Revisit this video Sarafina and make things right. I have listened to this video till the end. Everything you said sounded so right. Remold that home and reunite John’s family
Wow 😲..sarafina is full of wisdom..about vicentian Retreat center..that is the holy place where I fight all my battles..I can testify..that is a holy place..
Mama ciku be strong Andu matiedaga kuona andu mehamwe alfu bwana akikufa ndio unaonaga watu wakuja kuwaonyesha vile utaishi mama shiku mimi nilipitishiwa hii lkn niliwaonyesha ni kijana yao alinileta huko nitakaa vile nataka na hakuna jina cjawai itwa but i thanx God i am strong mama 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Very wise woman mama Shiko,a wonderful woman with a pure , clean heart ,a golden heart,congrats and God bless you abundantly and may God be your provider and protector with your co-wife together with your children..God bless you too Shiro Stuart 🙏🙏🙏
Sarafina thank you for your humbleness and strong faith in God because those who really trust in God will not fail. God bless you and add you more faith. Kwihoka Ngai gutirii hathara.
True I am raised up by a single mother ...my dad passed on in 2008 by then I was in class 2 me together with my 2 younger siblings since then the life has not been easy but God is great because now I am in campus and my young sister is in form four so I know how this window sacrifice themselves...may God bless them
I love you bure I'm single mom for 9years very happy I am saved God grace is sufficient if he comes back I am ready but if he doesn't I will commit my ways to the Lord
Thank you Sarafina,I gave learned alot from you. Your polite answer is wonderful,God will see you through no matter what you are going through,trust in God he will never disappoint you.👏👏
Waw !.I thank GOD for listening to you Mrs de'mathew.i can you without fear of contradiction that you deserve to be a leader.i wish you well Inshallah.
Mine died when we had stayed 12yrs in marriage and now this is my 30th yr as a widow. What Sarafina saying is very true and thats what widows go through..
I was widowed at 30 I tried remarry but failed miserably now I am 18 years single looking after my children. God bless you all ladies and see us through 📖✝️🛐🙌🏽🙏🏽
wao im so proud of you sarafina wise woman may God continue giving you more grace with your co. Wife stick together hii social media nigute mpeanange story za ukweli
I'm 2 years into widowhood,the assumption especially if you are young is that you will get remarried.Not easy at all,but God's grace is sufficient.We solder on because life must go on.
Mama shiko hunaogea ukweli Mtu akikuabia kitu abia mungu,one mwanamke mwenye alichukua my husband alinitusi kwa text niliabia mungu mm nimesoma my party Bado ww mungu,sai ni mungu hata musaidia juu hali c hali ..
I knew she was Catholic by her narrative. No loud voices... kneel before the Holy Eucharist... take your prayers to Jesus through His Holy Mother. Say your Rosary daily.. see God take charge.... like she says, walk with your head high..God guides your footsteps
Saaasa aki mbona watu Wana tusi huyu mama baada ya burial ya victor Jane demattew yet huyu mama Hana ubaya na mtu yeyote??? Aki watu wachangenj judgement God will deal with you
Before you accuse Sarafina, you need to ask yourself. Who knows what happens in your life than wewe mwenyewe? Whatever you see on social media is largely misconstrued, and suited to fit whoever is telling it. And she has a right to not respond or reveal everything about her family issues. The boy wasn't John's, and according to Gikuyu customs, huyo mtoto hakufaa kuzikwa kwa John, but kwa babake, or mother's husband if she remarried. Waganu has consequence, and a man rightfully sets his rules. Just like I will not allow my daughter to name her illegitimate/bastard child in my family tree, but if that happens, encourage her to name after the father, whether he approves it or not, juu mtoto ni wa mwanaume, sio mwanamke. But those on the comments condemning her are the ones who name their children after themselves. Wanawake you need to learn that money or material is not everything. If it was, that girl would have buried her son in a public cemetery, and would not have brought hii drama yote.
We are not accusing her bt alikosea kukosa kushikilia Jane wakati wa mshimba pia ss tuko na familia bt wakati mtu ameachwa nilikuwa naona unaeda huko kumpea pole hizo story zingine siezi ingilia bt kwa Victor alikosea kabisa .nyinyi dio mnafanya aone kama amefanya poa jaribu kuongea ukweli ka huangalii pande moja kifo hakuna mtu huitaka kwake ama kuomba ikuje kwake
i also thought the burial place shd not have a big deal as it was. unless a child grew up in shagz, best place to bury is public cemetary coz shamba si ya baba yake. but pole sana kwa jane for losing a child.
@@anitajohn2999 My aunt's husband died a couple of months ago, na sikuenda mazishi. Hata sikituma kitu, ama kusema pole. I'm sure I'm not the only one who has done that or gone through something similar, hata wewe mwenyewe. Sio Jane aliaga, ni mtoto wao na mwanaume waliyezaa naye. And Jane is not Sarafina's daughter, but of John's previous girlfriend. Wewe mwenyewe unajua ex wa your boyfriend/husband? Na je mtoto/watoto kama anao? If you did, wouldn't a text of pole be enough? I'm sure many women would not even bother. Cut Sarafina some slack.
@@eddahwambui3476 Having or not having a daughter holds no influence or sway over me on factual matters. I cannot, will not, corrupt what's right and natural for anything, not even for the emotional fulfillment of a daughter of mine. Akawezapata hivyo, and I forbid and reject it both in action and word, huyo mtoto naturally/biologically ni wa hiyo jamii, and not mine. She would therefore have to name them after the family of the boy responsible. I'd personally see to that . Hisia cannot change that, neither can/will they sway me from facts, and what's correct and just.
This woman’s level of maturity and wisdom 👍👍God will always look after she and her family.Well done mama
I am a witness on this, when you offer yourself to God you get everything you want.
Revisit this video Sarafina and make things right.
I have listened to this video till the end.
Everything you said sounded so right.
Remold that home and reunite John’s family
You can hear her humbleness while talking ,,,she have a heart of gold ❤️love you much mummy
Wow 😲..sarafina is full of wisdom..about vicentian Retreat center..that is the holy place where I fight all my battles..I can testify..that is a holy place..
This Lady is blessed and has alot of wisdom ❤️
True
A woman full of wisdom 🥰🥰🥰🥰 God keep you and bless you abundantly
Very true ukiwa mjane rafiki ni Mungu tu. 3 years since mine died and not even a relative has ever called kuniuliza watoto wako vipi. Ni God tu
I love this woman from the deepest of my heart... she's a humble woman n a God fearing one.....
Mama ciku be strong Andu matiedaga kuona andu mehamwe alfu bwana akikufa ndio unaonaga watu wakuja kuwaonyesha vile utaishi mama shiku mimi nilipitishiwa hii lkn niliwaonyesha ni kijana yao alinileta huko nitakaa vile nataka na hakuna jina cjawai itwa but i thanx God i am strong mama 🙏🏼🙏🏼
In God we trust
Just continue putting your heart close to God, your husband was a Hero
Very wise woman mama Shiko,a wonderful woman with a pure , clean heart ,a golden heart,congrats and God bless you abundantly and may God be your provider and protector with your co-wife together with your children..God bless you too Shiro Stuart 🙏🙏🙏
Wisdom is oozing from her ..úyù noaune ùta mùgeete
Mama shiku I really admire you just trust God and He will give the way
I love the wisdom this lady have I wish to meet her one day for an advice. Much love mama...... ❤ 💖💖💖
Take heart mama...walienda lakini hatutawai wasahau. Hata mume wangu naulizanga mbona yy
Sarafina I give you total respect. You are a wise woman full of wisdom.
Sarafina thank you for your humbleness and strong faith in God because those who really trust in God will not fail. God bless you and add you more faith. Kwihoka Ngai gutirii hathara.
You are full of wisdom mama,I really treasure you.
True I am raised up by a single mother ...my dad passed on in 2008 by then I was in class 2 me together with my 2 younger siblings since then the life has not been easy but God is great because now I am in campus and my young sister is in form four so I know how this window sacrifice themselves...may God bless them
I love you bure I'm single mom for 9years very happy I am saved God grace is sufficient if he comes back I am ready but if he doesn't I will commit my ways to the Lord
Thank you Sarafina,I gave learned alot from you. Your polite answer is wonderful,God will see you through no matter what you are going through,trust in God he will never disappoint you.👏👏
Waw !.I thank GOD for listening to you Mrs de'mathew.i can you without fear of contradiction that you deserve to be a leader.i wish you well Inshallah.
Absolutely she's is very informative
May God be your shield and your defender ...... May the legend continue resting.... Sarafina God bless you
Very encouraging words., You have inspired many hearts.
Wanawake kama Hawa sidhani wamebaki..walai...be blessed saana Mum Shiku.
May God be with you favour ,love, peace be upon mama shiku,no weapon formed against u shall prosper.more love,
You're a good counselor,ni hard ku accept vitu zingine kama mmi sijawai amini eti John dematthew alienda
I love the wisdom and the calmness with Mrs. Sarafina DMatheew. Good show. Thanks Shiru Stuart for bringing this queen.
Respect u sarafina
A God fearing woman.❤❤❤
You look more than a good wife. Nyakiambi ✅
Kuna kashetani kanataka kuachanisha carol na sarafina🥺🥺she is a prayerful woman
God bless you mum for your advise😘😘😘😘
Mine died when we had stayed 12yrs in marriage and now this is my 30th yr as a widow.
What Sarafina saying is very true and thats what widows go through..
GOD bless this wonderful woman.
Mutumia ngatha
...stand strong mama umeheshimika,slay queens continue slaying after departure you have nothing in common with their likes
You really love your husband,,,,you are a wise woman and may our good lord always comfort you and help you fight your battles ....lots of 💕💕
Tuned.... Nakulombotove momma🥰
Vincentian, a very powerful place of worship.
True
Woow a Woman full of Wisdom Mrs Demathew may God Keep you going I love you for free❤️❤️
I was widowed at 30 I tried remarry but failed miserably now I am 18 years single looking after my children. God bless you all ladies and see us through 📖✝️🛐🙌🏽🙏🏽
Even now ihave 8yrs but God now about that
Nikutafute?
@@gideongathekiamkoloni5043 no thanks I love the LORD not interested in marriage anymore I am happy single. Thanks anyway
wao im so proud of you sarafina wise woman may God continue giving you more grace with your co. Wife stick together hii social media nigute mpeanange story za ukweli
Woow wat MIL told me one day may she rest in peace
Sarafina you're a wise woman of faith. Mourning is personal
Mwíhoki múndů ní múrume...wee rora mbere níguo útúúro úthií na mbere. Jehovah egocithagia agííka weega ona agííka úúru.
Humility personified
Be blessed sarafina 💖
Don't try to touch the widows or the orphans...their defender the LORD is very strong...
This lady is a very good marriage counselor.
She is a professional counselor.
I honestly love Mama Shiko ❤️
It's very very true 😭😭 two years down the Line and still waiting for him to come back and the most painfu Part is that he will never comeback
God bless you for unity amongest you
I dedicate you song ya Ev KIAMA WA MARU. Ati niwega Gukira uguo. Keep on praying, when Prayer become your habit miracles becomes your lifestyle.
Waoh,I concur with the last line...🙏
Woi Ngai! Amuririkane na arugame na inyui.🥰
Ugi nikindu gia bata na Sarafina wimutumia mugi Ngai angirohe ugi ta waku
Be strong and don't let other people into your life. Only God can fight for you .
I pray for you to be strong saref and waither may god see you
So true, I can attest to this, I always miss my husband place in our home
Sabina love your ❤️ I know you from the very beginning of your marriage you are a hero my dear nitakutafuta my dear
Mutumia mugi
Keep up
Jesus it seems this is the wish of every woman. That is a widow. I want an answer to five question to mr my husband . The pain the pain . Why why so
Wisdom in this woman 😍😍nakupeda mama shiko
Mungu die haki na kweri
That's why I never judge....much love ❤ mama shix ...be strong 💪 than never
I'm 2 years into widowhood,the assumption especially if you are young is that you will get remarried.Not easy at all,but God's grace is sufficient.We solder on because life must go on.
I understand you very well. It's one year and it's very difficult to move on. May God continue to strengthen us.
Glad to see you both shiroo na mama shikoo,nawapenda watu wangu
Watching from Saudi Arabia
sarafina you are wise woman I love you Mama shiku
Very wise woman, may God bless you and your entire family.
@shiru can't find your Hungura show page..deleted?
Salimia Sarafina De hapo
Tuned
Hii ni repeat ya kitambo sana
Na kama alisema Ivo hiyo kitambo before hiyo kifo ya Victor mbona mnamjudge she's a gem though
This woman is so mature
Sure tell married women to value their husband
We do..and pray for you people.
Hii ndakuhe 🌟 🌟 🌟 🌟🌟
strong lady, love you big
Very true nii datigirwo miaka 4 na drama na maithori diri detikia ma ni tugera girl maudu maritu muno
I hope everybody now understands that sarafina and Carol have no beef
Pole mummy God loves you
Why don't you come to visit me one day 😥
Kama Mimi nikiskiza nyimbo zake na lia na ata hanijui,, how about shikû??but I know Jesus is our comforter
Uraria ma fiu kairitu gaitu uguo niguo ndiragerera kahinda gaka
Sorry saraf and waither wish you long life and family or god bless you or.
PEOPLE SHOULD STOP ASKING HER WHY SHE MISSED THE FUNERAL, SHE BROUGHT UP JANE AND SHE CAN CHOOSE WHETHER TO GO FOR THE FUNERAL OR NOT.
True.most people assume attending a funeral is a requirement in life yet most were not there when the person was alive and sick 🤢
Sarafina ngai aikarage nawe tondu wee niwe wari mutumia wa mbere uria Ngai arathimite.
Mama shiko hunaogea ukweli Mtu akikuabia kitu abia mungu,one mwanamke mwenye alichukua my husband alinitusi kwa text niliabia mungu mm nimesoma my party Bado ww mungu,sai ni mungu hata musaidia juu hali c hali ..
Kwan wenye awajuii hii ilikuwa ya last year Mimi niliona kwa UK media
Very true iam a widow imagine at 30 years my children especialy my second born mpaka he wants to be sleeping with me 😭😭😭😭😭
Caro alisema vizuri sana ati mna sugarcoat , we need to hear both of them together
And here we are with my son without even spoon
Hambo niukweri napitia hayo
Tuned... witching from Saudi💖u mama
Very true,,,,am widow for seven years ,
@@tabithawangechindiritu5967 trust in God 🙏 dear
Don't listen to people they will still throw stones so that to separate both of u.
So mama ciku hakaangi shagz mahali bwanake alizikwa?
Yuishi porch place that i wont reveal where
kibiru
You look very smart and beautiful very honest wife
I knew she was Catholic by her narrative. No loud voices... kneel before the Holy Eucharist... take your prayers to Jesus through His Holy Mother. Say your Rosary daily.. see God take charge.... like she says, walk with your head high..God guides your footsteps
Holy noise to God is a must 😌👌
uuuuuiiii uuuuiii hiniyakitambo, account you took it we need the truth
Are you God to demand the truth.
Which truth?you want to hear what you want
@@mww4491 Did i mention you ondoa wana hapa
@@florencendirangu4736 wamenya?
🤣🤣🤣🤣 throwing a tantrum, i see
Saaasa aki mbona watu Wana tusi huyu mama baada ya burial ya victor Jane demattew yet huyu mama Hana ubaya na mtu yeyote??? Aki watu wachangenj judgement God will deal with you
Before you accuse Sarafina, you need to ask yourself. Who knows what happens in your life than wewe mwenyewe? Whatever you see on social media is largely misconstrued, and suited to fit whoever is telling it. And she has a right to not respond or reveal everything about her family issues. The boy wasn't John's, and according to Gikuyu customs, huyo mtoto hakufaa kuzikwa kwa John, but kwa babake, or mother's husband if she remarried. Waganu has consequence, and a man rightfully sets his rules. Just like I will not allow my daughter to name her illegitimate/bastard child in my family tree, but if that happens, encourage her to name after the father, whether he approves it or not, juu mtoto ni wa mwanaume, sio mwanamke. But those on the comments condemning her are the ones who name their children after themselves. Wanawake you need to learn that money or material is not everything. If it was, that girl would have buried her son in a public cemetery, and would not have brought hii drama yote.
We are not accusing her bt alikosea kukosa kushikilia Jane wakati wa mshimba pia ss tuko na familia bt wakati mtu ameachwa nilikuwa naona unaeda huko kumpea pole hizo story zingine siezi ingilia bt kwa Victor alikosea kabisa .nyinyi dio mnafanya aone kama amefanya poa jaribu kuongea ukweli ka huangalii pande moja kifo hakuna mtu huitaka kwake ama kuomba ikuje kwake
i also thought the burial place shd not have a big deal as it was. unless a child grew up in shagz, best place to bury is public cemetary coz shamba si ya baba yake. but pole sana kwa jane for losing a child.
@@anitajohn2999 My aunt's husband died a couple of months ago, na sikuenda mazishi. Hata sikituma kitu, ama kusema pole. I'm sure I'm not the only one who has done that or gone through something similar, hata wewe mwenyewe. Sio Jane aliaga, ni mtoto wao na mwanaume waliyezaa naye. And Jane is not Sarafina's daughter, but of John's previous girlfriend. Wewe mwenyewe unajua ex wa your boyfriend/husband? Na je mtoto/watoto kama anao? If you did, wouldn't a text of pole be enough? I'm sure many women would not even bother. Cut Sarafina some slack.
Do you have a daughter?
@@eddahwambui3476 Having or not having a daughter holds no influence or sway over me on factual matters. I cannot, will not, corrupt what's right and natural for anything, not even for the emotional fulfillment of a daughter of mine. Akawezapata hivyo, and I forbid and reject it both in action and word, huyo mtoto naturally/biologically ni wa hiyo jamii, and not mine. She would therefore have to name them after the family of the boy responsible. I'd personally see to that . Hisia cannot change that, neither can/will they sway me from facts, and what's correct and just.