Same in November I'll be 19, it wasn't even that good of a year, idk man it sucks when people tell you that being young is great and you should make the most of it when I'm not really feeling anything from it, there's too much pressure to peak or have your best times when you are young
Hey! Just want to tell you, from a 19 year old girl(turned 19 two months ago), who's been on social media wayyy too much lately, THERE IS NO RUSH!! no rush to "mature" (Which, in my opinion, is just another way for older people to hinder your spark. Growing comes with time, and you don't have to stop being curious and goofy to grow up. Those are two personality traits people frown upon the most, but they aren't a sign you're immature, they're a sign you still love life and WANT to live it!), no rush to find a life career or even choose your path. Society puts a lot of pressure on us to do these things, "become adults" the moment we turn 18, and I'm telling you right now, it's not going to happen in a month, a year, maybe not even in five years to a decade. We all go at our paces, and we all still discover and build ourselves up later in life. It's part of the journey. Just enjoy it, don't rush to "find yourself" or "become an adult." Hell, it's been a year for me, but I still don't feel any different. I've entered college and I just feel like I've transferred schools (except this time it's expensive and I have to organize myself more often T^T). I have no idea what lies ahead. Sometimes I feel extremely lost. Unsure if this is even what I want for myself. But you live, and you learn... literally. Take your time. This year was one of many you have yet to live. They all count, and the next one is only a different stage of the same game. Loved your video and your reflection. It seems life you think and reflect a lot about life, like I do. Keep up your work, you're doing great❤
absolutely love your comment! I'm 18 and everything you said is so, so true. we are all on our own paths, and each path is beautiful, each path is okay ❤
Ill become 19 in October, and so far my 18th year has been completely wasted. I’ve spent it in isolation, and am struggling to find hope and reason in finding my path, let alone actually working towards one. I live out in the country with overprotective parents, and don’t have any support or money for moving out, so while I desperately want to leave, actually doing so is oppressive and terrifying. I dunno what im saying, it sounds stupid but I feel like im 18 and my life’s already beeb wasted because how helpless and unknowing I always feel. When you talked about not having a childhood, that hit home for me too. I don’t want to bitch about my shitty hand that life dealt me, but I really feel lost, and like ive missed so much too that i’ll now never know and see. The future scares me, despite how much I deny this.
This video is really motivating I struggle with my own anxieties as well sometimes such as getting older and not feeling like I’m not experiencing alot while at the same time not balancing my life out. This helps me feel less alone thank you.
I had this exact feeling recently. In just 3 weeks I’ll be 20 and I’ll never get to be a teenager again. And I feel happy that I can no longer be a teenager but also really sad that it’s over and now I really am becoming an adult
But 19 isn’t 18. 18, in my opinion, is when you’re supposed to live the most, explore your youth and adulthood. Idk, im 18 myself so what the hell do I know.
personally, I found out that the people, especially family, call their older kids “childish”, is because they’re worried others will take advantage of them. My mom would explain it to me like this; you’re out in the world, doing college or trying to make your own mark, when you make the wrong choice with the wrong kind of people. It doesn’t have to be for stuff like drugs or alcohol, it can be as simple as them breaking your trust. Or manipulating you. Or breaking your heart. People can be very kind, but people can also be very hurtful. And “childish” people might not notice it until its too late. In some ways, that makes sense. You don’t want to get screwed over after all! But the frustation of being told that you’re too childish for your age sucks too. 18 isn’t the magic adult number: you still have the same brain, the same thoughts, and a little bit more experience than a child. Of course you’d be unsure, confused and just wanting to have fun at 18. Its very normal. What I think more people should try tho, 18 and older, is to be balanced. Keep that “childish” love for life, of going outside and rolling in grass or splashing in puddles. Remember to have fun and have fun doing it *stupid*. You’d be surprised by how freeing it is! But at the same time, know when to be mature. Know when you need to be smart, or cautious, or firm. Being “childish” does not have to mean that you are stupid or naive: it just means that you enjoy life more easily than most :D Long after rant done though, I hope you’re doing well in your 19th year now! You have a quiet charm that I enjoy, and I hope you’ll only gain more knowledge on yourself and who you are as the years go by. and I hope your poetry collection does well! ❤❤
had to turn up the videa all the way up but as a fresh 19 year old i agree with most of this especially being made to grow up fast but that too has its percs.love the vid but next time lets turn up the sound. Much support keep it up!!
as a 21 year old i would advise you to, do focus on academics and dont ignore it but also don't just get into academics, make good friend(many friends are not necessary but good friends), have a hobby like sports or writting or .......... and travel places............ and relax and be fit not fat. imma guy not girl but would advise this same to anyone
18 with my first job interview tomorrow after being a dropout loner in my room for 2 years. I feel twice more like a boy than I do a man lol. But it's time for that time to be over. The under achiever in me will hopefully be non existent soon
I love finding videos from people who have under 1k subs its soooo coool
Same in November I'll be 19, it wasn't even that good of a year, idk man it sucks when people tell you that being young is great and you should make the most of it when I'm not really feeling anything from it, there's too much pressure to peak or have your best times when you are young
I relate to this
My existential frequency brought me here
Hey! Just want to tell you, from a 19 year old girl(turned 19 two months ago), who's been on social media wayyy too much lately, THERE IS NO RUSH!! no rush to "mature" (Which, in my opinion, is just another way for older people to hinder your spark. Growing comes with time, and you don't have to stop being curious and goofy to grow up. Those are two personality traits people frown upon the most, but they aren't a sign you're immature, they're a sign you still love life and WANT to live it!), no rush to find a life career or even choose your path. Society puts a lot of pressure on us to do these things, "become adults" the moment we turn 18, and I'm telling you right now, it's not going to happen in a month, a year, maybe not even in five years to a decade. We all go at our paces, and we all still discover and build ourselves up later in life. It's part of the journey. Just enjoy it, don't rush to "find yourself" or "become an adult." Hell, it's been a year for me, but I still don't feel any different. I've entered college and I just feel like I've transferred schools (except this time it's expensive and I have to organize myself more often T^T). I have no idea what lies ahead. Sometimes I feel extremely lost. Unsure if this is even what I want for myself. But you live, and you learn... literally. Take your time. This year was one of many you have yet to live. They all count, and the next one is only a different stage of the same game. Loved your video and your reflection. It seems life you think and reflect a lot about life, like I do. Keep up your work, you're doing great❤
thank you for your detailed, eloquent comment! thank you so much for your encourgement, and I hope you discover more about yourself with every year
absolutely love your comment! I'm 18 and everything you said is so, so true. we are all on our own paths, and each path is beautiful, each path is okay ❤
Ill become 19 in October, and so far my 18th year has been completely wasted. I’ve spent it in isolation, and am struggling to find hope and reason in finding my path, let alone actually working towards one. I live out in the country with overprotective parents, and don’t have any support or money for moving out, so while I desperately want to leave, actually doing so is oppressive and terrifying. I dunno what im saying, it sounds stupid but I feel like im 18 and my life’s already beeb wasted because how helpless and unknowing I always feel.
When you talked about not having a childhood, that hit home for me too. I don’t want to bitch about my shitty hand that life dealt me, but I really feel lost, and like ive missed so much too that i’ll now never know and see. The future scares me, despite how much I deny this.
Same getting 19 this year's October, regret how I spent the entire year.
This video is really motivating I struggle with my own anxieties as well sometimes such as getting older and not feeling like I’m not experiencing alot while at the same time not balancing my life out. This helps me feel less alone thank you.
I had this exact feeling recently. In just 3 weeks I’ll be 20 and I’ll never get to be a teenager again. And I feel happy that I can no longer be a teenager but also really sad that it’s over and now I really am becoming an adult
with every change, a blessing. 🌱
Its the first time you'll be 19. Its just a matter of how you think about it.
But 19 isn’t 18. 18, in my opinion, is when you’re supposed to live the most, explore your youth and adulthood. Idk, im 18 myself so what the hell do I know.
Bruh same I won't be 18 again in exactly a month lol, yt knows everything
personally, I found out that the people, especially family, call their older kids “childish”, is because they’re worried others will take advantage of them. My mom would explain it to me like this; you’re out in the world, doing college or trying to make your own mark, when you make the wrong choice with the wrong kind of people. It doesn’t have to be for stuff like drugs or alcohol, it can be as simple as them breaking your trust. Or manipulating you. Or breaking your heart. People can be very kind, but people can also be very hurtful. And “childish” people might not notice it until its too late.
In some ways, that makes sense. You don’t want to get screwed over after all! But the frustation of being told that you’re too childish for your age sucks too. 18 isn’t the magic adult number: you still have the same brain, the same thoughts, and a little bit more experience than a child. Of course you’d be unsure, confused and just wanting to have fun at 18. Its very normal.
What I think more people should try tho, 18 and older, is to be balanced. Keep that “childish” love for life, of going outside and rolling in grass or splashing in puddles. Remember to have fun and have fun doing it *stupid*. You’d be surprised by how freeing it is! But at the same time, know when to be mature. Know when you need to be smart, or cautious, or firm. Being “childish” does not have to mean that you are stupid or naive: it just means that you enjoy life more easily than most :D
Long after rant done though, I hope you’re doing well in your 19th year now! You have a quiet charm that I enjoy, and I hope you’ll only gain more knowledge on yourself and who you are as the years go by. and I hope your poetry collection does well! ❤❤
I'm 23, I could not stop it either. Still feel everyday I won't be 23 again.
Too bad, all of us human have to face it :(
Pushing 30
Damn i watched the video this is actually some great advice ur cool
This is literally me yapping in my room (not literally)
You’re very wholesome
had to turn up the videa all the way up but as a fresh 19 year old i agree with most of this especially being made to grow up fast but that too has its percs.love the vid but next time lets turn up the sound. Much support keep it up!!
as a 21 year old i would advise you to, do focus on academics and dont ignore it but also don't just get into academics, make good friend(many friends are not necessary but good friends), have a hobby like sports or writting or .......... and travel places............ and relax and be fit not fat.
imma guy not girl but would advise this same to anyone
No freaking idea why your video came to my Recommendations. 🥷
ditto, but nice vid
Same but nice video
18 with my first job interview tomorrow after being a dropout loner in my room for 2 years. I feel twice more like a boy than I do a man lol. But it's time for that time to be over. The under achiever in me will hopefully be non existent soon
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No freaking idea why your video came to my Recommendations.
@@menma2914 it’s not about the journey it’s about the destination 🌱
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I will be 20 at the end of october, tbh 19yo doesnt differ at all from 18yo. I still behave like a silly teenager xD
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How coincidental that next month's my birthday and I am gonna be 18 🙃
I'll be turning 19 in 15 days and that is why i clicked on this video becouse i will never be 18 again
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dont worry i lost my 18s my 17s my 16s and my 15s 😃
i turn 18 tomorrow, ill see what happens
Alright bet me neither
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That's actually a lie, I found the secret to reverting your age, it's