why haven't you and i spoken in seven years?
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
- boy meets world (1993 - 2000)
season 7 episode 16 ''the peace (aka seven the hard way)''
the gang is reeling from the battle that began with a petty argument
lose one friend, lose all friends, lose yourself
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cory matthews
shawn hunter
topanga lawrence
eric matthews
jack hunter
angela moore
rachel mcguire
mr george feeny
amy and alan
morgan matthews
corpanga
jeric
shangela / shawngela
topangela
girl meets world
bmw gmw
hot badass cute soft happy sad
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They captured the awkwardness of running into someone you haven’t seen in years that you used to hang out with constantly
Yeah it did.
trev sla: What the excerpt shows is . . . .you/we can't go back. And. . . .life . . .constantly moves FORWARD. On the other hand, memories DON'T leave like people do.
God, you're right. It's so hurtful, but when people grow up, they grow up; People change once every 7 years. Sadly in the age of social media this is going to be the norm.
@@Thechimeradragon-xc9tq Is that right?? People change every 7 years?? Isn't it hurtful to have friends that no longer speak to you.?
@@orianeasmore8941 that quote came from a Swedish study. Yes, it's more than horrible when good friends no longer talk to each other. However you have to admit Cory and Shawn were much more than friends. They went through the fire together.
Feeny asking Shawn if he’s happy and him saying “not yet” always gets me.
I feel it in my soul
Shawn: "Maya, I didn't meet you until I was 32 but... You're the reason I believe I can be a father one day"
So relatable
I’m 37 and I’m what Shawn is in this video.
@@LVM5584 i turn 37 next month 😟
As a kid…never truly understood this scene
As an adult… I felt this scene. So sad, yet true.
I don’t get it
Yeah, I used to watch this show as a kid myself. This episode was strange to me, I didn't get why they were unhappy.
Now into my mid 30s, it all makes sense in retrospect.
Sure.
Except No one I grew up with (let alone was friends with) is as successful as Jack
Yes. Time moves on as well as people.
A shame in a way
Hurts more when you are the only one keeps reaching out. You realize the friendship was one sided.
Yep that's why I'm alone now.
@@briankhon1487 lmao same was alone all junior and senior year and now im alone foreal
Yeah, I wonder that from time to time about my group. Growing up, I was always the listener/"therapist" of the group; so much so that I went to college so to do marriage and child psychology/therapy.
We have a group chat with the 7 of us in it, and most of the time we just use that, even if it's a question for just one person. Still I try to make an effort every month or two to just send out individual texts to them all just to check in on life. It is to stay in contact, but to also get an idea on how they are with their mental health.
Like I said; unfortunately it's crossed my mind numerous times that if I didn't check in, or if I stopped replying to the main group, how long would it take for someone to notice? And would they reach out?
Yeah I know the feeling
And you realize that it really wasn't a friendship at all.
This episode is even sadder to watch now that I’m older and lost all my highschool friends that I thought would be friends forever. Talks with squirrels was so right.
WHAT EPISODE IS THISSSS
See I have a friendship with someone just like Cory and shawn. Although we don’t see each other more than maybe once a year now it’s always love with hugs and deep talks. We also have phone calls every couple of months to just check in. I feel for people who end up in these situations. I couldn’t imagine seeing my old best friend and we just shake hands, or I didn’t know they had a kid.
I feel the same way my friends and I were so close we were like family and now we're complete strangers
@@makenziecoffin9959 I think it was a what if episode. Like it’s just them thinking of what the future is gonna be.
@@ca9404 there was a friend i was friends with for 30 years than in December we disagreed on politics he said covid was fake i said it was real and we had gotten over that, than his new wife stepped in and we were talking and that was brought up again and she said i'm ending this for good and i haven't spoken to him since. my point? he had moved away in (2004) and we've pretty much kept in contact through celly or e-mail since he moved away. now? i dunno if we are even friends anymore cause of stupid shit.
than i ran into another old friend i hadn't seen in at least 15 years i have known the other since (1991) this one i have known longer since (1989) ! and we've been texting back and forth my point those and one more friend i haven't seen in a few years are the only people iv'e spoken to since i graduated high school in (1999)
Shawn as a Rolling Stone journalist fits his character so well.
Not really.
@@kjax0630 You must have not watched the show.
He even has the Matt Taibbi hat lol
But he and Cory were best friends forever I get they lost communication with Angela but with shaw too 😭
Why did I think of Generation Kill?
Here’s something what people don’t realize:
A cellphone works both ways. Either side can contact one another. If neither choose to, both sides are at fault.
Exactly! I keep in contact with my good friends at least once every 2 weeks. We may not get to hang out since I've moved 2 hours away but it makes our few times of seeing each other that much meaningful. It's hard to "catch up" over a 5 year absence.
some choose not to text , call or hangout because their lives have changed for better or worse and some friends aren't into your " lifestyle "
I think he knows that. He just said the truth. He didn’t blame him.
@@dfangirl72 Very true
@@jeffskphx a lot of my " school " friends are still into things that they should've grown out of already .
Only thing I think would still be true is feeney’s interaction with Shawn “I have collected all of your articles” Mr. Feeney always believed in Shawn. He always loved Shawn. Always was eager to see him succeed.
❤❤
And then girl meets world happened and Shawn marries…someone else. I wanted Shawn and Angela together more than I wanted Cory and Topanga together
Huh? 😲🤔... I guess the show has something for everyone. 🤷🏾♂️
Not to mention it was Angela who convinced Shawn to pursue Katy and stick with her.
Blaspheme
Angela never wanted to come back to the show cus how bad they treated her
Still she could’ve been written as his wife but that she travels a lot for work so that’s why she’s not always around. Also they could’ve had scenes with him texting and calling her. It wouldn’t have been that hard to keep such a good relationship for the two of them. They easily made Angela’s husband existing yet not existing. They just wanted some very bland relationship for Shawn and it’s a slap in the face that Angela encouraged it because of the writers. She became the one that got away.
I love how even despite their separations and distance from each other, they all have that ONE teacher, Mr. Finney, that they still have that connection with. The one who affected their lives so much they couldn't NOT talk to him even after school, even if they stopped talked to each other.
Which was weird, since I don't remember Angela, Jack, or Rachel having more than 3 conversations with the guy.
Its kind of surreal how close to this Girl Meets World ended up being. Shawn being the lonely drifter journalist, Topanga being a powerhouse lawyer, Jack got a job that made him a bad guy (even if he didn't think of himself as one), Shawn and Cory rarely spoke or spent time together, and no one had correspondence with Angela even in the age of information.
And then there was Eric...
Unprecedented connection of sound and video, instantaneous connection from almost anywhere in the world, and people who loved each other just stopped talking, thinking 'well they didn't call me either'.
Except her name being Beverly…
How is it surreal? You say that as if this scene predicted the future. Clearly the *writers* used it as inspiration for where to pick up.
I caught clips from Girl Meets World and Cory and Shawn kept more in touch compared to this. Yeah he was traveling but that did keep in touch
@@Hotobu because sequel writers are infamous for not following any continuity and being only vaguely familiar with the source material they are writing for
@@Sumguyinavan_ But in this case they were so...
The Shawn and Angela interaction hurt me then and it tears me up inside now. They were the only couple I ever really stanned as a kid growing up years ago.
It was so stupid. Shawn and Angela are endgame. Corey and Topanga would be divorced.
@terrancehall9762 I don’t know. Cory and Tapanga are annoying perfect for one another, I don’t think they’d be divorced. I think we all know that one couple that have been together since high school. I prefer Angela & Shawn though, seemed more realistic.
@@Brian-gh7fj tbh, t and c are very toxic. even in the clip, corey is very controlling
@ terrancehall9762 toxic? If you say so I guess… Just seems a little extreme to me. I never remember him abusing or cheating on her. He’d be stupid to-Tapanga was out of his league, she definitely settled for him.
@@Brian-gh7fj even in this clip he is controlling
I'm so grateful for my best friend. We grew up together, roomed together at college, we both stood in each other's wedding, and now we live 10 minutes down the road from each other. She has a 1 year old and I have one on the way. This year marks 20 years of friendship.
Congratulations my dude, you are some of the rare types to have a person like that.
If you can keep 1 or 2 good friends from childhood to adulthood, you are doing a great job of keeping friends.
I’ve also know my best friend ever since we were both 2 yrs old and we’re still friends to this day! Sisters for life 🥹💖💖 I’m 23 going on 24 btw haha
❤️❤️
gave me goosebumps reading. awesome bro
This episode is one of my all time faves. It’s pretty realistic when you think of how adult relationships change after college/high school. When everyone goes their separate ways and morphs into their own ppl, it can be hard to keep in touch and easy to isolate yourself. Also, I hate that the writers never made Shawn and Angela end game. I really think they could’ve done something there, even in girl meets world, I would’ve preferred some development with them over Shawn and Maya’s mom.
God why am i drawn into boy meets world again. It's so sad making me think of my child experiences and highschool/college
and where i am at now
and who i am now.
the people i befriends and lost or had to cut loose
it's sad to think that it's all in the past
That’s just reality most people have that one person that got away
Yeah but I’d still like Shawn to be a father figure if not her step father.
@@castronatefit5754 yeah that's also true
In life general
Ppl grow apart
I really like how much “room to breathe” there is in this show. They don’t beat the audience over the head. The pace is good and way slower than so many shows that came after it. It’s amazing how from the 2000’s onward, the pace of entertainment got faster and faster. This show really allows the audience to get to know each and every character. And they make a point to value every character.
You're right. Boy Meets World really leaned into the writing and gave people reasons/time to reflect. It had time to tell stories and it used that well.
@@TrueNomadSkies Thank you. That’s true. It’ll definitely always be a show I really appreciate.
You are so right! Never thought about the pace of the show until now. I miss this show so much 😢
@@creamycazz1 Thank you. Me too.
Shawn and Angela were probably my favorite couple out of my childhood shows. Writers and actors did an amazing job on this scene.
Then they ripped them apart 😭
@@tygerchickchibi we dont acknowledge the series finale OR the reboot. In my mond Shawn and Angela ended up together
@@IjeomaThePlantMama I took a photo with them at i con i went to a few years ago. I was so happy.
To be honest I think Shawn and Angela were good but I think he should’ve ended up with Dana 😭
Any girlfriends? Not yet
Any prospects? Not yet
Are you happy? Not yet
That was Deeeeep
Honestly one of my fave lines in the episode, and perhaps the whole show.
Watching this small clip really hits home smh...
Deep? Really, you only swim in a pool don’t you
@@thereisnopandemic Oh wow, why so mean?! 😆🤦🏾♀️
Idk it was nice but I don’t like the idea of people being describe as miserable, bitter, sad, lonely or unhappy because they don’t have a partner. I don’t like the narrative that single people aren’t truly happy if they don’t have someone. Sure having a lifelong partner, someone you live next to you is a beautiful thing but not always. Being happy w/ yourself, loving life, sharing it w/ people you love or people you meet along the way is also very much beautiful. I’m single, working in a job I love, surrounded by friends and family, having the time of my life and I am happy. It took a while bc being fed that “you must get married or have a partner to be happy” line all my childhood, I was convinced that I need and want that. Now it’s just a weird concept that your happiness depends on someone else instead of yourself.
"Why haven't we talked in 7 years?"
Answer - Life. You want to, you mean to, you think about it, but other things get in the way. School is often what brings you together, after graduation, school isn't there anymore. Plans of getting together over the summer give way to having summer jobs at different places. You go to college, at different schools, in different parts of the state. Time goes on. One day, 5 or 6 years later, you're walking through a store or something and you see your best friend from then. The conversation goes like:
"High School Best Freind's Name?"
"Your Name?"
"How are you?"
"I'm good. You?"
"I'm doing ok. Working for X, up for a promotion. How about you?"
Someone walks up, "Honey, who's this?"
"This is ________, we went to school together. ______________ this is my husband/wife."
"YOU'RE MARRIED?!"
"Yeah, expecting our first child in 6 months."
"Congratulations, it's great to see you. We should get together sometime."
"Great to see you too. We should do that."
Conversation lasts less than 5 minutes. And you don't get together.
Facts.
Spot on especially the last line. We should get together sometime, yeah that would be great let’s do that aaaaannnnnd it rarely ever happens because schedule wise it just doesn’t work unless you both make it work and once you hear well maybe next time the possibility gets even lower to the point you just move on until the next chance encounter which may happen years from now or never at all.
Might be this way for the older generations but my generation is so interconnected through social media that everyone who’s ever mattered to us in our adolescence is going to stay in the loop whether they want to or not
Not to mention that quite often you and your onetime pals change+ become folks that neither of you have anything in common any more- and don't wanna hang with after spouting off old memories.
@@specialk4125 yeah but this generation can’t help hold a meaningful conversation let alone let 5 minutes go by without showing you a lame TikTok 🙄
I don’t know why I tear up watching Feeney and Shawn’s interaction, but I do. Such a special moment! ☀️
I tear up too.
Feeny was the stable father figure Shawn needed. I would absolutely attribute Shawn's success to Feeny's influence (with all those lectures lol). So to know that Shawn and Feeny kept in touch via mail was heartwarming 💛💛💛
Since Cory and Shawn knew each other since kindergarten, I don't buy that they would drift apart like this. I'd understand if they just hanged out a few years in high school, but they literally grew up together as brothers.
I’ve known my best friend since kindergarten still talk to him on a weekly to near daily basis. Nearly a 3 decade long friendship.
Trust me I got one of my boys who I’ve known since infant see him as my brother haven’t seen him in 2 years and we haven’t spoken in like a year
@@madebywise516 Give him a call man! That's your brother. Don't let 1 year not talking turn into 7.
It happens more than you think.
@@MrSkeltal268 I mean, there are literal blood related siblings who drift apart. There are always exceptions. Of the best friends who spend every day with each other from 5 to 22 years old, it's reasonable to say *some* of them inexplicably stop talking to each other. But that's not normal.
Rider's third "not yet" was so heavy. I know he thinks now that he can't act, but he's very, very good. And that little moment said so so much
Did he say that
@@roselynholloway7863 on the podcast a few times
@@tlewisisdope ok
Yea, I'm surprised people laughed in the audience, that hit me in the feels.
@digthewarmth it's a dark humor moment. Since it's the repetition thing but just. The gravity of what it means is uncomfortable enough to laugh at.
Rider was and is an amazing actor even if he doesn't believe it. What podcast was he on? What's the name of it? I'd love to listen.
"So, is there anybody special in your life?" "No, Not yet." "Any prospects?" "Not yet." "Are you _happy?"_
*_"... Not yet."_*
Audience: *Awkward chuckle*
me: *dies inside.*
I feel this on a deep level. Had a great friend from 5th all the way through high school. Even sat next to me at graduation (close last names) and I haven’t spoken to her since a few months after grad. That was over 10 years ago. Hope she doing good in life and is happy.
I hope so too. It is never too late. I never had any friendships like that. It is better to have had that like you than not to have had it at all. You are very lucky.
You should call her man.... She may need it. You never know where people are in life. As a guy who has lost and made plenty of friends.... I know.... Connection, keeping a line of communication with the people we care about is what keeps us alive inside. Plays with squirrels was correct. I didn't understand it as a teenager but as an adult I get it.
Imagine a world without social media, where you had to call or write friends when you moved away.
I dislike social media as much as the next person, but I for sure would not have contact with ANYONE from the past if it wasn't for social media. I hate writing letters and phone calls and until I got on social media a few years ago I hadn't talked to many people in over ten years
Don’t have to. I lived it.
still happens even with social media.
My mom who was with generation boomer, she was able to get in touch with friends she didn't hear from in decades thanks to facebook. It has its evils, but it has done some good too as well.
The best is when they friend request just to see your page and never talk to you....gotta love social media?
Shawn & Angela should have ended up together and that goes for Girl Meets World too I demand a redo
She really didn't know how to love Shawn
He was staring at her
@@brittaniharold1880You need to rewatch the show. He broke up with her and broke her heart multiple times. She was very afraid to open up to him after that with good reason.
@@propogandalf I did and Shawn learned to love but Angela didn't.
When you haven’t seen your childhood and/or high school friends in years & fell out of contact. The feeling hurts.
All my high school friends stabbed me in my back. I’ve seen a few around randomly out shopping or on my way to work years apart and it’s so weird when they act so happy to see me. One girl I was really cool with even asked that I hang out with her one day, of course I never went. It’s just too weird to rekindle something that was broken
@@cressidaaaaadamn this just happened to me last year. Had a couple reach out saying they miss me but my life got way better once I cut them off. Sometimes it’s better to just walk away.
Watching this as a kid, it was just a future sequence from a show. Watching it as an adult with a wife and kids, with buddies I haven’t seen in how long… hits differently.
You Have A Duty As A Friend Too, Children Are Brats And Wont Remember Anything Until They're Older So Spend Time With Your Friends Too, All It Teaches Your Children Is They MUST Be In A Relationship Which Teaches Daughters To Go With Abusive Men Just To Be In One Instead Of Concentrating On Positive Friendships.
Real friends will stay in touch. Some people you meet along the way they are cool and all that. Then for whatever reason you don't share the same building with them and you are the only one reaching out to say hi. It's over and its not bad guess is just nature
Love how in these shows everyone is successful..Shawn writes for rolling stone after being a fuck up forever, none of them went down a bad track.
If you have fucked up your life and it remains fucked up, you don't want to meet old friends who have become successful.
Most people end up ok
@@smithmarina970 Which would be ok if we weren't all told our entire lives that we would do great things so that turning out ok feels like failing.
@@elementblue780 Exactly. Keep reaching for the stars buddy, and never lose focus.
@@justinchristoph3725 the main reason I've avoided going to any High School reunions.
Hits home hard. Even worse when you get a divorce and all your “friends” disappear.
Because you probably forgot about em when you got married. It's how life is
@Annedolf Frankler LOL!
@Annedolf Frankler !! 😎😎👍🏻👍🏻
@Annedolf Frankler Your name alone tells me you are unhappy.
@@loristrode9556 No, because the friends you had as a married couple were closer to your spouse than you. Sometimes it can be awkward with divorced friends, especially when they don't get a long. Then the friend group kind of just picks one of them to keep the rest of the group intact.
Aw, right to the feels. This is definitely how highschool and college friendships fizzle out.
Heart breaking scene...outside of traveling the world i feel like Shawn.
Feeny: Anyone special?
Shawn: No
Feeny: And prospects?
Shawn: No
Feeny: Are you happy?
Shawn:.................not yet
I graduated HS 12 years ago and College 8. It’s so surreal how true this scene is. These days the most I “speak” to them is a like on a Facebook update.
Lol this makes me sad because we are around the same age then and I feel this hard. I graduated HS 11 years ago, college 7 years ago.
My 35 Year HS Reunion is this year. There was no social media when I graduated. When you lost touch, you lost touch. It was amazing how fast it happened. I would run into people on occasion but didn't really see anyone until the 10 Year Reunion. At least today, you can keep up a little. Send them a Congratulations on a wedding, baby, etc.
He STAYED in his feelings every episode.
is called living
Exactly boy was a diva
He was supposed to be the troubled bad boy with feelings lol drama 🙄
The look that Shawn gives Topanga when he’s asking Cory “why have you and I spoken in 7 years?” Is so quick and subtle. But so perfect.
This! And when you go back over all the episodes, Shawn always had to check Corey about how quick he was to disregard their friendship for Topanga. Dare I say it... Corey was a SIMP! 😩
@@NikkiKNuvo omg not the simp term lol he’s not a “simp” for being in love with his girl and wanting to spend all his time with her that’s actually normal and it happens often when people get into serious relationships and then spend all their time with their girlfriend/boyfriend and their best friends can end up feeling left out
The thing about most high school relationships is they're based on proximity. You become friends with whoever's there that you can stand the most. So it makes sense that when you grow up and meet new people and have new experiences (and options), those early friendships often fade.
But sometimes you find a real kindred spirit even in school. I met my best friend when we were 8 years old on a 4-H field trip. We're still best friends to this day, well into our 30s. I think this never landed as realistic for me because Shawn and Cory were so clearly more than proximity friends. Their friendship in adulthood would have changed with them, but it wouldn't have just fizzled out. Glad they showed that to be true in Girl Meets World.
Same thing with romance. This is why so many end up hating their spouse. We have to explore more.
Most relationships in life are based on proximity genius.
Remember, Corey + Topanga go to New York in like 10 episodes. The group all leaves anyway. If Coreys in New York, who is pulling Shawn by the ear to New York to fix this fight?
Angela and Rachel are roommates. It's not like either of them knew anyone else in town they could live with. So its weird that they didn't at least patch things up. Jack at least had enough money to move out though.
Thats because this show isnt real or based on real characters? Lol in real life shawn and cory would have gotten houses next to each other or have jobs in the same building. Literally during that time of the show they were still teenagers trying to portray them as adults. People fall out of high school friendships mainly due to location differences. If you have been best friends since kindergarten you would find it harder to separate even parents know this.
@@Unbothered92 The friends I had from Kindergarden, only one of them lasted as long as my highschool friendships. I'm not still in contact with any of them.
Though, considering what we saw in GMW, i'm kind of surprised Shawn even had his own house. He travels around the world all the time, makes more sense that he'd have lived in the apartment above Corey + Topanga's garage. Shawn never gave the impression he wanted to settle down and the place he chose was far from everyone. That's more of a vacation cabin he should have had.
At some point you feel guilty that you haven't reached out in so long then you feel like if you do you're a stranger bothering them.
🥲 Shawn and Angela. In my head they never broke up, they lived happily ever after💘
Shawn and Angela would have made a GREAT couple.
They were a great couple. I don’t know why they didn’t end up together.
@@2011zeldafan racism...
@@seanjones5682 Yawn. So boring and unoriginal.
@@taxthesocialist2602 ...and yet you just couldn't help but comment. How typical....
@@taxthesocialist2602 No, it's true. The actress said she didn't want to return because everyone except for actor who plays Shawn treated her like shit behind the scenes. Some of them have since apologised but that's why Angela never returned to GMW
It's sad how accurate this is when you realize alot of "friends" you had weren't friends at all
They were just there for the time being
@@magicalindigoadult3838exactly how it was, during that time until the last day of high school
Yep.
How many of those friends did you try to hang onto yourself and how many did you just hang out with because you had the same classes for 4 years?
They WERE friends. The problem I'm seeing in this comment section is that people think friendship is supposed to last forever. They could, but they don't have to. Friendships that span a portion of your lives are still worthwhile. But people experience sadness when they realize not everything is permanent, so they want to latch onto the idea that friendships must continue forever. But they don't. And that's OK. It's better to reflect on the experience than to suffer with the illusion that it's supposed to last forever.
So glad I got to grow up with this show and these characters, really taught us a lot of lessons that we would need through the years! Even though at the time we didn’t realize it
That’s true
Where were ya family for that
@@toomuchfourU teaching me how to spell properly LMFAO
😢 I agree
Absolutely. One of the best shows in my formative years. Elementary school and middle school rocked every Friday cuz of this show.
I grew up relating to Shawn. Now I live alone, create art, and have moved as soon as my lease is up every year since turning 18. This clip of his life and relationships is even more relatable.
Did you make money from your art
You keep moving all the time?
@@tmrevengenever stayed in the same place longer than a year.
@@Miguel-pv6ql I have had people who have wanted to buy my paintings but I never sold any. I mostly do photography, family photos, and things like that.
@@TheAshley11189 that sounds cool for meeting new places, but a lot of work (packing, unpacking and cleaning) for how many years have you been doing it?
Such is life. I’m in my 30’s and I look at people as just in the moment. People from childhood, teen years, young adult years, and people at various jobs I had were just people in the moment. We’re all just here interacting and providing knowledge to one another, then when you’ve moved on with your life, you realize they were a thing in the past. I’ve met thousands of people in my life so far and I only know about a good 3.
i grew up watching this. never got to see the ending but watching this hits home bad. Highschool was the best years of my life. i often wonder how everyone is doing today, seen a few that passed away, know some that got on drugs, a few that followed there dreams but the most of them i havnt heard from since i graduated. this is sad
Hey well I got off drugs( fentanyl) and I'm a year sober now 🙃 ur friend might just need that call
@@ce-rf3lg You got off what? 🤨
@@SMFCAWFAN fentanyl is a synthetic opioid
Yo black Beard, if you're being serious, time to make a lifestyle change. High school DOES NOT have to be the best years of your life. What are you in your twenties, thirties? Turn it around bro, high school should just be bittersweet memories.
Reminds me of Ed Sheerans song "Castle On The Hill". A deep tune that takes you on a Rollercoaster of emotions.
Man this scene feels heavy... Honestly there's only a couple of people from high school that I talk to semi-consistently. There's people that I miss even a few who've passed away, but to be honest I hated high school a lot and got bullied relentlessly.
So do I. I only talk to at least one eighth of my classmates.
@@purposebehindthepen That’s one eighth more than me.
Same here
Same. I miss nobody really. But that’s ok ! (:
This is all a dream, guys. There’s no changing of the baby’s name somewhere between 2006 and 2014 because it’s just a dream.
It would have been a good running joke to have Beverly be her first name and Riley just hating it
The ego of Jack in this scene, OMG.
yeah
Yeah
Yeah
He said "Good". Not even it's more extravagant synomyms such as "great" or "excellent". Good! Lol.
Worst heartbreak of this whole scene for me
That black queen is beyond beautiful
Yass😅
I really thought Shawn and Angela would have ended up together, but after girl meets world my hopes were shattered
People outgrow their friends sometimes. Life happens
It's just jarring because we were so, so, so close. Practically inseparable
@@TCt83067695 I've had that happen. It's unsettling, but I realized that sometimes we have to let go of people so either we or the person can grow. I try to love & enjoy my people as much as I can bc you never know how much time you have w/anyone. Life is funny that way.
True but I have no one now.
True but I have no one now.
Exactly
Love how Sean is drinking wine in this episode when they literally had a whole episode about how alcoholism runs in their family and Sean can't drink without problems forming.
I thought about that but he's drinking something different than Cory who for sure got alcohol so there's a chance Shawn's not drinking alcohol.
It's probably Cranberry juice.
He could be drinking since it's a dark future.
A lot of writers are drunks so it fits
Clearly his facial hair just grew in for the first time, so he’s probably drinking Juicy-Juice.
Always was fan of this show it was a comedy , but definitely dealt with real life experiences and events.
It’s apart of life. My pops was wise enough to always remind me my friends are friends for now. Life gets quieter the older you get.
Thats just how reality is. People move on and live their own lives. I had a best friend(his words) back in the late 2000s. We weren't friends in high school but started hanging out 3 years after. We did everything together. After he finished university, he found a girlfriend that would eventually become his wife. He went from brother from another mother to stranger overnight. As sad as I was, I had to eventually realize that I'm a loner and move on with my life. I only heard 11 years later from someone else that they got married and had kids. I'm happy for the guy. Life goes on for everyone else even when yours doesn't. Make the best of what you have and move on with it.
This scene almost mirrors Girl Meets World, which upsets me.
well isn't it the other way around?
They both were BUMMERS but least this scene was just ONE scene while 'Girl Meets World' was an entire series!
It's a true storyline. Some of the closest friends I had in high school and growing up, we haven't spoken on any level for over 25 years. Sad, but that's life.
That is truly sad. I never imagined that this would happen for close friends as well. I never had many close friends and I felt it only happened to people like me. Thanks for the reminder.
The laugh track @3:04 might be the darkest moment of this episode. These guys that we got to watch grow up together fell so far apart that one didn't even know the other was a dad now. LOL!
This episode growing up is why im always thinking about alternate lives and who would i know still or not know now IF i made certain life decisions
Same. I also try to appreciate the people in my life as well. All we can do is just try our best
This is heartbreaking after growing up watching them and now understanding this scene more being older damn
Shawn would never say Cory "Mathews" to Feeney. Feeney would know with just a Cory.
Being apart for so long they felt like strangers. I think the writers knew this. Very subtle touch
Ok....
@@JacketsOnFire I don't agree with the writers decision there. These aren't just guys who hung out for a few years in high school, they grew up together since like kindergarten. They're basically brothers. I don't think it's realistic that they'd stop talking to each other for years, let alone to stop being on a first name basis.
Honestly, it would have made sense for sean and angela to end up together, especially if he is a freelance journalist- he could travel the world with her
It Shawn
It’s even sadder now because Ben doesn’t talk to any of them and constantly ignores their calls and texts.
Why
Damn, this hits really hard. We you think about. As you age life goes on and people drift apart. But seeing this like THIS. Man, it stings a bit.
People either grow together and grow apart
This scene makes me appreciate that I’m still close with my best friends from elementary till this day.
How’d you do that? 😮
The writers put their feet in this episode. Such great writing for us when we were kids.
It’s so depressing how realistic the ending is I hate it but understand that they wanted to give the views a REAL ending
I havnt seen this is 24yrs. This hits home, holy moly.
my cousin who was mines and my brothers fave cousin showed me how people can change up on you out of nowhere...we used to have real good times as kids and teenagers the times we got to spend together...even in our early 20s, then about 5 years ago he stopped coming around...we no longer know about him or talk to him at all, only find out how he is doing every now and then from my mom telling us because his mom still talks to my mom. People you think are good friends will change on you from one day to another so dont ever get too comfortable with any relationship.
My blood literally boils when people say "why haven't you called?" I was the one that called for years it was one sided and it got old. Last I checked phones work both ways.
That’s why my motto is Level Up or Get Out. No tolerance for ghosts. I refuse to chase people.
Yes this is exactly how life goes at this age, its sad, went to my old best friend's wedding with all her job friend's, suddenly i wasnt important anymore or in every picture... when i graduated high school I though we would be friends forever as vitamin c graduation song said.. i only see them on facebook now...life really is like this, i use to love this show 💜
Most of us can relate to your story. I’ve tried meeting up with old friends and we were both in a much different headspace - our hobbies did not mesh at all anymore. That same feeling where you can finish each others sentence and hang out all day long doing anything(and still enjoy it) is just not there. They are still fine people but that special bond is just gone and it can’t be recaptured with our current personalities and lives
@brianmeen2158 yes everything you just said, everything changed right after graduation,
I just turned 40, graduated high school in 2002. Since then I have seen my childhood best friend only twice. Once I’m 2009 then again in 2018. Both times we picked up right where we left off. We talked about how we don’t see or talk often but life took us in different directions. We picked up right where we left off and I look forward to seeing him again in 2027 lol
Angela, Angela, Angela is so fine. And if what's his name don't take her. I'll take her.
Man the “not yet”. Hurt then and hurts even more now that I’m old.
Feeling very grateful for my friends right now. It’s been 20 years since high school, and I’m still in contact with the majority of the friends I made during that time in my life. I am very aware that isn’t the norm … So I’m grateful.
You are very blessed. That is a rare thing to have for sure. The reality for most people, sad as it seems, it seems to be what happened to Shawn.
Staying friends with High School mates is unrealistic. I have friends now that share my interests and some even show me some new ones. It is hard making new friends, but when you do (as a grow up) it's is really nice.
I was the friend who tried to keep old high school friendships alive, but after always sending texts or making calls but never receiving them, I quickly gave up and realized there is no point trying to keep something alive that only goes 1 way. As I aged and got busy with my own life, it became less important to have relationships with people who didn’t want one with me.
To make it worse, sometimes they had a change of heart but at that point I also moved on so it just became impossible to rekindle that spark and connection we shared as kids
I can honestly say I regret a lot from my childhood , one being friends with certain people. Sadly I chased friends like this growing up but today I have one that is like a brother
My best friend and I fell out right before I got married to my wife. I never thought I’d be Corey in this situation. Well fast forward 12-13 years of not speaking, I was wanting to reach out to him. Talked to his mom to get his contact information, found out he moved across the country. She gave me his number, I texted, called. He never answered. Tried looking him up on social media, nothing. About a week later, she sends me a message saying he unexpectedly passed away. Broke my heart. I always thought there was time to reconnect. Should have done it years earlier.
Edit/Update: After thinking about this a lot.
Losing a childhood friend has left me with a certain sadness. The memories I shared with him now feel less “real”. I now remember all these funny, crazy, wild moments we had growing up but now I’m like the sole keeper of these memories, which makes his absence all the more depressing. It's a unique grief, knowing that no one else holds these memories in the same way, and with his passing, it feels like a part of my own history has been lost too. Memories from my most formative years. I can’t call up anyone else to say “remember when we…”.
Call your friends while they’re still here.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I’m so sorry for your loss, reading this got me teary eyed 😢 you have a good heart
@@stephanielopes7148 thank you!
time just has a way of slipping away from us
I just realized that Girl meets world got at least one thing wrong the daughters name but I still love both shows taught me a lot
I remember watching this show as a kid and now I’m in this same position. It’s crazy how accurate it still is.
What's even worse now is that we now have social media sites like Facebook where we add each other as "friends" or had them as "friends" already before graduating/leaving school, yet we still don't reach out to each other. We just lurk and inform others about how they're doing, either for gossip or genuine care. Communication has reached it's sunken place more than ever.
It's incredible how well this show evolved from being the kind of humor to draw in kids, ending with a valuable lesson to be learned.
And then it slowly progressed into adult heavy life moments without any real answer or lesson. Just relatability.
Watching this reminds me:
Everyone drifts apart after school is over.
In my experience well when I graduated from high school everyone was basically dead to me and no one clapped for me when I walk across that stage.
Never truly got close to anyone as at that time I was learning something. I learn to spend time with people at least once because you may never see them again. I’ve had plenty of people I got along with and eventually went our separate ways. I guess that’s life lesson to life in the moment while people are in your life when times good, bad or something else. At least you’ll have the time spent together and not wasted. However, for me those were rare occasions. Ones I will no longer take for granted.
I always wondered what would happen if Corey and Shaun never became friends
Shawn an drunk like his father or prison Cory an teacher probably
Shawn would have def gone to jail. I don't think Corey would have ended up with Topanga.
A different actor would have been hired to play a different character.
Are you happy? Not yet. 💔
Man I love this scene because this is not 100 percent where their lives went. But it is fairly close
The weirdest thing about this show was Corey and Tapanga always reminded me of a couple I once considered friends going back to high school. Same mannerisms and how they talked the same way. I was basically like Shawn.
Nothing wrong with that. He might be the most authentic guy in the show.
True about high school friends. My college friends though, we still hang out once weekly even after 14 years of graduating.
IDC what anybody says, Angela and Shawn are endgame!
💯💯💯
Seeing this makes me feel so blessed to have 3 close friends I talk almost daily with for the last 20 years since middle school/high school, even with two of them being in the total other side of the country. I hope it continues for another 20, but to have made it through all these years, distance, children… it’s a real gift.
Shiiiiiii Disney hittin me hard in the FEELS. Don't worry kids, life gets easier to handle in your 30s. For some it doesn't but for many it does. The one thing I think life needs to address is that initial shock of turning 18. It's a huge blow.
This isn't disney...by the 6th season the show was totally ABC
@@razkable ....brah, ABC is owned by Disney...
Funny this came up on my feed. I bumped into someone yesterday I haven’t seen since high school. Close to 25 years ago. I realised life just reframes itself. They are settled down and married with kids. I’ve only just recently stopped working abroad. I’m not who I was yesterday let alone high school. It’s memories and common experiences that bind us they are sometimes not enough.
Shawn and Angela are still running away from each other.
As a child this glanced off, as an adult im fucking amazed by how profound and sad this episode is. 'Lose one friend, lose all friends, lose yourself'is fucking wisdom
I’m 32 now, and I don’t miss any of my friends. All you kids who just left high school, understand this: your dogs, your lady, your family- that’s all that matters. Trust me.
Your life isn't the life everybody wants. Not everyone wants a lady or dogs or has family
Ehh I see what you are saying. I look back and laugh at the good times we had but I also realize we are much different people these days ..I have tried meeting up with
Old friends and it was just completely different . That same bond and enjoyment was not there
So UA-cam is priming me to rewatch all of boy meets world??? Cuz I’ll do it!
It’s ironic that this is saying Rachel is the glue that holds this group of friends together and yet she was the only main character on the show to not come back in Girl Meets World.
Welp 🙃
Disney will forever be the best of my childhood memories 🥹
The older you get, the sadder this becomes
Wow. So relatable and so hard to watch at the same time. The only thing I'll leave anyone with is don't let relationships with people you care about go this long without speaking. Don't wait for tomorrow. Don't wait for that apology. Don't wait for them to call you. Just reach out. One thing I learned as I've gotten older - along with the Covid pandemic - is you may not have tomorrow. 7 years could turn into an eternity if that person is no longer living. 😢And I think it hurts worse when you didn't have the chance to tell them how you felt before their passing. Life's too short. Pick up that phone. Drive by their house and knock on the door. Whatever. Just do it.
This episode is so relatable because that is what live as an adult is like.