As someone in a child development class, a baby should be hugged, held, showed affection very often! It is considered essential for growth and development. Don’t think “you’re spoiling” or mal acostumbrado them, it is necessary. This concept is known as appropriate touch. Fun fact…the first 3 years of life are a sensitive time period for their brain development!
I’m a child development major, babies definitely have their own personality from birth but to answer what Jonathan was saying you definitely can redirect behaviors because a babies environment has a lot to do with how they develop. What Blanca was saying about the trust & sleeping through the night is true. It’s called a “secure attachment” you can look it up. This is the best attachment you can have with your baby. Everything she said about your baby trusting that you will be there is true. If you let them cry it out it makes them realize they cannot fully trust you will be there. Babies are way more developed than we think.
No sneaking or whispering… get him used to loud noises and sound bc later you’ll STRUGGLE like won’t even be able to sneeze lol White noise was everything for my little ones.
You guys give me hope 🥺💖 I love when Blanca said she felt butterflies because it felt like her first date with Jonathan. Super happy you guys are trying to keep the romance alive even through a new chapter of your lives. Blanca don’t ever feel guilty for taking time for yourself because you definitely need it !
To Jonathan’s questions I believe every baby is born with there own personality already. I have two boys and they are completely different. One is calm and the other is crazy and es travieso. I raised them both the same. It’s crazy 🙄 one is introvert and the other is extrovert.
I definitely agree with you. I think that as parents you can't really change their personality, but you have a major influence on their way of expressing that personality.
I have a 2 year old and man I love his personality. He so sweet, caring, and loving. I know all kids are different so I’m wondering how my second will be since I’m expecting my second now. Also my niece is 2 and she is very different from my son. She is less willing to explore and frightened while my son is adventurous and doesn’t not care.
I totally agree with you Blanca, babies are even born “embracilados” cause they’re used to being in mommas womb, tight cozy space and listening to moms heart beat.. being in arms makes them feel safe! I get that saying with my baby too. And you’re right, later ya ni nos van a pelar ☹️ hay que disfrutarlos como bebés 💕
Yes I have my 7 month old who always wants to be with me and also for cooking cleaning I have to carry her in her baby carrier ..I get tired but I do think of how later on she won't want me to carry her so I enjoy it 😏
I agree with Blanca , he’s a tiny baby who doesn’t know anything! I picked my son up every time he cried and at 3 months he has a perfect sleeping schedule, he’s now 2 and sleeps 10-10 ✨ I don’t think you can soil a newborn they don’t know any better. Good job guys parenting isn’t for the weak 🙏
I have 3 kids 2 girls 18 and 9 and my third who's a boy he's 3 And man oh man that little boy drives me crazy. My 2 girls were sooo calm but my boy barely started sleeping through the night. But I love my little guy he's great.
Thank you guys for being so transparent! We truly appreciate you being open and honest about what you guys are going through. That is parenthood to the tea. As of the comment of the study done Blanca, and as for having a BS in Psychology, it is proven that parents that respond to children’s needs create a more happy baby - you create a secure attachment. Which in turn creates a confidant, loving, expressive, and happy baby. :)
Putting the baby down before being deep asleep will be the best in the long run. He will learn how to sleep on his own with no assistance. Also, pacifiers help reduce the risk of SIDS. 🙂 You guys are doing great!
Listening to you guys brought me back so many memories 🥲 I had my fist daughter when I was only 13, I was a single mom and my mom had to go back to work right away since she was the only source of income. Now my daughter is 14 and I can never imagine her going through the same thing. Love listening to you guys podcast 💕
Love the podcast 💖 I totally get what you mean by not wanting to let them cry but trust me it is better. Obviously not let them cry for ever but let them cry for a bit so they can sooth themselves. As a mom we want to do the best for our babies and try to perfect everything but sometimes we just have to do things differently. I relate to you on the pacifier part it would make things easier but I didn’t want it, but also you get less stressed because you find a way for the baby to stay calm. But honestly you should do what works best for you guys. Only You know your baby and just remember patience is key. You’re doing great!!! Things may get hard at times but it’ll all be worth it. 💙🤗
Omg yes! Survival mode for sure those first few weeks. I always remember feeling like nights didn't separate days anymore. I wanted to say that white noise has been a life saver with keeping outside noise out so that he can sleep better. Not sure if you guys have tried it. Hang in there it gets fun as soon as they start laughing and moving around, it will fill your heart and you will realize all the hard work has paid off.
As much as it sounds tough being new parents your input has really put it at ease, I am currently pregnant with my first and I just have to say thank you for always being so raw and open with your audience. A lot of people are afraid to share their raw feelings and experiences to people close to them yet alone to thousands of people (your subscribers). You guys are on this platform for a reason, helping others.💕
To answer Jonathan's question...I believe the baby's personality develops over time w/exposure to many things. That is where their foundation will be formed to shape his personality. There's like 5 different stages of a child's life that a parent can go ck out to help w/each stage of their development. Hope I make sense & this helped answer your question. 😊 You guys are doing an awesome job w/Franco. 💕 Sending much love & positive vibes your way from L.A. ✌
I currently have a two month old baby that started sleeping through the night thankfully! I don’t do the cry out method though, I feel like my baby is too little for that. Right now crying is a baby’s only form of communication and they know absolutely nothing about manipulation. If he is fully fed, wearing a clean diaper and was previously burped just hold him because laying down for so many hours can also make babies feel uncomfortable and tired. Just change his position to tummy time or put him on the swing sitting down. I know you mean no harm Jonathan. 😁 You both are doing fantastic! ❤️ keep up the good work 🙂
Same I never have believe on that I have my 3rd baby and I don't do that..I agree with you ..yeah once they are toddlers it makes sense but babies they need you when they cry
Love this podcast you guys are both doing good raising Franco. The parenting methods have become a difficult thing for me as well as in my way is the only way & after hearing Blanca it made me realize I should respect my significant others way of parenting. Valid point just in case I go back to the gym or I’m not home i wouldn’t want him to just relay on me to take care of our baby. My two month old only ever really cries when he’s hungry or has a dirty diaper. Like Jonathan I tend to give him his binky but only if he’s sleepy. I find that it gives him comfort.
Hey you guys! Love the podcast When y’all were talking about the baby’s personality I believe y’all are referring to the infant’s temperament which they are born with and the environment will play a role as well (:
Aww u guys are so cute 🥺💗 you guys are doing a great job! You guys got this! Don’t stress you u don’t need to ! No one’s perfect you have ur baby healthy and he’s growing so clearly y’all are doing a good job!
The first months are hard but it definitely gets better.! And I do think that they are born with a personality. My little girl has been such a positive little ray of sunshine since day 1 she is always smiling, es super alegre casi todo el tiempo. It's so beautiful to watch them grow and show their personality more as they grow! Congrats again on your beautiful baby boy 💙
Blanca you are being a mother!! Don’t feel bad for picking your baby up! I picked up mine as babies and now they’re 9 and 15 and trust me it doesn’t make them vulnerable! Jonathan we can only take it day by day and discipline them when the time comes. Your guys’ baby has a long life ahead and so do y’all. And trust that with the amazing parents he has he will be the best person in the world! And I feel like lots of hispanic people have the embracilados or even the chiquiados sayings but really it all depends on how you raise the child. Hold on to the good moments because they GROW UP fast!!! I wish my kids where little again! So enjoy your baby to the fullest ♥️
Every kid has its own personality, but you as parents can definitely teach them the most you can. I have 3 children and all three are different. I have an outgoing, super confident 7 year old. Then my 3 year old is super quiet, super shy and he always screams for everything. And my last one is the wild one, she crazy. Also you will always see the things that you don't want to see in your children, just because that's what you don't want to see. It's like if God says para que se te quite. You will learn and you will be humbled one way or another.
Blanca I am so happy that you have a great support system with your mom and Jonathan. It's very hard to do it alone when the Dad has to go to work and grandma is no available to help. You guys are doing great!! Bendiciones 😘
First off I love you both and seeing you both parent is such a beautiful thing thank you for sharing your experience with us i really do want kids in the future but seeing everything you guys go through makes me want to wait a little more just have stability because not everybody is as raw as you guys so thank you 😊
What push me threw having a baby so young , I would tell myself that there’s “going to be good nights and bad nights . " Thats what made my mind be set to that mentality to not be stressed out at night ☺️
I’m also a first time mom, my babygirl was born in December last year. The first month was truly the hardest, now that she is about to be 3 months you truly get the right flow/routine going and it does get easier you have more time to chill and not just survive ♥️
I’m due on May 11th with a baby girl. Hearing your guys podcast about parenting is helping me a lot. I am so nervous and scared too be a first time mom. Hearing you guys talking about parenting , is helping me be more relaxed! 💗
As a single mom & first time parent I definitely feel like it gets harder as they grow. More worries bigger problems lol. My baby just turned 5 and I get anxiety thinking school, job, getting her a car in the future. Bullies , boyfriends etc lol I get anxiety just thinking about things. I miss her being a baby I wish I can keep her small forever 🥺 enjoy your baby! I always tell my girl to give me a lot of Huggies and kissies because she’s growing and I’m gonna miss that affection/ cuddles 🤍
Pick him up as much as you want. I picked my baby up all the time and I enjoyed those cuddles, everyone would tell me that I’m getting him used to the arms. Now that he is 14 months I’m so happy I held him all the time because he will never be that small ever again.
I think that babies are born with a personality. I also don’t think it can be taught but by implanting limits, responsibility, you can avoid big problems. Also kids learn every thing from you, they will copy you! I’ve noticed that so much with my 21 month old. Also there’s no such thing as spoiling a baby. They need you 24/7. When Blanca talked about the research of attending to your baby every time they cry builds trust. I can definitely tell you it’s 100% true. My baby started sleeping through the night at 2 months I was shocked and confused on how it happened!!!! Continue to be grateful and enjoying every little moment. Because they grow up so fast!!!!
I agree with Jonathan. With our kids personality’s. I have two boys three years apart and they’re both super different. My oldest is super sweet, loving dovey, listen to everything and just chills and my second one came out since birth not giving a shit about anything. The second child always comes out rebel!
I definitely agree with Blanca that safe space is his mom .. letting him know that mom is there when things are wrong it’s important i was so attached to my son when he was a baby that now as a toddler he know if something is wrong he comes to me and tries to make understand something wrong and he doesn’t take advantage of because he also in his little world exploring and learn .. but he definitely not trust worthy of new faces . He more attach to me. And I love that and the older they get the more they want to be on their own and the less they want to be cuddle so enjoy as much as you can you in the right !
I think if you spend a lots of time with your baby, he feels safe, happy cuz you are all the time with him, he doesn’t have reason to cry, you put a lots of attention to him, he will be happy. He is very serious in front of other people but with us he is very happy. I am mom of 4 months old baby and he is very happy boy. He is laughing all the time and smiling when he see us. I’m blessed I will subscribe my husband when he gets home from work hahaha
Jonathan’s question is so great!! I have three kids and they all have been great babies. My 4 month old now is just like her siblings and smiles all the time and loves people. what I do notice is I talk to them as if they were my best friends since day one. I dance for them and just have fun and I always get compliments on how great my babies are and how happy and people persons they are! So I guess just treat them like humans not babies as in chipilones or over protect them. And with this she is a great sleeper and all three have been as well. 🥰
The first few months are the hardest! But just when i thought I was getting the hang of it at 6 months...BAM! Here comes the teething with the endless crying and sleepless nights 😭 most important thing to remember is everyday will be different!! Everyday you’ll deal or worry about something new. My advice would be not to focus too much on implementing anything right now and just doing whatever works!
I think it is true! I pick up my son everytime he starts crying or being fuzzy. He's 2 months and sleeps throughout most of the night🥰 he'd only wake up once but goes back to sleep so quick 💙
Im going through it with y’all! I have a 2.5 week old newborn, and it’s definitely a roller coaster. I’ve learned to take it day by day. And I totally feel like Jonathan when it comes to the baby taking and taking and not giving back anything 😂 I can’t wait to see my baby smile when I’m trying to make her laugh and know when it’s me ☺️💕
To be honest about they’re personalities, I believe they are born with them but what also reflects a lot is what environment they are exposed to at home. You can have a very happy baby but if you’re always yelling , fighting, or even talking to them in a frustrated way he will develop feeling that that’s who he has to be and how he has to be. I honestly believe that if you give your child the trust and make them feel safe they will grow up with a very well set mentality. Not in every case but in some people this works. Love you guys!
Jonathan is right! My first child set me up for FAILURE! Lol, my second child is so different, but like his doctor said…you can’t expect them to be the same because they are different people, and boy that’s so true.
Mira yo con mi hija la mas chica, we use to watch movies and here music out loud when were cleaning so she can get used to the noise and thanks god till now she doesn’t wake up or get bothered by anything when she’s sleeping.. se acostumbró mi niña. Saludos a los dos!
I’m an Infant/Toddler Teacher 😊 To add to what Jonathan was saying about them thinking “I don’t want to lay here I’m just going to cry” Babies are not born with that idea. They do not know about “chantaje” yet. They simply want to communicate that they need you and that is their only way to do so at this time in their development. Once they are more mobile they will have the ability to help themselves a little more. For example if they don’t want to lay there they can help themselves and roll over on their tummy and later even stand up. Right now Franco is laying there and cries because he can’t do anything to help himself so calls for help to get himself what he needs like eat, sleep, diaper, let out gas, cuddle etc. 🥰
You guys are doing great! Don’t over think things and don’t focus to much about the future lol Enjoy your baby because the newborn stage goes so fast. Only you guys know what’s best for your baby and how to handle situations.
To help with Jonathan's curiosity about "personality at birth" I would recommend looking up a term called "temperament"! :) We're all born with our own style and understanding the temperament style of your child as well as yourselves will help you adapt to child needs and help you understand how to help the child adapt to their environment as well. Once you understand temperament you'll be able to have a deeper sense of understanding and acceptance for your unique babies style. 💓 The website "Zero to Three" has a simple article and video about this topic, but I'm sure there's a lot of even on UA-cam. I work with families and children and I like to cover temperament especially in the beginning! :) Also that "trust" that you talk about Blanca is referring to "attachment" with a primary caregiver. You're right in that children get to build a secure attachment when parents are reliable and responsive to the child's needs. Another important factor to reflect about is your own triggers and childhood experiences as well as cultural impacts on your parenting styles. Jonathan'a desire to make him independent is well intentioned of course and helping the child become independent is a gradual journey but the first three years of life especially is when the child needs to learn that his parents will be responsive to his needs and cries (crying is the only form of communication they have right now). You guys are doing great!
The first month is hard but closer to when he gets to one it’s going to get really hard because teething is a MF!!! The fevers, the cries, them not being able to get comfortable because of pain 😩 poor babies go through so much but it truly is all worth it. The older he gets the more your body will adjust to his crazy schedule and the more you guys will learn how to calm him down to keep him busy so he’s not crying much. You guys got this 💪🏻 he has amazing parents 🥰
So happy 😃 to see you guys, thank you ☺️ for sharing, made my day besides starbies , esta bien lo que dice Jonathan porque yo tengo dos niñas y las dejaba llorar y mi mama me decía dejala no pasa nada..y la personalidad ya viene en el pero tu también tienes que ayudar a que se desenvuelva y tenga confianza en si mismo.. porque ya chiquito son muy inteligentes y va saber que si llora tu lo vas a agarrar..bendiciones 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼💗💗💗💗💗💛💛💛💛💛💚💚💚💚💚❤️❤️❤️🧡🧡🧡🧡💜💜💜💜🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤍🤍🤍❣️❣️❣️❣️💕💕❣️❣️❣️💞💞💞💞💞💞💙💙💙💙💞💞💘💘💓💖💖💓💓💘💖💖💖💖💝💝💝💟💟💟💟💝💝💝💝💝💖💖💖💖💘💓💘💘💘💞💞💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💖💖💖💝💓💓💘💘💞💞🤍🤍🤎🤎💜💜🧡❤️❤️💚💚💚💗💕💕💕❣️🤍🤍🤍🤍❣️❣️🤍💞💘💘💘💖💖💖💝💝
You guys are a team. I loved when Jonathan said he respected Blanca's ways when she wasn't in the room. You guys are doing great and Franco is lucky to have you as parents.
Hi Guys Here 4 days after you uploaded the video About the personality comment, my daughter Angie did not like to be hold by anyone other than me and dad. She would even cry when the family would just look at her in the carsit lol or while we were visiting. Now she is such an extrovert she has such a personality and is so funny. My son was the total opposite he was always smiling and stuff and now he is still the same and so sweet. So don’t worry they will grow to be the best as long as we parents do the best we can and give them lots of love always and values. ❤️🙏
Watching you guys is like if I was watching myself and my husband we have two boys and that’s our dynamic I’m the lenient parent and my husband is the disciplinary parent and he’s also always talking about the future and how they will be and then I’m just like blanca like relax they have been on earth for 5 and 2 years 😅
ommmg that's so crazy with your story about him taking a bottle ! I went through the exact same thing and it literally brought me flashbacks when you were talking . My daughter turns 3 this month and all i can say is time goes by soooo fast . enjoy it ❤️
Im a mom of a 3yr old and I never believed the whole don't pick them up when they cry because they wont wanna be on their own later. My daughter is very independent and I agree with Blanca. If they cry is for a reason. She was never a cry baby unless she was sick. For that reason I didn't let it get to the point of them crying their lungs out because she would communicate with me what her needs were and there was no need for her to cry. You got this guys!! Do lots of reading about brain development in general. It will help in the long run. Animo ❤
I think as humans we are a product of so many things. Our family, our society, our culture. Even though siblings grow up in the same environment, they are exposed to different things at school and the family dynamics itself creates a shift in their personality. For example, the way a mom/dad will treat a daughter vs a son. In addition, the order of siblings. For example an oldest daughter vs a youngest daughter. To summarize, a person is a product of their surroundings and experiences. No two ppl have the same upbringing. Blanca is doing good in providing the secure attachment for Franco. He will grow up more secure which will benefit his development in all stages of life. There are parents that parent differently, and that’s fine, too. But there’s science supporting secure attachment styles.
It’s so scary you literally learn as you go 😭 anything freaks you and you question everything !😭 don’t even listen to ppl saying stuff about spoiling him! Enjoy him i stopped breast feeding at 11 months and i just miss him being so close to me and i miss holding him on my chest! Ya ni se queda he wants to crawl around
A best advice is to carry him a little bit but not too much because sometimes that’s why babies cry a lot because they are use to being held all the time but it every parent is different . I have learned that because I work with kids.
I 100000% agree with Blanca ❤️. I don’t let my daughter cry it out. My baby daddy is so hard on her and wants her to cry it out but it hurts to see her cry. Now that she’s a toddler she cries a lot because she’s always falling and bumping everywhere lol but I still tell her “ it’s okay mommy’s here”. My baby daddy being like that makes me not want more kids even though I do want more 😔
Having a baby is so difficult I understand you guys so much my baby is 6 months and I finally feel at ease. The first couple months are so hard. Tell Jonathan it gets more fun my baby is finally interacting and sitting up it’s the cutest! My boyfriend is the same always saying he can’t wait till he gets older lol and now he’s enjoying it more because he plays and laughs it’s coming! 🤍
Blanca talking about her support system made me cry I wish I had that you’re so blessed not that my husband didn’t want to help but he had to work and it was just me and my baby and when I had my second it was just us 3 trying to survive lol but what you have is so beautiful cherish it and appreciate it god bless ❤️
Both of my babies were preemies and in the NICU they got them used to the pacifier. I personally have no problem with using it because its soothing to them. With my eldest it was super easy to take it away. All it took was a "no more paci" and that was it. she understood and we had no problems. I think it may be due to personality like Jonathan says. My eldest has always had the most easy going personality. I do think they are born with their personality and although they may change and we can teach right from wrong... they do have their personalities from day 1. and about the "cry it out" method i have never practiced it and i don't have any problems with them sleeping through the night. my little one has been sleeping through the night since she was 1 month old. I got lucky i guess lol. I guess my advice to you is just do what feels best for you and your babies. Do what works best for your family and gives you more sanity. I was given tonsa unsolicited advice and i tried some of it and not everything works for all babies. I would also get the "la vas enbrazilar sermon" and i didnt care i thought the same as you she will grow and once she starts not walking CRAWLING she will no longer want my arms so i soak it all in. gimme all the cuddles. Just follow your gut nobody will know baby best than momma and dadda. You guys are doing great.
i feel like there’s a big difference between being an introvert and being rude to people, also some kids have “sangre pesada” and just naturally bug lol
so about the babies personalities I think kids come out like their parents so also think about how you are yourself cause I feel like me and my sister came out like my mom & my brothers came out like their dad so I feel like it has to do with how parents are but not fully !
Ok I had to just drop real quick after Blanca started expressing her butterfly feelings and just say “awwww” 🤧☺️🥺 you guys are so cute!! Que viva el amorrsss !! ✨✨🙏✨✨bendiciones to you guys, always 🙌
Babies are definitely born with their character. My 2 year old was born dec 2019 he didn’t really socialize (because of covid) until he was 1 and a half. He is the biggest extrovert now. Says hi to everyone and loves being outside of the house. My 6 year old.. we started going out with her when she was 2 weeks old, literally every weekend we would go out since then. Now … She loves being home and she’s very shy. Kids are born how they are. As parents we have to learn who they are and what they like and don’t like to protect them. There are things my daughter doesn’t like but I do like but out of respect for her I have to respect that because I know what makes her feel comfortable. We don’t want to makes our kids uncomfortable because that’s when trauma takes place and we don’t want to go there.
My advice is to get the baby use to noise bcuz then it’s always gonna be like this nobody can make a noise bcuz the baby will wake up having a Mexican mom like urs she should know about that I had all my kids get use to noise so when they would go to sleep I wouldn’t be stressed out trying to shut everybody up. My daughter did the opposite and it’s so many of us living in the same house that it’s impossible for it to be quiet so she had to get him use to noise at the end
You do what you feel is right. Mi hija ya tenia como 9 meses and if we were in a family event, I would still put her to sleep by carrying her. Your son will only be a baby once & trust me que vas a extrañar todos estos momentos bonitos, embrace it. You both are doing amazing!
I mean you want them to be friendly have them around people because my kids I see them and they are friendly to everyone and somewhat respectful but like my aunt that she never goes and visits no one when we get to see them they are sooo shy that they don’t even say hi… so yeah I could say that y’all can twist that and make them be out there
I’m also a first time mom and I feel like they’re born with their attitude but how they act depends on the parent. My baby got so used to me always being with him and never leaving him and now he’s 14 months and I can’t leave him anywhere with anyone because he’s scared in a way it’s like he feels safe with me because I never leave him. Idk if that answers your question Jonathan lol
I agree with everything Blanca is saying !! They are just baby’s or little kids !! Thank fully my two kids have been good sleepers maybe bcuz I was for them on demand !!
Honestly it depends on many factors. It can be from the attachment that the baby had from the day they were born. Then it can be from their environment and the people that he is around, or how exposed he is to other individuals. Also, due to their DNA they already have their own personality, but you can help guide them into growing up 💗 Blanca you’re also doing good because the baby will have that secure attachment with you. By picking him up when he is crying, then he will know that he can trust you, and you will always be there for him. There are also many studies that show that babies that have that secure attachment from newborn stage they grow up to being sociable with other people!
Best couple parents, even though it’s your first baby you guys are so mature about it. Every day is something new so definitely like Blanca said take it day by day! ❤️
I just use pressure points lmao 🤣😂😅 that made my day Happy Friday Guys follow you on the gram & im subscribed 💌 missed the podcast last week glad ur back
Hey guys! I am so happy to hear the podcast again! ☺️ Jonathan reminds me so much of my boyfriend lol my boyfriend is also from Durango and he thinks the same about letting them cry para que aprendan but kids honestly bring out our personalities lol. Some kids can act the same way as their mom or dad and honestly it’s just about correcting them when they are doing something wrong and telling them why is it wrong. I have my daughter and she has a mixed of me and my boyfriend’s personality and we both get mad sometimes cause she acts like us and we just correct her when it’s needed you know. But the answer to Jonathan is kids are not born with their personality in my opinion. When kids grow up they see how you act or how their dad acts and they start getting it from there. You know what I mean. Like they see from both sides and that’s how they start growing their personality themselves. It’s not bad though because we as parents can always correct them but not change their ways of being! ❤️ love you guys and hope to see your guys first date vlog soon! ☺️
Blanca you guys need to put the white noise when the baby sleeps! It blocks out all the noise for them and they sleep so magical lol White noise is supposedly what babies hear in the womb! Did it with my daughter and she sleeps so good!!
As someone in a child development class, a baby should be hugged, held, showed affection very often! It is considered essential for growth and development. Don’t think “you’re spoiling” or mal acostumbrado them, it is necessary. This concept is known as appropriate touch. Fun fact…the first 3 years of life are a sensitive time period for their brain development!
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Yes!!! First 3 years super crucial
I’m a child development major, babies definitely have their own personality from birth but to answer what Jonathan was saying you definitely can redirect behaviors because a babies environment has a lot to do with how they develop.
What Blanca was saying about the trust & sleeping through the night is true. It’s called a “secure attachment” you can look it up. This is the best attachment you can have with your baby. Everything she said about your baby trusting that you will be there is true. If you let them cry it out it makes them realize they cannot fully trust you will be there. Babies are way more developed than we think.
Agree,!!! They need the security, do not feel bad that you soothe your baby... You're doing fine, Blanca 👍🏼🙏🏼🙂
Hahaha Jonathan really said “unos babies caen bien mal” 🤣
But they do lol 😂
No sneaking or whispering… get him used to loud noises and sound bc later you’ll STRUGGLE like won’t even be able to sneeze lol White noise was everything for my little ones.
You guys give me hope 🥺💖 I love when Blanca said she felt butterflies because it felt like her first date with Jonathan. Super happy you guys are trying to keep the romance alive even through a new chapter of your lives. Blanca don’t ever feel guilty for taking time for yourself because you definitely need it !
To Jonathan’s questions I believe every baby is born with there own personality already. I have two boys and they are completely different. One is calm and the other is crazy and es travieso. I raised them both the same. It’s crazy 🙄 one is introvert and the other is extrovert.
Omg same!!!! I have a 9 and 4 yr old boys, but man they are OPPOSITES its insane.
I agree with you girl
Omg me too!! My 9yr old boy has always been so calm but my soon to be 3 yr old boy is on another level of craziness!😂😂😓😓 He drains me completely lol
I definitely agree with you. I think that as parents you can't really change their personality, but you have a major influence on their way of expressing that personality.
I have a 2 year old and man I love his personality. He so sweet, caring, and loving. I know all kids are different so I’m wondering how my second will be since I’m expecting my second now. Also my niece is 2 and she is very different from my son. She is less willing to explore and frightened while my son is adventurous and doesn’t not care.
I totally agree with you Blanca, babies are even born “embracilados” cause they’re used to being in mommas womb, tight cozy space and listening to moms heart beat.. being in arms makes them feel safe! I get that saying with my baby too. And you’re right, later ya ni nos van a pelar ☹️ hay que disfrutarlos como bebés 💕
Yes I have my 7 month old who always wants to be with me and also for cooking cleaning I have to carry her in her baby carrier ..I get tired but I do think of how later on she won't want me to carry her so I enjoy it 😏
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I agree with Blanca , he’s a tiny baby who doesn’t know anything! I picked my son up every time he cried and at 3 months he has a perfect sleeping schedule, he’s now 2 and sleeps 10-10 ✨ I don’t think you can soil a newborn they don’t know any better. Good job guys parenting isn’t for the weak 🙏
Let me tell you something, the second child is literally something else 💀😭😂😂😂 your first child will always be the easiest !
So true for me too❤
I have 3 kids 2 girls 18 and 9 and my third who's a boy he's 3 And man oh man that little boy drives me crazy. My 2 girls were sooo calm but my boy barely started sleeping through the night. But I love my little guy he's great.
Thank you guys for being so transparent! We truly appreciate you being open and honest about what you guys are going through. That is parenthood to the tea. As of the comment of the study done Blanca, and as for having a BS in Psychology, it is proven that parents that respond to children’s needs create a more happy baby - you create a secure attachment. Which in turn creates a confidant, loving, expressive, and happy baby. :)
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Putting the baby down before being deep asleep will be the best in the long run. He will learn how to sleep on his own with no assistance. Also, pacifiers help reduce the risk of SIDS. 🙂 You guys are doing great!
Listening to you guys brought me back so many memories 🥲 I had my fist daughter when I was only 13, I was a single mom and my mom had to go back to work right away since she was the only source of income. Now my daughter is 14 and I can never imagine her going through the same thing. Love listening to you guys podcast 💕
Girl 13 ur brave
Omggggg i loveeeeeeee this type of videos 🥺♥️ y’all do what y’all think is the best for ur bbys 🥺 y’all doing such a good job 💞
I’m so happy that you guys are making it work 💕💕💕💕 can’t wait to see him!
Love the podcast 💖
I totally get what you mean by not wanting to let them cry but trust me it is better. Obviously not let them cry for ever but let them cry for a bit so they can sooth themselves. As a mom we want to do the best for our babies and try to perfect everything but sometimes we just have to do things differently. I relate to you on the pacifier part it would make things easier but I didn’t want it, but also you get less stressed because you find a way for the baby to stay calm. But honestly you should do what works best for you guys. Only You know your baby and just remember patience is key. You’re doing great!!! Things may get hard at times but it’ll all be worth it. 💙🤗
Omg yes! Survival mode for sure those first few weeks. I always remember feeling like nights didn't separate days anymore. I wanted to say that white noise has been a life saver with keeping outside noise out so that he can sleep better. Not sure if you guys have tried it. Hang in there it gets fun as soon as they start laughing and moving around, it will fill your heart and you will realize all the hard work has paid off.
I loved this podcast! They way Jonathan explains being a parent is so real like no sugar coat
i like how you both have different parenting styles & respect each other’s POV 🙏🏽
As much as it sounds tough being new parents your input has really put it at ease, I am currently pregnant with my first and I just have to say thank you for always being so raw and open with your audience. A lot of people are afraid to share their raw feelings and experiences to people close to them yet alone to thousands of people (your subscribers). You guys are on this platform for a reason, helping others.💕
To answer Jonathan's question...I believe the baby's personality develops over time w/exposure to many things. That is where their foundation will be formed to shape his personality. There's like 5 different stages of a child's life that a parent can go ck out to help w/each stage of their development. Hope I make sense & this helped answer your question. 😊 You guys are doing an awesome job w/Franco. 💕 Sending much love & positive vibes your way from L.A. ✌
I currently have a two month old baby that started sleeping through the night thankfully! I don’t do the cry out method though, I feel like my baby is too little for that. Right now crying is a baby’s only form of communication and they know absolutely nothing about manipulation. If he is fully fed, wearing a clean diaper and was previously burped just hold him because laying down for so many hours can also make babies feel uncomfortable and tired. Just change his position to tummy time or put him on the swing sitting down. I know you mean no harm Jonathan. 😁 You both are doing fantastic! ❤️ keep up the good work 🙂
Same I never have believe on that I have my 3rd baby and I don't do that..I agree with you ..yeah once they are toddlers it makes sense but babies they need you when they cry
Love this podcast you guys are both doing good raising Franco. The parenting methods have become a difficult thing for me as well as in my way is the only way & after hearing Blanca it made me realize I should respect my significant others way of parenting. Valid point just in case I go back to the gym or I’m not home i wouldn’t want him to just relay on me to take care of our baby. My two month old only ever really cries when he’s hungry or has a dirty diaper. Like Jonathan I tend to give him his binky but only if he’s sleepy. I find that it gives him comfort.
Hey you guys! Love the podcast
When y’all were talking about the baby’s personality I believe y’all are referring to the infant’s temperament which they are born with and the environment will play a role as well (:
Aww u guys are so cute 🥺💗 you guys are doing a great job! You guys got this! Don’t stress you u don’t need to ! No one’s perfect you have ur baby healthy and he’s growing so clearly y’all are doing a good job!
The first months are hard but it definitely gets better.! And I do think that they are born with a personality. My little girl has been such a positive little ray of sunshine since day 1 she is always smiling, es super alegre casi todo el tiempo. It's so beautiful to watch them grow and show their personality more as they grow! Congrats again on your beautiful baby boy 💙
Blanca you are being a mother!! Don’t feel bad for picking your baby up! I picked up mine as babies and now they’re 9 and 15 and trust me it doesn’t make them vulnerable! Jonathan we can only take it day by day and discipline them when the time comes. Your guys’ baby has a long life ahead and so do y’all. And trust that with the amazing parents he has he will be the best person in the world! And I feel like lots of hispanic people have the embracilados or even the chiquiados sayings but really it all depends on how you raise the child. Hold on to the good moments because they GROW UP fast!!! I wish my kids where little again! So enjoy your baby to the fullest ♥️
Every kid has its own personality, but you as parents can definitely teach them the most you can. I have 3 children and all three are different. I have an outgoing, super confident 7 year old. Then my 3 year old is super quiet, super shy and he always screams for everything. And my last one is the wild one, she crazy. Also you will always see the things that you don't want to see in your children, just because that's what you don't want to see. It's like if God says para que se te quite. You will learn and you will be humbled one way or another.
Blanca I am so happy that you have a great support system with your mom and Jonathan. It's very hard to do it alone when the Dad has to go to work and grandma is no available to help. You guys are doing great!!
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First off I love you both and seeing you both parent is such a beautiful thing thank you for sharing your experience with us i really do want kids in the future but seeing everything you guys go through makes me want to wait a little more just have stability because not everybody is as raw as you guys so thank you 😊
What push me threw having a baby so young , I would tell myself that there’s “going to be good nights and bad nights . " Thats what made my mind be set to that mentality to not be stressed out at night ☺️
I’m also a first time mom, my babygirl was born in December last year. The first month was truly the hardest, now that she is about to be 3 months you truly get the right flow/routine going and it does get easier you have more time to chill and not just survive ♥️
Never work Fridays but ughhh sooo excited to watch this 🥺 I love you guys and baby francooo❤️❤️
I've been catching up on previous podcasts since last night. my new favs! 🙌🏼
I’m due on May 11th with a baby girl. Hearing your guys podcast about parenting is helping me a lot. I am so nervous and scared too be a first time mom. Hearing you guys talking about parenting , is helping me be more relaxed! 💗
As a single mom & first time parent I definitely feel like it gets harder as they grow. More worries bigger problems lol. My baby just turned 5 and I get anxiety thinking school, job, getting her a car in the future. Bullies , boyfriends etc lol I get anxiety just thinking about things. I miss her being a baby I wish I can keep her small forever 🥺 enjoy your baby! I always tell my girl to give me a lot of Huggies and kissies because she’s growing and I’m gonna miss that affection/ cuddles 🤍
Guys why did this take me all day to watch I-kept watching it little by little 🙌🏼💕
Pick him up as much as you want. I picked my baby up all the time and I enjoyed those cuddles, everyone would tell me that I’m getting him used to the arms. Now that he is 14 months I’m so happy I held him all the time because he will never be that small ever again.
I loved this podcast, I felt like I related so much!!
I think that babies are born with a personality. I also don’t think it can be taught but by implanting limits, responsibility, you can avoid big problems. Also kids learn every thing from you, they will copy you! I’ve noticed that so much with my 21 month old. Also there’s no such thing as spoiling a baby. They need you 24/7. When Blanca talked about the research of attending to your baby every time they cry builds trust. I can definitely tell you it’s 100% true. My baby started sleeping through the night at 2 months I was shocked and confused on how it happened!!!! Continue to be grateful and enjoying every little moment. Because they grow up so fast!!!!
I agree with Jonathan. With our kids personality’s. I have two boys three years apart and they’re both super different.
My oldest is super sweet, loving dovey, listen to everything and just chills and my second one came out since birth not giving a shit about anything.
The second child always comes out rebel!
Amen to this😂
I definitely agree with Blanca that safe space is his mom .. letting him know that mom is there when things are wrong it’s important i was so attached to my son when he was a baby that now as a toddler he know if something is wrong he comes to me and tries to make understand something wrong and he doesn’t take advantage of because he also in his little world exploring and learn .. but he definitely not trust worthy of new faces . He more attach to me. And I love that and the older they get the more they want to be on their own and the less they want to be cuddle so enjoy as much as you can you in the right !
Coming from a new mom and a single it’s hard and not all day are easy but I love it and I’m enjoying everything about it
I think if you spend a lots of time with your baby, he feels safe, happy cuz you are all the time with him, he doesn’t have reason to cry, you put a lots of attention to him, he will be happy. He is very serious in front of other people but with us he is very happy. I am mom of 4 months old baby and he is very happy boy. He is laughing all the time and smiling when he see us. I’m blessed
I will subscribe my husband when he gets home from work hahaha
Good morning ☀️ happy 😊 Friday have a wonderful Friday guys ✨💙 drinking cafecito☕️ while watching my favorite podcast ☺️
Thank you 🤍
Jonathan’s question is so great!! I have three kids and they all have been great babies. My 4 month old now is just like her siblings and smiles all the time and loves people. what I do notice is I talk to them as if they were my best friends since day one. I dance for them and just have fun and I always get compliments on how great my babies are and how happy and people persons they are! So I guess just treat them like humans not babies as in chipilones or over protect them. And with this she is a great sleeper and all three have been as well. 🥰
The first few months are the hardest! But just when i thought I was getting the hang of it at 6 months...BAM! Here comes the teething with the endless crying and sleepless nights 😭 most important thing to remember is everyday will be different!! Everyday you’ll deal or worry about something new. My advice would be not to focus too much on implementing anything right now and just doing whatever works!
Girllll, your natural hair color looks so good! 🙌🏼
He said "some babies Caen bien mal" 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
I think it is true! I pick up my son everytime he starts crying or being fuzzy. He's 2 months and sleeps throughout most of the night🥰 he'd only wake up once but goes back to sleep so quick 💙
Love watching you guys! I would suggest putting “calming music” like water faucet sounds
Im going through it with y’all! I have a 2.5 week old newborn, and it’s definitely a roller coaster. I’ve learned to take it day by day. And I totally feel like Jonathan when it comes to the baby taking and taking and not giving back anything 😂 I can’t wait to see my baby smile when I’m trying to make her laugh and know when it’s me ☺️💕
To be honest about they’re personalities, I believe they are born with them but what also reflects a lot is what environment they are exposed to at home. You can have a very happy baby but if you’re always yelling , fighting, or even talking to them in a frustrated way he will develop feeling that that’s who he has to be and how he has to be. I honestly believe that if you give your child the trust and make them feel safe they will grow up with a very well set mentality. Not in every case but in some people this works. Love you guys!
Yay you guys are back !❤️ Happy friday & hope you have a blessed day.
Jonathan is right! My first child set me up for FAILURE! Lol, my second child is so different, but like his doctor said…you can’t expect them to be the same because they are different people, and boy that’s so true.
Mira yo con mi hija la mas chica, we use to watch movies and here music out loud when were cleaning so she can get used to the noise and thanks god till now she doesn’t wake up or get bothered by anything when she’s sleeping.. se acostumbró mi niña. Saludos a los dos!
I’m an Infant/Toddler Teacher 😊 To add to what Jonathan was saying about them thinking “I don’t want to lay here I’m just going to cry” Babies are not born with that idea. They do not know about “chantaje” yet. They simply want to communicate that they need you and that is their only way to do so at this time in their development. Once they are more mobile they will have the ability to help themselves a little more. For example if they don’t want to lay there they can help themselves and roll over on their tummy and later even stand up. Right now Franco is laying there and cries because he can’t do anything to help himself so calls for help to get himself what he needs like eat, sleep, diaper, let out gas, cuddle etc. 🥰
❤️❤️❤️😻😻 You guys are super cute I love it keep the communication and respect you guys have for each other .
You guys are doing so great!!
You guys are doing great! Don’t over think things and don’t focus to much about the future lol Enjoy your baby because the newborn stage goes so fast. Only you guys know what’s best for your baby and how to handle situations.
To help with Jonathan's curiosity about "personality at birth" I would recommend looking up a term called "temperament"! :) We're all born with our own style and understanding the temperament style of your child as well as yourselves will help you adapt to child needs and help you understand how to help the child adapt to their environment as well. Once you understand temperament you'll be able to have a deeper sense of understanding and acceptance for your unique babies style. 💓 The website "Zero to Three" has a simple article and video about this topic, but I'm sure there's a lot of even on UA-cam. I work with families and children and I like to cover temperament especially in the beginning! :)
Also that "trust" that you talk about Blanca is referring to "attachment" with a primary caregiver. You're right in that children get to build a secure attachment when parents are reliable and responsive to the child's needs. Another important factor to reflect about is your own triggers and childhood experiences as well as cultural impacts on your parenting styles. Jonathan'a desire to make him independent is well intentioned of course and helping the child become independent is a gradual journey but the first three years of life especially is when the child needs to learn that his parents will be responsive to his needs and cries (crying is the only form of communication they have right now). You guys are doing great!
The first month is hard but closer to when he gets to one it’s going to get really hard because teething is a MF!!! The fevers, the cries, them not being able to get comfortable because of pain 😩 poor babies go through so much but it truly is all worth it. The older he gets the more your body will adjust to his crazy schedule and the more you guys will learn how to calm him down to keep him busy so he’s not crying much. You guys got this 💪🏻 he has amazing parents 🥰
So happy 😃 to see you guys, thank you ☺️ for sharing, made my day besides starbies , esta bien lo que dice Jonathan porque yo tengo dos niñas y las dejaba llorar y mi mama me decía dejala no pasa nada..y la personalidad ya viene en el pero tu también tienes que ayudar a que se desenvuelva y tenga confianza en si mismo.. porque ya chiquito son muy inteligentes y va saber que si llora tu lo vas a agarrar..bendiciones 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼💗💗💗💗💗💛💛💛💛💛💚💚💚💚💚❤️❤️❤️🧡🧡🧡🧡💜💜💜💜🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤍🤍🤍❣️❣️❣️❣️💕💕❣️❣️❣️💞💞💞💞💞💞💙💙💙💙💞💞💘💘💓💖💖💓💓💘💖💖💖💖💝💝💝💟💟💟💟💝💝💝💝💝💖💖💖💖💘💓💘💘💘💞💞💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💖💖💖💝💓💓💘💘💞💞🤍🤍🤎🤎💜💜🧡❤️❤️💚💚💚💗💕💕💕❣️🤍🤍🤍🤍❣️❣️🤍💞💘💘💘💖💖💖💝💝
My favorite podcast ever !! 💕 y’all are doing great!!
Finally my favorite couple! 😭♥️ Blanca is glowing so much. 🥺
You guys are a team. I loved when Jonathan said he respected Blanca's ways when she wasn't in the room. You guys are doing great and Franco is lucky to have you as parents.
Happy FriYay! Glad you're back!!!
I’m so glad you guys uploaded so I can hear you guys in my way to college ✨😍
Good luck 🥰🥰🥰
Hi Guys
Here 4 days after you uploaded the video
About the personality comment, my daughter Angie did not like to be hold by anyone other than me and dad. She would even cry when the family would just look at her in the carsit lol or while we were visiting. Now she is such an extrovert she has such a personality and is so funny. My son was the total opposite he was always smiling and stuff and now he is still the same and so sweet. So don’t worry they will grow to be the best as long as we parents do the best we can and give them lots of love always and values.
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Watching you guys is like if I was watching myself and my husband we have two boys and that’s our dynamic I’m the lenient parent and my husband is the disciplinary parent and he’s also always talking about the future and how they will be and then I’m just like blanca like relax they have been on earth for 5 and 2 years 😅
ommmg that's so crazy with your story about him taking a bottle ! I went through the exact same thing and it literally brought me flashbacks when you were talking . My daughter turns 3 this month and all i can say is time goes by soooo fast . enjoy it ❤️
Im a mom of a 3yr old and I never believed the whole don't pick them up when they cry because they wont wanna be on their own later. My daughter is very independent and I agree with Blanca. If they cry is for a reason. She was never a cry baby unless she was sick. For that reason I didn't let it get to the point of them crying their lungs out because she would communicate with me what her needs were and there was no need for her to cry. You got this guys!! Do lots of reading about brain development in general. It will help in the long run. Animo ❤
I think as humans we are a product of so many things. Our family, our society, our culture. Even though siblings grow up in the same environment, they are exposed to different things at school and the family dynamics itself creates a shift in their personality. For example, the way a mom/dad will treat a daughter vs a son. In addition, the order of siblings. For example an oldest daughter vs a youngest daughter. To summarize, a person is a product of their surroundings and experiences. No two ppl have the same upbringing.
Blanca is doing good in providing the secure attachment for Franco. He will grow up more secure which will benefit his development in all stages of life. There are parents that parent differently, and that’s fine, too. But there’s science supporting secure attachment styles.
It’s so scary you literally learn as you go 😭 anything freaks you and you question everything !😭 don’t even listen to ppl saying stuff about spoiling him! Enjoy him i stopped breast feeding at 11 months and i just miss him being so close to me and i miss holding him on my chest! Ya ni se queda he wants to crawl around
Me watching every channel of yours and letting the ads run paque pagen el hospital bill lol
A best advice is to carry him a little bit but not too much because sometimes that’s why babies cry a lot because they are use to being held all the time but it every parent is different . I have learned that because I work with kids.
Hi guys not sure if I missed it but will you be uploading the podcasts to Spotify?
I 100000% agree with Blanca ❤️. I don’t let my daughter cry it out. My baby daddy is so hard on her and wants her to cry it out but it hurts to see her cry. Now that she’s a toddler she cries a lot because she’s always falling and bumping everywhere lol but I still tell her “ it’s okay mommy’s here”. My baby daddy being like that makes me not want more kids even though I do want more 😔
Se vuelve más divertido cuando cumplen 2,3 y 14 😅😅 todo tiene recompensa chicos 🥰🥰
Happy Friday😊!!! I love y’all ♥️
Having a baby is so difficult I understand you guys so much my baby is 6 months and I finally feel at ease. The first couple months are so hard. Tell Jonathan it gets more fun my baby is finally interacting and sitting up it’s the cutest! My boyfriend is the same always saying he can’t wait till he gets older lol and now he’s enjoying it more because he plays and laughs it’s coming! 🤍
I love yall!!❤️❤️❤️ bright an early ready to hear yall out. Im here for it 💯👏
love ya more❤️
Blanca talking about her support system made me cry I wish I had that you’re so blessed not that my husband didn’t want to help but he had to work and it was just me and my baby and when I had my second it was just us 3 trying to survive lol but what you have is so beautiful cherish it and appreciate it god bless ❤️
Sorry to break it to you guys but this is the easy stage it seems hard because it’s the first but this is the easy part right here.
You’re glowing miss girl!!! ✨💕
Both of my babies were preemies and in the NICU they got them used to the pacifier. I personally have no problem with using it because its soothing to them. With my eldest it was super easy to take it away. All it took was a "no more paci" and that was it. she understood and we had no problems. I think it may be due to personality like Jonathan says. My eldest has always had the most easy going personality. I do think they are born with their personality and although they may change and we can teach right from wrong... they do have their personalities from day 1. and about the "cry it out" method i have never practiced it and i don't have any problems with them sleeping through the night. my little one has been sleeping through the night since she was 1 month old. I got lucky i guess lol. I guess my advice to you is just do what feels best for you and your babies. Do what works best for your family and gives you more sanity. I was given tonsa unsolicited advice and i tried some of it and not everything works for all babies. I would also get the "la vas enbrazilar sermon" and i didnt care i thought the same as you she will grow and once she starts not walking CRAWLING she will no longer want my arms so i soak it all in. gimme all the cuddles. Just follow your gut nobody will know baby best than momma and dadda. You guys are doing great.
i feel like there’s a big difference between being an introvert and being rude to people, also some kids have “sangre pesada” and just naturally bug lol
so about the babies personalities I think kids come out like their parents so also think about how you are yourself cause I feel like me and my sister came out like my mom & my brothers came out like their dad so I feel like it has to do with how parents are but not fully !
Ok I had to just drop real quick after Blanca started expressing her butterfly feelings and just say “awwww” 🤧☺️🥺 you guys are so cute!! Que viva el amorrsss !! ✨✨🙏✨✨bendiciones to you guys, always 🙌
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Babies are definitely born with their character. My 2 year old was born dec 2019 he didn’t really socialize (because of covid) until he was 1 and a half. He is the biggest extrovert now. Says hi to everyone and loves being outside of the house. My 6 year old.. we started going out with her when she was 2 weeks old, literally every weekend we would go out since then. Now … She loves being home and she’s very shy. Kids are born how they are. As parents we have to learn who they are and what they like and don’t like to protect them. There are things my daughter doesn’t like but I do like but out of respect for her I have to respect that because I know what makes her feel comfortable. We don’t want to makes our kids uncomfortable because that’s when trauma takes place and we don’t want to go there.
My advice is to get the baby use to noise bcuz then it’s always gonna be like this nobody can make a noise bcuz the baby will wake up having a Mexican mom like urs she should know about that I had all my kids get use to noise so when they would go to sleep I wouldn’t be stressed out trying to shut everybody up. My daughter did the opposite and it’s so many of us living in the same house that it’s impossible for it to be quiet so she had to get him use to noise at the end
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You do what you feel is right. Mi hija ya tenia como 9 meses and if we were in a family event, I would still put her to sleep by carrying her. Your son will only be a baby once & trust me que vas a extrañar todos estos momentos bonitos, embrace it. You both are doing amazing!
I mean you want them to be friendly have them around people because my kids I see them and they are friendly to everyone and somewhat respectful but like my aunt that she never goes and visits no one when we get to see them they are sooo shy that they don’t even say hi… so yeah I could say that y’all can twist that and make them be out there
I’m also a first time mom and I feel like they’re born with their attitude but how they act depends on the parent. My baby got so used to me always being with him and never leaving him and now he’s 14 months and I can’t leave him anywhere with anyone because he’s scared in a way it’s like he feels safe with me because I never leave him. Idk if that answers your question Jonathan lol
I agree with everything Blanca is saying !! They are just baby’s or little kids !! Thank fully my two kids have been good sleepers maybe bcuz I was for them on demand !!
Honestly it depends on many factors. It can be from the attachment that the baby had from the day they were born. Then it can be from their environment and the people that he is around, or how exposed he is to other individuals. Also, due to their DNA they already have their own personality, but you can help guide them into growing up 💗 Blanca you’re also doing good because the baby will have that secure attachment with you. By picking him up when he is crying, then he will know that he can trust you, and you will always be there for him. There are also many studies that show that babies that have that secure attachment from newborn stage they grow up to being sociable with other people!
Best couple parents, even though it’s your first baby you guys are so mature about it. Every day is something new so definitely like Blanca said take it day by day! ❤️
I just use pressure points lmao 🤣😂😅 that made my day Happy Friday Guys follow you on the gram & im subscribed 💌 missed the podcast last week glad ur back
Hey guys! I am so happy to hear the podcast again! ☺️ Jonathan reminds me so much of my boyfriend lol my boyfriend is also from Durango and he thinks the same about letting them cry para que aprendan but kids honestly bring out our personalities lol. Some kids can act the same way as their mom or dad and honestly it’s just about correcting them when they are doing something wrong and telling them why is it wrong. I have my daughter and she has a mixed of me and my boyfriend’s personality and we both get mad sometimes cause she acts like us and we just correct her when it’s needed you know. But the answer to Jonathan is kids are not born with their personality in my opinion. When kids grow up they see how you act or how their dad acts and they start getting it from there. You know what I mean. Like they see from both sides and that’s how they start growing their personality themselves. It’s not bad though because we as parents can always correct them but not change their ways of being! ❤️ love you guys and hope to see your guys first date vlog soon! ☺️
Blanca you guys need to put the white noise when the baby sleeps! It blocks out all the noise for them and they sleep so magical lol
White noise is supposedly what babies hear in the womb! Did it with my daughter and she sleeps so good!!
Ready for this lol came to the restroom as usual cs I’m at work lol 😂
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hahaha have a good day at work ❤️