WHY THE DOWN LOW (CLOSETED GAY) MAN WILL MARRY A WOMAN : Relationship advice

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    A gay man and a straight woman trying to maintain a marriage seems like quite an ordeal to put yourself through. Yet for millions of people in mixed-orientation marriages, it’s a basic fact of life.

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  • @kimstewart11
    @kimstewart11 Рік тому +77

    I had a boyfriend when I was in my early Thirties, he had a friend by the name of James.
    James was extremely jealous of me. Now I know why.

    • @kameshiam1674
      @kameshiam1674 Рік тому +4

      Ooowwweee!

    • @jewelsafire6844
      @jewelsafire6844 Рік тому +11

      Jealous James couldn't stand to share his man. God help us all... 🤦🏽‍♀

    • @teamabnoymalakas2826
      @teamabnoymalakas2826 Рік тому

      Women need to do an extensive criminal background check on any man that they would even think about bringing them to our house. You are responsible for what you bring in weather is a bad cat bad dog rat whatever spend the 20 $35 for a background check also besides checking criminal record I am Detective Dolittle following around that person if you even feel that they have a download complex.

    • @teamabnoymalakas2826
      @teamabnoymalakas2826 Рік тому +1

      Men don’t forget it’s easier fora woman to be in the closet on the Down Low

    • @againstallodds404
      @againstallodds404 Рік тому +1

      @@teamabnoymalakas2826 I agree do your homework, vet and check.
      My uupdate. I did a background chk, and decided to take a closer look 🧐one night. only to find him going into his homeboys gf house, while the gf was at work at 1am. He comes out 1 hr later, they embrace and that was all I needed. I'm so glad I'm celibate and kept it that way.

  • @jerilee7293
    @jerilee7293 Рік тому +60

    Yes, it should be a crime and yes, in some states you can sue for fraudulent intent. These men waste years of women's lives!

    • @IDidNotAsk4ThisHandle
      @IDidNotAsk4ThisHandle Рік тому

      I don’t know how it’s fraudulent??? Most likely she/the female ignored the red flags…..there are always red flags!!
      What is fraudulent is the person giving u a STD or STI they knew the had& not tell u…..yes that would be a crime/felony charge

    • @looknbakatu
      @looknbakatu Рік тому +3

      AND! if not leaving them with a disease!😳🤨

  • @tlccharm
    @tlccharm Рік тому +45

    You are right, it should be a crime for them to marry you!

  • @regiment6541
    @regiment6541 Рік тому +33

    Check their phones ladies. It’s all gonna be there 👀

  • @shawnjones08
    @shawnjones08 Рік тому +49

    I knew a couple that were high school sweethearts then married and had 2 kids after graduation. He took her birth control and got her pregnant before she was ready then started leaving clues after the second baby. He would leave gay porn up for her to find and claim it was an addiction. They went to counseling and he told her her was gay after a few months. They weren’t even divorced yet and he was living with his “bro” who he ended up marrying smh. They know what they’re doing the entire time for their benefit just to leave the woman feeling bad about themselves.

    • @sunnydays4812
      @sunnydays4812 Рік тому +8

      Oh nooooo some of these men are no good terrible

    • @IDidNotAsk4ThisHandle
      @IDidNotAsk4ThisHandle Рік тому +2

      I’m not buying it…..there had to be red flags

    • @shawnjones08
      @shawnjones08 Рік тому +3

      @@IDidNotAsk4ThisHandle some people just don’t want to accept what’s there. Denial is a River in Egypt. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @xyz-mc5of
      @xyz-mc5of Рік тому +3

      That sickening and he sounds cold-hearted and ruthless. DL is an epidemic in black community that’s why HIV so wide spread these days. Stay safe y’all and don’t risk your life for all these dl demons!!

    • @JimmieDavis-pu4dq
      @JimmieDavis-pu4dq Рік тому +1

      Shameful, the truth must come out. 🧐

  • @helenewebster-sisk6445
    @helenewebster-sisk6445 Рік тому +21

    Like the Bible says, "Be eager for nothing [nor anyone]." Thank you.

  • @gloriamooreministriesInc9712
    @gloriamooreministriesInc9712 Рік тому +39

    One of the signs is their sexual preference. DL man want to treated like the woman in the bedroom.

    • @nkreseknowledge2241
      @nkreseknowledge2241 Рік тому +1

      Interesting 🤔🤔🤔

    • @nanettesimon9388
      @nanettesimon9388 Рік тому +10

      Yes he put his legs up in the air I knew right there

    • @claudeenwilliams5772
      @claudeenwilliams5772 Рік тому +5

      I have a strong feeling my ex either is a pass gay or a now and then gay but he is some one I think have some dark secrets very dark ...

    • @loryjones7220
      @loryjones7220 Рік тому +5

      Yup. Submissive and passive, always wants to be touched "there" but won't initiate the same with you. Something's really off with that.

    • @modtomodern
      @modtomodern 21 день тому +1

      @@nanettesimon9388 Yes mine did that and the legs in the air turned me off. Now I know that he is really gay although he never admitted it and has married 4 times.

  • @kimstewart11
    @kimstewart11 Рік тому +94

    I am in my Fifties now. I am celibate. These men play way too many games. If he's not sent by The Most High I don't want him.

    • @mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962
      @mr_imperfectiongamingchann1962 Рік тому +1

      So, why are you surprised by this? You played games with men in your 20s, so why didn't you think this wouldn't happen!

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Рік тому +4

      I'm over 50. When I was in my 20s. I signed with top modeling agency in NY, right? I was very attractive. Had plenty of suitors. I NEVER played games with men. Never. So shutee.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Рік тому +6

      I feel exactly the same way. I only want who the Lord sends. Amen.

    • @cheriesmith89
      @cheriesmith89 Рік тому

      LoL 😆😂😂 you said right Amen 🙏

    • @againstallodds404
      @againstallodds404 Рік тому +7

      @@danilaroche1156 you don't have justify or prove anything to anyone. You're mature and lots of these men have 0 respect.

  • @bbills4186
    @bbills4186 Рік тому +22

    I worked with a women who bragged on her husband and her lifestyle. He was a high earner. She had 3 kids, the white picket fence, the career etc. Her husband had a best friend he went on solo camping trips with, without his family. The wife eventually put a stop to it, but it carried on for awhile. Her husband came up to the job, ironically, on the day I was off, but my co workers relayed to me that there was no way, after they met him, that his wife couldn't have known he was DL/gay.

    • @elleeme9451
      @elleeme9451 Рік тому +3

      Oh wow. Yeah, you can tell. Broke back mountain!

  • @msfredijr
    @msfredijr Рік тому +33

    This is what I experienced in 2010-2017. I was a beard and found out by him and his ex-wife getting into a huge disagreement. She threatened to tell me and he managed to tell me what she alleged. Mind you, he had his mother on speakerphone to back him up at the time. I left so fast that I didn’t realize that I didn’t have anywhere to go at the time (lol now). I was then glad that my marriage was sexless with no explanation. I was being protected by God and His Angels. It’s even hard for me to believe the peaceful and flourishing life I now live single by choice.

    • @againstallodds404
      @againstallodds404 Рік тому +5

      I'm so done with these sneaky bas... The one that tried to have me as cover has a homeboy D, come to find out all his kids names start with D. Smh. I feel like his whole family knows and covers for him as well. I thank God everyday for discernment and wisdom. If I was younger, I wouldn't even have suspected that it would be another man. Smh

    • @msfredijr
      @msfredijr Рік тому +3

      @@againstallodds404 I’m sorry to hear you went through that. I wouldn’t have caught on either in my younger years. These men give you zero explanation. They just ignore their own mess and never take accountability. Liars and deceivers.

    • @lavicewilliford-metcalf1089
      @lavicewilliford-metcalf1089 Рік тому +2

      Wow, Wow, Wow!!😢 thank guy
      You Jesus for allowing me to SEE these..*healing

  • @3rdeyekai133
    @3rdeyekai133 Рік тому +22

    My childhood best friend’s father “came out” to all 17 of his children and his wife and abruptly abandoned his family to live his best gay life with his lover in another state.

    • @paymyself1st430
      @paymyself1st430 Рік тому +3

      Lmao..if he was quick to submit..he’s is quick to jump ship..

    • @19katsandcounting
      @19katsandcounting Рік тому +7

      Yep, and I bet he got praised for finally being brave enough to “come out”. Abhorrent.

  • @CanePollFishermon
    @CanePollFishermon Рік тому +21

    It ain't always for eye candy, its to keep his family and friends off his back, so no one will suspect that he's gay or bi. I've seen them marry some women and you would wonder why a good looking man would married a woman like that. You are so right and I'm at 2:38 in and this is where I get off because your right on the money right here. Keep on educating them Miss. Faye one day they'll get the memo.

  • @jmanhope1745
    @jmanhope1745 Рік тому +47

    Continue To Speak Facts Sister, Continue To Speak Facts!

  • @ellenringer5236
    @ellenringer5236 Рік тому +21

    I was married to a man who called his friend, "my wife." It never set well with me. His friend was also married. This man was very disrespectful to me and other women. When he clowned on me, in public, about not having money to pay for his son's meal, I was done with him. It took me a year after four years of marriage to leave him, but I was sick of him and I left without taking my property. At the time, I intended to return. He sold my property, before I could get it, and although I forgave him, I never care to see him again in this lifetime.

    • @wisdomdantecourt8179
      @wisdomdantecourt8179 Рік тому +2

      Sounds like a very mean spirited man. Glad you found the strength to leave him. When men allows others to disrespect you it’s a huge red flag. Be blessed. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @alexiusscott9880
    @alexiusscott9880 Рік тому +4

    You’re right, we should be able to sue down low man, because that is very deceitful, and it will ruin a woman’s life.

  • @jewelsafire6844
    @jewelsafire6844 Рік тому +56

    Some women are okay with this as long as they're afforded a certain lifestyle, but a whole lot of us aren't okay with the lies. Most men won't be honest, because they're all about themselves. Pay attention to everything.🧐👌🏽

    • @StopSeekingValidation
      @StopSeekingValidation Рік тому +1

      @RONALD MURPHY You’re right, I hope we have a discussion about the down low women too 😂 and non double standards when it comes to the down low married women as well lol

    • @IDidNotAsk4ThisHandle
      @IDidNotAsk4ThisHandle Рік тому +6

      Definitely, pay attention, ask questions, and do not ignore the red flags…..there are always always red flags!!!!

    • @againstallodds404
      @againstallodds404 Рік тому +5

      This thing has gotten so 😨 scary. The fact that they are bold enough to use you and hurt you makes me 😡

    • @StopSeekingValidation
      @StopSeekingValidation Рік тому

      I think the women in this thread have been scorned and hurt by dl men 😂 then add to the fact they’re also old and washed up makes them even more bitter and generalizing lol

    • @jewelsafire6844
      @jewelsafire6844 Рік тому +6

      @@StopSeekingValidation Since you're making all kinds of assumptions about the women here, then you must be team DL yourself.🤔

  • @dianneroell5962
    @dianneroell5962 Рік тому +25

    Thank you Miss Faye!! For speaking the truth. Love you.

  • @dagnytaggart5216
    @dagnytaggart5216 Рік тому +16

    Years ago, I had a co-worker that was a very nice married man with 2 teenage daughters. One day my co-worker’s best friend came to the counter (he came there a lot for business) and I said “Oh. You’re so-n-so’s friend aren’t you”….just being sincerely friendly. That poor guy nearly twisted himself into a pretzel!! Shuffling, looking in every direction except towards me. I knew then. I actually think his wife knew, but he was probably a very nice husband and good father otherwise. Last I heard he was still married.

  • @lindajackson2382
    @lindajackson2382 Рік тому +16

    My late mother always told me the WEDDING is not the problem! It's what comes AFTER the wedding that's the problem!! And that's 100% TRUE! Think about it!!

  • @twogirlsandapsychopath4879
    @twogirlsandapsychopath4879 Рік тому +19

    "if you happen to marry a horror of a closeted gay man"..... LMAO Miss Faye! I DID THAT! Oh lawd I love this woman

    • @morriscarter5244
      @morriscarter5244 Рік тому

      Yeah and I married a dl closeted lesbian. All the fake ass girls night out was just secret lickyy lickyy parties

    • @lindajackson2382
      @lindajackson2382 Рік тому +3

      Me too!

  • @latyraRudolph50
    @latyraRudolph50 Рік тому +25

    My ex married me for show all his home boys and brothers were locked up with him and I knew it and I left quickly

  • @lisashen2845
    @lisashen2845 Рік тому +8

    You are a Godsend, I think this is the light I needed to see...I dodged a bullet by the grace of God - he married a willing slave who for obvious reasons thought she'd be alone forever - it's too sad. I think that's it. Wow.

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 Рік тому +15

    Miss Faye is right. My ex only married me to be his beard. His cover. He never loved me. I don't even recall him ever saying he did in our marriage. He was never home. Always with his buddy. I just couldn't see it. I was miserable. I was so young, broken and naive back then. But I do bless him because we have 2 beautiful children. Thanks Faye.

    • @Noelleelle
      @Noelleelle Рік тому +7

      I’m in the same situation. Rarely affectionate physically and emotionally with me. Always wanting to go hang out with his friend late hours of the night and going on trips together. But I’m thankful to have my daughter. She’s the best thing to have come out of it all. I plan on filing for divorce this month.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Рік тому

      @@Noelleelle The divorce will be hard but God will heal your soul. Be cautious though because your vulnerable & the enemy knows this. He may try and send a bad boy posing as a good man. He may send someone worse, yes ...worse to destroy you. I'd advise you NOT to date. It's going to get lonely. I know! I published a book titled - A Season Called Lonely: Managing it; finding its gifts. You can purchase at Barnes & Noble OR I can send free via computer. God bless and keep you!

    • @Noelleelle
      @Noelleelle Рік тому +2

      @@danilaroche1156 thank you! God bless you too. I am scared to get close to another man again. I know now a lot more of the red flags to be aware of. I can see it even just talking to men on a day to day basis. My ex is a covert narcissist and they’re extremely sneaky people but if you know what to look for, you can discern so much faster if they are someone to trust or not!

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Рік тому +2

      @@Noelleelle Don't be scared, just be discerning and wise. Like I said, you are vulnerable. It'd be good to have a hobby or something your passionate about. I hope your part of a healthy fellowship of believers! Very important. Anyway..I'm here for you sis.

    • @Noelleelle
      @Noelleelle Рік тому +1

      @@danilaroche1156 how long has it been since your marriage ended? I’ve been separated for almost 6 months. I got really into a hobby and started a business last fall so I’m super proud of that especially since he jabbed at me not working and being a SAHM. It has given me the opportunity to find something not only therapeutic but also that I can turn into a form of income.

  • @shannynmartin3157
    @shannynmartin3157 Рік тому +8

    I was on the other side of this and it was extremely painful for me, too. I am a transsexual and I met a man on an lgbt app. He was handsome, well-dressed, sucessful and about ten years older than me (which really appealed to me, i suspect because I grew up without a father figure).
    Anyway, when he took me on our first date he seemed so sweet and doting, he kept telling me how beautiful i was and complimenting me. I fell for him instantly because I was so naive. He told me he had been divorced for a year (and of course made himself sound like the victim) and that now his life was devoted to raising his daughter. We went on a few more dates and he texted me everyday (but never called me 🚩) and pursued me daily for months. It made me feel so special.
    Then after a few more dates, and after we had sex a few times, he would suddenly disappear. I wouldn't hear from him for weeks and I was so confused, because when we did talk he would be sweet again and he would always have excuses like that he was suffering from ptsd from his time in the military in Afghanistan. And like a fool I would believe his lies. He even lied to me about him and his daughter having COVID! I asked him if there was someone else and he adamantly denied it, even got upset with me for thinking he was "that kind of guy." He never posted any pics with anyone on his social media so it seemed believable that he wasn't seeing anyone.
    Anyway eventually, after seeing him and having sex with him again just a week prior, he had the nerve to post a series of photos on instagram, one of which was a group shot with a woman who looked awfully cozy with him. She was a natural born woman, not a transsexual like me.
    Anyway, when I confronted him he flipped the script big time, he tried to make it seem like they had just started dating and that he was only dating her because he never heard from me (even though HE was the one who kept pulling disappearing acts). Everytime i would counter what he was saying he tried to make me think that i was crazy by twisting the truth, he tried to minimize our relationship by saying we "just went on a date and talked a few times" , which was ABSOLUTELY NOT the truth.
    I asked him how long he had been dating this woman and he refused to give me an answer, so I contacted her on Instagram, and that's how I found out they had started dating BEFORE he even met me!! They were supposedly "exclusive" before the first time he even had sex with me, when he was still actively pursuing me.
    I explained to this woman that I was a transsexual, that I met her boyfriend on Grindr of all places, that he was actively looking for a PRE-OPERATIVE transsexual because that's what he's into.
    She acted like she was so shocked and "broken into pieces," and I sent her screenshots to prove what i was saying. She was like "i wish i had known sooner, we are trying to get pregnant. He told me he would never cheat me on me but here we are. I just don't understand all the lies he told. Why would he plan this life with me if he has other intentions with other people? Because he didn't think he'd get caught." yada, yada yada. I'm thinking this woman is gonna stand up to him for what he did and teach him a lesson and leave him but NOPE.
    Several months later i'm looking through my messages and see the one where i messaged her and lo and behold her profile pic is now a pic of them together! I tried to click on it and couldn't because this goofy heifer has me BLOCKED now. I was floored! At first it really hurt me to see they were still together but now I just feel sorry for her because he has found a victim. Her self esteem must be as low as mine was when I met him and he is manipulating her now. (I guess i shouldn't be shocked. They were together an entire year before she found out anout me and he NEVER posted any pics of her on his social media, which should have been a huge 🚩🚩🚩 for her).
    Anyway, he must have told her all kinds of lies and painted me out to be crazy, although I don't know how he explained the screenshots. Maybe she is okay with him sleeping with transsexuals on the side (or at least she pretends to be okay with it because she is desperate to keep him) or she offered to wear a strap on for him. Idk, but he is a narcissistic manipulative man and if he hurt me he is going to do the same thing to her because he doesn't care who he hurts to get what he wants. I hate it for her but she made that choice when she decided to stay. I am pretty sure he is just using her to have another kid and re-establish himself as a family man to his family and peers after his first marriage ended in divorce (probably for the same reason his relationship with this woman will eventually end when she finally sees him for who he is and gets fed up.)

  • @taad144
    @taad144 Рік тому +10

    And that's the reason why the Lord is dealing with them now on every level!

  • @sinjinmonsoon9055
    @sinjinmonsoon9055 9 місяців тому +6

    My life is ruined. My husband always has a blonde blue eyed ' friend ' around. Anything for them and if i say anything im abused mentally and physically. He just lost his job trying to prove hes not gay. He actually sexually assaulted a woman in front of other employees who were calling him gay.

  • @TwilaB0721
    @TwilaB0721 Рік тому +17

    I'M SO GLAD I CAME ACROSS YOUR CHANNEL. I'M A NEW SUBCRIBER, BEEN BINGE WATCHING YOUR VIDOES ALL DAY WHILE WORKING FROM HOME. THANKS FOR YOUR VIDEOS🤎

  • @msteaexploresafrica7812
    @msteaexploresafrica7812 Рік тому +14

    Yep, we are nothing but a safety net to them.

  • @michele33s68
    @michele33s68 Рік тому +13

    Dont underestimate them using you for a child. Trust me they'll use your child to take care of them in their old age.

  • @user-yd6th5ch5k
    @user-yd6th5ch5k 3 місяці тому +2

    My late father, a Child Protective Services' social worker, was a closeted gay man. 60's and 70's. He made our lives H*ll. I only found out as an adult.
    We kids demanded in the 70's that our mom divorce him. He quickly remarried a woman (county nurse). She lavished everything on him. He cheated on her too.

  • @magicthirdeye9548
    @magicthirdeye9548 Рік тому +12

    It seems many men are too disagreeable, manipulative, nasty, and lacking of integrity to even bother. The thought of having a man steadily gives me anxiety now...and as a black woman...I'm sorry to say...but it's MY truth...I'm more in fear of black men at this point. I've had front row seat to too many of their shortcomings, abuses, and disappointments. I haven't sworn them off completely yet but I tell you what...I think more about money, home decor, and gardening than I do getting a man and that's on my momma!

  • @msmewiththat7532
    @msmewiththat7532 Рік тому +9

    I recall sensing my dad was into men.
    I mentioned to my mom who just didn't want to see the signs even though they were available before I was born.
    I recall a man everyone knew was into men thinking he was telling me something about him. I told him I always knew but thanks for letting me know he was the latest notch on the bed post.

  • @liloshania6612
    @liloshania6612 Рік тому +4

    Too many marriages are deceitful these days - not for love. I can't trust any man again.

  • @theehardpill
    @theehardpill Рік тому +12

    I had an ex that never told me when women tried to talk to him. (He was 6'3 attractive) but he never hesitated to tell me about this guy at his previous job who he suspected liked him.
    I think he was bicourious at the very least because he was extremely hypersexual but liked women too.

    • @wisdomdantecourt8179
      @wisdomdantecourt8179 Рік тому +2

      Yep the hypersexual ones always give themselves away. I call them any-sexuals!😂

  • @theehardpill
    @theehardpill Рік тому +11

    If I had 10 men I promise out of that I suspected at least 4 and a possible was at the very least bi.
    Most of these men are.

  • @veraharris6830
    @veraharris6830 Рік тому +8

    Lessons need to be told that’s a fact! You are so much needed to tell it just like it is for those women who are stuck in those situations you’re much need here be blessed🥰👌 12:09

  • @angelabaldwin9889
    @angelabaldwin9889 Рік тому +10

    Like Bruce Jenner, and my own brother has a male friend for decades. He’s not fooling me, lol.

  • @Jerry-vo3zc
    @Jerry-vo3zc 8 місяців тому +4

    These monsters are way too narcissistic to realize the bad karma that they will suffer in the long run!!!!

  • @patriciabowens9674
    @patriciabowens9674 Рік тому +7

    This is sooo sickening ,lord ha mercy,and so sad cause the wife’s don’t no smh

  • @lonnasingletary6289
    @lonnasingletary6289 Рік тому +9

    Thank you Miss Faye. Please keep these coming. So very informative ! 👏

  • @sunnydays4812
    @sunnydays4812 Рік тому +6

    Ms Faye you have so much knowledge and wisdom and strength, on your last video about dl men I wrote this happened to me ! Thank you for your wisdom 😊 keep bringing these wonderful videos and amazing topics!!!!!! 😊😊

  • @sandy0519871
    @sandy0519871 Рік тому +29

    Disgusting smh I’m ok being alone child ✋🏾

    • @barbrapayne3636
      @barbrapayne3636 Рік тому +9

      I'm with you Sandy, I'm only 45 I'm okay being alone for the rest of my life too

    • @sandy0519871
      @sandy0519871 Рік тому +7

      @@barbrapayne3636 SHOOT lololo was married twice and now working on myself ….. and Im truly finding happiness….. I was always searching for it on others …. The whole time it was in me ☺️ we’ll be fine love .

    • @feliciakidd9358
      @feliciakidd9358 Рік тому +5

      You know that's right! These men are deceitful.

  • @billhosko7723
    @billhosko7723 8 днів тому

    Hah. Out gay and masculine gay man here - 62, came out in 1982.
    I should be offended and I'm not. SO much truth in what you have said. Thank You.

    • @billhosko7723
      @billhosko7723 8 днів тому

      Hah! Men "cheat close"... 13 mins.

  • @TheWaydeGang
    @TheWaydeGang Рік тому +1

    Dealing with this now. Anyone in a relationship needs to disclose this information with the other person and be with whom they prefer. Now I’m feeling angry, stuck and confused. I wouldn’t wish this on my enemy. I see why people flip out.

  • @darleenmcbride8900
    @darleenmcbride8900 Рік тому +3

    My ex narc is 71 and a millionaire. He travels to the Keys in Florida to file his taxes. I declare it's BS.

  • @19katsandcounting
    @19katsandcounting Рік тому +9

    Even worse if they’re bisxual. Ladies, gay men aren’t your friends. The most disgusting thing is when they “come out” after they had a family and the media praises them. But when a women becomes a lesbian after she’s divorced, she is treated like scum by the media. She most likely became a lesbian because of the trauma from men.

  • @helenewebster-sisk6445
    @helenewebster-sisk6445 Рік тому +6

    I agree this should be a crime.

  • @HappilyFrugalGal
    @HappilyFrugalGal Рік тому +2

    Actually if a woman finds herself in this situation it is possible to sue them. However, to do this they need proof. Such as emails or journals proving they were on the DL before they married. So if they dig enough there is a legal remedy for this situation.

  • @pamelamays4186
    @pamelamays4186 Рік тому +2

    I know a DL man who married a woman twenty years older than him. This guy would go off to Las Vegas for trysts with his boyfriend. To buy his wife's compliance he supported her large family back in the Philippines.

  • @Jerry-vo3zc
    @Jerry-vo3zc 8 місяців тому +5

    Yeah it should be a crime. This guy who has been to prison and a gang banger is on the DOWNLOW and is using this girl because she has a disability and gets a check. He treat's her like crap!!!!

  • @darleenmcbride8900
    @darleenmcbride8900 Рік тому +3

    Miss Faye I would love to share this video but people don't want to hear the truth. My own close friends declare, I'm crazy! It's a shame that people are so closed minded.

  • @darleenmcbride8900
    @darleenmcbride8900 Рік тому +2

    Hello Miss Faye, Nice to see your beautiful face this evening! Thank you kindly for sharing this video and helping us. Love you Sis ❤️✝️🙏

  • @coreymasoy7034
    @coreymasoy7034 Рік тому +3

    🤣🤣 LoL 🤣 very Great topic ❗🤣 LoL🤣🤣 that's a great message ❗💯

  • @LillianRiley-us6ry
    @LillianRiley-us6ry Рік тому +3

    I am probably one of your biggest fans and I love everything you do to inform and educate the general public period! But, one more important thing Ms. Faye…is there anyone you may know if not yourself to change the battery in your smoke detector? I love your wisdom and look forward to your next life lesson!

    • @missfayesworld303
      @missfayesworld303  Рік тому +1

      It uses that rectangle battery,,, and I can't find it in the stores anymore.

  • @momosoulfulworldasmr
    @momosoulfulworldasmr 14 днів тому

    I was Feeling miserable lost and angry when I first found out about it. But now I am trying to focus on myself my own happiness and my children period. He knows that I know and of course still in absolute denial. Im sure im going to leave him in no time when things are in order with the divorce attorney because now I have to make a strategic and smart move with my children.

  • @anastasialozovaia1047
    @anastasialozovaia1047 9 місяців тому +1

    WOMEN CONTROL THE SPEED OF A RELATIONSHIP OR DATING PERIOD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @darleenmcbride8900
    @darleenmcbride8900 Рік тому +2

    I'm not going, PERIOD! I'LL never trust again.

  • @Balert-z8w
    @Balert-z8w Рік тому +2

    Yess Yesss Thank You Miss Faye✨💚💚

  • @zoraidacastro2703
    @zoraidacastro2703 Рік тому +2

    My uncle did the same thing for his papers to be legal in this country. He was a narc just like his Dad. It was all a lie. My auntie was so sweet and loved that man but they were more like friends/companions..... its not love.
    God Bless my crazy ass, uncles all three of them!
    This should be illegal!
    I'm not looking for trash! I heard that... Set the boundaries.

  • @reenumishra5408
    @reenumishra5408 3 дні тому

    You explain very knowlagefull ,I praud of you,

  • @pamelamays4186
    @pamelamays4186 Рік тому +1

    I dated a DL guy when I was in highschool. He was involved with my then best friend's boyfriend. The two of them would spend a lot of time the boyfriend's family garage.
    When the boyfriend ran away from home to Kansas to live with one of my friend's family, whose mother he was having an affair with, the guy I was dating ran away from home too, to be with the boyfriend.

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 Рік тому

      Men are crazy! He'd rather have your best friend's boyfriend...... like they're more into men than they're into women.

  • @darleenmcbride8900
    @darleenmcbride8900 Рік тому +2

    I barely knew anything because he was so sneaky and never talked about his past life.

  • @btyn1572
    @btyn1572 Рік тому +9

    Can u give more signs on how to tell if a man is on the DL

    • @missta1820
      @missta1820 Рік тому +1

      If you wash his underclothes keep your eyes open. That's how I worked out he was on the DL.

    • @againstallodds404
      @againstallodds404 Рік тому +1

      Pedicures with clear polish, a couple long nails, takes his phone to the bathroom for over an hour, gets angry easily, mamas boy, has a couple homeboys, dates a LOT of big women, has a lot of relationships that doesn't last, may be divorced, has children, shaves body hair, takes a LOT of selfies, takes selfies with homeboys a lot, drinks a lot,

    • @shawnjones08
      @shawnjones08 Рік тому +10

      They are usually really sensitive about gay subjects and go to an extreme not to be associated with it, tend to initially want a woman who is very attractive then don’t want her keep it up so other men won’t notice her and take their “beard” from them, competitive with women, some of them are hyper masculine and put emphasis on being with a submissive woman, and of course look out for feminine tendencies.

    • @taad144
      @taad144 Рік тому +1

      They love watching housewives with their wife

  • @jerilee7293
    @jerilee7293 Рік тому +2

    Heyyy, Ms. Faye! 💥💯

  • @malekatahcampbell6326
    @malekatahcampbell6326 Рік тому +2

    Great advice ❤️

  • @marvapringle6592
    @marvapringle6592 Рік тому +4

    My man is in a lodge with his buddies been married 4 times he has women tenderes like what I wear decorating his house I caught him with a old man from his lodge a mason before I bought the kids to see him knocked on door waited and waited he finally open door I walked in the old man was fixing his pant didn't even look up my dude was in his drawers and a robe I noticed his bed wasn't made up he always have his bed made he was acting strange he told the man these my kids he said hi he was mad like I interrupted them We had a few word the man went to the balcony like he was mad I left with my kids walking to the car he ran after me telling me to call before I come over he never told me before have 2 kids but won't marry me it took me a while but I got it he can cook very good be in the kitchen like a women cooking greens soul food we argue he been with my sister sneaking he controlling he has two other daughter besides mine he's 80 yrs old saying he been got 4 times I decided I don't want him we waited to long just friends our sex was ...bottom like a women maybe he was the women he tells me bout my hair he notice to much to be a man he gay closet been on and off for 40 yrs expects a lot from me he uses he to old now but he still may have a boo lol

  • @theodosiahenderson8492
    @theodosiahenderson8492 Рік тому +1

    Amen To That's Amen 🙏 Kim 🌹

  • @nancyshookedoncrochet526
    @nancyshookedoncrochet526 Рік тому

    I heard about this on Doctor Phil. I'm not in the market for any men. I have one. But great wisdom as usual.

  • @claudeenwilliams5772
    @claudeenwilliams5772 Рік тому +1

    He sent me some photos to me one day with some dignitary from his work place they wre at his work place and I have seen one man there and my gut feeling picked him out so I send his photo back to him said he seems like this one is gay ..he then says yes he is ...my body runs cold because I said to my self how the hell he knows that and he didnt say how I heard he says yes he is 😳😳 I was looking differently about what he did say I have no REGRETS I leff him god sees and know what would have happend
    ..

  • @belindamorales481
    @belindamorales481 Рік тому +3

    Sis, can you post your email in your description box so I can reach you to do a you tube collab with me please.

  • @shirleywillis5617
    @shirleywillis5617 Рік тому

    Words of wisdom .

  • @tynaangelici3023
    @tynaangelici3023 Місяць тому

    I think my ex husband was like this.

  • @len1045678
    @len1045678 Рік тому +5

    What about closeted gay men who never had sex with men but treat their wifes the same way

    • @wisdomdantecourt8179
      @wisdomdantecourt8179 Рік тому +1

      ????

    • @len1045678
      @len1045678 Рік тому

      @@wisdomdantecourt8179 sorry.. men who have same attraction for other men but never had sex with them

    • @19katsandcounting
      @19katsandcounting Рік тому

      Super rare, men tend to go after what they want. But if they’re repressed it could come out violently toward his perceived “oppressor”., i.e. wife. Or do you mean have sx like a gay man? All men like to do that. Look up ancient Sparta. All the men performed homosexuality until they got married, and probably some after.

    • @len1045678
      @len1045678 Рік тому

      @@19katsandcountingyes have sex like a gay man or any form of homosexual sex or touching... I have a borderline socal man of God at home, and he has all the characteristics of a DL man but he doesn't go out often always home, he rather stay hiding.. and criticize every gay man on Tv according to the Bible that say homosexuality is abomination, he has no relationship with none of his kids, and the same goes with me and my brother, and he would lash out for the most stupidest things and u can't talk to him very dismissive.

  • @biancamerrell6252
    @biancamerrell6252 Рік тому

    She make me laugh out loud ! 🤣

  • @tbrown707
    @tbrown707 Рік тому +4

    Interesting perspective. Do you have any expertise or data about lesbian woman who marry men?

    • @nkreseknowledge2241
      @nkreseknowledge2241 Рік тому +3

      Do you?

    • @barbrapayne3636
      @barbrapayne3636 Рік тому +8

      Oh give me a break, im quite sure the man will be happy to find out his woman is seeing Another woman he would ask to join, THEN he would get all shity when she says no

    • @feliciakidd9358
      @feliciakidd9358 Рік тому +3

      @@barbrapayne3636 🤣🤣

    • @tbrown707
      @tbrown707 Рік тому

      @@barbrapayne3636 That might be true for the type of crowd you move with. Most men want their spouse to be loyal and a good parent setting the right example. These mother's today are a mess and that's the kids are outa control in the streets.

  • @lonnasingletary6289
    @lonnasingletary6289 Рік тому +2

    Yes, yess, yesss !!!!!!!

  • @ktskyed5770
    @ktskyed5770 Рік тому

    Why is there a pentagram behind her right shoulder on a paper with... I can't see, but like, a spell or satanic prayer?? That goes against what she talks about. I'm confused.

  • @ElisaForHealing
    @ElisaForHealing Рік тому +2

    Lol…Ole Boy!

  • @allaboardthegravytrain5987
    @allaboardthegravytrain5987 9 місяців тому

    2:44 so true

  • @gloriamooreministriesInc9712
    @gloriamooreministriesInc9712 Рік тому +5

    I knew it

  • @againstallodds404
    @againstallodds404 Рік тому +2

    🙏🏼

  • @lindawade1203
    @lindawade1203 Рік тому +1

    Their In The Closet

  • @user-dl1bp9lz3j
    @user-dl1bp9lz3j Місяць тому

    It's Fraud and it should be actionable.

  • @taad144
    @taad144 Рік тому +1

    😲

  • @rdsims8809
    @rdsims8809 Рік тому +1

    What about the DL women or Up High? I was ready for Mary, Sue, Helen or Jane.when all the time it was Bill, messing with my mane!! Sing, it Peggy

  • @helenhill1270
    @helenhill1270 Рік тому +2

    Honey can you fix your lighting it shines right in your glasses and blocks your beautiful eyes

  • @BB-ll2ih
    @BB-ll2ih Рік тому

    Watch out for the male cousins ???

  • @YAH77723
    @YAH77723 Рік тому +3

    My faye i thought u were a believer until u said universe. The universe dont send a man. YAH does

  • @williammatthews7252
    @williammatthews7252 Рік тому +1

    No sweetheart married Men are tired of sleeping with the same women constantly it don't mean he's gay but some yes your right but alot of Black Women that are married are tired of the same boring sex as well, but alot of Black Women are Down lo

  • @calmdown2876
    @calmdown2876 Рік тому +2

    Why not simply ask their black mother? Go to Atlanta GA and see all of those cats. All of those cats are coming from a black woman's house.

    • @719kai719
      @719kai719 Рік тому +1

      Ask black mother's what?

    • @calmdown2876
      @calmdown2876 Рік тому

      @@719kai719 Look at the title to this ladies story. That is the question you need to ask down low black men mother. His mother should know something.

    • @719kai719
      @719kai719 Рік тому +1

      @@calmdown2876 That wasn't a question it was a statement. This woman is answering the WHY....Are you listening?

    • @calmdown2876
      @calmdown2876 Рік тому +1

      @@719kai719 I do not care about what you are saying. This lady is saying what she thinks to be true. What I am saying is why guess at all. You can simply ask the suspected DL guys mother or other family members. She needs to go to Atlanta where 75% to 85% of the Black men are gsy and/or bi-sexual. Well those 75% to 85% gay/bisexual black men have a black mother so instead of guessing she can simply ask their black mother. The lady that played Pam on the comedy show Martin said that black women are helping effeminize black men in Atlanta and black women got angry at her. Pam was only telling the truth about Black women in Atlanta.

    • @719kai719
      @719kai719 Рік тому +1

      @@calmdown2876 The lady is sharing wisdom based off her own former relationship with a DL ( closeted) gay black man.

  • @Theanointed37
    @Theanointed37 Рік тому +1

    The universe or God?

  • @StopSeekingValidation
    @StopSeekingValidation Рік тому +2

    I hope we have a discussion about the down low women too 😂

    • @DuchessofKuvuki
      @DuchessofKuvuki Рік тому +6

      It's not as rife as with you men, don't come projecting on us here.

    • @StopSeekingValidation
      @StopSeekingValidation Рік тому

      @@DuchessofKuvuki “you men” 🤔😆 you must have had a bad personal experience 😂 sound’s personal lol not all of us but it doesn’t matter who does it more slow brain lol my point is awareness should be brought to both of the issues as one tends too not to be talked about as much lol you sound angry and bitter 😂

    • @roses4me451
      @roses4me451 Рік тому +3

      This is a WOMEN'S channel, Miss Faye is the content creator, and she can talk about any topic she chooses. You'd do better on the manosphere or "kitten heels", "High Valued corpse" channels.

    • @StopSeekingValidation
      @StopSeekingValidation Рік тому

      @@roses4me451 yes you old bitter and washed up, scorned angry one you 😂

    • @glidkomer
      @glidkomer 11 місяців тому

      U can do it on your channel.

  • @keepithonest4626
    @keepithonest4626 Рік тому +1

    It's not just men it's women too. However, the lifestyle is wrong. The term " come of the closet is wrong it should be come of out of deception/ confusion into healing/ deliverance through Jesus by faith.

    • @19katsandcounting
      @19katsandcounting Рік тому

      Mostly men. I do like that, “come out of deception.” But sorry there’s no deliverance once they made all these kids and decide to abandon their families.

    • @keepithonest4626
      @keepithonest4626 Рік тому

      @@19katsandcounting wrong