In theory society has made talking about finances taboo. If you want to discuss finances among people you trust like her friends you should, but I believe the social setting Jay and Kristin surround themselves with is just not necessarily healthy, although this is reality tv show, so it might be for ratings but from what I observe and basing off just that in this little cutscene, there seems to turmoil that its boiling privately and they did not have a constructive discussion about money after his retirement. Which leads me to believe that Kristin does not want to be the leader in the relationship and she knows equality sucks and she thinks Jay is entitled and not working portraying him being lazy and not a man. Just a theoretical statement, dont be too harsh on me UA-cam.
It was weird of their gay friend to start saying he wanted to sleep with Kristin's husband. Kidding or not, awkward! Then he moves to " What you out of money". To set the stage for more awkward moments! Then once he accomplished the bad tension in the air. He says oh what's going on with you guys?? As if he didn't know! Only to move on to criticize it by saying being there was like seeing his parents fight. Get the F&%^ out! I would have said and easily! That guy needs the boot! What kinda of dweeb starts unhealthy jabs like that. Maybe start off with who are your true friends are first!
Idk why conversations in general has to go about discussing a persons job/ career or saying whos the bread winner etc. and go about saying " he's retired " infront of everyone i can see how jays mood shifted right there i dont blame him one bit
@@loricervantes4557 I like your standpoint. The thing I noticed is how dismissive she is with Jay's current status. Jay Cutler was NFL Quaterback for denver,chicago,and Miami. The chances of somebody becoming a professional athlete in this country is 3-6%. Some athletes dream they have the type of money jay has after retirement. This career path is a life long commitment, so this is just a guess, Jay has worked from the age of 6 to 32 years old. Making it a 26 year commitment to one sport. So when your significant other resents that your not working anymore? Anyone with a brain cell would get upset at the fact somebody would call you lazy when you train, keep out of legal and public trouble, saving, year after year. To only find out your partner thinks your a bum
On her show, she keeps pointing out that he’s retired and that she’s waiting for him to “figure things out”. He did. He played football, made a crapload of money, and he retired. He banged up his body- those body slams didn’t tickle- and if he wants to chill, let him chill. Kristin acts like she’s the only one who has money. And he does do the most of taking care of the kids while she’s off doing her jewelry business. They both have done their share of shaming the other, to be fair. Marriage is hard work. I seriously think they should have aired out their differences with a marriage counselor though.
It seems like Kristen has put him down indirectly throughout the show because he's retired from football, No longer has the million contract. She is shaming him for not working. Yet he's the stay at home dad while she's running all over the country for her company.
Yeah its such a double standard. Its like so what hes taking time off working. Stay at home moms do it all the time. He worked his entire life and unlike kristin he finished a college degree. Raised kids built a home for them pays for everything...let the man rest.
WOW She has some nerve. Jay EARNED the right to be "Retired" at an early age. If he wants to spend the next 5-10 years traveling the World or just relaxing and enjoying being home and spending time with his kids, he shouldnt be openly mocked for that. He just finished 12 years of getting the snot beat out of him by some of the biggest baddest dudes on the planet and has to worry about CTE and this is how his "Supportive" Wife who's enjoying all those fancy meals and several houses talks to him in front of guests?
She should be thankful for what they have. A beautiful house, family, and they're higher than upper middle class so they don't live like average ppl. Which there's nothing wrong with that but most ppl don't get to live the lifestyle that they do. So it comes off like she wants more than what she has she needs to shut up and be grateful. She sounds pretentious and ungrateful and talking about anyone's financial situation without permission is so rude especially when it's your spouse and in a room full of ppl on top of that. Apparently money can't buy common sense and manners.
Kristen you need to keep your friends to yourself jay clearly doesn't wanna mix , spend more time with jay he's the reason we all watch he keeps it real .
Shout out to the guy that kept his mouth full of food cause he knew this conversation was a man code no no in front guest him and his lady kept eating 🙌🏿
And here, kids, is a prime example of why you should never belittle or catch an attitude with your SO in front of other people. You gas up your partner in front of others and handle disagreements privately.
Being a united front is such an important part of a relationship. No one likes to be humiliated let alone by the person you’re building a life with. Even when you move on, it’ll stick with the person.
Actually love this. Not that I’d want any couple to have arguments, but there’s something so soothing about knowing that we’re not the only ones that have relationship issues and that it’s not always a honey moon phase.
Htotha Hizzie well bc in general it’s good knowing other people, not just celebrities, go through the same bullshit you do. Not everyone runs around telling people what goes on behind closed doors, and with everyone trying to paint the perfect picture for social media, friends, family, etc etc... it’s good to see other PEOPLE one can relate to, not just celebrities. So it’s not that I don’t think celebrities are not people, but I appreciate the rawness that they put out there. Bc even non celebrities try to act like their lives are perfect which makes others feel like their wine in their situations.
Wow, most people can only dream of early retirement, living on a farm and enjoying a peaceful and quiet life. Kristin seems like she misses the West Hollywood lifestyle of fame and glamour.
Jay was joking but she made it serious. It has a valid point. She doesn’t make as much as he did. They got a bigger house. She does spend a lot. Regardless of the fact that own a business. Jay miss playing football. He stuck being surrounded by a lot of her shallow friends. Jay is just laid back. He don’t see any of his old football buddies. Just him kids, farm and Kelly lol. He going crazy. I love Jay. He so down to earth and real. No filter. Idk what Kristin would do without him. She seems clueless at times.
Why he retired so early? Why he sits at home doing nothing? He could be a manager of young football players or a trainer, or do whatever he wants, but he chooses to stay home on his farm. That's not very manly. For me J is boring, no emotions and I've always wondered what energetic woman like Kristin sees in him. I would have died from boredom with a man like him. You come back home telling your husband about all challenges you took in your busy day and his like Yeah..erm I watched tv all day
And they've just announced their divorce, surprise....not! She's clearly a golddigger whereas he's down to earth, you can sense the passive aggressiveness in the video.
Jays probably has realized that she spends more than they can afford and is trying to budget more so the money will last. He realizes that the easy money is over.
Nahh not at all. Looks like Jay stopped caring about supporting her I guess, not financially but emotionally, mentally and business wise with her goings on.
She should be embarrassed by how much she acts like a stuck up higher than thou. Jay has been very supportive of her great father and family man while she's out with the hills show respect to your husband around those friends. I don't blame him one bit. She needs knocked of that high horse. Where is his friends and why isn't she having dinner with his family and friends? She should be so lucky to have a great man like Jay
I totally get it. Like you can take a joke for a while but when people KEEP coming at you with the same thing you get fed up and can’t act chill. At least he removed himself from the situation than getting upset out loud.
I just read about this in an article and it really tried to shame Jay, but to be honest I see a guy tolerating a lot of bullshit only to get called out by his own wife when the only reason they have anything is because of his career. She definitely is the one belittling him in this scene. "oH He'S "
To be married with Kristin is to be UNEVENLY yoked. Back in Laguna beach the gal does not seem to be the type that is respectful or respectable (I am sorry have to say that!) The bible says that the headship of the husband must be respected ---- and wives and husbands need to communicate openly with each other with an open heart, again you are right for noting that she belittles him (she is EXACTLY the same way in Laguna Beach, never grown up, never changes...) Remember her cheating on Stephen Coletti ?? Now she is belittling Jay. The lack of respect --- it snowballs.....to be honest I had seen the divorce coming.
Alexandriah אלכסנדריה it just really sucks for Jay Cutler that now there’s all kinds of articles saying “he’s so abusive, he was always belittling her, he was a bad husband” in a very one sided way like she is a big victim
@@dax_megathor479 Agreed yes. I really do feel that Kristin is hard to please, just too entitled. I live in California but down south in Orange county they are very well to do (ultra wealthy). For my family we are raised to be happy with what you have, and appreciate daily blessings, and be frugal. Back to Kristin --- Rest assured her Laguna days attitude will clash with Jay and then perhaps provoke Jay to doin something stupid, venting, or even cheating on her. Who know if he had (perhaps) been seeing/coupling with Kelly Henderson (?). If he did then he is guilty of "Inappropriate marital conduct". They should try using the bible counsel on letting go of their ego, their vanity, and workout their problems in a spiritual spirit of peace and reconciliation instead of Kristin buying a BIGGER HOUSE, bcoz the attitude problems moves into the new house too.
Alexandriah אלכסנדריה you nailed it. The money and bigger houses can only take a couple so far. They were never compatible as husband and wife. You know so much more than I do about the reality tv aspect of it but I respect everything you say!
Everyone was having a good time. He's kidding and she's over sensitive. The lady constantly speaks to him like he's nothing. No self respecting man is going to want to get with her after watching this play out.
“He’s retired” with a condescending tone. I guarantee he has more money than her and worked his butt off to get there. Meanwhile she puts her name on jewelry someone else makes and complains about how busy she is. I’m glad he got out.
Completely on Jay's side here. "his mood" was joking and friendly until Kristin brought up not having a big table at their new place. And he was still joking until she got defensive about his joke about her spending. And when things got to the brink, he removed himself from the situation/cameras like an adult. This is from someone who hated Cutler when he played.
Jay seems drunk and is demeaning Kristin by saying Kristen spends the “money” basically saying his money. It’s they’re money - they’re married. He’s worth 60M. I’m sure Kristin has her own money but nothing close to that amount. Regardless, tasteless thing to do - argue in front of guests. You could see Kristen is really embarrassed.
He was also wrong to retaliate. But she is the one that is like "he is reTiREd", in the tone to insinuate that the money is not coming in like it used to because Jay no longer plays football. It's demeaning to him.
I'd love to see the look on her face after the divorce when the first person tells her "am I supposed to know you"? AND the classic "your credit card is declined maam!"
Lol she has her own money and I’m sure can get her own credit card. And she’s Kristin cavallari of course people will still recognize her. I didn’t know who jay cutler was until the show aired. I knew she had gotten married and had kids but that’s about it
This just kind of makes me upset because I feel like this isn’t the kind of conversation you have infront of people .. like I would hope that my FRIENDS would be considerate of my husband and the situation... Idk and as a wife in this situation maybe I owe to my husband to NOT discuss this in front of like 6 other people? Idk this scene gives me bad vibes
Great example of narcissistic abuse. Kristin can mock Jay and he’s suppose to be ok with it. But the minute Jay mocks Kristin she shames him and gets angry
Oof. Justin seems a bit tipsy and Jay is HAMMERED. The tension between Kristin and Jay is palpable. I believe Kristin when she says their relationship was toxic. I could picture him being a really mean drunk.
Nobody really knows what goes on behind the scenes, but she seems to belittle him quite a bit in public. There's nothing wrong with retiring young especially if you've made a ton of money and your mark in the world. It seems like he was constantly looking for some validation from her.
This is the part where I felt they wouldn’t stay together. He seems so fed up with her and while drunk he lets it out. And instead of excusing herself and talking to him they go on making their guests uncomfortable.
Julia Johansson so you were there???? He didn’t seem drunk to me. He manned up in a room full of kids asses. But I get it to you that’s abuse and toxic masculinity.
J Neptune if I was there, no I own a television and could clearly see he wasn’t in that situation. Everyone has their opinion and I have mine and clearly so do you.
You can tell Jay is a completely different person than he lets on. The second he starts to feel heat, he has a hard time keeping up the persona and bails. Yet, everybody's busy blaming the woman in the situation because that's literally what we always do.
Jay is Gay...he was WAY to into that cuddling with the other gay dude convo. Probably the only time on this show I have seen him genuinely happy. Take that D jay!
mia queen - I know what you mean. I've never cared for her much but that's just me. I cringe when she talks. The way she talks sometimes sounds like she is whiny. She always mentions how he has no game but yet, she married him and had kids with him. She is very annoying. The only reason I watch the show is because Jay seems chill. I never make it through an entire episode though.
@truth hurtsoh please jay earned 128 miillion in his career and he was getting tacked by 300 lb men every day and three times on sunday lol but yea shes strong.
Kristin just plays doll house all day and runs her "business" while Jay sits there and bathes in the fact that she takes advantage of him and his finances
She already knew that after then decided to separate..she had to end the show because Jay was the one that made the show not her and her favorite people
women wanna be the new men in the relationships , they won't back down in arguments . Men are the new ladies , we have to walk away from the situation .
I come from a very well to do family, and I've never seen a conversation like this ever. Not from fam, not from my friends, not from fam friends. If it's about money then it's only about new opportunities or how to be more efficient. If you have friends like these you need to boot them immidieitaly, they're a cancer. Also anyone that talks about money like that doesn't have it. Anyone that has money they've earned would be either straight pissed or dissmisive all together. It's not a coincidence Jay can buy everyone at that table 15 times over, and he was the one not happy.
My ex was like that always picked the friends side and his friends didn’t like me that’s why we broke up and as you can see he was trying to be nice here
I think I may have missed something and I’m hoping someone can explain it but why are they in their old house during this scene? Unless it’s a flashback from Season 1...
DuchessDiz how do you think she got the business. You do understand he is entitled to half of it. She married him for who and what he was. He married her for love. You think she became who she is without him. I never heard people mentioning that couple as KC and her husband. It was JC and his wife. She is not wealthy on her own. He was making millions and had 45k people watching him and wearing his name and jersey, while being a key employee (organization) for a billion dollar business. What was she doing on the tv show she was in.... maybe an assistant???? But hey, you live in your delusional world see what her, I mean their tv show made her to be. You have absolutely no idea. Loud and wrong at the same time. But gonna guess that’s your forte. I bet you work at a filler job, doing little jobs task for an important person at work
@DuchessDiz Your delusional Jay funded her brand and she just delegates....she's not self made like Jay...his career earnings are north of 100 mil,,If she's really as rich as you say she wouldn't have asked to be the beneficiary of his life insurance,request child support,and spousal support
@DuchessDiz Your not very smart are you....Very Calivarri,Laguna Beach,The Hills,Lets Get this party started are ALL Reality TV Shows Kristin has starred in...LOL I cant believe you really said that.
His mood didn't switch till she made the digs and copped the attitude first. Unfortunately I have family members who do this exact same thing not to me personally but to other members and then they play victim like what did I say or do. 🙄 hmmm I wonder 🤔
Imagine working hard your whole life to become a football player. You make it and get physically destroyed every Sunday for 2 years, but make millions. Then a woman with no accomplishments comes into your life and starts calling your money, OUR money.
And makes him out to be a lazy bum when he's already earned multiple times more than most people will make in their lifetime... as if his duty isn't already fulfilled.
It's not just this conversation, every time husband and wife are together throughout the programme, it's uncomfortable. It seems like there is a lot of tension in their marriage, and she always tries to cover it up by laughing! so fake!
I’ve been seeing a few clips of them because their show keeps being recommended to me and I can’t believe they were married. They have no chemistry at all 😟
I always found it interesting shot got pregnant with her first kid right when he broke off the wedding with her 🤔 I think she totally trapped him and she would do that too.
I don't think Jay ever wanted to do that show, and I don't blame him. Love him and Kristin separately but they never seemed happy on this show. Again, could be a lot of things, but Kristin was pretty rude in this scene, and Jay shouldn't have been there if he didn't want to film.
Why do people talk about finances on front of others? Uncomfortable.
Kristin bitching about her tiny table was grotesque
Well they are getting divorce now so it doesn't matter they will discuss this in court anyway.
Exactly
In theory society has made talking about finances taboo. If you want to discuss finances among people you trust like her friends you should, but I believe the social setting Jay and Kristin surround themselves with is just not necessarily healthy, although this is reality tv show, so it might be for ratings but from what I observe and basing off just that in this little cutscene, there seems to turmoil that its boiling privately and they did not have a constructive discussion about money after his retirement. Which leads me to believe that Kristin does not want to be the leader in the relationship and she knows equality sucks and she thinks Jay is entitled and not working portraying him being lazy and not a man. Just a theoretical statement, dont be too harsh on me UA-cam.
That’s how rich people talk amongst themselves
Who came here after finding out they are getting divorced?
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UA-cam is sneaky like that. It was just randomly recommended. Dont even watch the show.
Sue Lee 🙋🏽♂️
Lmao they are bad couple he is not very manly she is too bossy. Bad mix
Lori Cervantes bi n no
When a husband and wife are having a disagreement and friends or family from one side chime in it makes it so much more than it really would’ve been.
That’s why they should hash out their issues in private and not in front of anyone lol
It was weird of their gay friend to start saying he wanted to sleep with Kristin's husband. Kidding or not, awkward! Then he moves to " What you out of money". To set the stage for more awkward moments! Then once he accomplished the bad tension in the air. He says oh what's going on with you guys?? As if he didn't know! Only to move on to criticize it by saying being there was like seeing his parents fight. Get the F&%^ out! I would have said and easily! That guy needs the boot! What kinda of dweeb starts unhealthy jabs like that. Maybe start off with who are your true friends are first!
You're 100% right! 👏👏👏
HER friend started it all
"friends"
Yeah the gay guy was out of line. Jay tried to laugh along but then just left. Ive had gays around my hubby and they never spoke that way.
@@msmarks1130 my future husband is too hot to be around gays
@@user-qr2tf8vl4k lol!!
As soon as she said jays retired....that was it. She basically insinuated he doesn’t bring in money anymore...so degrading and rude
Right? It’s not like he didn’t make 120 million dollars over 12 year career or anything lmao
Idk why conversations in general has to go about discussing a persons job/ career or saying whos the bread winner etc. and go about saying " he's retired " infront of everyone i can see how jays mood shifted right there i dont blame him one bit
@Clara Ayre Agreed!! It literally shows
@Clara Ayre whats even more upsetting supposedly Kristin said "hes lazy and unmotivated" I'm like wtf thats f***ed up
@@loricervantes4557 I like your standpoint. The thing I noticed is how dismissive she is with Jay's current status. Jay Cutler was NFL Quaterback for denver,chicago,and Miami. The chances of somebody becoming a professional athlete in this country is 3-6%. Some athletes dream they have the type of money jay has after retirement. This career path is a life long commitment, so this is just a guess, Jay has worked from the age of 6 to 32 years old. Making it a 26 year commitment to one sport. So when your significant other resents that your not working anymore? Anyone with a brain cell would get upset at the fact somebody would call you lazy when you train, keep out of legal and public trouble, saving, year after year. To only find out your partner thinks your a bum
On her show, she keeps pointing out that he’s retired and that she’s waiting for him to “figure things out”. He did. He played football, made a crapload of money, and he retired. He banged up his body- those body slams didn’t tickle- and if he wants to chill, let him chill. Kristin acts like she’s the only one who has money. And he does do the most of taking care of the kids while she’s off doing her jewelry business. They both have done their share of shaming the other, to be fair. Marriage is hard work. I seriously think they should have aired out their differences with a marriage counselor though.
I think you’re right Matt. I hear my sons who are in their 30’s have the same complaint.
What does she bring to the table besides being a retired reality personality 🤶🏽
I agree with you. She’s so passive aggressive is annoying. He seems like a real chill type of dude
Donna, they already been there done that. It obvious didn't work.
@soul sessions tv Bdhrh SHe was attracted to his money. Never him.
Jay's probably the richest guy in the room, by far. He wasn't gonna tolerate more of that BS.
Jay made $137 million just in the nfl. He richer than everyone in that room put together by a country mile!
He made that doing 0 lol
David Chris He made it cuz he didn't give a fuuuukkkkk!....and I dig that about him
@@codis5722 he had the worst offensive weapons around him most of his career. Marshall was the one weapon he had.
@@kingshit7362 he had forte in his prime
"She's the bread spender"
You can see the instant switch to anger in her face 🤣😂😂
Her friends are perpetuating the whole problem
Agree. Friends should just not make a comment and act chill.
No it was kristin
It seems like Kristen has put him down indirectly throughout the show because he's retired from football, No longer has the million contract. She is shaming him for not working. Yet he's the stay at home dad while she's running all over the country for her company.
Yea she embarrassed him and then plays victim.....too bad he had kids with her
Funny too bc I just read his net worth is 50 mil and hers is 3.
She resents him
Yeah right! He is sarcastic and rude to everyone, and blatantly put her down in front of her friends. All the time!!
Yeah its such a double standard. Its like so what hes taking time off working. Stay at home moms do it all the time. He worked his entire life and unlike kristin he finished a college degree. Raised kids built a home for them pays for everything...let the man rest.
if he made 120 million and they are on a budget, the issue isn't that he's retired, the issue is your spending habits
Kristin gives the vibe that she will ditch Jay. She doesn't seem like she respects him much. Just my opinion.
Always felt that.. sad but not surprised at their divorce at all.
Well this was prophetic
He was verbally abusive and narcistic I hear so that's what caused her to stop respecting him.
Well, you were spot on. According to Jay, she asked him for the divorce.
@@quietmoodmusicI don’t believe that for a second. She’s always caused drama lol she’s the common denominator
WOW She has some nerve. Jay EARNED the right to be "Retired" at an early age. If he wants to spend the next 5-10 years traveling the World or just relaxing and enjoying being home and spending time with his kids, he shouldnt be openly mocked for that. He just finished 12 years of getting the snot beat out of him by some of the biggest baddest dudes on the planet and has to worry about CTE and this is how his "Supportive" Wife who's enjoying all those fancy meals and several houses talks to him in front of guests?
Id argue the word "earned" just from watching like every Bears game but ur point is not moot
She shouldn't have complained about not "having" a bigger dining room table. So ungrateful.
@@Deep_Dish bruh try getting a starting job in the nfl... yes he def earned it stupid
@@Deep_Dish didn’t he get hit in those games ?? We all saw it … so yeah he earned it , he took the beatings . They sure beat him up .
She should be thankful for what they have. A beautiful house, family, and they're higher than upper middle class so they don't live like average ppl. Which there's nothing wrong with that but most ppl don't get to live the lifestyle that they do. So it comes off like she wants more than what she has she needs to shut up and be grateful. She sounds pretentious and ungrateful and talking about anyone's financial situation without permission is so rude especially when it's your spouse and in a room full of ppl on top of that. Apparently money can't buy common sense and manners.
Kristen you need to keep your friends to yourself jay clearly doesn't wanna mix , spend more time with jay he's the reason we all watch he keeps it real .
Suz Gue or keep the finances private. Jay is retired and I feel it makes him insecure. He doesn’t look the same
@@SADrina666 I completely agree.
Some men leave because reality tv is too much!
I mean they just divorced I won’t be watching it anymore😂
Yea Really - Her not spending time, or not wanting to spend time with him is the reason they Grew Apart!
Shout out to the guy that kept his mouth full of food cause he knew this conversation was a man code no no in front guest him and his lady kept eating 🙌🏿
Jay Cutler makes this show
luis martinez he is the most boring mono toned person on the show
Saenz A he’s the only one not faking
@@saenza1113 Someone clearly doesn't know the meaning of monotone...
luis martinez without even trying
...yeah from what i've seen since they're divorced this show is DONE!!!
And here, kids, is a prime example of why you should never belittle or catch an attitude with your SO in front of other people. You gas up your partner in front of others and handle disagreements privately.
Being a united front is such an important part of a relationship. No one likes to be humiliated let alone by the person you’re building a life with. Even when you move on, it’ll stick with the person.
I’m so uncomfortable watching this...
Don't be because it's all fake for the show. All the reality shows on tv are fake for ratings. I'm sure they are fine.
Needmore Zen lol you sure about that. They are getting divorced
That’s kinda the point.
It’s like watching them slowly divorce over film
5 mins of her and I'm done
Its her mood everyone is noticing!
Lmao she tried to lie as though there is no video of her aggressively stabbing lettuce 😂
You’re tripping he literally walked out and trashed his wife about spending money in public that’ should be a private conversation
Dexy Nash Jay started it... even though the guy brought it up ... she killed it with humor ..Jay continued the convo .... don’t get it twisted ...
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@@AB-sr3jd I love Kristen, but I think she started it when she sarcastically said "Jay's retired..." Not cool girl!
Actually love this. Not that I’d want any couple to have arguments, but there’s something so soothing about knowing that we’re not the only ones that have relationship issues and that it’s not always a honey moon phase.
We can all see Jay is chilled and wants a chill lifestyle after nfl. Now Kristen is the busy one so it isn't balanced
Htotha Hizzie well bc in general it’s good knowing other people, not just celebrities, go through the same bullshit you do. Not everyone runs around telling people what goes on behind closed doors, and with everyone trying to paint the perfect picture for social media, friends, family, etc etc... it’s good to see other PEOPLE one can relate to, not just celebrities. So it’s not that I don’t think celebrities are not people, but I appreciate the rawness that they put out there. Bc even non celebrities try to act like their lives are perfect which makes others feel like their wine in their situations.
Alone***
So soothing knowing divorce rates is sky high in america
Misery loves company huh
Wow, most people can only dream of early retirement, living on a farm and enjoying a peaceful and quiet life. Kristin seems like she misses the West Hollywood lifestyle of fame and glamour.
Her entire group of friends including his wife is toxic.
I remember when he pointed out that the money she makes is her money but his money was both of theirs and she was like yep!
You can tell jay had a couple of drinks and then making fun of him is not helping 🤦🏻♀️
Nah he was fine until she said "he's retired" like tf
Jay was joking but she made it serious. It has a valid point. She doesn’t make as much as he did. They got a bigger house. She does spend a lot. Regardless of the fact that own a business. Jay miss playing football. He stuck being surrounded by a lot of her shallow friends. Jay is just laid back. He don’t see any of his old football buddies. Just him kids, farm and Kelly lol. He going crazy. I love Jay. He so down to earth and real. No filter. Idk what Kristin would do without him. She seems clueless at times.
He’s the one that brought it up in front of everyone then left the room. I think he was more bothered.
Jay has\had football friends!? Lmao
Women do tht all the time. Then somehow convinced it's the man tht dramatizes
Why he retired so early? Why he sits at home doing nothing? He could be a manager of young football players or a trainer, or do whatever he wants, but he chooses to stay home on his farm. That's not very manly. For me J is boring, no emotions and I've always wondered what energetic woman like Kristin sees in him. I would have died from boredom with a man like him. You come back home telling your husband about all challenges you took in your busy day and his like Yeah..erm I watched tv all day
Kelsey Kel 💯
Jay’s adorable. He needs to find a gal who appreciates him.
tommy cane115
He probably already has, they’re getting divorced lol 😂
Exactly!!!!! Someone chill who doesn’t need to be in the limelight and can appreciate him.
That's going to be hard to do with all the $$$ he has. Gold diggers are going to be all over him.
He picked her. He knew exactly who she was from Laguna Beach.
And they've just announced their divorce, surprise....not! She's clearly a golddigger whereas he's down to earth, you can sense the passive aggressiveness in the video.
Let's not forget Kristin is also a multimillionaire on her own.
Jays probably has realized that she spends more than they can afford and is trying to budget more so the money will last. He realizes that the easy money is over.
Looking back, Kristin and jay didn't ever really seem happy and in love on this show.
Did they lock it down cause she got pregnant? I was thinking they were on and off until then.
looking back? i realized the first time i watched them together. i knew it wasnt gonna last as soon as i saw how they interacted with each other.
@@Renee_VHS no
That’s what I always thought and then I just assumed maybe that’s just how their relationship vibe is. Obviously there was a bigger issue 🙃
Nahh not at all. Looks like Jay stopped caring about supporting her I guess, not financially but emotionally, mentally and business wise with her goings on.
She should be embarrassed by how much she acts like a stuck up higher than thou. Jay has been very supportive of her great father and family man while she's out with the hills show respect to your husband around those friends. I don't blame him one bit. She needs knocked of that high horse. Where is his friends and why isn't she having dinner with his family and friends? She should be so lucky to have a great man like Jay
Jay's a country boy... she aint having none of that
All I can say after watching this not surprised they are now getting divorced.
I totally get it. Like you can take a joke for a while but when people KEEP coming at you with the same thing you get fed up and can’t act chill. At least he removed himself from the situation than getting upset out loud.
So true. Love your comment😍
100% agreed
I just read about this in an article and it really tried to shame Jay, but to be honest I see a guy tolerating a lot of bullshit only to get called out by his own wife when the only reason they have anything is because of his career. She definitely is the one belittling him in this scene. "oH He'S "
To be married with Kristin is to be UNEVENLY yoked. Back in Laguna beach the gal does not seem to be the type that is respectful or respectable (I am sorry have to say that!) The bible says that the headship of the husband must be respected ---- and wives and husbands need to communicate openly with each other with an open heart, again you are right for noting that she belittles him (she is EXACTLY the same way in Laguna Beach, never grown up, never changes...) Remember her cheating on Stephen Coletti ?? Now she is belittling Jay. The lack of respect --- it snowballs.....to be honest I had seen the divorce coming.
Alexandriah אלכסנדריה it just really sucks for Jay Cutler that now there’s all kinds of articles saying “he’s so abusive, he was always belittling her, he was a bad husband” in a very one sided way like she is a big victim
@@dax_megathor479 Agreed yes. I really do feel that Kristin is hard to please, just too entitled. I live in California but down south in Orange county they are very well to do (ultra wealthy). For my family we are raised to be happy with what you have, and appreciate daily blessings, and be frugal. Back to Kristin --- Rest assured her Laguna days attitude will clash with Jay and then perhaps provoke Jay to doin something stupid, venting, or even cheating on her. Who know if he had (perhaps) been seeing/coupling with Kelly Henderson (?). If he did then he is guilty of "Inappropriate marital conduct". They should try using the bible counsel on letting go of their ego, their vanity, and workout their problems in a spiritual spirit of peace and reconciliation instead of Kristin buying a BIGGER HOUSE, bcoz the attitude problems moves into the new house too.
Alexandriah אלכסנדריה you nailed it. The money and bigger houses can only take a couple so far. They were never compatible as husband and wife. You know so much more than I do about the reality tv aspect of it but I respect everything you say!
@sam m Um no......it is bad enough that there are hardly any real men now adays! You get soy boys instead! No thank you!!
Everyone was having a good time. He's kidding and she's over sensitive. The lady constantly speaks to him like he's nothing. No self respecting man is going to want to get with her after watching this play out.
It's seems that they are always far apart. Physically and mentally
Jay is clearly fun/tipsy/drunk. He’s never this vocal or fidgety.
...could you tell he was DONE dealing with her drama???!!! =)
“He’s retired” with a condescending tone. I guarantee he has more money than her and worked his butt off to get there. Meanwhile she puts her name on jewelry someone else makes and complains about how busy she is. I’m glad he got out.
M H she will take him to the cleaners..he’s gonna have to try and play somewhere again before it’s to late..or see if he get a job as an nfl Analyst.
Just proof narcisisstic piles of poo exist as both men and women and even a nfl QB can be emotionally abused/constantly belittled. Shes a demon witch.
She has about 3 million he has 50 million.
@@BennyNegroFromQueens Cutler has made $122M in NFL earnings. They are not even on the same level.
LoL He was a below average professional quarterback. Let's not get carried away.
This woman never loved this guy.
It was totally about the cash.
What upsets me is that the media are calling him "lazy and unmotivated" not cool
Haha yh some of you guys learn the hard way
Typical broad
Kristen was the one in the wrong saying in front of everyone he's not working anymore like he's a freakin deadbeat when dude has 100 mill in the bank
100 mil + XD
That guy needs to shut the hell up. Stop instigating.
Completely on Jay's side here. "his mood" was joking and friendly until Kristin brought up not having a big table at their new place. And he was still joking until she got defensive about his joke about her spending. And when things got to the brink, he removed himself from the situation/cameras like an adult. This is from someone who hated Cutler when he played.
Jay seems drunk and is demeaning Kristin by saying Kristen spends the “money” basically saying his money. It’s they’re money - they’re married. He’s worth 60M. I’m sure Kristin has her own money but nothing close to that amount. Regardless, tasteless thing to do - argue in front of guests. You could see Kristen is really embarrassed.
He was also wrong to retaliate. But she is the one that is like "he is reTiREd", in the tone to insinuate that the money is not coming in like it used to because Jay no longer plays football. It's demeaning to him.
Cutler is easily my only reason for tuning in because the fake drama of the ‘business’ is like DASH-a joke
It seemed like they edited out the entire fight lol.I love Jay. I really hope this show doesn’t destroy their family and happiness.
LOL
I'd love to see the look on her face after the divorce when the first person tells her "am I supposed to know you"? AND the classic "your credit card is declined maam!"
Lol she has her own money and I’m sure can get her own credit card. And she’s Kristin cavallari of course people will still recognize her. I didn’t know who jay cutler was until the show aired. I knew she had gotten married and had kids but that’s about it
@@laurenallen7104 you pretty alone with that tho lmao
I have no clue on how he stomached being with her for that many years. Boy did her true colors come out! They always do.
She has always been nasty ever since her teen days.
Her friends should not of done that and she should of stop them..
She's pretty annoying but he does sound drunk or something here.
...i just think he's DONE with her crap yet has 3 kids with the wench so he's stuck!!!
i agree with you, but a real man did exactly what Jay did, just walk out of the scene.
Oh, he is hammered drunk, but got insulted.
she tried to shift the blame to jay for ruining the mood when she was the one who kept bringing up money so
This just kind of makes me upset because I feel like this isn’t the kind of conversation you have infront of people .. like I would hope that my FRIENDS would be considerate of my husband and the situation... Idk and as a wife in this situation maybe I owe to my husband to NOT discuss this in front of like 6 other people? Idk this scene gives me bad vibes
Imagine being an NFL QB then being ina reality show with these people smh
I’d love it if my man was retired after making his millions. Let’s travel!!
Right she always made him out to be so lazy played pro football for like a decade and made a ton of money he doesn't have to do anything else
Exactly. He should be able to enjoy the fruits of his labour while he’s young.
Not liking jay because I was a lions fan was the worst thing I’ve done. This man is an absolute legend.
Great example of narcissistic abuse. Kristin can mock Jay and he’s suppose to be ok with it. But the minute Jay mocks Kristin she shames him and gets angry
Best part of it was jay doesn't even want to be there
Those aren't friends, those are moochers 😏
Oof. Justin seems a bit tipsy and Jay is HAMMERED. The tension between Kristin and Jay is palpable. I believe Kristin when she says their relationship was toxic. I could picture him being a really mean drunk.
Nobody really knows what goes on behind the scenes, but she seems to belittle him quite a bit in public. There's nothing wrong with retiring young especially if you've made a ton of money and your mark in the world. It seems like he was constantly looking for some validation from her.
Jay 1:16-1:28 nothing but facts
Kristin (crickets)
This is the part where I felt they wouldn’t stay together. He seems so fed up with her and while drunk he lets it out. And instead of excusing herself and talking to him they go on making their guests uncomfortable.
Julia Johansson so you were there???? He didn’t seem drunk to me. He manned up in a room full of kids asses.
But I get it to you that’s abuse and toxic masculinity.
J Neptune if I was there, no I own a television and could clearly see he wasn’t in that situation. Everyone has their opinion and I have mine and clearly so do you.
J Neptune Jacob? 😭
He's not drunk he usually is like this his diabetic meds make him lethargic
MTP TA thank you for the info, didn’t know that..very kind of you.
Apparently they went on a trip with that gay guy right before the divorce. I can see why that was the last straw.
You can tell Jay is a completely different person than he lets on. The second he starts to feel heat, he has a hard time keeping up the persona and bails. Yet, everybody's busy blaming the woman in the situation because that's literally what we always do.
Every episode he looked more and more tired and “over it.” This reality bs isn’t for him.
Jay is Gay...he was WAY to into that cuddling with the other gay dude convo. Probably the only time on this show I have seen him genuinely happy. Take that D jay!
The toxicity in the room is suffocating
Good for Jay Cutler .. he’s gonna do just fine!
Jay needs to work for Fox for the NFL. He really has a good personality
I cant stand her. I just get vibes from her
i always like lauren more and everyone hated lauren because she was boring or too nice but shes never been mean to people
mia queen - I know what you mean. I've never cared for her much but that's just me. I cringe when she talks. The way she talks sometimes sounds like she is whiny. She always mentions how he has no game but yet, she married him and had kids with him. She is very annoying. The only reason I watch the show is because Jay seems chill. I never make it through an entire episode though.
@truth hurts just because i dont like her doesnt mean im jelouse. I could be jelouse of a 100 other women but she is definatly not one of them.
@truth hurtsoh please jay earned 128 miillion in his career and he was getting tacked by 300 lb men every day and three times on sunday lol but yea shes strong.
Never liked her
yeah we out of money because Jay's retired... that's a slap in the face!
When Jay started talking Kristin's mood changed quickly like "i've seen that look in his eyes before...here we go!"
Kristin just plays doll house all day and runs her "business" while Jay sits there and bathes in the fact that she takes advantage of him and his finances
I love Kristin, but her pointy shoulders are bothering me
Yes, she really needs to eat more...she's so skinny
Korynne Lyles you guys find anything you can to put someone down. She’s gorgeous so stop being a hater.
@@avadurant823Chill out. My opinion. No hate. She's gotten my money to watch her since The Hills.
She doesnt really like to eat
She already knew that after then decided to separate..she had to end the show because Jay was the one that made the show not her and her favorite people
Jay made almost 128 million in his career. Think his wife has made half that?
It's not a competition...
Thats just from nfl salary... hes had endorsements and tv deals
Probably not but she likes to spend it like she has.
No way....
You clearly don't know what feminism is.
Jay looks like he’s calm chill but can be in bad moods outta no where. He shlda stayed calm n collective wait till people left
She's willing to live without Jay, but not his money. You could tell when he talked about her love for spending money, he wasn't exaggerating.
women wanna be the new men in the relationships , they won't back down in arguments . Men are the new ladies , we have to walk away from the situation .
I come from a very well to do family, and I've never seen a conversation like this ever. Not from fam, not from my friends, not from fam friends. If it's about money then it's only about new opportunities or how to be more efficient. If you have friends like these you need to boot them immidieitaly, they're a cancer.
Also anyone that talks about money like that doesn't have it. Anyone that has money they've earned would be either straight pissed or dissmisive all together. It's not a coincidence Jay can buy everyone at that table 15 times over, and he was the one not happy.
I come from a poor broken family & we nvr have dinner...in fact, I’ll be spending holidays alone...think of me on thanksgiving!
My ex was like that always picked the friends side and his friends didn’t like me that’s why we broke up and as you can see he was trying to be nice here
Jay said bump that , I'm out !!! Jay's gone where the air's fresher .🎯
I think I may have missed something and I’m hoping someone can explain it but why are they in their old house during this scene? Unless it’s a flashback from Season 1...
It was a “farewell to the old house” combined with her wanting to entertain this group & new house doesn’t have this large a dining room, IIRC.
Why do they fight over money when they’re RICH. 🤷♀️
Please god, let JCutler have a rock solid prenup, that gives this gold digger nothing. Hope she has to pay child support
DuchessDiz how do you think she got the business. You do understand he is entitled to half of it. She married him for who and what he was. He married her for love.
You think she became who she is without him. I never heard people mentioning that couple as KC and her husband. It was JC and his wife.
She is not wealthy on her own. He was making millions and had 45k people watching him and wearing his name and jersey, while being a key employee (organization) for a billion dollar business.
What was she doing on the tv show she was in.... maybe an assistant????
But hey, you live in your delusional world see what her, I mean their tv show made her to be.
You have absolutely no idea. Loud and wrong at the same time. But gonna guess that’s your forte. I bet you work at a filler job, doing little jobs task for an important person at work
@DuchessDiz Your delusional Jay funded her brand and she just delegates....she's not self made like Jay...his career earnings are north of 100 mil,,If she's really as rich as you say she wouldn't have asked to be the beneficiary of his life insurance,request child support,and spousal support
@@jneptune1540 These broads are loco....She's just another reality tv person without jay.
Yup, hope jake can get that check along with seeing his kids
@DuchessDiz Your not very smart are you....Very Calivarri,Laguna Beach,The Hills,Lets Get this party started are ALL Reality TV Shows Kristin has starred in...LOL I cant believe you really said that.
I LOVE Jay Cutler. 😍😍😍😍
I'm going to buy this show just to watch Jay.
His mood didn't switch till she made the digs and copped the attitude first. Unfortunately I have family members who do this exact same thing not to me personally but to other members and then they play victim like what did I say or do. 🙄 hmmm I wonder 🤔
Imagine working hard your whole life to become a football player. You make it and get physically destroyed every Sunday for 2 years, but make millions. Then a woman with no accomplishments comes into your life and starts calling your money, OUR money.
And makes him out to be a lazy bum when he's already earned multiple times more than most people will make in their lifetime... as if his duty isn't already fulfilled.
As a Vikings fan, I’m really starting to love Cutler!
Title: things get heated
Jay: 😑
Me: 😠 😡
when the wife gets mad when the husband says the truth.
It's not just this conversation, every time husband and wife are together throughout the programme, it's uncomfortable. It seems like there is a lot of tension in their marriage, and she always tries to cover it up by laughing! so fake!
E! is really pushing for any moments of beef between Jay and Kristin right now 😂
I’ve been seeing a few clips of them because their show keeps being recommended to me and I can’t believe they were married. They have no chemistry at all 😟
Thinking Jay got his brain sucked out. Couldn't imagine sitting at that table.
Jay was drunk AF 😂😂
Someone seems to be more interested in money and the lifestyle, than in the man...
I always found it interesting shot got pregnant with her first kid right when he broke off the wedding with her 🤔 I think she totally trapped him and she would do that too.
2022 watching this now.
Jay's shirt is so nice. Where'd he get it from?
I don't think Jay ever wanted to do that show, and I don't blame him. Love him and Kristin separately but they never seemed happy on this show. Again, could be a lot of things, but Kristin was pretty rude in this scene, and Jay shouldn't have been there if he didn't want to film.