What YouTubers and Brands Won't Say | Natural Hair Facts & Tips We ALL Need To Know
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“Everybody roots be bushy” 🤣 period sis
Girllll!😂😂
@@DayeLaSoul , sis you had me rolln! The clap wit it tho...lmao.
Shiddd....my roots be so bushy til the fuzzy!!! 😂
Got me laughing hard...
The girls so real... periodt!!
Sometimes I feel like it’s just me, all these UA-camrs parting their hair like it’s nuthin. Meanwhile I’m here using my finger like a rat tail comb!!🤣🤣
"We naturals see eachother and we know wassup" - big facts!
Dani #salute Queen 👑
"Comparison is the thief of joy!"
Yeeeeeeesssss Daye! Speak on it!
S. Cole Tunstall a wordt!🙌🏾
@@DayeLaSoul
That statement right there transcends "hair talk" I felt that in my soul! 🙌🏽
😂😂😂
I stopped the video and just sat here staring into nothing for a moment when she said that. That statement...
That is the truth
Meriam H. 😂🙌🏾
“We ain’t mixed! We ain’t type 3!” I nearly spit my water out. 😂😂😂
😂😂😂 🤭
Yasss she kept it all the way LIVE!..
Spit my coffee right on out!!! Lol😂😂
+Maya Literally no one said that...
Was Rollin!😂😂
1.) Length check.
2.) Products don't grow your hair.
3.) Just because new products are expensive, doesn't mean it is good. And just because new products are cheap doesn't mean it is bad.
4.) Tie down your edges.
Got it. Thanks for those important tips, sis!
Edit: Y'all....thanks for 183 likes. I never thought I would get that much.
NP
I dont have problem with anything except for edges yall, My edges are non existence and this has stopped me from braiding...😔😔😔 all i want us healthy hair with edges intacted
hoNey brown EyeZ & Cinamon Shade aLl Black
Yeah, it happens, same, with the help of God I am growing mine back.
@@honestfriend767
Good for you, sis!
“Comparison is the thief of joy” come on preach a good word sis!
Ament!
“Just because it’s expensive does NOT mean it’s good.” That’s the one 👏🏽👏🏽. I remember when everybody was on Carol’s Daughters and Aunt Jackie’s products and I paid all the money for the lines and got nothing but dry & flakey hair 😑😑😑.
Sooo I hired an video editor to get my nights back and hopefullyyyy increase the amount of times I post!
How did she do? Y’all feeling it? I actually laughed at myself at 2:54 😂
Daye La Soul everything looks great!!
+Curly iKandi ayyy! 🙌🏾
She did a good job everything is on point .
She did good!! Im happy for you cause even though editing can be fun the process especially when you work can be too damn time consuming.
+Ryan_Mellissa glad you think so!
Amen to the “products do not grow your hair” tip!! I cannot tell how many times other women have asked me “what products do you use to make your hair grow?” I seriously don’t have an answer to that. I swear some think there’s some type secret potion that I have in whatever products I use 🤣
Girlll 🤦🏽♀️
Quindara Monique, WATER! WATER! Drinking a lot of water will make your hair grow without any products. I use only two products to keep my hair and scalp moisturized, that's it, I have very dry hair and scalp and if I don't use an oil on my scalp, it will itch. If you have an issue with dry hair, find that one product that works for you and stops, don't keep buying other products to add to it. Drink a lot of water or increase your intake and watch the results.
It's all about good practices PERIODT!
Barbara Peller what oil do you use?
@@jazzmines.9381, I only use JBCO.
I understand what you explained for tip no.4. African/black persons hair of 4c type, our hair grow via height and not length. We look for length because of the European attributes and way and looks. I got you sis! We should be checking how high is our hair now and not how long it is.
Height vs length! Perfect wording!!!
Indeed!❤💯
Curnelle Hercules somebody should tell black guys this especially the one's in Africa 👏👏👏 FACTS*
Shrinkage is the only uniqueness about our hair. Without it our hair is ordinary. 😄 Shrinkage is healthy.
Sis let em know!!! I feel like sometimes as a naturals we can get so caught up in everyone else’s stuff. The best thing I did for MY hair was focusing on MY HAIR. When I started to get to know my moisture level, density, strength, etc that is what help me get more length . My fro got bigger, my hair grew longer and it’s more healthier. Everything you said in the video was sooooo factual!!! Thanks girlie ❤️
Preeeeach!
Ariair68
Yes everyone is different my hair got stuck listening to natural say don't use grease Chile my hair just gave up until I went back to grease because I'm old and my hair is conditioned to how we did hair then. So just be mindful of what was used at all times to help with growth. This young lady is very informative and the not focusing on others hair aka stressing will help relax you for hair growth because stress will break your hair off and out.
@@tb8810Truth! When I went back to using grease my said "Ah were have you been?" My hair has be flourishing since. I'm old school and it worked for me back in the day and it works for me now.
@@carolwilliams8517
Say it again hunny. This new school stuff is for these younger ones my hair set in its ways lol. Seriously though I love my blue magic and sulfur 8 that tingle is so soothing on a freshly washed scalp.
@@tb8810Exactly! I use Sulfur 8 by itself or mix it with castor oil and I'm good to go!
People really ask you about shrinkage? I thought everyone had that understanding 🙈
Girlllll they don’t 😂😭.. Hopefully they do now!
People be asking what we consider dumb questions all the time. I have even heard people ask what's a deep conditioner and I'm like I can imagine how dry your hair is🙄
“Healthy hair does not come out of a bottle!” Guuuurrrlll you speaking spoken the truth! Keep shining 🙌🏽🔥💕
Thank youuuu
Just like men like to collect Jordans women like to collect beauty products lol
😂😂mind their own vices and we’ll mind ours!
Lol
👏🏾❤ .... took me awhile but I had to come to the conclusion that this is MY natural hair Journey so I had to start doing me cuz I got hung up on products and texture and outcome.
BUT YOU HERE 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Good job boo!
Me too. I was so hard on myself bcus my hair never looked like nap85 or others when i did exactly what they said. I was hating MY hair! Then i stopped watching ppl and just did me.
@@aquafina6544 🙌🏾❤ I watch her too... but now I watch people looking for certain products that I might want to try or styles that I know that will be a success for me.
@@DayeLaSoul 🥰 thanks because it's deeper than hair
This WHOLE VIDEO MAKES PERFECT SENSE! Thank you!! I feel better about my shrinkage lol 🤣🤣🤣🦋🦉
Yasss! That was the goal!
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Happy, bushy, and nappy ass hair ova here!!!! shrinkage is LIFE took me a min to understand that that when my hair shrinks it’s healthy I could care less now my hair just crazy
Where have you been all my NATURAL HAIR JOURNEY!!!!!! OMG, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!! I feel like I need to start my Journey all over again...
Thank you! Let’s pick up now and get this journey right 🙌🏾
I loved this video! I was literally on the phone with my mama and I said oh I got a notification from daye ma I gotta go. She says who the hell is daye?!😂😂😂 nvm mama I gotta watch this video. But you gave some good tips. Especially about length checks. I want to get my hair shaped up because I feel like I have that umbrella shape 😒and I want a beach ball😂😂
Ayyy thank you boo! trying to be beach ball next year!
Your mom is gonna get you.
Hahaha WAYMENT - wait, my bad, it is that serious 😂😂😂😂
Love this video!! “Get over it” “everybody roots be bushy” 🤣🤣🤣 love the editing too!
😂😂😂
Thank you!
I like your straight forwardness lol ❤ everything you said is so true
Thank you! 🥰🥰🥰
You just preached a whole sermon!!! 💯💯💯
🙌🏾😭😂
Thank you curl pattern does not matter! I feel like porosity is most important
FINALLY!! Say it loud for the people in the back
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I love the “sis let me kick it to you real quick” attitude of this video because I needed all of it!!! ❤️❤️
Real talk- products monopolized on 4C hair. Appreciate u pointed out about (essentially) 4C can use various products that other hair types use.
Oh yeah Carol's Daughter got me too. Omg. Did nothing for my hair.
The set up 😂😂
same
“Errrbody roots be bushy!!!” 😆😆😆😆😆😆
I'm so happy someone finally said your routine is controlled by not just curl type. Because people have been pushing that narrative for a long time and I've been sitting back like are y'all serious.....lol It's really about porosity, hair strand thickness, and hair density of your scalp. I've been trying to tell my friend this but she doesn't listen. 🙄
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 they coming around slowly
This is the truth video! And u are bomb! "Everybody's roots r bushy" just helped me be ok with the fact that everyone's twist outs have bushy roots. And it's ok that I dont like that for me! I have decided not to do those styles. And side note your suggestion awhile back for me to wear braids (and trim accordingly) to help me get out of the "transitioning funk" was on point, a "natural hair journey" life saver!!! Lol!. Loved the video. Thank you!!
Thank you!
I’m glad you’re out your funk now too! 🙌🏾🤸🏾♀️
So what’s next? Still in braids or ready for some transitioning styles?
@@DayeLaSoul I will admit I can stand to take better care of my hair. I've completely transitioned into natural. I've just been wearing puffs and curly ponytails. It's time to get in those braids again. I'm slippin I usually do then a few times a year but I haven't had any in 2019. Long overdue! The oil list was very helpful too btw. Thanks for your help and inspiration! 😊😊😊
OMG I LOVE YOU!!! WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY NATURAL JOURNEY!!! Thank you for touching on the fact that Products Do Not Grow Your Hair. Thank you for mentioning that. Thats the one thing that makes me cringe when I hear people say products grow their hair. Love your energy!!!
You were dropping some great facts
🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thankssss
I agree with all of this! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I’d also add technique also plays a major part with overall results. I have fine hair and it’s harder to achieve the big full looks. I wish I had, but I’m happy with what I have. I had to stop deep conditioning for a while too. I also learned to follow the package instructions for the best results. I also use heat to deep condition due to my porosity. The heat also cuts down the time I spend doing my hair. Carols Daughter did nothing for my hair. I only liked the badge controls products she has. I’ve found the lower end products work better and I don’t use a ton of products. I stick with what works.
Thanks for tuning in and sharing!
And yes technique matters too!
I’m a hairstylist and I know for sure white women are product junkies too. Everyone is trying to get their hair to do something it doesn’t naturally do whether that’s volumizing, smoothing, or even blow drying faster. White women also have problems with length retention. Everyone thinks being white is an automatic pass to get long hair but like you said that’s genetic. I have clients who struggle to get their hair past armpit length. I think sometimes people think women are completely different because of race but this is a huge misconception.
your so confident. How do u manage to be so frank and this not caring what people say attitude?
Thank you lol... According to my family, I’ve been this way since I learned to talk 🤦🏽♀️.. They have too many stories or me as a toddler saying any thing to any one 😂.
@@DayeLaSoul lol that's great. How do u manage to maintain this attitude, like aren't u afraid of saying things to ppl like in authority or such
Krystal Kerr Nah I’m not afraid to say anything to any one, I literally have been this way since I was child... I actually have to filter myself because ppl are sensitive or things get taken out of context so that’s what I’m working on. But I be at work talking shit to my supervisors and all 😂
She loves herself and doesn't worry about if someone will be negative towards the information shared. When you speak your truth you should have no fear!
@@jillianjillian5493 thank you
Bushy roots give volume, so why would anyone have a problem w/ bushy roots. I see if it’s a sleek style but just put it in a poof at that point 😂
This video was pretty informative! I enjoyed it 😄
Almost every time I do a perm rod or flexi rod set I would start with a twist cause my roots be bushy fr
It kind of helps lol
Yay! And yes! Twisting also gives more volume!
“You know what you need to do? You need to get over it” 💀😂
😭😭 well when you type it like that...
Was looking for this comment 🤣😂
I went from using 5 products to now just using Shea butter and conditioner water. That’s what’s best for me. I stopped using shampoo water washing has been the best for me. I drown my ends in shea butter and I twist it for the week. I care for my SCALP!!! ( I’m medium porosity)
How does water cleanse your hair? Sint shea butter heavy
Yesss to the bushy roots!!! Girl I tried every technique in the book to combat my bushy roots and my hair laughed at me 😂😂 I really thought
The thigh is tho! No one notices it unless it’s on their heads 😂
This was a WHOLE SHOW daye and I enjoyed every minute of it.
Aww thank you 🙏🏾💙
Nothing but facts spoken. I also wish that people would be more transparent with the amount of shedding that’s experienced. I have a lot of hair, and I shed a lot. But my hair is super thick. For s minute, I thought I was experiencing breakage. I then realized that I was experiencing shedding. A lot of you tubers act like any hair in the comb is problematic or that they don’t experience any hair coming out their heads, lol. Everybody sheds and it’s nothing wrong with that.
I show that in my videos where I take down braids because ppl freak out when they take them down but it’s normal
PREACH! It pisses me off when these guru's do that! It literally had me thinking sometg was wrong with my hair bcus my hair shedding a lot when i combed or washed. Uggh! I unsubbed a few of the popular yters for that lie they were selling!
Yes! This video is well overdue, people need to know how to take care of their own hair on their head and not the persons hair you envy!
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Yes, my go to is Creme of Nature. My price range is below $10. I have always used them. That honey line was and is good. But girl, The Mane Choice tropical Moringa is the truth. I cried. Got it on sale half off on View your deal The View last year. 😂❤️❤️ Thanks for sharing ❤️❤️❤️
Oh yes! That moringa glaze is a go to styler for me!
Comparison is thief of Joy...Yesss!!!
As a stylist, I REALLY appreciate this video. So many of these tips go in one ear and out the other for so many people!!!! It’s exhausting!!! Seriously thank you!! I’m definitely sharing this!!!
Ayyy it’s lit with the stylist approves 😭
I appreciate you taking the time to explain the shrinkage and the roots situation. My shrinkage is so real because my head sweats a lot period. Not into length only been a year since the big chop just want health over everything! Roll out the film keep them coming.
No prob! Thanks for watching 🥰
Yes please keep these types of videos coming! The informative/educational videos are one of the main reasons why I love your channel. I follow you in several platforms and I can really see that you want us to be knowledgeable on these things (amongst others). Thanks for being one of the few REAL ones!!
Will do!
Thank youuuu for supporting! 💙💙
Yass!
@@DayeLaSoul lil sis please keep it live 100 and all the way funky! Dont ever change up? There are way to many ppl on yt all about the coins stats and sponsors! I literally stopped watching them and unsubbed! I need facts and honesty! Thank you!
Thankssss, if I change it’ll be growth annnnd I’m also about all three of those too! BUT I’m able to be selective and work with brands I love because they appreciate how straightforward I am and when I give them constructive feedback in private when I refuse to promote... The problem is a lot of influencers don’t realize you can be yourself and collect them all, they feel you have to be a certain way OR (I’m finding out as meet some of these youtubers in person) they dont know themselves and aren’t confident in themselves-more so the latter in my opinion and social media isn’t helping them on their journey towards self discovery!
people back in bible times didn't have all these products and their hair grew. also we didn't have all these products when we were kids and my hair grew just fine.
I'm tryna tell you. Pink lotion and hair grease was all my momma used and my hair was down my back
“Who else do y’all love” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I used to tie my edges down before I go to bed and it still frizzes up in a few hours. I've decided my 4c can dance all over my head because this sis is tired🤷🏾♀️
I fell ya on that. Same here
This was helpful. Thanks, sistah.
Preach sis! "Healthy hair does not come out of a bottle."
I thought I was the only one! There has NEVER been a product from Carol’s Daughter that I have tried that has worked for me. & she ain’t cheap. Had to stop wasting my coin.
Currently watching this video with my edges tied down 😂👏🏾👏🏾
Yasss... You 👏🏾 Bet👏🏾 ter👏🏾
😂😂
Very informative and funny cause yeah natural hair is unpredictable sometimes!😂🤣
🙌🏾🙌🏾 shole is
Comparison is the THEIF OF JOY! Come on Daye!! I apply that to all areas in my life! Thank you for this video! You stay dropping GEMS and I love you for it babe! Keep kicking the truth some will hate you for it but the real will appreciate it. Ooooh and enjoy your night keep the editor. Thanks for this video 💙
Thank you boo! I really appreciate it!
I dont care what type or prosity or whats whatever i just use natural product that work for me
Ok.. good for you then lol
This was the REALEST natural hair care tips video I’ve heard! So many of these natural hair you-tubers are just tryna sell you a product. Genetics play a major role in overall hair growth. Thank you for this video. New subscriber 💕
Thank you! 💙💙💙
When I get a notification that you put up a video I grab my notebook 🤣🤣🤣 cause I know the knowledge is coming..
😂😂 yes ma’am!
Yaaaasssss... I switched from argan oil to JBCO and my hair hydration went from 0 to 100 in a few days!
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Thank you girl!! Our hair grows up and out I never understood "length" checking 😂 Why damage my hair to see how long it is when it's natural progress doesn't show in how long it's grown down my back but how thick it is, how springy it is, how well it retains moisture 💁😍
I really like the fact that you're educating people on hair stuff. Cuz i could never figure out what hair type I got cuz noone else hair looks like mine
This is my first time coming across your video and I like your style and way of teaching. Great job! I went through a big chop two years ago and I am amazed at my growth. Like you, I don't care about length, I am more about width and height. When I stretch my curls they are long, but I am not looking for that look. Thank you and All the best!
Just wanted to say that you have always been one of my favorite UA-camrs...your realness and beautiful spirit has not changed over the years and it is why i am a huge supporter of yours ❤️
Aww thank you love! 😘😘😘
Probably the realest hair video I've seen lol. I immediately subscribed!! Thank you so much for your tips. 🙏🏾😂❤
Aww thanks!
I love your style girl! And I appreciate that you keep it all the way real for us! So many people and companies are really out here profiting off of the naiveté of some natural men & women. Thank the Lord we have someone like you to be an advocate
🙌🏾 Thank you gorgeous!
Thanks for just keeping it real and telling us like it issss! Love it!!
This video has been me rediscovering MY natural over the past 2 years. This year has been the best year so far and not because of growth but because I honestly know what works for ME. Thank you for this video! One of the main reasons why I watch you.
🙌🏾Amen! Congrats girl! The journey gets smoother from here now that you know!
Just now watching and you are refreshing! Thank you for honesty and truth.
This was my first time watching you. Thanks for the info! Your editor did a great job!
Y’all Daye really saved me from doing unnecessary experiments on my hair! Love this vid though, a lot of us need to hear and be reminded of this!
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 glad to assist!
Im so with you on straightening my hair. I stay in my coily kinky lane and life is good!
Love the edits on this Daye!! 🙌🏾
Thank you! Got an editor now
omg can i just say i love the way you speak!! you’re so fun and refreshing ❤️
Aww thank you boo 🥰🥰🥰
Awesome!! I l've been responding to most of the "top" Natural hair UA-camrs asking for a video like this. Finally, someone speaking the facts with no holds bar.
Yes!!!! on growth/ length retention. Also I agree with you about eating healthy food and drinking water for healthy hair. Thanks 🙏🏾
Love love love this video!!!! Yes girl!! Why is that "comparison" quote my screensaver?! Great job love!!
You dropping gems all over the place Daye! I got my basket! Thanks for sharing! 💖
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Thanks for watching boo!
This was a breath of fresh air!! Thank you for being real and giving some of us back our nap natural dignity! Some of these UA-camrs be making me think my hair can't get right because they're not saying these things. I appreciate this video tremendously!
~DDH~
Enjoyed this video! So glad you mentioned there’s a difference between hair growth and retention.
🙌🏾 Thank you!
New subbie here as soon as you said "All of us have bushy roots" 😂😂
I have dense, course, low porosity hair. Thank you for speaking on shrinkage! I totally feel you on that, my hair doesn't "shrink" or basically curl properly when it's too dry or when I need some protein.
I really like this! The moral of the story is, we're all so extremely different. My 4c is not your 4c. I used to preach this to my makeup clients as well. My nc47 complexion is not your nc47 complexion. You have to find your own personal combination of products that works for you!....and once you get older or move to a new environment, get ready to find a new combination LOL!
One of the best natural hair videos I've watched! You spoke pure truths! Thank you! Now to get back to work! I got deadlines!
Thank you!
🙋🏾I don’t care about length over the health of my hair💁🏽
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I love this!!! Everybody roots be bushy!!! So true! Love you Daye!!! 👊🏾💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💜💙
she's so pretty. That skin is poppin!
Great video! The information you shared is what many of us naturals need to hear. Having natural hair is not a one-stop-shop. I follow so many natural hair gurus and at the beginning of my natural hair journey, I had to learn that just because one thing worked them doesn't mean it will work for me. So many of the points you made, it wasn't until I stopped doing many of these things like slopping a million products on my hair that I saw a true difference in my hair.
Thank youuuu!
Glad you got it together boo!
So raw and real lol, I love it! Thank you for this
Daye, you said so many things that needed to be said! Loved this video.
Thank you!💙
This video was muuuuch needed and the editing was on point!
Thank you!
I hired have an editor now 🙌🏾
Daye La Soul nice! Editing can be a pain lol they did a great job!
It is! And I feel like I have my life back in the evenings! 😭🙏🏾
Daye La Soul yes!!! That’s important!
Yasssss Speak it Daye!!! This was a fun video had me dying lying on some parts but you def spoke straight facts 💙💙💙
😂😂 glad you got some laughs and tips!
Always!!!
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YAS! I have locs now and I am a freeformer now part from having my afro for 6 years. I embrace EVERYTHING about my hair now. I do not use ANY products now in my hair except shampoo and water. I learned since my journey that products stunted my hair growth. Since my locs my hair grows SO much!
Daye Daye Daye 👏🏾👏🏾let me just say thank-you. This video was right on time! I appreciate all your tips especially the one about shrinkage. I just had a successful flexi-rods Set and I do not want to go to the gym to sweat it out.
No prob and thanks for tuning in!
I hope you still can get a few days out of it!
Thank you for honesty because other videos make it seem as if my hair texture can have this or that style so I gave up. Thank you and I will get over trying to fix my hair like some one else's.
I am so loving on this vid ! Sis) preach!!!
Yassss to all of this! You betta tell the truth!❤
Saving this to my fav hair videos cause that was a whole sermon hunny! You did dat! 👏🏾
Yes keep the tips coming.
I sure will! 💙