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you are one of the best video vloggers out there... period... informative, straightforward, entertaining, and consistently excellent.. Here's to many more years, and several hundred thousand more followers...!! thank you for the work, the information, the tips, tricks, pitfalls, advantages and honesty..
Glad you’re feeling better Pea. I know you’ve done a previous video on where it’s safe for Americans and where it’s not safe. I’ve met a really nice lady that I’ve been talking to on a dating site and told her that I want to come visit around the Christmas/New Year’s holidays but the city is as she said not a safe place for me to be but she would come visit me in Manila or Cebu. Could you do like an updated video on travel advisories for the Philippines. Thank You Pea.
Pea you are truly heaven sent thank you so much for all that you are doing UA-cam and the Philippines do need to pay you a great deal for the amount of work you are putting in. Out of all the people from the Philippines providing information I tell my friends only about you no one else gets straight to the point and provide that fact like you and sunshine shoulders
I was stressed out, single and overworked in California. I moved to the Philippines. Now I am relaxed, happy and married. Costs are low, I can finally relax and I eat like a king. I finally have the life I wanted all along. My mind and body were a wreck. The Philippines gave me my health back.
Brother, You literally described me. Im drowned in depression. But fighting hard to escape California and finally live the life I always wanted. Your comment gave me so much hope! 🎉
As a filipino man, this is all I want for filipinas. Getting more and more attention that they deserve. There is nothing in this world like a filipina girl.
As a pinoy myself, I feel sorry for the local pinoys. Waves & waves of westerners will be arriving to snag cream of the crop filipinas. The ratio of pinoy/ pinay will become very imbalance. You men will soon need to think outside the box. Think ukraine/ Russia. Think of all the male soldiers that will perish, and all the females they will have left behind. Wild....I know...
@Chris Kurisu Totally wrong. There's beautiful women in every race. However, HOT WHITE American chicks Still the best. Hands down. You know it. I know it. And every straight guys with an average IQ knows it. You survey 10 guys from different countries and you'll see what I mean.
My previous relationship in 2020 was a train wreck. I did everything in my power to make my woman happy and desired both children and marriage. I was willing to give it all, but she purposefully acted spiteful, negligent, and even asked me why I’m so happy all the time in a disgusted tone during the early stages of our relationship. Since then, I’ve become aware of how women in America see me. I see that my love, dedication, and willingness to work is not desired nor appreciated here. I just applied for my passport today.
You dodged a Bullet my friend , Get the passport and go where Men are still wanted. We are just free labor and money supplier for western women. Thank God you didnt have a child with a western woman...your life would be over
I didn't lose my savings to divorce (was never married). Instead, the broken medical system we have in the States ended up costing me over $425,000 after a ten-week hospital stay. The woman who I was dating at the time dropped the keys of my house onto my hospital bed LITERALLY TWO MINUTES after being brought back from amputation surgery saying "I didn't sign up for this, to take care of a worthless cripple the rest of my life." Compared to now living in the Philippines, where my medical bills have been at the same OR LESS than what I'd pay WITH MEDICARE INSURANCE!!! My medicines are lower, I'm no longer on blood pressure or cholesterol medication and I've lost over 60 pounds from eating REAL FOOD and not the crap only those on fixed incomes can afford in the States. All that is enough to make moving to the Philippines the right decision. But then there is my love, my Angel. A woman who constantly reminds me to take my medicine and eyedrops (for glaucoma) to the point it's a little aggravating. But I'll take that aggravation and be with someone who truly loves and cares about me than the entitled, evil worthless piece of human existance who left me in that hospital room. And I'm just one story. Men are done with what Western women have turned into in the last 30 years.
Dude, your western gf sounds like a real selfish pig. She told you just what she was when the chips were down. Glad she bailed on you so you could move on. Chin up.
Yeah ..... I have MS and my wife left with the words, "I don't want to waste my life looking after you." .... and I had just stumbled walking FFS, although MS also sucks the core out of you .... would love to move to the Philippines but heat turns me into a cripple ..... so, mate, I am jealous you made it, and it does not surprise me you found the right woman ...... : )
I agree, I lost 100,000 in cash from a divorce and 87% of all my assets. No adultery, no abuse. Just being a male in Missouri. Ex convinced the judge that she was unable to work but had an amazing recovery 6 months after the divorce and she is now working as a nurse again. For over ten years I tried to get her to work and help me build our dream but it was all left to me to provide her with her great life. Fortunately I made well over 6 figures but I had to work myself to death to do this. 12-14 hours a day 6 days a week for around 8 years. So not only is she working now but she is getting part of my retirement pension until some other sucker comes along and marries this narcissist. Then my pension payout will finally end. Woman love to say where are all the nice guys, some other American woman has already destroyed him, and like me he will NEVER look at another AMERICAN woman again. So that’s why I’ll take my pension which is still substantial and move to the Philippines in March 23 ‘ I will never return the the US and it’s backwards anti-men ways
If they don't pay you.... The Philippines should at least Honor you somehow for all the work you do in positively promoting and country and advertising the culture to tourist all over the World. I think you've single handily elevated the Philippine Culture to one of the MOST DESIRED by single men all over the World 🏆
Only if you have a big pension if you are from the UK forget it as they expect you to keep there extended family so it is out of the question for a uk retirey
Don't make the mistake of thinking that the Filipina Pea is just another pretty face. She is intelligent, skilled at managing her business, well acquainted with the issues that she discusses and a deep thinker. These videos are masterpieces of culture interaction. Even if you do not plan on visiting the Philippines, you will learn much from her.
Pea When I tell guys in the US including my brothers that I have a Filipina girlfriend, they understand and are supportive. On the other hand, when I tell American women I have a Filipina girlfriend, I am told I am desperate, perverted, and want a slave with no mind of their own. Pea thanks for the support and understanding of us Western men. Much love Jairus
Anyone who says this about Filipina doesn't know many of them, or have not experienced one in close proximity. Filipina are among the strongest women on the planet at the same time they are soft and feminine towards those they love.
Next time an American woman says that, simply counter with, "Oh, so you think that Filipinas are nothing but mindless slaves with no free will or understanding of their own? Kinda racist, don't you think?" Then watch their faces freeze like a deer in the headlights.
This woman is the real deal - she understands nuance, social dynamics, and geographical trends and eco-systems beyond her own country. Smart, articulate, beautiful, and witty. Western women have a thing or two to learn
You're one of the most interesting reporters and storytellers I've ever heard or seen. Your use of the English language, especially with your ability to throw in excellent puns with perfect timing and precision, is unmatched. It's so easy to get drawn in whenever you're speaking. It's truly a gift. Glad you're feeling better!
Well thanks for that! I wish I could say it was a gift, but it’s really nothing more than hard word and hours of polishing every sentence. I even made a video about how I do it - ua-cam.com/video/SWHR1a5W9PI/v-deo.html
Aaaaaaand, SHE'S BACK! Gentlemen, making her first appearance since the sounds of continuous flushing, it's The Filipina Pea! YAAAAYYYYYYY!!!!! We are glad you seem to be so much better, and once again, thank you for reminding Western men we are truly worth the wait and the work. 🌹
I'm a male Filipino and approve her message. Don't worry guys, there are plenty of Filipinas in the PH left for me to marry one. The one I'm after, she is a doctor to match my medical career background.
I am 66 years old and have been married 35 years to my Thai wife and living in the U.S. We are now in Thailand for a 3 month vacation. She is so happy spending time with all her childhood friends. The Thai people are so friendly and always give you a smile when you give them a head nod or a good morning or a sawasdee kahp. Southeast Asian women are the best.
My Filipino family treats me more like family than my blood family. I think there are some stereotypes about Filipinas that are blown up, like they are shy. More like afraid to hurt your feelings at first or do something that will cause you not to want her. I showed up to stay with my Papa and Mama for a month and her father looked at me and he was like, "You treat my baby good. I be your father." I shook his hand. "You no love her you bring her home," and that was about the extent of what he had to say....until 150-300 family members showed up by night and the party started going. I was then put the middle of a circle and I heard every brother, sister, ante, uncle, cousin, friend, coworkers and maybe even the high school ex-boyfriend's expectations for her and me and they literally voted me into the family and my wife was so happy. She said that was how they used to conduct marriages before Spanish came and her family had never stopped doing it and she wasn't sure that the whole family would have accepted me. I was like what would you do it they didn't? She was like, Oh we still got Catholic Marriage to go, stupid boy, and just keep papa and mama happy and my happiness is their happiness.
@@warrick7689 My father in law is 78 and owns every room he walks into. Man is a straight Alpha-Sigma. The man was just break dancing at his age. I wish he was confortable with uploading his video image to UA-cam or Tic TOk. I love him and he works with me on my Bisayan because he doesn't want anyone to take advantage of me. But that night I was so scared and so drunk. Every male had me drinking with them and I couldn't reject because I didn't want to offend anyone toasting my engagement by saying no. That coconut wine is weak, but it starts kicking your ass after a half gallon or so. I think at one point I was drinking coconuts full of something like a beer stands. Then you get so drunk that you don't care what you're eating. It really helps if you don't like seafood, which I don't.
I have to offer a formal and humbe thanks to Pea for being one of the key influencers leading me to my decision to start a new life in the Philippines. I spent a year talking to my current filipina wife prior to coming here in Feb 2022 when the country finally opened up. My wife and I were married online already, and she got pregnant the first month I was here. We just had our baby and I'm happier now than ever in my life (and that includes the two prior marriages to American women who loved my money, not me). Neither could give me a child. Long story why I stayed with the second wife for 20 years even though she lied about being able to have a child. In brief, I find the Philippines very much like what I believe America was like in the 1940's and 50's. My wife's description of her ideal life matches what my Mom described about the life she originally sought with my Dad back in the 1940's. Keep in mind that my Mom grew up during the Great Depression on a farm in rural Virginia. She was used to eating only what they could grow or my grandfather could hunt. They had no refrigeration. Only an outhouse. My current wife grew up the same way in the province here. Both my Mom and my current wife said (at different times decades apart) that all they wanted was a man who would love them with all their heart and simply put a roof over their head and food on the table. My filipina wife calls it living a "simple life". She is adorable. She is more kind, loving, passionate, funny and caring than I could ever have imagined. Now, with my new son, I'm so happy I can't imagine life if I had stayed in the U.S. casually dating American women in their 40's and 50's who were only looking for their last meal ticket. Gio, Pea and a couple others started me seriously thinking about this new life and I will be forever grateful for the wonderful advice. This video is, again, steering any of you guys still back in the U.S. in the right direction. Try dateinasia.com. It's free and that's where I found my wife. Just remember...if they ask for money, shut it down. It's either a scam or the wrong woman. In the full year I talked to my filipina wife today, she never asked me for a single dime. I later found out she was hiding how impoverished she was. I figured it out along the way and volunteered to send her money. She accepted a few gifts along the way, but never then turned around and asked for more. She has too much pride and self worth, which is (I think) either in short supply here or the women can be so desparate that they will semi-scam you. Even the seemingly good ones. You have to avoid those women and keep looking till you find someone with a genuine honesty, integrity and self respect. That was the reason we kept talking and the key to the relationship we developed over a year talking twice a day for hours on video phone. I think I knew her better by the time we got married online than I knew either of my prior two American wives. She was honest and open with me as time went by and she got over her initial shyness. I will never regret making this move. And now, since I'm here and I want to provide abundance for my new son, I'm even starting a couple online businesses. It's the most exciting time in my life even though I will say that I lived pretty well during the first 66 years of my life. I'm loving every minute here, and I still love the Pea. If It had not been for meeting my beautiful wife, I'd have definitely tried to reach out to her for more than just videos. But I found my amazing, magical, perfect love of my life on DateinAsia and I'm just so totally happy it's almost hard to believe. Just do it guys. You won't regret taking a chance to be happier than you have ever been in your life. What have you got to lose? A few months of your life? Come on. Take the shot. Don't be among the 95% of American men who "talk" about coming over here but never have the guts to make the move. I built my successful advertising career in the states by embracing change and growth. Do the same at this point in your life and explore the remote possibility that you just might find happiness that exceeds your wildest expectations.
Damn, I'm happy for you! But marrying online was bold. Curious, how does that work? And how does it work to move there, are you legally allowed to own a house (since you're a foreigner), or is it written on your wife?
@@Tanax13 We can own the house but only lease the land in our name, we cannot own land in our name. We lose a lot of rights living as foreigners in Philippines. Something to keep in mind. We have essentially no legal rights in Philippines.
Wow Pea! The way you relate to us is quite exceptional. You hit it on the nail with Japanese, Chinese, Korean and etc. I've always said "go where you're treated best" I'm seriously considering going to The Phillipines. I feel that you are a true asset to us western men. Thanks again and much appreciated.
Thank you Pea. I really enjoy your videos and your smile always makes me smile. You are a wonderful woman, smart, gorgeous, witty, kind. I hope you are finding the perfect guy for you. You are incredible in every way. Hopefully I can take you for a sail when I finally sail my boat across the Pacific. Keep up the great work Pea and thank you again for your many insights. Love them all. Cheers
I swore off marriage as a 35 year old New Yorker because it never seemed worth the risk. This is my third video by Pea and I'm seriously about to get on a flight to the Philippines.
Things are so bad in the states I believed all this time I was ok with not having kids. The more I watch these videos I do want a family. A woman who Will genuinely love me. I lied to myself and now have a complete different outlook on life. I don’t even pay attention to women here knowing what awaits me in the Philippines.
Hi. I was 44 years old, never married and thought the same thing you did Bill. One of my co workers introduced me to a Philippina. 13yrs and 4 kids later....... I'm the luckiest man alive.
Been happily married to a Filipina for 5 years now, keep this up Pea save our human race by promoting good healthy and happy relationships for the men and women who still want them. P.S. I hope your feeling better.
The more I watch these videos, the more I slowly progress into being part of the #passportbros . It honestly makes me very happy thinking that there is indeed a chance of being with someone who values traditional and family values rather than how unfortunately most women have been (quite cold) in the west. I'm still in my early 20's, but I have a feeling to start something with someone but it's difficult (especially in the U.S) with how some women think of themselves. One day when I have stabilized myself further, I'd definitely like to spend some time in the Philippines to see what happens.
The reason the Philippines is a better choice is because of it commonwealth of Americans for nearly 50 years and it close relationship with the American government The culture is advanced in terms of western standards in English and education. No doubt it be a interesting country to travel
3 big reasons I plan to move to the Philippines from California. The greed of the US government and companies, the people here are cruel, and most of all my Fiancé. After going to the Philippines and seeing the development I realize how America is just in a major decline. being in my late 20's I am so happy I opened my eyes early in life. You really helped me understand the culture before I went there last month, thank you so much for these videos.
Your narrative was so true! My ex is Japanese and you are 100% correct. Lived there 3 years, married over 35 and wiped out by her and her green card. Have rebuilt, still building my cash and investment base to establish myself very comfortably on a planned budget of $2000. Good job.
Hey live goes on or you just quit. But I do enjoy the smiles and good feelings your videos give me. Oh my Christmas sponsoring at the old ladies home went well. That was inspired by you Pea. Was by Manila, hope to maybe do one with you when I visit. It made my Christmas nice. You inspire and help many Pea.
I'm lucky enough to have a great marriage but, were I single, I would not hesitate to consider moving to the Philippines. We live in an area where there are lots of Filipino families and the values and attitudes all of those we've known embody are admirable. I've never seen any community friendlier, harder working or more family oriented.
IKR? I’ve spent half my life with the same woman and I’m “only” 60, LOL. I already know, if I ever find myself single (and still healthy) out here, I’ll flex that passport like Schwarzenegger…!
In my entire life, I've never had trouble finding a date, or getting into relationships, but after a failed marriage, and dealing with terrible and entitled attitudes of Western women, I decided to live in Bogota, Colombia. I lived with a women there that I thought would be good, but she was just as bad as the worst women I dated in America. I finally went to the Philippines and found a great traditional woman. We married 5 years ago, and I've never been happier. The difference between her and the dozens of women I dated or had relationships with is like night and day! I also have 2 friends that married Philippine women several years ago, and they are also very happy. You just have to avoid the big city girls in the Philippines and be cautious of women you meet. My wife is from a small town and only dated 2 other men in her life. She is also very traditional. I only wish I had made this decision years earlier in my life and spared myself the grief of all the bad relationship, entitled women, and drama!
That’s music to my ears. I was divorced recently and did a couple dates, I had not dated it 15 years. Found out quickly that I needed to look elsewhere.
Holy cow, she described exactly what happened to me. After 25 years of marriage and putting her and the kids through college and buying her a house and paying it off, she handed me divorce papers. She ended up getting the house and most of the $$ that we had, leaving me pretty high and dry. Oh, and by the way, the job of your divorce attorney, being a man, is for him/her to convinced you how legal it is for me to get completely screwed.
Serious question, if kids are already adults.. do you guys just split everything 50 50 or the woman still gets more? I mean, with no kids depending on you I’d think it should at least be equal
Depending on ones perspective I got lucky. About halfway through my marriage, she discovered pills, then added weed, and then right at the end meth and coke. I got the kids, she got several felony charges, a jail cell, and a paper trail of evidence of her character. Of course thanks to her adding meth into the mix the retainer for the attorney was $5000.
In the west, relationships are a competition between two parties rather than a partnership. Women in the west don't want to build a life together, they wait at the finish line for the winner! Sad but true! Hope your feeling better Pea!x
I mostly agree with you but I thinks it’s more of a competition between men and the women pick the one who has more. Hypergamy is very real in America. I’d rather be somewhere that the women compete for and appreciate men.
Women want to compete with their husbands/boyfriends. Men just want peace and quiet and a supportive partner. It has become fundamentally incompatible. Western women have become irrationally, pathologically unhappy with their relationships despite having highest standards of living and the most opportunities in the entire world.
You wrong, you most men just want to screw women and not live together or marry them, do not generalize, I am not a born in the USA. You all are very convenient. You all grow old and stinky and then you all run for young meat.
Exactly how I felt 6 years ago when I took the plunge to visit your country. I’m 64 now with a 54 year old girlfriend and couldn’t be happier. 5 years into this relationship now.
The West has normalized social disfunction to such a degree that I can only see it getting worse. Lucky for me, I'm only a 6 hour layover and a 3 hour flight away from my first visit to the Philippines. Can't wait to have lechon for lunch tomorrow, and it all started with Pea's videos. Thanks Pea!
i am going to get a six pack of red horse and a lawn chair and sit back and watch the west burn itself to the ground. because it is going to come down. the foundation has been compromised by woke culture and feminism among other things! my wife and i bought a house in the philippines in 2010 and now that the kids are grown we are living here most of the time!
Things really had gotten WORSE. This is due to JACKASS joe Biden and the SCUM democRATS. RATS RATS RATS ABSOLUTE criminal FoCKTARD administration in Broad daylight
My issues with the west isn’t about feeling invisible or romance issues. Mine is I feel like everybody knows I am a veteran of two wars, and I feel like everybody handles me with cotton gloves because of this. And in some cases younger people feel that I should be arrested for this . before I left and visited the Philippines several years ago I had found myself actually becoming a hermit in the United States. it wasn’t until I took my first trip to the Philippines that I realized I wasn’t damaged goods. I’ve been going back periodically for years, I guess you could say it’s my form of treatment.
Pea: I hope you are feeling better than you were on Tuesday. Another slam dunk video Miss Pea! I love how you explain the reasoning behind men shopping elsewhere for potential happiness in a way that most women would understand it, as SHOPPING. What some of these women don't realize is that, it's not that we CAN'T find a woman in the west, there is just a better deal elsewhere. AND WHO DOESN"T LOVE A BARGAIN? It's like if they saw a pair of shoes they wanted in one store and told their friend about them, but their friend mentioned that the same brand and color was at a different store for 20% less, where would they go? They would be walking into the store their friend mentioned and coming out with a maxed out credit card , and a closet full of shoes that would take ten years to wear them all out. But to them it is sacrilege to even think of the concept for men to do the same for their happiness. This double edge sword that these women wield has no handle, nothing to actually get a grip on, and they wield it without thinking about how much it cuts them for the damage they try to do to men's egos and reputations. But the only one's actually getting cut by the blade of their accusations is the one wielding the sword. They are the ones being left alone, as they make us men think they want to be. I told my friends and family over 30 years ago that if finding a real loving partner meant I had to move to the moon, then I'd move to the moon. You have to go where the best possible outcome will be for each individual. But personally I really want to hit the Philippines mainly because of the weather, this biting cold winter stuff has really gotten old over the last so many years, I'm done with it, I want summer temps all year round.
Keep up the always original videos!! I got my forever wife, so I am good...After working Nuclear and traveling the country seeing the same guys at different plants for years a theme for some was constant.. That was those who had married Filipino ladies.. They were happy, and treated like men. And with over 20 guys I knew married to a Filipinos over the years only 1 ever got divorced.With 55% of American marriages ending in divorce here the math is 5% and much better odds. I have said many times ,If there was NO visa process American women would have MUCH to worry about..As far as thinking they are weak submissive ladies, well that view if from people who know nothing about the Filipino Wife/Woman..After my first visit I told the wife I could not live away from the kids , second visit was 21 days and in a neighborhood I fell in love with the People .. After a 3rd visit and there to pick my wife up to come here to the USA I knew where my retirement would end up. So for those naysayers its simply they have never been there, or experienced a strong, determined, EXTREMELY Conservative female that will NOT waste a dime or even a scrap of food.. She is not perfect as I am not by a long shot... When your 16 year old son looks at you and states "Dad, Michelle is the best thing to EVER happen to us". From the mouths of Babes..(FYI to all you single dads,, she puts my kids absolutly FIRST, cleans the beds , fixes clothing and makes sure they are well provided for and she works a full time job and over time,,,
@@TheFilipinaPea she works,always is where she should be,messages me constantly and is never mysteriously late,and her paychecks always matches her overtime,,so yep its all good..
My fillipina GF has told me some amazing stories of her life growing up in the province, it really opens your eyes to what people in the west take for granted. But despite those challenges Filipinos are always happy, welcoming, respectful, humble and generous. Certainly a place i wish to retire.
Yep, even kids, if they knew how much good things they have in life compared to others…yet you see people at the other side of the world..not having much but still smiling.😊
I am happy seeing you better again. A tropical paradise for retirement sounds good at the moment. Rain, snow, then rain again and all in darkness is what we have in south of Sweden right now. At least we got one day of proper snow to slide down the hill. That is fun. I only have one medical problem and that that is cold asthma that is basically not a problem over 8 deg C. How nice it would be to live in the Filipins at least half the year.
The way USA has been for several years, the stress levels are very high to live a happy life. Not everyone comes to the Philippines because it's cheaper or easier to find love. Simply being, it's an adventure in a less stressful surrounding where you can actually think better, thus, having a clear mind to think about what you want to do in life. The Philippines to me, is a better life because I don't worry about much here. I don't have to be crippled in life worrying if I can afford next month's rent, nor do I feel compelled to do anything I don't want to do. Life here is simple once you get past the initial culture shock of living like a filipino and I don't worry about my neighbors having a meth house or feel threatened that someone may go off and start shooting up a school or mall. I can afford to live anywhere in the world, but I chose the Philippines because of the people who are more family oriented than I've seen anywhere. That doesn't mean to imply other countries don't have similar qualities, just that filipinos seem more accepting.
I experienced the genuine friendliness of the Philippines on my holiday last month, felt at ease wandering about. Looking forward to trying a few more islands in the future as a holiday again, so looks like you'll be getting some more kickbacks from that 😂
This Peanut made investigatory trip to Cebu in October, found the situation very livable and better, happy. Also received the comments as described after my return, from people who have not taken the trip. On my way to Colombia or Thailand for a comparison, then relocation. Two observations: Big advantage to arrive without any distracting relationship which might have interfered with my evaluation of economics, medical care and culture, so no online commitment, easy to meet people after my arrival. Second, having even a few sentences of Cebuano ready ("Dili, salamat" - equivalent of No, thanks - to airport salespeople trying to discourage me from using my Grab ride) proved helpful. Much appreciated, Pea!
Im a white guy. For decades single men in my family and circle of friends have been fully aware of the opportunities for romance and possible marriage single and available women from overseas represents. Some of these single men, who were overlooked and lived alone also took "the leap", in spite of some stigma, on top of geographical, cultural and language-barriers. I can understand why some people, even in our modern day are daunted by the prospect. What is really happening? When men and women on opposite sides of the planet are unable to find what they need and want from people of the opposite sex that lives next door to them, work in the same places, people we grew up with, went to school with, and who share the same culture, values (usually) and racial caracteristics. I mean - this was never a problem for generations upon generations of our foremothers and forefathers. They all walked 150 meters outside their parents homes and found suitble partners. In Europe, in Asia, in America, in Australia. So why are we modern peopleincreasably incapable of pulling it off? We have to expand our search globally for the existencial pursuit of happiness. On one hand its a defeat, a setback, and a very complicating factor. On the other hand its liberating and breaks the chains of conformity which formed the lives of generations past. One of the groups of men on the planet who has suffered the most and been treated very unfairly, is by no doubt the Passport Kings. I wish them all happiness and joy in the endavours they have chosen to take. Cause one thing is certain - if they dont do it, what willl then change? The answer is - nothing! And I think the thought of that alone haunts these men more than any challenges they might have to deal with. The status quo misery back home, is simply not an option anymore... I guess a lot of foreign women feel the same way in their own countries, or they would not have been seeking the companionship from western men in the first place. Good luck to you all!
Western women are very bitter when men who have options, or choose not to play the game. The Bachelor Show has raised western women unrealistic exceptions about males economy. I have freedom when I retire, I may renew my passport early.
I had a passport since the 80s (military brat) but renewed it in 2015 because I want to see the world again. Meeting my current fiancée was not my plan, but it happened. The Pandemic kept us physically apart, but we grew emotionally closer. She just happened to be my longest relationship ever.
Probably one of your best videos so far. I’ve watched most of your archives and would say this is a very spot on candid accurate summary. I really like the story you told because I can understand it and relate in many way. I applaud your effort in keeping the communication simple, direct and to the point with a dash of humor at the end. The one concern I have and it might not be accurate considering that I’ve never visited your hometown, but plan to is the internet connection. Based on the stories you’ve shared of working from home, well if this is true than having access to a fast Wi-Fi speed would be a requirement. Vacationing is one thing, but relocating to get married is another, so naturally it will make sense to visit first. However you’re probably right since I would imagine most of the cons are outweighed by the pros, yet time will tell. Speaking of time I wish I could go back in time to have met you when you were single to court you or use science to clone you! 😮😅😂. Either way I’m sure you get messages all the time telling you how beautiful you are or how amazing your long hair is which it is by the way. However if you are single my goodness you check every box American guys are looking for because you have greatness within you with an amazing personality. Keep up the good work and someday I’ll visit, time to apply for a passport! Love your channel, keep hustling and grinding, and I’ll keep watching, liking and subscribing. ❤
You said Filipinos are generally friendly and kind, but I would also add respectful. The Filipino women I've run into in my city have caught my attention because the majority have been friendly, kind, but also respectful. I'm already married but I've definitely noticed these things.
I’m too young as of now, just got back at college at 26. But I’m going to finish my degree in accounting,build myself up. The wait is going to be hard but it’ll be worth it once I establish myself and look in the Philippines Men who can do it now, go for it. These women here in the United States will never change
After living in the Philippines and then having to return to the USA for personal reasons, I can say the Filipina, the Filipina Pea, is right on target and accurate. I miss the Philippines very much and as soon as possible I intend to return. Thank you Filipina Pea for this and all your videos. Salamat Po!!
FilipinaPea is amazing. She knows everything from high property taxes in California to the challenges of dating in Japan. I love play-on words, "she won't do the laundry, but when it comes to money, she'll take you to the cleaners."
Glad to see that you are feeling better, Pea. People tend to believe bad about others if their own heart is bad. As far as you making money from tourism. That would be a sweet gig. I wish the government would do that. Be blessed, precious Pea.
This is an incredibly well thought out video. Anyone i've told my plan to go to the PH has reacted exactly how you've described in this video. I'm 50 years old and relatively wealthy, most people guess me at 35-40 years old. I can still date beautiful American women and my last girlfriend here was 29. The point of that though is that i've broken up with every single one because they were shallow and vapid or lacking in morals and I want more and didn't want to keep wasting my time on that empty type of relationship. But EVERYONE i've told my plan to gives me this look........the mentality of Americans at this point in my life is one I can barely relate to honestly so I'm truely looking forward to retiring to the PH and honestly think I might make the move this year.
Try it, at the very least stay a while even just for a vacation. Anything else would just be a bonus. If nothing happened at least you got to visit beautiful beaches and such
Take it from someone who knows better, you are making an excellent decision, I have been to the Philippines and I have dated women there. It's amazing! I am getting ready to retire at 56, and I plan to go back very soon. It doesn't hurt that your money will go about 2x as far (or more) than it will in the US.
The best all-rounder you have done so far, especially with Rolo Tomassi speaking well of the Philippines . So when are you going to announce your new business project - Geomaxair? 😄
I have been involved with the Philippines for the last 22 years. Wow time has flown. But I am now retired here and living a very happy and comfortable life. I see comments about the living standards and many think they are less. It's about choices and of course your budget. But with a reasonable budget you can have a nice home in a nice area with western standard of living. There is many areas that provide a high standard of living and amenities. If your wanting a positive life change the Philippines certainly can provide that. Just celebrated my 16th anniversary. Pea - Maryann, your a winner.
What area you in... What type of place to you rent and how much you paying... If you don't mind answering... I'm in Thailand now... What to go but I'm dragging my feet a bit due to concerns about difficulty in finding appropriate accommodation. *Crap Game*
This video was for me I believe. Losing everything after 11 years and now almost 5 recovering…. But watching all of Pea’s videos help keep me going to know one day I’ll be able to save enough and find my Filipina ❤ I’m just ready for a better life . Also ……Glad to see you Better Up and Well 🎉😁
Ive been to the Phills many times and what she says is accurate. I still have women friends from there that contact me for my birthday and Christmas and times like that. Of course not every single woman there is genuine but the vast majority are, Dont spend a lot of time in Manila as its like most big cities. Go to the provinces and meet the locals or wait and they will come and meet you. Just be kind and respectful and what you get back is warmth and passion. I wish I was there right now.
I am 48 and have been married to my Philippine wife for 5 years and I can say that it is the best decision I have made in my life. My wife is an amazing woman and we have built a good life together. She is warm, caring, funny, a great homemaker and mother. We will retire in about 10 years and go to the Philippines if all goes to plan and live a life of adventure. Unfortunately, for now, I have to keep working and stacking up funds to make sure we can enjoy our next stage of life.
You are probably the best blogger on this type of content. Genuinely helpful and funny. I'd love to know where and how you developed your English language skills... Understanding innuendo, metaphor and colloquialisms like you do is not just good English... It's accomplished and very sophisticated. I've lived in between Phils and UK for 27 years, so I have a good idea of this. I'm also married to a Filipina for the same period. Your content is excellent, Pea. So anyone thinking of getting this info from anywhere else... Forget it. You won't get better than FP. 😊
I've talked with several people about moving there and I always get the question of why. After I explain that the cost of living difference and the dating options they all say sounds like a good idea.
As an African American young male I can honestly say the Philippines is the only place where I have felt respected as a ♂️ I'm adopting four kids and had my first biological in 2019 hoping to get married next year
Nice to see a young black brother killing it I’m young myself plan on ditching the states once I can get some kind of remote job and become a digital nomad
I dated a Filipina who was here on a visa honestly my best girlfriend ever.We lived together for about a year It didnt work out in the end our personalities clashed but she showed me much of her culture and I do love what I learned and I would definitely recommend and would honestly prefer to date another. We still ended on good terms and I hold nothing against her personally.
Good background choice today for people who enjoy nature. The butterflies in your video are quite common in South Florida at different times of the year. With our warm temperatures some are here right now while many go to Mexico for the winter.
I'm an expat currently living here on a tourist visa. There are definitely adjustments to be made, but all in all I've found them to be worth it. The latest bout with ridiculous unintended consequences is the rules for the registration of sim cards for those on tourist visas. Those on tourist visas will be required to register their sim cards every 30 days even though they have a 60 day extension on their visa. The rules state that to register their sim card, they have to be able to show an exit airline ticket every time they re-register their sim card. Absolute nonsense. No foresight whatever in drafting this legislation. So, buyer beware. Do not expect any logical thought process in how things are done here. Expect rules and regulations to make no sense at all.
@@TheFilipinaPea As a long time subscriber I must say this is a great refresher video Pea. As far as the research you are doing on the sim cards (and other topics), I’d have to say this is the reason many of us keep watching you videos. You do the work. Like a good movie, you seem to keep us on the edge of our seat. It seems that too many tubers just want us to hear them gab and ramble on about worthless trivia. Therefore I unsubscribe to them.
Wow! I had a similar experience. My ex took EVERYTHING after 6 kids grown and on their own. The family Court system is a crime syndicate; a well oiled system of injustice and corruption.
Keep strong. I made my last payment a couple of years back after my youngest daughter started work. Some really difficult times I was made redundant twice in the payment period but so glad I got through it.
Your channel has greatly increased my knowledge and understanding about the Philippines and the people who live there! I will be married very soon to a wonderful Filipina and I’m grateful to you for all the valuable information you continue to provide in such a creative and well presented manner! Your videos are so well produced and your channel is truly a blessing! Thank you Pea
I have a Filipina fiance that I am working on bringing to the U.S. so that we can marry, but I have also fallen in love with the Philippines and the Philippine people. It's true that the living conditions may leave something to be desired for westerners, but the warm weather and even warmer attitudes of the people make up for it. Thanks for all you share about a wonderful part of the world. As a Veteran I would like to say I think you were worth the sacrifice we made to liberate and protect your home from enemies.
Well said Pea. After 6 months I'm still coming to terms with how my 41yo Philippine partners attitudes vary so much from what is considered the norm here. She is loving and kind and treats me like a king, while at the same time remaining a smart well educated intellectual. I'm also amazed at how quickly she has adapted to Australian culture. If any other men are having doubts I say if you genuinely love and respect a pinay woman....even a fiesty waray woman like mine, then the rewards are enormous.
So glad to see you are feeling better...No doubt many of us have you in our prayers 🙏.. I land in Manila next week for a "better deal"..No woman involved. I love the people, the ability to dive and explore, and the food and weather. I have no intentions of returning to the U.S. and luckily all of my friends (except a few) are cheering me on and will follow along on social media. You are a great ambassador and have many reasons to be proud! Cheers, Joe
Dauin near Dumaguete has lots of Dive shops. Bohol and Malapascua in Cebu too. Tubbataha reef if you can get there is a diving paradise and a Unesco Heritage site.
Love this Video.. I really need to go back to the Philippines... My experiences were normal but great.. I love my country.. but the dynamics have changed.. See y'all soon..
Pea this video really spoke to me, what this lady said in the video is the cold hard truth. I'm a younger guy at 25 years old, but in the US I just don't really trust marriage over here. It's clears that women in the Philippines and Latin America are holding on to more traditional values. Seeing true femininity is a beautiful thing. It's just something that's gone in the west or not respected. Thanks Pea for talking about this topic 👌.
This video hits very close to home for me. As always, you are wise beyond your years and your communication of important subjects are top level. It seems every video you make gets better and better. No doubt, you've made people's lives better by your insights and wisdom. Thank you Pea!
Happy New Year Pea! A great, positive video to start the new year, especially for those of us maybe seeking new horizons. Glad to see you’re feeling better too, and back with your unique take on life 💜
I dated a Filipina for half a year. Ridiculously pretty. She was born and raise in Canada and held tight to her Filipino community, which I found endearing. There was something about the way she doted on me that made me realize that's something I really want. She was just so feminine. Every time we went out she grabbed my arm and every time I looked at her she was smiling and just loving the moment. I was in charge and she loved it. She didn't want any more children and that is the reason I couldn't pursue further. But damn, although it's been several years since then, she set my new high water mark. Anyone else have a women set a high mark? Did that factor into your decision to move to the Philippines? How so?
I appreciate the work she puts in regarding her research, presentation, and efforts. If you agree or disagree with the message, you have to admit she does a quality monologue.
Great video, very informative. I can't wait to get back to the Philippines. It's really getting bad here for everyone. Looking forward to your next video.
Philippines is a very close second to Thailand. Loved it… massages at my hotel for like $6 .. great food… Was there for 3 weeks 3 months ago. Everybody is friendly. Beautiful beaches. Won’t comment on the woman cause y’all already know
I just back 2weeks ago from a 3week stay ,meeting the woman I’ve talked to for 2yrs, before I left i asked her to marry me. She is honestly every bit of what I need in a woman and couldn’t be happier. I want to personally thank you greatly for the help and guidance your videos offer. Thank you greatly Pea
I am glad you’re feeling better! I was married for 20 years before my separation from my ex-wife. I am getting everything in place and I will be making that leap to south east Asia soon! I can’t wait because my money will last longer in the Philippines. I have learned a lot from you and others now it’s time for boots on the ground this year.
Great video once again, Pea! Lots of facts and helpful info to consider. The Passport Bros are definitely watching your content. Some of them are being attacked on Tic Tok by western women too. Very funny reaction! 😂. Once a man finds his wife in the Philippines 🇵🇭 he will never regret it. One thing I think you should talk about is the way Catholicism has effected the laws and culture of the Philippines 🇵🇭 over time. This has helped to lay a religious foundation for marriage and family. I married my wife in the Philippines years ago. Even on our marriage application filed in the provincial court our religious affiliation was listed. We were married in the Catholic Church of the Philippines locally by a priest. There is no divorce in the Philippines either. Western men should understand that if they marry and live in our beloved Philippines 🇵🇭 they can not get a divorce later. 😊
Thank you Pea! I've been wrestling with the idea for a couple of years now of coming to the Philippines. Truth is I've been in a LDR now for 8yrs this month! She's 3 hrs away and she's a 1st generation woman from El Salvador. Love is not the issue here. It's that she doesn't want to compromise on anything. And she doesn't put the relationship in 1st place on her list of priorities. I could go into detail but I won't. Bottom line is I've been following your channel for at least a year now and you've been an inspiration and have given me hope of maybe being with a woman who has traditional values. Thanks for all your effort. Randy
Happy New Year Miss Pea,. I listened very carefully to every word and phrase. I wanted to find something wrong, but you are so articulate, I will swear on a stack of bible's all your observations are completely true and correct. The best video for those men sitting on the fence. This is exactly the way it is in the Philippines. Go ahead, try 30 days and see for yourself. I'm setting course to the Philippines this year. ❤️
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you are one of the best video vloggers out there... period... informative, straightforward, entertaining, and consistently excellent.. Here's to many more years, and several hundred thousand more followers...!!
thank you for the work, the information, the tips, tricks, pitfalls, advantages and honesty..
De have any friend?
Glad you’re feeling better Pea.
I know you’ve done a previous video on where it’s safe for Americans and where it’s not safe.
I’ve met a really nice lady that I’ve been talking to on a dating site and told her that I want to come visit around the Christmas/New Year’s holidays but the city is as she said not a safe place for me to be but she would come visit me in Manila or Cebu. Could you do like an updated video on travel advisories for the Philippines. Thank You Pea.
You are very familiar with the culture in the US.
Pea you are truly heaven sent thank you so much for all that you are doing UA-cam and the Philippines do need to pay you a great deal for the amount of work you are putting in.
Out of all the people from the Philippines providing information I tell my friends only about you no one else gets straight to the point and provide that fact like you and sunshine shoulders
I was stressed out, single and overworked in California. I moved to the Philippines. Now I am relaxed, happy and married. Costs are low, I can finally relax and I eat like a king. I finally have the life I wanted all along. My mind and body were a wreck. The Philippines gave me my health back.
Brother, You literally described me. Im drowned in depression. But fighting hard to escape California and finally live the life I always wanted. Your comment gave me so much hope! 🎉
That is great my man
Happy to hear that Bro!! Live it up!!
How's the job market?
Way to go Mark live it up man
I found my Filipina 8,,years ago. We live in Mindanao and have 4 kiddos. Happiest I have ever been. I support the passport bros 200%
❤️❤️❤️❤️JP❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wow that's where my wife is from 💖💖💖💖
Any advice on how to accomplish this , as I'm very interested in relocating there soon thanks Arkansas USA
Where are you from? How do you like the Philippines for raising your children?
@@Guilhermealmeida. i'm from colorado raising the kids here is great lots of family support
As a filipino man, this is all I want for filipinas. Getting more and more attention that they deserve. There is nothing in this world like a filipina girl.
As a pinoy myself, I feel sorry for the local pinoys. Waves & waves of westerners will be arriving to snag cream of the crop filipinas. The ratio of pinoy/ pinay will become very imbalance. You men will soon need to think outside the box. Think ukraine/ Russia. Think of all the male soldiers that will perish, and all the females they will have left behind. Wild....I know...
Aren't the men there angry that foreigners are taking your women?
for every quality filipina, there are 3 gold digging squatter rats pretending to be "quality". Philippines is a scammy place.
As an American Black man, I say thank you for not being a hater. There's more than enough good women fur all of us. Salute!
@Chris Kurisu Totally wrong.
There's beautiful women in every race.
However, HOT WHITE American chicks
Still the best. Hands down. You know it.
I know it. And every straight guys with
an average IQ knows it. You survey 10
guys from different countries and you'll
see what I mean.
My previous relationship in 2020 was a train wreck. I did everything in my power to make my woman happy and desired both children and marriage. I was willing to give it all, but she purposefully acted spiteful, negligent, and even asked me why I’m so happy all the time in a disgusted tone during the early stages of our relationship. Since then, I’ve become aware of how women in America see me. I see that my love, dedication, and willingness to work is not desired nor appreciated here. I just applied for my passport today.
I can’t WAIT to hear what you find in another country 👍
You dodged a Bullet my friend , Get the passport and go where Men are still wanted. We are just free labor and money supplier for western women. Thank God you didnt have a child with a western woman...your life would be over
Good luck!
Have fun storming the castle!
Good for you. I’m flying later this month. Maybe we can catch up. All the best
I didn't lose my savings to divorce (was never married). Instead, the broken medical system we have in the States ended up costing me over $425,000 after a ten-week hospital stay. The woman who I was dating at the time dropped the keys of my house onto my hospital bed LITERALLY TWO MINUTES after being brought back from amputation surgery saying "I didn't sign up for this, to take care of a worthless cripple the rest of my life."
Compared to now living in the Philippines, where my medical bills have been at the same OR LESS than what I'd pay WITH MEDICARE INSURANCE!!! My medicines are lower, I'm no longer on blood pressure or cholesterol medication and I've lost over 60 pounds from eating REAL FOOD and not the crap only those on fixed incomes can afford in the States. All that is enough to make moving to the Philippines the right decision.
But then there is my love, my Angel. A woman who constantly reminds me to take my medicine and eyedrops (for glaucoma) to the point it's a little aggravating. But I'll take that aggravation and be with someone who truly loves and cares about me than the entitled, evil worthless piece of human existance who left me in that hospital room.
And I'm just one story. Men are done with what Western women have turned into in the last 30 years.
Wow, LC, I never knew all that, so thanks for sharing. It’s an honor to host a channel where people can all tell their stories ❤️
Dude, your western gf sounds like a real selfish pig. She told you just what she was when the chips were down. Glad she bailed on you so you could move on. Chin up.
Good thing your house didn’t burn down too. That would have been a bigger loss.
Yeah ..... I have MS and my wife left with the words, "I don't want to waste my life looking after you." .... and I had just stumbled walking FFS, although MS also sucks the core out of you .... would love to move to the Philippines but heat turns me into a cripple ..... so, mate, I am jealous you made it, and it does not surprise me you found the right woman ...... : )
I agree, I lost 100,000 in cash from a divorce and 87% of all my assets. No adultery, no abuse. Just being a male in Missouri. Ex convinced the judge that she was unable to work but had an amazing recovery 6 months after the divorce and she is now working as a nurse again. For over ten years I tried to get her to work and help me build our dream but it was all left to me to provide her with her great life. Fortunately I made well over 6 figures but I had to work myself to death to do this. 12-14 hours a day 6 days a week for around 8 years. So not only is she working now but she is getting part of my retirement pension until some other sucker comes along and marries this narcissist. Then my pension payout will finally end. Woman love to say where are all the nice guys, some other American woman has already destroyed him, and like me he will NEVER look at another AMERICAN woman again. So that’s why I’ll take my pension which is still substantial and move to the Philippines in March 23 ‘ I will never return the the US and it’s backwards anti-men ways
I am getting married to a Filipina Woman. I spent 47 Years in the west only to find my true love in the Philippines. Truly great people.
How did you go about finding your love in the Philippines?
If they don't pay you.... The Philippines should at least Honor you somehow for all the work you do in positively promoting and country and advertising the culture to tourist all over the World.
I think you've single handily elevated the Philippine Culture to one of the MOST DESIRED by single men all over the World 🏆
Yes indeed! I totally agree.
But you are biased speak of negatives so people can get a clearer picture in the 3rd world country.
@@eddieBoxer Philippines is not third world, its actually first world. Its just relaxed
Only if you have a big pension if you are from the UK forget it as they expect you to keep there extended family so it is out of the question for a uk retirey
Don't make the mistake of thinking that the Filipina Pea is just another pretty face. She is intelligent, skilled at managing her business, well acquainted with the issues that she discusses and a deep thinker. These videos are masterpieces of culture interaction. Even if you do not plan on visiting the Philippines, you will learn much from her.
Well said. Spot On!
Pea When I tell guys in the US including my brothers that I have a Filipina girlfriend, they understand and are supportive. On the other hand, when I tell American women I have a Filipina girlfriend, I am told I am desperate, perverted, and want a slave with no mind of their own. Pea thanks for the support and understanding of us Western men. Much love Jairus
Exactly!! 👍🤣
Anyone who says this about Filipina doesn't know many of them, or have not experienced one in close proximity. Filipina are among the strongest women on the planet at the same time they are soft and feminine towards those they love.
Next time an American woman says that, simply counter with, "Oh, so you think that Filipinas are nothing but mindless slaves with no free will or understanding of their own? Kinda racist, don't you think?" Then watch their faces freeze like a deer in the headlights.
Gotta love the racism from US women that Asian/Philippina women are weak and submissive.
My wife has a beutiful mind and has no problem about speaking up or taking a stand on any issue.
This woman is the real deal - she understands nuance, social dynamics, and geographical trends and eco-systems beyond her own country.
Smart, articulate, beautiful, and witty. Western women have a thing or two to learn
She definitely has it right.
You can lead a horse to water but you can't make HER drink?
You're one of the most interesting reporters and storytellers I've ever heard or seen. Your use of the English language, especially with your ability to throw in excellent puns with perfect timing and precision, is unmatched. It's so easy to get drawn in whenever you're speaking. It's truly a gift. Glad you're feeling better!
Well thanks for that! I wish I could say it was a gift, but it’s really nothing more than hard word and hours of polishing every sentence.
I even made a video about how I do it -
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@@TheFilipinaPea Well, not all gifts are engrained from birth. Some gifts also take place after hard work 🙂
It's entertainment, not reporting, sorry but watch some of the older vids and compare to some recent ones.
As an author (and public speaker before the world shut down), I second this
Come on be honest. What you mean is she's one of the hottest
Aaaaaaand, SHE'S BACK! Gentlemen, making her first appearance since the sounds of continuous flushing, it's The Filipina Pea! YAAAAYYYYYYY!!!!! We are glad you seem to be so much better, and once again, thank you for reminding Western men we are truly worth the wait and the work. 🌹
Pea is our greatest ally!!
Passport Bros of the West UNITE!!!
Funny!
Menis Hotaru is my favorite . . . so sexy
Good one😂
She does look a bit flushed!
I'm a male Filipino and approve her message. Don't worry guys, there are plenty of Filipinas in the PH left for me to marry one. The one I'm after, she is a doctor to match my medical career background.
THANKS, Kaboom! Yes, there’s room enough for all 👍👍👍
Room for all, have a stable income, don't be a drunk or abuse the ladies and you can be happy here. Philippines have great people.
Thanks bro, good luck with Dr.
I am 66 years old and have been married 35 years to my Thai wife and living in the U.S. We are now in Thailand for a 3 month vacation. She is so happy spending time with all her childhood friends. The Thai people are so friendly and always give you a smile when you give them a head nod or a good morning or a sawasdee kahp. Southeast Asian women are the best.
Your Channel is really good. Positive, honest, no clickbait.
THANKS for that, Patrick 👍❤️
Guys, we need to protect this woman at all costs. She totally gets the dynamic and still defends us men. She's truly a unicorn! Thanks, Pea!
Asian women are easy to obtain as partners. But they're physically unattractive.
Word brother.
My Filipino family treats me more like family than my blood family. I think there are some stereotypes about Filipinas that are blown up, like they are shy. More like afraid to hurt your feelings at first or do something that will cause you not to want her. I showed up to stay with my Papa and Mama for a month and her father looked at me and he was like, "You treat my baby good. I be your father." I shook his hand. "You no love her you bring her home," and that was about the extent of what he had to say....until 150-300 family members showed up by night and the party started going. I was then put the middle of a circle and I heard every brother, sister, ante, uncle, cousin, friend, coworkers and maybe even the high school ex-boyfriend's expectations for her and me and they literally voted me into the family and my wife was so happy. She said that was how they used to conduct marriages before Spanish came and her family had never stopped doing it and she wasn't sure that the whole family would have accepted me. I was like what would you do it they didn't? She was like, Oh we still got Catholic Marriage to go, stupid boy, and just keep papa and mama happy and my happiness is their happiness.
That's awesome!
This post fills me with so much joy.
Dude this sounds so wholesome, I've never seen anything like that in my life.
@@warrick7689 My father in law is 78 and owns every room he walks into. Man is a straight Alpha-Sigma. The man was just break dancing at his age. I wish he was confortable with uploading his video image to UA-cam or Tic TOk. I love him and he works with me on my Bisayan because he doesn't want anyone to take advantage of me. But that night
I was so scared and so drunk. Every male had me drinking with them and I couldn't reject because I didn't want to offend anyone toasting my engagement by saying no. That coconut wine is weak, but it starts kicking your ass after a half gallon or so. I think at one point I was drinking coconuts full of something like a beer stands. Then you get so drunk that you don't care what you're eating. It really helps if you don't like seafood, which I don't.
That is an interesting comment.🤔
I have to offer a formal and humbe thanks to Pea for being one of the key influencers leading me to my decision to start a new life in the Philippines. I spent a year talking to my current filipina wife prior to coming here in Feb 2022 when the country finally opened up. My wife and I were married online already, and she got pregnant the first month I was here. We just had our baby and I'm happier now than ever in my life (and that includes the two prior marriages to American women who loved my money, not me). Neither could give me a child. Long story why I stayed with the second wife for 20 years even though she lied about being able to have a child. In brief, I find the Philippines very much like what I believe America was like in the 1940's and 50's. My wife's description of her ideal life matches what my Mom described about the life she originally sought with my Dad back in the 1940's. Keep in mind that my Mom grew up during the Great Depression on a farm in rural Virginia. She was used to eating only what they could grow or my grandfather could hunt. They had no refrigeration. Only an outhouse. My current wife grew up the same way in the province here. Both my Mom and my current wife said (at different times decades apart) that all they wanted was a man who would love them with all their heart and simply put a roof over their head and food on the table. My filipina wife calls it living a "simple life". She is adorable. She is more kind, loving, passionate, funny and caring than I could ever have imagined. Now, with my new son, I'm so happy I can't imagine life if I had stayed in the U.S. casually dating American women in their 40's and 50's who were only looking for their last meal ticket. Gio, Pea and a couple others started me seriously thinking about this new life and I will be forever grateful for the wonderful advice. This video is, again, steering any of you guys still back in the U.S. in the right direction. Try dateinasia.com. It's free and that's where I found my wife. Just remember...if they ask for money, shut it down. It's either a scam or the wrong woman. In the full year I talked to my filipina wife today, she never asked me for a single dime. I later found out she was hiding how impoverished she was. I figured it out along the way and volunteered to send her money. She accepted a few gifts along the way, but never then turned around and asked for more. She has too much pride and self worth, which is (I think) either in short supply here or the women can be so desparate that they will semi-scam you. Even the seemingly good ones. You have to avoid those women and keep looking till you find someone with a genuine honesty, integrity and self respect. That was the reason we kept talking and the key to the relationship we developed over a year talking twice a day for hours on video phone. I think I knew her better by the time we got married online than I knew either of my prior two American wives. She was honest and open with me as time went by and she got over her initial shyness. I will never regret making this move. And now, since I'm here and I want to provide abundance for my new son, I'm even starting a couple online businesses. It's the most exciting time in my life even though I will say that I lived pretty well during the first 66 years of my life. I'm loving every minute here, and I still love the Pea. If It had not been for meeting my beautiful wife, I'd have definitely tried to reach out to her for more than just videos. But I found my amazing, magical, perfect love of my life on DateinAsia and I'm just so totally happy it's almost hard to believe. Just do it guys. You won't regret taking a chance to be happier than you have ever been in your life. What have you got to lose? A few months of your life? Come on. Take the shot. Don't be among the 95% of American men who "talk" about coming over here but never have the guts to make the move. I built my successful advertising career in the states by embracing change and growth. Do the same at this point in your life and explore the remote possibility that you just might find happiness that exceeds your wildest expectations.
Damn, I'm happy for you! But marrying online was bold. Curious, how does that work? And how does it work to move there, are you legally allowed to own a house (since you're a foreigner), or is it written on your wife?
@@Tanax13 Best rent because if it goes south the Filipina gets everything!!!
@@Tanax13 We can own the house but only lease the land in our name, we cannot own land in our name. We lose a lot of rights living as foreigners in Philippines. Something to keep in mind. We have essentially no legal rights in Philippines.
Good words and info 👍
Tell us about what is was like getting married on line. Thank you!
Wow Pea! The way you relate to us is quite exceptional. You hit it on the nail with Japanese, Chinese, Korean and etc. I've always said "go where you're treated best" I'm seriously considering going to The Phillipines.
I feel that you are a true asset to us western men.
Thanks again and much appreciated.
Thank you Pea. I really enjoy your videos and your smile always makes me smile. You are a wonderful woman, smart, gorgeous, witty, kind. I hope you are finding the perfect guy for you. You are incredible in every way. Hopefully I can take you for a sail when I finally sail my boat across the Pacific. Keep up the great work Pea and thank you again for your many insights. Love them all. Cheers
I’m glad you’re enjoying them, and thanks for your generosity 👍😊
I swore off marriage as a 35 year old New Yorker because it never seemed worth the risk. This is my third video by Pea and I'm seriously about to get on a flight to the Philippines.
Things are so bad in the states I believed all this time I was ok with not having kids. The more I watch these videos I do want a family. A woman who Will genuinely love me. I lied to myself and now have a complete different outlook on life. I don’t even pay attention to women here knowing what awaits me in the Philippines.
I'm 30, and I flew there last may. Changed my life and I'm getting married late 2023 or early 2024. Do it.
Just imagine how you’ll feel after watching the 300th!
You are going to watch ‘em all, right? 🤣🤣
@@TheFilipinaPea Of course!
Hi. I was 44 years old, never married and thought the same thing you did Bill. One of my co workers introduced me to a Philippina. 13yrs and 4 kids later....... I'm the luckiest man alive.
Been happily married to a Filipina for 5 years now, keep this up Pea save our human race by promoting good healthy and happy relationships for the men and women who still want them. P.S. I hope your feeling better.
The more I watch these videos, the more I slowly progress into being part of the #passportbros . It honestly makes me very happy thinking that there is indeed a chance of being with someone who values traditional and family values rather than how unfortunately most women have been (quite cold) in the west. I'm still in my early 20's, but I have a feeling to start something with someone but it's difficult (especially in the U.S) with how some women think of themselves. One day when I have stabilized myself further, I'd definitely like to spend some time in the Philippines to see what happens.
Same I'm hopeful to find a wife myself getting old I'm 42🤦🏽♂️
Young man, get your passport and use it.
You’ve already opened your eyes at an impressively early age - now just keep them open, and the world is yours 👍
Best of luck ❤️
Same here brother.
I wish I had that mentality 20 years ago, it would have saved me a lot of grief over the years. Good luck!
The reason the Philippines is a better choice is because of it commonwealth of Americans for nearly 50 years and it close relationship with the American government The culture is advanced in terms of western standards in English and education. No doubt it be a interesting country to travel
3 big reasons I plan to move to the Philippines from California. The greed of the US government and companies, the people here are cruel, and most of all my Fiancé. After going to the Philippines and seeing the development I realize how America is just in a major decline. being in my late 20's I am so happy I opened my eyes early in life. You really helped me understand the culture before I went there last month, thank you so much for these videos.
You are soooo lucky! I discovered this truth much later in life, but I am glad I still have some time left to enjoy.
Your narrative was so true! My ex is Japanese and you are 100% correct. Lived there 3 years, married over 35 and wiped out by her and her green card. Have rebuilt, still building my cash and investment base to establish myself very comfortably on a planned budget of $2000. Good job.
Oh Daniel, I had no idea that happened to you too. Thank m
So sorry 😢
Hey live goes on or you just quit. But I do enjoy the smiles and good feelings your videos give me. Oh my Christmas sponsoring at the old ladies home went well. That was inspired by you Pea. Was by Manila, hope to maybe do one with you when I visit. It made my Christmas nice. You inspire and help many Pea.
Japanese one got ya
I'm lucky enough to have a great marriage but, were I single, I would not hesitate to consider moving to the Philippines. We live in an area where there are lots of Filipino families and the values and attitudes all of those we've known embody are admirable.
I've never seen any community friendlier, harder working or more family oriented.
IKR? I’ve spent half my life with the same woman and I’m “only” 60, LOL. I already know, if I ever find myself single (and still healthy) out here, I’ll flex that passport like Schwarzenegger…!
@@tonyjones1560 😆😆😆
In my entire life, I've never had trouble finding a date, or getting into relationships, but after a failed marriage, and dealing with terrible and entitled attitudes of Western women, I decided to live in Bogota, Colombia. I lived with a women there that I thought would be good, but she was just as bad as the worst women I dated in America. I finally went to the Philippines and found a great traditional woman. We married 5 years ago, and I've never been happier. The difference between her and the dozens of women I dated or had relationships with is like night and day! I also have 2 friends that married Philippine women several years ago, and they are also very happy. You just have to avoid the big city girls in the Philippines and be cautious of women you meet. My wife is from a small town and only dated 2 other men in her life. She is also very traditional. I only wish I had made this decision years earlier in my life and spared myself the grief of all the bad relationship, entitled women, and drama!
That’s music to my ears. I was divorced recently and did a couple dates, I had not dated it 15 years. Found out quickly that I needed to look elsewhere.
Holy cow, she described exactly what happened to me. After 25 years of marriage and putting her and the kids through college and buying her a house and paying it off, she handed me divorce papers. She ended up getting the house and most of the $$ that we had, leaving me pretty high and dry. Oh, and by the way, the job of your divorce attorney, being a man, is for him/her to convinced you how legal it is for me to get completely screwed.
Serious question, if kids are already adults.. do you guys just split everything 50 50 or the woman still gets more? I mean, with no kids depending on you I’d think it should at least be equal
Depending on ones perspective I got lucky. About halfway through my marriage, she discovered pills, then added weed, and then right at the end meth and coke. I got the kids, she got several felony charges, a jail cell, and a paper trail of evidence of her character.
Of course thanks to her adding meth into the mix the retainer for the attorney was $5000.
That's why Pre Numps were invented and they do work?
As a 46 yr old that just left the US and moved here you are spot on 🎯
In the west, relationships are a competition between two parties rather than a partnership. Women in the west don't want to build a life together, they wait at the finish line for the winner! Sad but true! Hope your feeling better Pea!x
I mostly agree with you but I thinks it’s more of a competition between men and the women pick the one who has more. Hypergamy is very real in America. I’d rather be somewhere that the women compete for and appreciate men.
Women want to compete with their husbands/boyfriends. Men just want peace and quiet and a supportive partner. It has become fundamentally incompatible. Western women have become irrationally, pathologically unhappy with their relationships despite having highest standards of living and the most opportunities in the entire world.
That’s why they are called situation-ships/sh!ts here in The West.
You wrong, you most men just want to screw women and not live together or marry them, do not generalize, I am not a born in the USA. You all are very convenient. You all grow old and stinky and then you all run for young meat.
That's facts op.
Exactly how I felt 6 years ago when I took the plunge to visit your country. I’m 64 now with a 54 year old girlfriend and couldn’t be happier. 5 years into this relationship now.
How did you meet her?
The West has normalized social disfunction to such a degree that I can only see it getting worse. Lucky for me, I'm only a 6 hour layover and a 3 hour flight away from my first visit to the Philippines. Can't wait to have lechon for lunch tomorrow, and it all started with Pea's videos. Thanks Pea!
What part you heading to .... 🤔 I'll be of there in 1-2 months... Struggling to decide where to go...
*Crap Game*
Depending where you’re going you are going to love it here
@@Plough78Cebu ❤
i am going to get a six pack of red horse and a lawn chair and sit back and watch the west burn itself to the ground. because it is going to come down. the foundation has been compromised by woke culture and feminism among other things! my wife and i bought a house in the philippines in 2010 and now that the kids are grown we are living here most of the time!
Things really had gotten WORSE.
This is due to JACKASS joe Biden and
the SCUM democRATS. RATS RATS RATS
ABSOLUTE criminal FoCKTARD administration in Broad daylight
My issues with the west isn’t about feeling invisible or romance issues. Mine is I feel like everybody knows I am a veteran of two wars, and I feel like everybody handles me with cotton gloves because of this. And in some cases younger people feel that I should be arrested for this . before I left and visited the Philippines several years ago I had found myself actually becoming a hermit in the United States. it wasn’t until I took my first trip to the Philippines that I realized I wasn’t damaged goods. I’ve been going back periodically for years, I guess you could say it’s my form of treatment.
I’m a veteran of Iraq and Filipino American. I understand what you mean. I felt better in the Philippines.
Thanks for your ongoing guidance and support x
And thank YOU for your support - it’s greatly appreciated, Stephen 👍❤️😊
These Philippinea’s on UA-cam and TIKTok are making a strong case for their country and themselves as women. They are on the march and winning!
We’re starting a movement of our own 🤣👍
Pea: I hope you are feeling better than you were on Tuesday.
Another slam dunk video Miss Pea! I love how you explain the reasoning behind men shopping elsewhere for potential happiness in a way that most women would understand it, as SHOPPING. What some of these women don't realize is that, it's not that we CAN'T find a woman in the west, there is just a better deal elsewhere. AND WHO DOESN"T LOVE A BARGAIN? It's like if they saw a pair of shoes they wanted in one store and told their friend about them, but their friend mentioned that the same brand and color was at a different store for 20% less, where would they go? They would be walking into the store their friend mentioned and coming out with a maxed out credit card , and a closet full of shoes that would take ten years to wear them all out. But to them it is sacrilege to even think of the concept for men to do the same for their happiness.
This double edge sword that these women wield has no handle, nothing to actually get a grip on, and they wield it without thinking about how much it cuts them for the damage they try to do to men's egos and reputations. But the only one's actually getting cut by the blade of their accusations is the one wielding the sword. They are the ones being left alone, as they make us men think they want to be.
I told my friends and family over 30 years ago that if finding a real loving partner meant I had to move to the moon, then I'd move to the moon. You have to go where the best possible outcome will be for each individual. But personally I really want to hit the Philippines mainly because of the weather, this biting cold winter stuff has really gotten old over the last so many years, I'm done with it, I want summer temps all year round.
Keep up the always original videos!! I got my forever wife, so I am good...After working Nuclear and traveling the country seeing the same guys at different plants for years a theme for some was constant.. That was those who had married Filipino ladies.. They were happy, and treated like men. And with over 20 guys I knew married to a Filipinos over the years only 1 ever got divorced.With 55% of American marriages ending in divorce here the math is 5% and much better odds. I have said many times ,If there was NO visa process American women would have MUCH to worry about..As far as thinking they are weak submissive ladies, well that view if from people who know nothing about the Filipino Wife/Woman..After my first visit I told the wife I could not live away from the kids , second visit was 21 days and in a neighborhood I fell in love with the People .. After a 3rd visit and there to pick my wife up to come here to the USA I knew where my retirement would end up. So for those naysayers its simply they have never been there, or experienced a strong, determined, EXTREMELY Conservative female that will NOT waste a dime or even a scrap of food.. She is not perfect as I am not by a long shot... When your 16 year old son looks at you and states "Dad, Michelle is the best thing to EVER happen to us". From the mouths of Babes..(FYI to all you single dads,, she puts my kids absolutly FIRST, cleans the beds , fixes clothing and makes sure they are well provided for and she works a full time job and over time,,,
Let’s hope so, Rick!
But … wait a second … do you know where she is right now? 🤣🤣🤣
@@TheFilipinaPea she works,always is where she should be,messages me constantly and is never mysteriously late,and her paychecks always matches her overtime,,so yep its all good..
My fillipina GF has told me some amazing stories of her life growing up in the province, it really opens your eyes to what people in the west take for granted. But despite those challenges Filipinos are always happy, welcoming, respectful, humble and generous. Certainly a place i wish to retire.
Yep, even kids, if they knew how much good things they have in life compared to others…yet you see people at the other side of the world..not having much but still smiling.😊
I am happy seeing you better again. A tropical paradise for retirement sounds good at the moment. Rain, snow, then rain again and all in darkness is what we have in south of Sweden right now. At least we got one day of proper snow to slide down the hill. That is fun. I only have one medical problem and that that is cold asthma that is basically not a problem over 8 deg C. How nice it would be to live in the Filipins at least half the year.
Thanks Spock! I’m just fine now 👍❤️
The way USA has been for several years, the stress levels are very high to live a happy life. Not everyone comes to the Philippines because it's cheaper or easier to find love. Simply being, it's an adventure in a less stressful surrounding where you can actually think better, thus, having a clear mind to think about what you want to do in life. The Philippines to me, is a better life because I don't worry about much here. I don't have to be crippled in life worrying if I can afford next month's rent, nor do I feel compelled to do anything I don't want to do. Life here is simple once you get past the initial culture shock of living like a filipino and I don't worry about my neighbors having a meth house or feel threatened that someone may go off and start shooting up a school or mall. I can afford to live anywhere in the world, but I chose the Philippines because of the people who are more family oriented than I've seen anywhere. That doesn't mean to imply other countries don't have similar qualities, just that filipinos seem more accepting.
Really…it probably wouldn’t take much effort to *talk my wife* into moving to the Philippines with me, LOL.
I experienced the genuine friendliness of the Philippines on my holiday last month, felt at ease wandering about. Looking forward to trying a few more islands in the future as a holiday again, so looks like you'll be getting some more kickbacks from that 😂
And I bet you felt safe, didn’t you Kal? 👍
@@TheFilipinaPea I did indeed 👍
@@TheFilipinaPea NPA joins the chat lol. "Found and fixed" in GIngoog City.
@@TheFilipinaPea Are those women friendly with hondurian and poor women too?
I love the Philippines 🇵🇭.
The cost of living is extremely friendly to American expats and retirees.
The women are even friendlier.
I heard that somewhere too 🤣
Towards men wirh $$$?
@@delac9864 I think peasants with $1000 a month can do ok also... If going by other UA-cam videos is anything to go on....
*Crap Game*
Thank you for the kind sensitive words. I need to check out the Philippines to have better luck.
WOW! FILIPINA PEA! The is your greatest informative episode to date! Thanks! Gracias a ti! AMEN-RR!
This Peanut made investigatory trip to Cebu in October, found the situation very livable and better, happy. Also received the comments as described after my return, from people who have not taken the trip. On my way to Colombia or Thailand for a comparison, then relocation. Two observations: Big advantage to arrive without any distracting relationship which might have interfered with my evaluation of economics, medical care and culture, so no online commitment, easy to meet people after my arrival. Second, having even a few sentences of Cebuano ready ("Dili, salamat" - equivalent of No, thanks - to airport salespeople trying to discourage me from using my Grab ride) proved helpful. Much appreciated, Pea!
Valuable information, Hank!
Good point about arriving without a relationship 👍👍👍
Im a white guy. For decades single men in my family and circle of friends have been fully aware of the opportunities for romance and possible marriage single and available women from overseas represents. Some of these single men, who were overlooked and lived alone also took "the leap", in spite of some stigma, on top of geographical, cultural and language-barriers. I can understand why some people, even in our modern day are daunted by the prospect. What is really happening? When men and women on opposite sides of the planet are unable to find what they need and want from people of the opposite sex that lives next door to them, work in the same places, people we grew up with, went to school with, and who share the same culture, values (usually) and racial caracteristics. I mean - this was never a problem for generations upon generations of our foremothers and forefathers. They all walked 150 meters outside their parents homes and found suitble partners. In Europe, in Asia, in America, in Australia. So why are we modern peopleincreasably incapable of pulling it off? We have to expand our search globally for the existencial pursuit of happiness. On one hand its a defeat, a setback, and a very complicating factor. On the other hand its liberating and breaks the chains of conformity which formed the lives of generations past. One of the groups of men on the planet who has suffered the most and been treated very unfairly, is by no doubt the Passport Kings. I wish them all happiness and joy in the endavours they have chosen to take. Cause one thing is certain - if they dont do it, what willl then change? The answer is - nothing! And I think the thought of that alone haunts these men more than any challenges they might have to deal with. The status quo misery back home, is simply not an option anymore... I guess a lot of foreign women feel the same way in their own countries, or they would not have been seeking the companionship from western men in the first place. Good luck to you all!
Western women are very bitter when men who have options, or choose not to play the game.
The Bachelor Show has raised western women unrealistic exceptions about males economy.
I have freedom when I retire, I may renew my passport early.
I had a passport since the 80s (military brat) but renewed it in 2015 because I want to see the world again. Meeting my current fiancée was not my plan, but it happened. The Pandemic kept us physically apart, but we grew emotionally closer. She just happened to be my longest relationship ever.
Great video. I have had this thought for long time.
Probably one of your best videos so far. I’ve watched most of your archives and would say this is a very spot on candid accurate summary. I really like the story you told because I can understand it and relate in many way. I applaud your effort in keeping the communication simple, direct and to the point with a dash of humor at the end. The one concern I have and it might not be accurate considering that I’ve never visited your hometown, but plan to is the internet connection. Based on the stories you’ve shared of working from home, well if this is true than having access to a fast Wi-Fi speed would be a requirement. Vacationing is one thing, but relocating to get married is another, so naturally it will make sense to visit first. However you’re probably right since I would imagine most of the cons are outweighed by the pros, yet time will tell. Speaking of time I wish I could go back in time to have met you when you were single to court you or use science to clone you! 😮😅😂. Either way I’m sure you get messages all the time telling you how beautiful you are or how amazing your long hair is which it is by the way. However if you are single my goodness you check every box American guys are looking for because you have greatness within you with an amazing personality. Keep up the good work and someday I’ll visit, time to apply for a passport! Love your channel, keep hustling and grinding, and I’ll keep watching, liking and subscribing. ❤
Thanks, LP! Stick to the cities - the internet signal is fine there 👍
You said Filipinos are generally friendly and kind, but I would also add respectful. The Filipino women I've run into in my city have caught my attention because the majority have been friendly, kind, but also respectful. I'm already married but I've definitely noticed these things.
I’m too young as of now, just got back at college at 26. But I’m going to finish my degree in accounting,build myself up. The wait is going to be hard but it’ll be worth it once I establish myself and look in the Philippines
Men who can do it now, go for it. These women here in the United States will never change
After living in the Philippines and then having to return to the USA for personal reasons, I can say the Filipina, the Filipina Pea, is right on target and accurate. I miss the Philippines very much and as soon as possible I intend to return. Thank you Filipina Pea for this and all your videos. Salamat Po!!
Thanks for backing me up, Skip 👍❤️
FilipinaPea is amazing. She knows everything from high property taxes in California to the challenges of dating in Japan. I love play-on words, "she won't do the laundry, but when it comes to money, she'll take you to the cleaners."
Glad to see that you are feeling better, Pea. People tend to believe bad about others if their own heart is bad. As far as you making money from tourism. That would be a sweet gig. I wish the government would do that. Be blessed, precious Pea.
They’re too cheap 🤣🤣🤣
This is an incredibly well thought out video. Anyone i've told my plan to go to the PH has reacted exactly how you've described in this video. I'm 50 years old and relatively wealthy, most people guess me at 35-40 years old. I can still date beautiful American women and my last girlfriend here was 29. The point of that though is that i've broken up with every single one because they were shallow and vapid or lacking in morals and I want more and didn't want to keep wasting my time on that empty type of relationship. But EVERYONE i've told my plan to gives me this look........the mentality of Americans at this point in my life is one I can barely relate to honestly so I'm truely looking forward to retiring to the PH and honestly think I might make the move this year.
Try it, at the very least stay a while even just for a vacation. Anything else would just be a bonus. If nothing happened at least you got to visit beautiful beaches and such
Take it from someone who knows better, you are making an excellent decision, I have been to the Philippines and I have dated women there. It's amazing! I am getting ready to retire at 56, and I plan to go back very soon. It doesn't hurt that your money will go about 2x as far (or more) than it will in the US.
The best all-rounder you have done so far, especially with Rolo Tomassi speaking well of the Philippines . So when are you going to announce your new business project - Geomaxair? 😄
Hahahahaha
Pea’s Geomaxair 🤣🤣🤣
@@TheFilipinaPea you can put that as your logo in your air stewardess outro! 😂
I have been involved with the Philippines for the last 22 years. Wow time has flown. But I am now retired here and living a very happy and comfortable life. I see comments about the living standards and many think they are less. It's about choices and of course your budget. But with a reasonable budget you can have a nice home in a nice area with western standard of living. There is many areas that provide a high standard of living and amenities. If your wanting a positive life change the Philippines certainly can provide that. Just celebrated my 16th anniversary.
Pea - Maryann, your a winner.
What area you in... What type of place to you rent and how much you paying... If you don't mind answering... I'm in Thailand now... What to go but I'm dragging my feet a bit due to concerns about difficulty in finding appropriate accommodation.
*Crap Game*
I'm moving to the Philippines from UK in just under 4 weeks - can't wait!
This video was for me I believe. Losing everything after 11 years and now almost 5 recovering…. But watching all of Pea’s videos help keep me going to know one day I’ll be able to save enough and find my Filipina ❤ I’m just ready for a better life .
Also ……Glad to see you Better Up and Well 🎉😁
Ive been to the Phills many times and what she says is accurate. I still have women friends from there that contact me for my birthday and Christmas and times like that. Of course not every single woman there is genuine but the vast majority are, Dont spend a lot of time in Manila as its like most big cities. Go to the provinces and meet the locals or wait and they will come and meet you. Just be kind and respectful and what you get back is warmth and passion. I wish I was there right now.
I am 48 and have been married to my Philippine wife for 5 years and I can say that it is the best decision I have made in my life. My wife is an amazing woman and we have built a good life together. She is warm, caring, funny, a great homemaker and mother. We will retire in about 10 years and go to the Philippines if all goes to plan and live a life of adventure. Unfortunately, for now, I have to keep working and stacking up funds to make sure we can enjoy our next stage of life.
You make a lot of sense.....
Thanks for the info my Dear
Your writing quality and style has always been very good Pea. It has now officially become exceptional. Impressive and very much appreciated
You are probably the best blogger on this type of content. Genuinely helpful and funny. I'd love to know where and how you developed your English language skills... Understanding innuendo, metaphor and colloquialisms like you do is not just good English... It's accomplished and very sophisticated. I've lived in between Phils and UK for 27 years, so I have a good idea of this. I'm also married to a Filipina for the same period. Your content is excellent, Pea. So anyone thinking of getting this info from anywhere else... Forget it. You won't get better than FP. 😊
I gotta thank you again Pea. The value is pure entertainment. You are the best.
She's "the reference"...
I've talked with several people about moving there and I always get the question of why. After I explain that the cost of living difference and the dating options they all say sounds like a good idea.
As an African American young male I can honestly say the Philippines is the only place where I have felt respected as a ♂️ I'm adopting four kids and had my first biological in 2019 hoping to get married next year
word of advice. Men don't use emoji's in place of words.
Nice to see a young black brother killing it I’m young myself plan on ditching the states once I can get some kind of remote job and become a digital nomad
Congratulations my friend, greetings from eastern EU
Good job buddy. So glad to hear that
I dated a Filipina who was here on a visa honestly my best girlfriend ever.We lived together for about a year It didnt work out in the end our personalities clashed but she showed me much of her culture and I do love what I learned and I would definitely recommend and would honestly prefer to date another. We still ended on good terms and I hold nothing against her personally.
Good background choice today for people who enjoy nature. The butterflies in your video are quite common in South Florida at different times of the year. With our warm temperatures some are here right now while many go to Mexico for the winter.
I'm an expat currently living here on a tourist visa. There are definitely adjustments to be made, but all in all I've found them to be worth it. The latest bout with ridiculous unintended consequences is the rules for the registration of sim cards for those on tourist visas. Those on tourist visas will be required to register their sim cards every 30 days even though they have a 60 day extension on their visa. The rules state that to register their sim card, they have to be able to show an exit airline ticket every time they re-register their sim card. Absolute nonsense. No foresight whatever in drafting this legislation. So, buyer beware. Do not expect any logical thought process in how things are done here. Expect rules and regulations to make no sense at all.
I’m working on a video about that, and trying to find out the real scoop, which is proving VERY difficult to do 😳
It's more fun in the Philippines!
@@TheFilipinaPea I'm on a Globe plan with a E-Sim. Globe said that all E-Sims are registered and don't require anything else from me. It's a non-issue
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As a long time subscriber I must say this is a great refresher video Pea.
As far as the research you are doing on the sim cards (and other topics), I’d have to say this is the reason many of us keep watching you videos. You do the work. Like a good movie, you seem to keep us on the edge of our seat.
It seems that too many tubers just want us to hear them gab and ramble on about worthless trivia. Therefore I unsubscribe to them.
My phone doesn't have a sim card.
Wow! I had a similar experience. My ex took EVERYTHING after 6 kids grown and on their own.
The family Court system is a crime syndicate; a well oiled system of injustice and corruption.
Keep strong. I made my last payment a couple of years back after my youngest daughter started work. Some really difficult times I was made redundant twice in the payment period but so glad I got through it.
You are speaking to so many American men. THANK YOU QUEEN.
I'm so happy I found the Philippines the women here are the greatest.
Your channel has greatly increased my knowledge and understanding about the Philippines and the people who live there! I will be married very soon to a wonderful Filipina and I’m grateful to you for all the valuable information you continue to provide in such a creative and well presented manner! Your videos are so well produced and your channel is truly a blessing! Thank you Pea
I have plenty of self worth and that's what matters to me. Good morning Pea!
Good morning Mr Jeremy 👍❤️
I have a Filipina fiance that I am working on bringing to the U.S. so that we can marry, but I have also fallen in love with the Philippines and the Philippine people. It's true that the living conditions may leave something to be desired for westerners, but the warm weather and even warmer attitudes of the people make up for it. Thanks for all you share about a wonderful part of the world. As a Veteran I would like to say I think you were worth the sacrifice we made to liberate and protect your home from enemies.
Stay in the Philippines bro. Very risky bringing girls back to the US.
Don’t bring her to the US. She’ll be brainwashed by the culture.
Thanks for your service. If you bring her here she'll turn into an American woman. Save a Filipina, leave her in the Philippines
Why on earth would you bring her to the states to get married? I got married in Manila. Why can’t you?
Don't bring her to America brother and thank you for your service
Well said Pea. After 6 months I'm still coming to terms with how my 41yo Philippine partners attitudes vary so much from what is considered the norm here. She is loving and kind and treats me like a king, while at the same time remaining a smart well educated intellectual. I'm also amazed at how quickly she has adapted to Australian culture. If any other men are having doubts I say if you genuinely love and respect a pinay woman....even a fiesty waray woman like mine, then the rewards are enormous.
I’m waray too 👍❤️
Those who say I have to go to the other side of the world to find a woman. I say I have to go to the other side of the world to find a good woman.
So glad to see you are feeling better...No doubt many of us have you in our prayers 🙏.. I land in Manila next week for a "better deal"..No woman involved. I love the people, the ability to dive and explore, and the food and weather. I have no intentions of returning to the U.S. and luckily all of my friends (except a few) are cheering me on and will follow along on social media. You are a great ambassador and have many reasons to be proud! Cheers, Joe
Dauin near Dumaguete has lots of Dive shops. Bohol and Malapascua in Cebu too. Tubbataha reef if you can get there is a diving paradise and a Unesco Heritage site.
Thanks!
Thanks so much for that generosity, Anthony - it really helps 👍👍❤️❤️
Love this Video.. I really need to go back to the Philippines... My experiences were normal but great.. I love my country.. but the dynamics have changed.. See y'all soon..
Pea this video really spoke to me, what this lady said in the video is the cold hard truth. I'm a younger guy at 25 years old, but in the US I just don't really trust marriage over here. It's clears that women in the Philippines and Latin America are holding on to more traditional values. Seeing true femininity is a beautiful thing. It's just something that's gone in the west or not respected.
Thanks Pea for talking about this topic 👌.
This video hits very close to home for me. As always, you are wise beyond your years and your communication of important subjects are top level. It seems every video you make gets better and better. No doubt, you've made people's lives better by your insights and wisdom. Thank you Pea!
Good evening Pea. Hope you are feeling better. Let's kickstart the algorithm, and push some channel growth!
I’m ready to roll 👍👍👍❤️🏆🏆🏆
in 4 months I will be going to Cebu! Can't wait to escape Wisconsin winters too! Thanks for all the great videos!
I am so glad that I found your channel. You are very straightforward, honest and a pure pleasure to watch. I hope to get over there in 2024
Happy New Year Pea! A great, positive video to start the new year, especially for those of us maybe seeking new horizons. Glad to see you’re feeling better too, and back with your unique take on life 💜
Thanks Dawster! I do like to be unique 👍❤️
I dated a Filipina for half a year. Ridiculously pretty. She was born and raise in Canada and held tight to her Filipino community, which I found endearing. There was something about the way she doted on me that made me realize that's something I really want. She was just so feminine. Every time we went out she grabbed my arm and every time I looked at her she was smiling and just loving the moment. I was in charge and she loved it. She didn't want any more children and that is the reason I couldn't pursue further. But damn, although it's been several years since then, she set my new high water mark. Anyone else have a women set a high mark? Did that factor into your decision to move to the Philippines? How so?
I appreciate the work she puts in regarding her research, presentation, and efforts. If you agree or disagree with the message, you have to admit she does a quality monologue.
Great video, very informative. I can't wait to get back to the Philippines. It's really getting bad here for everyone. Looking forward to your next video.
Philippines is a very close second to Thailand. Loved it… massages at my hotel for like $6 .. great food…
Was there for 3 weeks 3 months ago. Everybody is friendly. Beautiful beaches. Won’t comment on the woman cause y’all already know
I just back 2weeks ago from a 3week stay ,meeting the woman I’ve talked to for 2yrs, before I left i asked her to marry me. She is honestly every bit of what I need in a woman and couldn’t be happier. I want to personally thank you greatly for the help and guidance your videos offer. Thank you greatly Pea
Congratulations bro...good to hear
how did you meet her? which site?
I am glad you’re feeling better! I was married for 20 years before my separation from my ex-wife. I am getting everything in place and I will be making that leap to south east Asia soon! I can’t wait because my money will last longer in the Philippines. I have learned a lot from you and others now it’s time for boots on the ground this year.
Great video once again, Pea! Lots of facts and helpful info to consider. The Passport Bros are definitely watching your content. Some of them are being attacked on Tic Tok by western women too. Very funny reaction! 😂. Once a man finds his wife in the Philippines 🇵🇭 he will never regret it. One thing I think you should talk about is the way Catholicism has effected the laws and culture of the Philippines 🇵🇭 over time. This has helped to lay a religious foundation for marriage and family. I married my wife in the Philippines years ago. Even on our marriage application filed in the provincial court our religious affiliation was listed. We were married in the Catholic Church of the Philippines locally by a priest. There is no divorce in the Philippines either. Western men should understand that if they marry and live in our beloved Philippines 🇵🇭 they can not get a divorce later. 😊
Thank you Pea! I've been wrestling with the idea for a couple of years now of coming to the Philippines. Truth is I've been in a LDR now for 8yrs this month! She's 3 hrs away and she's a 1st generation woman from El Salvador. Love is not the issue here. It's that she doesn't want to compromise on anything. And she doesn't put the relationship in 1st place on her list of priorities. I could go into detail but I won't. Bottom line is I've been following your channel for at least a year now and you've been an inspiration and have given me hope of maybe being with a woman who has traditional values. Thanks for all your effort. Randy
In the 1st 2 minutes you definitely nailed it I am now going to watch the rest of the video
Happy New Year Miss Pea,. I listened very carefully to every word and phrase. I wanted to find something wrong, but you are so articulate, I will swear on a stack of bible's all your observations are completely true and correct.
The best video for those men sitting on the fence. This is exactly the way it is in the Philippines. Go ahead, try 30 days and see for yourself. I'm setting course to the Philippines this year. ❤️
Best compliment of the night - thanks 👍😊
Happy New Year Filipina Pea!
I can't wait for MORE from you in 2023!🤗🥰🙂👍
And you shall have it, Jay! ❤️❤️❤️