5 Plus Size Fashion Rules That Are STUPID and Should be Broken! (You'll Look Frumpy)
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- Опубліковано 22 тра 2024
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Timestamps
00:00 Introduction
01:17 To tuck or not to tuck
04:25 Can't wear a belt
06:40 Should wear form fitting clothes
08:38 Don't wear a midi skirt
10:32 Can't wear stripes
12:57 Watch this next!
Sizing reference:
I’m petite (5’0”), wear a size 18W, and can wear a XXL in most brands.
In shoes - I am a US size 6.5 in most brands, otherwise I’m a US size 7
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I am SO tired of hearing people tell apple bodies we shouldn’t wear leggings because it makes our top portion look bigger. I’m so glad you added the tunic or oversized shirt with leggings! That’s one of my favorite things to wear. I don’t know why people say we can’t wear skinny jeans or leggings with tunics because I think it looks super cute. Plus my legs are one of my best assets!
You go girl, embrace what makes you feel beautiful! 😃🙌🏼
Please do a Part Two of this. I loved the video ❤
Wonderful, Oralia! I'm a plus sized woman who is very insecure about my body. Thank you for giving me the confidence to break the rules and up my fashion game! - xx, Carla
Hope you are well Carla. Keep posting when you get the time.
😎❤️💄Kathy
You’ve got this Carla! Hugs, my friend!! ❤️
I'm largest misses or smallest plus. I have felt bad being unable to keep weight off since turning 60. After watching you for 6 months or so I now have the courage to tuck and wear belts. Thank you. I'm also wearing stripes.
Awesome! Keep pushing, it’ll get easier and you’ll really start to embrace your style. 👍🏼💕
Love your confidence, and you look great with the belts!
Hello Oralia, can u show how to style a denim maxi skirt or the one that has a slit on the front. I always look in your vidoes for tips and ideas.
I enjoyed your video so much! Some great styling here! I notice that your cloths fit you perfectly. Do you have them tailored? And thank you for not wearing cloths that are too small and tight. A mistake some of us make too often. Keep up the great work!
Gosh I just found your channel. Finally a woman my size and 5 foot! I love your content! Thank you! Back in the day I would tuck my blouses into my dress pants at work. Two women told me I looked awful (size 14 at that time)……I felt so bad. I would never tell someone they looked bad……😵💫
Ugh! How rude. 🤦🏻♀️ They were the insecure ones!
I love your horizontal stripes under a jacket, looks fabulous.❤
Thanks! It’s a great hack. 😉💕
Thank you Oralia! I think you are right-so much of dressing for plus size women is about confidence. Before I was plus size I never gave a thought to following other peoples rules and its taken me a long while to dress to suit my new body as I always feel judged-I'm a big fan of the third piece as I'm now tucking in and wearing belts again but I'm still not ready to show my side view without!! Thank you again xxxxxxx
That’s ok, you’re taking steps and that’s what matters. 😉💕
Well said. You looked great in each outfit as you added belts, pumps, etc. It all made perfect sense. Thank you.
I would like to thank you for helping me not look like a box anymore! You gave me the courage to buy a belt and it’s made all the difference. Also I got rid of all my capris. Thank you!
That is awesome! I'm so glad to be of help!
I love the blazer
I tucked my top in for the first time in years. The hubs gave me a thumbs up. I’ll try belts next. Thanks so much. I appreciate you!
Awesome!!
I’m not plus-sized, but I have friends that are plus-sized that want me to help them with their style. I love videos like yours so I can give good advice for their body shape. A number of “stylists” either recommend baggy, frumpy, shapeless items or clothing that is 3-4 sizes too small for plus-sized women. Your recommendations are very stylish and flattering.
Awesome! Thank you!
I love the line “who the hell made them the boss of u anyways” 🤣. My philosophy has always been: u don’t like the way I look, u don’t hafta look at me…. U ROCK!
I looooovvveee this!!! The black silk skirt + red tank is just *chefs kiss*. I can't believe it took me so long to realise I can do what I want with my outfits rather than follow outdated fashion "rules." thank you for this video!
Excellent video with tips that has helped me step out of my comfort zone. I had a lady comment at a event last week that I really look put together. Thanks so much!!
That’s so awesome! 🙌🏼
Great tips. Love your videos! Thanks!
So glad you’re enjoying it! 😃💕
You look good
Nice that you show what the shape is before and after
Changing it
It’s true we don’t need to change the wardrobe
We need to change how it falls on the body
And shapes our body
I'm so glad you enjoyed it!
I haven’t worn a tucked in shirt or belt for decades. Do I have the courage? 🤫
Lots of good tips here! thanks!!
You’re welcome and thanks for watching! 😃💕
Great tips! Thanks
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you ! and OMG that Blue plaid blazer!!!
You are so welcome!
Thank you for these great tips.
You’re welcome, so glad you enjoyed it!
A great video!. While some rules work, sometimes they don't.
I enjoy your channel very much, you explain things so well and you are so supportive.
I’m so tired of people telling me I should not wear capris I love capris instead of shorts. So I’m going to buy a little 2 inch heel shoes and maybe it will look better. I’ll let you know
You're in luck, they're coming back in style! And the way you're considering styling them is spot on (a pair of cap toe flats would also look really cute)! 😉
Lots of good ideas 🌼
Yay! So glad you enjoyed it! 😃💕
Love this! You look AHMAZING
Thank you!
You are right about the belt, I need to work on that. Thanks❤
It took time for me to get used to as well but I’m glad I tried it. 😉💕
I just love your style!
Aww, thank you! 🙈💕
I can’t believe I just found you. I have been wanting this kind of style and I love the way you give information.
Welcome! 👋🏼 I’m so glad you’re enjoying my videos.
I like your Suggestions and ideas. Thanks a lot you are the best 🌺🌹💥💥💥💥
You are welcome 😊
This very video of yours has changed the way I dress forever! ❤
I´m sooooo happy 🙂to find a stylist who is plus size on herself!!! Great video!!! Can you answer me this QUESTION, please: Does the french tuck only works with very wide leg pants? How do you style skinny or straight leg pants/jeans?
The same, it helps when you gather the fabric like I demonstrated, that way it doesn’t bunch up too much.😉💕
Thank you for your videos! I love this one and your hauls. I am not able to wear heels due to an accident so I always feel frumpy with flats.
Flats are awesome (if you find the right ones). Stay tuned, I’ve got some shoe content coming where I talk about flats. 😉
@@Oralia_Martinez thank you!!
Thank you! Plus size and you helped solidify some of my choices. I love nice clothes and had to upsize recently due to a change in weight and shape. I can’t wait to watch more of your videos. You looked so nice in all your out fits. And I subscribed to your channel.
Glad I could help! And welcome! 👋🏼
You look very put together wonderful
Thank you! 🙈💕
People tell me i should not wear this or that because it will make me look short etc. And they can’t even style themselves.
I love the tips. For me the French tuck I just don't like though, respectfully. I'll definitely try belts.
👍🏼
love this video Oralia/love these outfits/your taste is so wonderful/love your videos XXX
Thank you!
Love this video. Your explanation of breaking the rules has definitely boosted my confidence,especially in wearing belts. I also purchased that obi belt. Can you share the brand of the blazer you styled with the belt in the back? Gorgeous.
Sadly its a shop my closet blazer. It’s CAbi and it’s no longer available. You may want to check Poshmark for it. 🤔💕
What a gorgeous voice you have.
Thank you!
I’ve always been afraid of belts! Maybe I’ll give one a whirl this year!
Get an inexpensive one and, if you’re struggling, wear it at home first to get used to the way it looks. 😉💕
I love the black you are wearing, I wear a lot of black. Linen in summer. ❤😊
I especially love black in summer for some reason. 😆💕
God Bless you O everyone should do what feels good to them especially us seasoned divas.❤❤❤
Right on! 🙌🏼
I like the idea of having a stiffer fabric that skims the body. I love that look on you and plan to try it myself. Also wondering if you you are still using your obi belts? I bought two and don’t use them as much as I should. LOVE your Valentino belt!!
Thanks! I need to bring my obi belts into my dressing room because they’ve been a bit out of sight out of mind…
Great video! I am terrified to tuck in and wear a belt!
Try it out at home for a bit, to get used to it. 😉
Hello Oralia, I just started watching your videos and am loving your tips! I am about 5”7” and have always been a size 10 or medium. But in my sixties I find I my shoulders are the same but my bust and belly require a size 12 or large now. So finding the right fit as become a challenge. I found you looking for belt tips and see you’ve many tips o help me. I would like to buy one belt to start and thought the obi was a bit pricey for me right now. But I will consider it based on your recommendation of which belt style to start with, have you a suggestion? Stephanie
I think an obi belt is a great place to start, it’s where I started. It’s flexible in size and can be styled many ways. Hope that helps! 😉💕
You were spot on with this video. Thank you. 😊
So glad you enjoyed it! 😃💕
I am new to your channel and I love your style. Where did you get the black toe slippers.
Thank you and welcome! 👋🏼 They are from The Drop on Amazon. I’m dropping the link here: rstyle.me/cz-n/fcqmkrcvp97. I’ve had them for a couple of years and they’re still going strong! 😉💕
I am old and my weight might not change but my shape does, I call it shape shifting. So the waist of my pants might get loose and it’s time for a belt.
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As a short wasted woman, my smallest part is literally under my bust. And at my age my tummy forms an apron. I wish I was tall and long wasted like you. 🙁🤷
My problem is that I have no smallest part of my body I am fully round :D When I wear belt it always rides up under by boobs and thenit looks totally horrible
I can’t wear any type of heels whatsoever because of knee and ankle issues any suggestions 🙂
Can you wear wedge shoes or block heels? Wedge shoes and block heels give you the height as well as the stability.
Whats a kitten heel
I remember when I was younger I thought that large women with their shirts tucked in, looked bigger! I like the shirt belted better, so that the bottom of the shirt covers the stomach, almost like a peplum.
That’s also an option. 😉💕
Where are your favorite places to shop?
I have a list longer than my arm. 😆 I guess if I had to narrow it to my top 3 - Walmart, H&M, and Banana Republic.
Just got off commenting to a You Tuber telling us not to wear capris, wear skorts, lol I’m 80 can you picture 5 ft 1 150 pounds, wear tops out , what do I do in a skort and a top to lessen my stomach. I’m pissed at You Tubers thin telling me at. 80. Get real I go shopping and sit on car line school pick up granny, I’m not having breakfast at Tiffany.
Want to come to Washington and dress me?!?!
I'm actually in the PNW if that's the Washington you mean, lol.
@@Oralia_Martinezget out! I am on the Olympic Peninsula!
@@Oralia_Martinez get outta here I love on the Olympic Peninsula
I want to raid your closet!
😆💕