I am not a fan. My husband was a fan. I gave my husband a gift for Bruce concert in Raleigh NC one year. I hated every minute. I remember a song at the concert that struck a nerve with me. I've always thought him a hypocrite even now. At time upon divorce from Ms Phillips it was "rumored" Ms Phillips she didn't want children but also he had affair. I still find him hypocritical. I couldn't tell you song but ironically my husband of 42 yrs had affair and I filed divorce. I'm same age as Ms Phillips. Springsteen is a @ss.
why did you create a title that doesn't match your content? Bruce doesn't say the affair caused his marriage to be destroyed. He just says in the book, he ended his relationship with Julianne so he could be with Patti. Their marriage was already in ruins before Bruce and Patti even started dating. Bruce and Julianne are very different.
@@brianhotrosihombing9998 nothing at all ..he had affair as did my husband...I personally can't stand Bruce but went to a concert because I lived my husband, at least back then...I hate his current wife is sick.
@@sistersuetubeThere are several famous musicians and celebrities that remained faithful to their spouses. Infidelity is 100% a choice and ones occupation or status has no bearing. If you're no longer happy or in love with the person you made that vow to, you end it FIRST. If you love them, but can't resist the temptation, you have enough respect to end the relationship FIRST. The level of pain inflicted as a result of infidelity is indescribable and cruel. So much worse than simply ending the relationship. It effects your ability to have a successful relationship moving forward, because the person you trusted most shatters your trust. Any relationship moving forward will be plagued by the fear of experiencing that kind of pain again. A lot of people end up lonely for the rest of their lives as a result. I've lived it for 16 years after 22 years of marriage... Was never able to regain my self confidence or trust men again... Which is probably the same reason his ex-wife never married again. There's NEVER an excuse for it.
If you want out of your marriage get out! Be man or woman enough to leave before starting a relationship and keep your clothes on until those divorce papers are signed - some people have the discipline to do just that - they leave and then find who they’re supposed to be with- just remember how you got them is how you will lose them- cheaters always have to watch their back - there can never be full trust
Best comment ever! My ex husband of 23 years cheated and I divorced him when I found out. Our 14 year old daughter at the time said " T here was no need for dad to cheat. Why did he just not leave"? Simply they want the best of both worlds and sneaking around. Shame on these dudes who can not control themselves!
@@annstewart8506 there are many things i have been guilty of in my life but i never want to be responsible for someone’s child crying themselves to sleep at night because mommy and daddy are getting divorced and for me to be one of the reasons
@@glw5166 It was about 3 or 4 years. I’m fairly sure he was seeing Patty Scalia (or whatever her name is) on the side cuz they worked so close together.
@@jujubee2141 Sounds like he was cheating but it also sounds like they both wanted out. Julianne must really value her privacy because she moved on completely after the divorce. This is why I probably didn't even know that they were married. No social media allowed one to move on with their life. I actually met Bruce and Patti together almost 30 years ago now. They were both very nice and Patti was very pregnant at the time.
@@angelaoehley7931 Those in the public realm open themselves up to public scrutiny - especially those who do interviews or write books about themselves. Do you feel the same way about Trump's election interference hush money payments? That it is not our business? People who are public figures (such as actor Julia Roberts) can and do successfully keep their private lives separate from their public lives.
@@yankeedoodledarling9232 It's also important to note that, while there is some circumstantial evidence that Bruce may have cheated on one or both of his spouses, Neither he, or either wife have ever said that is the case. Only Ann Kelly's husband, in his divorce filings. So, none of these "factverse" revelations are provable fact. They may be true but but they may not be.
Always felt sad for Julianne, she really loved him, and had a kind generous soul. I followed her for sometime on twitter, but that became too much for this beautiful woman. Hope she is doing well! Very private, deep individual. ❤
@@MiriamCoya That’s exactly what it was, a rumour. Bruce suffered from extreme paranoia and depression, which contributed to the end of their relationship.
@@laurielenig9939 No, he was photographed hugging Patty on a balcony which would naturally have his wife thinking he was engaging in an affair. Besides my other comment, yes, I would have to say that’s it. Btw, he admitted he had an affair in the article I’m speaking responding to.
Felt really bad for Julianne at the time. Apparently they weren’t divorced yet. An Italian photographer snapped a picture of Bruce and Patti on a balcony hugging each other. When he started his affair she found out about it through the tabloids and was as shocked as everyone else. She never did remarry. Bruce even says in his biography that he treated her poorly and wished he could go back and redo it.
I was so disgusted by this when it happened julianne deserved so much better than him and he decided he’d rather have that skank patti - i think he was insecure and intimidated by julianne’s beauty
Patti S loved all the media reports. She thought she was the best, the one he choose, but in reality she never cared that he was still married and flaunted their affair as it was a great love story. Julieanne behaved as a lady thru it all.
While living in New Orleans, I Managed a Clothing store next door to a popular restaurant. The chef told me that Bruce had reservations for dinner that night. GET ME A TABLE FOR 2, ASAP. I was a huge fan. My friend and I went there that night. Bruce, and an unknown woman were quite close to us. I could barely eat from the excitement! The chef came to my table and made small talk. I guess that's his wife, he said. OH NO IT'S NOT, I SAID. HE WAS STILL MARRIED TO JULIANNE. 😮 THE chef invited me to a little blues club, after dinner. Bruce was said to be sitting in with the Band. We went, and he did. Chef took me to the backroom at the club to introduce me to Bruce. I called Him MR. SPRINGSTEEN. I WAS thrilled! He had that little club Rocking! Word of mouth caused the club to be packed, within minutes! I found myself feeling really bad for JULIANNE. 😢 Never felt quite the same about Bruce. 😮
@@Beirut27it’s not always about money mate if he cheated he deserved it anyways and she was a supermodel and actress in her own way a successful person. Don’t be jealous that as a wife she got a good settlement. She deserves it for being by him all these years. You get what you deserve by your actions.
@@catherinetimmerman9107 You have no solid proof he cheated on Patti with Ann, just gripe from a scorned husband. Interesting how Patti and Bruce stood strong together during these rumours. Lots of noise when you’re in the public eye.👁️
This situation is kind of the reverse of the starter wife and the more beautiful, glamorous, and younger 2nd "trophy wife". Springsteen first married the trophy wife (a former model, that rock star cliche). But they came from very different worlds, and Phillips had a career in a different field and was still working. She wasn't on the tour bus every day with Springsteen. Patti Scialfa was. And Scialfa was a musician too, working with Springsteen every day. It has that element of the office affair, spending so much time together. Scialfa fits the first wife, ordinary girl stereotype. But the fact that Scialfa and Springsteen came from similar backgrounds and shared that in common as well ad their love of making music, brought them together and made them a good fit. And in the end, yes, Springsteen went back to the comfort and the feeling of staying true to his roots. He chose what he had always known, had grown up with, the hometown sweetheart. Phillips and Springsteen would never have been sweethearts in high school. Their worlds would not have collided back then.
@@lamoorelinkous9177 Any road being faithful or unfaithful is a matter of personal choice and nobody else's business. Furthermore thanks to her marriage to a celebrity Julianne Phillips's career took off and thanks to her divorce she got half ex-hubby's assets... Not a bad operation.
@@frankiemorgan8056 But that's the problem, some women don't know the meaning of the word SOLIDARITY, solidarity to other women I mean. Or maybe they do, but just don't care, and throw their principles out the window the minute a VERY TAKEN, ENGAGED OR MARRIED man gets in the picture. Patti Scialfa was one of them and was only thinking of herself, Julianne Phillips was surely the last person on her mind. Have you ever thought about the fact that if more women rejected taken, engaged or married men's advances, there would be a lot less cheating, adultery and divorces. I'm not saying Springsteen was not a snake in the grass, he was, but it takes two to tango.
Nice that he have manage to keep their relationship going but I remember thinking that she was trying to get something going with him right after joining the band. People may or may Not be able to help how they feel but it's how you handle those feelings and how it affects others. Bruce but especially Patti showed no respect to Julianne, if you pay attention to the look on Pettis' face whenever Julianne step on stage you could see the resentment.
considering you have no idea how Patti conducted herself , I dont see how you can blame her more that the man who took vows, but either way the 1st wife wasn't the right person for him and him and patti have went on to have a beautiful realstionship 3 children and now a granchild
When I heard the news that Bruce and Julianne had wed I told my husband “He married the wrong redhead.” I just had a sense that Patti was more suited to him than Julianne was.
...it doesn't matter...you don't leave your spouse for another woman..it doesn't make it ok that's why there are marriage vows..unless their is DV...his first wife was probably traumatized and humiliated...never to marry again.
Julianne is a beautiful lady and I actually so sad for her when that happened, I feel her pain. And I stop listening to him and actually don't care much!
4:39: "One of the significant factors contributing to their divorce was Bruce's growing relationship w/ Patti Scialfa..." SIGH. I was hoping to find out the divorce wasn't from something typical. Men.
In this particular case Bruce and Patti were meant to live together and have children, not to mention a career together so the grass was definitely greener there.
@@lamoorelinkous9177 Slow down on the exclamation and question marks, take a deep breath, google Bruce Springsteen and lo and behold you'll find that he had three children with Patti Scialfa. It's called the miracles of the Internet...
This is a sugar coated version of what happened with Julianne Phillips. He bragged about it and showboated it publicly while Julianne was forced by a gag order in the divorce decree to keep silent! Karma is a bad man to have a woman’s name. He and Patti destroyed that young woman!! 8:32
@@almaburns6562 See the above comment from the woman who posted she saw Bruce before he divorced his wife. Said how they were all over each other on stage in front of thousands , that it was blatantly obvious something was going on. If that's not bragging and showboating it publicly, don't know what is...
@@lamoorelinkous9177 that was the Tunnel of Love tour. Bruce and Julianne had separated although it wasn’t made public for a few months after the start of the tour
When you play music you give yourself emotionally to your audience and bandmates as well. E Street band was as emotionally invested as it gets. That's why they were and are as tight as can be. Unfortunately it doesn't let you be emotionally available to others that might need you. It could have been that euphoria Bruce and Patty felt in the beginning when that emotional musical connection happened, but I'm glad they lasted.
@@FactsVerse You concur that Bruce is immature and "has to have someone with him at all times" just because he has been married to Patti for more than 30 years? I've never heard long marriages criticized as indicating immaturity before. Ridiculous channel
What makes you think that Patti didn't already realize this. But still got married to Bruce. I mean why not? Luxury retirement plan for a working female musician, who wasn't a famous singer making millions but a session singer/guitarist. Patti could choose to leave. OR she could be cool about his affairs and keep her wealthy wife lifestyle and VIP status (getting invites to dinner parties with music legends and famous people, presidents etc.)
I thought Julieann was not ready to have a baby.Bruce married Patty when she was pregnant.Bruce does not care what he is wearing as well as Patty.Being married to a model just did not fit.
I remember seeing Springsteen in concert before he had left Julianne and thinking how he had something going on with Patti. They hung on each other on stage, practically making out in front of thousands. It was so obvious and I thought at the time how horrible it was to flout what was obviously going on. Also, Patti was pretty lousy as a singer.
@@jodyartur2617 I have to agree. Listened to some of her music with an open mind, but I wasn’t impressed, period. Back up singing, yes, but would have never made it as a solo artist.
Whether he cheated or not, his marriage to Julianne was not meant to last. Two different careers that are in the spotlight all the time. Patti was and is the better choice, they have beautiful kids and a grandchild. Next !
As a married women no one knows what happens behind close doors so we all keep our comments to our selfs and everyone live life to your best and if a man or women have affairs then there is defiantly something wrong , some marriages can be repaired bitbsome can't. Life to short find the love with whom ever and be happy if you can't fix it . Give each other respect someone will alway get hurt more but could be pride that stops you from trying who knows. They both have great careers and can find happens with someone else . God bless them both they had good times to look back on
I cant believe you folks that are saying you stopped listening to his music after his affair became public! Its really no ones business. He isnt a marriage counselor, hes a musician and his personal life is no ones business. Yall need to get a life.
Rock stars and Princes have left classically beautiful women for average looking women. If you are average looking don’t think you don’t have a chance but don’t go after married men.
@@maryanneevans9563 i think a contributing factor is the deep insecurities a lot of men have for beautiful women- they feel better with an average woman who will not be looked at constantly by other men- this is true of both sexes btw - some people can handle being with an attractive person- a few can handle being with someone both attractive and intelligent but very few people can handle the triple threat of being attractive, intelligent and confident- it takes a strong individual with a strong sense of self to not resent another person’s beauty and confidence- all this to say- work on yourselves and build your self worth- nothing is more threatening than confidence and a healthy sense of self
(First), Bruce and Patti have known each other since Patti was 17 years old. Bruce suggested that Patti finish school and join the band. They met again in 1980 and at that time began to become friends. Then joined the band in 1984 long before Bruce knew Julianne. (second), Bruce and Julianne's marriage was in ruins and Bruce wrote the song Tunnel of Love about his unhappiness with Julianne. Patti had nothing to do with it as she planned to leave the band and focus on her solo career. (third) Bruce and Julianne were often separated, in the book Born to Run it is explained, when his wife was filming, Bruce went to a bar and she said that he was not a married man. They grew apart (fourth) in Bruce's book Born To Run, when he was with Patti in September 1987, that's when he felt something in his heart. After the tour started, this is where Bruce began to fall in love with Patti, saying "Patti might be his new heart". (fifth) At first Bruce just felt like he and Patti were "just the thing". Until he realized that Bruce and Patti were serious, he then honestly told Julianne that he wanted to end the relationship so that he could be with Patti. So bruce ended his old relationship to start a new realtionship with patti. (sixth/most important) photo of Bruce and Patti while in Rome, it all happened after his separation from Julianne. So it's not cheating because Bruce and Patti are starting a serious relationship here. Bruce only admitted that he decided not to tell the public about his breakup with Julianne because it was his personal relationship. He regrets that he didn't tell the public beforehand, which caused people to think the photos were scandalous. If only Bruce had told the public about their separation, people wouldn't have thought negatively.
@@FactsVerse you better change the title of your video. Bruce Springsteen never said the "Affair" caused the Destroyed of his marriage. He already explains in the book, they have nothing in common. "Julianne is a beautiful girl who is making her acting debut, while I may look mature but emotionally I am still immature." It was their differences that caused their marriage to be destroyed, not an affair.
No one knows what goes on behind closed doors. Both Bruce and his 1st wife came from totally different backgrounds, wake up sunshine marriage is an archaic way for divorce attorneys to make money. Shack up have separate accounts, whatever you purchase purchase separately. Both put in fair share for living expenses. When one wants out the other may get hurt or be relieved. All these nasty comments about Patti, give me a break. She is a gorgeous redhead, they were both young, hot and horny. If you can't relate * know who you will vote for. I am 80 years old. Lived a fantastic life until 29. Got married, didn't even like him in hindsight. Stayed married in a mess for 30 years. Today is my 20th anniversary of the day I walked out. 59 years old, meeting an old flame no idea what would happen except I couldn 't take 1 more day. 20 years later absolutely single still as far as humans, rescue dogs and cats. Peace of mind there is nothing like it. Why did I stay? ABUSE is a powerful thing. I would rather have died than spend 1 more day with him. My hospital number is 12 what is yours before you open your mouth.
Julianne was so pretty anf pleasant. Why divorce her for Patty. Digusting! What a bad choice. In the end Patty did good. She still looks good. Bruce looks like he's 90.
The minute I saw that she joined this band. I knew that this was going to happen. She’s a musician. They’re on the road together. They have a lot in common. I knew this is gonna happen. I feel so bad for Juliane. I remember when this whole thing came to light. It’s sad I think men like him shouldn’t get married. They should just stay single and that way they don’t have to break everybody’s heart.
Not only did Patti share his muso lifestyle, and spend time with him every day, sharing conversations on long tour bus ride etc., but they also had their backgrounds in common. Patti would have been what he knew, from his world, and that's probably going to be deeply comforting when you're traveling around the world, new country every few months, in the days before email, before Facetime calls. They say that men often marry women who are similar to their mothers - that would have to be Patti, in this case, not Julianne (the short-lived marriage).
Why doesn't your title match the content of your video? Springsteen and Julianne split in mid-1988. In his book, Bruce says that he left Julianne to be with Patti. It's not like you said the Affair That Destroyed His Marriage. Their relationship was already broken before Bruce and Patti together. Patti even planned to leave the band during the Tunnel of Love Tour in 1988. Patti had also known Bruce since when She was a teenager.
Bruce first chose the aspirational wife, the uptown, glamorous wife (Julianne) who was part of the new lifestyle of the rich and famous. But it wasn't what he grew up with and what he felt deeply connected to and felt "at home" with. Patti was much more in line with that, sharing a lot in common with Bruce, from their shared lifelong devotion to music, as musicians (whereas Julianne was a model turned actress), their touring, late night musician lifestyle, and their similar backgrounds. He must have felt a much stronger connection and bond with Patti. In another world where neither became famous, they met in high school, joined a band together and performed in local bars, got married and lived in a small house in their hometown.
When Bruce was invited to play with Roy Orbison for Black & White Night, he was above coming to rehearsals along with the rest of the extraordinary musicians. My father played piano for it. James Burton, one of worlds finest guitar players was there also. Bruce would waltz in wherever and act like the star of the show. He was friendly enough, he just didn't think he needed to do what the rest were. The musicians talked about it daily. James really carried all the amazing guitar features. Bruce has a cheater soul. He cheated the musicians he was invited to play with. He wasn't #1 in that gig, so he made himself #1 in his mind for that show.
2 types of cheaters: a serial cheater who will never change. The other is a good person in a bad/ unhappy relationship. I’m not condoning it but it happens
Too bad young people aren’t taught about relationships. We are all immature and make mistakes and have regrets. I wish I could have had amicable breakups. Our society breeds this stuff.
Regarding Julienne, she didn’t seem cut out for Bruce’s musician lifestyle. She would have been happier with someone else out of the spotlight. It’s too bad they didn’t consider this before marrying or even getting serious.
I have lost all respect for this man. He once stated in 1985 that he wanted his supporters to think for themselves, do their own research, and decide for themselves on who they were going to vote for in the Presidential election. He stated " I don't want to influence anyone." Now he is a liberal and keeps pushing their agenda. So much for letting people think for themselves. He has lost a fan.
he didn't destroy it. They did have their differences and bruce had written the song tunnel of love about his unhappiness during his marriage. Until he tried to find a new partner while he was still Julianne's wife as they grew apart, Julianne is acting and Bruce is at the bar. In the book he has told it. Until he started to get serious with Patti and ended his relationship with Julianne.
@@AnnaDoyle-in3ge Can you read and analyze books well? Bruce's sentence is "It was a september night. We Hung out, sat in my little bar, talked and preety soon, I could feel something was On". That means, he just felt something and they are not dating yet. your language saying "affair" is very rude. Until Bruce said that after 17 years of bumping into each other, two working side by side (this refers to during the tunnel of love tour) this is where he realized that he and Patti were serious. Bruce also said "The Surreptitiousness didn't last long" meaning they were already together during the Tunnel of Love tour and no one knew and Bruce kept the secret for only a short time and according to my guess, Julianne wasn't there. That's why Bruce started trying to be with Patti and when he got serious he told Julianne everything and wanted to separate. Springsteen kept the secret perhaps while he was on tour. Tried to tell Julianne after the concert and maybe meet her in person. Springsteen was seen taking off his wedding ring during a concert in New York.
@@brianhotrosihombing9998 I know exactly what Bruce said in the book, you seem to have trouble with comprehension “so it started” means just that and it was September 87. Bruce was seen without his wedding ring after he told Julianne about the affair and they separated. 2 years working together would be 1984-1986 so again your timeline is wrong. Give it up 🙄
I think its hard for everybody to have long term successful marriages. Both have to work at it and try to get through the tough times because good and bad nothing lasts forever.
Bruce humiliated his wife, who loved him, on the world stage. Terribly selfish & cruel; I think he's disgusting. That is not the way a real man behaves. If he had feelings coming on for an outsider he should have removed the woman from the situation, or let Julianne get out of the marriage on her own terms, before creating a new relationship. They showed no more self control than a couple of dogs.
I have been a long time fan of Patti and her music. She has a singular voice and her lyrics capture the feminine perspective on life events. Her first album Rumble Doll blew me away. Yes...there are lyrics in one of her songs that indicate resentment towards Julianne but also that she struggled to do what was right...till she didnt. She seems a nice person in interviews...truly not someone who would set out to hurt someone else. People are quicker to blame the woman...not sure why. I will say this...they did not give Julianne a lot of dignity at the time.
Very true, you need to be two to tango... And Julianne Phillips ended up with ex-hubby's assets, his fortune being very likely what attracted her, especially as she wanted to have an acting career and that marrying Springsteen put her on the map.
The road to nowhere is paved with good intentions. In the end, it's what you do that matters. And Scialfa broke up that marriage. I wonder how their kids deal with the fact that their parents are cheaters.
@@yankeedoodledarling9232 😂🤣 No outsider can break a happy and harmonious marriage, if hubby or wifey dumped you it was because he/she could no longer bear the sight of you 😈 and the Springsteen's children are well-balanced adults who are too intelligent to judge their parents' choices... Parents who have been made grandparents by their youngest child, Samuel, a firefighter 🥰 .
I remember this....i think Julianne really loved him. And, being a good Catholic, she never married again. I remember comments the other band members said at the time....they werent happy about the affair as it took place in front of them....
I wondered if her religion kept her from marrying again. I also wondered if she could have gotten an annulment under the circumstances. If Frank Sinatra was able to get an annulment of his first marriage after 3 kids and at least two marriages after that, before he then got an annulment and married Barbara, it seems Julianne should have been able to.
@@FactsVerse Sure. Firstly, I have never felt any connection with his music. It doesn’t do anything for me. Secondly, his Leftist partisan politics offend me.
Such a disrespectful man! Soulful songs? I am just not into screaming or having a raspy voice. Never liked Springsteen. Not surprised he was a cheater. He is also weak and full of hot air.
There is no denying Julianne and Bruce were married when he and Patti became close. That was merely a piece of paper. Bruce was already drawing away, hurting Julianne. The pain. The confusion. It seems Miss Phillips has amazing friends. There has not one tell-all interview from her friends and family. As to not talking bad about one another. That is the least Bruce could do after the hurt and pain he brought. As to he and Patti, that was not happily ever after. Bruce remained afraid of true intimacy. It is something he had to work through. Why Patti and not Julianne? It is on the Tunnel of Love album. He need not confirm how autobiographical some of those songs are, especially the second side.
Anyone ever notice how Bruce started dressing differently, bolo ties, suit coats, etc? Maybe he realized too late that he wasn't being true to himself. Whatever he did, they did, is between them & God. I wish Bruce was a Conservative.
His current wife Patty was very jealous when Bruce married. She set about destroying their marriage and she succeeded. I’ve always believed she called the photographer who snapped the pic of Bruce and her in their underwear on that balcony during their affair.
@@brianhotrosihombing9998 - My comment was based on facts. And yes, it was an affair. You don’t know what you are talking about. Read through this thread. Everyone seems to know the facts but you.
@@FP65 based of fact? You're saying that because you're a hater. Before Patti and Bruce, Bruce and Julianne's marriage was already in ruins. That's why Bruce wrote the songs on the Tunnel of Love album. You don't know anything about Bruce and Julianne's wedding. Bruce has known Patti since she was a teenager. Patti had nothing to do with the breakdown of Bruce and Julianne's household.
@@brianhotrosihombing9998 - Yeh, that must be why Brucie finally publicly gave a quasi mia culpa for the way he treated his first wife back then. He’s a cheater. And he also was caught cheating on Patti many years after their marriage. Guess you still haven’t read the thread. Having an opinion contrary to yours doesn’t make a person a hater. Bet you throw that little chestnut around a lot. LOL.
@FP65 your comment is not based on fact. You're just a hater. Springsteen never cheated on Patti. Springsteen never cheated on his first wife, he only ended his relationship for patti. Just go away
Yes, I think it’s hard. What with all the groupies, and other people that want to be with them, because of WHO they are. It’s just human nature. For most people it’s hard to fight the temptation. No matter how good your intentions are.
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I am not a fan. My husband was a fan. I gave my husband a gift for Bruce concert in Raleigh NC one year. I hated every minute. I remember a song at the concert that struck a nerve with me. I've always thought him a hypocrite even now. At time upon divorce from Ms Phillips it was "rumored" Ms Phillips she didn't want children but also he had affair. I still find him hypocritical. I couldn't tell you song but ironically my husband of 42 yrs had affair and I filed divorce. I'm same age as Ms Phillips. Springsteen is a @ss.
@@marlenekoon1763 So, what does Springsteen have to do with your divorce?
why did you create a title that doesn't match your content? Bruce doesn't say the affair caused his marriage to be destroyed. He just says in the book, he ended his relationship with Julianne so he could be with Patti. Their marriage was already in ruins before Bruce and Patti even started dating. Bruce and Julianne are very different.
@@marlenekoon1763you sound like you’d be miserable wherever you were or whoever you were with 🙄
@@brianhotrosihombing9998 nothing at all ..he had affair as did my husband...I personally can't stand Bruce but went to a concert because I lived my husband, at least back then...I hate his current wife is sick.
How about he just was a selfish cheater. Poor Bruce. Get real.
He shows the measure of his character and also what he said about people who did not get the jab, was disgusting. Can't stand him..
a cheater is a cheater is a cheater "we had a connection we couldnt resist" what a crock of shit
How about she wanted a 9 to 5 man home for supper etc and she married a famous musician. It was doomed
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@@sistersuetubeThere are several famous musicians and celebrities that remained faithful to their spouses. Infidelity is 100% a choice and ones occupation or status has no bearing. If you're no longer happy or in love with the person you made that vow to, you end it FIRST. If you love them, but can't resist the temptation, you have enough respect to end the relationship FIRST. The level of pain inflicted as a result of infidelity is indescribable and cruel. So much worse than simply ending the relationship. It effects your ability to have a successful relationship moving forward, because the person you trusted most shatters your trust. Any relationship moving forward will be plagued by the fear of experiencing that kind of pain again. A lot of people end up lonely for the rest of their lives as a result. I've lived it for 16 years after 22 years of marriage... Was never able to regain my self confidence or trust men again... Which is probably the same reason his ex-wife never married again. There's NEVER an excuse for it.
If you want out of your marriage get out! Be man or woman enough to leave before starting a relationship and keep your clothes on until those divorce papers are signed - some people have the discipline to do just that - they leave and then find who they’re supposed to be with- just remember how you got them is how you will lose them- cheaters always have to watch their back - there can never be full trust
Thanks for sharing! What other types of video would you like to see?
Totally agree.
Best comment ever! My ex husband of 23 years cheated and I divorced him when I found out. Our 14 year old daughter at the time said " T here was no need for dad to cheat. Why did he just not leave"? Simply they want the best of both worlds and sneaking around. Shame on these dudes who can not control themselves!
@@annstewart8506 there are many things i have been guilty of in my life but i never want to be responsible for someone’s child crying themselves to sleep at night because mommy and daddy are getting divorced and for me to be one of the reasons
He was the trouble in his marriages
I loved Julianne in "Sisters." She is beautiful and classy ❤❤❤
@@FrenchQuarterBelle Me too. I loved that show
Great show and Julianne was great in that. I actually didn't realize that she was married to Bruce. I only knew about Patti.
@@glw5166 It was about 3 or 4 years. I’m fairly sure he was seeing Patty Scalia (or whatever her name is) on the side cuz they worked so close together.
@@jujubee2141 Sounds like he was cheating but it also sounds like they both wanted out. Julianne must really value her privacy because she moved on completely after the divorce. This is why I probably didn't even know that they were married. No social media allowed one to move on with their life. I actually met Bruce and Patti together almost 30 years ago now. They were both very nice and Patti was very pregnant at the time.
Yeah, too classy for him.🤔
He cheated on Julianne with Patti. He cheated on Patti with Ann Kelly. Julianne is the only innocent, dignified part of this mess.
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None of our business.
@@angelaoehley7931 Those in the public realm open themselves up to public scrutiny - especially those who do interviews or write books about themselves. Do you feel the same way about Trump's election interference hush money payments? That it is not our business? People who are public figures (such as actor Julia Roberts) can and do successfully keep their private lives separate from their public lives.
@@yankeedoodledarling9232 FO for bringing political bs into this. Seek m3ntal help.
@@yankeedoodledarling9232 It's also important to note that, while there is some circumstantial evidence that Bruce may have cheated on one or both of his spouses, Neither he, or either wife have ever said that is the case. Only Ann Kelly's husband, in his divorce filings. So, none of these "factverse" revelations are provable fact. They may be true but but they may not be.
Always felt sad for Julianne, she really loved him, and had a kind generous soul. I followed her for sometime on twitter, but that became too much for this beautiful woman. Hope she is doing well! Very private, deep individual. ❤
The rumor back then for the divorce was that she didn't want children. smh
@@MiriamCoya That’s exactly what it was, a rumour. Bruce suffered from extreme paranoia and depression, which contributed to the end of their relationship.
@Miriam...that's it!?!?
@@laurielenig9939 No, he was photographed hugging Patty on a balcony which would naturally have his wife thinking he was engaging in an affair. Besides my other comment, yes, I would have to say that’s it. Btw, he admitted he had an affair in the article I’m speaking responding to.
I think she dodged a bullet. Don't you just love how celebs like him are given a pass for being a cheater. Once a cheater...and once a trollop...
Felt really bad for Julianne at the time. Apparently they weren’t divorced yet. An Italian photographer snapped a picture of Bruce and Patti on a balcony hugging each other. When he started his affair she found out about it through the tabloids and was as shocked as everyone else. She never did remarry. Bruce even says in his biography that he treated her poorly and wished he could go back and redo it.
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Not condoning the affair with Patti, but Bruce and Julianne were mismatched from the beginning.
I was so disgusted by this when it happened julianne deserved so much better than him and he decided he’d rather have that skank patti - i think he was insecure and intimidated by julianne’s beauty
She did alright he Wayne Gretsky
@@31Alden Exactly! They were like Beauty and the Beast.
Disloyalty, Lack of integrity is deplorable!
Those who go after married people, are Guilty too!
💯 agree!
Agree!
I find it’s the “married people” who usually go after us singles and present themselves as unmarried.
Sometimes these guys *LIE* and say they are *NOT* married.
@@weirdthingstoeat7198 Patti was at Bruce and Julianne’s wedding 🤣
Once a cheater…..always a cheater. Both Bruce and Patti.
Can't stand patti
Same here, no class@@darkeststar3640
@@darkeststar3640are they still married now ?
@@dgcmusi yes
You don't know anyone who has married twice? Bruce and Patti have been married for 30+ years, no cheating
If he cheated with you , he will do it again this time to you
@@aprilrodriguez1280 I always say, “Once a cheater, always a cheater”. And I believe that.
@@aprilrodriguez1280 and he did. Met a woman at the gym and had an affair with her. The woman’s husband claimed that when they were getting divorced.
Yup. It's widely known that he's cheated on Patty many times. What goes around comes around.
@@SpecialKel66 What a jerk. So many men do that. I don’t think women do it as much but what do I know?
@@flobrez2470 It’s simply a rumour, brought forward by a scorned man. There is no substantial proof this ever happened.
Let me get this straight…a super famous musician cheated on his wife?? I’ve never heard of anything like this.
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@jill 😂😂😂
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@@jillpennington1499 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😅😅😅😅😅
So sad for Julianne,she was so beautiful. That happend in the 80s. I think it's a difficult life to marry a musician who goes everywhere.
I'm sure it is hard especially when he had a red-headed dog in heat salivating next to him at all times....
She ended up with half his assets and he ended up with his soulmate.
@@SueCarroll-nc7mv Don't project your own story on theirs.
It’s too bad he and Julienne married. They should have considered his lifestyle and whether it would work for her.
@@kosmosbjm He wanted a middle-class, trophy wife, she wanted his money. I think they more or less got what they wanted.
Patti S loved all the media reports. She thought she was the best, the one he choose, but in reality she never cared that he was still married and flaunted their affair as it was a great love story.
Julieanne behaved as a lady thru it all.
While living in New Orleans, I Managed a Clothing store next door to a popular restaurant.
The chef told me that Bruce had reservations for dinner that night.
GET ME A TABLE FOR 2, ASAP. I was a huge fan.
My friend and I went there that night. Bruce, and an unknown woman were quite close to us.
I could barely eat from the excitement!
The chef came to my table and made small talk.
I guess that's his wife, he said.
OH NO IT'S NOT, I SAID.
HE WAS STILL MARRIED TO JULIANNE. 😮
THE chef invited me to a little blues club, after dinner.
Bruce was said to be sitting in with the Band.
We went, and he did. Chef took me to the backroom at the club to introduce me to Bruce.
I called Him MR. SPRINGSTEEN. I WAS thrilled!
He had that little club Rocking! Word of mouth caused the club to be packed, within minutes!
I found myself feeling really bad for JULIANNE. 😢
Never felt quite the same about Bruce. 😮
OR PATTIE S!
The "lady" left with half his assets... She could afford to be dignified 😛 .
@@mariaelenar9764 You share a brain with Patti Scialfa, do you?
@@Beirut27it’s not always about money mate if he cheated he deserved it anyways and she was a supermodel and actress in her own way a successful person. Don’t be jealous that as a wife she got a good settlement. She deserves it for being by him all these years. You get what you deserve by your actions.
Bruce cheated on Julianne with Patti and he cheated in Patti with Anne. What a class act…🤦🏼♀️
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@@FactsVerse If you’re getting your facts from Fox News, I would question everything.
@@catherinetimmerman9107 You have no solid proof he cheated on Patti with Ann, just gripe from a scorned husband. Interesting how Patti and Bruce stood strong together during these rumours. Lots of noise when you’re in the public eye.👁️
Yeah he did
@@Denise-lw4jz Kinda like Bill and Hillary! 🤣
She was way too good for him. Let's be honest.
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AGREE!!
No doubt ❤️!
Fully Agree....
He downgraded big time, but he picked someone like himself, ultimately-how it works.
This situation is kind of the reverse of the starter wife and the more beautiful, glamorous, and younger 2nd "trophy wife". Springsteen first married the trophy wife (a former model, that rock star cliche).
But they came from very different worlds, and Phillips had a career in a different field and was still working. She wasn't on the tour bus every day with Springsteen. Patti Scialfa was. And Scialfa was a musician too, working with Springsteen every day. It has that element of the office affair, spending so much time together.
Scialfa fits the first wife, ordinary girl stereotype. But the fact that Scialfa and Springsteen came from similar backgrounds and shared that in common as well ad their love of making music, brought them together and made them a good fit. And in the end, yes, Springsteen went back to the comfort and the feeling of staying true to his roots. He chose what he had always known, had grown up with, the hometown sweetheart. Phillips and Springsteen would never have been sweethearts in high school. Their worlds would not have collided back then.
Shame on you
True that.
I could never respect Patti, as she pursued a married man. I always felt very sad for Julieanne Phillips.
How do you know who "persued" whom, where you there :P ?
@@Beirut27 doesn't matter who pursued who, they both made the choice to engage in a relationship where one was married...
He knew he was married! Don't blame the woman only.
@@lamoorelinkous9177 Any road being faithful or unfaithful is a matter of personal choice and nobody else's business. Furthermore thanks to her marriage to a celebrity Julianne Phillips's career took off and thanks to her divorce she got half ex-hubby's assets... Not a bad operation.
@@frankiemorgan8056 But that's the problem, some women don't know the meaning of the word SOLIDARITY, solidarity to other women I mean. Or maybe they do, but just don't care, and throw their principles out the window the minute a VERY TAKEN, ENGAGED OR MARRIED man gets in the picture. Patti Scialfa was one of them and was only thinking of herself, Julianne Phillips was surely the last person on her mind. Have you ever thought about the fact that if more women rejected taken, engaged or married men's advances, there would be a lot less cheating, adultery and divorces. I'm not saying Springsteen was not a snake in the grass, he was, but it takes two to tango.
You can’t be missing from your marriage…
Nice that he have manage to keep their relationship going but I remember thinking that she was trying to get something going with him right after joining the band. People may or may Not be able to help how they feel but it's how you handle those feelings and how it affects others. Bruce but especially Patti showed no respect to Julianne, if you pay attention to the look on Pettis' face whenever Julianne step on stage you could see the resentment.
considering you have no idea how Patti conducted herself , I dont see how you can blame her more that the man who took vows, but either way the 1st wife wasn't the right person for him and him and patti have went on to have a beautiful realstionship 3 children and now a granchild
When I heard the news that Bruce and Julianne had wed I told my husband “He married the wrong redhead.” I just had a sense that Patti was more suited to him than Julianne was.
She resented her lover's wife stepping on stage ? Quite normal and healthy.
...it doesn't matter...you don't leave your spouse for another woman..it doesn't make it ok that's why there are marriage vows..unless their is DV...his first wife was probably traumatized and humiliated...never to marry again.
@@enjoyboogie7786 "You" are free to do as "you" want unless it's illegal, in which case "you" shouldn't do it. Full stop.
Julianne is a beautiful lady and I actually so sad for her when that happened, I feel her pain. And I stop listening to him and actually don't care much!
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4:39: "One of the significant factors contributing to their divorce was Bruce's growing relationship w/ Patti Scialfa..." SIGH. I was hoping to find out the divorce wasn't from something typical. Men.
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Patti got a nose job and threw herself at him after he’d been ignoring her for years.
They always think the grass is greener on the other side
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Whose they?
In this particular case Bruce and Patti were meant to live together and have children, not to mention a career together so the grass was definitely greener there.
@@Beirut27 didn't think they ever had kids together?!?!?
@@lamoorelinkous9177 Slow down on the exclamation and question marks, take a deep breath, google Bruce Springsteen and lo and behold you'll find that he had three children with Patti Scialfa. It's called the miracles of the Internet...
Julianne was way out of his league .
This is a sugar coated version of what happened with Julianne Phillips. He bragged about it and showboated it publicly while Julianne was forced by a gag order in the divorce decree to keep silent! Karma is a bad man to have a woman’s name. He and Patti destroyed that young woman!! 8:32
Where can I read more about this? How did he brag about it & showboat it publicly?
Gag order in return for half his assets, good bargain from her point of view.
@@almaburns6562 See the above comment from the woman who posted she saw Bruce before he divorced his wife. Said how they were all over each other on stage in front of thousands , that it was blatantly obvious something was going on. If that's not bragging and showboating it publicly, don't know what is...
@@lamoorelinkous9177 that was the Tunnel of Love tour. Bruce and Julianne had separated although it wasn’t made public for a few months after the start of the tour
Haven’t listened to his guys music since he cheated on his wife.
Have you told your shrink about it :P ?
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@rosemariekury9186 That sounds rather shallow 🤔
When you play music you give yourself emotionally to your audience and bandmates as well. E Street band was as emotionally invested as it gets. That's why they were and are as tight as can be. Unfortunately it doesn't let you be emotionally available to others that might need you. It could have been that euphoria Bruce and Patty felt in the beginning when that emotional musical connection happened, but I'm glad they lasted.
he is immature and has to have someone with him at all times. VEry selfish.
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@@FactsVerse You concur that Bruce is immature and "has to have someone with him at all times" just because he has been married to Patti for more than 30 years? I've never heard long marriages criticized as indicating immaturity before. Ridiculous channel
Julianne was hot and he gave it up for that redhead. I'll never understand it.
He hasn't made a great record since The River
You must've never listened to Nebraska.
I agree Julianne was hot , Patti is not even mid
Troubled first marriage?
He cheated.
Cemented his happiness on someone else's pain.
Patty is no better a home wrecker
Once a cheater, always a cheater!! Listen up ladies, if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you eventually!!!
💯 facts!
Once a serial cheater always a cheater. Seriously what did Patti S think he would not cheat on her? After he cheated on Julianne with Patti.
What makes you think that Patti didn't already realize this. But still got married to Bruce. I mean why not? Luxury retirement plan for a working female musician, who wasn't a famous singer making millions but a session singer/guitarist.
Patti could choose to leave. OR she could be cool about his affairs and keep her wealthy wife lifestyle and VIP status (getting invites to dinner parties with music legends and famous people, presidents etc.)
Lord i get sick of men only ''falling in love'' after they ruin their first marriages. gross, no respect.
Yuck can’t stand him.
Same here. Too dumb and self absorbed. Talk about a very dishonest man.
Thank you! I thought I was the only one in the US that couldn’t stand him
I thought Julieann was not ready to have a baby.Bruce married Patty when she was pregnant.Bruce does not care what he is wearing as well as Patty.Being married to a model just did not fit.
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I remember seeing Springsteen in concert before he had left Julianne and thinking how he had something going on with Patti. They hung on each other on stage, practically making out in front of thousands. It was so obvious and I thought at the time how horrible it was to flout what was obviously going on. Also, Patti was pretty lousy as a singer.
@@jodyartur2617 I have to agree. Listened to some of her music with an open mind, but I wasn’t impressed, period. Back up singing, yes, but would have never made it as a solo artist.
Whether he cheated or not, his marriage to Julianne was not meant to last. Two different careers that are in the spotlight all the time. Patti was and is the better choice, they have beautiful kids and a grandchild. Next !
Keep believing that crap. I guess not because he cheated in her too. He's moved on to his next thrill. It's called narcissistic greed.
@@d.h.dd.h.d.5230AGREED!!
@@d.h.dd.h.d.5230Did Brucel eave Patti scialfa ?? When ?
Our Lady of the lake Catholic church, a pretty church in a gorgeous city. Loved living there.
Brilliant Disguise was about their relationship- such a poignant and well written song!
If two individuals are mature, have morals, and are committed to being with one another, then there should not be a problem.
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As a married women no one knows what happens behind close doors so we all keep our comments to our selfs and everyone live life to your best and if a man or women have affairs then there is defiantly something wrong , some marriages can be repaired bitbsome can't. Life to short find the love with whom ever and be happy if you can't fix it . Give each other respect someone will alway get hurt more but could be pride that stops you from trying who knows. They both have great careers and can find happens with someone else . God bless them both they had good times to look back on
the title is video is not match for the content.
I cant believe you folks that are saying you stopped listening to his music after his affair became public! Its really no ones business. He isnt a marriage counselor, hes a musician and his personal life is no ones business. Yall need to get a life.
He is a liar and cheat
Why can't you choose to base your music choices on ethics? He's scum and the music isn't great outside the sax part
People vote their conscience. And that's what these folks did. How dare you question that.
Ugh, he’s awful …
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Well
Here's proof that a homely woman can break up a marriage.
No shite, truth!
Rock stars and Princes have left classically beautiful women for average looking women. If you are average looking don’t think you don’t have a chance but don’t go after married men.
No woman can break up a marriage. That makes it sound like the man is a hostage victim instead of a fully-functioning human making decisions.
@@maryanneevans9563 What a shallow comment. Do you consider yourself homely?
@@maryanneevans9563 i think a contributing factor is the deep insecurities a lot of men have for beautiful women- they feel better with an average woman who will not be looked at constantly by other men- this is true of both sexes btw - some people can handle being with an attractive person- a few can handle being with someone both attractive and intelligent but very few people can handle the triple threat of being attractive, intelligent and confident- it takes a strong individual with a strong sense of self to not resent another person’s beauty and confidence- all this to say- work on yourselves and build your self worth- nothing is more threatening than confidence and a healthy sense of self
If fame goes to your head, I believe it should stay in that part of your body.
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(First), Bruce and Patti have known each other since Patti was 17 years old. Bruce suggested that Patti finish school and join the band. They met again in 1980 and at that time began to become friends. Then joined the band in 1984 long before Bruce knew Julianne.
(second), Bruce and Julianne's marriage was in ruins and Bruce wrote the song Tunnel of Love about his unhappiness with Julianne. Patti had nothing to do with it as she planned to leave the band and focus on her solo career.
(third) Bruce and Julianne were often separated, in the book Born to Run it is explained, when his wife was filming, Bruce went to a bar and she said that he was not a married man. They grew apart
(fourth) in Bruce's book Born To Run, when he was with Patti in September 1987, that's when he felt something in his heart. After the tour started, this is where Bruce began to fall in love with Patti, saying "Patti might be his new heart".
(fifth) At first Bruce just felt like he and Patti were "just the thing". Until he realized that Bruce and Patti were serious, he then honestly told Julianne that he wanted to end the relationship so that he could be with Patti. So bruce ended his old relationship to start a new realtionship with patti.
(sixth/most important) photo of Bruce and Patti while in Rome, it all happened after his separation from Julianne. So it's not cheating because Bruce and Patti are starting a serious relationship here. Bruce only admitted that he decided not to tell the public about his breakup with Julianne because it was his personal relationship. He regrets that he didn't tell the public beforehand, which caused people to think the photos were scandalous. If only Bruce had told the public about their separation, people wouldn't have thought negatively.
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@@FactsVerse you better change the title of your video. Bruce Springsteen never said the "Affair" caused the Destroyed of his marriage. He already explains in the book, they have nothing in common. "Julianne is a beautiful girl who is making her acting debut, while I may look mature but emotionally I am still immature." It was their differences that caused their marriage to be destroyed, not an affair.
irrelevant. Time for Bruce to retire and go hid under a rock somewhere.
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I met Bruce and Patti together once. Patti was very very pregnant and they seemed made for each other.
No one knows what goes on behind closed doors. Both Bruce and his 1st wife came from totally different backgrounds, wake up sunshine marriage is an archaic way for divorce attorneys to make money. Shack up have separate accounts, whatever you purchase purchase separately. Both put in fair share for living expenses. When one wants out the other may get hurt or be relieved. All these nasty comments about Patti, give me a break. She is a gorgeous redhead, they were both young, hot and horny. If you can't relate * know who you will vote for. I am 80 years old. Lived a fantastic life until 29. Got married, didn't even like him in hindsight. Stayed married in a mess for 30 years. Today is my 20th anniversary of the day I walked out. 59 years old, meeting an old flame no idea what would happen except I couldn 't take 1 more day. 20 years later absolutely single still as far as humans, rescue dogs and cats. Peace of mind there is nothing like it. Why did I stay? ABUSE is a powerful thing. I would rather have died than spend 1 more day with him. My hospital number is 12 what is yours before you open your mouth.
@keylargo💖Blessings and many more happy years!
Who cares
Imagine she did.
@@LauriKunes get a real life yes he cheated on his wife he was a dog
@@BobbyHall-qi7llwell why are you bothering to read and comment then? 🤦♀️
Julianne was so pretty anf pleasant. Why divorce her for Patty. Digusting! What a bad choice. In the end Patty did good. She still looks good. Bruce looks like he's 90.
He was so hot when he was younger, too bad how he treated women.
@carol...men like him usually find this out too late.
It's said that by the age of 50, you get the face you deserve.
When he talks he sounds like he’s 90
The minute I saw that she joined this band. I knew that this was going to happen. She’s a musician. They’re on the road together. They have a lot in common. I knew this is gonna happen. I feel so bad for Juliane. I remember when this whole thing came to light. It’s sad I think men like him shouldn’t get married. They should just stay single and that way they don’t have to break everybody’s heart.
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And live like monks ? Because FYI breaking up an *unmarried* relationship is as painful as getting a divorce.
Not only did Patti share his muso lifestyle, and spend time with him every day, sharing conversations on long tour bus ride etc., but they also had their backgrounds in common. Patti would have been what he knew, from his world, and that's probably going to be deeply comforting when you're traveling around the world, new country every few months, in the days before email, before Facetime calls. They say that men often marry women who are similar to their mothers - that would have to be Patti, in this case, not Julianne (the short-lived marriage).
@@SY-ok2dq Not really, Patti Scialfa wasn't working class but at least they had music in common. As for his first wife she was a trophy one.
Why doesn't your title match the content of your video? Springsteen and Julianne split in mid-1988. In his book, Bruce says that he left Julianne to be with Patti. It's not like you said the Affair That Destroyed His Marriage. Their relationship was already broken before Bruce and Patti together. Patti even planned to leave the band during the Tunnel of Love Tour in 1988. Patti had also known Bruce since when She was a teenager.
Love his music!
Hermosa lá primeira mujer de BruceSpringsteen ❤
It was the wrong place & wrong time, besides this was the mid 80s, live & let live, 🎵☮️🎶✝️
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Bruce first chose the aspirational wife, the uptown, glamorous wife (Julianne) who was part of the new lifestyle of the rich and famous.
But it wasn't what he grew up with and what he felt deeply connected to and felt "at home" with. Patti was much more in line with that, sharing a lot in common with Bruce, from their shared lifelong devotion to music, as musicians (whereas Julianne was a model turned actress), their touring, late night musician lifestyle, and their similar backgrounds. He must have felt a much stronger connection and bond with Patti.
In another world where neither became famous, they met in high school, joined a band together and performed in local bars, got married and lived in a small house in their hometown.
He has a type! Longish red and dark blonde hair, slim, artsy! He sounds like an old man TV character, but still has looks!
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Best move he ever made..It gave him a LIFE...
He chose his life with Julianne. And he chose to cheat on her with Scialfa. And then he chose to cheat on Scialfa with Kelly. Some life.
That song is one of his best.
I can't stand him I think he's talentless and I never understood why he got so popular.
Oh no, don't say that, granny, Bruce will be devastated if he knows you think he is talentless 😈 !
So overrated
@@Cupcake41275 Yep, most losers think that talented and successful artists are overrated... It helps them bear their own pitiful lives.
Whoa! I thought this meant that Bruce & Patti were getting divorced!
I *LOVE* their marriage and hope it lasts forever!💜
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that's because she has him on a tight leash. lol
Nah, he cheats on Patti the same way he cheated on Julianne. But Patti wants to hold onto his money so she's forced to look the other way. Karma.
@@FactsVerseSTEVIE RAY VAUGHN
It's very likely to lasts until "death do them part". Patti S has tamed the beast and put up with his faults and weakness.
When Bruce was invited to play with Roy Orbison for Black & White Night, he was above coming to rehearsals along with the rest of the extraordinary musicians. My father played piano for it. James Burton, one of worlds finest guitar players was there also.
Bruce would waltz in wherever and act like the star of the show. He was friendly enough, he just didn't think he needed to do what the rest were.
The musicians talked about it daily. James really carried all the amazing guitar features.
Bruce has a cheater soul. He cheated the musicians he was invited to play with. He wasn't #1 in that gig, so he made himself #1 in his mind for that show.
You could tell BS was trying to be the highlight of the Black & White Night concert.
Hes overated!
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2 types of cheaters: a serial cheater who will never change. The other is a good person in a bad/ unhappy relationship. I’m not condoning it but it happens
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He's cheated on Patti, so what does that say about him?
@@SpecialKel66 what does that say about Patti? She has no self respect.
He obviously is the first kind.
WENT TO HIS CONCERT IN THE 80's WAS THE WORST CONCERT EVER. I DONT LISTEN TO ANY OF THE SHITTY SONGS THAT HE SINGS.
You must not have seen him when I saw him in '84. Definitely in my top five!! I'm 56 and it seems like just yesterday. 😊
You never saw Boston. Absolutely sucked!!!!! Don’t waste your money
Bruce no can sing...
I went to his concert in LA in the 1980’s and it was great. I liked him more after I saw him live. He really gave it his all at those 3 hour concerts!
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I quit listening to Bruce when he messed up with julianna. Pattie I don't care for. She knew he was married.😊
Too bad young people aren’t taught about relationships. We are all immature and make mistakes and have regrets. I wish I could have had amicable breakups. Our society breeds this stuff.
He needed a lady from the streets - like him. No shade intended.
You should do your homework before commenting, gran, they were both working class but Patti's father bettered himself through hardwork.
He had one great song, "Born To Run."
Regarding Julienne, she didn’t seem cut out for Bruce’s musician lifestyle. She would have been happier with someone else out of the spotlight. It’s too bad they didn’t consider this before marrying or even getting serious.
I lived in Lake Oswego, Oregon when they got married. I drove past the church when the wedding was happening. Lots of hub bub!
I have lost all respect for this man. He once stated in 1985 that he wanted his supporters to think for themselves, do their own research, and decide for themselves on who they were going to vote for in the Presidential election. He stated " I don't want to influence anyone." Now he is a liberal and keeps pushing their agenda. So much for letting people think for themselves. He has lost a fan.
More money than God. Why?
He COULD have been strong enough in his marriage, but he CHOSE to destroy it. TOO SAD.
How do you know what their marriage was at the time he started sleeping with his chorist, where you there ?
he didn't destroy it. They did have their differences and bruce had written the song tunnel of love about his unhappiness during his marriage. Until he tried to find a new partner while he was still Julianne's wife as they grew apart, Julianne is acting and Bruce is at the bar. In the book he has told it. Until he started to get serious with Patti and ended his relationship with Julianne.
@@brianhotrosihombing9998 give up posting this crap. It was an affair, get over it 🙄
@@AnnaDoyle-in3ge Can you read and analyze books well? Bruce's sentence is "It was a september night. We Hung out, sat in my little bar, talked and preety soon, I could feel something was On". That means, he just felt something and they are not dating yet. your language saying "affair" is very rude. Until Bruce said that after 17 years of bumping into each other, two working side by side (this refers to during the tunnel of love tour) this is where he realized that he and Patti were serious. Bruce also said "The Surreptitiousness didn't last long" meaning they were already together during the Tunnel of Love tour and no one knew and Bruce kept the secret for only a short time and according to my guess, Julianne wasn't there. That's why Bruce started trying to be with Patti and when he got serious he told Julianne everything and wanted to separate. Springsteen kept the secret perhaps while he was on tour. Tried to tell Julianne after the concert and maybe meet her in person. Springsteen was seen taking off his wedding ring during a concert in New York.
@@brianhotrosihombing9998 I know exactly what Bruce said in the book, you seem to have trouble with comprehension “so it started” means just that and it was September 87. Bruce was seen without his wedding ring after he told Julianne about the affair and they separated. 2 years working together would be 1984-1986 so again your timeline is wrong. Give it up 🙄
This guns for hire! ....The beautiful house he never got to move in stay vacant for over 15 years. Good writer and wrote with the Broadways.
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Im sure he had numerous affairs. Thats the misic life people.
Bruce and Patti have been soul mates since day 1. He was infatuated with Julianne but that's as far as it should have gone.
these things happen dont let it define you
The only thing that defines you in life IS your behavior!
You can’t take someone if they don’t want to go. You can’t make someone cheat if they refuse to cheat.
who was cheated? this video is wrong
I think its hard for everybody to have long term successful marriages. Both have to work at it and try to get through the tough times because good and bad nothing lasts forever.
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Yeah! They are in the public eye, especially if they are successful band
Bruce humiliated his wife, who loved him, on the world stage. Terribly selfish & cruel; I think he's disgusting. That is not the way a real man behaves. If he had feelings coming on for an outsider he should have removed the woman from the situation, or let Julianne get out of the marriage on her own terms, before creating a new relationship. They showed no more self control than a couple of dogs.
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I have been a long time fan of Patti and her music. She has a singular voice and her lyrics capture the feminine perspective on life events. Her first album Rumble Doll blew me away. Yes...there are lyrics in one of her songs that indicate resentment towards Julianne but also that she struggled to do what was right...till she didnt. She seems a nice person in interviews...truly not someone who would set out to hurt someone else. People are quicker to blame the woman...not sure why. I will say this...they did not give Julianne a lot of dignity at the time.
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Very true, you need to be two to tango... And Julianne Phillips ended up with ex-hubby's assets, his fortune being very likely what attracted her, especially as she wanted to have an acting career and that marrying Springsteen put her on the map.
The road to nowhere is paved with good intentions. In the end, it's what you do that matters. And Scialfa broke up that marriage. I wonder how their kids deal with the fact that their parents are cheaters.
@@yankeedoodledarling9232 😂🤣 No outsider can break a happy and harmonious marriage, if hubby or wifey dumped you it was because he/she could no longer bear the sight of you 😈 and the Springsteen's children are well-balanced adults who are too intelligent to judge their parents' choices... Parents who have been made grandparents by their youngest child, Samuel, a firefighter 🥰 .
It's fascinating to see how Bruce Springsteen's personal life intertwined with his music.
it also fasinating to hear him tell people like you you r not right but you never listen
Julianne was stunning! No comparison between her and Patty.
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Bruce and John Mellencamp have the best "BUMS!!"
I remember this....i think Julianne really loved him. And, being a good Catholic, she never married again. I remember comments the other band members said at the time....they werent happy about the affair as it took place in front of them....
He's Catholic, too. And not a good Catholic or a good Christian. Just a selfish asshole.
I wondered if her religion kept her from marrying again. I also wondered if she could have gotten an annulment under the circumstances. If Frank Sinatra was able to get an annulment of his first marriage after 3 kids and at least two marriages after that, before he then got an annulment and married Barbara, it seems Julianne should have been able to.
I have never liked this dude.
May we ask why?
@@FactsVerse Sure. Firstly, I have never felt any connection with his music. It doesn’t do anything for me. Secondly, his Leftist partisan politics offend me.
@@123Rockchild let me guess, though, you're voting for the orange guy who's cheated in every one of his marriages😂😂😂
@@JessBeautyJunkie What does my voting have to do with uninspiring music? 🤫
Oh dear, he will be devastated to hear it 😂🤣 ...
Such a disrespectful man! Soulful songs? I am just not into screaming or having a raspy voice. Never liked Springsteen. Not surprised he was a cheater. He is also weak and full of hot air.
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I think his song "Trapped" sums up his relationship woes
He didn't write it.Jimmy Cliff song
There is no denying Julianne and Bruce were married when he and Patti became close. That was merely a piece of paper.
Bruce was already drawing away, hurting Julianne. The pain. The confusion. It seems Miss Phillips has amazing friends. There has not one tell-all interview from her friends and family.
As to not talking bad about one another. That is the least Bruce could do after the hurt and pain he brought.
As to he and Patti, that was not happily ever after. Bruce remained afraid of true intimacy. It is something he had to work through.
Why Patti and not Julianne? It is on the Tunnel of Love album. He need not confirm how autobiographical some of those songs are, especially the second side.
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At least julienne was much more pretty than patti
Anyone ever notice how Bruce started dressing differently, bolo ties, suit coats, etc? Maybe he realized too late that he wasn't being true to himself. Whatever he did, they did, is between them & God. I wish Bruce was a Conservative.
Tunnel of love was my favorite song by Bruce 🎉
Love Julianne!
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Finish one relationship before you start another one!
His current wife Patty was very jealous when Bruce married. She set about destroying their marriage and she succeeded. I’ve always believed she called the photographer who snapped the pic of Bruce and her in their underwear on that balcony during their affair.
It wasn't an affair, it happened after Bruce and Julianne broke up. make sure your comments are based on facts.
@@brianhotrosihombing9998 - My comment was based on facts. And yes, it was an affair. You don’t know what you are talking about. Read through this thread. Everyone seems to know the facts but you.
@@FP65 based of fact? You're saying that because you're a hater. Before Patti and Bruce, Bruce and Julianne's marriage was already in ruins. That's why Bruce wrote the songs on the Tunnel of Love album. You don't know anything about Bruce and Julianne's wedding. Bruce has known Patti since she was a teenager. Patti had nothing to do with the breakdown of Bruce and Julianne's household.
@@brianhotrosihombing9998 - Yeh, that must be why Brucie finally publicly gave a quasi mia culpa for the way he treated his first wife back then. He’s a cheater. And he also was caught cheating on Patti many years after their marriage. Guess you still haven’t read the thread. Having an opinion contrary to yours doesn’t make a person a hater. Bet you throw that little chestnut around a lot. LOL.
@FP65 your comment is not based on fact. You're just a hater. Springsteen never cheated on Patti. Springsteen never cheated on his first wife, he only ended his relationship for patti. Just go away
Julian beautiful ! Patti a beast !!!!!
Are he and patti still married?
Of course.
I hate this guys music with a passion.
@123rockchild...agreed, there is just something about him?!?
Yes, it would be hard for some.
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Yes, I think it’s hard. What with all the groupies, and other people that want to be with them, because of WHO they are. It’s just human nature. For most people it’s hard to fight the temptation. No matter how good your intentions are.
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@@FactsVerse more like this one, about the human condition, dealing with relationships.