how to be more gentle with yourself

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  • Опубліковано 12 лис 2019
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    Gentleness is something that's come up a lot this year for me. Particularly this winter. Learning ways to navigate staying productive whilst also taking time to adequately take care of myself has been a big learning curve. Here's some of my favourite tips and ways to be more gentle to my spirit, even when my mental health is downhill or I'm working super hard.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 177

  • @hannahgrinnell4969
    @hannahgrinnell4969 4 роки тому +376

    I don't usually comment on videos, but I just wanted to say how perfect timing this was. I have literally been crying and having emotional breakdowns everyday this week because I have been so angry and frustrated with myself because of some academic struggles I have been going through. I have repeatedly been telling myself that I am ruining my life and that I don't deserve my dreams and I am worthless and a screw-up. My mental health has been deplorable, but this video really is a sign that I need to be more gentle and kind to myself during this time, even though it is so hard to be that right now. thank you so much

    • @rebeccayiru4781
      @rebeccayiru4781 4 роки тому +10

      Same here 😭 your situation described in your comment is so similar to mine... I've had the worst week and picked up cutting myself again which I haven't done is years... but we are all trying to get through this. Good luck x

    • @Iamtiffanieah
      @Iamtiffanieah 4 роки тому +2

      I go through same things as well. I’m glad we all learned something from this video.❤️

    • @Amirzio
      @Amirzio 3 роки тому +2

      @@Iamtiffanieah Same here, at the end everything was all rigth. Try to be a friend to yourself. :)

    • @wanaspola216
      @wanaspola216 3 роки тому

      Same here. Struggling with nursing school. Really down on myself. Thank you for your comment

    • @mik2295
      @mik2295 2 роки тому

      Hope you're doing better now (:

  • @AnnaDaws
    @AnnaDaws 4 роки тому +282

    One of the only channels where I'll like the vid before even watching

    • @ceceblooms8666
      @ceceblooms8666 4 роки тому +2

      I do the Same for yours too

    • @AnnaDaws
      @AnnaDaws 4 роки тому

      @@ceceblooms8666 Awww Cynthia you're too sweet

  • @inceleni
    @inceleni 3 роки тому +3

    I painted my room today! I've been saying that I want to paint it about one and a half years now. I DID IT

  • @sophiep3587
    @sophiep3587 4 роки тому +38

    Ok. So today i haven’t been capable of leaving house and going to uni because i was feeling like trash and i hated myself. Went to my youtube. Saw this in my recommandations. Stared at the title. Laughed inside. Clicked. It was exactly what i needed to hear. Thanks to the universe for guiding me through this. And thanks to you, your words saved me.

    • @valzugg
      @valzugg 4 роки тому +1

      I relate

    • @egleslowlands
      @egleslowlands 4 роки тому +1

      thank you so much for sharing your heart like this! I resonate with every word you expressed and it really helps somehow to know that we are not alone in our suffering. Much love to you!

  • @ViaBr0
    @ViaBr0 4 роки тому +121

    As someone who is constantly going hard on herself and putting myself down and not validating my successes this is beautiful lots of love ❤️

  • @lolwhy4015
    @lolwhy4015 4 роки тому +71

    .. be in the moment
    Observe your thoughts
    Listen to audiobooks
    Make time for nature
    Make time to day dream and journal
    Stargaze , cloud gaze
    Go for a walk
    Listen to you body

  • @niamhreid8221
    @niamhreid8221 4 роки тому +165

    Video idea: sustainable eco-friendly Christmas gift ideas? Especially in Australia i find it hard to find eco friendly shops that aren't just for sustainable clothes but moreso lifestyle objects

    • @Camocam28
      @Camocam28 4 роки тому +1

      great idea !

    • @simonemarie1216
      @simonemarie1216 4 роки тому +7

      Hi! My sister who is based in Australia has recently opened her own sustainable eco-friendly online store! everything is vegan/eco friendly!! Find her on Instagram, @the.ecospot :) she would love the support xxxx

    • @simonemarie1216
      @simonemarie1216 4 роки тому +4

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  • @stormsoph
    @stormsoph 4 роки тому +11

    she passes the vibe check more than anyone.

  • @DanaM18129
    @DanaM18129 4 роки тому +11

    I love how in every Video is a butterfly

  • @carolinaoliveira6705
    @carolinaoliveira6705 4 роки тому +28

    you're like an angel to me, thank you for this video, wishing you the best in this life 💛

  • @kaletoast0809
    @kaletoast0809 4 роки тому +20

    The best part of my day was when I was at my homeschool group in choir class. There was less people than usual today and towards the end we played a song guessing game. I had quite fun 1. being my crush was next to me and 2. Is that I guesses one of my favorite artists ☺️(I’ve been having a hard time this week, I had the courage to talk to my parents about an issue I’ve been having so that’s a big step in my progress)

    • @egleslowlands
      @egleslowlands 4 роки тому +3

      it's so amazing to read about the progress of others! Thank you so much for sharing you inspired me : }

    • @kaletoast0809
      @kaletoast0809 4 роки тому

      @@egleslowlands awe, you're so amazing ❤

  • @Nenex71
    @Nenex71 4 роки тому +8

    The days are ephemeral and the dawn uncertain. I do not know what world you live in, but in mine we love and we tell each other. Then our nights light up under the rose bushes. Thanks to be here...

  • @moo4501
    @moo4501 4 роки тому +25

    I really needed this video to reaffirm that I'm stardust and that I am meant to be where I am in this moment. Sending love as always 💓

    • @opalchrist2985
      @opalchrist2985 4 роки тому +1

      Moo Agreed, my beautiful being, we are all stardust😌✨🌎🌌🌝☄️🌠💙

  • @lavender1925
    @lavender1925 4 роки тому +8

    recently i have been struggling with my physical health and it has been affecting my mental state, so i wanted to give you lovely people some advice i have picked up. as my acupuncturist put it, i need to be able to rest without collapsing. for example, meditation and walking are a form of resting, but collapsing is coming home and laying in bed for hours because you feel you can’t do anything else. i wanted to give all of you beautiful people a reminder to give yourself time to rest, and if you, like me, are not be at that point yet, hopefully we can learn to be kind enough with ourselves to get there soon. thank you freya for always reminding me to do the things that are good for me and that i enjoy, you absolutely radiate sunshine ☀️

    • @egleslowlands
      @egleslowlands 4 роки тому +1

      this is such a beautiful and valuable advise! I've been literally feeling this recently and I am amazed how a day off worrying and showing up for myself reversed the things around! Thank you for this.

    • @lavender1925
      @lavender1925 4 роки тому

      egle slowlands i’m so glad that you can work on healing!! sending light and love to you♥️

  • @juliafarres7214
    @juliafarres7214 4 роки тому +78

    You really remind me to Anne, the protagonist of "Anne with an E"

    • @xotakunekox1
      @xotakunekox1 4 роки тому +4

      Love that show 🌻💙

    • @aieshah8060
      @aieshah8060 4 роки тому +1

      agreed!

    • @Nyjae8
      @Nyjae8 4 роки тому +1

      I was thinking the same thing!💙

    • @tysonkim11999
      @tysonkim11999 3 роки тому

      They aren’t having a 4th season:((

  • @hollycesonis2773
    @hollycesonis2773 4 роки тому +5

    I’ve been going through a end of semester slump and going to uni has been a struggle mentally and physically. My therapist said to be gentle with myself. I left confused on how to do that. This was just what I needed!! Thanks freya ❤️❤️ sending love from Canada

  • @carolina3291
    @carolina3291 4 роки тому

    I’m not usually a comment kind of person but I just feel like letting it out. These last weeks have been really stressful because of college work. I’ve just been feeling super anxious and stressful, this week in particular has been really hard to go through. I’ve had various emotional breakdowns and I’m just feeling frustrated, angry and irritated, like I can’t do anything, I can’t think and I can’t concentrate... Right now it is 7am and I have been laying in my bed unsuccessfully trying to sleep for a couple of hours, your name popped on my mind and I decided I would watch a video of yours to see if I could feel at least a little motivated. So I just wanted to say thank you for this, I was needing some kind of wise, friendly and kind words and yours helped me feeling motivated to finish that freaking essay, cook a great and colorful meal for myself and to just breath!
    I hope you and everyone in the comments have a great day 🌞🌿

  • @madamekittykatz
    @madamekittykatz 4 роки тому +7

    the creative energy and utter love put into this video is mesmerizing. thank you for gifting us with this art, I needed it today

  • @dudaschone
    @dudaschone 4 роки тому +10

    freya, for a long long time you’ve been my favourite person 🌱💜

  • @hannahmai1966
    @hannahmai1966 Рік тому

    I am so so happy and grateful for your appearance back on this platform!! Thanks for sharing and bringing some more light into my day

  • @paulacosta4906
    @paulacosta4906 4 роки тому +14

    i cry almost every video that i watch, damn girl

    • @egleslowlands
      @egleslowlands 4 роки тому +1

      so sweet to read vulnerability, thank you

  • @briannawhitty8965
    @briannawhitty8965 4 роки тому +13

    This is generally what I needed this morning. Thank you Freya 🙏🏽

  • @rachelwalker3017
    @rachelwalker3017 Рік тому

    Have been really overwhelmed by the business of deadlines season as someone who prefers to do things at a low pace. Randomly remembered this channel and decided to watch this. Think I was being led to calm down :D

  • @Camocam28
    @Camocam28 4 роки тому +5

    I always have tears of joy when I watch your videos, it's so weird. It's always an experience, keep going !

  • @tessagourley5907
    @tessagourley5907 4 роки тому +3

    This is art if I've ever seen it

  • @milicabrkic3117
    @milicabrkic3117 4 роки тому +25

    I really needed this right now.I've been feeling very overwhelmed with school and your videos never fail to calm me down. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @opalchrist2985
      @opalchrist2985 4 роки тому +1

      Milica Brkić I am sending you peaceful and loving vibrations🙏😌 You are not alone, my friend🧡

    • @milicabrkic3117
      @milicabrkic3117 4 роки тому

      @@opalchrist2985 Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @valentinababovic6922
      @valentinababovic6922 4 роки тому +1

      me to sis😶

  • @chaitrinkerin
    @chaitrinkerin 4 роки тому

    WHAT IS THIS SYNCRONISATION??? Had a panic attack yesterday and was really hard on myself and wanted to give myself some love and learn how to love myself more. wow. and YOUR EDITING??? CELESTIAL!!! beautiful.

  • @HenryBeta74
    @HenryBeta74 5 місяців тому

    You are a kind soul

  • @lenaturner9241
    @lenaturner9241 Рік тому

    The happiest moment of my day was getting boba tea :D

  • @missnikki1488
    @missnikki1488 4 роки тому +1

    I am so happy to have found you Freya! You absolutely inspire me and make me realize what is really important in life! I am literally in one of my darkest hours I believe and finding you and your videos is helping me have hope again. Thank you so very much - sending lots of love your way.

  • @cheleine
    @cheleine 4 роки тому +1

    This brought tears to my eyes as soon as it started. You have no idea how much I needed to see this today. It’s one of those really hard days that coping with myself and my mind seems impossible. Thank you 🌹

  • @opalchrist2985
    @opalchrist2985 4 роки тому

    I am so in love with your aesthetic. And I am also so proud of you, because I know the struggle, and seeing you making this commitment to your own growth feels truly beautiful and liberating🌸💖

  • @evelynfox441
    @evelynfox441 4 роки тому +7

    The purple dress is absolutely stunning 🤩☺️🥰

  • @esoreille145
    @esoreille145 4 роки тому

    What a beautiful soul!! And this is an very well timed video for me. Coming into the end of the year so heaps of exams and a stressful time but this is video coming up in my recommended is the universe telling me to just take a break, sit down and put time aside for myself. Thank you!

  • @aprilmercado5615
    @aprilmercado5615 4 роки тому

    you have such a beautiful soul, thank you so much for being true to yourself, this video touched me so deeply and your channel is just what i needed to find today 💛💛💛

  • @mariamnasser1533
    @mariamnasser1533 4 роки тому +1

    This video is much needed today! Thank you so much freya, you're always an inspiration ❤❤

  • @777Giuly
    @777Giuly 4 роки тому

    you're a wonderful human being🌙 love u Frey🌌

  • @brendapolar8506
    @brendapolar8506 3 роки тому

    Gorgeous video Freya. Thank you so much for all the lovely visuals and the calming soothing voice really helped me through some very difficult times and I also shared this with with a few others that really loved i! So amazing to find this video during this very difficult epoch. Your positivity is appreciated❤️

  • @ashlynn9057
    @ashlynn9057 4 роки тому

    I feel like you are so connected with nature that if a spider is crawling up you, you pick it up and talk to it.

  • @sarasomers2619
    @sarasomers2619 4 роки тому

    Freya, you are so incredible. Thank you for making me feel a part of something. The way you honor your emotions, whether they are positive or negative, inspires me in so many ways. All my love--

  • @luisa7061
    @luisa7061 4 роки тому +5

    thank you so much.. i needed this.. i'm feeling really stressed out rn because of school, work etc. and now i got sick. i feel like i should have given my body a break way earlier and i think i should be way more gentle with myself. it's hard for me to do so because i'm thinking that everything i do is not goo enough when i'm not doing my absolute best :/ but even by watching your video i became calmer and i realised that i forgot to appreciate me and my body

    • @opalchrist2985
      @opalchrist2985 4 роки тому +1

      Luisa Frz You are doing your “best” in every single moment. This illusion can be very hard and painful. I wish for you to see clear and recognize your divine wholeness and worthiness. Yes, you should take more care of yourself. Because investing in yourself means investing in your life as well. It all comes down to your state of being! Much love and blessings✨❤️

    • @luisa7061
      @luisa7061 4 роки тому

      @@opalchrist2985 thank you so much! your message really reached me. if i find myself ever forgetting my worth again i will remind myself of all this and that i'm enough and what i'm doing is the best, my best.

    • @opalchrist2985
      @opalchrist2985 4 роки тому +1

      @@luisa7061 Yes! It makes me so happy to hear that. ❤️☺️ It is all divinely organised and planned. Let's all awaken and tap in to our highest self✨💃🏽 No force, just flow.🙏

  • @violettadipardo5339
    @violettadipardo5339 4 роки тому

    i simply love you freya

  • @sophmiles9973
    @sophmiles9973 4 роки тому +1

    You honestly make some of the most beautiful looking videos and I love how you have a great eye for viewing things. You have no idea how much your videos have helped me and others. Continue with your lightwork. Much love 🌟🌺💛🦋🍃🌻🌹 I admire your authenticity. It has genuinely inspired me so much.

  • @schlemmerfilet1750
    @schlemmerfilet1750 3 роки тому

    You are so beautiful inside out. And so loving and sweet, indeed like a little elf. Such a great inspiration... Thank you!

  • @elinajansson8661
    @elinajansson8661 4 роки тому +3

    And she did it again 💓 What an amazing video Freya!
    Also, you were stunning in the purple dress 👌

  • @cindyaguilar669
    @cindyaguilar669 4 роки тому

    What beautiful mountains and valleys and trees and human 🌷

  • @mo-ob4xe
    @mo-ob4xe 4 роки тому

    Your taste in music is so perfect

  • @violindacanal
    @violindacanal 4 роки тому

    you're simply an angel 🕊💌

  • @emmashrimp1954
    @emmashrimp1954 4 роки тому

    exactly when i needed it, thank you for that !❤️❤️

  • @carolinaoliveira6705
    @carolinaoliveira6705 4 роки тому

    you're such a beautiful human being

  • @abigailniland5677
    @abigailniland5677 4 роки тому

    thank you thank you thank you thank you. i needed this so bad right now.

  • @caja24
    @caja24 4 роки тому

    How can you be so wonderful omg

  • @violettiplady3113
    @violettiplady3113 3 роки тому

    so inspiring thank you for being you

  • @petitsjoujoux5011
    @petitsjoujoux5011 3 роки тому

    This video is ART!

  • @willowbronwen
    @willowbronwen 4 роки тому

    love this freya, love you❤️

  • @valzugg
    @valzugg 4 роки тому

    Thank you. This is much needed and beautifully done! Im in awe

  • @laurakelly2007
    @laurakelly2007 4 роки тому

    Freya, this video is absolutely beautiful 😍😭💖🧚🏼‍♀️🌈 you’re an angel!!!

  • @chase.mccarthy
    @chase.mccarthy 4 роки тому +1

    I just found your channel and I love it. Thank you just thank you 💛💫

  • @maddyb6308
    @maddyb6308 4 роки тому

    Thank you thank you Freya 🙏💗

  • @JohnSmith-pc4yf
    @JohnSmith-pc4yf Рік тому

    This is so beautiful and practical… thank you.

  • @ANA-xv2vp
    @ANA-xv2vp 4 роки тому

    TOTALLY IN LOVE

  • @LanaFeyah
    @LanaFeyah 4 роки тому

    I needed this video right now. Thank you!

  • @MyPerfectWellnessChannel
    @MyPerfectWellnessChannel 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this video.

  • @gwarfi
    @gwarfi 4 роки тому

    You inspire me o so much! i think your just gorgeous and have taught me that to be called a hippie is NOT a bad thing i have grown to love being called a hippie by my peers i take it as a compliment being free sprited is awesome keep being you!! :)

  • @mazzy2415
    @mazzy2415 4 роки тому

    Thank you freya

  • @smmn722
    @smmn722 4 роки тому

    Thank you I just needed to hear this

  • @chemle1324
    @chemle1324 2 роки тому

    an immediate yes from me

  • @armandelufo5844
    @armandelufo5844 4 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this video, you're magic, we are magic, everything is magic 💖

  • @milenajoelle4047
    @milenajoelle4047 4 роки тому

    The most beautiful video ever ✨✨

  • @loris.1508
    @loris.1508 4 роки тому

    I love you so much, Freya💜 thank you for this....

  • @french2572
    @french2572 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much honey boo for making this beautiful video. I absolutely love the visual and creative expression. It had been a bit challenging lately for me to be gentle to myself and this is a very nice video to come back to.

  • @rachaelmorawski4567
    @rachaelmorawski4567 4 роки тому

    hey beautiful thank you so much. you have inspired and cradled me often on my self love journey x

  • @earthmarkings
    @earthmarkings 4 роки тому

    This was so beautiful, thankyou 💖 I am now so inspired to start making videos again as well xx

  • @user-ml7hy
    @user-ml7hy Рік тому

    thats a magical dress🪷

  • @jordanwilliams6355
    @jordanwilliams6355 4 роки тому

    This was stunning

  • @lucystaite6602
    @lucystaite6602 4 роки тому

    This is beautiful

  • @mq2878
    @mq2878 4 роки тому

    thank you!!!

  • @ellemariea2620
    @ellemariea2620 4 роки тому

    i really love your videos

  • @jurjanaltena2467
    @jurjanaltena2467 4 роки тому

    Breathtaking

  • @natandrea3177
    @natandrea3177 4 роки тому

    Such a beautiful video thank you ❤️

  • @FuckYeahSanja
    @FuckYeahSanja 4 роки тому

    Beautiful inside and out. 💜

  • @macyk2643
    @macyk2643 4 роки тому

    This is majestic

  • @eglantine-8118
    @eglantine-8118 4 роки тому

    I really need this purple dress

  • @eb8747
    @eb8747 4 роки тому

    This is my favourite video

  • @amyryder9444
    @amyryder9444 Рік тому

    Thank you ❤️❤️❤️🧡🧡🧡💛💛💛💚💚💚💙💙💙💜💜💜🤍🤍🤍

  • @greenteaabee
    @greenteaabee 4 роки тому

    I love you omg

  • @chrissiwmay2971
    @chrissiwmay2971 Рік тому

    These were some really great ideas... Thank you. 😊

  • @Daonlygirlintheworl1
    @Daonlygirlintheworl1 4 роки тому

    Your videos are so creative, inspiring and beautifully made 🌻🌸💖

  • @mixie094
    @mixie094 4 роки тому

    Im a pisces moon and this is sooooo essential for me! Thank u sweatheart

  • @arinpieterse8221
    @arinpieterse8221 4 роки тому

    Clicked by mistake. That Mazzy Star track in the beginning kept me here.😊❤

  • @rayna463
    @rayna463 4 роки тому

    That purple dress is lovely

  • @alba4978
    @alba4978 4 роки тому

    love your videos

  • @bordelimparfait0810
    @bordelimparfait0810 Рік тому

    love

  • @chiarablocicci
    @chiarablocicci 4 роки тому +1

    Beautiful!!!❤️

  • @xXSunshineReggaeXx
    @xXSunshineReggaeXx 4 роки тому

    This is soo beautiful! Thank You honey

  • @ANACARD0S0
    @ANACARD0S0 4 роки тому

    I learn so much from you... ❤️

  • @cavioorquez9910
    @cavioorquez9910 4 роки тому

    This feel really peacfull

  • @alexissim8139
    @alexissim8139 4 роки тому

    you’re a fairy goddess

  • @francescakray233
    @francescakray233 4 роки тому

    Thank you so much x
    F.K.

  • @sven8209
    @sven8209 4 роки тому

    I love tis style of video so much! Your such a gentele Soul