light or not, will illicit that lingering effect down there in that general area afterwards.
To be fair though, they were some very accurate nut shots, and I’m not sure if anyone else I know has experienced the hot and cold flashes before.
@@LoganBerg-ov8iu My friend, how come you are getting punched in the balls so often.
4:29 as a man. Getting hit in the balls is terrible. When you get hit the pain not only is in the balls part but the abdomen, balls, chest. It knocks the wind out of you. Immense pain you can’t breathe or talk. It’s like a kill switch for men.
Nah i hit my crotch to the corner of a desk and it hurt like hell so i believe the pain is pretty much the same for boys and girls 🧐
The fact that they both unconsciously crossed their legs when talking about getting hit in the goodies is cracking me up 😂
The guys answered like how most of us guys even here in the U.S react about that stuff. So it's not surprising how they were able to explain it with nothing too explicit, but they still did it good.
I think the elders ask about marriage because they hope to witness it, not because to pressure anyone. I wish my grandparents could have been at my wedding. Missed them.
Lol to me these three handled this perfectly...with maturity and humour...which helps flow of discussion
Mind you I'd like to experience what it's like as a fella for a few weeks, I feel they have life far easier with everything, haha! 😎
Is there pressure for marriage? It's not for everyone 👍👍. Sweet video thou ❤️❤️
I'm 21 but this kind of topic is nothing.. No need to be ashame of..
It's lot more hilarious when you understand the meme and others speak about it innocently 😂
The drivers license thing is so funny to me as someone from the U.S.!
i spent the whole video thinking that hanseul was super cute... maybe because of the sweater covering his hands, or him covering his face when laughing... really cute guy
Hyeni could be a kpop idol! She’s so pretty
Yes! "When I'm wealthy enough." I'll borrow this one the next time someone ask me.
Can I just say how damn great he looks in this video… like gosh
I really like this combination of people^^ maybe they could do a video with deep talk or something?^^ I think it would be nice ^^
but it also hurts girls a lot , when they get hit in this place , ask the gymnasts ,when they fall on the beam .There is not much flesh, it is a blow to the bones, think of a kick in the shin, and transpose it to this place
"It depends upon the people" it's his favourite phrase
I remember saebom from mbti show😃. He was one of my favorite contestant
여보세요! So glad to have hyeni back again! Petition to have hyeni and heejae gang back again~~! 555
I hate the “When are you getting married?” question so much! So in years of being asked that by elders “When God will let me know you'll be the first to find out through a wedding invitation. OK?” They just stop after that. 😁
I'm Eastern European by the way.
This group is just like my friends group,we just spit out everything and don't feel shy of anything 😂
I always love watching you three.
I COMPLETELY agree with Hyeni on this on 9:00
They are a super fun group together ❤️
My boyfriend and I are older than Hanseul wow! He also looks older than us, I’m surprised how mature he looks for his age.
4:00, getting hit in the balls is the same numbing pain as girls when she gets stinging menstrual cramps. same areas, tons of nerve endings
I think they should make a video talking deeper about what each of them do.
the part where he said we emphasize the pain has me wheezing
The Mergle sound from World of Warcraft at the start cracked me up.
That girl is Nice . I like her smile and reaction, but I don’t understand all those things what show because they are true here❤
im not a guy but when a guy gets hurt there i also feel the pain lol
Where are you from?
@@keniawrights6022 I'm from bangladesh
@@amenaakter2303 And I already knew it because of your name lol. Iam also from BD
@@keniawrights6022 that's not my name it's my sisters name
@@amenaakter2303 woh it's okay
Now it’s weird to watch coffee machine 😂😂😂😂
Being a male in the U.S.A. I have been asked many times by girls. "Why are you not crying?"
As for trying to get women to understand what it is like to be hit in the testicles. I tell them to imagine their breasts were shrunk to the size of a walnut but they still had the same number of nerves in them. Then place them between your legs in a very fragile bag that doesn't stay in one place.
Honestly getting hit in the boobs is already plenty painful. And given that getting kicked in the nuts is said to be a shorter équivalant of giving birth... I feel se bad for you guys. That's bad
The guy in black look like actress Park Jinjoo when he smiles 🥰
It must have been cold in the studio while filming. Everyone was making sweater paws.
I agree with Hyeni with "men can't cry" bullsh!t
That white hoodie boy voice same like BTS jimin awww 🙈
That first one is bout morning wood. It's like an antenna that helps you with dreams or sleep, so when you wake up it would still be hard. Also when you go pee it would cause an issue since some random reason will prevent you from peeing normally.
6:15 he's holding in a fart next to the pretty girl lmaooo
I'm not a man but I always thought it was because blood rushes down there upon waking is why it is hard.
@@Rezzmari thats why the expression that guys have "All his blood went to his dick than his brain, thats why he did dumb shit" happened XD
But yeah, the reason why it gets hard is because everything gets tense there and the blood flow will increase. Thats why guys pass out after the release happens sometimes. I've been mostly tired after so its not out of the realm of possibility XD
HanSeul looks so familiar. maybe he was on here before. not sure. This was a great episode. I'm happy the three castmates were so involved
HANSEUL LOOKS LIKE LEE MIN-HO THE ACTOR IN HEIRS OR THE MALE LEAD FROM KING THE LAND
When I was born my parents told me I didn’t even cry but I just stayed there staring
This was a good group. Very funny.
I think now I will not be able to drink coffee again ☕️
The thumbnail-
I empathise with guys who get hit where they shouldn’t…I cannot imagine the level or extent of pain but it makes me cringe…I’ve never found them getting hit there funny, but unfortunately we’ve normalised laughing at such situations so much.
Saebom was the Friend of a youtuber called Kim miso
Is that hyeni's real eye colour? It's beautiful
0:23 is that the World of Warcraft Murloc noise??? why
is that KSI's laugh at 4:34 ? LMAO
I'm curious because I'm not used to it, when someone asks you how old you are do you give the Korean age or international age? I recently found out the difference and realized how often age comes up in shows and I'm trying to learn. Ty.
Should keep the meme longer on screen. Had to pause a lot or return to actually see/read everything
Imma be honest: It looks like the guys are a couple and the girl is one of their sister 🤣🤣🤣
Like the guy in black so real
I came for the thumbnail 👀😆😆
Where is the thumbnail meme in the video? 😳
@@yummiechox Well if you're new here, you'll find most of the thumbnails just clickbaits😂
Heejae , byungeun , sungwoo era was THE best era
I want the same sweatshirt as the guy in black. Where can i get it?
U guys lovk the door of your room 😭
Saebom...He looks like a guy from Produce × 101
0:35 ❤❤
Can we get a reaction to African musician (Burna boy) please 🙏
me being a girl and understanding it all
Amazing 😍
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I'm not a guy but I understand 😭😭
Thumbnail is clickbait they never showed it i mean the question if accidentally girl touched boys leg it's a trauma for me.
If you're a regular viewer you'll know, if you're new, their thumbnails are mostly clickbaits😂
@@sneha-7 regular one🤣
They are so cute.
not only men. like genitals don't determine someones gender etc.
Can understand her!!
Hyeni, you are so cute!!
The whole boys aren't supposed to cry because they're men is just downright stupid. We're all humans! We have emotions and if that's a problem in your eyes, that sounds like a you problem.
Well I have seen the men around me cry as much as the women so for me i find it pretty ridiculously foreign idea. I don't know if in foreign countries men crying is actually a thing
Hye-Ni kinda looks like Shin Hye-Sun.
Okay guys where is byungeun ???????? He doesn't seem to come in the videos wht happened
The avatar state when men are strongest but also the most vulnerable.
Can anyone tell me what is the name of this group?! I'm actually confused 😅
I still don't understand the first one
Wow SECOND 💃💃💃
I think women pains are more related to them not knowing how to take care of themselves when they are younger.
That guy is making that face because he’s sitting next to a girl.
999k subscribers 😂
God 🙏🙏 is coming back repent now before it's too late
Hilarious ^^
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Someone please explain me how the mandatory military service in korea makes life any harder
Guess what, people are different and it's nonsense to force them through the same system on a superficial filter basis like gender. Especially if htat system is a crazy inflexible type. So being forced to interrupt careers and any life situation just cause you meet the critera "male" plus "x age" (
@@KxNOxUTA ight then maybe they should make some changes into the system. don't know excatly which all things have to change and how because i'm not a politician but it would be a very expensive investment to make it completely volunteer. plus i also went through military service (and I was not asked if I want to join or not)
@@LeinoSmaul they are literally still at war with a country that threatens to blow them up I don't think they can scrap or change it. They did decrease the time tho but it's not optional for them they give up their early 20s to go serve
@@likhwezititus yea I know they can't just change the whole thing around bc I also went through mandatory service and didn't think it was that bad. i think literally the only thing they have to change is the way they treat people there.
@@LeinoSmaul bullying, hierarchy and hazing is TERRIBLE in the korean military. You should research the drama DP.
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