I think he accepted that but couldn’t accept that in his mind she was actively making his life chaotic with her drama between the two of them, beyond what her job required. I think he knew her career was important and didn’t want her to lose that but needed more than she gave him.
Have you heard the song "peace" by Taylor swift? She literally said and asked him "would it be enough if I can never give you peace?" I guess it wasn't enough for him🙄🙄 so mad at him!
@@nishthagupta1357 girl no wants a toxic and volatile relationship. Thats immature thinking. No matter what he would do It would never be enough for her. He just wants peace and stability but taylor wants Chaos and A HEALTHY relationship. It dosent work like that? Taylor has always been the problem she never understands you cant have it all.?She too greedy.
@monamoon drama between them meaning love games, trying to make him jealous, wanting to fight, poor communication on both ends. I don’t think he said everything going through his head, I think he shut down and she took that as rejection and amped it up and he shut down more, etc. I do think they both love each other a lot (too much at times) and very intense emotions can be hard to manage, with her being outward displaying and him turning inward. I don’t think it’s impossible to work through if both people tried
@@abbied Absolutely not. I’m just letting you know that a man being English has nothing to do with integrity, and I gave you Russell Brand as an example.
@@Baby_duck4still? The just broke up. She always writes about breakups. You can't get more public than an NFL player esp if you are going to the games. I can't imagine she thought Joe would care though.
10:58 “if she’s ganna be with someone who’s really passionate and loud and boisterous, it’ll be chaotic”…. As we approach Super Bowl weekend, we’ll see how this goes
Yeah I feel like I see people shit on him all the time for being boring but honestly he seems mature and stable. I’d rather date a guy like this than someone who’s unstable and dramatic lol.
@@kaleyjoplinRAWRR Boring is so underrated tbh. "Boring" people are living their lives and minding their business. There's so much peace in that. Signed, a fellow boring person. 😅
@@Veronica-nb6px I briefly thought the same question , but emotionally mature/intelligent people won't entertain anything that isn't important. The reading Ant gave expressed how Taylor assumes the worst when there is zero proof nor behavior on his part, and picks towards tiny meaningless things just to create conflict for him to reassure her all is fine - For 6 years! That man is patient to try to help her realize what a healthy relationship is just by being himself...he isn't going to entertain her assumptions/reactions to what he knows doesn't matter. To some, it may seem like he doesn't communicate well, but he does...just not middle school behavior/topics /gossip careless things. He can talk but could she *rhetorical question* it seems she is the one to not communicate well, but sure can write amazing songs. Hopefully she will reflect and maybe down the line they can reconnect and be better together. No harshness in my comment, I hope I expressed it clear. Joe seems like a good person inside out.
@C G you make some very good points. And honestly, maybe because I can relate to how Taylor is, i want to see her side more.. Maybe her past relationships killed this one because that's all she knew how to do. But also maybe this relationship will help her grow and realize how her own trauma played a part in it. We're growing together ❤️ 😆
I think you are so spot on. Joe loved her for who she was ,even at her lowest period. He never wanted fame or her help. She is pretty spiteful and he's calm and normal. I really think he got fed up with her grudges and constant attention grabbing. I would imagine the Matt Healy drama was the last straw and he got sick of her mean ways. She said she was the happiest she had ever been on stage after their breakup. She's cut off her nose to spite her face. Silly girl. He's the one that got away ,and dodged a bullet.
Ed Sheeran seems to have kept his successful and productive career while putting his family first. He starts working at 10 am after getting his kids off to school and ends by 5 pm week days and does concerts only on weekends. He writes songs and lets other artists record them. Ed is a good friend to Taylor and can help her find balance in her life if she opens herself to it. I remember an interview before he had children where someone was discouraging him not to start a family and focus on his career. He politely said that he was doing it his way. I have mad respect for him.
Ed apparently learned how to balance it from Eminem. Eminem only works 9-5 M-F in his studio. He started doing that when he had full custody of all 3 of his daughters. Seems like a solid plan to me. I imagine it would be hard being a parent but also a successful musician. Kudos to them both for putting their families first
Taylor knows best..that's her problem. As egotistical as Kanye was, so was she deep down. In that way, Kayne must have seen himself in her years ago to target her...its all making sense now! 😂
People are so surprised that these artist who constantly write about self sabotaging and being annoying and dramatic and out of control are actually like that in real life😭😭
I’m reading this 10 months later after the Super Bowl. I guess she went down the wrong track of distraction, trying to make Joe jealous, and now she’s with someone even louder (and dumber) and successful and public. I don’t see the healing, which makes this so sad. She’s only delayed the lessons. As someone said from another post, it would have been better if she had buckled down during her tour and used that for some introspection.
"I have this thing where I get older but never wiser' I wake up in fears you'll get sick of my scheming" IT ALL MAKES SENSE In another one of your readings, you said that if she didn't stop her issues, he would leave. Spot on.
I think the reading is spot on. Taylor never really grew out of high school, that is what keeps her music relevant. I also think the ex she keeps checking on is Harry Styles, he is single.
I kept thinking she was checking up on Scooter Braun, and being obsessed with that war and being wrapped up and upset about the things that happened there
How freaking spot on was he with that reading?! I mean there is so much right about the suing, the ex, the resentment regarding her fame and 'what we do to our artist', the marriage stuff, trying to make him jealous and him not carring about it etc etc
That’s a good take.. I think you’re right! her career comes before anyone, even herself and she’s giving everything and is ok to loosing herself for this fool’s life
I think he loved her passion, but had his own that were more “average” and simple. Fame comes at a huge cost and I think he saw that before he knew her
“You’re losing me” spells this out when you think of it from his perspective. He got sick of her shit, and she fought harder when he started to distance himself. Please do an update on her and Matty since all of the gross stuff came out! Why is she still with him?!
This is ONLY comment i have seen since song is released which matches the real perspective of joe...question rises why he started to distance from her ;Ant answered that. And again we will never hear his side but reading do speak but Ant is not reading comments
That's what I was thinking! Since the song was released I was wondering if this is how Tay felt,but something didn't click. Now with Ant reading,is crystal clear that is Joe's POV!
sadly, I've never vibed with Taylor's high strung energy. it doesn't make her bad, it just means that we totally dissimilar, and I think Joe is likely a great guy who deserves a woman who will be wise, low key and who will trust him. hope Taylor learns from this... or that she can at least behave maturely about it. wish them both the best.
She could not believe he was genuine and sincere but she F it up and he will not give a second chance. She F it up!! She was too stuck on being a victim instead of GROWING UP!! 😒
A year after, you see how fucking acurate this is. Even songs from ttpd. Also abt him. And he was the only one who did not took advantage from her fame
Yeah exactly.. people have a hard time separating the art from the artist with her. Lol I’m probably going to piss of the swifties but she sounds so incredibly immature and difficult. It’s the reason I could never get on board as a fan of hers. Love her albums Folklore and 1989 though lol
It sounds like she hasn’t mentally matured regards to intimacy. She’s known to write songs that insult her exes. So yeah, I agree with you. I only like one of her songs. To be honest, I don’t respect her. Never have. 🤷🏻♀️
I absolutely love her and her music but I’ve always been impressed at how she’s able to keep writing songs about the same break ups, over and over again with different angles. It must be mentally and emotionally exhausting lol
The look on your face after you pulled the ace of pentacles and 3 of pentacles in reverse; says it all. I feel what you said… “He’s tired.” Once someone is checked out and they don’t want to fight for you or with you it’s challenging to come back from that.
As someone with bpd, i think Taylor has it too. Esp the wanting to fight to make sure they still love you. Joe took her bluff. Poor Taylor. Im sending her a hug. That is the worst thing for bpd.
I love Taylor Swift, and I have thought the same thing for a long time. I'm a Sagittarius like she is so I definitely see a lot of her behaviors are definitely Sagittarian in nature, but it goes beyond that. So heartbreaking 💔
I am not familiar with Joe but in this reading all I can see in my head is Joe sighing to all of her pettiness. As much as Taylor is a strong persona, Joe is a stronger energy here. As much as I understand where Taylor is coming from, Joe has a point himself that she needs to consider but it seems she doesn't listen at least to the 5% of what he's telling her.
I agree mostly. He also didn't seem to ever do conversations though. Its impossible to work on issues or strengthen bonds if communication isn't open both ways and clear to both parties. He was mostly good for her. But him not talking left huge gaps open for doubts to seep in.
@@harmanlesli idt he wasn’t essentially talking. I thunk they were talking, but idt he expressed HIS FEELINGS very well. As an. Idk.. I mean basically, I also am not good at expressing what I'm feeling completely. It’s like I feel this situation isn’t right I Won't be like "I feel hurt."(actual feeling) I'll be more like " i don't feel good" or "this felt... Weird " (an make a sad face or something like that) or not say anything at all!(because I hate conflicts, it’s like smiling instead of crying and describing the issue) Idk if that's his case but this is what I'm guessing. He doesn’t express what HE feels. Edit : ik it’s a problem but....
people noticed that recently she was emotional during champagne problems, a song literally about a fiancé leaving a guy because they weren’t ready to be tied down:(. this adds up, so sad
This is WHY Taylor tries sooooo hard to make this look like a love story with Travis!! If having gone through 6 years with someone you DO NOT just forget those feelings. This entire interaction with Travis has been HYPERSENSATIONALIZED…a hype story. Taylor’s young audience and some of the older ones want this relationship with Travis so bad…..and it will NOT be good. Travis will never be MR. SWIFT….he carries his family name proudly but her fans thinks its so cute. Taylor is EXTRA CLINGY….obsessed with hand holding and over hugging. Travis will need a break to make a break for it (RUNNNNN).
I’m not a Taylor swift fan but I’m watching for Joe since I like his energy from the past readings. Good for him for dipping out. They have different values right now. Nobody likes people who self-sabotage.
that's a hard truth as someone who can relate to self-sabotaging. It's hard to unlearn patterns that feel familiar and therefore safe. Even if the pattern's aren't helpful anymore.
I love Joe. I'm glad he's healthy and wise enough to do what's best for him. I hope this helps Taylor grow in the long run, too. We've all been Taylor at one point. It's not fun, but it's always a necessary lesson. Good for her, also, for prioritizing her career. Their goals and ideals weren't aligning and they both deserve the best.
i feel bad for joe, anytime hes brought up its swifties making fun of him, calling him poor and a flop 😭 it takes a certain type of person to put up with dating the biggest popstar in the world and he just wasnt it.
She should probably date the ex (hs) that she's still hang up on, they are a better fit and will finally make her happy. I hope Joe finds a true, loving partner. He deserves it.
I don’t understand why poor is an insult when it’s not a reflection of character. Some of the best people I’ve known have struggled with homelessness. Joe probably has a larger net worth than most of the swifties, but once you get too much money it’s eat the rich. You can’t win. I wouldn’t want someone counting my coins. It says more about them that they’d go for that than it does him
OMG, this is so sad. I'm not a Swiftie but i feel sorry for her. Being self destructive in relationships is awful and its a real slap in the face when you see all the toxic things you've actually done.
That's why Anti-Hero was released I guess😭 "I should not be left to my own devices, they come with prices, and vices I end up in crisis, .. Tale as old as time.."
As someone who has done shit in the past, I truly wish people stop jumping into relationships and first focus on healing themselves. No matter how loving a partner is, if you are not healed, you are going to suck their energy, try to unconsciously spin narratives and paint yourself as a victim even when they did nothing, and just cause chaos in both your lives cz there's chaos within you. Yes you deserve love. But no one else deserves this type of torture, it isn't their fault either. And when we have someone to project and blame, it is even harder to turn the gaze within and look at our issues and traumas. I know it sounds harsh, but unless we are happy within ourselves, we won't truly feel happy with others.
LMAAOO you were right!!! even in TTPD she was still trying to find issues and being paranoid about joe "he was with her in dreams" "my friends said it isn't right to be scared every day of a love affair"
Girl yes on the therapy part!!! When I new video drops I always get my babies in the car and go for a drive to get a car wash lol. Stay at home moms…Iykyk 😊
The thing you said about peacocking makes me think of how much publicity she is willingly attracting with Travis Kelce. I hope all goes well with her relationship with Travis but at the same time, it kind of feels like she’s putting on a performance being with him. Listening to this reading now gives insight on why she’s acting the way she is with Travis. It seems like she’s secretly hoping to make Joe jealous and win him back.
Travis is one long rebound. He’s going to be shocked when she walks away without notice one day. Good ting he is in it for his purposes too. May when she walks he will feel his uptick in fame will have been worth it. She acts well but she is not a woman in love.
I agree with you !Taylor is using Travis to get to Joe because Travis is his complete opposite and she makes a point of demonstrating this by having him perform at the London show and showing that she is super happy with her relationship with him, but to me it seems fake and forced
18:32 THIS!!! i came here right after You are losing me is released. this is what she meant when she said she want him to fight for them. U r so on point
@@Icepink.cream. when antony said that he was reminded of Katy crying backstage before her show started and how taylor’s going through the same thing…😭😭😭
@@namavang Literally this is exactly what this reminded me of (when Russell Brand called Katy Perry on her “Teenage Dream” tour to divorce her) 💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭
3:18 “he felt like he matured and grew up and she never did” OPPPPP 🫢🫣😧 anti hero “i have this thing where i get older but just never wiser” LOVED this reading ant! THANK YOU! i would love if you could please do the long awaited reading on karlie & taylor. also a reading on ariana. (& my favorite song on midnights, midnight rain is now pretty much confirmed about joe OMGGG)
@@nishthagupta1357 I think Midnight Rain is actually about Tom Hiddleston (but that’s just my interpretation/that’s just my interpretation of this song tbh) 😕😕😕😕🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Well if their mercury is in Aquarius or Aries it might get a little better but a Pisces with a mercury in Pisces is an enigma wrapped in a mystery when it comes to communication lol
When I listened to anti hero I was surprised because she clearly says that Joe would get tired of her and leave... she also talks about the weight of her fame, her difficulties and fears... and in the end, what she predicted happened, she is a complex person and doesn't have real time to dedicate to this relationship... sad because I thought they were great, but Joe is in another moment of his life...
She gonna regret this ☹️ I feel sad I wanted them to have they happily ever after but I guess she was so much into her head that forgot what she had in front of her. He was too normal for her, she wanted drama and I guess it didn’t work.
About what you said about her resenting fame (in 19:58), it's already happening: there's a song called The Prophecy in her newest album, about precisely that. "Please I've been on my knees Change the prophecy Don't want money Just someone who wants my company" It's like she's starting to see that money can't buy her happiness.
She has old baggage and it affected her new relationship. She shouldn't even be in one. This is a good guy that wanted to settle down and she wasn't doing anything to show him shes committed to being a mom and making sacrifices - like lightening up her schedule. I can see him marrying relatively soon. This guy is READY. Ps. I cannot see him wanting her back because she wants drama , she's too "hollywood", they are too different . He wants what she was before the heartbreak. The girl next door. She's changed too much .
Actually, the lyrics of Midnight rain fits to this situation. He wanted comfortably. I wanted that pain. He wanted bride. I was making my own name, chasing the fame, he stayed the same. All of me changed like midnight rain. Because While Taylor was rising/getting more famous, Joe didn't change and still stayed humble.
SAME!! She’s throwing herself on Travis to either say “F you” to Joe or to try to get over him or a combination of both. I have been a Swiftie since Debut and I’m older than Taylor by 4 years. Watching her grow up, this has been a repeat occurrence. She can’t be single. She even called Tom Hiddleston a “Getaway Car” and said “I wanted to leave him ( Calvin Harris) I needed a reason”. Like Miss Girl, you can just break up with someone and not have your next boyfriend picked out
@@joshuayencer1919 sometimes getting dumped hurts our pride so much it hurts. You don’t even like the person that dumped you. First of all, you wanted to do it first. And then how DARE they not care. Stings 😂😂😂😂
Also, your first healthy relationship with a healthy partner is not easy when you've been through a lot of crappy ones. I find myself relating to her being paranoid and questioning, trying to find something wrong. Because as someone who has been through bad relationships with people who kept their mask on for a long time, hid their true intentions, lied, cheated, etc... your view gets tainted. Everyone is hiding something. Everyone lies. You don't believe that there's anyone out there who won't deceive you or stab you in the back. You definitely need therapy after multiple betrayals like that, because it will ruin a good relationship or good person for you
Youre so right, ive been in crappy romance before and it makes me like a bitter person and paranoid, seeing every man like theyre gonna do the same craps to me, i definitely need help.
@@morgan_baldwin Same here! You turn into someone that you're not. It's sad that people don't treat others better, because in the end we are the ones left picking up the pieces when someone does us dirty. 💔
@@raaindrrop so true 😢 i too wish can go back as the person i was before, but thats impossible, the fact that we're being damaged so bad makes us broken inside, so bad i'm still trying to digest sometimes.. how can a person be so horrible to their partner, i can only think theyre sick.
I always liked them together because someone like Taylor Swift ( one of the most famous/ richest women in the planet ) would need someone who looked at and loved Taylor the person and not at Taylor the superstar. The fact she's been singing that from Reputation itself 'you must like me for me ' does mean Joe got that. He also seems to be the calm rock to Taylor's brilliant chaos. From his interviews and what his co-stars say you can gather he is kind , polite and very considerate. He talks respectfully and highly of the female co-stars & directors he works with. I hope they can find their way back..but he needs to find some roles and do press without her shadow ( every interview being about her ) and get some more media training and she hopefully gets to work on her self-sabotage / abandonment issues. Only you can heal yourself.
Astrologically speaking, he really used to be 'home" for Taylor where she feels safe and protected from outside world. But sadly, Transit Pluto recently made a brutal entrance conjuncting this synastry aspect(i.e. Leaving Taylor feeling as though Joe was overbearing, domineering, standing in the way of certain projects, and her being attracted again to some one from her past that she have long forgotten for a long time.. And also leaving Joe as though Taylor was more of a burden.). Pluto in Aquarius completely transformed them both. Wishing them both the best in their respective journey in life.
I’ve been down this road that Taylor is on right now and ruined things with a good guy years ago by being immature, insecure and petty. For me he’s the one that got away and it’s the biggest regret of my life. I hope Taylor wakes up and realizes she doesn’t have to be comfortable being the anti-hero, she can move past it and free herself from that before it’s way way too late. 😢
I love your celebrity readings its like free therapy 😂 shiit I really thought she matured a lot with him but i guess her issues are still there, i liked his energy for her 😢
@@annitadailey4285 I'm only assuming of course but I guess she expected Joe to come crawling back or beg or something during the Matt/Travis thing but I don't believe he will.
@@annitadailey4285 Joe was out smiling and having a great time at Cannes seen with lots of women around him ofc because he’s an extremely attractive bachelor and Taylor sang “how did it end” and was tearing up and her voice was choking up. I wasn’t too convinced she was not over Joe, I felt like it’s been long enough but after seeing that video and seeing Joe thrive this weekend it’s so painfully obvious how not over him she is I can’t deny it anymore..
As a fellow pisces who also had a Sag stellium ex it's almost predictable tha rit would end. Pisces need peace and anyone who disturbs it is just not worth fighting for. Lord hearing Taylor's energy tired me out. And I'm a pretty old Swiftie😅
I’m sure he was exhausted but loved her a lot and saw so much potential in her. I’ve always thought “the best is yet to come” because with growth comes depth. Being a role model for the world sounds like a massive challenge
@@ateenipeterson It is but for what it’s worth I think Taylor is a pretty good role model overall (from what I’ve seen/from what I’ve seen of her at least) and I’m just so glad that she overappreciates and overvalues her fans bc this quality is lacking/is lacking in other/some other modern day popstars/pop artists (Justin Bieber is a big one) 👍🏻👌🏻😅😂
I honestly can't tell if you're a swiftie or not because this reading has played out incredibly accurately, and I always read into her lyrics to find this stuff out, but you're just letting the cards tell it like it is and it's 100% on so far. I guess the cards really never lie. Great work, I loved the analysis, keep going!!
Also, when you said he humbled her, I completely agree. Her disposition during her tour has been interesting to watch so far. She has very vulnerable moments during songs she must associate strongly with Joe that make it feel like she's alone in her house rather than in a stadium with 50k+ people watching, and her general presence onstage is more soft and "hi I'm just here to sing out my emotions" than I feel like a global popstar would be right now (she still displays amazing confidence on stage and everything, I just see her speaking and moving with more gratefulness and awareness). I can't imagine the absolute hurricane going on for her emotionally, but I see the growth it will hopefully bring for her if she chooses to work on the things that broke this dream relationship. She was my greatest role model for a LONG time, and now I'm really just rooting for her to do better for herself because she's either let a man be the center of her world, or she's chased fame, her entire life, and that isn't healthy for anyone. Ma'am needs mad therapy and I hope she's getting it
Thanks Ant for this emergency pop reading! We know that you are reading our comments always ❤ I just rewatch earlier your first reading with Joe and Taylor and I remembered that if Tay made something, Joe will definitely end the relationship. But still have high hopes for them!
There were articles that pretty much blamed Joe and it stated Taylor's close circle was the source. It was all like, "they fell in love in the isolation of the pandemic, once she came out of it Joe could not deal with her being out there as she always has been". I knew it was complete bs
Exactly, it doesn't even make sense. They were dating for a solid 2-3 years before the pandemic. And no one is dumb enough to not realize they are dating one of the most famous people in the world 😂
the first year of their relationship was filled with, ‘we can do this. we’ll get through this.’ we can conquer the world, type of shit. they were hiding and definitely getting transformed with joe. then the next stage of their relationship, more serious. which was around the pandemic. they’re basically twins of each other but it really served their relationship well. she was pretty much very low key and recovering from the tour and rediscovering herself with indie music and the simplicity of things. joe must’ve loved that and she momentarily forget her priorities. she probably thought that ‘i’m forgetting what i want. this was what i once was,’ a big popstar, record-breaking artist. they managed well in 2021 but maybe 2022 caused the crack in the glass. he probably didn’t want to be associated often with her bc he doesn’t want all the ‘nepo boyfriend’ and writing songs when all he wants to do is act in small, independent, cannes and emmy type of projects but taylor became a BIGGER artist in 2022. midnights made her the biggest in the world and the tour must’ve been one of the things that caused their distance. not only that, joe has been in multiple projects and we can actually listen how she thinks about how much she put joe at a pedestal and is constantly paranoid and worried, even after more than a decade later. he must’ve assured her a hundred thousand times and i don’t think he likes so much thrill bc he’s probably at that age where he wants to slow down and is satisfied with how he is in his career but taylor is an ambitious woman and wants to be the number 1. i know bc i had someone like him. someone who wanted the quiet, settle down in the future, doesn’t want to fight, doesn’t want to be confronted or accused on. of course, it was my fault. i was always trying to find ways to cause a wedge between us and in the end, he gave up and was still very gracious. he must’ve been the same way with taylor. i just cannot imagine what would happen once joe meets someone new and she hears about it. i also do not know why she thought it was a good idea to date someone like matty immediately. if this is what truly happened, taylor might come to her senses and knock on his door. and if she never will, i fear this might affect her. and if she gets over this, i just hope she meets someone who could actually be the perfect balance and understand her shine. (not that joe wasn’t, he was. she even said he was the perfect balance.) and then it all broke down.
You said t so well. Ik people are like good for her for choosing career but I feel she is at an age that there are sometimes you aren’t no. 1 and It's ok.
we all need to marry an emotionally stable, even emotions, responsible, predictable partner, to have stability and comfortable homelife, trust me, the older you get, the drama gets old fast and draining, makes you tired.
I have to ask myself if fame stunted her emotional growth. I wonder if Taylor Swift is stuck at the age of 13 emotionally just because you’re extremely rich and famous does not mean that you’re emotionally mature. It’s just a question.
That’s most female artists that started young though, men too. Examples being Ariana grande or Leonardo di caprio etc they just never grow up due to their childhood being taken away and it’s so sad
I think there is a lot of grooming that goes on when you're going to be a celebrity/in the public eye... she had this relationship at 19 with a guy much older than her that really traumatized her, which probably explains her anxieties and insecurities... I think something like this happens to most celebrities, they just don't talk about it.
It’s funny that you mentioned the word WAR, which has a LOT of meaning in this situation. She literally has a song called “the Great War” and it speaks about her fears towards the relationship with Joe, her past telling her that she needs to punish him for things he has never done due to the experiences she has had in her previous relationships which is basically what you were talking about in this reading. It’s such a shame really. She seems like she is fine now (because she is focusing on the tour) but it might hit her later on. I hope the best for both ❤
OMG! You literally predicted the things related to Joe and the aftermath of that relationship on TTPD, So Long London, Daddy I Love Him, I Can Do It With A Broken Heart. I'M SHOOKED
Honestly, I cant believe it’s been 6 years, they were together, I think you are right Ant, Taylor is going to look back one day & have some regrets, she put her career first & above the people in her life & I’m sure Joe grew tired of not feeling like a priority in her life after all these years. I hope she does not grow old alone, w/self sabotaging, unless thats what she really wants
I mean, are people really surprised? She was so private in their relationship, totally into hermit mode and then her lyrics "I miss you but I miss sparkling" she can't stand not being in the spotlight and good for her, she has earned it
I think so, yes youre right. But I think she wanted to go hermit mode herself actually.. After the trauma the world gave her really. Listen to "the lakes" song by Taylor and you will know what I'm talking about.
@@nishthagupta1357 yes i get that but if one's personality is to shine and even if they willingly went into hermit mode, she wasn't able to make it her life cause she's meant to shine. She did it for a few years but now she just wants to be true to herself and Joe was a bit too lowkey
The huge tour did not bode well for their relationship. He is not the guy who would follow her around, and that is what he would have to do to keep them together. It is sad, because he seems like a cool guy. Who could Taylor still be hung up on from the past, as you read? I can't figure that one out. It doesn't seem like she had real love before this relationship. Have a great tour, Tay! xo
Taylor Lautner ...Taylor treated her right nd she was the one to break his heart she even wrote a song on him * back to December* ...last year he married Taylor dome
Ther is this line in Afterglow: “Put you in jail for something you didn’t do” came to my mind when you said that she always tries to find a problem with him. So, it means that it wasn’t the first time for that to happen. Also, Bejeweled is about that choice she has chosen to “shine”. In this song the “some guy” could be Matty and the band is probably 1975. The other thing is. I watched your video about Matty and Taylor and I was thinking the same. They can bond over music and song writing. I think the lyics of 1975 are very great and Taylor also puts a lot of effort to that. I feel like, Joe could be a stable partner for someone who hasn’t got that much trauma from past relationships and isn’t eager to be in the spotlight - she was publically recognised even in her teenage yers, so it’s somewhat understandable. It’s deffinitely her purpose, but I feel like her relationship with Joe could also be a purpose. It migth be a soulmate who wasn’t meant to be situation, because of these circumstances. I can trust you with this, it makes sense. Thank you!
Spot On tic for tac pickup fights and always trying to find someone wrong with him but this isn't a healthy relationship for Joe she should regret this but I hope Joe moves on with his own life and finds someone special ❤️
Other readers seem to pick up on the same things. They also say she is being paranoid and defensive and she wanted him to do more career-wise but he didn't want to.
Looking back from all the stuff that we've recently learned and the fact that she used to date the guy that she's currently with. Self sabotage Taylor, he's going to be the one that got away
This was me too once upon a time and it took a lot of trauma therapy for me to break the cycle. It takes a lot of growing to realize that when someone hurts us that doesn't mean the next person will and that when people tell us who they really are we have to believe them. Loyal people will be loyal, nobody can make them cheat or do something stupid. People who were not loyal in the first place won't stay loyal not because someone made them it's because they chose to. Sometimes because we grew up in chaotic homes we seek chaos, drama, problems, and toxic people because that's what we believe is normal and when a real healthy person comes along we think it's weird, off or really boring since our minds are so used to the drama and the perpetual chaos. We seek chaos and drama because it's familiar, not because it's healthy or good for us and that's something that you have to watch out for.
she's got me actively rooting for Joe
honestly
Ym Taylor?
Yup
Yes!
facts she’s messy
He values peace… something she admittedly will never give him.
I think he accepted that but couldn’t accept that in his mind she was actively making his life chaotic with her drama between the two of them, beyond what her job required. I think he knew her career was important and didn’t want her to lose that but needed more than she gave him.
@@ateenipeterson what do you mean drama between them?
Have you heard the song "peace" by Taylor swift? She literally said and asked him
"would it be enough if I can never give you peace?"
I guess it wasn't enough for him🙄🙄 so mad at him!
@@nishthagupta1357 girl no wants a toxic and volatile relationship. Thats immature thinking. No matter what he would do It would never be enough for her. He just wants peace and stability but taylor wants Chaos and A HEALTHY relationship. It dosent work like that? Taylor has always been the problem she never understands you cant have it all.?She too greedy.
@monamoon drama between them meaning love games, trying to make him jealous, wanting to fight, poor communication on both ends. I don’t think he said everything going through his head, I think he shut down and she took that as rejection and amped it up and he shut down more, etc. I do think they both love each other a lot (too much at times) and very intense emotions can be hard to manage, with her being outward displaying and him turning inward. I don’t think it’s impossible to work through if both people tried
It sounds like he’s one of the few studs in Hollywood with actual integrity and a stable mindset. That’s impressive.
@abbied Shut up. English in general are bad apples. Don't stereotype your own kind to make you feel better. Sosos.
@@abbied He’s still in Hollywood. Is Russell Brand a stud with integrity just because he’s English? Absolutely not.
@@bootsandcats1501 You must be a swiftie
@@abbied Absolutely not. I’m just letting you know that a man being English has nothing to do with integrity, and I gave you Russell Brand as an example.
@@bootsandcats1501 Well yeah Russell Brand isn’t a good dude (I agree on that) but everyone’s different idk 😕🤷🏻♀️
All the tarot readings I watched they all praising Joe and questioning Travis 😂😂
Can i know the other channel that u watched about this?
omg i did the same. all said she still not over Joe and Travis is just a show
@@LadyCatMeow i mean if she really is over Joe why is all her songs is still about him 😂 and the relationship with Travis is too exaggerated
@@Baby_duck4still? The just broke up. She always writes about breakups.
You can't get more public than an NFL player esp if you are going to the games. I can't imagine she thought Joe would care though.
I think a soulmate is, sometimes, someone who ultimately helps you grow and learn lessons, their not always the person your meant to end up with.
10:58 “if she’s ganna be with someone who’s really passionate and loud and boisterous, it’ll be chaotic”…. As we approach Super Bowl weekend, we’ll see how this goes
that clip of her clearly getting the ick when he was yelling😭💀💀
She was paranoid because she was the one at least emotionally cheating
Cheaters typically accuse others of cheating to make themselves feel less guilty.
@@Inksplatter1991exactly!
AT some point you have to grow up, and at 33 years, she has missed an opportunity of being happy, fame is not all its cracked up to be.
He is emotionally mature/intelligent THAT is attractive.
Yeah I feel like I see people shit on him all the time for being boring but honestly he seems mature and stable. I’d rather date a guy like this than someone who’s unstable and dramatic lol.
@@kaleyjoplinRAWRR Boring is so underrated tbh. "Boring" people are living their lives and minding their business. There's so much peace in that. Signed, a fellow boring person. 😅
But what good is that, if he is a terrible at communication?
@@Veronica-nb6px I briefly thought the same question , but emotionally mature/intelligent people won't entertain anything that isn't important. The reading Ant gave expressed how Taylor assumes the worst when there is zero proof nor behavior on his part, and picks towards tiny meaningless things just to create conflict for him to reassure her all is fine - For 6 years! That man is patient to try to help her realize what a healthy relationship is just by being himself...he isn't going to entertain her assumptions/reactions to what he knows doesn't matter. To some, it may seem like he doesn't communicate well, but he does...just not middle school behavior/topics /gossip careless things. He can talk but could she *rhetorical question* it seems she is the one to not communicate well, but sure can write amazing songs. Hopefully she will reflect and maybe down the line they can reconnect and be better together.
No harshness in my comment, I hope I expressed it clear. Joe seems like a good person inside out.
@C G you make some very good points. And honestly, maybe because I can relate to how Taylor is, i want to see her side more.. Maybe her past relationships killed this one because that's all she knew how to do. But also maybe this relationship will help her grow and realize how her own trauma played a part in it. We're growing together ❤️ 😆
I think you are so spot on. Joe loved her for who she was ,even at her lowest period. He never wanted fame or her help. She is pretty spiteful and he's calm and normal. I really think he got fed up with her grudges and constant attention grabbing. I would imagine the Matt Healy drama was the last straw and he got sick of her mean ways. She said she was the happiest she had ever been on stage after their breakup. She's cut off her nose to spite her face. Silly girl. He's the one that got away ,and dodged a bullet.
Lmao no she dodged the bullet she’s doing better than him he looks like he misses her still
@@Cassandrabbnah you’re wrong 😂 you can tell that he does not gaf about her
Ed Sheeran seems to have kept his successful and productive career while putting his family first. He starts working at 10 am after getting his kids off to school and ends by 5 pm week days and does concerts only on weekends. He writes songs and lets other artists record them. Ed is a good friend to Taylor and can help her find balance in her life if she opens herself to it. I remember an interview before he had children where someone was discouraging him not to start a family and focus on his career. He politely said that he was doing it his way. I have mad respect for him.
Ed apparently learned how to balance it from Eminem. Eminem only works 9-5 M-F in his studio. He started doing that when he had full custody of all 3 of his daughters. Seems like a solid plan to me. I imagine it would be hard being a parent but also a successful musician. Kudos to them both for putting their families first
@GrannySkeksis I was just going to comment that - that Em works the same way like a 9-5 job
Taylor knows best..that's her problem. As egotistical as Kanye was, so was she deep down. In that way, Kayne must have seen himself in her years ago to target her...its all making sense now! 😂
Ed is not an egomaniac.
People are so surprised that these artist who constantly write about self sabotaging and being annoying and dramatic and out of control are actually like that in real life😭😭
not shaming her by ANY means i’m a swiftie for life!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Seriously LMAOOOO like this girl in relationships is crazy
Seriously haha. She has mentioned so many times she’s a bit too much in her songs 😂
people is me
Best comment
THE EX WAS MATTY HEALY
Oh shit
It’s crazy how accurate this is.
Atleast im not only 1 came to this video
1000% that is what I immediately thought watching it now after TTPD.
Yes!
I’m reading this 10 months later after the Super Bowl. I guess she went down the wrong track of distraction, trying to make Joe jealous, and now she’s with someone even louder (and dumber) and successful and public. I don’t see the healing, which makes this so sad. She’s only delayed the lessons. As someone said from another post, it would have been better if she had buckled down during her tour and used that for some introspection.
Agreed!
Definitely agree!!!
Now you know TSwift doesn't really do being single.
"I have this thing where I get older but never wiser'
I wake up in fears you'll get sick of my scheming"
IT ALL MAKES SENSE
In another one of your readings, you said that if she didn't stop her issues, he would leave. Spot on.
Tired of my scheming *
Also their joint song Betty wasnt exactly about happiness of a Love
she's paraoid af, she also gives me narcisstic vibe - like I'm always right, shup up
I hope she gets therapy
I wake up screaming from dreaming, one day I’ll watch as you’re leaving ‘cause you got tired of my scheming (for the last time)
joe is the whole package
When I was in my 30's I would have dropped to my knees for a man with those qualities. Thirty years after that, I still would. They are true unicorns.
I think the reading is spot on. Taylor never really grew out of high school, that is what keeps her music relevant. I also think the ex she keeps checking on is Harry Styles, he is single.
I kept thinking she was checking up on Scooter Braun, and being obsessed with that war and being wrapped up and upset about the things that happened there
I wish they’d get back together but i think that they wouldn’t ever want to be seen together bc they still aren’t able to accept it 10 years later
Ooof let's really hope not
Nope, Matty Healy
Nope
Not you predicting "whos afraid of little old me" and "i can do it with a broken heart"
What part was who’s afraid of little old me
How freaking spot on was he with that reading?! I mean there is so much right about the suing, the ex, the resentment regarding her fame and 'what we do to our artist', the marriage stuff, trying to make him jealous and him not carring about it etc etc
I think she doesn’t want to heal for fear of losing the creativity.
She can be like Madonna and gain creativity from having kids and existential crisis
That’s a good take.. I think you’re right!
her career comes before anyone, even herself and she’s giving everything and is ok to loosing herself for this fool’s life
I love how Joe was never a fame whore. Thanks for the reading, Ant ❤
I think he loved her passion, but had his own that were more “average” and simple. Fame comes at a huge cost and I think he saw that before he knew her
“You’re losing me” spells this out when you think of it from his perspective. He got sick of her shit, and she fought harder when he started to distance himself.
Please do an update on her and Matty since all of the gross stuff came out! Why is she still with him?!
True. The whole bridge actually!
Also yes another matty update is needed. Does she know about what he has said and done??
This is ONLY comment i have seen since song is released which matches the real perspective of joe...question rises why he started to distance from her ;Ant answered that. And again we will never hear his side but reading do speak but Ant is not reading comments
@@Mku-JJ1if of course she does
That's what I was thinking! Since the song was released I was wondering if this is how Tay felt,but something didn't click. Now with Ant reading,is crystal clear that is Joe's POV!
I actually think you’re losing me is what he said to her and she threw it out like this to get fans mad at him cuz she is pissed 😂😂
Heard someone say that famous people basically don't emotionally age past the age they were when they became famous.
sadly, I've never vibed with Taylor's high strung energy. it doesn't make her bad, it just means that we totally dissimilar, and I think Joe is likely a great guy who deserves a woman who will be wise, low key and who will trust him. hope Taylor learns from this... or that she can at least behave maturely about it. wish them both the best.
High strung energy ??
She could not believe he was genuine and sincere but she F it up and he will not give a second chance. She F it up!! She was too stuck on being a victim instead of GROWING UP!! 😒
A year after, you see how fucking acurate this is. Even songs from ttpd. Also abt him. And he was the only one who did not took advantage from her fame
UPDATE: your reading is playing itself out irl with Taylor and Matt. It’s like you’re psychic or something ❤
A Matt and Taylor follow up reading would be very interesting
Well he is. Every tarot reader must be psychic.
@@LilyIglesias u must be fun at parties
Funniest comment ever
Taylor is an extremely gifted artist. However, she sounds like a nightmare to be around in an intimate setting.
Yeah exactly.. people have a hard time separating the art from the artist with her. Lol I’m probably going to piss of the swifties but she sounds so incredibly immature and difficult. It’s the reason I could never get on board as a fan of hers. Love her albums Folklore and 1989 though lol
It sounds like she hasn’t mentally matured regards to intimacy. She’s known to write songs that insult her exes. So yeah, I agree with you. I only like one of her songs. To be honest, I don’t respect her. Never have. 🤷🏻♀️
@@KitsuneAdorable same! She will love her and her brand more than everyone and everything, ever.
I've been speaking abt this from a long time and people cancelled me lol 😭
I absolutely love her and her music but I’ve always been impressed at how she’s able to keep writing songs about the same break ups, over and over again with different angles. It must be mentally and emotionally exhausting lol
The look on your face after you pulled the ace of pentacles and 3 of pentacles in reverse; says it all. I feel what you said… “He’s tired.” Once someone is checked out and they don’t want to fight for you or with you it’s challenging to come back from that.
What's funny is that vibe was actually Taylor. Listen to her song "You're losing me"
@@rebeccatabor5508 that was joe. Not Taylor
This aged beautifully. You hit the nail on the head and I think more of what you said will unravel.
You’re right about tit for tat. She’s replacing all the Joe’s memories with Travis and posting him on social media.
As someone with bpd, i think Taylor has it too. Esp the wanting to fight to make sure they still love you. Joe took her bluff. Poor Taylor. Im sending her a hug. That is the worst thing for bpd.
I love Taylor Swift, and I have thought the same thing for a long time. I'm a Sagittarius like she is so I definitely see a lot of her behaviors are definitely Sagittarian in nature, but it goes beyond that. So heartbreaking 💔
I am not familiar with Joe but in this reading all I can see in my head is Joe sighing to all of her pettiness. As much as Taylor is a strong persona, Joe is a stronger energy here. As much as I understand where Taylor is coming from, Joe has a point himself that she needs to consider but it seems she doesn't listen at least to the 5% of what he's telling her.
I agree mostly. He also didn't seem to ever do conversations though. Its impossible to work on issues or strengthen bonds if communication isn't open both ways and clear to both parties.
He was mostly good for her. But him not talking left huge gaps open for doubts to seep in.
@@harmanlesli idt he wasn’t essentially talking. I thunk they were talking, but idt he expressed HIS FEELINGS very well. As an. Idk.. I mean basically, I also am not good at expressing what I'm feeling completely. It’s like I feel this situation isn’t right I Won't be like "I feel hurt."(actual feeling) I'll be more like " i don't feel good" or "this felt... Weird " (an make a sad face or something like that) or not say anything at all!(because I hate conflicts, it’s like smiling instead of crying and describing the issue) Idk if that's his case but this is what I'm guessing. He doesn’t express what HE feels.
Edit : ik it’s a problem but....
Nooo Taylor swift has stronger energy she’s more nostalgic and he’s more like no feelings no really much to miss you know
people noticed that recently she was emotional during champagne problems, a song literally about a fiancé leaving a guy because they weren’t ready to be tied down:(. this adds up, so sad
I will check it out
This is WHY Taylor tries sooooo hard to make this look like a love story with Travis!! If having gone through 6 years with someone you DO NOT just forget those feelings. This entire interaction with Travis has been HYPERSENSATIONALIZED…a hype story. Taylor’s young audience and some of the older ones want this relationship with Travis so bad…..and it will NOT be good. Travis will never be MR. SWIFT….he carries his family name proudly but her fans thinks its so cute. Taylor is EXTRA CLINGY….obsessed with hand holding and over hugging. Travis will need a break to make a break for it (RUNNNNN).
Drama aside, if this reading is true, Joe Alwyn is a RARE GEM in the entertainment industry! Iykyk...
I pray for Joes sake they never , ever ,ever get back together !!!!
❤
I’m not a Taylor swift fan but I’m watching for Joe since I like his energy from the past readings. Good for him for dipping out. They have different values right now. Nobody likes people who self-sabotage.
that's a hard truth as someone who can relate to self-sabotaging. It's hard to unlearn patterns that feel familiar and therefore safe. Even if the pattern's aren't helpful anymore.
@@TheTsl5032 true, it’s sucks when it gets to the point where you lose someone good forever to learn that lesson. I hope it works out for everyone.
i feel like now that we know more now, his reading makes sense but also kind of off. he wanted to settle down however she was stuck in the past ykwim?
I love Joe. I'm glad he's healthy and wise enough to do what's best for him. I hope this helps Taylor grow in the long run, too. We've all been Taylor at one point. It's not fun, but it's always a necessary lesson. Good for her, also, for prioritizing her career. Their goals and ideals weren't aligning and they both deserve the best.
This ✨
That’s very true too
i feel bad for joe, anytime hes brought up its swifties making fun of him, calling him poor and a flop 😭 it takes a certain type of person to put up with dating the biggest popstar in the world and he just wasnt it.
Especially if she didn’t even try to make space for him. I feel bad for him.
She should probably date the ex (hs) that she's still hang up on, they are a better fit and will finally make her happy.
I hope Joe finds a true, loving partner. He deserves it.
Exactly
@@IsabelleOGomez harry left Taylor for Kendall. Taylor loved him deeply but I guess he didn't so thats never happening
I don’t understand why poor is an insult when it’s not a reflection of character. Some of the best people I’ve known have struggled with homelessness. Joe probably has a larger net worth than most of the swifties, but once you get too much money it’s eat the rich. You can’t win. I wouldn’t want someone counting my coins. It says more about them that they’d go for that than it does him
her song The Archer “I never grew up, it’s getting so old. Help me hold onto you.”
This a year later is soooo crazy you were CORRECT
OMG, this is so sad. I'm not a Swiftie but i feel sorry for her. Being self destructive in relationships is awful and its a real slap in the face when you see all the toxic things you've actually done.
That's why Anti-Hero was released I guess😭
"I should not be left to my own devices, they come with prices, and vices I end up in crisis,
.. Tale as old as time.."
Self-sabotaging is the worst enemy in relationships. I really hope everything goes well for her.
its even worse when you realize this after youve lost significantly good people, ooofff that stings.
@@qseued I think she self-sabotages as well too tbh
@@owlstarot trust me,I know
As someone who has done shit in the past, I truly wish people stop jumping into relationships and first focus on healing themselves. No matter how loving a partner is, if you are not healed, you are going to suck their energy, try to unconsciously spin narratives and paint yourself as a victim even when they did nothing, and just cause chaos in both your lives cz there's chaos within you.
Yes you deserve love. But no one else deserves this type of torture, it isn't their fault either. And when we have someone to project and blame, it is even harder to turn the gaze within and look at our issues and traumas. I know it sounds harsh, but unless we are happy within ourselves, we won't truly feel happy with others.
amen
Agree 100% with you!
This 👏
You are completely right!
period!!!
LMAAOO you were right!!! even in TTPD she was still trying to find issues and being paranoid about joe "he was with her in dreams" "my friends said it isn't right to be scared every day of a love affair"
I don’t care about pop culture but hearing Ant read tarot is therapeutic ✨
yeah same tbh
yeah, me too
Literally i love watching him because he’s so calming
Girl yes on the therapy part!!! When I new video drops I always get my babies in the car and go for a drive to get a car wash lol. Stay at home moms…Iykyk 😊
Yessss
The thing you said about peacocking makes me think of how much publicity she is willingly attracting with Travis Kelce. I hope all goes well with her relationship with Travis but at the same time, it kind of feels like she’s putting on a performance being with him. Listening to this reading now gives insight on why she’s acting the way she is with Travis. It seems like she’s secretly hoping to make Joe jealous and win him back.
Travis is one long rebound. He’s going to be shocked when she walks away without notice one day. Good ting he is in it for his purposes too. May when she walks he will feel his uptick in fame will have been worth it. She acts well but she is not a woman in love.
I agree with you !Taylor is using Travis to get to Joe because Travis is his complete opposite and she makes a point of demonstrating this by having him perform at the London show and showing that she is super happy with her relationship with him, but to me it seems fake and forced
Sounds like she’s an anxious attachment style and he is either secure or avoidant
18:32 THIS!!! i came here right after You are losing me is released. this is what she meant when she said she want him to fight for them. U r so on point
If so then she is lieing about wanting to marry as per Ant
for one of her surprise acoustics she made a speech about how fame is terrible and then sang “the lucky one” 😭😭😭
Dude she’s literally gonna be in town tomorrow and now I feel crappy lol.
@@Icepink.cream. when antony said that he was reminded of Katy crying backstage before her show started and how taylor’s going through the same thing…😭😭😭
@@namavang I think she messed up): I know it’s not all her fault but… it’s almost like she was overtaking him right?
@@namavang Literally this is exactly what this reminded me of (when Russell Brand called Katy Perry on her “Teenage Dream” tour to divorce her) 💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭
3:18 “he felt like he matured and grew up and she never did” OPPPPP
🫢🫣😧
anti hero “i have this thing where i get older but just never wiser”
LOVED this reading ant! THANK YOU! i would love if you could please do the long awaited reading on karlie & taylor. also a reading on ariana.
(& my favorite song on midnights, midnight rain is now pretty much confirmed about joe OMGGG)
No, that's for Lautner... "Jumping off things into the ocean" is especially what Lautner used to do and still does to this day.
@@nishthagupta1357 I think Midnight Rain is actually about Tom Hiddleston (but that’s just my interpretation/that’s just my interpretation of this song tbh) 😕😕😕😕🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
“don’t call me kid, don’t call me baby..”
@@adobokkeumbap What’s that from?
@@abbiedtis the damn season
It comes with the territory of dating a Pisces- they just live in their world and do NOT know how to communicate-- it’s horrible.
We really don't 😐
Not true, - Sagittarius
Well if their mercury is in Aquarius or Aries it might get a little better but a Pisces with a mercury in Pisces is an enigma wrapped in a mystery when it comes to communication lol
@@ranga1cat yes, I appreciate your reminder that we cannot judge people based solely on their sun sign!!
Love from a Pisces sun, Aries mercury 😘
@Louis Kingsta I completely agree! 💯
When I listened to anti hero I was surprised because she clearly says that Joe would get tired of her and leave... she also talks about the weight of her fame, her difficulties and fears... and in the end, what she predicted happened, she is a complex person and doesn't have real time to dedicate to this relationship... sad because I thought they were great, but Joe is in another moment of his life...
Anti-hero is one of the songs psychologists point to as an example of BPD.
She gonna regret this ☹️ I feel sad I wanted them to have they happily ever after but I guess she was so much into her head that forgot what she had in front of her. He was too normal for her, she wanted drama and I guess it didn’t work.
About what you said about her resenting fame (in 19:58), it's already happening: there's a song called The Prophecy in her newest album, about precisely that.
"Please
I've been on my knees
Change the prophecy
Don't want money
Just someone who wants my company"
It's like she's starting to see that money can't buy her happiness.
She has old baggage and it affected her new relationship. She shouldn't even be in one. This is a good guy that wanted to settle down and she wasn't doing anything to show him shes committed to being a mom and making sacrifices - like lightening up her schedule. I can see him marrying relatively soon. This guy is READY. Ps. I cannot see him wanting her back because she wants drama , she's too "hollywood", they are too different . He wants what she was before the heartbreak. The girl next door. She's changed too much .
Actually, the lyrics of Midnight rain fits to this situation. He wanted comfortably. I wanted that pain. He wanted bride. I was making my own name, chasing the fame, he stayed the same. All of me changed like midnight rain. Because While Taylor was rising/getting more famous, Joe didn't change and still stayed humble.
Comfortable *
It was about Lautner.. Not Joe.. The song came out when Joe was still together either Taylor.
@@nishthagupta1357 I mean shit she manifested then 💀
@@s0ledadSperanza oh no, dont say that😭
@W W damnnn trueee
This hits differently now that she’s with Travis and the Grammys fumbles. I think she’s still in love with Joe.
SAME!! She’s throwing herself on Travis to either say “F you” to Joe or to try to get over him or a combination of both. I have been a Swiftie since Debut and I’m older than Taylor by 4 years. Watching her grow up, this has been a repeat occurrence. She can’t be single. She even called Tom Hiddleston a “Getaway Car” and said “I wanted to leave him ( Calvin Harris) I needed a reason”. Like Miss Girl, you can just break up with someone and not have your next boyfriend picked out
@@thisissarah815 joe broke up with her.
@@joshuayencer1919 you think he initiated it?
@@thisissarah815 Yes
@@joshuayencer1919 sometimes getting dumped hurts our pride so much it hurts. You don’t even like the person that dumped you. First of all, you wanted to do it first. And then how DARE they not care. Stings 😂😂😂😂
One year later and this is so accurate!
Also, your first healthy relationship with a healthy partner is not easy when you've been through a lot of crappy ones. I find myself relating to her being paranoid and questioning, trying to find something wrong. Because as someone who has been through bad relationships with people who kept their mask on for a long time, hid their true intentions, lied, cheated, etc... your view gets tainted. Everyone is hiding something. Everyone lies. You don't believe that there's anyone out there who won't deceive you or stab you in the back. You definitely need therapy after multiple betrayals like that, because it will ruin a good relationship or good person for you
Youre so right, ive been in crappy romance before and it makes me like a bitter person and paranoid, seeing every man like theyre gonna do the same craps to me, i definitely need help.
PREACH !
Exactly yes... Yet How handled her very well!!! But what happened now?😭😭😭
@@morgan_baldwin Same here! You turn into someone that you're not. It's sad that people don't treat others better, because in the end we are the ones left picking up the pieces when someone does us dirty. 💔
@@raaindrrop so true 😢 i too wish can go back as the person i was before, but thats impossible, the fact that we're being damaged so bad makes us broken inside, so bad i'm still trying to digest sometimes.. how can a person be so horrible to their partner, i can only think theyre sick.
I always liked them together because someone like Taylor Swift ( one of the most famous/ richest women in the planet ) would need someone who looked at and loved Taylor the person and not at Taylor the superstar.
The fact she's been singing that from Reputation itself 'you must like me for me ' does mean Joe got that.
He also seems to be the calm rock to Taylor's brilliant chaos.
From his interviews and what his co-stars say you can gather he is kind , polite and very considerate. He talks respectfully and highly of the female co-stars & directors he works with.
I hope they can find their way back..but he needs to find some roles and do press without her shadow ( every interview being about her ) and get some more media training and she hopefully gets to work on her self-sabotage / abandonment issues.
Only you can heal yourself.
Astrologically speaking, he really used to be 'home" for Taylor where she feels safe and protected from outside world. But sadly, Transit Pluto recently made a brutal entrance conjuncting this synastry aspect(i.e. Leaving Taylor feeling as though Joe was overbearing, domineering, standing in the way of certain projects, and her being attracted again to some one from her past that she have long forgotten for a long time.. And also leaving Joe as though Taylor was more of a burden.). Pluto in Aquarius completely transformed them both. Wishing them both the best in their respective journey in life.
I hear you. Pluto going over their Venus-Saturn conjunction must have ended them
I’ve been down this road that Taylor is on right now and ruined things with a good guy years ago by being immature, insecure and petty. For me he’s the one that got away and it’s the biggest regret of my life. I hope Taylor wakes up and realizes she doesn’t have to be comfortable being the anti-hero, she can move past it and free herself from that before it’s way way too late. 😢
I love your celebrity readings its like free therapy 😂 shiit I really thought she matured a lot with him but i guess her issues are still there, i liked his energy for her 😢
I feel bad for Joe. I love Taylor but Joe seems a good person
when he moves on she’s going TO HURT 😢
Indeed, Travis was a distraction and is being used to make him jealous. It’s all a game to her. She is soooo childish.
@@annitadailey4285 I'm only assuming of course but I guess she expected Joe to come crawling back or beg or something during the Matt/Travis thing but I don't believe he will.
@@Inksplatter1991 Seems he has truly moved on.
@@annitadailey4285 Joe was out smiling and having a great time at Cannes seen with lots of women around him ofc because he’s an extremely attractive bachelor and Taylor sang “how did it end” and was tearing up and her voice was choking up. I wasn’t too convinced she was not over Joe, I felt like it’s been long enough but after seeing that video and seeing Joe thrive this weekend it’s so painfully obvious how not over him she is I can’t deny it anymore..
@@katejt Totally agree
'wanting to show off with hot people to piss him off' her being spotted with Matty everywhere right now 😳
As a fellow pisces who also had a Sag stellium ex it's almost predictable tha rit would end. Pisces need peace and anyone who disturbs it is just not worth fighting for. Lord hearing Taylor's energy tired me out. And I'm a pretty old Swiftie😅
I’m sure he was exhausted but loved her a lot and saw so much potential in her. I’ve always thought “the best is yet to come” because with growth comes depth. Being a role model for the world sounds like a massive challenge
@@ateenipeterson It is but for what it’s worth I think Taylor is a pretty good role model overall (from what I’ve seen/from what I’ve seen of her at least) and I’m just so glad that she overappreciates and overvalues her fans bc this quality is lacking/is lacking in other/some other modern day popstars/pop artists (Justin Bieber is a big one) 👍🏻👌🏻😅😂
I honestly can't tell if you're a swiftie or not because this reading has played out incredibly accurately, and I always read into her lyrics to find this stuff out, but you're just letting the cards tell it like it is and it's 100% on so far. I guess the cards really never lie. Great work, I loved the analysis, keep going!!
Also, when you said he humbled her, I completely agree. Her disposition during her tour has been interesting to watch so far. She has very vulnerable moments during songs she must associate strongly with Joe that make it feel like she's alone in her house rather than in a stadium with 50k+ people watching, and her general presence onstage is more soft and "hi I'm just here to sing out my emotions" than I feel like a global popstar would be right now (she still displays amazing confidence on stage and everything, I just see her speaking and moving with more gratefulness and awareness). I can't imagine the absolute hurricane going on for her emotionally, but I see the growth it will hopefully bring for her if she chooses to work on the things that broke this dream relationship. She was my greatest role model for a LONG time, and now I'm really just rooting for her to do better for herself because she's either let a man be the center of her world, or she's chased fame, her entire life, and that isn't healthy for anyone. Ma'am needs mad therapy and I hope she's getting it
I came back here after hearing the rumors of her and Matty Healy being seen together and possibly “dating” you are spot on Ant!
Thanks Ant for this emergency pop reading! We know that you are reading our comments always ❤
I just rewatch earlier your first reading with Joe and Taylor and I remembered that if Tay made something, Joe will definitely end the relationship. But still have high hopes for them!
There were articles that pretty much blamed Joe and it stated Taylor's close circle was the source. It was all like, "they fell in love in the isolation of the pandemic, once she came out of it Joe could not deal with her being out there as she always has been". I knew it was complete bs
Exactly, it doesn't even make sense. They were dating for a solid 2-3 years before the pandemic. And no one is dumb enough to not realize they are dating one of the most famous people in the world 😂
Looking at these a year after all that has been happening so far... damn, you're good. 😅
you were so right omg Taylor is out and about every night in nyc with her friends looking fine as hell since she broke up 😭
@Kimberly A Ikr I wonder what else is gonna come true in the coming days 😭
so now looking back the guy she was checking on was definitely matty…
i think if you never move past these vibes(breakup,angst and so on) life will keep giving them back
the first year of their relationship was filled with, ‘we can do this. we’ll get through this.’ we can conquer the world, type of shit. they were hiding and definitely getting transformed with joe. then the next stage of their relationship, more serious. which was around the pandemic. they’re basically twins of each other but it really served their relationship well. she was pretty much very low key and recovering from the tour and rediscovering herself with indie music and the simplicity of things. joe must’ve loved that and she momentarily forget her priorities. she probably thought that ‘i’m forgetting what i want. this was what i once was,’ a big popstar, record-breaking artist. they managed well in 2021 but maybe 2022 caused the crack in the glass. he probably didn’t want to be associated often with her bc he doesn’t want all the ‘nepo boyfriend’ and writing songs when all he wants to do is act in small, independent, cannes and emmy type of projects but taylor became a BIGGER artist in 2022. midnights made her the biggest in the world and the tour must’ve been one of the things that caused their distance. not only that, joe has been in multiple projects and we can actually listen how she thinks about how much she put joe at a pedestal and is constantly paranoid and worried, even after more than a decade later. he must’ve assured her a hundred thousand times and i don’t think he likes so much thrill bc he’s probably at that age where he wants to slow down and is satisfied with how he is in his career but taylor is an ambitious woman and wants to be the number 1. i know bc i had someone like him. someone who wanted the quiet, settle down in the future, doesn’t want to fight, doesn’t want to be confronted or accused on. of course, it was my fault. i was always trying to find ways to cause a wedge between us and in the end, he gave up and was still very gracious. he must’ve been the same way with taylor. i just cannot imagine what would happen once joe meets someone new and she hears about it. i also do not know why she thought it was a good idea to date someone like matty immediately. if this is what truly happened, taylor might come to her senses and knock on his door. and if she never will, i fear this might affect her. and if she gets over this, i just hope she meets someone who could actually be the perfect balance and understand her shine. (not that joe wasn’t, he was. she even said he was the perfect balance.) and then it all broke down.
couldn't be said better... just like you said, I hope she will come to her senses...
You said t so well. Ik people are like good for her for choosing career but I feel she is at an age that there are sometimes you aren’t no. 1 and It's ok.
Joe has the most beautiful eyelashes on the planet
we all need to marry an emotionally stable, even emotions, responsible, predictable partner, to have stability and comfortable homelife, trust me, the older you get, the drama gets old fast and draining, makes you tired.
I have to ask myself if fame stunted her emotional growth. I wonder if Taylor Swift is stuck at the age of 13 emotionally just because you’re extremely rich and famous does not mean that you’re emotionally mature. It’s just a question.
Can you blame her? A lot of men took advantage of her and broke her
That’s most female artists that started young though, men too. Examples being Ariana grande or Leonardo di caprio etc they just never grow up due to their childhood being taken away and it’s so sad
I think there is a lot of grooming that goes on when you're going to be a celebrity/in the public eye... she had this relationship at 19 with a guy much older than her that really traumatized her, which probably explains her anxieties and insecurities...
I think something like this happens to most celebrities, they just don't talk about it.
@@regppMD Like she also did to her exes, capitalizing on their relationship to gain popularity? Same birds flock together 😂
21:00 “I can do it with a broken heart”
i think she’ll be fine whilst on tour…and then when tour is over and she doesn’t have her old life with him to go back to…yeah…that’s going to hurt
indeed this is when she realize i feel bad for her already
Rewatching after TTPD release!
It’s funny that you mentioned the word WAR, which has a LOT of meaning in this situation. She literally has a song called “the Great War” and it speaks about her fears towards the relationship with Joe, her past telling her that she needs to punish him for things he has never done due to the experiences she has had in her previous relationships which is basically what you were talking about in this reading. It’s such a shame really. She seems like she is fine now (because she is focusing on the tour) but it might hit her later on. I hope the best for both ❤
Yeah and mentions how she blamed the person she’s singing about for things they never did in the Great War
Watching this now is... WOW. You're incredible, Ant.
She’s always self-sabotaging her relationships
OMG! You literally predicted the things related to Joe and the aftermath of that relationship on TTPD, So Long London, Daddy I Love Him, I Can Do It With A Broken Heart. I'M SHOOKED
Daddy i love him is for matt
Honestly, I cant believe it’s been 6 years, they were together, I think you are right Ant, Taylor is going to look back one day & have some regrets, she put her career first & above the people in her life & I’m sure Joe grew tired of not feeling like a priority in her life after all these years. I hope she does not grow old alone, w/self sabotaging, unless thats what she really wants
A year later, ...you said she'll let go of grudges..nope.
Maybe after Rep TV she'll finally move on from the drama
@@Inksplatter1991 as if... I see her going all in til the crash and burn.
I mean, are people really surprised? She was so private in their relationship, totally into hermit mode and then her lyrics "I miss you but I miss sparkling" she can't stand not being in the spotlight and good for her, she has earned it
I think so, yes youre right. But I think she wanted to go hermit mode herself actually.. After the trauma the world gave her really. Listen to "the lakes" song by Taylor and you will know what I'm talking about.
@@nishthagupta1357 yes i get that but if one's personality is to shine and even if they willingly went into hermit mode, she wasn't able to make it her life cause she's meant to shine. She did it for a few years but now she just wants to be true to herself and Joe was a bit too lowkey
Her wanting spotlight feels like a coping mechanism honestly
@@eleanor1105 yeah and somehow thats all she knows as that's the life she's lived and is so comfortable with.
@@blessedbygod4472you're aware you don't know any parties involved correct?
The huge tour did not bode well for their relationship. He is not the guy who would follow her around, and that is what he would have to do to keep them together. It is sad, because he seems like a cool guy. Who could Taylor still be hung up on from the past, as you read? I can't figure that one out. It doesn't seem like she had real love before this relationship. Have a great tour, Tay! xo
Taylor Lautner ...Taylor treated her right nd she was the one to break his heart she even wrote a song on him * back to December* ...last year he married Taylor dome
Jake
@@loduke3905 no way lol
Taylor, Harry, Connor, I dont know. I dont actually think it’d be Harry though
@@tearsofawaterfall2656 ye even out of the loop ppl like me knows how well Harry is doing these days 😅
Ther is this line in Afterglow: “Put you in jail for something you didn’t do” came to my mind when you said that she always tries to find a problem with him. So, it means that it wasn’t the first time for that to happen.
Also, Bejeweled is about that choice she has chosen to “shine”. In this song the “some guy” could be Matty and the band is probably 1975. The other thing is. I watched your video about Matty and Taylor and I was thinking the same. They can bond over music and song writing. I think the lyics of 1975 are very great and Taylor also puts a lot of effort to that.
I feel like, Joe could be a stable partner for someone who hasn’t got that much trauma from past relationships and isn’t eager to be in the spotlight - she was publically recognised even in her teenage yers, so it’s somewhat understandable. It’s deffinitely her purpose, but I feel like her relationship with Joe could also be a purpose. It migth be a soulmate who wasn’t meant to be situation, because of these circumstances.
I can trust you with this, it makes sense. Thank you!
Spot On tic for tac pickup fights and always trying to find someone wrong with him but this isn't a healthy relationship for Joe she should regret this but I hope Joe moves on with his own life and finds someone special ❤️
Taylor will regret it but I really hope he moves on without giving her a nother chance to be back in her life
He won’t (give her another chance that is)
I hope so too he deserves someone quiet and kind like him.
I can do it with a broken heart....as the crowd was shouting MORE!!
Other readers seem to pick up on the same things. They also say she is being paranoid and defensive and she wanted him to do more career-wise but he didn't want to.
Looking back from all the stuff that we've recently learned and the fact that she used to date the guy that she's currently with. Self sabotage Taylor, he's going to be the one that got away
Taking this as a lesson for myself…I do all the things Taylor does in my relationship. Definitely need to stop looking for issues that don’t exist 😶
me too
believe you deserve to be deeply loved you deserve people loyalty
This was me too once upon a time and it took a lot of trauma therapy for me to break the cycle. It takes a lot of growing to realize that when someone hurts us that doesn't mean the next person will and that when people tell us who they really are we have to believe them. Loyal people will be loyal, nobody can make them cheat or do something stupid. People who were not loyal in the first place won't stay loyal not because someone made them it's because they chose to. Sometimes because we grew up in chaotic homes we seek chaos, drama, problems, and toxic people because that's what we believe is normal and when a real healthy person comes along we think it's weird, off or really boring since our minds are so used to the drama and the perpetual chaos. We seek chaos and drama because it's familiar, not because it's healthy or good for us and that's something that you have to watch out for.
"He wanted it comfortable, she wanted that pain, all of me changed like Midnight Rain"
"Not that innocent," brings, "I'm the problem, it's me," to mind.