‘I Believe She’s Even More Delusional Than I Thought She Was,’ Says Mom Of Homeless Daughter
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- Опубліковано 2 кві 2018
- A 22-year-old single mother adamantly denies her parents’ claims that she’s verbally and emotionally abusive to her 2-year-old.
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When the mum calls her daughter delusional the daughter laughs in a full on delusional way
This girl was really intense - but if you watch the intro clip you'll see her parents failed her. She was molested at 9 and then they sent her back to foster care like 2 years later. 😱
They adopted her at 10 along with her brother
Unfortunately, when you hit adulthood all bets or off. It becomes your responsibility to get help. One cannot perpetually lie , have children and not make sound decisions. You can’t. Life isn’t fair. People are failed. One has to move on. It’s really hard but people do do it.
I wasnt talking about her decisions, I just meant the intensity of this interaction. Bc a lot of ppl were saying she shouldn't sound that way.
@@jennifert2953 you sound so ignorant. Do you know what trauma and abuse does to the brain? It literally causes brain damage leading to a host of mental health and often times physical health issues as well. These people are mentally, emotionally and spiritually arrested. Most people don't even have the ability to consciously understand that they need help because their trauma bonds and patterns have them quite literally stuck in cycles of abuse.. Its people like you who are are so ignorant and judgmental that perpetuate this problem. What we need are compassionate, TRAUMA INFORMED people who understand the effects of abuse and what a person truly needs to get better. omfg the idiocy among humans never ceases to amaze me Im so sick of it.
@@nryanmusic You are exactly right. I’m 45 and can’t function because my executive functioning skills are at an all-time low, and I’m dealing with memory loss as if I had dementia. That is what PTSD can do to a child. This girl needs some intensive mental health therapy and probably an occupational therapist to give her some coping skills and hacks for life. Someone needs to make sure the baby’s safe, though. Calling CPS might be helpful as they really pull out the stops to help parents get on track IF the parent accepts help and works at it.
She’s just blaming everyone else.
She genuinely seems to love her child. She needs to take care of herself a bit better though.
There’s no denying she loves her daughter, but right now she doesn’t meet the proper criteria for parental fitness.
Agreed..she absolutely loves her daughter. She just needs to learn how to make better choices. She needs to mature more.
Really? She strikes me as a genuine narcissist.
The most important thing to her about her daughter’s development is that she knows her ABCs. Never once does she say anything substantive about her love for her; it’s only a slew of accusations and denial.
She is also leaving her child with a demographic that has one of the highest propensities to rape children, and she doesn’t see a problem with it.
That being said- NPD has been proven to be inheritable through parents. I won’t go as far as to say her mom’s not pathological to some degree as well.
Are you serious?! Someone who loves their child doesn’t leave them alone with a pimp!
@Donna My thoughts exactly. If she truly loved her daughter, she would not allow her to be in that type of environment. Even if it meant giving her up so that she could have a safe and stable childhood
She has zero self-control. I truly believe she’s insane.
Her parents claim to fear for their granddaughters well being but yet they throw them out in the streets in the snow. They don't care about their granddaughter. They're therapists which is insane to me, I'd never go to either of them for help. They can't even help their own daughter or granddaughter
You’re looking at this wrong.
@@kathconserv She has a point though. Their daughter is out of control and even though she's an adult and it's good that their not trying to enable her bad behavior, they can't claim to be concerned for their granddaughter when they haven't even offered a finger to help. At the bare minimum they should've gotten her some psychological help (even though they're therapists who raised this train wreck). And keep in mind that she was taken out of their custody at one point so they obviously aren't the model parents either.
@@kathconserv Not at all. She's looking at this FAIRLY. Its simple cause and effect. I don't get to kick my child out of the house while simultaneously expressing concern that she may be homeless. That is completely ridiculous and illogical. Its like cutting someone's legs off and bitching at them for their inability to walk at the same time. You can't have it both ways.
@@claytonlusby2505 No, she is looking at it wrong. They care enough for their daughter to kick her out because she needs to either hit rock bottom or turn her life around before she gets there. That is not going to happen if she has no motivation to do so. As for getting her help, she didn't want the help. You can send her, but that doesn't mean she will use it.
@@haji818721 And guaranteeing she be homeless is the way to do that? Write that on her tombstone. "We love our daughter so much that we made her homeless and hungry." I can agree she needs to straighten up and learn but this method has failed so many times, I don't understand why some people still do it. If thats what "love" is, who needs hate? You can keep it.
She has absolutely no self control... if she behaves this way on national tv , I know she’s a mess off camera
Treasure is that you?
Her mom is a narcissist
Parenting isn't for everyone... I feel bad for her. She was obviously raised in a way that damaged her! Where is that discussion?!
well no, it has nothing to do with her being on national TV. She's acting this way because shes conversing with the two people who abandoned her. wouldn't you be angry as well. when shes alone with her child, her parents aren't there and therefore there is no one for her to be angry with and she would be acting normal. it's only because she's talking to her parents why shes acting like this. so the television has nothing to do with her behavior, the proximity to her parents is though. she may very well act worse than this when she is with her parents and off TV, we don't know, but as far as her behavior around different people goes, she is probably a lot more calm when it's just her and her kid.
@@braedinkolar8357 that was my point, you just typed it out longer lol … her behavior on national tv knowing others are watching … indicates she acts a mess/worse off camera…
I doubt the parents. She said she was removed from their custody at one point. Why was this not talked about.
It was because they allowed contact with the daughter when she was to have none.
@@haji818721 contact with the daughter?? The 22 yr old was removed for a while from her parents as a child.. are we talking about the same thing ?
Exactly.The parents are fishy.
This girl needs to take some damn responsibility. You are an adult with a child. You are not their problem so figure it out
2:38 why she laughing like Cruella De Vil tf
She even looks the part
She blames her parents for her poor decisions. Tells me all I need to know.
Her parents flat out did a play by play on how messed up she is and how thats affecting their granddaughters development... yet they obviously did something to negatively impact their daughter's development. Now she makes bad decisions. Hypocritical is an understatement.
They found out she struggling and kick her out of the house and now make her struggle to now pay a place to live it's not entirely their fault but the saw a sick person and turned their back
@@blu3bugjunkie420 THANK. YOU. 👏👏👏👏👏
There is a reason for everything. Her parents choose to kick her out of the house in 6 inches of snow (which she remembers until now), fail to lend her a helping hand when she needs it, and only knows how to blame her when she makes a wrong judgment. Who needs this kind of parents?! Parents can make wrong choices too, and they ONLY see their child's one.
Ik like grow tf up. Time to be a parent. And where is the father?
she sounds friggin nuts. whatever the case with parents... when u become an adult and have a kid... usually goes without saying stripping is prob the highlight of their life.
Why would that be a highlight..
This looks like Narcissistic abuse. Parents caused her to get "crazy" to the point she's clearly hurting and screaming for help. Then they act all calm like they're innocent and wouldn't do no harm. Typical narcissistic behavior. They make you look like the crazy one to make them look sane.
She is crazy and she needs to take some responsibility for her actions. All she does is blame other people.
She say she works as sugar baby because it does pay the bills what bills? She doesn’t have a room or basement to go like where the money goes? Why she blame her parents when she is responsable for her daughter???
Jessica is the sweetest person. She is subjected to numerous bad situations and all she did is trying to make the best of what she got .. love her
How is she blaming her parents wtf
So where are they now?
She and her brother were adopted at age 10. Clearly she had lots of trauma before then, and some things can't be fixed.
She's acting like a nut & she's never shutting up
"It's your fault that I do stupid things!!!!"
Anyone else notice how the mother talks like a child? “It makes me very saaaad”
Knowing your ABCs, 123s and colors doesn't mean you have the mental, emotional, and physical stability required for proper emotional and mental and physical development. Homeless mothers teach their kids the same things, but those homeless children are not developing stability. I think the child's mother is making selfish decisions and doesn't understand the impact her lifestyle can and will have on her child. However, I wonder what happened to her growing up that she ended up in this position and I don't doubt the grandmother and possibly the grandfather have made some bad decisions themselves.
Throwing your child out into the street when they are already struggling, I'll never understand. I would never do that.
If she was a sugar baby her men should have been setting her up in an apartment, provide her with a car and money and basically showering her in luxury right ? So why was she in a homeless shelter?
It's not their job to help you, it's your job to help you. She's not a child anymore they have no liability to take care of you anymore. I hate that she blames her parents, that's entitled behavior for sure.
The mother actually seems eerie to me.
I know narcissists who are extremely controlled and calculated. If they are women, they may have a very sweet-seeming demeanor to them. People never imagine that anything is off about them, and they believe everything they say.
I'm not saying that's the case with the mother, but I'm saying it is a possibility.
Also, the fact that the father doesn't speak at all can be a big clue. (I don't know how much he spoke in the exchange outside of the clip.)
I feel like just because the daughter is loud and the mother is pretty collected and calm, we're immediately forming a negative impression of the former. It's possible she's genuinely telling the truth, or needs help and not ridicule but it's easier to laugh at her than realise that.
I’ve been friends with liars before, and this is exactly how they act. We might not know enough but I’ve studied psychology and her body language shows a lot more than you think.
The woman who has faked 5 pregnancies, faked a suicide attempt, etc is telling the truth ? Doubtful.
@@JacaboBlanco yeah I wonder what her parents were doing back then ... It feels like screams for attention ....
THIS. I've been in an abusive situation that, after a while, drove me over the top with emotion. Meanwhile my abuser knew just when to have a "calm and collected" demeanor, especially in public. Sometimes it's the most manipulative and dangerous people who can portray "normality" so well, and when the person who's been through a lot of abuse or trauma reacts, suddenly they're "just crazy." I feel like it's important to not let emotions get the best of you when dealing with these types of people, otherwise they can easily flip the narrative around while society will easily be manipulated into thinking the abuser is innocent while the other person is just "crazy."
Dr Phil has a name for that. He calls it outrageous overshadowing.
You choose the behavior, then you choose the consequence
I'm not sure how confident the parents can feel about themselves when criticizing their daughter. She's *their* daughter. She is a product of *them*.
Her mother seems like she is faking..... She should helped her when she needed her the most
Why hasn’t the mother called cps if she’s SO worried ??
Because she has told them they would never see their grand child again if they did.
Grandmother is so cold and detached.
You guys in the comments are wondering why this lady is speaking over her parents. She was kicked out from her family home, she didn't have opportunity to speak her mind, to tell what she wanted. I am a psych in uni, and I believe these parents are not perfect, the girl was molested and they returned her to the foster care. She does what she can to survive alone with the child, how you can even treat a daughter in this way. Are they therapists? Maybe that's why Dr. Phil sided with them from the beginning, bs
For some reason I doubt this chicks mother. If the abuse towards the little girl is so bad then why has the mother, as a therapist and knowing the trauma abuse causes, not done anything.
Same thought
Therapists are mandated reporters. She could get in trouble for knowing about her granddaughter’s abuse (if her statement is true) and not reporting it
@Smileyrie.yeppoon your relationship with your daughter should never ever prevent you from protecting a child
@Smileyrie.yeppoon what a pathetic mom to allow a grandchild to be in danger just to stay on the daughters good side
Get stronger Jessica, good luck! 🌼💖
How did the daughter end up this ignorant?! Her braincells are screaming!!! Poor baby she needs a better mother than that.
She was adopted by these people at age 10.
If they were honestly concerned about the physical and mental health of their Grand daughter and feel she's in a dangerous living environment....the WHY haven't they taken action to help save her? The only person who suffers here is an innocent child who sees and hears her family verbally attack one another.
She can’t shut up. You stop listening to people who are like that.
And yet when Bailey said she wasn't okay with being on the show if her mother was present Dr. Phil kicked her off the show. But it's okay for anyone else to be outspoken and express concerns. Dr. Phil should apologize to Bailey.
Who?
@@anntrejo
I'm thinking it's that crazy red haired chick who tried to tell dr Phil what to do. She was on the show because she was stalking a woman on Twitter or something.
I hated this episode, I always recall Dr. Phil saying he is the least judgemental person you'll ever meet, I disagree. This episode is a 22 year old girl who was abandoned and placed in foster care, she has been abused, hurt, and abandoned over and over again! Dr. Phil judged her, he treated her like she was trash, I have seen him speak to abusive men and accused murderers nicer than he spoke to her! He had no compassion for all that she has been through! This was a plot to get her there and try to take her child! You have a 22 year old has been given the short end of the stick her whole life, then you have her fake parents, Dr Phil, and his audience against her! That is the cruelest and most judgemental thing I have ever seen!
I feel the pain of this young woman 💃
Her parents exceptionally calm attitude makes Jessica seem even more crazy than she ordinarily would have seemed. She just appears to be ranting at two people that are so exceptionally composed 😬
Give her more credit
Moving to place to place isn't good for any child. Period.
All the daughter does is blames others. Nothing is her fault. I hope they take her children away.
Dang lady… You’re an adult stop blaming your parents that you can’t find a place to live
Whether this girl is guilty or not, I can't help but question doctor Phil for this toxic environment he created at his show. That girl could be a liar but I don't believe her parents are innocent either. For the audience to constantly applaud the mother without knowing the actual truth is very wrong and disturbing. For all you know she could be an actual abuser to her daughter. The point is we don't KNOW!
Call CPS. Now
She deserves saving not public humiliation
Not much to be expected from a fake doctor.
Saved from what? Why?
@@reptilegeeksarentfreaks6319 saving from herself of course for the sake of her innocent daughter.
I honestly feel bad for the daughter she just wants help from her parents but they don't want to give that to her and then they blame her for living the life she has to to survive
Your comment is laughable. She is an adult. Her parents don’t want to help her because she chose to be a stripper and a prostitute.
Horrible parents. These are the type of people that do not deserve children.
The daughter acts like she is high ! A lot of tics !
that laugh makes me think of a muah ha ha ha ha kinda moment 🤣
No wonder they throw her to the streets I mean witn this attitude. That laugh omg...non stop blabbering..
I wish Judge Judy is mediating this family and the show would have end in 30 seconds.
FO SHO!!!!!!!
I like you girl...i understand what you going through!!! Those aren't parents
She’s the one who isn’t a parent.
Exactly. I feel her pain.i don't trust the parent
The girl presents as rude, has 0 IMPULSE CONTROL, cannot follow simple instructions from Dr. Phil, has no insight into her own behavior and is def.high on something.
Reminds me of my daughters mother... everything is everyone else's fault. I close my eyes and all I hear is my ex... sad and angry
Get a job and stop blaming everyone else for the situation you're in!
they ain’t no way you guys are actually taking the parents side….wtf…..
Did anyone else find it weird that the mom wouldn’t even look at her daughter? Like the whole time
She’s ashamed of her lol
The mom’s not engaging with her because she’s clearly out of control and there’s no use.
She's the type of girl that thinks she's never wrong
She needs actual help and stability… the parents are super weird and seem like they’ve got something to hide
It's all mom and dads fault that I can't make the right decision to save her life.
What, do parents have zero influence as to how there children behave? Are children's actions not a reflection of how they were raised? of course it's all her fault - it's the only possible answer isn't it.
When someone would rather play the “yea, well you…” game, you know there’s no point in arguing. They will never see anything outside of their childish mindset
Is she drunk
Yes this woman needs serious help with her trauma and therapy to help her learn that she is loveable and worthy of a good, stable life. However, her trauma is absolutely no excuse for her behavior. She will never change and will lose her daughter if she doesn’t start accepting responsibility for her actions instead of blaming everyone else
I'm rubber you're glue, whatever you say bounces off me and sticks to you. ~ Is exactly what this all sounds like.
Where’s the father at
Her mom is acting calm quiet like she has no idea what's going on. The mom soft voice and innocent look. She's gross ,
I’m gonna play devil’s advocate for a moment. I actually feel really bad for the lady, not the parents. If they’re gonna judge her because she’s a sugar baby and throw not just her but their granddaughter, then they have no right to complain about how Jessica raises her child. They didn’t want to help her, they didn’t want to be part of it. I think before we judge the lady, we have think about how strong this woman has sacrificed to raise her child. Not saying she should raise her daughter in the kind of environment that she’s in now, but mom will do anything to provide for their child. Yes, she needs help, but I blame on her parent just as much.
100%
She’s dysfunctional, but we don’t know the whole story. Could be that they’re telling the truth about her, but she’s also telling the truth about them. At least, in some ways.
@@Adam-bq2vw that’s very true, she’s very dysfunctional. I am not making an excuses for her. All I am saying is that, if her parents don’t wanna help her, then they have no place to judge her.
Jamie Hartford Well I think they’d like to help her, but she’s accused them of calling her vile names, and i think that’s possible too.
Her frustrated talking very fast and also a little bit yelling makes me very sad. They all laugh like she's not also a victim
Need whole episode
The blonde chick is not wrong
Daughter is on something
Absolutely 💯
Have y’all ever even seen someone on drugs 😂 cause this really isn’t how people act when they’re on drugs. Someone who’s been beat down for their whole life acts the way she’s acting. Not people on drugs.
Parents raised her product of the environment you raised in..:
I find it so strange that her parents don't show any sort of emotion or remorse. If it was me, I'd be wondering if this woman has suffered with narcissistic abuse from her parents and the way she behaves on the show is reactive abuse. I wonder if she's even more angry because her parents are putting on this facade of 'morally superior' when she's seen what they're like behind closed doors. I definitely think she could be making better decisions, but she's right, to an extent; she's been put in a terrible position with their actions. There were other things she could've done to try to stay afloat, but she did make some poor decisions in that emotional state that brought her to where she is now. There's accountability that needs to be taken on both sides. She seems to at the very least partially understand that she's made bad decisions, but her parents don't seem to be taking any accountability for their part in the situation their granddaughter is in.
Well I don't know about their situation much except it's pretty volatile. But I do know about that inkie dinky teeny weeny picture of you next to your name.... you are really pretty!
@@markweber1807 Oh thank you! I appreciate it. My comment was addressing at least what I can see on the show. I could absolutely be missing some info, and you can never truly know what happens behind closed doors...
@@varenthian You are most welcome Cyrena, have a nice day
If they are therapists how come she turned out so unstable?
Haven't been a parent have you. You can do what you can, but it doesn't matter because they will do what they do.
@@haji818721 Exactly
These parents clearly failed their daughter and now they want to fail the grandchild too.
Does anyone feel like she looks like “Lucy” from trailer park boys
Just imagine being a patient of one of those therapists, and tuning into this show to see that they raised a complete train wreck of a daughter
I would cancel all of my sessions with them
These people adopted her and her brother from foster care. Alot of this daughters issues were there way before they took her in.
@@Bearsie413 she was adopted at 3 years old
@@cathydiane2558 A lot of damage can be done in 3 years.
Honestly, the parents are kind of disgusting for letting her daughter go like that. Then laughing at her when she’s clearly hurt. This is honestly really sus..
Plus the mom shows no emotion and no care for her daughter.
I feel sorry for that parents
I believe she is manic.
She very defensive
There comes a time you can do no more for your kids, like when they are adults and still blame you for all of their bad choices.
AMEN!!!!!!!
Is she drunk??
It seems like it.
Nah she is high. She needs to put the crack pipe down, no more crack before breakfast Jessica how are you going get through the day.
Shes 22 she can do what she wants.
22 years old and thinks she knows everything. She's a grown woman she can help herself not always depending upon others.
The audience is clapping, but they don’t know the whole story. It’s possible that Jessica is as bad as they say AND she’s telling the truth about some things she accuses them of.
Jessica needs to learn how to stfu. Her parents shouldn’t have kicked out the grandchild. I can understand kicking the daughter out but kicking out the granddaughter, who was a toddler, too? That’s beyond cold and heartless. CPS needs to see what’s going on with the granddaughter, who has been left in the care of a pimp. Jessica doesn’t need custody of that child IMO.
the daughter was soooo annoying like i dont understand why she cant stop talking for a straight minute
The fact that Dr Phil had to tell her to be quiet many many times and she still won’t shut up speaks VOLUMES
The daughter is crazy, but the mother is definitely not as good as she shows to be.
She’s fried in the head. She doesn’t have the ability to listen & hear.
Dr Phil is one sided on this one, he clearly biased against the daughter who clearly just needs someone that cares. She may be a pathological liar and so on but I think the parents had a hand in bringing the worse side of her out.
The daughter is so full of defiance and attitude I do believe she is unstable and her parents care about the grandaughter more than the mom herself.
She Is Screaming ForLove. Love she never received from her parents , My heart goes out to her, a single parent she is doing the best she knows how to do.. How. Can anyone put their child and grandchild out in 6 inches of snow?
Why Tf she keep talking lmao
I went to school with so many chicks like this… it’s sad, take ownership of your life..
“My daughter isn’t abused bc she can recite the alphabet?” 🙄