Parents Claim 22-Year-Old Left Home When They Objected To Her Dating Men For Money
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- Опубліковано 11 жов 2024
- A couple claims their 22-year-old daughter left home and moved to Las Vegas with her toddler after they objected to her being a "sugar baby" and dating men for money. She claims they kicked her out.
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The parents are too clinical and and are cold and disconnected. They are approaching their daughter intellectually instead of in an emotionally intelligent way
when you are dealing with an addict, you sometimes (really most of time) have to set emotions aside. Some emotions will enable the bad behavior to continue on (guilt, allowing her to continue to pimp herself out to men). That doesn't mean they don't care about her. Obviously they do on some level otherwise they wouldn't be seeking out help.
@@dz7a756 He didn't say the parents don't care for her. But that they are cold and disconnected. Something tells me they've not been there for her emotionally growing up either, especially when she got molested at 9 and taken away. Yeah she's unstable and needs help, and needs to own her actions. But her parents play some part in this, and her issues are clearly deeply rooted and she feels like she's been abused.
That's the right way to deal with children who are acting out. If you give advice to other people where you have no emotional stake and then not take the same advice because you are emotionally compromised then then your advice is a joke. Parents need to set aside their emotions and do the right thing no matter how hard it is for a child like this. There were many times where my heart wanted to do one thing with my boys but my head told me to do another and I needed to follow my logical brain and not my emotional heart. Too many parents fail their children by making it about their emotional feelings and needs versus the greater good for the raising of their child.
@@rhoonah5849 thank you so much for this comment. I learned something new today from you that will help me in raising my boys. Thank you 🙏
@@Sssilentlaugh Awesome! Glad to help any parents. My boys are in their 20's now and see things from a new perspective and they both appreciate the "tough love" that they got at times and understand that it wasn't easy for them. I felt that as a father that I needed to play two roles where one time my hands were soft as silk when consoling them but other times hard as iron when disciplining them. Parenting is tough but we can all get through it so long as we keep our eyes on the long game and do what is best, not what is easiest. God bless.
As someone who lives in KS I can ASSURE you these parents probably the definition of gaslight and get mad
@Samantha Vinardi: Girl, I live in KS too, & though there's lots of people who will give you the shirts off their backs, I speak from experience when I say there's just as many who live like they're hi-falutin' but have a "do as I say, not as I do" double life. As I'm sure you'll find anywhere you go in this country.
These parents are throwing off toxic vibes.
The parents are seeing their daughter as a “CLIENT” ...... she is NOT their “CLIENT” she is their CHILD!!! I can’t believe they tell Dr. Phil “Maybe you have a trick up your sleeve, that we have not thought of” 🤦🏼♀️!! I have a trick for them.....treat as YOUR DAUGHTER .... NOT YOUR CLIENT”!!!!
The parents "set limits" in a "professional way". The problem is that she is not a paying client, she is their daughter. They're so accustomed to distancing themselves from their clients that they have completely forgotten to love their daughter, who is homeless along with their granddaughter!
Stop making excuses for the child. SHE is the issue, not the parents.
I agree. If they keep dismissing her pain as not important. She won't get better. She clearly would love to be hugged. She is only 22.
@@resnonverba137 a child who has loving and caring parents will not act this way...
those parents are cold and unloving...
@@mikivanduyn9630 a 22-year old is responsible for her own actions; a child no more.
She isn’t doing anything right though
honestly these parents give me the worst vibes. as someone who was aged out of the system I understand seeking help for your child but they seem very capable they are therapists after all. like why did they let their child rot in the system? i think that's where their daughter is stemming from. you can just tell she feels abandoned by her support system. and it is incredibly harder to be on your own than have a support system. they failed her too.
Yes exactly!! I'm honestly really sad for her I think she feels very abandoned and unloved. Also It seemed as if doctor Phil's forgetting that if she has been trafficked, she has been through really horrific mental, physical, emotional, sexual& psychological abuse.she is definitely very angry and she needs specialized help for survivors of trafficking and rape, because I can honestly say as a survivor of trafficking myself, shes experienced stuff that has seriously damaged her terribly and she is going to need alot of help. Remember that her trafficker or pimp has pretended to be her friend so they could trick her into believing they truly cared about her in order to gain her trust And then when she probably told them about aging out of the foster care system they knew that her parents were never there for her, so they used it against her to make her feel like nobody cared about it but them.
@@pacotaco5526 very well put!! totally agree with you. also sorry that happened to you
She’s begging for attention from them. It’s so apparent.
@@sashaburton9042 She's passing the buck to all and sundry, that's so apparent. She has no sense of self-responsibility and zero common sense.
Totally agree! She is screaming for help, love, and attention. I wonder if her parents would do this if she is their biological child.
And sometimes taking responsibility for your own actions is helpful too. Not gonna get very far when you're blaming everyone around you for YOUR problems. If her parents are so toxic, cut em off, focus on your daughter, n quit projecting on to her. BREAK THE CYCLE, that little baby girl needs a mom who's with it.
Whatever you said is right, but that is hard. Looking at her she seems to have some really bad mental health issues and by her voice, she looks like she's traumatized and begging someone would hear her side of the story and understand her. She must be suffering from depression and it's really hard to motivate yourself because at that point you're confused and tired. So someone should offer a helping hand and make her understand calmly and help her grow and heal slowly.
Bingo.
I get a condescending vibe from these parents. I've worked with many teens who would not react well to their tone.
I am not saying that they can't be condescending but can we say that's really what's behind their tone 100%?.Or are they trying to establish boundaries, discipline and tough love. That's what is needed sometimes and maybe wasn't established too well in their daughter's younger years. Now they are trying to correct that...especially if you are dealing with an addict...which isn't easy. Prayers to all of them.
Be well and be at peace.
@@dz7a756 ugh you're condescending yourself in most of these comments, then you're gonna tell people to "be well and be at peace" after you think you've schooled them with your opinion. Just stop.
@@liamina3563 you are reading it as condescending but that's far from my intent. Having insights or healthy debates regarding people's situations is helpful for all...we can learn from it in some way, shape or form.
And I truly mean this...try to be well and try to be at peace.
right, people like them love to blame it all on their kids. it wasn't just them bro
They’re WAY too cold and condescending. No wonder the daughter lashes the heck out. I would never put my child out on the street, short of being a physical/mortal threat to me or my other children/family members. Especially not in half a foot of snow. Daughter clearly has emotional setbacks and needs serious medical treatment and basic human care.
They must be very poor therapists
She needs to heal, not to "grow up" 🥺
Its not just a lifestyle, its her coping in ways she knows cause she's left alone, expected to behave like a healthy person even tho she's not healthy.
I like the giant powerpoint presentation behind him. "Age 10: threw big mac at mother"
Haha, good eye. I love people who always finds the funny.
😋😋
She is not your client..she is your daughter Jesus christ
They are trying to say they are not hypocrites and they are open to Dr. Phil’s suggestions, something is wrong with you, not them!
How you a sugar baby with no sugar? Lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💕
While it doesn't stop her from acting like a baby.
I’m 💀 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao an aspartame dame
@@Hello-ef3ve you a simp no homer 😂🤣
You know your daughter is about to go out to get paid by some guy for her “company” and you tell her she has to find somewhere else to sleep that night? You’re literally pushing her into these guys arms.
These parents are cold, heartless and toxic. Their mistakes have put their daughter and granddaughter in jeopardy.
Imagine caring more about what your daughter does for a living than if her and her daughter have a safe place to sleep.
It's not for a living if it's unstable. A living is a for sure job, even if it's small, that has a manger of sorts. She is also an adult, who decided at 19 that she didn't want her parents to be in her life. She can not blame her family, when she didn't even want them.
This is just a stupid observation
@@RealMelaniaTrump note how you said "observation" which means you too observed it. 😉
@@isobelpalk5642 we all saw what you observed but the conclusion you drew is totally wrong because those things are directly related to each other
Grow up
So they did kick her out for being a sugar baby after they denied doing just that.
This young woman needs to take ownership of her poor choices!
Clearly there is a serious dysfunctional family dynamic, but she's nauseating to listen to with her nonsensical finger pointing attempting to place blame on everyone but herself for all her life's problems!
She chose that way of life, it was a complete failure, and now she wants her parents to save her once again!
She's 22 years old, she needs to be responsible for herself!
Her parents had no choice but to let her sink or swim.
It's her fault she's drowning!
They’re performing. The parents.
Her parents dont seem loving. Its like they are treating her like a patient
Parents are a FAILURE on SO many levels!
She’s 22 ffs ! Not a child
The parents literally talk like therapists and like they look at her like she is just another client on their list. When they said that she helped them treat other people, i had this feeling that maybe they used her. They never showed proper love, they went at it with this therapist stance instead of being a protective loving parents
The parents are annoying and creepy
She’s so robotic when she talks. Sounds like walking Prozac
@@Lolkatlolkat I’d be on Prozac if I had a daughter like that too!
"did you kick her out?"
"No that's a lie"
"Okay then what happened when she told you she was a sugar baby?"
"There was a conversation about how it wasn't consistent with our values, and if she was going to be a sugar baby, *SHE WOULD HAVE TO FIND SOMEWHERE ELSE TO LIVE*."
These people are delusional. They kicked her out.
No, she chose to continue doing those things. My parents wouldn't allow me to live in their house either as a "sugar baby", their house, their rules. As an adult, if she wanted to continue that lifestyle, no problem if she wanted to move out and get her own place.
@@ShortGirlsClimbCounters … your comment addresses assumptions about my opinion regarding the situation as a whole. I was addressing ONLY the part they said she lied about kicking her out…when they kicked her out. I didn’t say anything about the circumstances or whether or not she deserved it
@@ShortGirlsClimbCounters forcing someone to leave a dwelling is kicking them out. The term can be literal or metaphorical, and in this case it’s metaphorical
@@varenthian she wasn't forced, she had a choice. And she made her choice.
@@ShortGirlsClimbCounters I have the exact quotes in my original comment, but no, based on what she said, she didn’t get a choice. It was either a) be unable to pay the bills or b) get kicked out anyway. I’ve worked as a CNA; they don’t make nearly enough to live on. So no, whatever ‘choice’ she made would have the same outcome.
The parents weren’t definitely trying to make it seem like they didn’t just kick her out.
Just because she has a friend doesn’t mean she can invite herself and her daughter to move in with that friend.
These parents come off so fake. I can’t stand listening to them talk. Especially the mother…her voice makes me want to move to Vegas and be a sugar baby.
If ur gonna live in our home your gonna have to find somewhere else to live 😂
Ikr 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 is he high?? lmao
Why did they hesitate when they were asked things?
I feel bad for these parents they seem to be trying. This has to be embarrassing and make them feel like failures in their career yet they are still here..
Where were her parents when she aged out of the Foster care system!? They basically just abandoned their daughter. I can definitely believe she was trafficked and pimped out she is a traffickers dream since her parents have never really been there for her and I'm quite sure that she was most likely sexually abused in foster care. These disgusting people who pimp and traffic women are very psychologically, physically, sexually and emotionally abusive .she has probably been through alot and she has been traumatized. That poor girl needs serious help and a specialized therapist who specifically works with survivors of trafficking because the things she has been through and seen, is on an entirely different level than most could ever understand.
@@pacotaco5526 Where is the evidence they abandoned their daughter? Everything that's been said and the fact that they are there demonstrate otherwise.
Her parents suck. Their daughter's reality is very real. The parents view point is their reality as well. How about the parents giving het love and acceptance. Also, they need to own up to the lack of empathy for her. The parents failed.
@@musicsansnotes Here's a radical idea. How about she start to behave like the adult her date of birth says she is and begin accepting responsibility for her own actions. Of course, it's far easier to blame everyone else for her own failings.
@@resnonverba137 Her parents kicked her while she was already down. That's the recipe for failure.
I find the parents fake
Anyway to know she’s doing now? I really feel bad for her.
These parents feel off
I hate to say it, but, did they ever consider getting her professional help from someone that wasn't related to her, before Dr. Phil? I've seen that mistake before.
Yes, just like doctors don’t operate on family members
She is abandoned by these selfish parents and now blaming her for where she is now !!’ Love ya Jessica 🌷
These parents are kinda giving me bad vibes.
So just because she was at the mall with a friend you said to yourself well she can move in with his person how can you make that decision and then throw her out they have some part in it to , at the end of the day they are her parents
I'm sorry, but what does "charged with battery" mean?
Charge = they're being formally accused (cops, legal system, courts, etc)
Battery = Touching someone violently.
Hope that helps.
@@sadeatthewhip1846 yess thank you!
I learned from trying many therapists that they're either very ill equipped or need just as much help if not more help than their own patients. Not worth the $120/hr in my experience
Watching dr Phil interact with this man is like watching him interact with himself. They’re one in the same it seems
They don't love their daughter, and they never have. That's why she is the way she is. Period.
If your gunna live in our home.. your gunna have to find somewhere else to be. What?
If that is her choice, then that is what a parent(s) with Unconditional Love need to redraw boundry lines or they have lost their daughter forever to the dark underworld...Tell her to Agree To Disagree...you will always love her...but in your home there are boundries...as for her lifestyle, she is running straight blindfolded and highly vulnerable to the dark world to be injured and taken advantage of...she is not capable of making her own high rollers business deals to stay alive in this world...
That so bull of them these people have no idea what wrong with there daughter .this child was left alone while they work all the time and for got her
The wigs on this show kill me
I am not a fan of the parents.
I've never understood why prostitution is illegal if the people are adults. Why can't people have control over their own bodies? If a women can decide whether to have an abortion or not.......what's so different with prostitution???
@Maxwell Williams religion is seriously pathetic and has been holding back progress for centuries.
Its because of money. They make tons of money if it's illegal. If it was legal then they (the government) isn't gonna get their cut(taxes)
It’s not actually religion or money, it was angry politicians wives who were sick of their husbands cheating on them with said prostitutes so they basically convinced the nation that prostitutes would tear all families apart. That’s when religion got involved. It’s not a religions fault that people want to use it’s teachings for their own gain. I don’t mean to be rude or cause issues just thought I’d make the point! Have a great day! God bless!
Coz that is also a place where drugs, disease and crime freely flow? Duh!
@@matthewmcdonough5601 “progress”? Being able to sell your body is not “progress”
These people are utter psychos and it’s not at all rare in their specific professions
These kind of people shouldn't have kids, period
What on earth is a "sugar baby"?
It’s usually a young woman who “dates” an older man who gives her money, gifts, pays her bills etc.
Mom " when she said she was going onna date to make some money"
Also mom " I told her she would need to find somewhere to stay for the night"
Daughter "that's what I was doing on the date staying out for the night, peace"
Smfh
These parents are just bad at being parents, they are trying to judge their daughter instead of using their abilities and helping her!!
The parents seem to have the right idea but going about it in a really bad way
The daughter really needs to take responsibility. If you are living with your parents there are gonna be some rules. Shes qualified for being a CNA she doesn't have to be a sugar baby. I made almost 5$ more than a CNA as a graveyard hospital housekeeper if being a CNA isn't enough
CNA doesn’t pay that much. And girls do need tampons, makeup, clothes, bra etc. and that cost a lot (ever heard of pink tax?). I have relative working as CNA and her income is $14500 per year, with tax she only get around 13k and she need to have double job/income during since the money just not enough for her if she wants to save money for the future. But now she makes almost double the money since she’s been working as nurse for years.
@@i.k3650 did you even read my whole comment?
@@juggernaught2115 yes. Your comment implied that you assume just because she is CNA she made enough money. Read your own comment
1st of all sugar babies are not on the streets they're not in homeless shelters they're very well taken care of she must be doing something wrong !!!
I’m thinking she may be more of an artificial sweetener baby
@@lillyvaughn5398 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Mr social worker and Mrs family therapist, Use those degrees of yours as a sandwich wrap.
Horrible parents. Disgusting
There’s nothing wrong with being a sugarbaby or being a stripper but when this happens and you’ve got a child that child comes first
There is a ton wrong with it
Nothing wrong. Seriously. We're you raised by wolves
@@patriciaboyd2934 Well I’ll have you know that I am 30 and I have got Sugar Daddy‘s and sugar babies wrong with it or doing anything like only fans witches or escorting
@@toniohennessy4155 I agree, if it’s two consenting adults I really don’t see a huge problem. But I can see the parent’s point of view, if it goes against their rules and values they have the right to ask her to leave
@@ronaldreaganrimjobs4670 lol your username in this conversation..
Parents lie... Lie to me once and I'll never believe you again.
Parents really care more about her earnings, then her well being. Honestly disgusting
This woman doesnt take any any accountability for her own actions. Yes..the parents made misstakes..ofcourse..but if you watch the whole episode..you ll see the daughter doe not reflect on her own behaviour ever. Poor child..cuz she s a mom too (the daighter has a little girl).
Who cares if she got kicked out shes 22
well they’re trying to say they’re so worried about their grandchild’s wellbeing yet they had no problem giving her the boot along with the daughter.
mayo let her grow up and take care of her own kid
@@alfredbellinibellini9624 that’s what she’s doing 😂 they’re the ones butting into the whole thing.
@@ellamayo9619 oh please lol shes not doing anything but trying to suck her parents dry of there life she should move out and leave her parents out of her business period shes 22 years old they dont owe her anything after she is 18 years old shes crying that shes living in a shelter big deal so are the people shes living with are in a shelter the parents deserve peace not any of her nonsense poor little cry baby that she is
I’ve came here from scrubby
Looking her history I m a proud daughter🤣
What?!
Huh?
maybe those parents should take a hard look at themselfs...
a daughter doesnt become like this in a loving caring home...
Lol
These parents have every right to be angry but also need to remember that she is their child and not their client.
In my professional opinion these parents are way out of stride with how real parents bring up a daughter, they have so obviously treated their daughter like a client. Disgusting people who do not understand the role of a parent.
Why not keep the baby ?
it is not the grandparents responsibility to take care of their grandchild. The mother needs to step up to the plate and be a parent.
@@deborahwellman2499 i totally agree with you, that’s not what grandparents plan to be doing …..however they should have a sense of responsibility to keep their grandchild out of harms way when their adult daughter is clearly a crackpot… protect children!
Parents are the problem!
Always remember we must repent of our sins (sin is transgression The Law Of Yahuah The Father in Heaven. The Law are The Books: Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers, & Deuteronomy). We must repent of our sins and Have Belief On Yahusha The Messiah. HE Died and Rose three days later so that we can be forgiven of our sins!
Come to HIM🙂
Bottom line here, quite simply is this...It doesn't matter how old you are, whether you're 22 or if you're 42; If you're living under Mommy and Daddy's roof, you follow their rules, or you GTFO.