Chapter 13 part 2: Middle | Bella Yusuf

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  • @muslimah6326
    @muslimah6326 3 дні тому +65

    Your story has really opened my eyes even more
    as a young unmarried women. I hope you heal ❤️

    • @CashaAli-t7e
      @CashaAli-t7e 3 дні тому +2

      It definitely has 😢❤

    • @_SheRoseee_
      @_SheRoseee_ 2 дні тому +1

      🎯 It seems as though these stories are becoming more common by the day. With everything going on in the world right now and what women are actively fighting for and against, is marriage even worth it… 🤔

    • @muslimah6326
      @muslimah6326 День тому +2

      @@_SheRoseee_ unfortunately that's the case. That's why it's important to choose carefully and not rush.

    • @pretaporterp
      @pretaporterp День тому

      ​​@@_SheRoseee_ and i beat myself up for just talking and texting to someone that i knew from the beginning was a waste of time. And then i see beautiful women coming forward with these stories of having whole marriages and kids with these wicked men certainly puts things into perspective.

  • @zahrai1235
    @zahrai1235 6 годин тому

    Bella, I remember you from IG and always found you to be such a joy to watch, especially your makeup looks. Wow i related so much to this. My first marriage was draining with a covert narcissist. He drained the life out of me to the point I didnt want to live. The way I started from scratchhhh just to rebuild and become the woman I want to be was fueled by the determination that a low esteem man wont be my breaking point.
    The last words from him were similar to what you shared.
    “Oh.. I didnt realize you are a person with your own needs, wants and need support too”. I was so stunned and angry at how you can take so much from someone, torture them emotionally and just decide to discard them because they want to be taken care of too. It hurt me but freed me.
    Since then , I went to therapy, traveled, went back to uni, graduated , remarried, moved to a better city and happily pregnant with our first baby boy.
    May Allah make this the start to your glory years abayo. Allah has a plan for you. With hardship comes ease. May you have many eases over the years 💕💕

  • @Sara-sq3bj
    @Sara-sq3bj 4 дні тому +95

    I am sorry this happened to you. Honestly at this point whether you're in your 20's or 40's you never know who you marry until you live together. Praying for your healing and more growth in 2025🤗❤️🙏🏽

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  3 дні тому +1

      Exactly! Thank you so much ❣️

    • @aishawarsame4408
      @aishawarsame4408 3 дні тому +1

      You’re glowing so bright! Allahuma barik. Thank you for sharing and may Allah bring you the beautiful love you deserve Bella iA. Missed your face ❤

  • @truecrimeinc
    @truecrimeinc 3 дні тому +17

    I remember your bubbly personality from instagram. Really unforgettable. Don’t let anyone dim your light. You got this ❤.

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  3 дні тому +1

      Thank you babe 💋💋

  • @munimarvisuals
    @munimarvisuals 3 дні тому +31

    I saw how he looked at you when he thought that you weren't looking😢 horrible! He couldn’t contain his disgust not even while on camera! Narcissists go after the most bubbly, joyful, beautiful souls just to suck the life and light out of them. Uff. Alhamdulilah, you got out❤❤

  • @ednaabdiaziz5010
    @ednaabdiaziz5010 4 години тому

    Iam so sorry for what he put you through! Beautiful Bella you are supported and loved always remember that🤎

  • @fazsaid
    @fazsaid 2 дні тому +5

    My mom went through EXACTLY point to point of what you went through i learnt a lot from my mom and this video ( first time watching you) deffo staying for more content your voice is very motherly very warm very comforting thank you for this video cant wait to see you thrive sis🤍🤍

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  2 дні тому +1

      Thank you and I’m sorry your mother went through that ❣️

  • @khadraahmed5
    @khadraahmed5 3 дні тому +6

    Oh Bella, I've been following your journey on social media for what feels like a decade. You've always been in my thoughts, and I've often wondered how you’ve been holding up. Your light shines so brightly, and it's clear that no one could ever dim it. I’m truly sorry for everything you’ve had to endure; I’ve been through similar struggles myself, and I’m grateful every day that I found my way out. Please know that you’re doing what’s best for you and your kids, and you should be proud of your strength. You’ve got this!

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  3 дні тому

      Thank you my love 💋❣️

  • @moalimmoalim4839
    @moalimmoalim4839 3 дні тому +14

    You’re valued and all these years later you know your worth! Peace is very expensive. I hope it costs less now. Thanks for sharing your experience! You’re loved. ❤all the best!

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  3 дні тому +1

      Thank you so much I appreciate you ❣️

  • @Bellayusf
    @Bellayusf  4 дні тому +35

    Make sure to subscribe comment like and share 💋❣️

  • @amalhussen5122
    @amalhussen5122 4 дні тому +16

    Long time follower here & I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this. May Allah ease your pain and help you to achieve all the things you aspire to 💕
    I’m glad you getting rid of that man and you’re getting to live your best life with your babies very soon ❤

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  3 дні тому

      Ameen Thank you so much ❣️

  • @JoyaKMA
    @JoyaKMA 3 дні тому +12

    Omg Bella you were so quick with it, thanks for uploading the second episode I know to was a lot for you to edit. We thank you ❤

  • @lasso9220
    @lasso9220 7 годин тому

    Subhan Allah it’s really devastating. You never know how much they hold you down until you leave, and you’re glowing habibty keep your head up mama❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @wandaba90
    @wandaba90 3 дні тому +19

    I can tell that marriage gave you PTSD. As someone who left an abusive marriage a year and a half ago I can now see the signs. I’m in a much better space Alhamdullilah. Starting over is the best beautiful ❤

  • @naftanugaal5545
    @naftanugaal5545 3 дні тому +6

    I’m glad you didn’t give up very inspiring mom

  • @samiraleyah3484
    @samiraleyah3484 3 дні тому +1

    I’m so sorry you went through this. You didn’t deserve any of it. May Allah reward you every second of heartache and depression you went though. I want to hug you and tell you that you’re soooo strong for getting out of that. Your new life is gonna be so beautiful and so full of love and light, everything you deserve! Love you sister!

  • @starlight7825
    @starlight7825 День тому

    Im sorry you went through all this, may God bless you moving foward.x

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  12 годин тому

      Thank you babe ❣️

  • @ikhlasabdalle2939
    @ikhlasabdalle2939 2 дні тому +3

    The “I’m 10/10” felt so good 😊 go girl

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  2 дні тому

      🤣🤣❣️❣️❣️

  • @Blackie919
    @Blackie919 2 дні тому +6

    Watched me drown without a life jacket. Gosh. You can see the hurt in your eyes. I hope you heal from this ❤

  • @SimpleNClassy1
    @SimpleNClassy1 19 годин тому

    I’m sorry you and your family are going through this difficult season. God will not leave you comfort less. I pray that your family will be provided for and you will heal from this experience 🙏🏾

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  12 годин тому

      Thank you babe inshAllah ❣️

  • @inaosman9812
    @inaosman9812 4 дні тому +21

    Subbed to support, May Allah heal u completely. Onwards n upwards sis❤️❤️

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  3 дні тому

      Ameen sweets Thank you ❣️

  • @maksoodayousof
    @maksoodayousof 3 дні тому +8

    I’m so proud of you sis, your best is yet to come and he be forced to watch you shine inshaAllah ❤😘🤗

  • @sa1642
    @sa1642 3 дні тому +1

    You’re a queen and they always act up until they’re out there and see what’s left. You’re young you’re on the right track and focus on that glow up both mentally and physically. You gave it all you had and put up with way too much. I promise you, you are not alone. May you grow and succeed beautiful and yes you have my subscription, Bella’s back. 🎉❤

  • @siniecat
    @siniecat День тому +2

    Ohh Sis.....thank you for sharing.....for i still blame myself at times for my children being autistic as well ...i was an emotional wreck too ...thank God i got the strength to leave my marriage ... Alhamdullilah...you just mentioning that .....just validated my feelings....i appreciate you...❤

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  День тому

      Alhamdulilah you are brave for that, not only you value your life also value your children’s life. I’m glad that you had the courage to leave.
      Thank you for sharing your story

  • @zeytuny2811
    @zeytuny2811 4 дні тому +4

    you are so strong to have endured all of that. But now you are glowing and got your light back mashAllah. Onwards and upwards inshallah

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  3 дні тому

      InshAllah Thank you ❣️

  • @Vertigobluesss
    @Vertigobluesss 3 дні тому +2

    You are such a great source of light and happiness for us, you didn't deserve all of that at all. Nobody deserves to be treated that way and for you to come out on the other side stronger than ever, it's only uphill from here on out. May Allah give you all the healing and love that you need in this difficult time, your healing era is here. Sending you lots of hugs!!!! Thank you for sharing your story, it's so impactful and eye opening. You are truly an inspiration. The fact that nothing can bring you down speaks volumes of how much of a great character you have, nobody can take that away from you. Love you so much sis!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @HawaAbdulKadir-bw4to
    @HawaAbdulKadir-bw4to 4 дні тому +13

    This is crazy it sounds like my situation. These individuals behaves almost the same.

  • @Intensivebeautyclinic
    @Intensivebeautyclinic 3 дні тому +4

    Your resilience is out of this world. May Allah continue to heal and elevate you ✨🥰❤️

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  3 дні тому

      Alhamdulilah, Thank you ❣️

  • @IfrahSayed-p3z
    @IfrahSayed-p3z 3 дні тому +2

    You are so brave and courageous to share your story with us so thank you Bella ❤

  • @muniraabbas1960
    @muniraabbas1960 День тому +1

    I am sorry you went through this, Allah will always take care of you and your children.

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  12 годин тому

      Ameen thank you definitely will ❣️

  • @88Bionic
    @88Bionic 2 дні тому

    Oh Bella!! You’re a genuine soul. May Allah shower you with your mercy and put barakah in this new chapter of yours

  • @Ririmoney
    @Ririmoney 3 дні тому +5

    God is good GIRL.. you are so brave and I see only the Best coming your way ❤ we love u

  • @Yujii-m8y
    @Yujii-m8y 4 дні тому +6

    Happy to have you back girl❤ I used to watch you long time ago. I wasn't sure what happened to you and why you just disappeared but I was hoping you were well😊

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  3 дні тому

      Thank you so much ❣️

  • @allaboutRobyn
    @allaboutRobyn 12 годин тому

    Thank you for sharing. May Allah increase your strength and put baraka in all that you do. ❤ I have been watching you for years. Love your personality and your content. Inshallah this next journey is bigger and stronger than the last. We r here with you. ❤

  • @fullstopcomma8063
    @fullstopcomma8063 2 дні тому

    Salaam sis, I have never come across your content until this videos and honestly I’m so happy you are OUT! Trust and believe me that this won’t break you. Sending lots of love ❤️❤️

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  2 дні тому

      Thank you love ❣️❣️❣️

  • @Nalkaaa
    @Nalkaaa 3 дні тому +2

    Life gets better sis! I was in the same issue in 2019, spent 4 years evolving and growing for myself as a single mom. I am now in a happy place with a man and more children that love me. I still have my other child from my previous marriage.

  • @fq5636
    @fq5636 2 дні тому

    Ive never commented on a YT video before. But I really felt the need to..1st off im so sorry that you had to go thru this the hard way to learn these lessons. But as an unmarried girl in her 20s im so grateful you made this video because i took so many tips from you to protect myself. Im also so appreciative that you didnt fall victim to feeling too scared to share your story considering many of these loser man similar to ur ex convince women to not share these stories, so we all remain dumb & available for them. You have such a beautiful light about you, your heart is pure & that evil man saw these characteristics & hated you for it. But i honestly believe now that hes gone, you will thrive big time without him inshaalah. May allah make this new chapter for you the best one yet & grant you so many blessings. Cant want to follow your journey now that ive found you & Subscribed! 💕💕🤍

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  2 дні тому

      Thank you babe for your support. My goal was to reach a lot of ladies about the situation. How not to fall a victim. I’m glad that you learned from my story I pray when you step into the married world that you make sure you do everything the right way and also be very vigilant not to fall for any BS.

  • @Anisa-n7v
    @Anisa-n7v 3 дні тому +1

    Always wondered what happened to your channel and I’d literally make a prayer to find you again . Your souls is so beautiful and even through a lens I’ve always felt your energy allahuma barik. I pray Allah blesses your career and ask brings you a rich MAN like you said ❤❤❤❤

  • @Fimohx
    @Fimohx 3 дні тому +1

    Love you Bella, love your transparency & inshAllah this is the beginning to a lifetime of happiness and peace for you! 🥰

  • @hiimnew8212
    @hiimnew8212 3 дні тому +12

    They all the same 😮 your telling many of our stories 😢 keep sharing sis

  • @MMm-e3r7o
    @MMm-e3r7o 2 дні тому +3

    You are a 10/10 and never let anyone tell you any different ❤ he didn’t deserve you. I wish you the best 💕

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  2 дні тому +1

      Thank you so much ❣️

  • @SheikhaOfficial
    @SheikhaOfficial 3 дні тому +1

    We’re all here for you sis❤ shared the video

  • @somaligirlvlogsomaligirlvl6886
    @somaligirlvlogsomaligirlvl6886 3 дні тому +2

    Subscribed and may Allah protect you and your family sis. Ameen. Glad you are free now and building your life back ❤️

  • @samf2231
    @samf2231 3 дні тому

    May you find strength, healing and happiness! I hope you give the opportunity to heal through counselling/ journaling it or however healing looks to you. You will find yourself Bella and stand on business unapologetically. Sending you love ❤

  • @elhanhassan4503
    @elhanhassan4503 4 дні тому +3

    I’m so proud of you for being true to yourself and in shaa Allah you will overcome don’t forget that with hardship comes ease and in Shaa Allah your time of ease is here 💖💖💖

  • @beautybynimo4050
    @beautybynimo4050 3 дні тому +1

    When they show you their colors, believe them!! This year has been crazy! Thanks for sharing your story. You are so strong! Subscribing and keep going girl!! ❤

  • @YasminOmar-vx6fz
    @YasminOmar-vx6fz День тому +2

    Salam sis this is Yasmin fahma daughter wallahi listening to you brings back so much memories of what I went tru it’s been 2 years since I left my ex and moved back home to Michigan my life was exactly like yours the crazy thing is I ran away to marry him and I ran away from him to come back home you are so brave to tell your story something that a lot of us don’t have to courage to do may Allah give shower his blessing you and your children iam here for you if you ever Wana talk ❤

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  День тому

      Ameen Thank you love i appreciate it

  • @michellehadebe8162
    @michellehadebe8162 День тому

    Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  12 годин тому

      YW. Thank you for stopping by ❣️

  • @noor8238
    @noor8238 3 дні тому +6

    Alhamduallah sister you’re so young and u left early im so happy for you❤️ may Allah grant you barakah and sabr during this transitional period. Your greatness was always IN you! Not ON you, something they can never take away! 2025 will be your year inshallah!

  • @tiima__sneak__up
    @tiima__sneak__up 3 дні тому +3

    Oh my God Bella i used to watch your videos i thought u were so charismatic and funny. I’m so glad that you popped up on my Instagram. This was tough thank you for sharing. We are all rooting for you sis ❤❤❤

  • @adhkhjcdar634
    @adhkhjcdar634 4 дні тому +1

    I got here on time for part 2🥰 you're so strong and beautiful

  • @ummabbas817
    @ummabbas817 4 дні тому +3

    Wow! Your story has truly touched me and I’m so proud to see you standing tall after everything. And he did NOT stand in your way in life everything that happened was by Allaah’s Will. And Allaah always knows best. Stay strong sis! ❤

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  4 дні тому

      Thank you babe 💋 InshAllah

  • @sabahabdi2454
    @sabahabdi2454 2 дні тому +1

    May Allah make it easy for you sis and good luck on this new journey

  • @arawelloali5815
    @arawelloali5815 2 дні тому +1

    You’re great story teller sorry what you’ve gone through can I ask a question ,where you patient all through out these trauma because of your kids?a lot of women stay because of the sake of children…So many lessons from your story I think to a lot of women can relate but remain silent or don’t have will power to make a decision..hopefully your story gives them courage to take action

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  2 дні тому

      Yes my love I was patient for my kids, being young, i was in love, very forgiving, always making excuses

  • @UpliftHigher
    @UpliftHigher 3 дні тому +1

    You amazing dear. You are making me recall all that happened to me. Healing and connection to Allah is the cure from here on out. Such an amazing woman you are❤

  • @rashidagaye
    @rashidagaye 3 дні тому +4

    I feel sorry that you experienced this. I tell all Muslim women all the time to make istakarah before marrying anyone..Allah knows what is really in the hearts of people.. Alhamdudillah. I’ve been happily married for 20 years to a really good Muslim man and he’s amazing! He truly fears and respects Allah.. but I made istakarah before and Allah showed me great signs before our wedding day.. sending you love❤

  • @UmmHamz-tc1ng
    @UmmHamz-tc1ng 2 дні тому

    You got this sis, may Allah make the rest of your time on this earth struggle free for you and your children. You are way stronger then you think. I will genuinely make dua for you and your family♥️

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  2 дні тому

      Ameen thank you 😊💋

  • @Kamina-pw9tl
    @Kamina-pw9tl 3 дні тому +1

    Habibity I'm from your instagram whenever I'd feel low I'd think I wonder where that cute lady went ? I am so proud of you for telling your story. As Somali women ppl wait for this kinda stories when we marry outside of our ppl. So happy it doesn't stop you being you n owning your life. That wasted man is gone congrats sis 😘😘😘😘🇸🇴👸🏽

  • @aminaali4143
    @aminaali4143 3 дні тому

    Omg the way I related to your story is crazy subhanaAllah. InshaAllah you heal from this. Trust me in time you will heal, but it’s a long road ahead. I had my divorce in 2021. Can’t believe even our first borns had kinda the same name, just different genders. May Allah continue to bless you and open up all doors for you 🤲🏼

  • @lailaldn8703
    @lailaldn8703 3 дні тому

    Bless you gurll. 🙏🏽the only way is up now ☝🏽your a solider . Don’t let that crown slip! ✨🤍

  • @SaraAhmed-qh1me
    @SaraAhmed-qh1me 2 дні тому

    Am happy you are back ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @aminapharah3906
    @aminapharah3906 3 дні тому

    Hey Bella, thank you for sharing your story, especially for us who haven’t taken the next step to get married. It’s such great advice. I found you on TikTok and came straight to the UA-cam because I did realize you kind of disappeared from UA-cam and I hope you do know that You’re beautiful. your successful woman and you are enough. Those kids are so lucky to have you and I know you said you don’t want anything but please do not even pay back the Mehr money and when they do the family meetings, please try and keep the house even if you don’t want it you can sell it and get another house a better house And add advise you to see a therapist as well. It really helps, I lived with a narcissistic sister and that’s a long story but I resisted therapy before a long time and now it helps a lot. ❤️ thank you for sharing your story, I’ve noticed that all the peoplewho are not married have marriage phobia, 🤣 And I don’t know where we will go from here because that’s scary, again and again thank you for sharing your story 🤗 I love you, For The Sake Of Allah, and may Allah always bless and protect you

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  3 дні тому

      You are very welcome, and again you just don’t know these things. I don’t mean to scare you guys. I’m here just to speak my truth, I just want everyone to open their eyes and don’t believe in the fairytale of couple goals.
      Thank you for stopping by 💋

  • @samirasaid9194
    @samirasaid9194 2 дні тому

    So sorry you went through this May Allah swt bless you and your kids abundantly ❤

  • @naimaadan1263
    @naimaadan1263 День тому

    Subscribed! I am in ur corner sis❤❤❤

  • @arttledsoulfindspeace
    @arttledsoulfindspeace 3 дні тому +3

    New chapter, may Allah heal you and protect you from evil people. ameen

  • @sonia549
    @sonia549 4 дні тому +1

    Welcome back queen, may Allah open new doors for you ❤ Subscribed.

  • @Amira.O416
    @Amira.O416 4 дні тому +2

    You are a beautiful sister May Allah give you peace and ease. May Allah make this new chapter amazing one for you and your kids ameen.

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  4 дні тому +1

      Thank you you’re so sweet and Ameen ❣️

  • @Pearrlsdimondz
    @Pearrlsdimondz 3 дні тому +1

    I used to watch you back then & you were a pleasure to watch I loved your bubbly personality and your snaps with your kids/lifestyle etc.
    I would never have guessed that you were going through something like that I’m sorry you did😔

  • @suadnur8929
    @suadnur8929 3 дні тому +2

    Hold your head up sister. You are strong Somali Queen. We love you and are here for you❤

  • @telltale1129
    @telltale1129 3 дні тому +1

    I will.support. everytime I come across ur videos. Him saying u would have come long way if he wasn't in the way...that was an attempt to mentally destroy u. Anyway u got this mama

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  3 дні тому

      That literally broke my heart

  • @Pilipili248
    @Pilipili248 3 дні тому +2

    It’s a lesson sis! Alhamdulilah for your amazing kids, be patient! This world is a test In’sha’Allah you heal from this❤️

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  3 дні тому

      Agree Alhamdulilah for everything ❣️

  • @WAbdillah640
    @WAbdillah640 4 дні тому +4

    Stay strong sis may Allah protect you and your kids 🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  4 дні тому +2

      Ameen, Thank you love

    • @hikmoosman6793
      @hikmoosman6793 4 дні тому

      May Allah protect you aboyo and your beautiful kids. We love you.

  • @sharminshanur7767
    @sharminshanur7767 4 дні тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story!

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  4 дні тому

      Thank you for stopping by and listening ❣️

  • @sumayaelmi7020
    @sumayaelmi7020 День тому

    Know that you are very strong woman I know you when you had kids and you just got married you’re super mom you’re beautiful in and out. May Allah protect you always❤👑👑👑 you’ll be OK and thank you for sharing this story new beginning new year and never let anybody dim your light

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  День тому

      Ameen Thank you babe 🤗❣️

  • @limonibeauty3532
    @limonibeauty3532 4 дні тому +2

    With every hardship comes ease, and honestly, your strength is so inspiring, Masha’Allah. I pray Allah fills your life with so much happiness and gives you the best in this life and the next. You’ve handled so much with so much grace, and I know Allah will reward you for it all. I’m praying Allah makes everything easier for you and fills your life with peace and joy.

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  4 дні тому

      Ameeen Thank you love inshAllah I pray everything becomes easier for my kids and I ❣️

    • @limonibeauty3532
      @limonibeauty3532 4 дні тому

      @@BellayusfAmen!

  • @KevweAkpoviri
    @KevweAkpoviri 3 дні тому +1

    I love you Bella guys let’s make her biggest UA-camr of all time

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  3 дні тому

      💋💋💋💋💋💋

  • @sumeiyajethva5594
    @sumeiyajethva5594 3 дні тому +2

    May Allah grant you the strength and perseverance to be able to get through this. My advice would be to anyone trying to get married to make sure you do it in the halal way and try and involve your family so they can vet the guy. Sometimes we can get carried away with emotions and people can pick up on the things we can’t. I wouldn’t say wait for a specific age just try and do your research on the person.

  • @Hudamilan
    @Hudamilan 3 дні тому +2

    That’s crazy but it’s his loss. He truly let go of an amazing woman like you and one day he’ll realise it but by then, it’ll be too late. Stay strong and keep your head up. Better things are coming your way, inshallah.❤❤❤

  • @moushtakaden3710
    @moushtakaden3710 4 дні тому +2

    Love you Bella ❤❤may Allah be with you and your kids inshallah that was a lesson and u learn but move on to next chapter beauty ❤

  • @faizaismail6386
    @faizaismail6386 4 дні тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story your amazing ❤️

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  4 дні тому

      You’re welcome and Thank you 😊

  • @Min-zk2rd
    @Min-zk2rd 3 дні тому

    Wishing you so much peace and happiness Bella. Long time watcher of yours. He tried everything he could to destroy you but you found the courage to leave . May Allah make it easy. You are beautiful, funny and talented xx

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  3 дні тому

      Ameen Thank you ❣️❣️❣️

  • @abayomat
    @abayomat 3 дні тому +1

    I love the reminder that men are really all the same🙌🏾

  • @Niqabisista
    @Niqabisista 3 дні тому

    You got this inshallah! You learned the lessons and now it’s time to move on and reach for the stars! Nothing can stop you now inshallah and your personality already tells me you’re built to always succeed!

  • @ijuneberry
    @ijuneberry 3 дні тому +1

    Praying for you habbti. May Allah preserve you and your kids. And give you a husband that erases all the negative experiences you had with a man so far.

  • @user-db2ts9jb3r
    @user-db2ts9jb3r 4 дні тому +1

    hi bella, thanks for sharing your story. Can you make a video on red flags girls should look out for?

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  4 дні тому

      Yes definitely I can, That’s great idea 💡

  • @2009halima
    @2009halima 4 дні тому +1

    We love you and support u Bella❤️

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  4 дні тому

      Thank you so much 💋❣️

  • @TravelwithRia92
    @TravelwithRia92 3 дні тому +1

    Wow I have watched you from years ago, I remember seeing vlogs and couple videos that you used to do. I am 32 never married because of fear of marrying the wrong person, I watched my mother have a horrible marriage, it traumatised me so much that I knew I wanted to wait until i was older. I agree wholeheartedly that young women shouldn't rush towards getting married, men are scary. I am so sorry for what happened to you bella 💘 I'm praying for healing and success in your life, may Allah make your life better than it ever was before. 💜

  • @hem6521
    @hem6521 4 дні тому +8

    I’m so sorry to hear about the pain you’ve endured. What you went through was unfair and undeserved, and I admire your strength for sharing your story. Healing from such deep wounds takes time, but I pray you find comfort in knowing that this chapter doesn’t define your worth or your future. Trust that Allah has a greater plan for you a future full of peace, love, and fulfillment beyond what you can imagine right now. Take your time to heal, surround yourself with support, and remember that even in the hardest moments, He is guiding you toward something beautiful. You deserve so much better, and I believe you’ll find it. Stay strong, and may Allah ease your heart and bless you with joy in what’s to come.

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  4 дні тому

      Alhamdulilah Thank you for your kind words i will definitely take my time and heal inshAllah

  • @Mind-youbusiness
    @Mind-youbusiness 3 дні тому +1

    That’s the issue sis, the fact that you were always home, cleaning the house etc. I hope you heal!❤

  • @l.m6869
    @l.m6869 3 дні тому

    May Allah swt heal your heart I don’t know you personally, but you have a sister in me. I am here to support your journey thank you for being true and authentic 💕

  • @at3687
    @at3687 2 дні тому

    New subscriber! May Allah bring you blessings 10x better Ameen ❤❤❤

  • @sofiabasir5481
    @sofiabasir5481 3 дні тому

    I hope everything gets better for you Insha’Allah ❤❤

  • @safiaharun4977
    @safiaharun4977 3 дні тому

    Allah loves those who are patient, you’ve been through a trial. Indeed your strength, resilience and patience inspire me to thrive. I love you sis, I will continue to support you. ❤ . Better days are ahead, you’re young and driven!

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  3 дні тому

      Alhamdulilah ❣️❣️❣️

  • @mizzchoc10
    @mizzchoc10 3 дні тому +1

    You're so sincere mashallah. Thank you for sharing these valuable insights for young women. Always make sure to marry both Islamically and legally. So many people only marry Islamically without getting it legally documented.
    I’m really looking forward to part 3-your story has me on the edge of my seat! I hope you address how the assets were split, who decided to part ways first, and how his family got involved. Your family is always solid, but what did his family have to say? Also, does he know you’re making videos about him, and how does he feel about it? Where is he now?

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  3 дні тому

      Thank you, yes I agree with you that will be another topic of it’s self in the marriage department

  • @enasjaloudi5297
    @enasjaloudi5297 3 дні тому +8

    The gaslighting after THEY cheat is crazy. A marriage with a narcissist leaves crazy PTSD. The control,gaslighting, belittling, and trauma is so real. The threatening when you want to leave is something I won’t ever forget. It took me YEARS to leave but I did with all 3 of my kids and I’m sooooo proud of myself for it. It takes a lot to heal but it’s something you can definitely do. Starting over is scary especially with kids figuring out your new life and your children’s new life.
    I’m sorry you went through something like this

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  3 дні тому

      Thank you for sharing your story with me ❣️

  • @AmalIman-k8m
    @AmalIman-k8m 2 дні тому

    I am proud of you!

  • @suadfarole5136
    @suadfarole5136 День тому

    I’m so sorry sis for what happened to you and I hope women can learn from you.
    I always tell women 1st sight of abuse is real so don’t expect change so get out while you can.

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  День тому

      Yes definitely it’s not even worth it❣️

  • @mariamissa5833
    @mariamissa5833 2 дні тому

    May Allah make it easy for you sister.. Love from Kenya 🇰🇪 ❤❤

    • @Bellayusf
      @Bellayusf  2 дні тому

      Ameen Thank you 💋💋💋

  • @ik2702
    @ik2702 2 дні тому +1

    Went through the exact same thing men are dangerous

  • @fabdullahi2656
    @fabdullahi2656 3 дні тому

    This sounds just like what I have been through. May Allah make it easy for you . ❤