📕The Girl I Had a Crush On Fell for a Troublemaker and Even Abandoned Me During a Fire for Him

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  • @0mtrebellcyury993
    @0mtrebellcyury993 2 місяці тому +104

    I’m glad Ben has some great friends punishing Justin for what he did.

    • @TheTrajanValoris
      @TheTrajanValoris 2 місяці тому +13

      Yeah his boys are some real ones that's for damn sure. I was going to say the same thing then saw this comment.

  • @uk2klsu4evr76
    @uk2klsu4evr76 2 місяці тому +104

    Justin's the guy modern women talk about when they say men are trash or ain't shit. Benjamin's the guy they laugh at or friend zone while not realizing he's the best match for them and not realizing it until that person's gone

    • @Yuri-hl6qd
      @Yuri-hl6qd 2 місяці тому

      Justin is the caused every woman said "all man are trash and worthless"
      I always like "b*tch, who told you to go out and taste every trash man" 😅

    • @1mol831
      @1mol831 Місяць тому +4

      He gets the good ending.

    • @JamesL0717
      @JamesL0717 Місяць тому

      It's an odd paradox of women chasing after 'badboys' and then later complaining about how all men are scum.

    • @AlienoidGamer
      @AlienoidGamer Місяць тому

      Benjamin is fake lmao

  • @Weirdestgirly
    @Weirdestgirly 2 місяці тому +80

    Actually i love this story. Even though they weren’t in relationship they were still friend. he just wanted to help but she trampled in his feeling. yes he had feeling for her but when her mother told him to go to talk to her he did go. he told her that he know she love Justin he just wanted her to stop and not to loose her life for nothing and she could continue after the university exam.
    this story is about betrayal between friend more than between lover (cause they weren’t)

    • @NubisKubis-gc9if
      @NubisKubis-gc9if 2 місяці тому +19

      It's just sad. She knew his feeling for her back then but ignore it, she had the chance to skip the grade but decided to stay and hang around. Not sure if she had feeling for him too back then (I think she did) but decided not to accept his feeling (kinda toying with his feeling), made the wrong decision with Justin and betrayed her childhood friend. The worst kind of relationship. Not only she wanted his forgiveness, but she also wanted him to resume his feeling for her. She gave up her purity to a lowlife and expect a high-quality man like Ben to accept her? Disgusting.

    • @kalenagy
      @kalenagy 2 місяці тому +9

      sad components in this story, nicely written and narrated thx

    • @Artility1
      @Artility1 2 місяці тому +4

      They both loved each other, but they didn't break that paper thin wall..

    • @jeromekeh
      @jeromekeh 2 місяці тому +12

      @@Artility1 from what I understand, she made a choice to "Fling" with Justin not knowing that what she wanted was freedom and not Justin himself; but the moment she realized that, the damage was done; even she herself realized that every bad thing that she is experiencing are from her decisions of being with Justin.

    • @emeralh9415
      @emeralh9415 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@NubisKubis-gc9ifalthough she did wanted his forgivness she wanted to pay the price for it, not having it served on a golden plate like other woman in those vidéo xD As for resuming it's my own interpretation but i think she didn't even dare to expect more than their old friendship and not his love for her. She at least seems aware that she doesn't deserve any love from him

  • @tetsuryuu01
    @tetsuryuu01 2 місяці тому +35

    Wholesome yet sad story in my opinion. She loved him more than a childhood friend yet never realize that which allow her desire for freedom, change to take over and made her do a bad choice. Overall her choice can't be said too be good nor bad, at that time she chose to save 'the light of her life' later to painfully and regretfully realize that her true light barely manage to escape. I honnestly feel sorry for both of them

    • @jeromekeh
      @jeromekeh 2 місяці тому +12

      you can be sorry but as the saying goes: "You make your own bed"; she made her choice to be with Justin, now she has to live with the consequences whether she likes it or not.

    • @1mol831
      @1mol831 Місяць тому +1

      @@jeromekehShe dead

  • @Rush-qc1wj
    @Rush-qc1wj 2 місяці тому +20

    Wow. That was a story. I love how the ML was like screw this, I’m out .

    • @jeromekeh
      @jeromekeh 2 місяці тому +3

      she herself made a choice to be with Justin, not knowing that her real love is right there beside her all the time; by the time she realized it, both judgement and death came knocking.

  • @NubisKubis-gc9if
    @NubisKubis-gc9if 2 місяці тому +48

    The classic case of fall for the bad boy. That "skip a grade" scene is indicating that she liked him and wanted stay with him but unfortunately, she made the wrong choice and paid that with her own life in the end.

  • @Alblishes
    @Alblishes 2 місяці тому +46

    I’m personally not a big fan when they kill off the girl. Id rather her just live her life In regret

    • @Dante999000
      @Dante999000 2 місяці тому +5

      Maybe but this girl made the mistake of driving the bad guy to madness and ultimately leading to Justin killing her; had she simply stick with MC Ben here, her life would have been fulfilling and complete.

    • @bigainzfan6934
      @bigainzfan6934 2 місяці тому +5

      Agreed. I can look over the rich friends making the villains life a living hell, the new love interest being the perfect girl that's deeply in love with the MC, a rich family moving over seas like it was nothing, but the ex being murdered just because she made a mistake as a kid? Just left a nasty after taste.

    • @BAKU_SAN_1
      @BAKU_SAN_1 2 місяці тому +5

      ​@@bigainzfan6934 I agree with you it's was a mistake of her but she doesn't deserve to die for a mistake like that it wasn't that much fault of her.
      I think I will forgive her but don't go in a relationship with her just be friends.
      But I am not 100% sure about if I really do that because I didn't personally experience the situation of benjamin.

    • @Dante999000
      @Dante999000 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@BAKU_SAN_1well, there is a phrase called: "Forgive but never Forget", you can forgive the person to move on but never forget what they did cause otherwise they'll just repeat the same mistake.

    • @AnthonyRodriguez-gy8ey
      @AnthonyRodriguez-gy8ey Місяць тому +1

      You could interpret her ending as her given a second chance at that point in time.

  • @LoveeYourLife
    @LoveeYourLife Місяць тому +8

    The time she abandoned him in a fire, it was a life or death situation... I swear if i were him, i would not even see her face again in my life (same as Ben)

  • @jason_eh
    @jason_eh 2 місяці тому +18

    Laura rocks in this story! Easy best girl!

    • @1mol831
      @1mol831 Місяць тому

      She’s average compared to my most distant acquaintance

  • @josiahdennis9001
    @josiahdennis9001 2 місяці тому +7

    I lovethe story, glad we got to seeGrace’s point of view

  • @Animelover-e2e
    @Animelover-e2e 2 місяці тому +10

    It's called life which is so much ruthless that only one wrong move and your every thing is gone

  • @blrs8792
    @blrs8792 2 місяці тому +21

    I mean they never were in a relationship so can't exactly say she betrayed him... Still leaving someone in a burning building is messed up. The situation could be forgiven but never forgotten so Benjamin did no wrong. No matter how much she might have changed , the scars were too big to have been ignored.... I hope he ended up with Laura just fine.
    But I could accept sth like regression for the dead girl to correct her mistakes in the past....

    • @furyberserk
      @furyberserk 2 місяці тому +12

      Look up the definition of betrayal. Then listen again. Friendships get betrayed too.

    • @blrs8792
      @blrs8792 2 місяці тому +1

      @@furyberserk Sure but this wasn't a betrayal from a lover to her significant other. It was just from a friend that had drifted apart. In fact at that with how Grace had changed they were practically strangers.... It would have been betrayal of a high degree if she had hidden away her changes and suddenly revealed her new self unexpectedly not the way it happened.
      At least that's my opinion

    • @thatguyoddly4610
      @thatguyoddly4610 2 місяці тому +9

      @@blrs8792 see I disagree with that statement 1. Yeah, they weren't lovers so you got a point there but do you know how degrading it is to like someone and for someone else to just take the girl you like and she change into a different person. 2. It's a betrayal because she treated him harshly like he was trash and like he was an unconvince despite being friends for years That is a harsh thing to do to a friend. 3. This girl displayed right in front of him that he wasn't anything to her when Justin said choose him or me that's a cold and hard pill to swallow. 4. Let's not forget this girl pretty much left to get beaten half to death and in a burning building. 5. There was no forgiveness for that situation he literally could have died there are just some things you don't do to people and I'm not saying hate them either but once a bridge is burned there is no salvaging what was before. 6. And finally Grace showed who she was when Justin came in and she chose poorly even years later she was a cold, hateful woman who didn't want to live with the reality of her own actions. When people show you who they are believe it.

    • @blrs8792
      @blrs8792 2 місяці тому +8

      @@thatguyoddly4610 When you put it that way you got a point...

    • @NeoCreo1
      @NeoCreo1 2 місяці тому

      ⁠@@thatguyoddly4610 What? All your other points make sense, but what’s with that goofy ass sixth one? She treated Justin like the absolute piece of shit that he was. Her grabbing his hand fucking sucked and was the wrong decision, but JUSTIN was the one who slammed the door in his face and consigned him to the flames. She was never a part of that and not on board with that. Cold hatred is the only emotion Justin deserves. She also fully accepted that she fucked up by choosing Justin and never tried to dodge responsibility. She just wanted to make amends, and accepted it when the MC told her to fuck off.

  • @AbriqueFred
    @AbriqueFred 2 місяці тому

    wow, of all the stories here. this hit me right in my deepest part. i honestly cried.

  • @bigainzfan6934
    @bigainzfan6934 2 місяці тому +2

    Solid 8/10.
    The Pros: Great story, descent beginning middle and end, could sympathize with everyone even without ever being in their shoes, and the fml pov was something I didn't know I needed until it was shared, right in the feels.
    Cons: Rich Family powers being OP as usual, villain was something out of the 90's so meh (how the hell does a dillinquent go from a crappy school and into a rich kids filled one?), and can the author go easy on some of these fml. I get it were here to watch them suffer but let the crime justify the time. Near death experiences, traumatic event, and a broken heart does constitute a brutal shanking. I was ok with everything up until that point, I swear I need a safe word for some of these stories...

    • @goutam149
      @goutam149 2 місяці тому

      "Rich" and powerful are the only real people..others are just poor "peasants"doing the work so that rich can enjoy that fine wine.... .the cold hard truth....its sad and hurtful but its true........especially in C and SK.

    • @1mol831
      @1mol831 Місяць тому

      Pancakes can be the safe word

  • @ESPER_Power
    @ESPER_Power 2 місяці тому +10

    I've been following this channel for a while, at first I liked their stories but now it feels like they're repeating the same formula, telling the same story and only changing a few details.
    I hope they soon make other stories with different plots.
    I would recommend something like a manga I saw a while ago where the woman goes back in time to fix her life and be with the guy she wanted.
    The plot was that a girl breaks up with her boyfriend because of pressure from her stepmother to marry a rich guy.
    But it turned out that it was all a plot to take everything from her, her marriage was unhappy, her husband bankrupted her family's company and he was arrested for embezzlement, then she finds out that her stepmother was the one who killed her father, so she was also arrested.
    At that point she has lost everything, her house, her family's company, and she has no money.
    It was then that she met the boyfriend she broke up with, he was taking care of her nephews after her brother died in an accident.
    She tries to talk to him and see if it is possible for her to get back together but he tells her that although he is still single he is now a father and he can't have someone unstable around his family.
    That same night a car runs her over and when she wakes up she is young again and her father is still alive.
    In short she saves her father, destroys those who made her miserable, makes sure she stays with the guy she loved and prevents the accident where her boyfriend's brother died.

    • @RSMalaysian
      @RSMalaysian 2 місяці тому +2

      What's the manga name?

    • @harshvardhansingh8089
      @harshvardhansingh8089 2 місяці тому +1

      dude please tell us the name of manga

    • @ESPER_Power
      @ESPER_Power 2 місяці тому +1

      It was a short manga of less than 10 chapters, I read it before the pandemic. I don't remember the name because it was in Japanese. In short, the woman goes back in time after dying, saves her father and the brother of the boy she liked, destroys those who led her to ruin and keeps the boy she wanted. One thing I forgot to mention is that she showed two faces, the evil one when she destroyed her enemies and the sweet one she showed to her loved ones, after she finished off her enemies her evil face disappeared.

    • @KillerBebe
      @KillerBebe 2 місяці тому

      It’s a formal they follow, I also noticed that a lot of stories repeat themselves.

  • @King_ofNight
    @King_ofNight 2 місяці тому +28

    She was meant for the streets 😂
    OP dodged a bullet

    • @socipathicgaming5914
      @socipathicgaming5914 2 місяці тому +4

      And that is why you are married to your hand.

    • @majkaadam9749
      @majkaadam9749 2 місяці тому

      ​@@socipathicgaming5914she's 304

    • @shakyajitmaulik5579
      @shakyajitmaulik5579 2 місяці тому

      What kind of logic is that ? And tbh rather than marrying a woman like Grace...marrying my hand is always preferrable.​@@socipathicgaming5914

    • @Dante999000
      @Dante999000 2 місяці тому +8

      ​@@socipathicgaming5914so is he wrong then??

    • @atiqk8871
      @atiqk8871 2 місяці тому +8

      @@socipathicgaming5914 it seems you love to get chuked

  • @jerardariyawansa519
    @jerardariyawansa519 2 місяці тому +11

    Is it me or does the ML meeting grace in a negotiation meeting (assuming it's about the family business) make no sense if their families cut ties before going abroad?

    • @greedfreed6970
      @greedfreed6970 2 місяці тому +12

      it's for competition in the front of a customer. Their company both want to be employed to run the project by the customer, so they hold a meeting with the customer to fight for the right to work on the project. they both don't know that both of the company gonna have their CEO to do that stuff because usually, they let a staff that are experienced in this kind of competition to get the project.
      *if you don't understand what I just said, that's okay. this is corporate stuff.*

    • @ianindimuli1744
      @ianindimuli1744 2 місяці тому

      I understood part of, but not all of it. Thanks though.​@@greedfreed6970

  • @AnthonyRodriguez-gy8ey
    @AnthonyRodriguez-gy8ey 2 місяці тому +2

    What happened to Grace was a tragedy, but also fitting. I know some people are going to say that she was young and immature, but I dispute that. Age is not an excuse for poor behavior. It’s expected but not acceptable. And while I do pity her for carrying that tremendous guilt, this is the kind of situation you cannot come back from.

  • @neilmina6648
    @neilmina6648 2 місяці тому

    Love this story

  • @blacklight1104
    @blacklight1104 2 місяці тому +5

    It's funny how they always try to "make up" after the fact. I don't think I've ever seen a story where the woman who wronged the man just walked away, aware of the damage she already caused. They always try to selfishly make up for their own egos not caring at all in the slightest for the man's pain. Reap what you sow, lady. You made your bed, now lie in it.

    • @caaltaes732
      @caaltaes732 2 місяці тому +2

      Yeah like maybe sending a letter, telling them how they're sorry and know they do a bad thing so they don't expect forgiveness but the happiness of those who they mistreated while promising them to never bother them again.

    • @NeoCreo1
      @NeoCreo1 2 місяці тому

      I mean, she fully new she didn’t feeder be any redemption. She just wanted to try and make amends. She did also agree to leaving him alone after it was made clear.

  • @PurpleSunset82
    @PurpleSunset82 2 місяці тому +1

    Just wanted to say:
    If you have recuring nightmares, please talk to someone close to you or a professional, words hold a great power over nightmares.....

  • @crulrange3587
    @crulrange3587 2 місяці тому +4

    Love the ending, this one may be an open ending, unsure if its a limbo, but it shows a chance for Grace.

    • @jeromekeh
      @jeromekeh 2 місяці тому +1

      Umm, what chance?? Isn't she dead?? Unless there a sequel(?) where her soul goes back in time and redo her choices??

  • @nelsonchereta816
    @nelsonchereta816 Місяць тому +1

    Benjamen is the guy women say they want. Justin is the guy women actually want.

  • @ragequit6926
    @ragequit6926 Місяць тому +1

    Can we get a parallel version where grace goes back in time?

  • @kingsuccesskevin8359
    @kingsuccesskevin8359 2 місяці тому +10

    Not feeling sorry for mc
    All the red flags were there that she belongs to the streets
    And most of these characters are usually a family problem that affected their psyche and became that way
    Crush is not equal to first love,who is not equal to marriage material
    Crush is based on superficial things...or childhood sweetheart
    Dont hear the words, see the actuons which communicate louder...

    • @ilovenightcrawler
      @ilovenightcrawler 2 місяці тому +4

      Yeah, but I do feel a bit bad because he was only chasing her around because their parents wanted him to persuade her to come back. As adults, they should have been the ones enforcing rules and separating the two delinquents themselves, not ask a teenager to hunt them down to reason with a hormone charged girl.

    • @furyberserk
      @furyberserk 2 місяці тому +3

      I guess you wouldn't feel sorry if a mother ran across the street and her baby chased after to get ran over too. "He did it to himself."

    • @rodiangel385
      @rodiangel385 2 місяці тому +3

      Bruh you say she belongs to the street all because she felt trapped and was being told how to live her life can't really blame Grace for wanting that type of freedom and the fact that you said she belongs on the streets means that you belong in your mom's basement marrying your own hand as no woman wants to talk to you or be near you

    • @majkaadam9749
      @majkaadam9749 2 місяці тому

      ​@@rodiangel385nah she's 304

    • @shakyajitmaulik5579
      @shakyajitmaulik5579 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@rodiangel385Wanting a type of freedom where you date and publically mess around with a social trash who runs after every woman he sees ? If a woman envisions that type of freedom..forget abt streets, she's for the sewers.

  • @RÊÔÑ_EDGAR
    @RÊÔÑ_EDGAR 2 місяці тому +2

    Silent war lite!

  • @channman201
    @channman201 Місяць тому

    I love/hate these kinds of stories cause could you imagine every part of your life planned out for you. Told what you can and can't do your whole life then seeing people who are so free get to make there own choices. She didn't love Justin just wanted freedom While she was awful and treated our boy wrong i don't want to fully hate her

  • @DougE-Fresh1
    @DougE-Fresh1 2 місяці тому +10

    Yeah until you get cancer from smoking cigarettes. Honestly I don't really feel sorry for what happened to her she put on herself she chose poorly.

  • @super_2510
    @super_2510 2 місяці тому

    Name of the story

  • @matt-cl6fb
    @matt-cl6fb 2 місяці тому +1

    And that is how I became the soul of cinder 11:10

  • @gokuultimate4843
    @gokuultimate4843 2 місяці тому +1

    W friends 💪

  • @souljourney3315
    @souljourney3315 2 місяці тому +1

    W to MC friends

  • @KillerBebe
    @KillerBebe 2 місяці тому +3

    Justin is the guy all girls say they hate but wind up dating. Her wanting forgiveness is more a part of Chinese culture than being regret, it has to do with how their afterlife will be.

  • @robertsoto5713
    @robertsoto5713 28 днів тому

    Where are these hot young ceo women. Everyone I’ve met and can say only a few meet this criteria. Haha

  • @arcane_69
    @arcane_69 2 місяці тому +1

    Aunty 💀💀💀💀💀. Naah 😂😂😂😂

    • @bigainzfan6934
      @bigainzfan6934 2 місяці тому

      They literally went to the same school together at worse they were a year apart. If anything she's the young girl going for the seasoned gentleman.

  • @YYy-of3oq
    @YYy-of3oq 2 місяці тому

    Idk my heart aches

  • @Ivansiel
    @Ivansiel 2 місяці тому +8

    In the end I felt a little bad for her, she just got influenced by a bad person and she paid the price(by losing a close friend).
    The one really at fault was Justin, for locking the door and almost killing MC.

    • @yessinbouzidi4044
      @yessinbouzidi4044 2 місяці тому +12

      People are still responsible for their own actions (influence or not).
      And she didn't pay any price, her friend nearly dying from her actions after being ignored and then wanting nothing to do with her is consequence not punishment.
      If you hit someone and they don't talk to you anymore, did you pay for what you did? No, why are there prisons for then.
      In fact, she literally did a 180 and got everything back, grades, parents, money, ceo position.
      The only thing she did right was leaving him alone.

    • @Ivansiel
      @Ivansiel 2 місяці тому +4

      @@yessinbouzidi4044 How is that her fault?lol
      Justin was the one getting involved with a married(?) woman.
      If wasn't for the parents MC would probably just ignore her and live his life, which in turn would make him dodge all the incident.
      If Justin didn't close the door MC could just run after them and that's it.
      Her mistake was getting involved with a trash and forgetting how to be a decent person. Mistrating MC(a close friend) and her family.

    • @yessinbouzidi4044
      @yessinbouzidi4044 2 місяці тому +9

      @@Ivansiel married? She wasn't even dating anyone.
      And yes the parents were irresponsible. Though who would expect them to get kidnapped.
      What she did wrong was be terrible to her friend(MC) and then running to save her own skin leaving him even though this was her and her boyfriend's mess (she was involved for hitting the girl who was just a victim).

    • @kennethcastillo9667
      @kennethcastillo9667 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@Ivansiel Married? Where did you get that in the first place? 😅
      They were teens. He might have feelings for her but he came to her as a concern friend this him saying he could care less of the relationship of them, just pass the college entrance exam. He got caught in a crossfire between street rivalry, that is all.

    • @Ivansiel
      @Ivansiel 2 місяці тому

      @@yessinbouzidi4044 I was talking about the reason why they got in that situation in the first place. It was because Justin dated a woman, but it was because of the Sister of someone and not the wife. mb.
      I don't blame her for running in that situation tho. She was just a adolescent after all, just grabbed the person who was most important for her at the time, the BF.
      MC not forgiving her was ok. But Her death was too much imo.

  • @sephiroth661
    @sephiroth661 Місяць тому +2

    3:56 in what universe does anyone purposely wear a long sleeve glove and a short sleeve glove to a party and think this looks good

  • @abhijeetpandule5102
    @abhijeetpandule5102 2 місяці тому

    These Chinese stories are weird

  • @ESHAKER-MAIN
    @ESHAKER-MAIN 2 місяці тому +8

    This MC is weak minded

    • @NubisKubis-gc9if
      @NubisKubis-gc9if 2 місяці тому +3

      What do you mean?

    • @furyberserk
      @furyberserk 2 місяці тому +6

      Yeah, back when he was a child. A CHILD.

    • @emeralh9415
      @emeralh9415 2 місяці тому +2

      Try to be in his situation to have that trauma, we'll see how you fare xD

    • @Dante999000
      @Dante999000 2 місяці тому +1

      Are you projecting yourself??

    • @HRY898
      @HRY898 2 місяці тому +1

      ???

  • @socipathicgaming5914
    @socipathicgaming5914 2 місяці тому +4

    This would have made a good redemption story.
    I would have diverged at the banquet, shifting the punch scene with the Ben and Grace meeting at the high school. I would than go into the explanation of Justin attempting to get back with Grace and Grace having Justin beat up. Than I would go to Grace and Ben meeting at the high school, Ben telling Grace to leave him alone but when he turns to leave he sees Justin charge Grace and steps in front of him. I would than have Ben wake up in the hospital with Grace next to him and do the 17 year Grace scene from the ending with an simple epilogue saying that Justin was stopped by a teacher and a couple of students and is now serving life in prison and ending with Grace and Ben getting married.

    • @majkaadam9749
      @majkaadam9749 2 місяці тому +6

      Nah she is 304

    • @socipathicgaming5914
      @socipathicgaming5914 2 місяці тому

      @@majkaadam9749 - all women are a 304 to you. That's why you are all alone.😏

    • @Dante999000
      @Dante999000 2 місяці тому

      ​@@majkaadam9749I'm sorry but I'm new to this number 304 thing, so could you tell me what this 304 is??

    • @blacklight1104
      @blacklight1104 2 місяці тому

      @@Dante999000 It's an anagram for 'ho3'.

    • @HRY898
      @HRY898 2 місяці тому +1

      Nahhhh that would be cruel for Ben to be married to Justin sloppy second, Ben should marry Laura the younger woman.

  • @Rawhi.7
    @Rawhi.7 2 місяці тому +2

    Yea fmc 4 the streets but mc still a simp. 10 yrs n u never got a new gf?. Still sulking over fmc. Laura was right there 4 the mc. Goofy

    • @blacklight1104
      @blacklight1104 2 місяці тому +1

      One-itis is a terrible affliction. Mc was almost a terminal case. Good thing fmc cut ties with him early, breaking him out of his simp jutsu.

    • @HRY898
      @HRY898 2 місяці тому +1

      Well he isn't a simp , but he has PTSD

  • @wickedamv2636
    @wickedamv2636 2 місяці тому

    well my friendship was destroy like this too haha how nostalgic but not any more