I think you need to understand that sacrifice is part of achieving success many times . Leaving baby Franco with your parents to go get business done and eventually grow more in your careers is part of that sacrifice. Ya'll are blessed ... Love you guys
I just had my second baby, he’s 3 months and I have a 4 year old and god knows how much I struggle. Unfortunately we live in a toxic home with my suegra, but we spend every day at my moms house and get so much help from her, my stepdad and older siblings and I still struggle being a mom to two. I never know if I’m showing more love or more affection to one or the other and I literally cry every night of how overwhelmed I am. My mom always told me, “ one is one, two is twenty” definitely something you have to think about. I love you guys so much, and love how real you guys are!❤️
Yo soy de Tijuana pero vivo en Estados Unidos hace 4 años conocí el rancho donde mi mamá nació. La gente era muy pobre y muy humilde pero muy feliz. Me acuerdo que ese día llore mucho y le dije a mi mamá la gente que menos tiene es más feliz. También nos invitaban los del rancho a comer con ellos y así zero egoístas. Me encanta Mexico, can’t wait for more vlogs in Mexico. You guys should go to Cancun for sure 💙
Blessings to The both of you and your Baby boy.. May your lives be blessed always and forever. This is a new place for me to come to hear testimonials and learn from others experiences. Your experience, going to Mexico and returning Humble....it is true I had an experience when I was 7yrs meeting my adopted father's family and to live without the major necessities for 3 months, not having what we have in the USA. It made me appreciate my life and those who do not have have what we have. Blessings to all of your who read this. Be real at all times. Live life to the fullest.
My dad always told me be thankful and take all the opportunities this country has to offer you cause they didn’t have it growing up they left everything to give us something better
That Mexico 🇲🇽 Vlog Made Me So Emotional 😭 The Fact That Blanca Said That Trip Humbled Her When She's Already Humble 🥺 I'm About To Go Visit My Grandparents This Summer And I Can't Wait To See Them Again ❤️
Im currently 23 weeks pregnant with a almost two year old. When she was born I didn’t want anymore babies, I did know I wanted one more but I wasn’t sure when. When she was 1 1/2 something in me changed. My toddler still depends on me 100% but something in me wants to give her a sibling. So I’m pregnant now with my last baby. Parents know best if you feel like Franco needs a sibling then why not. But if you guys don’t want another then don’t. At the end of the day you as parents go though it. Not grandma, not uncle, not anybody else but you the parents. My mom was a little disappointed when I told her I was pregnant “you don’t realize that having a baby is hard, your gonna suffer, etc” I obviously know that my toddler isn’t easy and I for sure know the second won’t. Being a mom is hard in general, and I know that with having another kid and being a stay at home mom makes it harder but it’s all worth it. I always wanted to be a mom I’m a nurturing person. I love taking care of people. Don’t feel guilty for not wanting another one, si dios te manda uno que bien y si no pues igual está bien. Don’t stress over just go with the flow. 🥰
We had our first son and thought he was all we ever needed. We had him in catholic school spent a lot of time etc everything was perfect until… he thought he was rich, superior and entitled at 4 😂 so we decided he needed a sibling and now we have the most perfect pair. It’s the most amazing thing to see two grow together. Our son has changed into the little human we always thought he would be. You guys are awesome parents and I think life will let you know if you do or you don’t need another blessing… don’t let SSM pressure you no one’s life is that perfect - it’s totally normal it’s too soon for you to be sure of it because you’re still experiencing all of Franco’s first 💕 also some people may think they want more kids etc but sometimes the first kid is a trick from God because the 2nd WILL give you your moneys worth- but it’s so worth it!
Hi Blanca & Johnathan love watching you guys in all your volgs about the baby part to be honest Blanca you remind me so much of me when I had my 1st baby he was a boy also he's 5 now but my lil boy was a tuff labor I had him natural but it was so hard and painful and my baby gaved me long nights and touch times but my husband wasn't able to be with me in my labor and afterwards he was in Mexico and he was still not able to come with me ...el estaba en tramites long story short my 1st son got to meet his dad asta los dos meses on fathers day ...your so blessed to have the help you have by your momma my mom wasn't able to be with me with my 1st baby 😔 estaba sola and I felt so lonely and felt like a horrible mother even tho I did what I can do i stayed up all the time feeing my baby and making sure he was doing good I was a 1st time mom so everything was hard and scary for me but I did it any I feel so proud of myself 💪💪💪 after taken him to Mexico and meeting his dad i felt wayyy better my husband was a big support ❤ I felt like my baby all he needed was dad closer to him a year past by my husband was able to come to the USA once we got here I found out I was pregnant 😳 I was shocked because I was taken care of myself i cried so much my baby was only 8 months old you can imagine how I felt I felt like I wasn't ready for my 2nd baby I felt like I didn't spend enough time with my baby boy I felt horrible but after months past and I started mention my baby boy that he was going to be a big brother to a lil sister I felt so much better I tried to spend all the time I could with my lil boy before having my baby girl I don't regret it my 2 oldest get along so well they love and protect eachother so much ojo no todos son asi I think that it all depends on how you teach and talk to your lil ones this is hard times I think we all know being a mom is hard but I thank God for sending me my baby boy and my lil girl months apart I now have 3 🤭 and I've always been a stay at home mom it is very hard but time flys so fast in my opinion I rather have them closer to age so when I take one 2 school I take 2 2 school things like that if I wait 4 years o 6 years to have my other one I think I will struggle more I say it because my husband family of 5 and they all not so far apart and my suegra would tell me if you guys want a bug family don't wait to long por q batalla uno mas asi q teneerlos segidos ...sigidos se batalla pero un tiempo nomas and I think its so true .... long story short my husband and I have 6 years married we have a 5 year old boy a also 4 year old lil girl and a 2 month baby girl ❤ and I don't regret having them so close ..... love u guys sending hugs and blessings your way always ! Baby J is do adorable 😍
When I had my first baby I remember I was ready for baby number 2 and as soon as my first turned 1 we started trying for baby number 2. Ones baby number 2 came(she is about to be two now and has been such a good baby) my husband and I just knew that we didn’t want any more. We’re done with kids and are happy to have one boy and one girl. So if your feeling like this is it then maybe it just is and it’s ok to just want one baby 💖
I always tell any friends or family the hardest part of having kids is mental I feel like after I had my boys I was and am never worry free ever again so yes it’s so hard it’s not just you guys thank you for being so honest and I don’t want to be negative but as they grow I think it gets harder and harder
Girl, don’t be in a rush to have more, when your ready your ready. I personally have 5 kids and I’m 34 and I always wanted a big family. Enjoy your baby boy, and when you feel the time is right then go for it, and if not then that’s ok too. There Is nothing wrong with not wanting to have another child, it’s hard work 😂 but for the record your doing great!! And I am a stay at home mom, and i thank you guys for acknowledging us moms, because it is truly hard. But I do it for my husband and my children who I love so much. And i love you guys and you are truly grate parents. Thanks for everything ♥️
My 3 kids are 4-5 years apart. It worked out perfectly fine with me gave each kid the attention they deserved in the baby stage. And u definitely need to give them a sibling Atleast one
I enjoyed todays podcast and I love how open you guys are. My two boys a 4 years apart. You guys are not crazy with not wanting another baby. It is very difficult and I honestly don’t know how back in the days people use to have 7 kids plus. As my son grew up I started to see he was lonely since he’s had no cousins to play with and we decided to start trying so he could have a sibling. I’m sure as Franco gets older you all will have baby fever again. ❤️💕
It gets easier guys trust me as soon as they walk and potty train you can get things done and they can eat so when your mom takes care of him its no big deal but i do recomend tohave your kids now because its tough to start all the way back to 0 with a newborn and they will grow up together and play with each other too ♥️
Love your guys podcast! Kids are not easy and parenting gets hard because as they grow you have to keep changing the way you parent them because what might work when they were young might not work later. Once I was told by some order man that he has older kids and thought problems were going to be easier because they were older, but he said problems grow bigger but who knows. Dont rush to have another baby. Do what is best and only best for your family because you guys are the only ones who are going to take care of your children and not other people. I have three kids and their a 1 year and half apart and i think i should have waited a little bit longer that way each one could have more love and attention. I am soo done with having more kids because I feel that with the three I have is perfect because its not just to bring a baby to the world you have to raise them right and prepare them to this rough world we live in. By the way have a beautiful Friend. God will let you guys know when is the right time for another baby or not. ❤
It gets easier with Kids when they get older. It is a very personal choice I had one sibling and I want 4 kids because I want to have a bigger family. I feel children with siblings builds character and helps with social settings. I have two boys at the moment and their bond it so beautiful to look at! It’s the most amazing feeling! Blessings with whatever decision you make!
I love how real & raw you guys always are! Literally my favorite UA-camrs 🫶🏼 only podcast I tune in for! 🥺 Blanca I feel different about having my second kid where I’ve always dreamed of being a mom & I love it so much! Maybe in 3-5 years the next baby will come but with time you’ll see Franco & think maybe it’s time for another one! For now just enjoy him & your little family don’t pressure yourself into another baby. You guys are normal nothing wrong with you guys. God timing is everything 🤍 sending lots of love!
I can completely relate with Blanca. I don’t think I ever “wanted” to be a mom. & now i am a mom of two and wouldn’t change it for anything in the world. I love my babies. Todo a su tiempo. Always give yourself time. Enjoy your babies. Everything happens when it needs to happen! 💕🌿
Love you guys!! Honestly my kids are 13 months apart and it can get super crazy. I would have been happy with just 1 child but i will always be grateful and blessed for my 2nd. Everything overall gets harder after having kids. I would wait until your 1st is atleast in school and more independent.
Having kids is definitely a hard job, a joy and brings you lots of happiness to see your babies grow. But having one is perfectly understandable. You guys will know if that’s truly what you want. ☺️💕
The hardest part about being a mom is when you’re kid gets sick . Especially when you’re sick as well .. my son starting to teeth at 3 months and also got really sick and it was one of the hardest moments especially when you have to do things around the house
I love how honest you are about motherhood and you are not the only one wanting only one child . I am glad you brought this up because I feel the same way I love my child but I hate motherhood it’s so hard. And we need to normalize not wanting more than one child.
Guys I honestly felt the same way you feel with Laura! You guys are so humble and welcoming! Honestly the fact that you thought and did invite us to your shower and to eat with your family means a lot to me! I really appreciate you guys being super welcoming to us!
Good morning!..great video!..but listen never will ever change of how poorly ppl are living there, I'm much older than you guys, and I can recall going to Monterrey, Mex every Xmas to visit relatives, but kids in the streets with no shoes, trying to make $$$ to eat..a memory that remains in my heart...so yeah I'm very humble!
In regards to not wanting another baby I can relate to how you feel Blanca. But I think my mind was more set on No More when she was small like Franco. My baby is now 8 months and I am barely acknowledging the idea of a sibling for her in the future. It is really hard and to think of having to take care of two kids is scary. But with time you’ll both know when and if you want a second baby.
My first is 18 months right now & both my husband & I always say we don’t want anymore. Being a parent is super tough and with everyone around you pressuring you to have more.. we know how you feel Blanca, you’re not the only one
I related to this podcast so much…my husband and I became first time parent too and our baby is 2 months now. I also never desired a baby right away after getting married but I lovveeee my baby so much. I also have those thoughts about the 2nd baby but I definitely want to enjoy my first baby without the struggle of having another one. I think it’s ok to spoil your first and wait for the second one. I see it as learning and enjoying my baby. I see myself waiting to have another too. It’s whatever you feel is right for you ♥️
I always dreamed of being a mom but after having my son, I realized very early on that he would be the only one. It’s so much harder than people make it seem to be a parent and such a huge responsibility for your whole life. He’s 3 years old now and I still feel like he’s going to be an only child. There’s such a stigma about having only one child and it sucks and it makes you feel pressured to have more.
This is how exactly how I feel to , my boyfriend wants more. When I say no he gets mad bc he doesn’t want our son to be alone and I get it but being pregnant isn’t easy and then go though post partum recovery is the hardest 😩. My baby just turned a month old and I told myself no more kids this isn’t for me , Iam happy and blessed being a mom of one child .
Since I can remember, I pictured myself having 6+ kids, I wanted triplets and twins and now that I have my 1 month old I don’t see that happening. Being a stay at home mom is hard, my baby is a great baby, it’s just the other things I need to do, I cook, clean, take care of my dogs, thankfully right now my Dad has been me and taking them to the park everyday for me so to la cuarentena. Being home makes me sad, it’s mentally draining. I miss going taking my fur babies to the park. Things got hard for me my first week postpartum, I haven’t been producing enough milk, which led me to formula. I’ve been going through depression due to this, I plan is to breastfeed exclusively and that fact that I’m not able to breaks my heart. I tell my husband that I’m sad and I’ll never be happy again, theirs just this part of me as a mother that has not been fulfilled.
I personally never gave being a mom thought when I was younger, I saw it as something soooo far away and that one day I would eventually reach by natures laws. But when the time came and my daughter was here and found it sooooo hard. My husband and I also had a lifestyle where is was all about us and what we wanna do but it sure changed. Of course I would die for her and found a love I cant explain for her but dammm, my husband and I were at our wits the first year. The first year was the hardest but most rewarding at the same time, you get to see her/him's firsts and you find yourself stronger. I would get overwhelmed and say I'm done having kids. But as time passed by I slowly forgot the struggles we went through and I found myself feeling bad when my daughter would play by herself and felt worse when she would start asking for a sibling. I finally gave in at about age 3 to have another, now she's 4 and finally about to be a big sister. ❤❤❤
When my baby was a younger baby I 100% said a million times I was not going to have another. Once they get a little older and you see them grow and your love for them gets even bigger if that is even possible I feel like you can’t help but to want to do it at least once so that you can really cherish the experience once more. The first time is so hard and most of the time it isn’t enjoyable because we don’t know what to do or expect. I know that I said no but now that I see her get older I really do get excited of seeing her have a little best friend that we will also love as much as we love her.
I hope you can soon share more about your immigration process, I remember a while back you were saying it was a long process and hopefully you went out with Advance Parole to make your process faster ❤️
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Ouh God!!! Honestly this video was the most funniest ever!!! LOL Rat Dog🥺🥺🥺🥺 Awww.... I think que con el tiempo vas a querer que cresca tu familia. Maybe one more... I have 2 daughters (13 & 11) and I feel that's enough. Se acompañan, pelean, se cuidan, se aman!💖
Im a mom of 1 boy, i always said i wanted them back to back like every 2 yrs. But during my labor , i was in labor for 50+hrs and ended up having an emergency c-sec due to some complications with my baby and myself. After that my mentality changed and i decided to wait. He is currently 3 yrs old and now i regret not having another baby sooner. It breaks my heart to see him playing by himself. He has a lot of cousins & he loves being with them but it isn’t the same. I just get so upset seeing him by himself playing. I play with him but it isnt the same. Thats just me but i dont know lol. In a way im glad i waited because i was able to enjoy him. He will go to school next year and our plan is to have another one before he enters school next year. I would say enjoy franco now and with time you’ll Know when the right time to have another baby will be. No rush. Lol ♥️
Thank you Blanca and Jonathan for creating all this podcast.. I been feeling a little down lately but I have two days catching up on all this podcast and I just love them.. keep doing this and don’t let anyone touch this because this is just all natural is every aspect!!!! Love you guys 💙💜
I have two kids my girl and boy and I always said I only wanted two and if it was a boy and a girl even better, thank god he gave me my pair. My daughter is the oldest and my husband and I waited 4 years for us to have our son, and let me tell you it was easy because my daughter already knew how to use the restroom, she was off the bottle, she did a lot of things by herself and she would even help me with her brother and until this day she helps out a lot. Don't feel guilty when you say that you dont want more kids or how can other woman say I want a baby or 3 or 6, I am the same way, I dont want anymore kids and if I would ever get pregnant again I would cry! Lol🤣 it is hard being a mom, you're not alone girl!💜 Love watching you guys! Sending much love from El Paso!!🥰💜
I feel you on the not wanting to have another baby right away my son is 2 already and my mind hasn't changed it is not easy yes I love being a mom and wouldn't change it for anything in the world. But I always felt the same thing and relate to you both on one kid is enough for me when I seen that others want another one right away I'm just like GUUURRL how?? The way I look at it is I want to give him all the time I can and still have time to be able to accomplish more of my goals and give him the best I can. Because me and my husband work a full time 9-5 job and that's already taking away time from him and plus it is not easy leaving him for work.So don't feel like the only ones feeling that way enjoy your baby they grow so fast 💗
Hey glad you guys are all doing good! Baby Franco is so Adorable! Becitos y Bendiciones para ustedes! that El Paso incident WOW poor Jonathan.. but it was hella funny! So about wanting another baby. For us b4 i had our first bby we wanted 4 or 5. Cuz i have 2 sis and 2 brother. So i wanted a big fam. When i had my first bby boy it went very good smooth natural birth. For the first year or 2 i was like we're good with one, but when he was almost 3 i saw him play with other kids and he was so happy but at home he would play alone, and that would make me feel sad seeing him play alone at home. So that's when we said just 1 more. 😉 my sec bby boy came labor was the total opposite panifull, i did decide to get an epidural, and it wasn't place right so i felt the bad pain, even more cuz i had to be induced.😒😪 and as soon as he came out i told my hubby, this is it no more bbies😭😭 couple year's pass and we wanted a bby GIRL. 50/50 CHANCE of having a bby girl💕 so my sec bby boy is was 9 months away fm turning 10 year's old . And we we're pregnant and we thank god for our healthy,beautiful bby GIRL. She was born 01/15/2022!! With time you'll feel it in your ❤ if you want to give Bby Franco siblings. 💜🧡
By far, this has been my fav podcast!💛 Your guy’s “Texas incident” was hilarious, (thanks for the heads up lol).😆 You both have the same mindset on a lot of things regarding the relationship w/ your significant other, & ESPECIALLY while being around family which makes me feel that I’m not wrong.🤭
Hii guys lysm!❤️ I feel like ur mind rn is Franco and everything him.... but ik 5hat time will come where when his like around 2 urgonna notice that he maybe needs a siblings just because ur gonna find him be happy or excited when he see's other babies. It's totally normal to not think of a 2nd baby at all because of all that energy that ur putting into ur first baby and others and yourself as well. Just know that ur doing it so Amazing and I'm so happy that u have all those feelings and thoughts about it all.👏🏼 😊🥰🥲❤️ really makes u stand out, not all moms give their all to the family😪
Yes Blanca I understand what u are saying b/c I went to Guatemala where my parents are from and it’s really different from here in the U.S.A. But overall it’s a good experience and u get to see how others live and humble u to do better and not talk about others. ❤️❤️ love y’all 🥺❤️
I think it comes whenever you guys feel you ready. My honest opinion I feel it’s better to plan the second baby. At first I was like that I’m fine with me having one but I realized once my first baby Matteo was more around his older cousin. My baby didn’t have any cousin his age or close. I told my husband let’s try I want Matteo to have a brother or sister so he can have his little best friends beside us. It’s crazy because a month later I found out I was pregnant. I was literally 2 or 3 years with no birth control since my first born. I love you guys and admire your work. We all can see the harder worker put in to all the UA-cam channels of yours.❤️‼️💯
Just remember that you don't need to make the decision now, Franco is so young and you guys are in a place where all of your focus is on him. As he gets older your mind may be more clear to make a decision but that soon after birth is a very normal decision😄 I remember feeling like that after my son who is now 4 and does not have a siblings. And tbh I would like another kid but I'm feeling like timing is what I'm more concerned about 🤗 good luck you guys! You both are doing amazing 💕
OMG I LOVE ❤️ YOU GUYS SO Much I enjoy 😊 all this !!! You guys should record a video of calling some of our subscribers ❤️❤️Baby Franco so adorable 🥰 love all you guys
I say wait three years and that gives Franco time to grow up and he’ll be more independent & be your little helper & have him feel included when you have another. It’s definitely hard and it will get harder juggling two but the love you’ll see Franco have for his sibling and just your heart will feel so full 🤍
Hubby and I had our first son through emergency C-section and since hubby was there he said we’d stay with one cause a women go through so much, we were happy with the one until our son was 2 and saw how he played alone all the time and didn’t want him growing alone without a sibling so we went for the second one but I knew I was going to have him through C-section too so I got my tubes tide at the same time and stayed with 2 and I wouldn’t change it for the world. It is scary but children are also such a big blessing. Don’t let society tell you how you should so things or how many kids you should have, till this day people come to me and ask if I don’t regret my sedición of getting my tubes tide before having a baby girl, honestly idk if I’d know how to be a girl mom, in super happy with my 2 boys 💕 you’ll know what’s best for your family on your own. And yes you guys are normal and not alone.
Love this podcast! I am a mom of two under two and it is very hard!! But I cant wait untill the play with each other and have one another as they grow! Blanca you are not crazy you are normal for only wanting one! it is hard and having more than one is even harder!
Personally, I wouldn’t have kids so my kids can have “someone” to grow up with. There are so many factors that need to be considered when having a child & expanding your family. I’m in the same boat, I was working from home while raising my son & now getting my PhD and continuing to be super hands on. I realize now how much harder it is to have children, while working at home & also affording them if you want them to be involved with things or potentially go to college. It only gets harder the more kids involved and the more they grow up wanting cellphones, cars, etc. At the end of the day you both will find a right time & will realize when you want to expand your family even more. But don’t feel discouraged if right now you want to enjoy your son and figuring a balance with your job. You both are doing amazing!
I love you guys so much and I think your podcast is so real and raw. I am a first time mom during Covid and the first six months I was like I’m never going to have another child my child is going to be three years in four months and I wish I would’ve had a second child a year after I had her because now things would’ve been easier. But having a baby it’s not hard I wish I had the amount of support you had and it would’ve made it 110% easier but looking back at a newborn stage it’s like I want that.
But everybody has different struggles for you and might be emotionally for someone else and be financially for someone else mind me spiritually. But everybody has different struggles when it comes to parenting. Like some of other might have the struggle of the relationship they’re in they want to have a child or another child but the partner their way has been giving them a hard time you see what I’m saying.
We love you guys💘💘 we wish you could take a break because you deserve it but I also agree that it’s important to keep posting to keep your platform! I also agree that I think it has a lot to do with the way your life used to be before having a baby because you always said you won’t live your life for your baby but it’s hard not too and I can see that your life has changed, I’m happy for you both and you two should be very very proud of yourselves. God is good and don’t let other people choose if you two should have more babies that’s up to you and not Franco either because you don’t want to have post partum because you had another baby thinking that’s what was right for Franco. Let it be right for you and your relationship 💘 can’t wait for new merch!!
Don’t be so rushed into seeing if you want another baby or not. I always said I wanted 2 kids, so one wouldn’t feel lonely. I was told I would have a hard time getting pregnant, 2 yrs after getting married I was blessed to get pregnant, I was 11 weeks when I found out so as you see it was unexpected but I an so thankful! I had a c section and said maybe I don’t want more(had a rough recovery). Then once my son got older I wanted another but didn’t get blessed again. Now my son is 14 and I am happy with even being blessed with one! Point is don’t worry what people think, only you decide how many you want ♥️
Took the words out of my mouth! I always knew parenting was hard, because I mean it couldn’t be easy. But GOD DAMN… this shit is rough😂 I looooove my daughter, I can’t imagine my life without her. But wow do I miss being able to sleep in, take random naps, binge a tv show, leave to target the second I think about going. Simple things like that I took for granted lol. My husband works outside mon-fri and I’m in nursing school so life is crazy right now. I can’t even imagine bringing in another little blessing into this mess lmao. However, I’m an only child so I know what that’s like. To even think about my parents dying leaving me all alone freaks me out. That’s why I feel like I need to have another. My daughter is 1 so maaaaaybe in 1 year once I graduate. Also I want to add I also thought the older she got it’d be easier… I was sooo wrong haha. Between making up 3 meals a day (that end up on the ground), tantrums all day, crawling and learning to walk, hurting herself, keeping her safe. What keeps me sane is her little personality, she’s so silly, she loves to dance, hearing her trying to talk, her giggles and laugh. 💜
I’m so glad you guys talked about parenthood and having more kids. It’s interesting to hear and it’s good to know I’m not the only one that feels so unsure.. I’m 28 and my husband is 27 I always knew I wanted to be a mom we have one daughter who is turning three in a couple weeks. After having her I said I did not want any more. My husband however wanted and WANTS more. We’ve gone back and forth and I just now am coming around to the idea of one more just so she doesn’t grow up alone. I feel bad sometimes because I can only play with her so much I mean I try to do things with her like read and play but for my mental health I can’t just skip chores altogether. So yes, it is extremely difficult to be a mom and I feel like am I the only one that struggles so much like mentally? Bc I’m so afraid of raising kids with like trauma or insecurities like me. I just think if you do decide you want more later on, you’ll feel it. Si no, no and that’s ok. REGARDLESS of what other ppl have to say.
I 💯 understand what your going through! I’m 27 and a stay at home mom of two beautiful babies (a daughter that is 5 and my son who is 3) I love having the chance to be able to be with them 24/7 but it is really exhausting mentally and I don’t mean it in a mean way at all but it’s really true. You try to do everything for and with them but at the same time you also have other stuff that needs to be done . I can get so frustrated with myself because I feel that my kids deserve more from me but at the same time I need to remember to not forget about myself but it’s just a constant struggle and battle with myself. Being a mom is the most hard thing to do but also the most beautiful blessing ✨
@@LilianaLopezzz yes exactly! And I know we aren’t the only ones who feel this way. I think it’s just best to keep in mind what they say “your babies don’t need a perfect mom, they need a happy one” we just have to find a middle ground where we spend time on them but also time with ourselves
My baby just turned two years old and I just started to work and it feels good to get out of the house and make my own money. Sometimes I feel mom guilt but there is only so much that you can do as a mom that you need to make time for yourself and for your well-being. I love watching your UA-cam videos and I totally agree about the when is the right time to even think about baby #2💗☺️💕
How exciting!!! I’ve been following spill the beans since you guys first started and its been an inspiration for me to start my own 🥺♥️ I hope one day I can meet you guys and we become great friends since we live so close!!
I love watching your podcast definitely one of my favorites!! You guys are definitely underrated I hope this year brings you guys tons of success on all your channels!! I love you guys...you really are so humble and a great example..Franco is adorable!!
Oh my goshhh I’m so excited for the new merch!! I have the pink hoody from spill the beans when it just used to be you guys and ozzo I’m so happy you guys are growing and thank you guys for always being so real have a good weekend💗
My daughter will be 2 in August & I said the same thing as you guys that she was going to be the only one , I saw her as being the only child , but god had other plans for me and now ima have another baby girl in October which I’m very nervous because I’m scared my daughter is going to feel left out when her sister is here 🥺❤️ but you know every baby is a blessing wether they’re planned or come unexpectedly ❤️ that’s the biggest blessing god can give us , a child ❤️
i grew up being an only child and i got everything i wanted and more but i always dreamed of having a little brother / sister , i would beg my parents to have one more. I never had any cousins or family so it was just my parents and i , so all honesty i did get lonely especially because friends come and go it is really hard to find genuine friends . There was a lot of people at school that had siblings and they were really close .I have 1 daughter now and i always knew i wanted at least 2 kids . The newborn phase was so hard because her colic was severe & i didn’t think i would make it through. We are passed that now and i still have my heart set on 1 more because of the fact she will always have someone she can be close to. But nonetheless it will not be easy , having a baby is very hard and i think a lot of people do sugarcoat it . You have to do what you feel in your heart and stick with that , everyone situation is different so we can’t compare but it is so easy to with all the social media 😢❤️
I was in the same mindset as yall when I had my first son. I was like I need to wait for my second one or at times I just wanted one and not have any more. Because I want to enjoy him and give him all my attention. I come from a big family and me and my siblings are all really close in age. I never wanted to be like that because I see it as you don't really enjoy them when you have them all little and in diapers. Because you only have them for 4 years that is the most precious time in their life before they go to school and grow up. I wanted to see him become his own person enjoy seeing him hit his miles stone. Thats the time where they depend on you they needed you to learn to be independent. For me I was ready when my son was 3 I started trying after he turn 3 because I knew he would be 4 by the time i had my next child. And im glad to say I'm pregnant right now for my second child and I feel ready and better then ever. Which by the way my son turn 3 the day Baby Franco was born🤗🥳. So they shares a birthday thats why they are so handsome. 🥰😍 But all im going to say take your time is yall life and trust me you will know when yall are ready for your second one or not ready ever to have a second one. Maybe yall just want one either way its yall choice. Love you guys ❤😘
Give it time, yous will want more and if not, it’s totally fine. You guys are amazing with 1 and would be as well with 3-10 hahaha it’s totally har I got pregnant back to back I have two Babygirls and they are 19m apart and it’s the best yet exhausting . Love you guys!
Never thought of having more kids or not but for me it took 9 years to want to have another baby, it's different 9 years later but they are a great duo . I wouldn't want it another way . I'm able to enjoy and give each individual attention
My son is 18 months and for about the first 10 months of his life I did not want another baby, my husband never helped when I first had him so I would say I would never want to go through that again. Since he turned 1 I started to reconsider maybe having more kids, once your child is more independent you miss all the baby stages, I also see how my son is so sweet with other kids and I would hate to be selfish and not give him a sibling or 2. The hardest part of being a parent is probably the first couple months and after that you get the roll of things and eventually don’t see it as hard as you thought.
I’m a ride die for you guys been here for awhile these podcasts are amazing I absolutely love how real and straight out you are. Keep it up sending you guys love and prayers ❤️🙏🏼 btw I’m from Durango too 😈
My baby just turned 7 months & it’s still hard!!! I can totally relate to u guys! But it’s totally normal, you guys are still adjusting to this new life. You guys have a whole human to look out for now. You guys are doing great! God bless you guys ♥️
As far as having kids. I think it's just up to what you guys can handle. I don't think you should take on more than what can you can handle. Having one kids is sooo much work. Having more that one is even more work. But just do what makes you guys happy and content ! ❤️
You are so right Blanca about people not knowing, how to properly take care of themselves after birth. My Mom wasn't there for me, when I had my babies. I just did what ever, and have had health issues after.
Just think how your kids will have 2 parents at home. You guys are too blessed. Imagine the moms that make it happen with 3-4 kids. For sure you pick and choose your struggles. Also remember eventually they will sleep through the night. Your guys are for sure sleep deprived because even when your babies just wake up and eat and go to sleep you still have to wake up. It’s not the same as sleeping through the entire night Also I wanted to add that my son is 5 and we plan on having another pretty soon. We all choose when we think it’s the right time. And for us waiting these 5 years to enjoy our son the most possible was just right. We both work full time.
No you guys are totally normal lol I just had a baby and we just want to have one. We hardly thought about having one tbh and we love her sm and I love being her mom but I feel like with one is enough lol also, I don’t think I ever said I would love to be a mom and everyone tells us “you guys say now wait till she grows up, you might want more” but honestly, we are sticking with just one. My baby was such a good baby too, she loves to sleep and I still just want one! It’s okay girl! I get it🫶 and i’m with you guys 100%!
A little back story, growing up I never wanted kids or to be a mom my husband knew this before we got married. Ten years passed and we had our first and felt the same once he was born. I fell so in love with our first born and didn't want another baby. Once our boy was four years old we thought it was time for another little one but I was worried I would not have enough love for my second baby because I love my oldest so much. Well i was completely wrong. Yes it gets hard because you have to learn how to do everything fast between both kids. Now we had an oops baby about a year after out second and after having our third boy ,I was already telling my husband I wanted another one , he was just shocked that I was asking him after labor haha. In my experience if I would go back I would have had my second son sooner because now my oldest is 7 and even though they gets along great sometimes he doesn't understand that his little brother might not be understand everything.I enjoyed and spoiled my oldest and thought that was it but after seeing the love between my boys am Soo glad we decided to have more. Really enjoy your podcast congratulations on your baby enjoy him ,they will only be a baby for what seems like a second.
Good video, like always. Don’t feel bad about not wanting or having more kids. My husband and I only have our 15 year old son. After having him we did plan on having more kids but honestly for me it was hard. It is hard but life with him got easier the older he got. The feeling of wanting more kids went away so there are no more kids in our future.
First child is the one you over cuddle, over protect them , you do everything by the book lol second child is usually the been there done that this is easy lol at least for myself. I love all 3 of my children but I definitely over cuddle my first. My oldest is 10 now , my 2nd is 4 and the baby is 2. They are a handful that 4 and 2 but it's very rewarding they are building such a bond 💙
It’s hard having multiple kids i have 4 and work 12+ hours as a truck driver and i listen to all y’all podcast and I laughed with this podcast! I think we all have our favorite UA-camrs we want to meet y en alguna día I’ll meet the whole ganga when y’all come to Vegas. And you guys are one of the reasons why we are starting our journey of our podcast coming soon! Thanks for the inspiration guys!!!
My oldest and my 2nd are almost 5 years apart bc I was not ready to have a 2nd but once I saw how happy my daughter was with her sibling it made me feel bad that I didn’t have them closer. I think 3 years is perfect my 2 and 3 are three years apart and to me that’s PERFECT
Yeah my son is turning three and I definitely want one more so that he’s not lonely has someone to kinda relate to or to talk to other than his dad and I
Parenting is so hard! We always said our daughter would be an only child. Then we had our son 2years ago. Our daughter is 8 and our son is 2. You guys are not crazy for feeling that way!❤️❤️
I think you need to understand that sacrifice is part of achieving success many times . Leaving baby Franco with your parents to go get business done and eventually grow more in your careers is part of that sacrifice. Ya'll are blessed ... Love you guys
🥺🥺 the part were your dad wasn’t able to see his mom 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 my heart always breaks when I hear everyone’s stories about not being able to go back 🥺🥺
I just had my second baby, he’s 3 months and I have a 4 year old and god knows how much I struggle. Unfortunately we live in a toxic home with my suegra, but we spend every day at my moms house and get so much help from her, my stepdad and older siblings and I still struggle being a mom to two. I never know if I’m showing more love or more affection to one or the other and I literally cry every night of how overwhelmed I am.
My mom always told me, “ one is one, two is twenty” definitely something you have to think about.
I love you guys so much, and love how real you guys are!❤️
Yo soy de Tijuana pero vivo en Estados Unidos hace 4 años conocí el rancho donde mi mamá nació. La gente era muy pobre y muy humilde pero muy feliz. Me acuerdo que ese día llore mucho y le dije a mi mamá la gente que menos tiene es más feliz. También nos invitaban los del rancho a comer con ellos y así zero egoístas. Me encanta Mexico, can’t wait for more vlogs in Mexico. You guys should go to Cancun for sure 💙
I LOVEEEEE THE ADVICE Jonathan gave the girl 🥹😭😭😭♥️
Im calling it - if they go to Oakleys birthday party next week they will meet Les 🙏🏼 this is their year and I am so here for it!!! 💜💜✨
Blessings to The both of you and your Baby boy.. May your lives be blessed always and forever. This is a new place for me to come to hear testimonials and learn from others experiences. Your experience, going to Mexico and returning Humble....it is true I had an experience when I was 7yrs meeting my adopted father's family and to live without the major necessities for 3 months, not having what we have in the USA. It made me appreciate my life and those who do not have have what we have. Blessings to all of your who read this. Be real at all times. Live life to the fullest.
Who is Oakley?
She did!!
@@carinaGdiaz Laura Mellados baby boy
My dad always told me be thankful and take all the opportunities this country has to offer you cause they didn’t have it growing up they left everything to give us something better
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That Mexico 🇲🇽 Vlog Made Me So Emotional 😭 The Fact That Blanca Said That Trip Humbled Her When She's Already Humble 🥺 I'm About To Go Visit My Grandparents This Summer And I Can't Wait To See Them Again ❤️
Im currently 23 weeks pregnant with a almost two year old. When she was born I didn’t want anymore babies, I did know I wanted one more but I wasn’t sure when. When she was 1 1/2 something in me changed. My toddler still depends on me 100% but something in me wants to give her a sibling. So I’m pregnant now with my last baby. Parents know best if you feel like Franco needs a sibling then why not. But if you guys don’t want another then don’t. At the end of the day you as parents go though it. Not grandma, not uncle, not anybody else but you the parents. My mom was a little disappointed when I told her I was pregnant “you don’t realize that having a baby is hard, your gonna suffer, etc” I obviously know that my toddler isn’t easy and I for sure know the second won’t. Being a mom is hard in general, and I know that with having another kid and being a stay at home mom makes it harder but it’s all worth it. I always wanted to be a mom I’m a nurturing person. I love taking care of people. Don’t feel guilty for not wanting another one, si dios te manda uno que bien y si no pues igual está bien. Don’t stress over just go with the flow. 🥰
We had our first son and thought he was all we ever needed. We had him in catholic school spent a lot of time etc everything was perfect until… he thought he was rich, superior and entitled at 4 😂 so we decided he needed a sibling and now we have the most perfect pair. It’s the most amazing thing to see two grow together. Our son has changed into the little human we always thought he would be. You guys are awesome parents and I think life will let you know if you do or you don’t need another blessing… don’t let SSM pressure you no one’s life is that perfect - it’s totally normal it’s too soon for you to be sure of it because you’re still experiencing all of Franco’s first 💕 also some people may think they want more kids etc but sometimes the first kid is a trick from God because the 2nd WILL give you your moneys worth- but it’s so worth it!
Hi Blanca & Johnathan love watching you guys in all your volgs about the baby part to be honest Blanca you remind me so much of me when I had my 1st baby he was a boy also he's 5 now but my lil boy was a tuff labor I had him natural but it was so hard and painful and my baby gaved me long nights and touch times but my husband wasn't able to be with me in my labor and afterwards he was in Mexico and he was still not able to come with me ...el estaba en tramites long story short my 1st son got to meet his dad asta los dos meses on fathers day ...your so blessed to have the help you have by your momma my mom wasn't able to be with me with my 1st baby 😔 estaba sola and I felt so lonely and felt like a horrible mother even tho I did what I can do i stayed up all the time feeing my baby and making sure he was doing good I was a 1st time mom so everything was hard and scary for me but I did it any I feel so proud of myself 💪💪💪 after taken him to Mexico and meeting his dad i felt wayyy better my husband was a big support ❤ I felt like my baby all he needed was dad closer to him a year past by my husband was able to come to the USA once we got here I found out I was pregnant 😳 I was shocked because I was taken care of myself i cried so much my baby was only 8 months old you can imagine how I felt I felt like I wasn't ready for my 2nd baby I felt like I didn't spend enough time with my baby boy I felt horrible but after months past and I started mention my baby boy that he was going to be a big brother to a lil sister I felt so much better I tried to spend all the time I could with my lil boy before having my baby girl I don't regret it my 2 oldest get along so well they love and protect eachother so much ojo no todos son asi I think that it all depends on how you teach and talk to your lil ones this is hard times I think we all know being a mom is hard but I thank God for sending me my baby boy and my lil girl months apart I now have 3 🤭 and I've always been a stay at home mom it is very hard but time flys so fast in my opinion I rather have them closer to age so when I take one 2 school I take 2 2 school things like that if I wait 4 years o 6 years to have my other one I think I will struggle more I say it because my husband family of 5 and they all not so far apart and my suegra would tell me if you guys want a bug family don't wait to long por q batalla uno mas asi q teneerlos segidos ...sigidos se batalla pero un tiempo nomas and I think its so true .... long story short my husband and I have 6 years married we have a 5 year old boy a also 4 year old lil girl and a 2 month baby girl ❤ and I don't regret having them so close ..... love u guys sending hugs and blessings your way always ! Baby J is do adorable 😍
When I had my first baby I remember I was ready for baby number 2 and as soon as my first turned 1 we started trying for baby number 2.
Ones baby number 2 came(she is about to be two now and has been such a good baby) my husband and I just knew that we didn’t want any more. We’re done with kids and are happy to have one boy and one girl.
So if your feeling like this is it then maybe it just is and it’s ok to just want one baby 💖
Simply gorgeous 😍
I always tell any friends or family the hardest part of having kids is mental I feel like after I had my boys I was and am never worry free ever again so yes it’s so hard it’s not just you guys thank you for being so honest and I don’t want to be negative but as they grow I think it gets harder and harder
Girl, don’t be in a rush to have more, when your ready your ready. I personally have 5 kids and I’m 34 and I always wanted a big family. Enjoy your baby boy, and when you feel the time is right then go for it, and if not then that’s ok too. There Is nothing wrong with not wanting to have another child, it’s hard work 😂 but for the record your doing great!! And I am a stay at home mom, and i thank you guys for acknowledging us moms, because it is truly hard. But I do it for my husband and my children who I love so much. And i love you guys and you are truly grate parents. Thanks for everything ♥️
My 3 kids are 4-5 years apart. It worked out perfectly fine with me gave each kid the attention they deserved in the baby stage. And u definitely need to give them a sibling Atleast one
I enjoyed todays podcast and I love how open you guys are. My two boys a 4 years apart. You guys are not crazy with not wanting another baby. It is very difficult and I honestly don’t know how back in the days people use to have 7 kids plus. As my son grew up I started to see he was lonely since he’s had no cousins to play with and we decided to start trying so he could have a sibling. I’m sure as Franco gets older you all will have baby fever again. ❤️💕
Simply gorgeous 😍
Back then parents wouldn’t raise their kids! It was siblings raising each other🤷🏻♀️ I think that’s why they had so many lol
@@ayocindyloo21 really?
It gets easier guys trust me as soon as they walk and potty train you can get things done and they can eat so when your mom takes care of him its no big deal but i do recomend tohave your kids now because its tough to start all the way back to 0 with a newborn and they will grow up together and play with each other too ♥️
Love your guys podcast! Kids are not easy and parenting gets hard because as they grow you have to keep changing the way you parent them because what might work when they were young might not work later. Once I was told by some order man that he has older kids and thought problems were going to be easier because they were older, but he said problems grow bigger but who knows. Dont rush to have another baby. Do what is best and only best for your family because you guys are the only ones who are going to take care of your children and not other people. I have three kids and their a 1 year and half apart and i think i should have waited a little bit longer that way each one could have more love and attention. I am soo done with having more kids because I feel that with the three I have is perfect because its not just to bring a baby to the world you have to raise them right and prepare them to this rough world we live in. By the way have a beautiful Friend. God will let you guys know when is the right time for another baby or not. ❤
It gets easier with Kids when they get older. It is a very personal choice I had one sibling and I want 4 kids because I want to have a bigger family. I feel children with siblings builds character and helps with social settings. I have two boys at the moment and their bond it so beautiful to look at! It’s the most amazing feeling! Blessings with whatever decision you make!
I love how real & raw you guys always are! Literally my favorite UA-camrs 🫶🏼 only podcast I tune in for! 🥺 Blanca I feel different about having my second kid where I’ve always dreamed of being a mom & I love it so much! Maybe in 3-5 years the next baby will come but with time you’ll see Franco & think maybe it’s time for another one! For now just enjoy him & your little family don’t pressure yourself into another baby. You guys are normal nothing wrong with you guys. God timing is everything 🤍 sending lots of love!
I can completely relate with Blanca. I don’t think I ever “wanted” to be a mom. & now i am a mom of two and wouldn’t change it for anything in the world. I love my babies. Todo a su tiempo. Always give yourself time. Enjoy your babies. Everything happens when it needs to happen! 💕🌿
Love you guys!! Honestly my kids are 13 months apart and it can get super crazy. I would have been happy with just 1 child but i will always be grateful and blessed for my 2nd. Everything overall gets harder after having kids. I would wait until your 1st is atleast in school and more independent.
We need an update podcast with Jonathans mom. Let her give her point of view with some of these emails 🙏🙏
Simply gorgeous 😍
Having kids is definitely a hard job, a joy and brings you lots of happiness to see your babies grow. But having one is perfectly understandable. You guys will know if that’s truly what you want. ☺️💕
The hardest part about being a mom is when you’re kid gets sick . Especially when you’re sick as well .. my son starting to teeth at 3 months and also got really sick and it was one of the hardest moments especially when you have to do things around the house
My second child was not planned for, my son was 2 when I got pregnant again. I can now say the age gap is perfect. They have a good bond.
I love how honest you are about motherhood and you are not the only one wanting only one child . I am glad you brought this up because I feel the same way I love my child but I hate motherhood it’s so hard. And we need to normalize not wanting more than one child.
Guys I honestly felt the same way you feel with Laura! You guys are so humble and welcoming! Honestly the fact that you thought and did invite us to your shower and to eat with your family means a lot to me! I really appreciate you guys being super welcoming to us!
Good morning!..great video!..but listen never will ever change of how poorly ppl are living there, I'm much older than you guys, and I can recall going to Monterrey, Mex every Xmas to visit relatives, but kids in the streets with no shoes, trying to make $$$ to eat..a memory that remains in my heart...so yeah I'm very humble!
I love how you guys post on fridays as I’m getting ready from work🙌🏻 saludos dessert California now to watch this interesting topic❤️
saluditos! have a great day 🌞
Thank you for shedding light to the situation in mexico, going to mexico is very humbling
In regards to not wanting another baby I can relate to how you feel Blanca. But I think my mind was more set on No More when she was small like Franco. My baby is now 8 months and I am barely acknowledging the idea of a sibling for her in the future. It is really hard and to think of having to take care of two kids is scary. But with time you’ll both know when and if you want a second baby.
Cant wait till yall meet Les and Vlex and baby G 🥺❤️❤️❤️
My first is 18 months right now & both my husband & I always say we don’t want anymore. Being a parent is super tough and with everyone around you pressuring you to have more.. we know how you feel Blanca, you’re not the only one
I related to this podcast so much…my husband and I became first time parent too and our baby is 2 months now. I also never desired a baby right away after getting married but I lovveeee my baby so much. I also have those thoughts about the 2nd baby but I definitely want to enjoy my first baby without the struggle of having another one. I think it’s ok to spoil your first and wait for the second one. I see it as learning and enjoying my baby. I see myself waiting to have another too. It’s whatever you feel is right for you ♥️
I always dreamed of being a mom but after having my son, I realized very early on that he would be the only one. It’s so much harder than people make it seem to be a parent and such a huge responsibility for your whole life. He’s 3 years old now and I still feel like he’s going to be an only child. There’s such a stigma about having only one child and it sucks and it makes you feel pressured to have more.
Simply gorgeous 😍
This is how exactly how I feel to , my boyfriend wants more. When I say no he gets mad bc he doesn’t want our son to be alone and I get it but being pregnant isn’t easy and then go though post partum recovery is the hardest 😩. My baby just turned a month old and I told myself no more kids this isn’t for me , Iam happy and blessed being a mom of one child .
Since I can remember, I pictured myself having 6+ kids, I wanted triplets and twins and now that I have my 1 month old I don’t see that happening. Being a stay at home mom is hard, my baby is a great baby, it’s just the other things I need to do, I cook, clean, take care of my dogs, thankfully right now my Dad has been me and taking them to the park everyday for me so to la cuarentena.
Being home makes me sad, it’s mentally draining. I miss going taking my fur babies to the park. Things got hard for me my first week postpartum, I haven’t been producing enough milk, which led me to formula. I’ve been going through depression due to this, I plan is to breastfeed exclusively and that fact that I’m not able to breaks my heart. I tell my husband that I’m sad and I’ll never be happy again, theirs just this part of me as a mother that has not been fulfilled.
I personally never gave being a mom thought when I was younger, I saw it as something soooo far away and that one day I would eventually reach by natures laws. But when the time came and my daughter was here and found it sooooo hard. My husband and I also had a lifestyle where is was all about us and what we wanna do but it sure changed. Of course I would die for her and found a love I cant explain for her but dammm, my husband and I were at our wits the first year. The first year was the hardest but most rewarding at the same time, you get to see her/him's firsts and you find yourself stronger. I would get overwhelmed and say I'm done having kids. But as time passed by I slowly forgot the struggles we went through and I found myself feeling bad when my daughter would play by herself and felt worse when she would start asking for a sibling. I finally gave in at about age 3 to have another, now she's 4 and finally about to be a big sister. ❤❤❤
Is that shy Cabeza de bolitocha 😂🤎
When my baby was a younger baby I 100% said a million times I was not going to have another. Once they get a little older and you see them grow and your love for them gets even bigger if that is even possible I feel like you can’t help but to want to do it at least once so that you can really cherish the experience once more. The first time is so hard and most of the time it isn’t enjoyable because we don’t know what to do or expect. I know that I said no but now that I see her get older I really do get excited of seeing her have a little best friend that we will also love as much as we love her.
I hope you can soon share more about your immigration process, I remember a while back you were saying it was a long process and hopefully you went out with Advance Parole to make your process faster ❤️
Random question where did you get your phone case? I love it 🥰
Yayyy I’ve been waiting for you to upload on Spotify 😭😭
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Ouh God!!! Honestly this video was the most funniest ever!!! LOL Rat Dog🥺🥺🥺🥺 Awww....
I think que con el tiempo vas a querer que cresca tu familia. Maybe one more... I have 2 daughters (13 & 11) and I feel that's enough. Se acompañan, pelean, se cuidan, se aman!💖
Im a mom of 1 boy, i always said i wanted them back to back like every 2 yrs. But during my labor , i was in labor for 50+hrs and ended up having an emergency c-sec due to some complications with my baby and myself. After that my mentality changed and i decided to wait. He is currently 3 yrs old and now i regret not having another baby sooner. It breaks my heart to see him playing by himself. He has a lot of cousins & he loves being with them but it isn’t the same. I just get so upset seeing him by himself playing. I play with him but it isnt the same. Thats just me but i dont know lol. In a way im glad i waited because i was able to enjoy him. He will go to school next year and our plan is to have another one before he enters school next year. I would say enjoy franco now and with time you’ll Know when the right time to have another baby will be. No rush. Lol ♥️
Thank you Blanca and Jonathan for creating all this podcast.. I been feeling a little down lately but I have two days catching up on all this podcast and I just love them.. keep doing this and don’t let anyone touch this because this is just all natural is every aspect!!!! Love you guys 💙💜
thank you so much Maria, means a lot🙏🏼🙏🏼
I have two kids my girl and boy and I always said I only wanted two and if it was a boy and a girl even better, thank god he gave me my pair. My daughter is the oldest and my husband and I waited 4 years for us to have our son, and let me tell you it was easy because my daughter already knew how to use the restroom, she was off the bottle, she did a lot of things by herself and she would even help me with her brother and until this day she helps out a lot. Don't feel guilty when you say that you dont want more kids or how can other woman say I want a baby or 3 or 6, I am the same way, I dont want anymore kids and if I would ever get pregnant again I would cry! Lol🤣 it is hard being a mom, you're not alone girl!💜 Love watching you guys! Sending much love from El Paso!!🥰💜
Cant wait for the merch 💕💕💕💕love you guyss
I feel you on the not wanting to have another baby right away my son is 2 already and my mind hasn't changed it is not easy yes I love being a mom and wouldn't change it for anything in the world. But I always felt the same thing and relate to you both on one kid is enough for me when I seen that others want another one right away I'm just like GUUURRL how?? The way I look at it is I want to give him all the time I can and still have time to be able to accomplish more of my goals and give him the best I can. Because me and my husband work a full time 9-5 job and that's already taking away time from him and plus it is not easy leaving him for work.So don't feel like the only ones feeling that way enjoy your baby they grow so fast 💗
Hey glad you guys are all doing good! Baby Franco is so Adorable! Becitos y Bendiciones para ustedes!
that El Paso incident WOW poor Jonathan.. but it was hella funny!
So about wanting another baby. For us b4 i had our first bby we wanted 4 or 5. Cuz i have 2 sis and 2 brother. So i wanted a big fam.
When i had my first bby boy it went very good smooth natural birth. For the first year or 2 i was like we're good with one, but when he was almost 3 i saw him play with other kids and he was so happy but at home he would play alone, and that would make me feel sad seeing him play alone at home. So that's when we said just 1 more. 😉 my sec bby boy came labor was the total opposite panifull, i did decide to get an epidural, and it wasn't place right so i felt the bad pain, even more cuz i had to be induced.😒😪 and as soon as he came out i told my hubby, this is it no more bbies😭😭 couple year's pass and we wanted a bby GIRL. 50/50 CHANCE of having a bby girl💕 so my sec bby boy is was 9 months away fm turning 10 year's old . And we we're pregnant and we thank god for our healthy,beautiful bby GIRL.
She was born 01/15/2022!!
With time you'll feel it in your ❤ if you want to give Bby Franco siblings.
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By far, this has been my fav podcast!💛 Your guy’s “Texas incident” was hilarious, (thanks for the heads up lol).😆 You both have the same mindset on a lot of things regarding the relationship w/ your significant other, & ESPECIALLY while being around family which makes me feel that I’m not wrong.🤭
Simply gorgeous 😍
Hii guys lysm!❤️ I feel like ur mind rn is Franco and everything him.... but ik 5hat time will come where when his like around 2 urgonna notice that he maybe needs a siblings just because ur gonna find him be happy or excited when he see's other babies. It's totally normal to not think of a 2nd baby at all because of all that energy that ur putting into ur first baby and others and yourself as well. Just know that ur doing it so Amazing and I'm so happy that u have all those feelings and thoughts about it all.👏🏼 😊🥰🥲❤️ really makes u stand out, not all moms give their all to the family😪
Yes Blanca I understand what u are saying b/c I went to Guatemala where my parents are from and it’s really different from here in the U.S.A. But overall it’s a good experience and u get to see how others live and humble u to do better and not talk about others. ❤️❤️ love y’all 🥺❤️
I think it comes whenever you guys feel you ready. My honest opinion I feel it’s better to plan the second baby. At first I was like that I’m fine with me having one but I realized once my first baby Matteo was more around his older cousin. My baby didn’t have any cousin his age or close. I told my husband let’s try I want Matteo to have a brother or sister so he can have his little best friends beside us. It’s crazy because a month later I found out I was pregnant. I was literally 2 or 3 years with no birth control since my first born. I love you guys and admire your work. We all can see the harder worker put in to all the UA-cam channels of yours.❤️‼️💯
Will you be doing your adjustment of status since you have that legal entry ?
Just remember that you don't need to make the decision now, Franco is so young and you guys are in a place where all of your focus is on him. As he gets older your mind may be more clear to make a decision but that soon after birth is a very normal decision😄 I remember feeling like that after my son who is now 4 and does not have a siblings. And tbh I would like another kid but I'm feeling like timing is what I'm more concerned about 🤗 good luck you guys! You both are doing amazing 💕
OMG I LOVE ❤️ YOU GUYS SO Much I enjoy 😊 all this !!! You guys should record a video of calling some of our subscribers ❤️❤️Baby Franco so adorable 🥰 love all you guys
I say wait three years and that gives Franco time to grow up and he’ll be more independent & be your little helper & have him feel included when you have another. It’s definitely hard and it will get harder juggling two but the love you’ll see Franco have for his sibling and just your heart will feel so full 🤍
Hubby and I had our first son through emergency C-section and since hubby was there he said we’d stay with one cause a women go through so much, we were happy with the one until our son was 2 and saw how he played alone all the time and didn’t want him growing alone without a sibling so we went for the second one but I knew I was going to have him through C-section too so I got my tubes tide at the same time and stayed with 2 and I wouldn’t change it for the world. It is scary but children are also such a big blessing. Don’t let society tell you how you should so things or how many kids you should have, till this day people come to me and ask if I don’t regret my sedición of getting my tubes tide before having a baby girl, honestly idk if I’d know how to be a girl mom, in super happy with my 2 boys 💕 you’ll know what’s best for your family on your own. And yes you guys are normal and not alone.
Love this podcast! I am a mom of two under two and it is very hard!! But I cant wait untill the play with each other and have one another as they grow! Blanca you are not crazy you are normal for only wanting one! it is hard and having more than one is even harder!
Personally, I wouldn’t have kids so my kids can have “someone” to grow up with. There are so many factors that need to be considered when having a child & expanding your family. I’m in the same boat, I was working from home while raising my son & now getting my PhD and continuing to be super hands on. I realize now how much harder it is to have children, while working at home & also affording them if you want them to be involved with things or potentially go to college. It only gets harder the more kids involved and the more they grow up wanting cellphones, cars, etc.
At the end of the day you both will find a right time & will realize when you want to expand your family even more. But don’t feel discouraged if right now you want to enjoy your son and figuring a balance with your job. You both are doing amazing!
I love you guys so much and I think your podcast is so real and raw. I am a first time mom during Covid and the first six months I was like I’m never going to have another child my child is going to be three years in four months and I wish I would’ve had a second child a year after I had her because now things would’ve been easier. But having a baby it’s not hard I wish I had the amount of support you had and it would’ve made it 110% easier but looking back at a newborn stage it’s like I want that.
But everybody has different struggles for you and might be emotionally for someone else and be financially for someone else mind me spiritually. But everybody has different struggles when it comes to parenting. Like some of other might have the struggle of the relationship they’re in they want to have a child or another child but the partner their way has been giving them a hard time you see what I’m saying.
We love you guys💘💘 we wish you could take a break because you deserve it but I also agree that it’s important to keep posting to keep your platform! I also agree that I think it has a lot to do with the way your life used to be before having a baby because you always said you won’t live your life for your baby but it’s hard not too and I can see that your life has changed, I’m happy for you both and you two should be very very proud of yourselves. God is good and don’t let other people choose if you two should have more babies that’s up to you and not Franco either because you don’t want to have post partum because you had another baby thinking that’s what was right for Franco. Let it be right for you and your relationship 💘 can’t wait for new merch!!
Don’t be so rushed into seeing if you want another baby or not. I always said I wanted 2 kids, so one wouldn’t feel lonely. I was told I would have a hard time getting pregnant, 2 yrs after getting married I was blessed to get pregnant, I was 11 weeks when I found out so as you see it was unexpected but I an so thankful! I had a c section and said maybe I don’t want more(had a rough recovery). Then once my son got older I wanted another but didn’t get blessed again. Now my son is 14 and I am happy with even being blessed with one! Point is don’t worry what people think, only you decide how many you want ♥️
Took the words out of my mouth! I always knew parenting was hard, because I mean it couldn’t be easy. But GOD DAMN… this shit is rough😂 I looooove my daughter, I can’t imagine my life without her. But wow do I miss being able to sleep in, take random naps, binge a tv show, leave to target the second I think about going. Simple things like that I took for granted lol. My husband works outside mon-fri and I’m in nursing school so life is crazy right now. I can’t even imagine bringing in another little blessing into this mess lmao. However, I’m an only child so I know what that’s like. To even think about my parents dying leaving me all alone freaks me out. That’s why I feel like I need to have another. My daughter is 1 so maaaaaybe in 1 year once I graduate.
Also I want to add I also thought the older she got it’d be easier… I was sooo wrong haha. Between making up 3 meals a day (that end up on the ground), tantrums all day, crawling and learning to walk, hurting herself, keeping her safe. What keeps me sane is her little personality, she’s so silly, she loves to dance, hearing her trying to talk, her giggles and laugh. 💜
I’m so glad you guys talked about parenthood and having more kids. It’s interesting to hear and it’s good to know I’m not the only one that feels so unsure.. I’m 28 and my husband is 27 I always knew I wanted to be a mom we have one daughter who is turning three in a couple weeks. After having her I said I did not want any more. My husband however wanted and WANTS more. We’ve gone back and forth and I just now am coming around to the idea of one more just so she doesn’t grow up alone. I feel bad sometimes because I can only play with her so much I mean I try to do things with her like read and play but for my mental health I can’t just skip chores altogether. So yes, it is extremely difficult to be a mom and I feel like am I the only one that struggles so much like mentally? Bc I’m so afraid of raising kids with like trauma or insecurities like me. I just think if you do decide you want more later on, you’ll feel it. Si no, no and that’s ok. REGARDLESS of what other ppl have to say.
I 💯 understand what your going through! I’m 27 and a stay at home mom of two beautiful babies (a daughter that is 5 and my son who is 3) I love having the chance to be able to be with them 24/7 but it is really exhausting mentally and I don’t mean it in a mean way at all but it’s really true. You try to do everything for and with them but at the same time you also have other stuff that needs to be done . I can get so frustrated with myself because I feel that my kids deserve more from me but at the same time I need to remember to not forget about myself but it’s just a constant struggle and battle with myself. Being a mom is the most hard thing to do but also the most beautiful blessing ✨
@@LilianaLopezzz yes exactly! And I know we aren’t the only ones who feel this way. I think it’s just best to keep in mind what they say “your babies don’t need a perfect mom, they need a happy one” we just have to find a middle ground where we spend time on them but also time with ourselves
My baby just turned two years old and I just started to work and it feels good to get out of the house and make my own money. Sometimes I feel mom guilt but there is only so much that you can do as a mom that you need to make time for yourself and for your well-being. I love watching your UA-cam videos and I totally agree about the when is the right time to even think about baby #2💗☺️💕
How exciting!!! I’ve been following spill the beans since you guys first started and its been an inspiration for me to start my own 🥺♥️ I hope one day I can meet you guys and we become great friends since we live so close!!
I love watching your podcast definitely one of my favorites!! You guys are definitely underrated I hope this year brings you guys tons of success on all your channels!! I love you guys...you really are so humble and a great example..Franco is adorable!!
Literally the only podcast I enjoy/love to watch & I can't wait for the merch 💖
I for sure have to get some merch of Spill the Beans 😁😁 love you guys !!! 🥰
Oh my goshhh I’m so excited for the new merch!! I have the pink hoody from spill the beans when it just used to be you guys and ozzo I’m so happy you guys are growing and thank you guys for always being so real have a good weekend💗
thank you so much Sara😭❤️
My daughter will be 2 in August & I said the same thing as you guys that she was going to be the only one , I saw her as being the only child , but god had other plans for me and now ima have another baby girl in October which I’m very nervous because I’m scared my daughter is going to feel left out when her sister is here 🥺❤️ but you know every baby is a blessing wether they’re planned or come unexpectedly ❤️ that’s the biggest blessing god can give us , a child ❤️
i grew up being an only child and i got everything i wanted and more but i always dreamed of having a little brother / sister , i would beg my parents to have one more. I never had any cousins or family so it was just my parents and i , so all honesty i did get lonely especially because friends come and go it is really hard to find genuine friends . There was a lot of people at school that had siblings and they were really close .I have 1 daughter now and i always knew i wanted at least 2 kids . The newborn phase was so hard because her colic was severe & i didn’t think i would make it through. We are passed that now and i still have my heart set on 1 more because of the fact she will always have someone she can be close to. But nonetheless it will not be easy , having a baby is very hard and i think a lot of people do sugarcoat it . You have to do what you feel in your heart and stick with that , everyone situation is different so we can’t compare but it is so easy to with all the social media 😢❤️
I loved this podcast :) can't wait for next week podcast. You guys are going to cali for Oakley 1st birthday :)
So excited for new merch !! I would’ve love it for Mother’s Day … hopefully next year ! 🤍
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I was in the same mindset as yall when I had my first son. I was like I need to wait for my second one or at times I just wanted one and not have any more. Because I want to enjoy him and give him all my attention. I come from a big family and me and my siblings are all really close in age. I never wanted to be like that because I see it as you don't really enjoy them when you have them all little and in diapers. Because you only have them for 4 years that is the most precious time in their life before they go to school and grow up. I wanted to see him become his own person enjoy seeing him hit his miles stone. Thats the time where they depend on you they needed you to learn to be independent. For me I was ready when my son was 3 I started trying after he turn 3 because I knew he would be 4 by the time i had my next child. And im glad to say I'm pregnant right now for my second child and I feel ready and better then ever. Which by the way my son turn 3 the day Baby Franco was born🤗🥳. So they shares a birthday thats why they are so handsome. 🥰😍 But all im going to say take your time is yall life and trust me you will know when yall are ready for your second one or not ready ever to have a second one. Maybe yall just want one either way its yall choice. Love you guys ❤😘
Give it time, yous will want more and if not, it’s totally fine. You guys are amazing with 1 and would be as well with 3-10 hahaha it’s totally har I got pregnant back to back I have two Babygirls and they are 19m apart and it’s the best yet exhausting . Love you guys!
Never thought of having more kids or not but for me it took 9 years to want to have another baby, it's different 9 years later but they are a great duo . I wouldn't want it another way . I'm able to enjoy and give each individual attention
My son is 18 months and for about the first 10 months of his life I did not want another baby, my husband never helped when I first had him so I would say I would never want to go through that again. Since he turned 1 I started to reconsider maybe having more kids, once your child is more independent you miss all the baby stages, I also see how my son is so sweet with other kids and I would hate to be selfish and not give him a sibling or 2. The hardest part of being a parent is probably the first couple months and after that you get the roll of things and eventually don’t see it as hard as you thought.
I’m a ride die for you guys been here for awhile these podcasts are amazing I absolutely love how real and straight out you are. Keep it up sending you guys love and prayers ❤️🙏🏼 btw I’m from Durango too 😈
My baby just turned 7 months & it’s still hard!!! I can totally relate to u guys! But it’s totally normal, you guys are still adjusting to this new life. You guys have a whole human to look out for now. You guys are doing great! God bless you guys ♥️
I feel like that trip you guys were talking about is going to LA for Oakley’s First birthday party 🤫🥳
As far as having kids. I think it's just up to what you guys can handle. I don't think you should take on more than what can you can handle. Having one kids is sooo much work. Having more that one is even more work. But just do what makes you guys happy and content ! ❤️
You are so right Blanca about people not knowing, how to properly take care of themselves after birth. My Mom wasn't there for me, when I had my babies. I just did what ever, and have had health issues after.
Great Podcast Guys! 👏🏻 I’m with Johnathan! Tell him like it is!!
awsome podcast!
question, where is the couch you're on from?
big lots lol
Just think how your kids will have 2 parents at home. You guys are too blessed. Imagine the moms that make it happen with 3-4 kids. For sure you pick and choose your struggles.
Also remember eventually they will sleep through the night. Your guys are for sure sleep deprived because even when your babies just wake up and eat and go to sleep you still have to wake up. It’s not the same as sleeping through the entire night
Also I wanted to add that my son is 5 and we plan on having another pretty soon. We all choose when we think it’s the right time. And for us waiting these 5 years to enjoy our son the most possible was just right. We both work full time.
No you guys are totally normal lol I just had a baby and we just want to have one. We hardly thought about having one tbh and we love her sm and I love being her mom but I feel like with one is enough lol also, I don’t think I ever said I would love to be a mom and everyone tells us “you guys say now wait till she grows up, you might want more” but honestly, we are sticking with just one.
My baby was such a good baby too, she loves to sleep and I still just want one! It’s okay girl! I get it🫶 and i’m with you guys 100%!
Such an underrated podcast! Se merecen todo! I love Friday mornings w y’all 🤩 aqui ando en el trabajo escuchándolos 💓💓💓
A little back story, growing up I never wanted kids or to be a mom my husband knew this before we got married. Ten years passed and we had our first and felt the same once he was born. I fell so in love with our first born and didn't want another baby. Once our boy was four years old we thought it was time for another little one but I was worried I would not have enough love for my second baby because I love my oldest so much. Well i was completely wrong. Yes it gets hard because you have to learn how to do everything fast between both kids. Now we had an oops baby about a year after out second and after having our third boy ,I was already telling my husband I wanted another one , he was just shocked that I was asking him after labor haha. In my experience if I would go back I would have had my second son sooner because now my oldest is 7 and even though they gets along great sometimes he doesn't understand that his little brother might not be understand everything.I enjoyed and spoiled my oldest and thought that was it but after seeing the love between my boys am Soo glad we decided to have more. Really enjoy your podcast congratulations on your baby enjoy him ,they will only be a baby for what seems like a second.
Good video, like always. Don’t feel bad about not wanting or having more kids. My husband and I only have our 15 year old son. After having him we did plan on having more kids but honestly for me it was hard. It is hard but life with him got easier the older he got. The feeling of wanting more kids went away so there are no more kids in our future.
First child is the one you over cuddle, over protect them , you do everything by the book lol second child is usually the been there done that this is easy lol at least for myself. I love all 3 of my children but I definitely over cuddle my first.
My oldest is 10 now , my 2nd is 4 and the baby is 2. They are a handful that 4 and 2 but it's very rewarding they are building such a bond 💙
It’s hard having multiple kids i have 4 and work 12+ hours as a truck driver and i listen to all y’all podcast and I laughed with this podcast! I think we all have our favorite UA-camrs we want to meet y en alguna día I’ll meet the whole ganga when y’all come to Vegas. And you guys are one of the reasons why we are starting our journey of our podcast coming soon! Thanks for the inspiration guys!!!
My oldest and my 2nd are almost 5 years apart bc I was not ready to have a 2nd but once I saw how happy my daughter was with her sibling it made me feel bad that I didn’t have them closer. I think 3 years is perfect my 2 and 3 are three years apart and to me that’s PERFECT
I missed seeing ozzo & chai 😍😭 please don’t forget about them! 🥰
Yeah my son is turning three and I definitely want one more so that he’s not lonely has someone to kinda relate to or to talk to other than his dad and I
Parenting is so hard! We always said our daughter would be an only child. Then we had our son 2years ago. Our daughter is 8 and our son is 2. You guys are not crazy for feeling that way!❤️❤️
Can y'all talk about how/ why a brand deal can take up to a day to have ready? Thx