THE TRUTH About Why You Feel Left Out And Have No Friends | PART 2

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  • @holisticflo
    @holisticflo  10 місяців тому

    ⭐ Take the FREE quiz to see how meditation can help boost your personal growth and healing!👉🏾 quiz.blackandmeditated.com/

  • @pandangy4077
    @pandangy4077 Рік тому +13

    Connecting with others is a way to apply the lessons you've learned when u were alone.
    Society makes us think that we "really live life" when we are in distraction with other human beings, and we are " out of life" when we are resting separately from the group. I think that is actually the contrary : loneliness is here to make you reflect on your life and give you the space to grow, and connecting with others gives you the opportunity to apply the lessons you've learned. So, finding people with good vibration is a big deal in order not to have a lot of work of healing when you are in a resting phase.

  • @lorettahines7936
    @lorettahines7936 2 роки тому +10

    I had an experience one day in February, 1997, upon arriving home from work, entering the shower, when I was crying out to the Lord about some abusers, manipulators, Narcissists, control freaks, attention seekers and mental-health destroying leeches, liars, thieves and harassers in the workplace. So I heard an none audible voice in my belly saying “go into the Ministry”, so I finished showering and got out of the showers, stepping out in my studio living room, and the Holy Spirit continued to minister to me, was inside of me within my intermost being, spreading out all throughout me, sending me his Love, “lead my people”. It was an heavenly experience, felt good having the Holy Spirit visit me. The atmosphere changed, it became lighter where there weren’t a care in the world, then the atmosphere changed back to normal. I didn’t expect this event, if the churches would have warned us of this, then I would have been more prepared and asked questions of the Holy Spirit..

  • @toriananthony8476
    @toriananthony8476 2 роки тому +36

    I felt disconnected from my immediate family they loved me in the way they knew how, I was included for the most part. I just always felt different and not connected, it’s all making sense now.

  • @nikkinaseem4776
    @nikkinaseem4776 2 роки тому +69

    This really hit home. I have felt this way for years. I am an observer...introvert. my imposter syndrome holds me hostage. I do find it hard to release past regrets. I love when you say the future does not exist yet. My pastor always says don't be anxious for nothing. Worring about something that has not happened yet is like paying a debt that doesn't exist. This was really good. I haven't watched the first video yet but I have to check that out. Thank you for sharing ❤️‍🩹

    • @Apricot90
      @Apricot90 Рік тому +1

      Yet.. we know how society and this corrupt, cruel, loud and crushing world operates so we have all right to worry about the future which will bring many hardships and new challenges for sure.

    • @nicholaslandry6367
      @nicholaslandry6367 Рік тому

      It's allowing yourself to feel what you feel, but also allowing it to leave when it's time to part ways
      If you do the thing, and Guilt knocks at your door (or anger, love, curiosity, shame, confusion, serenity, etc.) answer, have y'all conversation about This-That, & Those, then say bye, & move on wit ya day (easier said than done ik)

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому +10

    She's 100 percent right, when love, peace, hope, understanding, or anything good stands up and speaks out. The opposite quickly wants to silence them

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому +13

    When I was a child, I used to cry out to God and ask him why they hated me so much 💔

    • @fionagrant2023
      @fionagrant2023 2 роки тому +5

      they hate you because they are of the world and you are not

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому +9

    My inner voice and words are erased by this world

    • @louisruffin6808
      @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому

      There's really no need for me to comment anymore. My heart and words usually get twisted hated put down or rejected. I learned from UA-cam and social media that I don't matter to them and what I feel is pointless.

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому +8

    It's all of their negative opinions of me that has given me my identity

  • @iamthetruth1711
    @iamthetruth1711 2 роки тому +4

    This right here…very interesting. Especially the post with Erykah Badu explaining it.

    • @holisticflo
      @holisticflo  2 роки тому

      The Erykah vid definitely shifted my perspective

  • @molini1993
    @molini1993 2 роки тому +4

    I needed to hear this, it’s my birthday and it’s been quite of a lonely month but I am enjoying my solitude very much.

    • @extrashotofespresso_
      @extrashotofespresso_ 2 роки тому

      I hope you had a good birthday. I hated my birthday for so many years. This year I am buying my own gifts, I am dressing up and I am doing what I want and eating what I want. Cheers!

    • @holisticflo
      @holisticflo  2 роки тому

      Wow Im so glad it resonated with you!

  • @soltaniism
    @soltaniism 2 роки тому +6

    It’s true about the media I spent 12 years in nyc and I stayed off media and I changed as a person so much because of it.

    • @holisticflo
      @holisticflo  2 роки тому

      That sounds sooo peaceful honestly

  • @kobra4422
    @kobra4422 2 роки тому +13

    You are so gorgeous omg
    And your vibe just feels right 💙.
    There's many reasons for me including the ones you've mentioned. I've never wanted to follow any group. I find all groups limiting even if I resonate with them in some way. I wanted friends but also to stay myself. Also - social anxiety. There's so many factors it looks as if it was my destiny to experience what I did.

    • @holisticflo
      @holisticflo  2 роки тому

      Thank you! 🫶🏾
      Woww I can certainly relate to wanting friends, simultaneously wanting isolation lol. It can be conflicting. Not to mention certain traumas that we may have faced earlier may contribute to social anxieties in groups. As long as you know what you want and you’re comfortable there. Thanks for your comment! 🙌🏾

    • @NEWPATH115
      @NEWPATH115 2 роки тому +1

      @@holisticflo i never knew what social anxiety was until recently,i used to go out every weekend,had lot of frens that always ready to party ,after a while i realize my life int going noway but down hill. Frens switch up on me,me and my mom hardly gets along,the girl left,i left my job after 10years. i feel as if my whole life i been trying to live how other ppl wanted me to, cause no one ever understand me. now i stay home or go to the beach do work when i have any and i hardly talk to ppl unless i have to or the convo make sense am not very literate but i could hold a convo and lot of the ppl i used to be around just be on pure b.s . The funny thing tho now i on a solo journy i having problems with ppl lol

  • @pinkplushers
    @pinkplushers 2 роки тому +7

    you are stunning, both physically and mentally 💗

    • @holisticflo
      @holisticflo  2 роки тому

      Thank you! 🫶🏾

    • @lasantuzza777
      @lasantuzza777 2 роки тому

      and that kinda explains the whole no friends / always being left out thing sadly. not many ppl are strong enough to be so close to a person in real life who has their stuff together and is beautiful inside and out.

  • @karend185
    @karend185 2 роки тому +10

    Shalom Flo U LOOK Pretty😊 I 👀 U ❣️
    FACTS! Thank U 😁

    • @holisticflo
      @holisticflo  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much!
      ❤️🙏🏾

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому +3

    I don't like parties, I don't fit in. There I am truly alone. I'm their joke

  • @iuliacatrina4834
    @iuliacatrina4834 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for this wise content!

  • @bellebottoms4861
    @bellebottoms4861 2 роки тому +7

    Right on time as always! Here for Monday and Friday uploads and loving the meditation channel thank you🙏🙏 and always loved the intro great job okaayyy lol

    • @holisticflo
      @holisticflo  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much Daniel for your love and support greatly appreciated! 🙏🏾

  • @silvershark64
    @silvershark64 4 місяці тому

    19:27 to 19:38 is what I really needed to hear.. Holly Shit.. This might been some of the best advice I’ve heard yet! 😮 I’ve never thought being your best friend works perfectly for situations where people try to put negative stuff in your head or are rude to you or etc.. Idk, like I’ve always heard it being preached, but I’ve never actually heard it actually helping in actual situations until now.. It’s great since I’ve been struggling with isolating when I feel overwhelmed & highly sensitive, overthinking or just plain depressed while doing it (Since I have bad social anxiety cause of my slight Asperger’s, fear of intimacy & overall low self-esteem) this might just change that now when I feel like I need to do it now in case my social battery runs out, I get slightly hurt or offended, or etc.. 20:28 to 21:05 also hit home too a lot… Def wanna slowly try & adopt this also! 😁 You’ve gained a follower & a friend, I found some new therapy for me too! 🥲💚

    • @holisticflo
      @holisticflo  4 місяці тому

      Im so glad you enjoyed the video! Thanks for commenting and letting me know that it really resonated with you 🤗

  • @Zeedrew
    @Zeedrew 2 роки тому +1

    Wow I barely comment on UA-cam videos but I needed to hear this 18:55 to 20:04 damn …..

    • @holisticflo
      @holisticflo  2 роки тому +1

      So glad it resonated! 🙏🏾

  • @IAMJASMINEW
    @IAMJASMINEW 2 роки тому +5

    hi flo! today was the first time i came across your channel and i have to say your energy is so amazing. i definitely subbed!

    • @holisticflo
      @holisticflo  2 роки тому +1

      I’m so glad you like the content! Thanks for subbing welcome

  • @MegaNoneyabizznizz
    @MegaNoneyabizznizz 2 роки тому +1

    Loved both videos! It's your detachment for me. I really connected with what you said. Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @lorettahines7936
    @lorettahines7936 2 роки тому

    Matthew (Mt)
    Mt 5:1-15, Happiness
    Mt 5:17- 48; Mt 6:1-34; Mt. 7:1-29, Sermon on the mount.
    Mt 5:27-30, Mt 21-22, Adulterous, divorce
    Mt 5:43-48, Love enemies. Mt 6:1-4, gifts of mercy. Mt 6:5-15, Model prayer. Mt 6:16-18, fasting. Mt 6:19-21, treasures upon the earth. Mt 6:22, 23, Eye a lamp.
    Mt 6:24-34, Seek Kingdom interests. Mt 7:1-14, Golden rule.
    7:13, 14, Narrow gate.
    Mt 7:15-23, False prophets, Fruits.
    Mt 7:21 “Not everyone saying to me, ‘Lord, Lord’ will enter into the kingdom. of the heavens, but the one doing the will of my Father who is in the heavens will..

  • @cestmoi8811
    @cestmoi8811 2 роки тому +4

    Didnt know that was you singing in the intro! Love it!! 🥰🥰 Also, i literally just watched the 1st part to this video 2 DAYS AGO! This was right on time for me in my current situation 🙏🏽 Keep shining your light❤️

    • @holisticflo
      @holisticflo  2 роки тому +1

      Wow thank you so much!
      Im so glad you have resonated with the content on the channel. Thank you so much for your support and encouragement! ❤️ peace and love to you

    • @cestmoi8811
      @cestmoi8811 2 роки тому

      @@holisticflo thank YOU, sis! Much love ❤

  • @ImmortalRiich
    @ImmortalRiich 2 роки тому +1

    To be honest only one person text mi otherwise from family matter of fact my family don't really text sometimes I would see a text from them I feel left out my girl start to play mi she keeps lie to me I don't know what to do if I don't text or call people they don't and it's hard for me to get jobs I just need some support I don't know what to do I know I'm strong maybe is a reason why I don't want to question it but for all who going through rough times just keep trying never give up

    • @holisticflo
      @holisticflo  2 роки тому

      Never give up! Sometimes we’ll never know why certain trial happen but we can live through it. If we weren’t able to beat it, we would have been gone by now, but we’re still here living so do every effort to make it the best!

  • @maggievada4797
    @maggievada4797 2 роки тому +2

    Deep. Good stuff youngin

  • @flylady_project
    @flylady_project Рік тому +1

    Thank you universe for the sign

  • @twink6235
    @twink6235 2 роки тому +15

    I feel as if this is what I’m currently going through, I feel as if I’m isolating myself. Things that I use to like to do I shy away from. Things like clubs and large crowds, just turn me off. Like I’m in a space where I’m okay with being in my space.

    • @holisticflo
      @holisticflo  2 роки тому +2

      Definitely
      Honestly it is all up to you whether it is more of a plus or a minus for you in your life. Does it cut yourself off from being able to form genuine connections or is it moreso a protective factor and has it actively benefitted you? Simply something to think about as well

    • @twink6235
      @twink6235 2 роки тому +2

      @@holisticflo it’s definitely been more of a benefit then anything, being able to tune out things that can negatively influence your thought patterns. Giving myself that time I’m finding myself again, my independence, my voice, and determination. In todays society we have to much in the world influencing us an we don’t even notice it.

  • @lorettahines7936
    @lorettahines7936 2 роки тому

    Proverbs (Pr)
    Pr 19:1-29
    19:1 little means, crooked in his lips, stupid.
    19:2 soul.
    3 foolishness.
    4 lowly.
    5 false witness.
    6 gifts.
    7 little means.
    8 soul.
    9 false witness.
    10 Stupid.
    11 anger
    13 stupid son.
    14 wife.
    15 Laziness.
    16 soul.
    17 lowly. one.
    18. chastise son.
    21 plans, counsel
    22 little means, Lying tongue.
    23 fear of Jehovah.
    24 lazy one
    25 inexperienced one.
    26 father, mother, son.
    27 son, discipline.
    19:28 wicked.
    19:29 Judgments/ ridicules, strokes/stupid ones.
    Pr 20:1 wine.
    Pr 20:3 foolish.
    Pr 20:4 lazy one.
    Pr 20:5 Counsel.
    Pr 21:1 Upright..

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому +3

    Mam, the past is gone, the present repeating hurts is what I have a problem with

  • @maisybee2091
    @maisybee2091 2 роки тому +2

    Amazing. Thank you.

  • @MujubeiMotonobu
    @MujubeiMotonobu 2 роки тому +3

    I wish I could be your friend.

  • @badgyalxtine
    @badgyalxtine 2 роки тому

    Great series. Much needed. Diving timing. Thank you for spreading this sacred message! 🤲🏿

    • @holisticflo
      @holisticflo  2 роки тому

      Thanks for watching and Im glad you enjoyed it

  • @lorettahines7936
    @lorettahines7936 2 роки тому

    Deuteromy 18:20 false prophets.
    It is the Holy Spirit.
    “In him you also, when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and believed in him, were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit“ (Ephesians 1:13 ESV).
    “And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption“ (Ephesians 4:30 ESV)..

  • @lorettahines7936
    @lorettahines7936 2 роки тому +2

    Proverbs 22:6 ESV
    Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.
    Ephesians 6:4 ESV
    Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
    Proverbs 13:24 ESV
    Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him.
    Deuteronomy 6:6-7 ESV
    And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.
    Deuteronomy 6:7 ESV
    You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.
    Deuteronomy 11:19 ESV
    You shall teach them to your children, talking of them when you are sitting in your house, and when you are walking by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.
    Deuteronomy 11:18-19 ESV
    “You shall therefore lay up these words of mine in your heart and in your soul, and you shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall teach them to your children, talking of them when you are sitting in your house, and when you are walking by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.
    Matthew 28:19-20 ESV
    Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.””

  • @fairywairua
    @fairywairua 2 роки тому

    Thank you for speaking to my soul🥰🌷🌻

  • @awakenspirit3277
    @awakenspirit3277 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you!

  • @shabakahouse2125
    @shabakahouse2125 2 роки тому +2

    I wish I saw this a while ago. ✌🏾✌🏾🙏🏿

    • @holisticflo
      @holisticflo  2 роки тому +1

      Im glad you came across it at all 🙌🏾

  • @CleoraAleise
    @CleoraAleise 2 роки тому +2

    I love this❤

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому +1

    The negative wants to keep us in chains

  • @lorettahines7936
    @lorettahines7936 2 роки тому

    ESV
    Luke (Lu) 18:15-17; Matthew (Mt) 19:13-15.
    Let the Children Come to Me
    15 oNow they were bringing even infants to him that he might touch them. And when the disciples saw it, they prebuked them. 16 But Jesus called them to him, saying, q“Let the children come to me, and rdo not hinder them, qfor to such belongs the kingdom of God. 17 sTruly, I say to you, whoever does not treceive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.”
    Let the Children Come to Me
    13 eThen children were brought to him that he might lay his hands on them and pray. The disciples frebuked the people, 14 but Jesus said, g“Let the little children hcome to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.” 15 And he laid his hands on them and went away.
    Let the Children Come to Me
    13 mAnd they were bringing children to him that he might touch them, and the disciples nrebuked them. 14 But when Jesus saw it, he was indignant and said to them, o“Let the children come to me; pdo not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God. 15 qTruly, I say to you, whoever does not rreceive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.” 16 And she took them in his arms and blessed them, tlaying his hands on them.
    John 14:6 I am the way.

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому +1

    I never have

  • @zeelayah8857
    @zeelayah8857 2 роки тому +1

    Enjoyed the video

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому +1

    I don't want the hurt of it

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому +1

    I've been thrown away too many times

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому

    They prove it everyday

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому +1

    That's where I am now

  • @aaronaustrie
    @aaronaustrie 2 роки тому +3

    Same

  • @nekaknows
    @nekaknows 2 роки тому

    When I saw you! … you look like me. Beautiful eyebrows

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому

    I live it and I know it

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому

    I'm the blame for everything

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому

    The future is just a second away

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому

    You all gave me my identity

    • @celesteessel4500
      @celesteessel4500 2 роки тому

      What can set you free is finding your identity in Christ !! There is hope, be strong

  • @lamonteplays
    @lamonteplays 2 роки тому +3

    I have a topic you can explore: Is having too many online friendships unhealthy. notice online friends switch up quickly

    • @holisticflo
      @holisticflo  2 роки тому +1

      Hmmm that’s an interesting topic thanks! I will keep it in mind

  • @tommyjohnson8016
    @tommyjohnson8016 2 роки тому

    One of my friends knows how to do card magic he know everyone in the neighborhood and I tell him I'm being gangstalked and he keeps telling me I'm not he keeps calling me when he's outside to talk about my problems so the whole neighborhood can here it I don't trust him if his magic tricks.

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому +1

    I was shown how much they hated to pick me

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому +1

    Me

  • @lorettahines7936
    @lorettahines7936 2 роки тому

    Exodus 19: 5-6
    And now if you will strictly obey my voice and will indeed keep my covenant, then you will certainly become my special property out of all [other] peoples, because the whole earth 🌏 belongs to me. 6 And you yourselves will become to me a kingdom of priests and a holy nation’. These are the words that you are to say to the sons of the Israel 🇮🇱.”.

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому +1

    I don't matter in their world

    • @louisruffin6808
      @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому

      Ma'am, I have a new way of thinking about my comment now.
      I know that this world probably cares less about me ,but I feel that God loves me, and most of all, I love me. The main issue that caused me so much heartache and tears was me expecting love from someone who had no love to give to me. When I woke up and realized that that behavior was just wasted years and time, I shifted my focus. My expectations are all gone for what I wasted so much of my life on. I'm on to better things now. Slowly but surely, God is with me.

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому

    No, you guys think I'm such a awful person

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому +1

    I don't find it funny when someone is hurt or hurting

  • @gabriellehinds1968
    @gabriellehinds1968 2 роки тому +1

    your so pretty

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому +1

    I just can't win

    • @louisruffin6808
      @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому

      I want to make a correction here. I can't win in your world, but I am a winner to myself, and that is all that matters.

  • @lorettahines7936
    @lorettahines7936 2 роки тому +2

    my deceased parents’ issues, were that they stayed in the Relatives business.
    I come to believe that they were mentally, socially, spiritually sick; the families that they grew up in treated them badly, there were secrets involved: they died not knowing that they were orphans. Their God were ‘materialism’, buying clothes, buying furniture and word worshipping the Relatives that never gave anything back; they gave away their little substances that they worked so hard to get to the selfish uncaring relatives that used them on a daily basis.
    They didn’t take care of their own health as well as the health of their own children 👶. They ignored lots of important things about Life, their children 👶etc. they didn’t take care of the interior of their building correctly, the property they purchased in 1951 needed rehabilitated or they should have gotten some other property instead. They didn’t know what they were doing in general; they weren’t too bright, didn’t have too much sense.
    I grew up like I were in a prison with no bars - didn’t know nothing about God, family history, the public school systems weren’t no good, the churches in the neighborhoods weren’t no good..

  • @lorettahines7936
    @lorettahines7936 2 роки тому +1

    VERSE OF THE DAY
    Romans 13:1-2
    Everyone must submit himself to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God. Consequently, he who rebels against the authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and those who do so will bring judgment on themselves..

  • @lorettahines7936
    @lorettahines7936 2 роки тому

    Hello, God is good, Dated 4/06/21 12:36 P.M.
    Find God, study the Bible prepare to help in the Ministry, keep busy, write a book. The problem is that people don’t know that they don’t know what to do with themselves, they’re just lost out here in this big ole world with no guidance, no insight about how to live in the world and how to live Life, that’s why they were/are getting into so much trouble. They have troubles in areas of their Lives. They get into trouble, they don’t know what they are doing. They can be alone and lonely, No body to care about them. They lack knowledge about themselves; they need knowledge and education; they don’t know their Family History!
    Update: 8/18/21,
    Well, you should talk to the children first before swooping or spanking, and see if that works; we all need God in our LiVES; all children that learns to read should be presented with their own individual personal Bible; they need to learn it book per book by the time they’re twenty, because I found out that God speaks to you between the pages; but if you don’t know what’s in the Bible then you won’t know if God is talking to you giving extra revelations (visions)!
    Update: 6/1/21
    I come to figure out that all children need their own Bible, they should be learning the Bible, so when they grow up, they can help in the church Ministry. Knowing the Bible is a must. This country was founded on the Bible, the reason for the education system was for the children to get at least an 8th grade education so that they can be able to read the Bible!!
    Take care of the children, do not abuse, neglect mistreat them. The child may need mental, physical, neurological evaluations to see what’s wrong more then just beating the child. Talk to the child and see what’s wrong. Get the child a Bible so that he/she knows what it says and knows the mind of God. Have family gatherings and talk about family history, Black History, God and the Bible, Life’s issues, etc. spend quality time with the child(s)!
    Prov. 22:6: Train a child in the way he should go. When he is old, he will not turn away from it.
    People gets sick because of food sins, eating the wrong foods, putting drugs and alcohol into their Bodies. Your grandparents and parents had these food sins and caused their offspring to be born sick, you have to take care of your health!!

  • @curlsbyalexa
    @curlsbyalexa Рік тому +1

    💯

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому

    Mam I'm nobody

  • @SweetLadyAces2010
    @SweetLadyAces2010 2 роки тому +1

    So basically you have no control of yourself but we have to control ourselves? You’re not living your journey you want for yourself, you have to live the journey universe has for you. What is the point of freewill. Everything always is chalked up to ego. How do you release control, expectation, your desires, wants, etc if you aren’t controlling anything? It makes no sense

  • @lorettahines7936
    @lorettahines7936 2 роки тому

    Update: 7/30/21,
    7/15/21, 1:06 PM
    Good Morning, ☀️ I wonder who God is going to allow into Heavens, with these people being so evil, mean, hateful, jealous, selfish, liars, thieves, stingy with people that share with/give to/pour into them; don’t give nothing back, takers, taking from you what they want and care nothing about/for you; they go to church call themselves sanctified, holy and pay tithes and still is a dog and try to use you like you don’t have no sense or no good sense, you haven’t noticed it, you didn’t know it, didn’t see it, blind as a bat, like they don’t have no good sense!
    6/24/21; 9:11 PM
    People are something else, they may not like you, may get you fired on the job, may laugh at you and talk behind your back, may think that they are better then you, may look down on you. There’s secrets up in the Family Tree, watch out for those relatives; relatives aren’t always exactly who you think that they were/are; provide a P.O. Box and Email for the relatives, tell them to write or Email, don’t cut off contacts; don’t trust them either, they may think for sure that you aren’t related to them and treat you real badly; they may come with the papers for you to sign the Land over to them!
    A younger cousin told me some years ago, “yeah Relatives and other people come out to the Memorials, Wakess, and funerals to see whose there, they didn’t, never did care nothing about the person laying up in the casket/coffin”. Another cousin who is a few years older than me always say when a person is real sick or died, ”I rather go see the person when they’re sick, I don’t like to wait until they die and run into the funerals like a lot of people do, you understand”!
    I found out that the best way to deal with relatives: provide an P.O. Box and an Email Address and tell them to feel free to write and email you; collect the family history, info, records and old photos so that you can know who you are related to and so that your children won’t marry their cousins; I’m in the Ancestry dna database and my configuration is there is 300,000 1st - 6th close cousins and 3,000,000 7th - 10th Cousins that you don’t even know; the reasons that we have so many cousins that we don’t know, is due to slavery not allowed to know who we are kin to; the rape and pregnation of slaves by slavemasters; after slavery ended, the men folks stepping out of their marriages unknowing/and knowing have offspring; we are marrying our cousins.
    Amen, I come to knowledge that there have been breakdowns up in the family structure or separation up in the roots since the beginning of the existence of people,
    in war torn countries, all during slavery and after slavery to the 1940s; people gave their children away everyday because they couldn’t take care of them, which lead to/caused older people born at that time to have no family support/networks which leads to them wondering why the relatives don’t care about them. The relatives aren’t always exactly who you think that they are, not always with you and don’t give a damn about you. The men folks were marrying women and taking them away from their families, everybody that they know and the communities they grew up in,lived in, then in some cases the mean ignorant uneducated men folks goes off and leaves the woman alone with children, then there’s cases where the women died and left the small children behind, no relatives could be found then neighbors took in the children. Orphans were taken into households of friends of the parent(s) or the neighbors in the community would work out a deal with none relatives too!!
    Well the education system isn’t good enough, everybody need quality education.
    The religious organizations and leaders should have told us what we should do with God, the Bible, etc. quit throwing folks in the baptismal pool and passing out the Holy Communion to undeserving people that don’t take God serious. Put God back into the school system the way that it used to be before, maybe the children would pray instead of fighting and shooting!!

  • @ManLikeEnoch
    @ManLikeEnoch 2 роки тому +1

    Are you Nigerian?

  • @musicbeast_
    @musicbeast_ 2 роки тому +1

    but you have pretty face im sure you got someone cz of that but unfortunately lot of people are were ugly they having more disadvantages than you so if maybe you reading my comment then it makes you realise that this whole video is just an bad incident it is not the real truth. dont worry you have atleast pretty face everyone love to watch you that's why you have millions of subscriber's/followers you think its useless.
    for a moment think about that girl who is ugly/middle-class and have no friends pls don't mind i was harsh..
    From childhood till now, there is a void in me that I like to live with, I do not have any friends in my college, I miss my childhood friends who are in other cities, today it is three to four years old. I am living without friends, when I saw your underrated channel, I thought sharing my thoughts with you, you are the only one from whom I can expect a response. On becoming famous, that connection gets lost somewhere.

    • @holisticflo
      @holisticflo  2 роки тому

      Not saying that I MYSELF don’t have friends.
      Im just explaining why others feel like they’re in this situation and many people can relate. Also, i haven’t always benefited from pretty privilege. Thanks for your comment and I appreciate you sharing

  • @celesteessel4500
    @celesteessel4500 2 роки тому

    You quoted some scriptures in the first video ^^^ would you say you are still a follower of Yahsuah ??? ( Jesus )

  • @holyoutcast2723
    @holyoutcast2723 2 роки тому +1

    💚🌎

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому

    You can erase all my words now

    • @louisruffin6808
      @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому

      For so long and many many wasted years I cared about what this world thought. I tried to please this world the best I could back then. I've come to learn that this world is never pleased or satisfied with nothing I do. I only failed in all of my attempts to win their love and approval. Today is a new day. I'm letting my past attempts go and finally going to try to make my own self happy. I'm tired of wasting my time and years on anything that doesn't care for me. Call it selfish if you want to, but truthfully they're the ones who is selfish.

  • @lorettahines7936
    @lorettahines7936 2 роки тому

    The way to Jesus is believing in him and what he did on the cross. Is confessing him as Lord and savior.
    It laughable that you quote Matthew 28:19,20 knowing very well that y'all don't lead people to Jesus.
    Psalm 127:3-5 Children are a heritage from the LORD, offspring a reward from him. Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are children born in one’s youth. Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of them. They will not be put to shame when they contend with their opponents in court.
    are you telling me that you committed adultery and gave birth to an illegitimate child? Of course a child is a blessing from God. But your act of immorality is a sin. Instead of continuing you should repent and not fool yourself by joining a religion that condones the violation of God's standard. Our God is a forgiving father. Provided you feel remorse and repent. ( Jeremy 6: 16 ,17.) People of Israel took the easy way you have chosen.( Jeremy 7: 8 - 11.) Those religion without discipline are the free way to destruction.
    Oh yeah He did do something.
    Romans‬ ‭1‬:‭28‬-‭29‬
    “Furthermore, just as they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, so God gave them over to a depraved mind, so that they do what ought not to be done. They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips,”
    ‭‭
    I wonder if the jokes is on you now 😅😅😅😅😅😅
    Firstly, the Most High is not like man, nor that He should think like one. (Num.23:19)
    Secondly, God is not a genie 🧞‍♀️ either that you can rub and expect him to do whatever you wish.
    In due time, you who are “Atheists” will regret you ever made that mistake of talking back to the Most High.
    👉 Psalms 14:1 “The FOOL hath said in his heart, There is no God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good. 2 The LORD[YHWH] looked down from heaven upon the children of men, to see if there were any that did understand, and seek God. 3 They are all gone aside, they are all together become filthy: there is none that doeth good, no, not one.”
    👉 Matthew 10:28 “And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.”
    John 14:6 says that Jesus is the way, the truth and the life.
    Mark 7:1-16, Traditions. exposed. Defilement from heart, 7:17-23 declare all foods clean, 7:14-23 defile a man.
    Lu 22:1-6, Betrayal Plot. 22:7-18, Passover. 22:19-23, New covenant blood. Lu 22:24-30, Who is the greatest?
    22:31-34, sift like wheat, Jesus Prophesy peter’s denial, Lu 22:35-38, Jesus gives instructions two Swords. 22: 47-53, Betrayal. 22:39-54 Arrested. 22:54-62, Peter’s denial.
    Lu 13:20-24. narrow door, 13:25-30 I don’t know you.
    Lu 10:25-28 Love the Lord, Luke 10:29-37, Good Samaritan
    Luke 11:1-13, Model Prayer
    John 14:1-21,
    I am the way.
    John 14:28-31, Father is greater.
    John 9:31 God don’t listen to sinners.
    Romans 10:8-10 preach faith
    Ro 10:1-10, Preach faith, 11-15 faith, heard, preach, sent, Feet, good news (Isa 52:7 Feet, good news). 16-21, (Isa 65:1-3)
    Ro 9:25, 26, Hosea, 9:27 Isaiah - Israel 🇮🇱 remnant. 33. “Look! . .Zion a stone of stumbling and a rock-mass of offense, . . ..””

  • @Jasminejupiterjuice
    @Jasminejupiterjuice 2 роки тому

    👆🏿👁️🌙🪐

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 2 роки тому

    No one loves me

  • @lorettahines7936
    @lorettahines7936 2 роки тому

    I took 45 seconds, will you?
    Our Father,
    who art in heaven,
    hallowed be thy Name,
    thy kingdom come,
    thy will be done,
    on earth as it is in heaven.
    Give us this day our daily bread.
    And forgive us our trespasses,
    as we forgive those
    who trespass against us.
    And lead us not into temptation,
    but deliver us from evil.
    For thine is the kingdom,
    and the power, and the glory,
    for ever and ever.
    Amen.
    PS: I wish everyone who reads it would paste it on their page. It's a world prayer assignment, a couple of minutes for the health of all the sick, weary, and heartbroken.
    AMEN. 🙏🏿🙏🏽🙏🏽💜
    #BOOMchallenge , Matthew (Mt) 6:8-15, James 1:8, John 14:14.

  • @98kame
    @98kame 2 роки тому +1

    Most females shouldn’t have eyebrows that thick

    • @fionagrant2023
      @fionagrant2023 2 роки тому +5

      keep your negative comments to yourself

    • @asante-p5q
      @asante-p5q 2 роки тому +2

      Is it a caveman's decree or you're just practicing how to use 'should'?

  • @Jasminejupiterjuice
    @Jasminejupiterjuice 2 роки тому

    "falling out for no reason" 💦🥲

  • @lorettahines7936
    @lorettahines7936 2 роки тому

    Isaiah 52:7, How comely upon the mountains ⛰ ⛰ are the feet of the one bringing good news, the one publishing peace, the one bringing good news of something better, the one publishing Salvation, the one saying to Zion: “Your God has become king!””