how to be more gentle with yourself
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- Опубліковано 7 лют 2025
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Gentleness is something that's come up a lot this year for me. Particularly this winter. Learning ways to navigate staying productive whilst also taking time to adequately take care of myself has been a big learning curve. Here's some of my favourite tips and ways to be more gentle to my spirit, even when my mental health is downhill or I'm working super hard.
Let me know any of your tips below!
Big love,
Frey x
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I don't usually comment on videos, but I just wanted to say how perfect timing this was. I have literally been crying and having emotional breakdowns everyday this week because I have been so angry and frustrated with myself because of some academic struggles I have been going through. I have repeatedly been telling myself that I am ruining my life and that I don't deserve my dreams and I am worthless and a screw-up. My mental health has been deplorable, but this video really is a sign that I need to be more gentle and kind to myself during this time, even though it is so hard to be that right now. thank you so much
Same here 😭 your situation described in your comment is so similar to mine... I've had the worst week and picked up cutting myself again which I haven't done is years... but we are all trying to get through this. Good luck x
I go through same things as well. I’m glad we all learned something from this video.❤️
@@UNAPOLOGETICALLY_TIFF Same here, at the end everything was all rigth. Try to be a friend to yourself. :)
Same here. Struggling with nursing school. Really down on myself. Thank you for your comment
Hope you're doing better now (:
One of the only channels where I'll like the vid before even watching
I do the Same for yours too
@@ceceblooms8666 Awww Cynthia you're too sweet
Ok. So today i haven’t been capable of leaving house and going to uni because i was feeling like trash and i hated myself. Went to my youtube. Saw this in my recommandations. Stared at the title. Laughed inside. Clicked. It was exactly what i needed to hear. Thanks to the universe for guiding me through this. And thanks to you, your words saved me.
I relate
thank you so much for sharing your heart like this! I resonate with every word you expressed and it really helps somehow to know that we are not alone in our suffering. Much love to you!
As someone who is constantly going hard on herself and putting myself down and not validating my successes this is beautiful lots of love ❤️
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I painted my room today! I've been saying that I want to paint it about one and a half years now. I DID IT
.. be in the moment
Observe your thoughts
Listen to audiobooks
Make time for nature
Make time to day dream and journal
Stargaze , cloud gaze
Go for a walk
Listen to you body
I feel like you are so connected with nature that if a spider is crawling up you, you pick it up and talk to it.
you're like an angel to me, thank you for this video, wishing you the best in this life 💛
recently i have been struggling with my physical health and it has been affecting my mental state, so i wanted to give you lovely people some advice i have picked up. as my acupuncturist put it, i need to be able to rest without collapsing. for example, meditation and walking are a form of resting, but collapsing is coming home and laying in bed for hours because you feel you can’t do anything else. i wanted to give all of you beautiful people a reminder to give yourself time to rest, and if you, like me, are not be at that point yet, hopefully we can learn to be kind enough with ourselves to get there soon. thank you freya for always reminding me to do the things that are good for me and that i enjoy, you absolutely radiate sunshine ☀️
this is such a beautiful and valuable advise! I've been literally feeling this recently and I am amazed how a day off worrying and showing up for myself reversed the things around! Thank you for this.
egle slowlands i’m so glad that you can work on healing!! sending light and love to you♥️
I love how in every Video is a butterfly
The best part of my day was when I was at my homeschool group in choir class. There was less people than usual today and towards the end we played a song guessing game. I had quite fun 1. being my crush was next to me and 2. Is that I guesses one of my favorite artists ☺️(I’ve been having a hard time this week, I had the courage to talk to my parents about an issue I’ve been having so that’s a big step in my progress)
it's so amazing to read about the progress of others! Thank you so much for sharing you inspired me : }
@@egleslowlands awe, you're so amazing ❤
I’m not usually a comment kind of person but I just feel like letting it out. These last weeks have been really stressful because of college work. I’ve just been feeling super anxious and stressful, this week in particular has been really hard to go through. I’ve had various emotional breakdowns and I’m just feeling frustrated, angry and irritated, like I can’t do anything, I can’t think and I can’t concentrate... Right now it is 7am and I have been laying in my bed unsuccessfully trying to sleep for a couple of hours, your name popped on my mind and I decided I would watch a video of yours to see if I could feel at least a little motivated. So I just wanted to say thank you for this, I was needing some kind of wise, friendly and kind words and yours helped me feeling motivated to finish that freaking essay, cook a great and colorful meal for myself and to just breath!
I hope you and everyone in the comments have a great day 🌞🌿
I really needed this video to reaffirm that I'm stardust and that I am meant to be where I am in this moment. Sending love as always 💓
Moo Agreed, my beautiful being, we are all stardust😌✨🌎🌌🌝☄️🌠💙
WHAT IS THIS SYNCRONISATION??? Had a panic attack yesterday and was really hard on myself and wanted to give myself some love and learn how to love myself more. wow. and YOUR EDITING??? CELESTIAL!!! beautiful.
she passes the vibe check more than anyone.
The days are ephemeral and the dawn uncertain. I do not know what world you live in, but in mine we love and we tell each other. Then our nights light up under the rose bushes. Thanks to be here...
I am so so happy and grateful for your appearance back on this platform!! Thanks for sharing and bringing some more light into my day
I’ve been going through a end of semester slump and going to uni has been a struggle mentally and physically. My therapist said to be gentle with myself. I left confused on how to do that. This was just what I needed!! Thanks freya ❤️❤️ sending love from Canada
the creative energy and utter love put into this video is mesmerizing. thank you for gifting us with this art, I needed it today
I really needed this right now.I've been feeling very overwhelmed with school and your videos never fail to calm me down. ❤️❤️❤️
Milica Brkić I am sending you peaceful and loving vibrations🙏😌 You are not alone, my friend🧡
@@opalchrist2985 Thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
me to sis😶
Have been really overwhelmed by the business of deadlines season as someone who prefers to do things at a low pace. Randomly remembered this channel and decided to watch this. Think I was being led to calm down :D
This is generally what I needed this morning. Thank you Freya 🙏🏽
I always have tears of joy when I watch your videos, it's so weird. It's always an experience, keep going !
I am so happy to have found you Freya! You absolutely inspire me and make me realize what is really important in life! I am literally in one of my darkest hours I believe and finding you and your videos is helping me have hope again. Thank you so very much - sending lots of love your way.
thank you so much.. i needed this.. i'm feeling really stressed out rn because of school, work etc. and now i got sick. i feel like i should have given my body a break way earlier and i think i should be way more gentle with myself. it's hard for me to do so because i'm thinking that everything i do is not goo enough when i'm not doing my absolute best :/ but even by watching your video i became calmer and i realised that i forgot to appreciate me and my body
Luisa Frz You are doing your “best” in every single moment. This illusion can be very hard and painful. I wish for you to see clear and recognize your divine wholeness and worthiness. Yes, you should take more care of yourself. Because investing in yourself means investing in your life as well. It all comes down to your state of being! Much love and blessings✨❤️
@@opalchrist2985 thank you so much! your message really reached me. if i find myself ever forgetting my worth again i will remind myself of all this and that i'm enough and what i'm doing is the best, my best.
@@luisa7061 Yes! It makes me so happy to hear that. ❤️☺️ It is all divinely organised and planned. Let's all awaken and tap in to our highest self✨💃🏽 No force, just flow.🙏
What beautiful mountains and valleys and trees and human 🌷
You are so beautiful inside out. And so loving and sweet, indeed like a little elf. Such a great inspiration... Thank you!
freya, for a long long time you’ve been my favourite person 🌱💜
You are a kind soul
This brought tears to my eyes as soon as it started. You have no idea how much I needed to see this today. It’s one of those really hard days that coping with myself and my mind seems impossible. Thank you 🌹
Freya, you are so incredible. Thank you for making me feel a part of something. The way you honor your emotions, whether they are positive or negative, inspires me in so many ways. All my love--
you have such a beautiful soul, thank you so much for being true to yourself, this video touched me so deeply and your channel is just what i needed to find today 💛💛💛
What a beautiful soul!! And this is an very well timed video for me. Coming into the end of the year so heaps of exams and a stressful time but this is video coming up in my recommended is the universe telling me to just take a break, sit down and put time aside for myself. Thank you!
Gorgeous video Freya. Thank you so much for all the lovely visuals and the calming soothing voice really helped me through some very difficult times and I also shared this with with a few others that really loved i! So amazing to find this video during this very difficult epoch. Your positivity is appreciated❤️
The happiest moment of my day was getting boba tea :D
You honestly make some of the most beautiful looking videos and I love how you have a great eye for viewing things. You have no idea how much your videos have helped me and others. Continue with your lightwork. Much love 🌟🌺💛🦋🍃🌻🌹 I admire your authenticity. It has genuinely inspired me so much.
This is art if I've ever seen it
You inspire me o so much! i think your just gorgeous and have taught me that to be called a hippie is NOT a bad thing i have grown to love being called a hippie by my peers i take it as a compliment being free sprited is awesome keep being you!! :)
I am so in love with your aesthetic. And I am also so proud of you, because I know the struggle, and seeing you making this commitment to your own growth feels truly beautiful and liberating🌸💖
This is so beautiful and practical… thank you.
so inspiring thank you for being you
And she did it again 💓 What an amazing video Freya!
Also, you were stunning in the purple dress 👌
Thank you so much honey boo for making this beautiful video. I absolutely love the visual and creative expression. It had been a bit challenging lately for me to be gentle to myself and this is a very nice video to come back to.
i cry almost every video that i watch, damn girl
so sweet to read vulnerability, thank you
thank you thank you thank you thank you. i needed this so bad right now.
How can you be so wonderful omg
you're such a beautiful human being
you're simply an angel 🕊💌
I just found your channel and I love it. Thank you just thank you 💛💫
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️🧡🧡🧡💛💛💛💚💚💚💙💙💙💜💜💜🤍🤍🤍
Thank you so much for this video.
i simply love you freya
This video is much needed today! Thank you so much freya, you're always an inspiration ❤❤
Your taste in music is so perfect
you're a wonderful human being🌙 love u Frey🌌
Oh my God as soon as you started explaining I knew you were reading Eckhart Tolle! Great advice, but I think lots of people (including myself, sometimes), have a problem with understanding HOW exactly to switch into that state of presence
This video is ART!
Thank you. This is much needed and beautifully done! Im in awe
You really remind me to Anne, the protagonist of "Anne with an E"
Love that show 🌻💙
agreed!
I was thinking the same thing!💙
They aren’t having a 4th season:((
Freya, this video is absolutely beautiful 😍😭💖🧚🏼♀️🌈 you’re an angel!!!
The purple dress is absolutely stunning 🤩☺️🥰
These were some really great ideas... Thank you. 😊
Thank you thank you Freya 🙏💗
TOTALLY IN LOVE
Yeah great tips. I just did my 90 minute yoga routine, and some general questions I sort of wanted to ask as comment on spirituality formed in my head but you beat me to it. Dealing with stress so it does not grow but being productive, learning tricks how your own personal body mind works. I go through spurts of energy growth sometimes since I got into yoga and it awakened chakras. It is bliss when nice like a drug but it can overstimulate, heaten literally nerves making nervous, angry, distressed until my nervous system adapts to this higher energy level. You might call this dancing with shakti. (Yes dancing, sport, moving, singing, bathing all help release, direct this energy as does sleep, calming things like being in nature, music, self massage). I always have this question in spiritual growth 'what next', then with luck I find a new technique which can grow energy in a healthy social manner. This might be slow or stressful. Hugging trees or stargazing for instance. I am reading a spiritual book and it gives me such energy since about a month that I really got sressed but it was growth. I work cleaning. Your last video I sort of was inspired by last evening doing my work singing that walk on wild side and being really relaxed, dancelike 'in the zone' in my high pressure, tight schedued plan(colleague was sick so more work). This energy that had blocked in head or so, freaking me out had learned to spread all around my body creating graceful flow and emotionally balanced happiness. Spirituality can be living right on a knife's edge because without that growth opportunities to cleanse more subconscious emotional stuff and body blockages higher bliss states are not there. We stagnate, becoming for example like middle aged or old person, set in their ways, before our time. Stretching(yoga asanas), sport, nature, nutrition, social life(heart chakra growth) all keep us not just young but stronger, more resilient than we were ever before even in my age(54). So really living to fullest is self realization, not some abstract buddha state of nirvana which 3 still living gurus describe cryptically to rapt audiences. I know you do yoga, have had cool meditation experiences. My question was, in light of my early yoga and meditation experience(when 30 to 33 doing strenuous asanas and simple daily 20 minute mantra sit meditation), if you are stimulating, refining energy body through this, as you are young so it cannot be so long, to point where you sense directly pressure of specific chakras? I read after getting that far about kundalini awakenings, which many get extremely powerful explosive surge which debilitates, freaks out for months or years as they were not slowly easing into it over years of easy going techniques. Basically you seem on slow going, chilled path, very healthy. Watching you and other young people at various stages and comparing, also with my own experience, I can observe with a bit of hindsight. Starting early to get a headstart and being obsessive on yoga and intense meditation might just screw up nervous system earlier if we are not cautious. This is typical of my personality type. You seem to have a much more balanced, common sense attitude. I wouldn't say I screwed up but I hit speed bumps occasionally as I always am looking for next kick or spiritual high, impatient for enlightenment, greater understanding before next life, burn off karna to start stronger next time round. Enjoy. Beautiful artistic videos.
thats a magical dress🪷
Clicked by mistake. That Mazzy Star track in the beginning kept me here.😊❤
That purple dress is lovely
Your videos are so creative, inspiring and beautifully made 🌻🌸💖
Im a pisces moon and this is sooooo essential for me! Thank u sweatheart
exactly when i needed it, thank you for that !❤️❤️
an immediate yes from me
I really need this purple dress
This was so beautiful, thankyou 💖 I am now so inspired to start making videos again as well xx
hey beautiful thank you so much. you have inspired and cradled me often on my self love journey x
Thank you freya
This is beautiful
love this freya, love you❤️
Breathtaking
The most beautiful video ever ✨✨
Such a beautiful video thank you ❤️
i really love your videos
I needed this video right now. Thank you!
Beautiful inside and out. 💜
Thank you I just needed to hear this
this was so fucking special! this is going to help me everyday from now on. Thank you angel xx
love
you’re a fairy goddess
This was stunning
Thank you so much x
F.K.
This is majestic
This is my favourite video
I love you so much, Freya💜 thank you for this....
I love tis style of video so much! Your such a gentele Soul
How timely! I was looking for a video on gentleness the other day but sadly I was bombarded with obnoxious, christian videos that rub me the wrong way. Love your video!
This feel really peacfull
💕thank you
I love you omg
I'm early today! So yay!
Lovely vid by you again....love your content.