I’m so proud of you for speaking up! Idk who convinced us that “taking the high road” means you suffer in silence, never telling the truth about an abusive person while they drag your name in the mud and prey upon new victims, but we need to unlearn that. Evil THRIVES in silence, especially when it knows it won’t be challenged or held accountable in any way. When they believe you’ll never speak up for yourself, they’ll just go on a rampage of lies and turn everyone against you. It’s nonsense. You can both stand up for yourself AND take the high road by simply not returning evil for evil. You don’t stoop to their tactics but speak the impeccable truth. Truth is noble.
I agree, that’s exactly what happened to me. I’m sorry it took me a year to speak up. I took the high road and unfortunately the road it had a ton of holes.
@@HJF hi Julia i was speaking up for you on tiktok , and jp had said something to me and even admitted to somethings like being an abuser and how he didn't want to work with youbafter the break up i took a screen shot just in case
Julia, I’ve been watching this channel since I was a kid, and I really am glad you still are keeping it alive, I hope you are doing well after now realizing everything that happened behind the scenes.
My finace and I have seperate finances. We plan to open a joint account once married for shared bills (rent/mortgage, utilities, savings) but also still keep our personal accounts. Our checks go in our personal accounts not the shared. We both work and I think that's the best case. Noone taking advantage of the other. Feel so bad for Julia.
@@cass16433 I think that's a great idea. In my experience, people do things that you could never imagine they are capable of doing....and then they do. Such as in Julia's case. Good luck to you my friend. 💜
I remember binge watching your videos during the pandemic. I hadn't watched in a while and thought to myself "I wonder what they're up to?"...Holy sh*t! What a nightmare situation. Hope it all works itself out soon. Sorry to hear.
From a legal standpoint as someone who’s worked in the legal industry for 25+ years, do NOT drop any of the lawsuits. Put that faith in your lawyers & let them do their job. They will zealously advocate for you even on days when you feel like you can’t do that for yourself.
@@amyyost5261 If you are. I would delete this comment. Before someone identifies who you are and reports you to the headmaster of your law school. And could never get a job because of cyber bullying.
Original comment removed… Second Edit: After being in numerous Hellthy Junkfood videos, all I can say is that I’m glad things are better for you Julia. Hopefully you guys can come to a mutually beneficial agreement.
I'm sorry to hear that JPs harassment forced you to remove your comment and edit your opinion so many times. It triggers me entirely as this behavior is the behavior that I finally escaped when he locked me out of my own home. If he thinks he can get you to do what he wants he is absolutely relentless. He is a monster. He told me so himself. I remember thoroughly the gaslighting and manipulation he can have over people, like he did over me. I hope he leaves you alone for good for your safety. I lived in fear for a reason, and this is a major part of it.
Honestly, if you don't have 100% of this channel, I'd just abandon it and create a new one. You real followers will follow you there. Honestly, I stopped watching a few years ago because it became so repetitive
Same thing happened to Simon and Martina (a really good foodie/travel youtube channel). Sadly they split, but martina left and Simon kept the channel. Let's just say martina kept it true to her content (foodie/travel), and became successful again, where Simon on their original channel (changing to a holistic/mindfulness channel) has little views. I explain this example because... I agree. Start over. Your true fans will follow.
@@BuriedMalice That is the question that people didn't ask themselves, if she had quit like he did, the channel dies, neither gets hardly anything out of it, she doesn't quit, now she has to buy out his half for what I assume is still a good valuation since HJF is on 6 platforms, so why is he trying to hard to make her quit??? .. It has to be the reason she gave
Julia I’m so happy you are speaking up for yourself! I’ve been a fan for a long time and will always support whatever you decide to do. I’m so sorry you have had to deal with all this. I just hope you know that a ton of us support you (:
@@HJF you shouldn't have had to stay silent to start with i hate messy break ups and it is usually because one person starts being childish that it gets messy
Bravo Julia, I’m so proud of you for speaking up and taking a stand. I wish you a speedy resolution to all these issues and a future even more successful than your past.
I had a feeling that something was going on a while ago as i could tell the vibe of you two were off when you guys were in videos together. Im glad to see that you are fighting back against someone who is abusive but also manipulative. He reminds me of my ex when I caught her cheating. Basically turned into a psychopathic narcissistic person trying to wreck whatever she could if i allowed it to happen.
As a survivor of domestic abuse, I'm SO sorry this happened to you. Good for you for leaving!!!! You are worthy of being loved and cherished in a healthy way. To all the women out there that are trapped, you arent alone, and you can get out.
this is the editor. im sure if there were receipts of JP blowing up on Julia, he can probably attest for it. I think both points of views have truths and half truths but I can most definitely see JP be anal about things.
"For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil." Money itself is not inherently evil, but the desire for it can lead to sinful actions. Greed and materialism can corrupt individuals and societies. The pursuit of wealth at all costs can lead to dishonesty, exploitation, and harm. It is important to prioritize values such as love, compassion, and generosity over the pursuit of wealth. In conclusion, while money can be a useful tool, it is essential to guard against the love of money and prioritize spiritual and moral values in our lives.
I’m glad you are doing better, good luck with everything Julia. I think I had commented before to say I didn’t want to see you guys air out your personal things and attack each other but I can see you have been trying your best to stay level headed. No one deserves to be crapped on everyday bc of someone else’s mental issues they refuse to get help for. Take care girl💜
I so appreciate this! It's definitely something I'd been avoiding but no more as he has not stopped lying. In fact he is now reposting all of his old lies in short form content. It's disgusting.
Absolutely stunned to see those DMs, (I paused to read all of them,) where you're constantly reaching out with compromise and support and being WAY more reasonable than he had any right to receive, and then he just blows you off. Girl, you're too good for him. He needs to do some serious soul-searching, and I hope he gets help for whatever personal demons/frustrations he's fighting through. I don't know if you realize how bad his DM logs look for him from an outside perspective, but he comes across as a complete uncompromising jerk and you come across as someone who's responding to constant indifference and stubbornness with nothing but attempts to be level-headed and understanding and give him the benefit of the doubt. All the love and support, and I'm grateful that you want to keep the channel going! I've been watching off and on since the old fast-food recreation days, and am still using your copycat recipes for Pizza Hut breadsticks and Totino's Pizza Rolls!
I’ve been watching this channel for years, one of the first ones I subscribed to. Said all that to say, I’m goin to keep on watchin ya. Just be true to you. You are teaching all of us how to love ourselves through your struggles. Thanks for that! Keep ya head up and keep making amazing content! 🖤🥰
Abuse whether mental, physical, lying, manipulation, and continuing to believe everything your doing to simply stop another human been from being happy is what most of this world has become. Julia are hearts and prayers go out to you during these time. I only say this....Believe when u have no reason too, fight even when you feel your moment has been lost, but u know ur future is your own destiny. Forgive, when the mind tells u not too, but is necessary to me into the next journey. Have faith 🙏! Our paths set by God are only given to appreciate the wisdom and strength our father wants us to have as we continue our journey here on earth. And no matter what happens, serve others before ever serving yourself. This will truly lead you to the passage of warmth, love, and happiness. Blessings to you and your family and ur continued journey to a successful recovery and much deserved happiness ❤❤❤❤
you have no idea how hard it was to make this video. Drama is not my thing. That's why he lies and clickbaits people to watch his content because he thought I would never speak up because I didn't for years. It was not my thing but I'm grateful that I've found my voice in all of this.
@@HJF Speaking out against emotional abusers has to be incredibly hard, especially being so visible as a major creator on YT. Julia this is really inspiring for a lot of people out there. I hope this not only gets people off your back but also inspires them to speak out about their abuse as well. All the best from a long time fan of the channel!
@@Viziry I'm Pro LGBTQ as a mother, but there's one thing I know, you could think you are gay but until the deed is done, you're kinda not, my guess is he accused her of cheating to cover the fact that he was doing it ..
On a much smaller scale, I feel you. My ex behaved the same way, let me work constantly to allow him to build his business, used our account, but drained his "business" account and blamed me for it. You are better off!!! I have continued to follow you because your passion for this is real. ❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing! Dealing with this situation has been insane, but I truly believe that the justice system will prevail. He wants to engage in a PR battle, attempting to convince every friend of mine to disown me, but the truth is in the facts, and the repercussions will come soon.
He's one of those ex's that won't be happy with just a breakup. They want to destroy everything. They get some sick pleasure out of these types of behaviors.
This video changed my opinion on what happened because it's so believable too. Us guys are more prone to this type of entitlement to where we think we can control everything and lash out when we can't. I've been there at least (in my 20s) and trying to be better - calling out obvious toxic behavior, especially when those people can't own up to it, is awesome for everybody
Julia, I'm so sorry you've had to deal with this behind the scenes for so long. You are brave to share your story and amplify that financial abuse & emotional abuse/manipulation are as serious has physical abuse. I hope legally things work out and you are able to protect yourself and your business.
it's hard to brandh off and start over and build a new channel. That could take 5-7 years. UA-cam has changed a lot and doesn't even favor some long form content anymore.
@@gummywormliveI actually saw that post that she showed at about 19:00 where he said he was leaving the channel and that he was moving on. How is that her stealing the channel?
You’re so strong Julia🫶🏻🫶🏻 I’ve been watching you guys for years and I will continue supporting YOU💗 I’m excited to see more ideas that you have in mind. Stray strong through these hard times, love you💗💗💗
I hope you've started a new channel that has no affiliation to him or hellthy junk food. You need to get out of that and start fresh on your own. Get through all the crap and leave that toxicity behind. I wish you all the best with your future endeavours. I know anything you put out would be fantastic.
This video provoked tears. I am so sorry this is happening. I really liked JP and initially gave him the benefit of the doubt. I can't anymore. I applaud your will power and determination to keep doing what you love doing. Very inspirational. I hope it all rewards you handsomely one day.
Sorry to make you emotional, it has been traumatic to live through too, and was SO HARD for me to get a handle on what was going on to garner the ability to speak up about the truths of what has been going on. I hope this helps other people to not allow bad relationships to control their lives, like I did for so long, no more.
I am so proud of you for speaking up and I am so sorry you have to deal with this. As I watched the video I had to pause and read all those text messages. My jaw was on the floor with just how terrible and controlling and manipulative he was to you. His behaviors remind me of my brothers ex… a sociopathic narcissistic nightmare. You are amazing and a rockstar! I love your channel and will continue to support you!
I don’t wish this upon anyone, and not speaking up was getting me pushed in the mud. Thank you for being there for me and the channel. On the up and up! 🙏
Julia, thanks for explaining and showing the receipts. I didn't hear much about the drama. I just knew JP wasn't in the videos anymore and assumed you two had broken up, but didn't know any of the details. I hope you can recoup your losses and then some...
Im glad your situation is starting to improve. I found this channel randomly about 7 years ago and have loved it since. I hope the channel becomes bigger than it ever has, and that you continue to do what you love.
Whether you’re bad with money/math whatever, you never not know what’s going on financially or know what accounts have what. And if a partner is adamant about you not know or avoids questions about combined financials, consider that a BIG red flag. Sorry that man put you through all this Julia.
Been subbed to you for about 7-8years, its been a minute. Listening to this story gave me major flashbacks of my narcissistic ex and how you explained how you responded to everything as far as trying to do everything in your power to not cause a flare up in behavior i feel you on. Im so sorry for the emotional and mental trauma youve been through and i pray your comeback brings you nothing but success. You got this!💯😊
I can tell this was difficult for you to make. I've been watching for YEARS and it's a poop position to see you guys in. Unfortunately some partners grow differently with time. I wish both you and JP the best, and I appreciate you Julia, for continuing to try. Don't stop trying. At the end of the day, your personal life is your personal life and people need to leave creators to be. All I know is you've been killing it for a year and I (and hopefilly all the other 2.9m subs) are here for the awesome content you create! Lets see something delicious!! :)
Julia I’m so proud of you for standing up for yourself! Jp’s actions scream abuse and I pray you find someone who treats you like the queen that you are.
I always made sure to tune in to your channel to catch your content. His departure doesn't really bother me, as I'm just relieved that you're still active on UA-cam.
Dear Julia, You are a wonderful and amazing women. I know how you feel. I was in a relationship like you were for over 15 years. I was abused mentally, physically, and verbally. It's taken me years to get over the pain he cause, and I still even have relapses of my past trauma. Please don't give up. You are in the right and he needs to learn his actions have consequences. I will forever be on your side, and stand by you no matter what. You are a inspiration to everyone that has been in this kind of abuse, to stand up for your self and what is right.
Hey Julia. I’ve been watching the channel over the years (since I started watching in high school in 2015 till now). Been enjoying the recent videos and been really happy that you’ve found your footing with them! Also been following any news about the break up and was 50/50 on what people have been saying about your break up and whose side to be on until you showed the receipts. Not only was it disappointing to see how far J.P has fallen but it’s absolutely disgusting with not only how J.P let his fans bully you and how J.P also bullied you over the years. It’s become clear how J.P is a manipulator, monster, bully and lair. You’re an absolute legend for keeping the channel running and I respect that you tried to keep the peace even though you could’ve easily done the same thing he’s been doing to you and I wouldn’t have blamed you. It’s obvious that J.P needs help at this point, from his videos to his terrible treatment towards you. Really sorry you’ve had to deal with J.P’s fans spreading the lies as well. I’ve always known that the truth will come out and looks like it has. All the best with the legal battle against him. Keep up with the incredible content and wishing you all the best! Definitely will keep continuing watching the new videos. Also hope you’ll come to Australia someday and review our greatest fast food the HSP!
Very well said!! I stopped watching because of JP's attitude...I think the particular video that finally did it for me was a video involving Popeyes...he was so rude and nasty to the workers, I couldn't watch anymore.
I hope you get everything you deserve from the court case. You will always have my support. I don’t know how a person can go through what you’ve been through and still keep everything together. You are one strong, resilient woman. I hope you stay strong and win!
Wow I never would have expected any of this.😢 I I have literally followed you guys since the beginning I think it's been maybe not that long but I remember watching your videos win.My daughters were babies, and they're 7 and 8 now. You still Worked at the radio station, and you guys were in that small apartment..
I watch JP’s channel too and in most of his videos he talks about being gay or asking other people if they think he’s gay. It seems like he maybe having a an identity crisis regarding his sexuality. I hope he figures it out.
You misread his comment. He said he wasn’t saying he was “gay” as in fake gay or using it as an excuse. He was saying he was ‘capital G’ gay without ambiguity since Julia was not sure what his angle was
I am so glad you did this video, with all the slander he's been doing on his joke of a channel, it was about time your voice came out. I never knew he was financially and emotionally abusive, I really hate that you went through all that. Hopefully you will prevail in court, it sounds like you got the solid ground and he doesn't have much to stand on. I just unfollowed everything with JP on social media. I don't support abusive men who don't appreciate how good they have it until it's gone
Looks like just you. lol The video he created may be a new post but all the lies he tells are the same old lies. Appreciate you coming back for a view.
LETS GOOOOOOOO JULIA ! 👏🏻 I have watched this channel and I stayed subbed but when you moved to Orlando I felt a shift within the videos and it kind of fell off in my routine to keep watching, but now that this video you made makes so much more sense and I am rooting for you to come back even stronger ! I can’t wait for the revised channel of what you’re going to make !!!!
Wow Julia, I’m sorry that you’ve been going through all of this. This is a mess, and there’s no reason why all of this had to take place. It’s mind blowing seeing the damage that one person’s greed can cause. I hope all of this gets resolved soon, and that you and the channel can get back to focusing on new and exciting content. Thank you for your transparency, and sending you much love and continued support….❤️❤️❤️
I remember watching this channel a ton in 2016 the summer before my senior year of college and during senior year of college. The videos were great for me to unwind after a long day of school. Sad that all of this happened.
I’ve been here since the beginning. I understand a lot of people needed this video. I didn’t. I just need you to keep doing everything you’re doing to keep this channel alive. You still have a lot of supporters and I’m one of the biggest. I love this channel and we’re not here for food. There’s a million food channels. We’re here for you. There’s only one Julia Goolia.
All the best to you Julia, I hope all works out well for you and you can put this behind you. Looking forward to seeing the new content you put out. Onwards and upwards ❤
Honestly I stopped watching so much because he annoyed me. I don’t understand the people that claimed chemistry, I felt like I was watching you trying to wrangle a spoiled child that was acting out more and more. I’m happy for you for getting out of that situation and speaking on the truth.
Wow.....what a creep. I only started watching because of you (Julia), never really vibed with JP in the videos. I even quit watching for a year or so. Now to find out what kind of person he actually is all makes sense. Sorry you have had to endure all of the manipulation and lies. Hoping your future is healthier and happier. We love and support you.
I was in a marriage very similar to what youre explaining. I self controlled and kept quiet for a long time but people who were close to me knew something was wrong. Your story and your experience is identical in alot of ways to what I went through for the longest time. Everything finally came to a boiling point in early 2023 and thats when the separation came and me learning some very hurtful and heartbreaking details. I still did everything i could to protect her and protect her image even if it meant hiding the real truth from people and the hurt i was going through. Finally after over a year dealing with the separation and legal battles, the divorce was finalized and justice was finally served. Not iust for me but for my incredible son. Taking the high road was worth it and although it made things harder for a time, i feel like karma did its job and the outcome was worth it. After hearing your story I cant help but feel the same for you. The bravery it takes to speak up and especially do it on social media after people continue to attack you speaks volumes to the courage you have inside. Even though you didnt have to and you dont owe anyone on the internet anything from your personal life, I greatly appreciate you sharing your story. It helps people like me who have experienced something like this and shows that we're not so alone after all. Best of luck and I look forward to watching more of your content as you and your channel continue to grow ❤
@@somethingrandom4513not necessarily, I'm just saying he escalated things quickly (according to her side of the story), but yes I've seen his response as well and they both have their points No one is innocent, cus I'm sure they both did things to fuel the fire that burnt down the bridge. However, I don't think we have the right to judge "who is in the right" because we weren't there in this very personal and long drawn out battle. I'm just saying it seems like he went at an accelerated pace as things kept escalating, but who knows how much she has a part to do in it either.
Speaking of his response, did anyone else kinda feel like he was just quickly throwing together a video to show his side after this dropped? Like I get trying to clear the air but he didn't waste much time and I felt he could have come at things a bit more calmly but I also understand some ppl get heated after being "exposed" (regardless of it being true or not)
@@fairlyfoxymoxy He wants this to be a he said, she said situation, so he will continue to make outrageous claims. The court of public opinion is who he is catering to, but this is actually about who took what and when. I have proof that he did everything I said he did, and I will present that evidence to the court. On the other hand, he is not accusing me of anything in court - I mean, nothing at all. Despite all the things he is saying online, he is not making any of those claims in court. He tried to get my case dismissed based on no evidence, but the judge threw out his nonsense on Monday. Now, he has four days to file something else...
@@HJF wow, tough stuff and I feel you. That's what I suspected was the situation on hand. Regardless, I don't wish court arguments on anyone and I hope it can get resolved quickly for both of your sakes.
Hi Julia. My daughter, who is a family law attorney, told me that the party who repeatedly blames the other party online or in other public forums for everything is usually the one who is lying. I had a feeling he was not being honest all this time, so thanks for posting this video to tell your side. Glad you ended it with him before it got even worse. Once this is over I am sure you will be very successful and free to be even more creative in your journey. I wish JP the best, but I am a fan of you! Go Girl! Love your enthusiasm for what you do!
@@TruthSlayer2.0-KD5xh I was actually hating on family law attorneys, not Julia. Great reading comprehension. In any case, I'm glad I get to live rent-free in your head.
@@becker8192 actually I saw your old comment just before I posted mine, I wasn’t holding on to it for 9 months 😂😂😂 I always check before responding to people, in your case I saw the hate from 9 months ago directed at Julia & that’s what I referenced ..
I’m on your side, especially because I was like JP in a previous relationship. When we broke it off, I was being immature and childish. Hindsight is a b***h, but she had every right to talk crap on me because I did not make her life easy. I hope when this all gets fully settled, you can 100% move on with your life and enjoy it to the fullest.
@@DungeonOfShame actually the text messages, emails etc shows it’s the only version of the truth, unless she’s a time traveler, there’s a lawsuit that’s public, the filings by BOTH parties back her claims, plus she’s not stupid enough to lie because he’d just add a Defamation Charge, he originally had one against her but ya have to be able to prove it, he’s since drop that charge ..
I honestly thought I would never see this day. This duo was awesome but personally Julia is awesome! Screw JP. Hope you can make it out soon and get back to normal life!
Yo, you could kinda tell how JP was behind the scenes with his condescending jokes sometimes. My ex father was the same way, especially towards the end there.
Yes and we don’t know her behind the scene either. Stop acting like she’s the innocent and JP the the villain without knowing the real backstory than these propagandists
@@coffeelink943she has receipts. JP doesn't. And you can tell by his body language in his recent videos that he's lying and nervous. He knows he's in the wrong and he's finally being called out on it.
@@stephaniem.8344 There's also a bunch of comments from people who have worked with Healthy Junk Food calling out JP's attitude towards Julia. I'm believing Julia.
hello - i owe you an apology because i was one of those people who left a snarky comment having only heard JP's POV. as more information have been provided, i have learnt my lesson of judging before having more context and proof before commenting. i hope you win your lawsuit and everything is finalised fairly
It’s ok, it’s not your fault. I sat around hoping he would stop for an entire year, and didn’t speak up. Thank you for the vote of confidence regarding the legal matter and no worries, I will win, he has done what he has done.
Whatever happened or happens I'll stay a subscriber. I actually subscribed after he was gone. I subscribed because I thought you were funny and seem like a cool person to hang out with. You're cute, too.
Wow...mind blown. I can't imagine going through all this girl. I'm so glad you're going to break free of all that. You deserve so much better! All of us are here to support you. I hope he gets the help he truly needs. Love to you sister!🙏❤️
Julia I remember watching this channel when yall would make giant sized stuff. I didn’t know that stuff was getting bad behind the scenes. When all this got out, I remember believing JP and low key hating you, but after seeing your video and seeing the screenshots. I was way wrong and I’m sorry for doubting you. He just spills lies with not proof. I can now see the different side of him. Good luck with everything and stay strong. Keep doing what you love ❤️
Thanks for taking the time to hear my side of the story. It has been a relentless situation that I never expected and that's why I took so long to respond. I stuck my head in the sand and hoped he'd stop lying about me and stop harassing me. Eventually I accepted the reality that he will not stop so I had to speak up and tell the truth. This has been tough but I've accepted that this situation and court case could drag on for a long time but I'm OK with that especially with people like you supporting me.
@@HJFI will continue to support you Julez….just sucks that he’ll get half of your earnings 😢 idk how you could have so much patience and were able to put up with so much…I know I wouldn’t have..that just proves how strong and resilient you are. Prayers for you!
I didn’t put those text messages in the video to say any of those people are my friends. I put those messages in there to show people I’m being honest about dates, times, and what was said at the time. Apparently, you guys haven't noticed that I don't like drama; it drives me crazy. That's why it took me a year to respond to his relentless attacks. So when he started lying about me and making videos putting me down, any mutual friend who didn't come to me and ask for my side of the story, and just took his word for it, I simply removed myself from those people. We didn't argue or fight; there's been no bad blood. Even to this day, there's no bad blood on my part. At the end of the day, we are all adults, and the truth will come out because JP did everything he's done, even if he lies about it. JP lies a lot, and I'm pretty sure he lies to his friends the same way he lies on the internet. Just so you know, what JP says online and what he says in the lawsuit are literally the opposite.
Oh and let me show you how much he lies… his latest lies are about bank withdrawals my lawyer is questioning him about. Those bank withdrawals did NOT go to my personal accounts. The half of bitcoin that he talked me into buying I bought out of my person account. Also, he has retirement accounts just like I did. Somehow about $30k more ended up in his accounts than mine but no worries he will have to answer about that in the next batch of questionable funds that is also quite large. I won’t even bother to respond to his 300% nonsense because that’s just stupid and never happened. These are just his latest lies, idk why he tells such bold lies but it’ll all come out as the funds are easily tracked.
Friend or not, I feel like if you’re using her texts, she should be able to talk about those texts in the comments sections. I hoping you got her permission to use them. That would be the courtesy. She seemed quite upset though.
I could have simply stated in the video that 'we broke up in February 2022,' but JP would have denied it and provided a much later date to support his story. Instead, I used text messages to confirm my claim. They have no relevance to this business matter, neither does any of my current or other former friends. Some of them are upset with JP, but I’m not sending them to his page to argue with him. This case is strictly about business, not a high school argument as JP is trying to portray it. That's why JP was the one who mentioned the name of the person who sent those two texts I used. People are not questioning the content of the texts or who I sent them to as no one cares because they understand why I used them. We are in the midst of a court case, a case that I am confident I will win. I know her opinion - she believes JP is right and I am wrong, and that's her prerogative. However, she, like others, are unaware of the true nature of our business finances. Therefore, there is no need to argue about it. I have evidence that I will present that in court. There is absolutely no reason for her to be upset with anything I have done, as I have done nothing to her. To all of JP's friends and supporters, I want to reiterate: what JP says online is not what he presents in court, where it truly matters.
Much respect to you Julia. I know the law works differently in different states, but JP might be brought up on charges when the lawsuit has been resolves. At least he should be. Fraud, money laundering being the biggest issues.
Julia your relationship story is so much like my own. My ex is controlling, has severe anger issues, and is beyond mean. I also feel like I walk on eggshells. My advice is to cut ties with everything. Make a new channel, sell everything from the old partnership, then your channel, money, equipment, cars, home, insurance, ect. are not controlled by anyone but you. Dont continue to hustle and do tons of work while JP profits off of you. If he wants money he can work, dont be his meal ticket. Get a new channel. Everyone who cares about this channel will move with you.
Wow. I remember I used to watch this channel all the time and I loved the content and I remember having to reprogram my UA-cam to trick the algorithm to recommend a different type of video and I kind of forgot about this channel but I still loved your content just went to a different type for a little bit and tonight it just came to my mind to look you up and I found out you broke up! Oh my gosh I’m so sorry to hear all of this. I’m so sorry you went through this. I have been through a similar experience. I’m praying for you 🙏🏻
I've been finding myself leaning towards JP's side for a while now and i'm honestly not sure why I did. You're not just throwing out blatant accusations & lies, you have proof & you're backing up everything you say. Realistically i'm sure there are things you did wrong too, both sides usually share parts of the blame. But this entire thing seems aggressively instigated by his insecurities and behavior. His attitude. The way he treated you during the relationship. I don't blame you for speaking up & taking action.
@@MK1NG1 people think HJF is only UA-cam, it's literally all the Social Media sites, she doesn't seem like she's struggling, she hasn't paid herself in a year yet she's traveling, plus she has been posting Brand Deals on other platforms... so anyone telling her to shut it down are extremely shortsighted
Wow, I had no idea things went to shit like that. I'm glad you're working on yourself and getting everything you need for yourself. I wish you the best as you begin this next chapter in your life.
JP being gay seems kinda like an excuse obviously you said it would explain a lot and didn’t want to get too personal but to me it seems like an “oh crap I need an out” situation if you get what I’m saying.
Love your passion to do the things you enjoy doing. Your passion will get you through this bump in the road. Looking forward to seeing what all you have to offer the channel.
I just want to say...I don't actually know you, you don't know me, I don't know JP, JP doesn't know me. What I do know, is that this is not an uncommon situation, I have observed this before. It is my personal opinion (not fact) that you speak truthfully. I really hope this is resolved, quickly and fairly, for all involved. I am not going anywhere, I will watch the channel, I enjoy the content. GL with all of this.
Julia, no man is worth that. Don't ever be afraid to leave. Be afraid to stay. Little things turn into big things. You're better without him. I'd rather share your experiences. Good for you.
Wow this makes me so sad, I loved watching you guys make content together for so long. so sorry to just hear about what was actually going on. All the best to you, and I hope all this childish behavior from the other end stops soon.
@@HJF if you are in need of any help, I’ve been editing social media content (mostly short form/instagram) for the Purdue University athletics department for about a year now, and I am always looking for new projects to expand my editing career!
Always had a bad feeling about JP. Sorry you’re going through this. Glad you’re out of that toxic relationship! I couldn’t even finish the whole video because I was getting so mad for you! Fight hard with that legal battle and whatever else, because you are so worth it! It’s not petty. You are getting what you deserve ❤ And what you deserve is everything! Best wishes!
damn i’m sorry girl, loved your guys’ content for years (especially 2016-17) and i wasn’t expecting this situation at all, and when i checked back a few months ago i read about the situation and i had no idea it was this bad, please take care of yourself
I’m so proud of you for speaking up! Idk who convinced us that “taking the high road” means you suffer in silence, never telling the truth about an abusive person while they drag your name in the mud and prey upon new victims, but we need to unlearn that. Evil THRIVES in silence, especially when it knows it won’t be challenged or held accountable in any way. When they believe you’ll never speak up for yourself, they’ll just go on a rampage of lies and turn everyone against you. It’s nonsense. You can both stand up for yourself AND take the high road by simply not returning evil for evil. You don’t stoop to their tactics but speak the impeccable truth. Truth is noble.
I agree, that’s exactly what happened to me. I’m sorry it took me a year to speak up. I took the high road and unfortunately the road it had a ton of holes.
@@HJF hi Julia i was speaking up for you on tiktok , and jp had said something to me and even admitted to somethings like being an abuser and how he didn't want to work with youbafter the break up i took a screen shot just in case
@@peterdang4136lmaoo okay sure “he admitted things to you” 😂😂
He is a child !
victims? what you know this is a lie right
Julia, I’ve been watching this channel since I was a kid, and I really am glad you still are keeping it alive, I hope you are doing well after now realizing everything that happened behind the scenes.
What a bummer. I've seen this happen so much that I'll never commingle funds with anybody. I may leave with a broken heart but I'll never leave broke.
Commingle funds is fine. Just also still keep a separate account. My wife and I have 100k in solo accounts and 100k in joined accounts.
@@MrBud85 Absolutely. I will always have a separate account. If someone can't understand and accept that, then they're not for me.
My finace and I have seperate finances. We plan to open a joint account once married for shared bills (rent/mortgage, utilities, savings) but also still keep our personal accounts. Our checks go in our personal accounts not the shared. We both work and I think that's the best case. Noone taking advantage of the other. Feel so bad for Julia.
@@cass16433 I think that's a great idea. In my experience, people do things that you could never imagine they are capable of doing....and then they do. Such as in Julia's case. Good luck to you my friend. 💜
honestly, getting married nowadays is just a bad idea. Just co-habitate and keep money completely seperate
I remember binge watching your videos during the pandemic. I hadn't watched in a while and thought to myself "I wonder what they're up to?"...Holy sh*t! What a nightmare situation. Hope it all works itself out soon. Sorry to hear.
From a legal standpoint as someone who’s worked in the legal industry for 25+ years, do NOT drop any of the lawsuits. Put that faith in your lawyers & let them do their job. They will zealously advocate for you even on days when you feel like you can’t do that for yourself.
You gotta be a receptionist 😂😂😂
@@dwaynetherickscanchez3160 nice try burger flipper. Law student
@@MorpheusASmith you must’ve taken the blue pill…
@@amyyost5261 If you are. I would delete this comment. Before someone identifies who you are and reports you to the headmaster of your law school. And could never get a job because of cyber bullying.
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Second Edit: After being in numerous Hellthy Junkfood videos, all I can say is that I’m glad things are better for you Julia. Hopefully you guys can come to a mutually beneficial agreement.
I'm sorry to hear that JPs harassment forced you to remove your comment and edit your opinion so many times. It triggers me entirely as this behavior is the behavior that I finally escaped when he locked me out of my own home. If he thinks he can get you to do what he wants he is absolutely relentless. He is a monster. He told me so himself. I remember thoroughly the gaslighting and manipulation he can have over people, like he did over me. I hope he leaves you alone for good for your safety. I lived in fear for a reason, and this is a major part of it.
Honestly, if you don't have 100% of this channel, I'd just abandon it and create a new one. You real followers will follow you there. Honestly, I stopped watching a few years ago because it became so repetitive
Same thing happened to Simon and Martina (a really good foodie/travel youtube channel). Sadly they split, but martina left and Simon kept the channel. Let's just say martina kept it true to her content (foodie/travel), and became successful again, where Simon on their original channel (changing to a holistic/mindfulness channel) has little views.
I explain this example because... I agree. Start over. Your true fans will follow.
typical jew
@@DixieNormous9Really
That's literally what he wanted in the beginning, but she refused.
@@BuriedMalice That is the question that people didn't ask themselves, if she had quit like he did, the channel dies, neither gets hardly anything out of it, she doesn't quit, now she has to buy out his half for what I assume is still a good valuation since HJF is on 6 platforms, so why is he trying to hard to make her quit??? .. It has to be the reason she gave
Julia I’m so happy you are speaking up for yourself! I’ve been a fan for a long time and will always support whatever you decide to do. I’m so sorry you have had to deal with all this. I just hope you know that a ton of us support you (:
Thank you!! It's taken so much out of me to shift to create this type of content but I couldn't stay silent anymore.
@@HJF you shouldn't have had to stay silent to start with i hate messy break ups and it is usually because one person starts being childish that it gets messy
Bravo Julia, I’m so proud of you for speaking up and taking a stand. I wish you a speedy resolution to all these issues and a future even more successful than your past.
YUP! 100% Support U Julia.
Will always watch your channel
I had a feeling that something was going on a while ago as i could tell the vibe of you two were off when you guys were in videos together. Im glad to see that you are fighting back against someone who is abusive but also manipulative. He reminds me of my ex when I caught her cheating. Basically turned into a psychopathic narcissistic person trying to wreck whatever she could if i allowed it to happen.
Holy shit, Julia. I knew things were bad, but I didn't know shit was THIS bad. My God. Stay strong
As a survivor of domestic abuse, I'm SO sorry this happened to you. Good for you for leaving!!!! You are worthy of being loved and cherished in a healthy way. To all the women out there that are trapped, you arent alone, and you can get out.
I edited for HellthyJunkFood for many years. I'm glad things are better for you now Julia 🙏
On the up and up, thank you for being a friend and a killer editor btw 🙌🙌
Simp ahhhh mf you ain’t getting no play
You ain’t getting no play bro chill
So who is the asshole here???
this is the editor. im sure if there were receipts of JP blowing up on Julia, he can probably attest for it. I think both points of views have truths and half truths but I can most definitely see JP be anal about things.
"For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil."
Money itself is not inherently evil, but the desire for it can lead to sinful actions.
Greed and materialism can corrupt individuals and societies.
The pursuit of wealth at all costs can lead to dishonesty, exploitation, and harm.
It is important to prioritize values such as love, compassion, and generosity over the pursuit of wealth.
In conclusion, while money can be a useful tool, it is essential to guard against the love of money and prioritize spiritual and moral values in our lives.
I totally agree
Yessir a lot of people forget "the love of" portion of that scripture.
Exactly!..✌️
right, the LOVE of money is the root, not money
So true
I’m glad you are doing better, good luck with everything Julia. I think I had commented before to say I didn’t want to see you guys air out your personal things and attack each other but I can see you have been trying your best to stay level headed. No one deserves to be crapped on everyday bc of someone else’s mental issues they refuse to get help for. Take care girl💜
I so appreciate this! It's definitely something I'd been avoiding but no more as he has not stopped lying. In fact he is now reposting all of his old lies in short form content. It's disgusting.
JP definitely needs mental health help. He's taking all his anger about something out on Julia and it is not something to take lightly.
@@HJF AGREE 💯%!
Absolutely stunned to see those DMs, (I paused to read all of them,) where you're constantly reaching out with compromise and support and being WAY more reasonable than he had any right to receive, and then he just blows you off.
Girl, you're too good for him. He needs to do some serious soul-searching, and I hope he gets help for whatever personal demons/frustrations he's fighting through. I don't know if you realize how bad his DM logs look for him from an outside perspective, but he comes across as a complete uncompromising jerk and you come across as someone who's responding to constant indifference and stubbornness with nothing but attempts to be level-headed and understanding and give him the benefit of the doubt.
All the love and support, and I'm grateful that you want to keep the channel going! I've been watching off and on since the old fast-food recreation days, and am still using your copycat recipes for Pizza Hut breadsticks and Totino's Pizza Rolls!
I’ve been watching this channel for years, one of the first ones I subscribed to. Said all that to say, I’m goin to keep on watchin ya. Just be true to you. You are teaching all of us how to love ourselves through your struggles. Thanks for that! Keep ya head up and keep making amazing content! 🖤🥰
Abuse whether mental, physical, lying, manipulation, and continuing to believe everything your doing to simply stop another human been from being happy is what most of this world has become. Julia are hearts and prayers go out to you during these time. I only say this....Believe when u have no reason too, fight even when you feel your moment has been lost, but u know ur future is your own destiny. Forgive, when the mind tells u not too, but is necessary to me into the next journey. Have faith 🙏! Our paths set by God are only given to appreciate the wisdom and strength our father wants us to have as we continue our journey here on earth. And no matter what happens, serve others before ever serving yourself. This will truly lead you to the passage of warmth, love, and happiness. Blessings to you and your family and ur continued journey to a successful recovery and much deserved happiness ❤❤❤❤
Julia good on you for posting all this, it's always hard with two people having different sides to the story but this shed a ton of light
you have no idea how hard it was to make this video. Drama is not my thing. That's why he lies and clickbaits people to watch his content because he thought I would never speak up because I didn't for years. It was not my thing but I'm grateful that I've found my voice in all of this.
@@HJF Speaking out against emotional abusers has to be incredibly hard, especially being so visible as a major creator on YT. Julia this is really inspiring for a lot of people out there. I hope this not only gets people off your back but also inspires them to speak out about their abuse as well. All the best from a long time fan of the channel!
The real question is who got Mr. Pig
@@Johnny2Gats I forgot. Ooh do a video on what happened to Mr pig. We need to know
Feel like he been cheating on her that's why he treated her 2nd to none
What a jerk JP was
@@Viziry I'm Pro LGBTQ as a mother, but there's one thing I know, you could think you are gay but until the deed is done, you're kinda not, my guess is he accused her of cheating to cover the fact that he was doing it ..
@@Mindyisawesome Ive seen Mr Pig in some of JPs videos
On a much smaller scale, I feel you. My ex behaved the same way, let me work constantly to allow him to build his business, used our account, but drained his "business" account and blamed me for it. You are better off!!! I have continued to follow you because your passion for this is real. ❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing! Dealing with this situation has been insane, but I truly believe that the justice system will prevail. He wants to engage in a PR battle, attempting to convince every friend of mine to disown me, but the truth is in the facts, and the repercussions will come soon.
He's one of those ex's that won't be happy with just a breakup. They want to destroy everything. They get some sick pleasure out of these types of behaviors.
@@bexxgenx3165this was his channel
This video changed my opinion on what happened because it's so believable too. Us guys are more prone to this type of entitlement to where we think we can control everything and lash out when we can't. I've been there at least (in my 20s) and trying to be better - calling out obvious toxic behavior, especially when those people can't own up to it, is awesome for everybody
Hey Julia! You are a strong woman, proud of you. Sending love and 100% support from Philippines. Mabuhay ka!
Sending love back your way! 🙌🫶
Julia, I'm so sorry you've had to deal with this behind the scenes for so long. You are brave to share your story and amplify that financial abuse & emotional abuse/manipulation are as serious has physical abuse. I hope legally things work out and you are able to protect yourself and your business.
“It’s not defamation if its the truth” 💯
The “That explains a lot” part had me screaming 🤣 by not saying a lot you said too much 😂
Agreed 100%!
"I'm sorry babe I'm just so stressed, I promise this never happens~"
I took that to mean that she realized he was struggling with his own dilemma of who he was.
I took it for he was a bitch and wouldn't do what a man does in the bedroom 🤷
@@JediBeavis1971 I assure you that's not what she meant..... no deep thoughts required lol
It is a 50/50 ownership. You really can't cut someone out. If it is 50/50 the way it is, you really just gotta branch off
Like she says in the video she can buy him out and has offered. He doesn't care about the channel or brand.
it's hard to brandh off and start over and build a new channel. That could take 5-7 years. UA-cam has changed a lot and doesn't even favor some long form content anymore.
Yup she tried to steal the channel
@@gummywormliveI actually saw that post that she showed at about 19:00 where he said he was leaving the channel and that he was moving on. How is that her stealing the channel?
@@gummywormliveit’s her channel if she wasn’t on it he would of had 0 success on UA-cam. He just ate the food and made bad jokes
I’m so sorry Julia, I hope that things get resolved for you quickly and in your favor.
You’re so strong Julia🫶🏻🫶🏻 I’ve been watching you guys for years and I will continue supporting YOU💗 I’m excited to see more ideas that you have in mind. Stray strong through these hard times, love you💗💗💗
This is wild, I’m sorry you have to go through this. You have my full support 🙏❤️
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I hope you've started a new channel that has no affiliation to him or hellthy junk food.
You need to get out of that and start fresh on your own. Get through all the crap and leave that toxicity behind. I wish you all the best with your future endeavours. I know anything you put out would be fantastic.
This video provoked tears. I am so sorry this is happening. I really liked JP and initially gave him the benefit of the doubt. I can't anymore. I applaud your will power and determination to keep doing what you love doing. Very inspirational. I hope it all rewards you handsomely one day.
Sorry to make you emotional, it has been traumatic to live through too, and was SO HARD for me to get a handle on what was going on to garner the ability to speak up about the truths of what has been going on. I hope this helps other people to not allow bad relationships to control their lives, like I did for so long, no more.
Damn this was some tea that I didn’t see coming, girl. Good for you for standing up for yourself.
I am so proud of you for speaking up and I am so sorry you have to deal with this. As I watched the video I had to pause and read all those text messages. My jaw was on the floor with just how terrible and controlling and manipulative he was to you. His behaviors remind me of my brothers ex… a sociopathic narcissistic nightmare. You are amazing and a rockstar! I love your channel and will continue to support you!
I don’t wish this upon anyone, and not speaking up was getting me pushed in the mud. Thank you for being there for me and the channel. On the up and up! 🙏
Julia, thanks for explaining and showing the receipts. I didn't hear much about the drama. I just knew JP wasn't in the videos anymore and assumed you two had broken up, but didn't know any of the details. I hope you can recoup your losses and then some...
Im glad your situation is starting to improve. I found this channel randomly about 7 years ago and have loved it since. I hope the channel becomes bigger than it ever has, and that you continue to do what you love.
Whether you’re bad with money/math whatever, you never not know what’s going on financially or know what accounts have what. And if a partner is adamant about you not know or avoids questions about combined financials, consider that a BIG red flag.
Sorry that man put you through all this Julia.
Slay Julia. Definitely support you and the channel 🔥
🙏🙏🙏
Been subbed to you for about 7-8years, its been a minute. Listening to this story gave me major flashbacks of my narcissistic ex and how you explained how you responded to everything as far as trying to do everything in your power to not cause a flare up in behavior i feel you on. Im so sorry for the emotional and mental trauma youve been through and i pray your comeback brings you nothing but success. You got this!💯😊
I’m so sorry you went through something like this. We live and we learn!!
Same! The PTSD is real! Hugs, @HJF I’m glad your attorney was supportive of you standing up for yourself.
I can tell this was difficult for you to make. I've been watching for YEARS and it's a poop position to see you guys in. Unfortunately some partners grow differently with time. I wish both you and JP the best, and I appreciate you Julia, for continuing to try. Don't stop trying. At the end of the day, your personal life is your personal life and people need to leave creators to be. All I know is you've been killing it for a year and I (and hopefilly all the other 2.9m subs) are here for the awesome content you create! Lets see something delicious!! :)
Julia I’m so proud of you for standing up for yourself! Jp’s actions scream abuse and I pray you find someone who treats you like the queen that you are.
Thank you for your support. 🙌🙏
I always made sure to tune in to your channel to catch your content. His departure doesn't really bother me, as I'm just relieved that you're still active on UA-cam.
Dear Julia,
You are a wonderful and amazing women. I know how you feel. I was in a relationship like you were for over 15 years. I was abused mentally, physically, and verbally. It's taken me years to get over the pain he cause, and I still even have relapses of my past trauma. Please don't give up. You are in the right and he needs to learn his actions have consequences. I will forever be on your side, and stand by you no matter what. You are a inspiration to everyone that has been in this kind of abuse, to stand up for your self and what is right.
Hey Julia. I’ve been watching the channel over the years (since I started watching in high school in 2015 till now). Been enjoying the recent videos and been really happy that you’ve found your footing with them! Also been following any news about the break up and was 50/50 on what people have been saying about your break up and whose side to be on until you showed the receipts. Not only was it disappointing to see how far J.P has fallen but it’s absolutely disgusting with not only how J.P let his fans bully you and how J.P also bullied you over the years. It’s become clear how J.P is a manipulator, monster, bully and lair. You’re an absolute legend for keeping the channel running and I respect that you tried to keep the peace even though you could’ve easily done the same thing he’s been doing to you and I wouldn’t have blamed you. It’s obvious that J.P needs help at this point, from his videos to his terrible treatment towards you. Really sorry you’ve had to deal with J.P’s fans spreading the lies as well. I’ve always known that the truth will come out and looks like it has. All the best with the legal battle against him. Keep up with the incredible content and wishing you all the best! Definitely will keep continuing watching the new videos. Also hope you’ll come to Australia someday and review our greatest fast food the HSP!
Wow and thank you!! I’ve got an Australian tribute recipe coming, lemme just say it’s going to be big. Would love to come visit!
Ok simp
Very well said!! I stopped watching because of JP's attitude...I think the particular video that finally did it for me was a video involving Popeyes...he was so rude and nasty to the workers, I couldn't watch anymore.
Im so happy you found your voice in this situation. I pray all works in your favor. You definitely have my support!
Thank you so much!
She the one who cheated 😂
I hope you get everything you deserve from the court case. You will always have my support. I don’t know how a person can go through what you’ve been through and still keep everything together. You are one strong, resilient woman. I hope you stay strong and win!
Wow I never would have expected any of this.😢 I I have literally followed you guys since the beginning I think it's been maybe not that long but I remember watching your videos win.My daughters were babies, and they're 7 and 8 now. You still Worked at the radio station, and you guys were in that small apartment..
17:43 "Im not saying Im gay"..."Julia Im gay" hahahahahahahaha
I watch JP’s channel too and in most of his videos he talks about being gay or asking other people if they think he’s gay. It seems like he maybe having a an identity crisis regarding his sexuality. I hope he figures it out.
You misread his comment. He said he wasn’t saying he was “gay” as in fake gay or using it as an excuse. He was saying he was ‘capital G’ gay without ambiguity since Julia was not sure what his angle was
@@courve my bad JP I didn’t mean to misinterpret.
I am so glad you did this video, with all the slander he's been doing on his joke of a channel, it was about time your voice came out. I never knew he was financially and emotionally abusive, I really hate that you went through all that. Hopefully you will prevail in court, it sounds like you got the solid ground and he doesn't have much to stand on.
I just unfollowed everything with JP on social media. I don't support abusive men who don't appreciate how good they have it until it's gone
At this point, with JP still owning half the company, what is the best way to support you?
You saying what you just said is all the support I need, thank you for being here and letting me tell my truth.
We got you.
Who is here after the new JP video lol
Looks like just you. lol The video he created may be a new post but all the lies he tells are the same old lies. Appreciate you coming back for a view.
Everyone knows the Truth they arnt the only one @HJF good luck
me
@@HJFmore than 60 people liked his comment though 😂
@@HJFnot you getting the same view count as him but having 3 million followers 😂😂😂
LETS GOOOOOOOO JULIA ! 👏🏻 I have watched this channel and I stayed subbed but when you moved to Orlando I felt a shift within the videos and it kind of fell off in my routine to keep watching, but now that this video you made makes so much more sense and I am rooting for you to come back even stronger ! I can’t wait for the revised channel of what you’re going to make !!!!
Wow Julia, I’m sorry that you’ve been going through all of this. This is a mess, and there’s no reason why all of this had to take place. It’s mind blowing seeing the damage that one person’s greed can cause. I hope all of this gets resolved soon, and that you and the channel can get back to focusing on new and exciting content. Thank you for your transparency, and sending you much love and continued support….❤️❤️❤️
Throwing knives at him without his consent got me ugly laughing 😂😂😂
I love these 2 and they are both in messed up circumstances
Didn’t know any of this was happening. I’ve been watching for a while now. I’m sorry this is happening to you and hope it all gets resolved
Being mentally abused is absolutely horrible I truly hope you can heal
Yes it is. Physical abuse can be healed but emotional abuse cannot.
This channel is like the poor child caught in the middle of a custody battle.
Not really she’s always been the channel. JP is some dude who thinks he’s funny. Julia is the only reason the channel was successful
I remember watching this channel a ton in 2016 the summer before my senior year of college and during senior year of college. The videos were great for me to unwind after a long day of school. Sad that all of this happened.
I’ve been here since the beginning. I understand a lot of people needed this video. I didn’t. I just need you to keep doing everything you’re doing to keep this channel alive. You still have a lot of supporters and I’m one of the biggest. I love this channel and we’re not here for food. There’s a million food channels. We’re here for you. There’s only one Julia Goolia.
All the best to you Julia, I hope all works out well for you and you can put this behind you. Looking forward to seeing the new content you put out. Onwards and upwards ❤
She just explained the life of an influencer, different face on the camera vs. off. Many are miserable. 😂
you are not wrong, I had been miserable in it... so happy to work on healing and getting to a better place. smh
@@HJF I still loved all of your Buffalo wing videos. ❤❤❤
@@HJFI'm so sorry. You came out the bigger person.
Honestly I stopped watching so much because he annoyed me. I don’t understand the people that claimed chemistry, I felt like I was watching you trying to wrangle a spoiled child that was acting out more and more. I’m happy for you for getting out of that situation and speaking on the truth.
JP has a very conniving mindset ... I'll continue enjoying your content Julia 🌹
Wow.....what a creep. I only started watching because of you (Julia), never really vibed with JP in the videos. I even quit watching for a year or so.
Now to find out what kind of person he actually is all makes sense. Sorry you have had to endure all of the manipulation and lies. Hoping your future is healthier and happier. We love and support you.
Wow! So sorry for this chaos, Julia! I pray that JP gets the help he needs, he sounds like he's had a mental break, sadly.
I was in a marriage very similar to what youre explaining. I self controlled and kept quiet for a long time but people who were close to me knew something was wrong. Your story and your experience is identical in alot of ways to what I went through for the longest time. Everything finally came to a boiling point in early 2023 and thats when the separation came and me learning some very hurtful and heartbreaking details. I still did everything i could to protect her and protect her image even if it meant hiding the real truth from people and the hurt i was going through. Finally after over a year dealing with the separation and legal battles, the divorce was finalized and justice was finally served. Not iust for me but for my incredible son. Taking the high road was worth it and although it made things harder for a time, i feel like karma did its job and the outcome was worth it. After hearing your story I cant help but feel the same for you. The bravery it takes to speak up and especially do it on social media after people continue to attack you speaks volumes to the courage you have inside. Even though you didnt have to and you dont owe anyone on the internet anything from your personal life, I greatly appreciate you sharing your story. It helps people like me who have experienced something like this and shows that we're not so alone after all. Best of luck and I look forward to watching more of your content as you and your channel continue to grow ❤
Very similar? We're you also cheating on your partner?
@@tylerhottman868 ????
I watched a couple of videos n realised JP wasn’t there n thought something was up Carry on what ur doing lass we love you n ur creativeness ❤
Homedude went from friendly to psycho at a record speed.
so you're only seeing this from her perspective apparently
@@somethingrandom4513not necessarily, I'm just saying he escalated things quickly (according to her side of the story), but yes I've seen his response as well and they both have their points
No one is innocent, cus I'm sure they both did things to fuel the fire that burnt down the bridge. However, I don't think we have the right to judge "who is in the right" because we weren't there in this very personal and long drawn out battle.
I'm just saying it seems like he went at an accelerated pace as things kept escalating, but who knows how much she has a part to do in it either.
Speaking of his response, did anyone else kinda feel like he was just quickly throwing together a video to show his side after this dropped? Like I get trying to clear the air but he didn't waste much time and I felt he could have come at things a bit more calmly but I also understand some ppl get heated after being "exposed" (regardless of it being true or not)
@@fairlyfoxymoxy He wants this to be a he said, she said situation, so he will continue to make outrageous claims. The court of public opinion is who he is catering to, but this is actually about who took what and when. I have proof that he did everything I said he did, and I will present that evidence to the court. On the other hand, he is not accusing me of anything in court - I mean, nothing at all. Despite all the things he is saying online, he is not making any of those claims in court. He tried to get my case dismissed based on no evidence, but the judge threw out his nonsense on Monday. Now, he has four days to file something else...
@@HJF wow, tough stuff and I feel you. That's what I suspected was the situation on hand. Regardless, I don't wish court arguments on anyone and I hope it can get resolved quickly for both of your sakes.
Hi Julia. My daughter, who is a family law attorney, told me that the party who repeatedly blames the other party online or in other public forums for everything is usually the one who is lying. I had a feeling he was not being honest all this time, so thanks for posting this video to tell your side. Glad you ended it with him before it got even worse. Once this is over I am sure you will be very successful and free to be even more creative in your journey. I wish JP the best, but I am a fan of you! Go Girl! Love your enthusiasm for what you do!
Thank God family law attorneys never, ever lie, ever.
@@becker8192 I saw your posts from 9 months ago & you’re still here hating on Julia like it’s your job smh
I hope she blocks you ..
@@TruthSlayer2.0-KD5xh I was actually hating on family law attorneys, not Julia. Great reading comprehension. In any case, I'm glad I get to live rent-free in your head.
@@becker8192 actually I saw your old comment just before I posted mine, I wasn’t holding on to it for 9 months 😂😂😂 I always check before responding to people, in your case I saw the hate from 9 months ago directed at Julia & that’s what I referenced ..
Holy shit I'm grabbing my popcorn, I've been waiting for this
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I won't lie, I love comments ... people are entertaining
I should’ve grabbed some popcorn 🍿 for this 😂😂
I’m on your side, especially because I was like JP in a previous relationship. When we broke it off, I was being immature and childish. Hindsight is a b***h, but she had every right to talk crap on me because I did not make her life easy. I hope when this all gets fully settled, you can 100% move on with your life and enjoy it to the fullest.
Thanks for telling the truth Julia .
While I don't think Julia is lying or anything, just remember there's always 3 sides to every story - Julia's side, JP's side and the truth.
@@LordLOC yeah true .
Her version of the truth*
@@DungeonOfShame actually the text messages, emails etc shows it’s the only version of the truth, unless she’s a time traveler, there’s a lawsuit that’s public, the filings by BOTH parties back her claims, plus she’s not stupid enough to lie because he’d just add a Defamation Charge, he originally had one against her but ya have to be able to prove it, he’s since drop that charge ..
@@LordLOCI mean she has proof ?😭😭 sooooo
Damn UA-cam timeline is so crazy... Nikacado avacado is skinny all of a sudden and you haven't been with JP in years. What is happening anymore 🥲
I honestly thought I would never see this day. This duo was awesome but personally Julia is awesome! Screw JP. Hope you can make it out soon and get back to normal life!
Yo, you could kinda tell how JP was behind the scenes with his condescending jokes sometimes. My ex father was the same way, especially towards the end there.
Yes and we don’t know her behind the scene either. Stop acting like she’s the innocent and JP the the villain without knowing the real backstory than these propagandists
@@coffeelink943ok JP on a fake account
@@coffeelink943she has receipts. JP doesn't. And you can tell by his body language in his recent videos that he's lying and nervous. He knows he's in the wrong and he's finally being called out on it.
@@stephaniem.8344 There's also a bunch of comments from people who have worked with Healthy Junk Food calling out JP's attitude towards Julia. I'm believing Julia.
I'm sorry you are going through all this. Hopefully, this whole situation can be resolved quickly, and you can live the happy life you deserve!
The question everyone really wants the answer to is
Why did you make this video in your car?
Privacy, no noise distractions.
Bc she can
This is why you don’t going in business with your spouse. See this shit happen all the time.
I’ve learned my lesson
Will you ever get married? This relationship caused you a lot of trauma
hello - i owe you an apology because i was one of those people who left a snarky comment having only heard JP's POV. as more information have been provided, i have learnt my lesson of judging before having more context and proof before commenting. i hope you win your lawsuit and everything is finalised fairly
It’s ok, it’s not your fault. I sat around hoping he would stop for an entire year, and didn’t speak up.
Thank you for the vote of confidence regarding the legal matter and no worries, I will win, he has done what he has done.
Whatever happened or happens I'll stay a subscriber. I actually subscribed after he was gone. I subscribed because I thought you were funny and seem like a cool person to hang out with. You're cute, too.
Wow...mind blown. I can't imagine going through all this girl. I'm so glad you're going to break free of all that. You deserve so much better! All of us are here to support you. I hope he gets the help he truly needs. Love to you sister!🙏❤️
Thank you so much!!
Julia I remember watching this channel when yall would make giant sized stuff. I didn’t know that stuff was getting bad behind the scenes. When all this got out, I remember believing JP and low key hating you, but after seeing your video and seeing the screenshots. I was way wrong and I’m sorry for doubting you. He just spills lies with not proof. I can now see the different side of him. Good luck with everything and stay strong. Keep doing what you love ❤️
Thanks for taking the time to hear my side of the story. It has been a relentless situation that I never expected and that's why I took so long to respond. I stuck my head in the sand and hoped he'd stop lying about me and stop harassing me. Eventually I accepted the reality that he will not stop so I had to speak up and tell the truth. This has been tough but I've accepted that this situation and court case could drag on for a long time but I'm OK with that especially with people like you supporting me.
@@HJFI will continue to support you Julez….just sucks that he’ll get half of your earnings 😢 idk how you could have so much patience and were able to put up with so much…I know I wouldn’t have..that just proves how strong and resilient you are. Prayers for you!
I'm so sorry that you have been through this. You still have our support. We love your work!!
17:04 Apparently your friend from this text message tried to write a comment, but it got deleted. So she had to write it in JP’s community page.
I didn’t put those text messages in the video to say any of those people are my friends. I put those messages in there to show people I’m being honest about dates, times, and what was said at the time. Apparently, you guys haven't noticed that I don't like drama; it drives me crazy. That's why it took me a year to respond to his relentless attacks. So when he started lying about me and making videos putting me down, any mutual friend who didn't come to me and ask for my side of the story, and just took his word for it, I simply removed myself from those people. We didn't argue or fight; there's been no bad blood. Even to this day, there's no bad blood on my part. At the end of the day, we are all adults, and the truth will come out because JP did everything he's done, even if he lies about it. JP lies a lot, and I'm pretty sure he lies to his friends the same way he lies on the internet. Just so you know, what JP says online and what he says in the lawsuit are literally the opposite.
Oh and let me show you how much he lies… his latest lies are about bank withdrawals my lawyer is questioning him about. Those bank withdrawals did NOT go to my personal accounts. The half of bitcoin that he talked me into buying I bought out of my person account. Also, he has retirement accounts just like I did. Somehow about $30k more ended up in his accounts than mine but no worries he will have to answer about that in the next batch of questionable funds that is also quite large. I won’t even bother to respond to his 300% nonsense because that’s just stupid and never happened. These are just his latest lies, idk why he tells such bold lies but it’ll all come out as the funds are easily tracked.
Friend or not, I feel like if you’re using her texts, she should be able to talk about those texts in the comments sections. I hoping you got her permission to use them. That would be the courtesy.
She seemed quite upset though.
I could have simply stated in the video that 'we broke up in February 2022,' but JP would have denied it and provided a much later date to support his story. Instead, I used text messages to confirm my claim. They have no relevance to this business matter, neither does any of my current or other former friends. Some of them are upset with JP, but I’m not sending them to his page to argue with him. This case is strictly about business, not a high school argument as JP is trying to portray it. That's why JP was the one who mentioned the name of the person who sent those two texts I used.
People are not questioning the content of the texts or who I sent them to as no one cares because they understand why I used them. We are in the midst of a court case, a case that I am confident I will win. I know her opinion - she believes JP is right and I am wrong, and that's her prerogative. However, she, like others, are unaware of the true nature of our business finances. Therefore, there is no need to argue about it. I have evidence that I will present that in court. There is absolutely no reason for her to be upset with anything I have done, as I have done nothing to her.
To all of JP's friends and supporters, I want to reiterate: what JP says online is not what he presents in court, where it truly matters.
Much respect to you Julia. I know the law works differently in different states, but JP might be brought up on charges when the lawsuit has been resolves. At least he should be. Fraud, money laundering being the biggest issues.
Julia your relationship story is so much like my own. My ex is controlling, has severe anger issues, and is beyond mean. I also feel like I walk on eggshells. My advice is to cut ties with everything. Make a new channel, sell everything from the old partnership, then your channel, money, equipment, cars, home, insurance, ect. are not controlled by anyone but you. Dont continue to hustle and do tons of work while JP profits off of you. If he wants money he can work, dont be his meal ticket. Get a new channel. Everyone who cares about this channel will move with you.
Wow. I remember I used to watch this channel all the time and I loved the content and I remember having to reprogram my UA-cam to trick the algorithm to recommend a different type of video and I kind of forgot about this channel but I still loved your content just went to a different type for a little bit and tonight it just came to my mind to look you up and I found out you broke up! Oh my gosh I’m so sorry to hear all of this. I’m so sorry you went through this. I have been through a similar experience. I’m praying for you 🙏🏻
I’m also coming back to this channel so so late did not know something this serious happened. Always thought that jp was a good huy
I've been finding myself leaning towards JP's side for a while now and i'm honestly not sure why I did. You're not just throwing out blatant accusations & lies, you have proof & you're backing up everything you say. Realistically i'm sure there are things you did wrong too, both sides usually share parts of the blame. But this entire thing seems aggressively instigated by his insecurities and behavior. His attitude. The way he treated you during the relationship. I don't blame you for speaking up & taking action.
stay so strong icon! We love you so much, and we will always support you!!
🙌🙌🙌🫶
Change the name and start a new brand
This!! Time to start fresh without the baggage!!
In terms for youtube, that would be a horrible idea. People who aren't keeping up won't know it's Julia
@@MK1NG1 people think HJF is only UA-cam, it's literally all the Social Media sites, she doesn't seem like she's struggling, she hasn't paid herself in a year yet she's traveling, plus she has been posting Brand Deals on other platforms... so anyone telling her to shut it down are extremely shortsighted
Junky Healthfood
The brand is the value
Wow, I had no idea things went to shit like that. I'm glad you're working on yourself and getting everything you need for yourself. I wish you the best as you begin this next chapter in your life.
JP being gay seems kinda like an excuse obviously you said it would explain a lot and didn’t want to get too personal but to me it seems like an “oh crap I need an out” situation if you get what I’m saying.
Why don't you just create a new channel?
The obvious answer is the already established brand and subscriber count. I can understand the hesitancy
No way the sponsors and subs .
It’s not that easy
$$$$
No way!
Love your passion to do the things you enjoy doing. Your passion will get you through this bump in the road. Looking forward to seeing what all you have to offer the channel.
Wow I had no idea! I totally support you! Tbh I've watched both side's and your the only 1 to provide all the receipts! ❤
I just want to say...I don't actually know you, you don't know me, I don't know JP, JP doesn't know me. What I do know, is that this is not an uncommon situation, I have observed this before. It is my personal opinion (not fact) that you speak truthfully. I really hope this is resolved, quickly and fairly, for all involved. I am not going anywhere, I will watch the channel, I enjoy the content. GL with all of this.
you’re so strong julia! please don’t give up. i’m so sorry you had to deal with this. you have all of my support ❤
Julia, no man is worth that. Don't ever be afraid to leave. Be afraid to stay. Little things turn into big things. You're better without him. I'd rather share your experiences. Good for you.
I wish I had this advice sooner but I’ve always been the live and learn type. And no worries, I’ve definitely learned from this one. 🙌🙌💯🫶
@@HJFyou’re a clown
Wow this makes me so sad, I loved watching you guys make content together for so long. so sorry to just hear about what was actually going on. All the best to you, and I hope all this childish behavior from the other end stops soon.
I hope so as well. I’d truly would’ve kept all this quiet if he didn’t consistently spread hateful lies.
@@HJF if you are in need of any help, I’ve been editing social media content (mostly short form/instagram) for the Purdue University athletics department for about a year now, and I am always looking for new projects to expand my editing career!
Always had a bad feeling about JP. Sorry you’re going through this. Glad you’re out of that toxic relationship! I couldn’t even finish the whole video because I was getting so mad for you! Fight hard with that legal battle and whatever else, because you are so worth it! It’s not petty. You are getting what you deserve ❤ And what you deserve is everything! Best wishes!
damn i’m sorry girl, loved your guys’ content for years (especially 2016-17) and i wasn’t expecting this situation at all, and when i checked back a few months ago i read about the situation and i had no idea it was this bad, please take care of yourself