I think in future stories only refer to him as my ex or guy I once dated. EX husband is too direct he might get ideas os suing to just discrupt your life
To our younger sister's do not try and think you can save someone who can't handle his money or who is in debt and tell yourself that you ll help them, one thing I've learned they never stop making wrong decisions and they never learn from their mistakes, they become your burden, enemy of progres because you must always be on stand by to bail them out 😢, so nje ladies once a person mentions debts, they are a liability ,just run for your life even if your relationship is on honeymoon phase ,you'll thank me later
You should've let them arrest him. Would've saved you a lot of trauma. Also, protecting men from the consequences of their actions makes them pathetic, weak, entitled and disrespectful!!!!!!!!
Honestly i now understand why you filed for divorce,you have sacrificed a lot in your marriage🤞🏽You honestly have reach your limits then he still cheats. Mxm some man are ungrateful.
I love your stories Sisi. But if you left him you wouldn't have gained the experience and skills you got now. God knew why it was important for you to be with him.😍😍
I’m really enjoying these story times ninja! Forgot to comment on the previous one… you’re so relatable ninja, something I know not all content creators have I’m glad you left!!! Your life now 😮You’ve mentioned that it’s not all glitz and glam, but girl…. You’re really doing amazing, you’re a real inspiration ninja. Keep on keeping on girl… things will always keep aligning for you! Much love❤
ijooh he committed Pejury 😂😂😂he can go to jail even now...he lied under oath...you will get him in serious issssh😂😂😂...I hope no one has beef with him😮😮😮
The things we do for Love. Please write a book. How Nandipha got the courage to play around with dead bodies with no emotions i dont know. I was watching her interview with MacG where she is encouraging the youth not to go to school and rather be creative. Just like her man..
Bra the stories you share about your earlier life are me and my boyfriend!!!! every thing money wise. Comparing our families, money, financial education, success appetite, hustling or formal salaries? Me is you and He is him. We still early 20s me and Late 20s him. It bothers me coz I want more for myself in the future, he dreams of a driving latest Polos, I want to stay in an estate and I don't mind working for it. He loves me but I wonder if that's enough or I will despise him in the future.
Financial compatibility is a huge factor in a relationship. If he is holding you back from where you see yourself going you need to break free sooner rather than later. If you can elevate him to dream bigger you can work on it.
Thank you Owami. We appreciate this. I just download all your story times and listen to them at home while drinking coffee or snacking. We love them. Keep them coming. We missed this
Firstly, Owamie why don't you take things seriously? Your laugh cracks me up - mind you I am at work watching this 😆🤣 But on a serious note - your Storytime's make me respect you more because girl you've been through it but look at you now!!! 👏👏👏👏
Also the women that fall for this kind of man are women who never got love from their fathers or their dads were emotionally absent, or physically absent. The woman wants this man to validate her existence she is trying to heal the wound hee father created by playing savior to this man while this man also seeks his mother in the woman and expects unconditional love from her. It's so sad because the codependency is so addictive yet toxic.
@Sesi it’s not. Nonto specifically said fathers and then dads. That’s what’s the same. Not fathers and mothers or guardians. Not the same at all sis. So ‘bathong’ right back at you.
The fact that these people subscribed to your PERSONAL BLOGGING CHANNEL that you deliberately separated from your work channel are complaining about you telling your personal stories is very weird. Also, at this point you need to write a book mtkbw cause you've been through it! 🙆♀️
You have been through alot and what I can tell you is that " Everything happens for a reason." We might not know why but all we know and trust it's for our good. 🌿
Thank u Ninja , we loooove this channel ❤😅..keep the story time coming. People like story times that are fabricated I personally love Owami's story times cos I know they are real and they are her experiences which we can learn from
I am having such a bad day, been crying till I decided to distract my mind a little, then watched this 😅😅bona am I not distracted and laughing at this story 😅😅😅. Im sorry about this experience and thanks for sharing it at a light mood
Yho was also a mother of a man who was 10 years older than me in my marriage. I respected that man even after the divorce, imagine cooking for him bcs you still staying with him bcs you have no place to stay as I was not working...........
That was stupid of him. How can you buy another man a car under your name, not even your wife? Not even a phone, a whole car... Hay he was kinda dumb on that one...
Kubo ka "Love"..zyabuya ...maar Owamie I loved this storytime I'm seeing Bigguy akhukhuna ka computer when cameras are watching him lols😛🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣angsahleki but sorry sis 😂😂
Owamie, dear, have no regrets… important thing is you learnt from it and all these things happened to create this beautiful strong you today! Hey, you are smart enough to make shmoney from that ‘going through the most’ era 💃🏻💃🏻
Your life with your man Owam is exactly like my life with my man, i always clean up his mess, I always tell him that angisakuboni njengendoda, sengibona ipara in you😢 he’s always in debt 💔🤦🏿♀️
I've been there @Bulelwa, thinking I could save a man from his distructive ways but I'm suggesting you stop. I realized I'm not his mother and definitely not Jesus honey
Mara Owamie you have LIVED!!. Aowa!!!.😢😢 I wish you find love. Happy ever after. From your deadbeat dad to the toxic ex?. Haii you deserve a break!! But just heal first thle. I pray healing upon your soul.
Most of this Men who are husband-wife, like literally your the men of the house because you bought a house, etc. BORSABAKI will dry you out while they are building their empire somewhere.
Even in the beginning of the relationship they will tell you about their past traumas, so you feel pity for them for the rest of the relationship. You even understand him abusing you, because you only hang on to that pity party they portrayed in the beginning of the relationship.
I am here for the analysis of the possible dynamics between Nandipha and Thabo Bester even though I think there was also some level of psychological dysfunction with Nandipha as well.
I love these stories and narcissists will always make you not say the story that actually happened to you…weird! Like whose life is this? I think men in our 20s ziziqalekiso yhuuuu 🤣🤣🤣 disaster nje shem.
We can never say we know Owami 😂😂😂 1 moment the husband bought her phone ,1 moment she was earning more than him . Clearly I need to watch more of Old videos .
Hai Owami, you are the definition of love is blind😂😂. He put you through all of this and you continued to love and stay with him? Yho,o mosadi sadi shem😂😂
Listening to other people stories always make me realize how my life has been one big bore at 34 years!😂
😂😂😂😂😂
That would be me at 37 yo. We haven't lived yet!
Me too and I thank God for his coverage 😂😂
😂😂😂😅
Would you prefer to "live" though?
I think in future stories only refer to him as my ex or guy I once dated. EX husband is too direct he might get ideas os suing to just discrupt your life
Ok noted
True plus it is short👌
I agree
I’m only 19, but from all these videos on social media I’ve learnt “don’t date for potential”, 😂. Yoh mjolo is scary, you can’t trust anything.
Exactly. NEVER date for potential. Asoze. NEVER 😂
If laughter could kill, I'd be dead from the start of this video. Zimbabwe, South Africa's Mexico🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Didn't know Zimbabwe was considered South Africa's Mexico😅
@@thekindpisces2857 No no please no, I was just being funny😁
To our younger sister's do not try and think you can save someone who can't handle his money or who is in debt and tell yourself that you ll help them, one thing I've learned they never stop making wrong decisions and they never learn from their mistakes, they become your burden, enemy of progres because you must always be on stand by to bail them out 😢, so nje ladies once a person mentions debts, they are a liability ,just run for your life even if your relationship is on honeymoon phase ,you'll thank me later
True, best advice
Not Owamie counting herself in with the thugs, "coloured guys were more criminal than US" 😂😂😂
The way I laughed when I heard her say that😅😅😅
This dusted me🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂 I laughed so hard
That part finished me shame 😂😂😂😂
And she was so serious after saying that 😭😂😂😂
"We were forever in financial trouble, that man turned me into a beggar". I just laughed even though it's sad 😂😂😂😂😂😂💔
You should've let them arrest him. Would've saved you a lot of trauma. Also, protecting men from the consequences of their actions makes them pathetic, weak, entitled and disrespectful!!!!!!!!
Honestly i now understand why you filed for divorce,you have sacrificed a lot in your marriage🤞🏽You honestly have reach your limits then he still cheats. Mxm some man are ungrateful.
I love your stories Sisi. But if you left him you wouldn't have gained the experience and skills you got now. God knew why it was important for you to be with him.😍😍
I'm 31 and my 20s have never been this colorful hle. People have lived hle. Owamie you've been through it.
I thought I was the only boring one😂😂😂😂
“Me the innocent one. Me the law abiding citizen” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 killed me!!!
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Owamie please go to that “I’ve been through the most” show because wow!
😩That video would be 24 hrs long😭
😂😂😂
I’m really enjoying these story times ninja! Forgot to comment on the previous one… you’re so relatable ninja, something I know not all content creators have
I’m glad you left!!! Your life now 😮You’ve mentioned that it’s not all glitz and glam, but girl…. You’re really doing amazing, you’re a real inspiration ninja. Keep on keeping on girl… things will always keep aligning for you! Much love❤
Owamie saying being poor it seems you get dom Kopp nyana.😂😂😂😂😂😂❤
Not you being the mastermind of leaving to Zim🤣🤣😭😭I'm on the floor 🤣🤣😩
I'm done by being fugitive in Zimbabwe 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The whole Ninja 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"They were even more crooked than us"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ijooh he committed Pejury 😂😂😂he can go to jail even now...he lied under oath...you will get him in serious issssh😂😂😂...I hope no one has beef with him😮😮😮
The things we do for Love. Please write a book. How Nandipha got the courage to play around with dead bodies with no emotions i dont know. I was watching her interview with MacG where she is encouraging the youth not to go to school and rather be creative. Just like her man..
Bra the stories you share about your earlier life are me and my boyfriend!!!! every thing money wise. Comparing our families, money, financial education, success appetite, hustling or formal salaries? Me is you and He is him. We still early 20s me and Late 20s him. It bothers me coz I want more for myself in the future, he dreams of a driving latest Polos, I want to stay in an estate and I don't mind working for it. He loves me but I wonder if that's enough or I will despise
him in the future.
Driving latest polo 😂😂😂
Not latest polo😭🤣🙈.
Financial compatibility is a huge factor in a relationship. If he is holding you back from where you see yourself going you need to break free sooner rather than later. If you can elevate him to dream bigger you can work on it.
"He's too sweet, he's too soft...they're definitely gonna make him the woman in prison" haibo Owamie 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
I choked 😭
😂😂😂
😂😂😂I was looking for this comment
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Thank you Owami. We appreciate this. I just download all your story times and listen to them at home while drinking coffee or snacking. We love them. Keep them coming. We missed this
Please watch them on UA-cam platform it helps me😢
@@OwamieEntertainment Noted sis
@@sunrise7640 ❤❤
It's the 'in jail their gonna make him the woman' part for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm done
Tell us these stories SHIBUBU. Those who don’t want to hear, move on to other channels.
Yebo
15:45 "they were even more criminals than us"🤣🤣🤣ish owamie yaz you make me happy
That's the part that got me too😂
😂😂😂😂
You are so funny😂😂😂😂 u realy went through it all😢 I never laughed this much😂😂 U can really tell the story 😂 Yes wena Dr Nandi light😂
Dr Nandi light
@@musie_mt867😂😂
I'm so glad that you didn't have any kids with him
It's so funny.! "You'z not for the streets hunny, You'z for the jobbing".
YHOOO, I'm not laughing at you shame - but damn you almost went where for what??!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yoh Owami you have been through a lot shame 😭😂😂
You are such a good story teller 👸 queen ninja😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Nna I enjoy your stories. You've bn through the most tjoo.
Firstly, Owamie why don't you take things seriously? Your laugh cracks me up - mind you I am at work watching this 😆🤣 But on a serious note - your Storytime's make me respect you more because girl you've been through it but look at you now!!! 👏👏👏👏
Yes mama Ninja, it's your story, you can tell your own way
Heee Wamie, your Bonnie and Clyde era😂😂😂😂😂😂
I hope a lot of us ladies can really take the lesson here. But your humour throughout 😂😂😂
15:48 😂😂😂😂they were more criminals than us lmaooo 🤣🤣
Hahaha. @15:46 Owami said more criminal than “us” 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I died! Criminal by association mtase
You know moss😂😂😂
This killed me 😂😂😂😂
“Forever yena” kind of vibes 🤣🤣🤣🤣
"He was a good jober"😂😂😂😂I'm unable to can😂😂😂😂
I died hey 😭😭😭
Also the women that fall for this kind of man are women who never got love from their fathers or their dads were emotionally absent, or physically absent. The woman wants this man to validate her existence she is trying to heal the wound hee father created by playing savior to this man while this man also seeks his mother in the woman and expects unconditional love from her. It's so sad because the codependency is so addictive yet toxic.
wow. thanks for this explaination. very true.
Not always true. It’s either of the parents. So it could be the mother. Or any other guardian.
@Sesi it’s not. Nonto specifically said fathers and then dads. That’s what’s the same. Not fathers and mothers or guardians. Not the same at all sis. So ‘bathong’ right back at you.
Dr nandpiha was loved raised by her dad. Its not 💯 true
@Sesi what’s your problem? Sounds like you’re the one who needs the water. Chill girl! Hahha jeez.
The fact that these people subscribed to your PERSONAL BLOGGING CHANNEL that you deliberately separated from your work channel are complaining about you telling your personal stories is very weird.
Also, at this point you need to write a book mtkbw cause you've been through it! 🙆♀️
You have been through alot and what I can tell you is that " Everything happens for a reason." We might not know why but all we know and trust it's for our good. 🌿
It's "they were even more criminals than us" for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
Thank u Ninja , we loooove this channel ❤😅..keep the story time coming. People like story times that are fabricated I personally love Owami's story times cos I know they are real and they are her experiences which we can learn from
I hate friends like abo Mark😑Mr B Guy was very lucky to have a woman like you....I'm sure usazisola namanje💔
Something that has to do with criminology🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣this killed me😂😂
"they were even more criminals than us"🤣😂🤣😂
😂
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You are a really good story teller... 🤩.
Queen Ninja, you're my inspiration 🤗
I am having such a bad day, been crying till I decided to distract my mind a little, then watched this 😅😅bona am I not distracted and laughing at this story 😅😅😅. Im sorry about this experience and thanks for sharing it at a light mood
By the way; this man is our children’s educator now?. Tjoo!! Lord have MERCY!
Owamie,you got me right there.Things we do to ourselves
Honestly I hate ads but I try to not skip by going through comments, it’s better that way. Get your coins queen ninja, your content is great 👍🏽😌
I love you🥰
I don't know when I last listened to a GOOD STORYTIME❤
Dr Nandipha 101
You are right ninja. It's like girls who have dadbeats end up dating older men bècause they portray a father figure to them
Yes wena Dr Nandi 😭🤣🙈❤️
And baninzi ke Sana ooDr Nandipha
what yo have done ke se se diriwang ke bomme botlheout there,we try by all means to protect them.
Yho was also a mother of a man who was 10 years older than me in my marriage. I respected that man even after the divorce, imagine cooking for him bcs you still staying with him bcs you have no place to stay as I was not working...........
Shame skepsel🤣😂😂😂andiyihleki sana.. Eiii siyagowisha shweem kwa love lives here rhaaaa😩
I love those earings ninja I drool over them everytime you post wearing them
15:45 I died😂😂😂 "us"
Xhosa suits u ke mntakabawo! ❤ Like u hv some accent on those small words.... Your make up looks are proper can u tutor us?
Mina in my mind Owamie is my big sis ❤🥰
😅😅😅😅 Queen Ninja i can't live without your story times
I relate to your stories so much 😂
"My criminal husband"🤣🤣🤣🤣
That was stupid of him. How can you buy another man a car under your name, not even your wife? Not even a phone, a whole car... Hay he was kinda dumb on that one...
Lovely storytime Ninja. But please change the background music
Kubo ka "Love"..zyabuya ...maar Owamie I loved this storytime I'm seeing Bigguy akhukhuna ka computer when cameras are watching him lols😛🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣angsahleki but sorry sis 😂😂
Owamie, dear, have no regrets… important thing is you learnt from it and all these things happened to create this beautiful strong you today! Hey, you are smart enough to make shmoney from that ‘going through the most’ era 💃🏻💃🏻
Not me laughing all the way 😂😂😂 you have been through a lot shem girl! but that life taught you to be a strong woman you are.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂We all have magudumana in us 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I enjoyed this Queen ninja is good story teller
That guy is a story time on his own😂😂😂😂😂
I laughed dead
You can say that again 😂
Your life with your man Owam is exactly like my life with my man, i always clean up his mess, I always tell him that angisakuboni njengendoda, sengibona ipara in you😢 he’s always in debt 💔🤦🏿♀️
Mam not iphara😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 sorry hle
I've been there @Bulelwa, thinking I could save a man from his distructive ways but I'm suggesting you stop. I realized I'm not his mother and definitely not Jesus honey
Mara Owamie you have LIVED!!. Aowa!!!.😢😢 I wish you find love. Happy ever after. From your deadbeat dad to the toxic ex?. Haii you deserve a break!! But just heal first thle. I pray healing upon your soul.
Most of this Men who are husband-wife, like literally your the men of the house because you bought a house, etc. BORSABAKI will dry you out while they are building their empire somewhere.
One more reason of the 3500 reason I have to not get married.
You are not alone 😂😂😂
Love love your story times, I wish you can post daily 😂😂😂
😭😭🤣me scrolling to find the short man' s name 😂
Eish these two have added two words in the dictionary . Ladies don't Nandipha for your man , no matter his level of bestering shem
Even in the beginning of the relationship they will tell you about their past traumas, so you feel pity for them for the rest of the relationship.
You even understand him abusing you, because you only hang on to that pity party they portrayed in the beginning of the relationship.
Imagine running to Zimbabwe and he cheat😅😅😅😅Yoo "man will hambarus you" ka voice ya owamie
😂😂😂😂😂
Kodwa Queen Ninja 😂😂😂😂😂 I really enjoy your story times
Simmonds Street is standard bank head office 🤣🤣🤣
I forgot bank city. It’s 50/50 🤣🤣🤣
Vele, it's not his traumas, o sele!!!!!
I am here for the analysis of the possible dynamics between Nandipha and Thabo Bester even though I think there was also some level of psychological dysfunction with Nandipha as well.
Owamie you went through it jooh
People are weird, please don't stop Ninja, we are learning a lot herr
1 ply tissue 😂.... the trauma 🙆🏽♀️😂🙆🏽♀️
Love how you told your story added humour, and still advised fellow sisters on making better life choices
Yoh hai Queen Ninja this man put you through a lot. Good riddance to bad rubbish! 🚮
Your voice and stories are enough…please Dont add music in the back
Indeed , music kinda is a distraction as we are listening
😂😂😂😂😂these story times are my fave, thank you for sharing Owamie🤍🤍
You were almost a Masgebenga number 2 🤣💦🤣💦🤣💦
Love is blind, but marriage is an eye opener!
So you told him to run away. 😂😂😂😂😂. I like it that you told the truth that it was your idea. Not that he said lets run and you follow sheepishly 😅😅😅
I love these stories and narcissists will always make you not say the story that actually happened to you…weird! Like whose life is this? I think men in our 20s ziziqalekiso yhuuuu 🤣🤣🤣 disaster nje shem.
Hi Dr Nandipha lite😂😂😂😂
Yenza imali wena Owamie, Thina si👂also taking 📝
Keep the stories come I enjoy.... Iol criminology 😂😂😂😂😂😂
We don’t speak enough about Mommy Issues …. People with Mommy issues I worse than those with Daddy issues 🤞🏾
Mark was not for us 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️Mark was ratchet
We can never say we know Owami 😂😂😂 1 moment the husband bought her phone ,1 moment she was earning more than him . Clearly I need to watch more of Old videos .
You are such an inspiration girl, I love your honesty ❤
I also married a broke ass guy Owamie and the family blamed me that I was Lea ung him because he didn’t have money hay bo!!!
Then when you marry someone with money you are a gold digger. You can never win!
Hai Owami, you are the definition of love is blind😂😂. He put you through all of this and you continued to love and stay with him? Yho,o mosadi sadi shem😂😂
In jail they will make him the woman 👩