Esther, Pole for the experience, Knowing you from your upbringing, i know you're a great woman, Now be kind enough to show us the guy please, we would like to have a word with him
Ngai reke ngire ouguo tondu ihiko ingi ni cia ruo,Esther Ngai witu akuhe thanyu wa ngoro na kirathimo gitari muthia,ucio ndari muthuri ni nyamu ya mundu.
Monica bring shows about the importance of self care, love , how to differentiate narcissism , contrand true love. Parents, please know how your children are doing in marriage, especially if you know you know, cucu said" wandehera kiimba njike atia nakio" she knew something. This is very painful. Wakiama listen to this and address.
Esther am sorry because you really loved that fool..so much...sorry for loss of two children...and lastly sorry for the pastor and church that failed you
I nursed one for 8 months and I could sneak some fruits for him. He got well and accused me of causing the accident that made him be hosptilized.He added that I slept with the security guards to sneak in his fruits.I thank God he gave me strength to get out.
For the sake of women like Esther, God help me do better in my psychology classes. To be able to be a resourceful, helpful helper. May God help me to never take light this area that only He could guide me into. Nisipitie shule tu kupata papers, but to actually do justice. Hope she gets a helper in her neighborhood ata hosi za kanjo. I'm sure a counselor can walk with her to full recovery. Blessings, i wish you well mama
Ngai this is sad pole mamaa aki nashkuru wangu ata kama hatuna he does take care of me ata kuosha mtoi na I can't remember me taking my kid to the clinic yani ata sijawai peleka mtoi clinic ata siku moja ananiacha kwa nyumba Woie aki some men heri kukaa bila Pole mam
I have listened to this story with a lot of bitterness. Let me advice the young girls as a single parent the following 1. Never force marriage or force yourself to a man coz you deserve your respect. When mistreated by your husband go back to your parents tondu nduoraganite. 3. Though marriage is good it wasn't meant for everyone so if the man does not respect you quit it you go and look for another man who is the right husband or live as a single woman. 4. Never allow any man to demean you
The day we the agikuyu people realise this churches are businesses and these pastors are people at work with actually no taxes to pay , that’s when we shall have freedom It’s sad 😞
This story is soo painful even ti listen, ladies love yourself dont suffer in the hands of a narcissist in the name of marriage, u better suffer alone and God comes through to your rescue
Nii ningereire Maunduini maingi ta maku no nindaumire na ruo ruingi no ngai niandeithitie kuhona ,,na ngahota gutungata twana twakwa,,Monica no nyende guheana rugano rwakwa ni getha hone makiria
Weeee, speechless, Ladies lets learn to love ourselves. Year 2024 lets change for the sake of our kids and future. Pole Esther.... Guess its naivity from getting married at young age
Ghaii mum umenikumbusha mbali 2012 my mum hakua Amelipa card ya kanisa 3 months zile alikua mbagathi hospital, only that made thr salvation army church not to come to bury her 😢the church I was born in , the church that my mum loved to the core 💔 refused to come , licha yakusikia we are only 2 kids nobody to support us ..since then me n church is a no , I know God exists but churches are people's business premises
Ucio endaga kurathwo twatwatwa,alaaaaaaah,kwani iko Nene?But you were also very very patient.Mimi na ukirinyaga wangu tungeuana ama nitoke tu huko na hizo miezi Saba.
Gai what is this God! Jameni what kind of people are these? Am so sorry Esther for going through hell and not being strong enough to get out, I hope you heal completely
Ukizakiwa Kwa umasikini ni kitu baya sawa! Mambo zingine mtu ufumilia akiogopa umasikini kwao! Nilipitia mangumu kupitia hayo niliteswa kuliko yeye yaani nilipigwa mpaka zingine si wezi sema😢
Nainyui airitu urimu ucio muiigiriire wa kuga ati nonginya muhikire mundu muna mutige. Ambaga gutuiria mundu wega biu tondu irimu cia athuri ni nyjingi gukira aria ega no ungiona o haria kabere ati ni wahikira kirimu wee ura biu uuke mucii kana uuhurire thimu ndita thoguo tondu nii nditigagira ona u. Ndiraaria uguo ndita muthuri ungihikithia.
I understand her at some point kwanza hiyo ya kuongeleshwa vibaya na pastor when i lost my son niliambiwa maneno mingi za uchungu and i did nothing i think the pain of loosing a child makes someone feel she deserves more pain no kai aria majikire uru njikaraga ngarurumukwo i forgave them but distanced and choose silent tondu tukipitana sai kitaripuka
Heey.... I thought I went through hell in marriage.... May God of healing and God who healed me after going through dipression heal you Esther. Ni kama mtu hukua amefungwa na mapepo coz when you look back, you wonder what you were doing there. But pia am ready to date again and have a family
OH MY GOODNESS ME, JUST ONE PERSON CARRYING ALL THAT IN HER HEAD? MAY GOD CONTINUE TO RENEW YOUR STRENGTH. KINDLY JUST ADMIT THAT GOD LOVES YOU. HE IS NOT THE ONE WHO INFLICTED PAIN IN YOU. YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, YOU ARE STRONG AND GOD HAS A PLAN FOR YOU. ❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽❤🙏🏽❤😢😢😢
That is a lot to take...I pray that this lady heals and find it in her heart to forgive, hell is a place you don't want to end up in. So sad what she went through, may God heal you, really. Don't stay in a "marriage" just to be accepted by the society, single parents are always judged and shunned away, these children are also affected. May you heal and forgive
It was such a painful experience for this lady. Ladies lets not persevere to any abuse in the name of keeping a marriage. The public will talk whether you are married, single, divorced or any other situation one is in. Let's love ourselves more and empower our gals not to persevere in an abusive marriage.
Niii ndirathikiriria ngaigua kurakara maita 179 ngaaaai ucio mundu angimaka ta metha nii Wanjira wa wainaina ndingitikira gukinya haha ingithii nginya mundu ucio angitigwo na rugano
True story, and the nduthi man is me, kwa hivo yote hayo na kwweli na pole sana mama patty na Mungu die anajua mahali atakufikisha.
Really
Tell us more
Really
Haiya
😳😳😳😳
Maina let me tell you!!!! Nie kafa hike maita 150 tondu🤦🏽♀ ndingihota!
😂😂😂😂anga nitwahanana🤝🤣🤣
I hope u have learned to love yourself now,ucio ni urimu gutecwo uikarite hau ati ni gwaka muciu
Mimi ni commenter but today am speechless nime feel pain vimbaya sana😢😢😢
Esther, Pole for the experience,
Knowing you from your upbringing, i know you're a great woman, Now be kind enough to show us the guy please, we would like to have a word with him
That man anataka kufunzwa lesson nzuri sana na hio mukimo yake.
Ngai reke ngire ouguo tondu ihiko ingi ni cia ruo,Esther Ngai witu akuhe thanyu wa ngoro na kirathimo gitari muthia,ucio ndari muthuri ni nyamu ya mundu.
Parents let's enable our daughters to differentiate abuse and submission. Wuueh!😢
Woiye my neighbour never judge ati mtu amerudi kwao may God heal you its sad 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Huyo pastor namjua,na ti mundu ucio
Heee that's a very sad story.. Don't you all think kikuyu men wanakuaga na shida ?
True, they care less.
Ata mm naona ivo Kikuyu men's nikama wako na spirit mbaya ya kutesa mabibi zao
Yup
Si wote...ju mine is different...
That's true
We huyo nibinadamu ama ni mnyama singwesi vumilia
shetani mwenyewe mim Ngomaaa na finally mliachana
Huyo mwanaume alikuwa mchawi. But... Ya muhimu ni kuwa, malipo ni hapa hapa duniani.
Thanks you atalipa with interest very very painful .
Urimu ungituraga. Ndukanehe mudurume kaba thina ukurage iyo ni ngoma
Monica bring shows about the importance of self care, love , how to differentiate narcissism , contrand true love. Parents, please know how your children are doing in marriage, especially if you know you know, cucu said" wandehera kiimba njike atia nakio" she knew something. This is very painful. Wakiama listen to this and address.
Nikio itathiyaga kanitha cia ngoma😢 pastor angi ni ngui coa andu😢
Ushaitani mutheri in the name of churches.Yesu angefanya nini in that situation
Huyo aliekuwa Bwana yako anaushetani Sana atakukumbuka siku mmoja
Wakiama witu uka ututetithie ..nikuri kuhika Na ukombo..
What do men want,....May God heal this lady...someone volunteer to assist this lady
Honestly she deserve better. I wish someone would come out and help her to heal. 😢😢😢
Aki na vile she is lovely with calm voice😢
Usijali dadangu mm nilifukuzwa
Esther am sorry because you really loved that fool..so much...sorry for loss of two children...and lastly sorry for the pastor and church that failed you
Walai ata saa hii ndio nasema walai yako ni ile yangu
Woiii thise girl is beautiful ❤❤❤😮😢😢😢😢
Parents let's teach our kids about self love, self appreciation, let's make sure they have high self esteem,
Never force love where is not needed,value ur self more than anything
True
True mm nilitokanga
I nursed one for 8 months and I could sneak some fruits for him. He got well and accused me of causing the accident that made him be hosptilized.He added that I slept with the security guards to sneak in his fruits.I thank God he gave me strength to get out.
😮😮😮😮Pole it painful
Pole sana
She seems like a very good wife.. That man lost a very very good wife
There is no glory in suffering so much to keep a relationship.
A body is the temple of God... Don't let people to injure it for anything... Peace and self love is not evil or stupidity
Wangari my Neighbor n Friend,may God give you the peace that surpasses human understanding....
Ngoma iturikaga ni guthijiruo
Good
For the sake of women like Esther, God help me do better in my psychology classes. To be able to be a resourceful, helpful helper. May God help me to never take light this area that only He could guide me into.
Nisipitie shule tu kupata papers, but to actually do justice.
Hope she gets a helper in her neighborhood ata hosi za kanjo. I'm sure a counselor can walk with her to full recovery.
Blessings, i wish you well mama
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Hey pole sana Esther sijawahi soma ingine kama hii this was too much.Lakini wacha tuhope mungu atakupigania utaheal
Ngai this is sad pole mamaa aki nashkuru wangu ata kama hatuna he does take care of me ata kuosha mtoi na I can't remember me taking my kid to the clinic yani ata sijawai peleka mtoi clinic ata siku moja ananiacha kwa nyumba
Woie aki some men heri kukaa bila
Pole mam
I have listened to this story with a lot of bitterness. Let me advice the young girls as a single parent the following
1. Never force marriage or force yourself to a man coz you deserve your respect.
When mistreated by your husband go back to your parents tondu nduoraganite.
3. Though marriage is good it wasn't meant for everyone so if the man does not respect you quit it you go and look for another man who is the right husband or live as a single woman.
4. Never allow any man to demean you
How now? 2 am....Ngoma
This girl is beautiful...Lord restore her in Jesus Name
Im so sorry Esther for what you went through, you deserve happiness
Congratulations 👏👏 wewe ni mama mstrong
Tiga kumuita pastor ni duster, hinga.aguitaga mumalaya umalaya waku uramutura niki,wee niwe mumaraya
Girl you were soooo good to Such a man. Forget It I can't take it!
Self-love is important to we ladies ....pole Sana ... peace of the Lord be upon you
Urandakaria taki.ngoma iyo yahonokire mutinoini ikunyarire
Woi, this is a sad story and a painful one! thayuu! thayuu! ûrogîa ngoroinî yaku! That's my prayer
The day we the agikuyu people realise this churches are businesses and these pastors are people at work with actually no taxes to pay , that’s when we shall have freedom
It’s sad 😞
Aki Esther ulipitia magumu pole sana Mungu akupee amani....ata mimi nilitoka early 2014 na watoto 3 and he never takes care be strong mammy
This story is soo painful even ti listen, ladies love yourself dont suffer in the hands of a narcissist in the name of marriage, u better suffer alone and God comes through to your rescue
Nii ningereire Maunduini maingi ta maku no nindaumire na ruo ruingi no ngai niandeithitie kuhona ,,na ngahota gutungata twana twakwa,,Monica no nyende guheana rugano rwakwa ni getha hone makiria
Wa hi kitio ni ngoma mundu 😮
people knows who to bully😢😢😢.Mimi hata kunielekeza kidole in an argument is enough nichukue virago for good nangwite ngui nyingi muno
Ngai ndûkanareke ngágerera maya woi....God to give you strength Esther
May God restore you.
This gal need justice 😢😢
Weeee, speechless, Ladies lets learn to love ourselves. Year 2024 lets change for the sake of our kids and future. Pole Esther.... Guess its naivity from getting married at young age
Ghaii mum umenikumbusha mbali 2012 my mum hakua Amelipa card ya kanisa 3 months zile alikua mbagathi hospital, only that made thr salvation army church not to come to bury her 😢the church I was born in , the church that my mum loved to the core 💔 refused to come , licha yakusikia we are only 2 kids nobody to support us ..since then me n church is a no , I know God exists but churches are people's business premises
Healing to you baby girl
That's why I don't go to churches
Kagoni tell this enablers the truth a stranger who you are in a relationship is not blood kagoni stop pacifying them😢
Ucio endaga kurathwo twatwatwa,alaaaaaaah,kwani iko Nene?But you were also very very patient.Mimi na ukirinyaga wangu tungeuana ama nitoke tu huko na hizo miezi Saba.
Gai what is this God! Jameni what kind of people are these? Am so sorry Esther for going through hell and not being strong enough to get out, I hope you heal completely
This is too much..ndungietereire mau mothe..i can understand your dilema...i can relate
This is very very sad i pray that GOD will heal your heart 😢😢😢
Ukizakiwa Kwa umasikini ni kitu baya sawa! Mambo zingine mtu ufumilia akiogopa umasikini kwao! Nilipitia mangumu kupitia hayo niliteswa kuliko yeye yaani nilipigwa mpaka zingine si wezi sema😢
Mimi ata umasikini huwezi nizuiya for God sake
But mwishowe nilitoka
Nainyui airitu urimu ucio muiigiriire wa kuga ati nonginya muhikire mundu muna mutige. Ambaga gutuiria mundu wega biu tondu irimu cia athuri ni nyjingi gukira aria ega no ungiona o haria kabere ati ni wahikira kirimu wee ura biu uuke mucii kana uuhurire thimu ndita thoguo tondu nii nditigagira ona u. Ndiraaria uguo ndita muthuri ungihikithia.
I understand her at some point kwanza hiyo ya kuongeleshwa vibaya na pastor when i lost my son niliambiwa maneno mingi za uchungu and i did nothing i think the pain of loosing a child makes someone feel she deserves more pain no kai aria majikire uru njikaraga ngarurumukwo i forgave them but distanced and choose silent tondu tukipitana sai kitaripuka
Heey.... I thought I went through hell in marriage.... May God of healing and God who healed me after going through dipression heal you Esther. Ni kama mtu hukua amefungwa na mapepo coz when you look back, you wonder what you were doing there. But pia am ready to date again and have a family
kai andu magurukaga. that behaviour is very demonic. anyway,,,More grace to you Esther.
Ma narcissist treat people like that and they always provoke to see your reaction akuanze hapo
OH MY GOODNESS ME, JUST ONE PERSON CARRYING ALL THAT IN HER HEAD? MAY GOD CONTINUE TO RENEW YOUR STRENGTH. KINDLY JUST ADMIT THAT GOD LOVES YOU. HE IS NOT THE ONE WHO INFLICTED PAIN IN YOU. YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, YOU ARE STRONG AND GOD HAS A PLAN FOR YOU. ❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽❤🙏🏽❤😢😢😢
Lakini nobody can mistreat me anywhere close to this level😢people know who to bully 🙄🙄
Yes they first text your how naïve and desperate you can be
sometimes nashindwa kuelewa about marriages so sad to suffer sometimes heli kukaa single kuliko kuteseka kwa ndoa na hutakikani😢
Kweli
Wanaume narcist
@@wanguindungurechealwambaya sana
Ivo ndivyo Mimi husema being married by a narcissist it's better be alone
Mm pia naongopa kuolewa sana
Uui Monica Ngai witu akuheyage hinya tondu maya maundu ni marituhaga ringi ❤
Huyu alikuwa mgonjwa, no sane person acts like that. Pole dada
Ni rejection kama bado ujaenda for deliverance enda sio wewe tu many children wa single parents hupitia rejection sana
Of all the stories nimeskiza Kwa hizi platforms,yako imeniuma. I am so sorry mum for the things you went through 😭😭
God of mercy some other stories make marriage to have no taste. Hii aki me siwezi.God hv mercy on our daughters
Wueh, ruru niruarituha, pole mama and all the best
Hii story imenikasirisha aki....riu kiu nikio kihiko😢😢
I understand this woman. I was like that...still there but sahii my eyes are wide open.
Ngai, may God help you so you are able to leave that relationship, permanently. My prayer is that the Lord keeps you and your family safe.
@@user-un5ts6tk2d Amen! thanks
Monica we urauga kurakara nii ni muno. 😢😢😢😢
Just like kagoni i feel so agitated, lord why now, that was too much. I can't
Aiii this is too much, be strong na ujipende
That is a lot to take...I pray that this lady heals and find it in her heart to forgive, hell is a place you don't want to end up in.
So sad what she went through, may God heal you, really.
Don't stay in a "marriage" just to be accepted by the society, single parents are always judged and shunned away, these children are also affected. May you heal and forgive
Nimechoka already 😫😫
Ghai siongei coz hiyo mateso is a no ,Essie mungu akupone woiye 😢😢
Nmekasirika sana
Hapo ningetoka mapema Sana, ndoa zingine ni stress tupu
It was such a painful experience for this lady. Ladies lets not persevere to any abuse in the name of keeping a marriage. The public will talk whether you are married, single, divorced or any other situation one is in. Let's love ourselves more and empower our gals not to persevere in an abusive marriage.
Niii ndirathikiriria ngaigua kurakara maita 179 ngaaaai ucio mundu angimaka ta metha nii Wanjira wa wainaina ndingitikira gukinya haha ingithii nginya mundu ucio angitigwo na rugano
Ni thengiu kwi Ngai tondu niwahotiri kuuma kuo
May you find peace in the Lord
Huyo mwanaume ni mnyama sio binadamu
Niurimu utumaga twimene
😢
What a traumatic experience. Hope the lady heals from such pain and loss.
Hii story imefanya hadi nikaumwa na kichwa... Hasira nayo, acha tu.
Ngaii!! This is worse story ave heard so far kwanza apo pia kwa pastor 😢
Pole saana mungu akupe faraja za ajabu na amponye dada yetu kunaye mungu
Ucio ndaimono ciake cionaga o mukimo😂
Woi maa pole Sana mamie😢😢
Pastor wengi ni watumbo hata makanisa mengi ni sababu ya pesa sio sababu ya mioyo ya watu
😢😢 woiii have no words may God help this girl to heal from her past
Am speechless,so painful.
Fear men God protect women 🙏🙏🙏
I have never heard this type of testimony,so angry