Why Alpha Males NEVER Cross Sigma Males
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- Опубліковано 23 вер 2024
- Why Alpha Males NEVER Cross Sigma Males
In a world of hierarchical social structures and power dynamics, alpha males hold a top spot in the food chain. They are the leaders of the pack, with their aggressive and dominant attitude.
Sigma males are the type of men who stand on the sidelines, observing keenly and silently calculating every move - never afraid to step in when necessary.
As these two kinds of men navigate an ever-changing universe, something interesting happens - alpha males never cross paths with sigma males. But why is that? It’s a question that has been asked many times before, and one that still baffles people today. Some believe it is a fundamental law of nature, while others think it is merely a matter of respect.
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Alpha: Make the Rules.
Beta: Follow the Rules
Sigma: What Rules?
We make and follow our rules
Or there aren't any rules that I can't change.
Sigma: Break the rules
Alpha:Make rules
Beta:Folow rules
Sigma: writes about him on UA-cam, while following the rules.
Accurate
As an older sigma I can say that sigmas are best on their own driving their own direction, my advice to young sigma males is go your own way in business and trust yourself you see things others will never.
respect love and greetings for you father💙
U sure about being a sigma? How can you say so?
You are not a sigma, because you are not a wolf. You are a human being. You don’t fall in a hierarchy with an a pack. And even if you did, you would’ve been ruled over by the mother and father, monogamous ruling pair. You are not a wolf, sir.
A sigma that isn't driving in their own direction isn't a sigma at all. That trait is a key hallmark to a sigma.
Sigma are beyond leadership. A sigma controll who should have the throne and who should not!
Alpha is just a beta who succeded on getting the leadership
As a Sigma, I can say on the rare occasions that I cross paths with an Alpha, they get confused. They sense the assured confidence and DGAF mindset, but they are perplexed by the lack of desire to be the center of attention.
I tend to piss them off when I come across one
As a sigma I agree
I agree with this point 100%.
Alphas are boring and predictable. Much rather be a Sigma which I am. Sigmas always get the last laugh because we plan all the way to the end.
Got it Bro, noticed same. Actually, I like a lot of alphas who know how to approach a Sigma. When they realize we don’t compete with them, it’s not our point of interest, cooperation is perfectly fine. Alphas who don’t understand of who we are are laughable 🤣🙏🏻👊🏻
We Sigmas are are truly immersed in the Art of Fighting without Fighting 😅
Right logically folks be trippin 😂
@@RickRijuanaPro Explain More Bro?
@@jayshah9967 Aaaaa Like folks that will argue over opinions. For me its, oooooh that's how you feel. Cool 🤷🏽♂️
Some will try to shame you for not having the same views or even physically fight you. Like we have different brains 🧠 we're all not going to have the same views & that fine. Some haven't grasped that yet.
@Rick Rijuana Productions Ah Ha. I get it. You smart little devil you. Once again, the art of fighting without fighting as stated by the great master Bruce Lee. Brilliant 😎
Yep!
As a true life long sigma, I don’t look for trouble but if I am pushed to the point of violence, I am ruthless
As a beta male, I respect you 😎
@@nidduzifah7715 I respect you too. I never had a problem with people and I always stood up for the weaker people who needed help. Have a great day brotha
As a sigma I would use every weapon in my mental arsenal before I unleash the beast …😅also as a sigma I’m very calculated and plan everything in my head and see if it’s worth the consequences or not because alphas will do it without the calculations
This. 100 times this. I'll throw around dad jokes with the best of them but will burn your life to the ground if pushed too far.
Well said, brother! I even try to reason with them. Because I take self-defense seriously, I let my body take over, and it naturally reacts faster if I don't think about it.
My brothers beat me relentlessly to enable this ability. 😢 and it terrifies me to let go and let God.
Reason number 6 strongly aligns with Bruce Lee's quote reading "The most dangerous person is the one that listens, thinks and observes", and I think it to be the strongest reason why a Sigma male can be intimidating. Kind of reminds me of a Japanese anime where one of the main characters was scared of a huge guardian monster, even when it's silent!
ha ha ha ha ha .... you are funny. Also sigma?
@@kaihusravnajmiddinov5413 I didn't expect that what I said would make anyone laugh but good to know. And I seem to be a sigma. I say so because I don't label myself, at all. I have qualities and I adhere to them.
Very good analogy. I agree with you.
@@ahmedm.h.ibrahim1768 you are not sigma
@@nikola-dev Neither are you
Alphas always spot me immediately when I walk in a room. And I can spot them
Sigmas recognized one another instantaneously.
Yeah, betas enter the meeting room like milling cows while the sigma has the attitude, "Well, this alpha-led meeting had better not waste of my time." The betas all sit obediently like sheep while the sigma finds a seat in the back, more than ready to exit if the meeting is just a bullsh** ego-driven bunch of blather.
sounds beta
I would notice a guy with a square foot too.
That's because you hold eye contact as you pass and give them the "all knowing" fight club nod
Just came across this idea of Sigma.
I see a lot of people in life who cannot be unambiguously classified as a Beta or Alpha. But it seems like an awful lot of folks are now eagerly latching themselves onto the Sigma characterization when it is said that this personality is the rarest of all.
It's because most men are actually hardwired deep inside to desire to be a sigma. A lone wolf,conquering his own world, to be the master of his own destiny. To strive and succeed with (preferably) or even without other men.
Men recognized that to achieve it they need to develop such traits which defined a sigma.
The ideals are there inside their mind. Then capacity, capability and consistency comes into the scene and makes most men failed.
That's why then they can only PROJECT. To pretend. To virtue signaling as if they have the capacity, capability and the consistency.
What ironic is even when they desire such traits whenever they encounter someone who has truly developed such, they hate that someone with passion. Such is called ENVY.
its like the INTJ from the briggs myer types. You find a new label and because it says rare every person not of the " in crowd" then becomes the new. In the categorization of men as alpha beta etc nobody wants to be the majority that nobody wants and usually settles for.
@@vaddick sigmas are the INTJs of the world and alphas are the ENTJs
Those are the sociopaths and or psychopath types.
I think it's because lot of gammas and deltas find similarities with sigmas and they just don't want to be gammas and deltas.
And they never did some personality tests probably to figure out which type they are actually.
A savy Alpha will learn to work with and used the talents of a Sigma, but as a Sigma do not ever cross the line, it will never be a good thing to under hand a Sigma.
We Sigma`s tend to be loyal to those who treat us right. Once that trust is broken, don`t come back ever.
r u saying the point of being a sigma male is to be used by the alpha male to his advantage. Only that makes sense in this case
A smart sigma allows for use, it is given, not taken.
@@NoHomeWorkzone9 Is a trusted advisor a man that is used or cherished? Easier to seat oneself in the position of king maker and guide those that fall often.
I've always felt my purpose is to help empower others into success without needing to take the credit or subsequent fame associated with it. It just feels right to unlock other peoples potential, especially if they are the underdog capable of so much more than they realize. Betrayal is never forgiven, I don't retaliate with petty vengeance but my investment in the person is gone forever once the trust is broken and I move onto someone more worthy.
@@Lyonsyn 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 That is It!!!
I couldn’t have said it no better 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾.
I care more about the task at hand and accomplishing the goals than taking credit for anything. It’s always a team win for me. If I was used properly, I feel good about being of Service to my team.
Just simply, the Alpha CAN NOT mentally out maneuver the Sigma, and THAT got them "scared". Sigma is also physically strong too, an Alpha only gets it's status because of their more outward commanding presence while the Sigma sits back, observes. It's the real Lion vs Tiger situation.
there's not real alpha, signa thing
@@polpol1005 Alpha and Sigma refers to different personality types which is real.
@@SyBorg77 Can I be an Iota male? I'm trying to become nobody. For he who is no one is everyone, and if everyone is no one we've already won.
@@N8_R First I've heard of that. Why would we exclude our sisters, mothers and daughters? That seems asinine and absurd. Everyone deserves liberation from meaningless titles that promote tribalism. Everyone doesn't mean 'only people that look like me'.
"This is a man's world! This is a man's world! But it wouldn't be nothing, nothing! Without a woman or a girl" - James Brown
@@N8_R Suit yourselves. I'll see y'all on the other side of this crazy geodesic trip we call existence!
They understand the long game very well. They're an asset. You don't want them as an enemy.
The real challenge in that is to motivate a Sigma to work for YOUR cause. Good luck on that, bud.
1thing I learned being a sigma male is,when a alpha male rule over betas an other males he see/realize he can’t control a sigma.When they both men catch eye contact you can see the power in eachother an the alpha feel the sigma is a threat to him but once they understand eachother the alpha respect the sigma as a Man.
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As a Sigma, we won't be intimidated, we will call your bluff, no fear.. it is what it is..
“Word”💯
You are not a sigma. You are not a wolf. And if you were a sigma in a wolf pack? You would be at one of the lowest parts of the totem pole. In a wolf pack, there is a monogamous, parental ruling pair, a mother, and a father, who rule equally. When they get old enough, they allow one of their children whether it’s a daughter, or a son to “challenge “them, and then they retire, still within the pack. They are not ousted. Then that daughter or son chooses a mate, and they become the mother and father ruling pair. It’s an equal partnership, even that guy who wrote that original article about alpha males has, since recanted his entire work of literature, I’m assuming because of shame, but also because of 100 years of scientific facts of what goes on in a wolf pack. Now and apes and monkeys societies those are matriarchal societies. Meaning the mothers rule this society, and the one male is the protector and that’s it. Even down to bees, all the workers are female all the drones are females, the males are workers until they mate with a queen bee, and then their penis explodes, and they die. Because their role was concluded. But human beings are none of those. But if you have to refer to yourself as an especially lower, ranking tier of a Wolfpack, when you are a human? Then you are pathetic and that is the reason women don’t like you.
@@azurastar6245 you don't know what you are talking about, Sigma males are chosen by women even more than alpha males' we just let alphas think they are doing something and like biggie said as soon as you buy that wine we just creep up from behind and get the girl
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@@azurastar6245 cool...so go try and troll somewhere else.
As a sigma I used to have a friend who was also a sigma we used to hang out we talked little but we understood each other the most sigma thing he ever said was! Do what you got to do! Those small words meant volumes to me till this day!
As a beta male, I respect you 😎
That's it, being a Sigma...we do only what we have to do.. that's the story of our lives for the most part
This is an actual comment 🤣🤣🤣 Bro all of yall are a bunch of dorks wtf are these comments
“As a sigma” -🤓
@@nidduzifah7715beta are very rare on UA-cam. Keep it real my beta brother
I'm old enough and as a Project-Manager for large projects, I can say, they need each other and respect each other, when you take a closer look at the old alpha male guard. The old alpha male guard normally look at the success for all, only the newer ones have a problem with their ego / obeying to authority.
Agree 100. Its a subset almost
Agree
it amuses me a little when ive assessed a situation faster than anyone else in the room and then watch them slowly come to the same conclusion. this makes the alpha feel threatened. but i don't mean any harm so i don't really understand why.
Quick Sigma Vs Alpha story , my boss would consider himself an alpha male(or maybe just had the short man complex lol) but dude try to force last minute mandatory OT on a Saturday which was my birthday , I told him I can’t make it’s my birthday I already had plans with my family way before , he tried to assert his dominance by stating it doesn’t matter it’s still mandatory, I looked him dead in his eyes with a firm tone and told him idc what he says I’m not coming canceling my plans last minute and I will gladly accept the consequences, he didn’t know how to react lol 10 minutes later he comes up and says no mandatory OT just do what we can lol , just goes to show you those alphas are only tuff to the weak men who don’t stand on principles
Is his name.. LUNDBERG?
Sounds more like a beta playing sick, tired, and fed up with his job or life. A true signa does not have a boss lol, they are the boss in everything.
And then you woke up and got ready to do overtime 😂
@@vince11harris 🤣
another word for alpha is blowhard
The actually explains why I'm internally conflicted most days! My dad's an alpha male 100%, but I'm not. I prefer to be silent and able to move fluidly through the crowd listening, but I also love to interact with people on an intellectual level!
You're not alone. You describe exactly my approach to social situations.
My approach also. I like social situations. A little goes a long way with me. It exhausts me to be engaged with too many people for too long for the sake of bonding and fun. Too much effort involved.
@@travishendrix7026
It’s all about balance…which still eludes my understanding at the moment! 😂😂😂😂
No you’re just socially inept
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I’ve long enjoyed being the guy who in need steps out of the shadows to get things done then fades back before people realize. I once worked for a very alpha guy who introduced me in a meeting with a customer with “watch this guy he’s always listening and remembers everything “.
Bro thinks he’s Batman
@@jank7693 lol
Did you feel validated?
@@kentuckybred1 lol. Never validated.
I frequently clashed with my alpha male co worker. I made him an offer he couldn't refuse. Split up our work in separate buildings no interference allowed while honoring requests for assistance when needed. The deal worked and we accomplished more work than before minus the drama. Sigma and alpha can work together when egos are put aside. Thanks for this informative video. 👍
As a sigma, I am good friends with my alpha friends. I can identify them clearly. We actually have a unique chemistry. They do all the ground work while I move more silently and precisely. People tend to see us coming from a far off. The energy definitely shifts in a good way
THATZ BACKWARDZ!!
A Sigma is just really another way of explaining a man with the almighty trait called "INTEGRITY".
Integrity is undesirable in a fake world
Gone get yerself some fuggin 'tegriddy!
@@sgt.lincolnosiris4111 😂 tell em Mcklusky!
@@sgt.lincolnosiris4111 🤣😂
As a beta male, I respect this 😎
I'd never heard anything accurately describe me to the bone until I heard about sigma. My entire life I've excelled at everything I've done, even as a child. But since childhood, everyone around me has always underestimated me. There's a bunch of those people who now regret that, and I have learned to use that to my advantage. Let people underestimate me. it only works out in my favor and I've learned over the years to lean into the stereotype. It allows me to keep control, but from behind the scenes. I don't need to be loud and in your face like an Alpha. I'm not a one trick pony and there's a reason why people say "be afraid of the quiet ones".
I second for the first accurate description/label. I always find myself thinking “what about this face tells you I don’t always know what the f*** I’m doing?”
The fact that you typed all this out and posted it online
@@bradydoran2173 😂 the fact that you try to put random people down on the internet…
@@AdvantureZach you doing that to yourself brother
@@bradydoran2173 please, keep going! Tell me more about myself 😂
As a sigma male i tend to avoid positions of power as i have no interest in leadership, but i will offer strongly constructive council when i see a problem the alpha missed. That is not me trying to over through the alpha, more to strengthen him in ways he never knew how before.
Yet most of the time they always think you are just trying to coup them with a finesse.
Only few alphas could see it otherwise, sadly.
may be you are Enigma instead of sigma??? you sound like enigma
@@kaihusravnajmiddinov5413 Both
@@moosethe1st910 ha ha ha ha
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My cousin is an Alpha who taught me how to fight. He taught me never go into a fight scared or I'll lose. He beat me all through my teens. When I finally won he was so happy and bragged to others that he taught me to fight. When out in the world alphas are weary of me and don't want to throw hands with me unless I ask for it
I have had Alpha males in my life and I noticed they are very confident even in things they had no experienced at. When you quietly prove them wrong about something with your experience, they will have a bit of a meltdown, true, but they have the confidence to keep on trying. Some people get completely crushed at the least of failures.
I don't think alpha exists
I watched one podcast with Andrew Tate, I was laughing bmy ass off when he loudly braged "I know I can dominate you in a piano playing competition even though I've never played piano"
@@proverbalizer Yes, Andrew had the pig ignorant attitude to believe such nonsense. He doesn't even believe it himself, but he just wants to try to force you to. He's alpha all the way.
@@charles2241 you might be right "he doesn't believe it himself, but he wants to force you to" lol
It's not confidence, it's arrogance. A confident person admits his mistakes and learns. An Alpha male doesn't.
So to sum things up -Sigma is the true power holder, the leader, without the need for power. gotcha
Yes they’re pointless essentially
a sigma is usually a trusted advisor. Those maturing become angry and wounded over their advice not being taken. A mature one speaks what is required to the figure head and lets go of the outcome. Since a sigma does not speak a lot, others listen when they do. Leaders Rise and fall and are replaced as soon as their control slips. Good advisors are cherished.
Because Power Always Corrupts the people that get the power.
Only person you can really trust, is the person that doesn’t want the power because they know it corrupts.
You don’t get it, Darth Vader was the Alpha, Palpatin was the sigma.
Sigma has the true power because that’s who the alpha will listen to. Alpha’s appreciate our forethought, and we appreciate their ability to execute a plan.
It’s a match made In heaven.
@@PD-qu8dq ....im pretty sure Palpatine wanted all the power
leader without power is much probably leading towards what is understood as "weakness, hunger, poverty, and illness". In this world at least
I have always been a Sigma, many times yelled at my alpha bosses, whole history of it. Successful career I had. Alphas didn't rely on logic and thought projection. Sigmas were always the real brains behind the scenes because alphas always attempted to grab the spotlight.
As a beta male, I respect you 😎
#DELUSION
@@nidduzifah7715 🤡
No you haven’t.
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THE BETTER QUESTION IS:
Would u cross the person who reaches the same power level or more, that you have reached with ur gang, but alone, especially if he/she controls a vital asset or something that actually sets him/her free, from any type of societal control? o.o No, u would n't. A successful Sigma has fail safes in place to keep u & ur gang in check.
Yes. If your will and service..training..experience dictates.
@@frankgalonis1428 The comment and your reply evoke thoughts of the 2001 film "Enemy at the Gates" which depicts the standoff between Vasily Zaitsev and Erwin König at Stalingrad during WWII, the immovable object vs. unstoppable force. 🙂
I always liked this conversation. A warrior doesn't need approval to complete the mission. Despite hardship.
Very true, there is always a back up plan before even engaging
I live your insight. True Sigma Thinking
It's simple. Sigmas are the guys we're talking about when we say "...all I wanted was to be left alone.", and then we get a new Napoleon.
I feel like a matador when I’m around alphas. They wanna do dominance displays. But you can just turn it a little and go by harmlessly. And you win over the crowd.
As a Theta/ Delta type player myself, I keep one slot for a Sigma type as well to counter Alphas found in the wild.
I only found out about this with your videos this week. I can say I am a sigma male for sure. I have been around a alpha males most of my life and can say that they can't control me and figure me out. Yes I am intelligent and alpha males, in my family and friends always respected me for that.
This might be THE cringiest comment section I have ever seen. This is wild
NO ⚠️BEWARE IM AN ALPHA⚠️ THAT IS SO DISGUSTING TO SEEK 🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🍷🍷🍷🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🍷🍷🗿🍷🍷🗿🍷🍷🍷🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🍷🍷🍷🤪🤪🍷
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No one asked you beta boy.
I normally play beta but it never lasts too long before people catches on. People always feel the energy and realize they're being played no matter how hard I try. 😢
Same here. I tend to latch onto an alpha who's not a complete ass and we GET STUFF DONE. It always ends with the alpha moving up, sometimes trying to drag me with them. I thoroughly enjoy where I am in the hierarchy... low level puppet master.
It is impossible to read a sigma.
Wow such a badass
A true Alfa male will always look for the best Sigma male to get further on any situation.
Best team is made of a Sigma in the background and an Alfa in the forefront...but that kind of mutual respect and understanding is very difficult to find.
I just found this channel, and the term sigma a few days ago. I still don’t know why I even clicked on the video?? But, I had no idea that I could be described so well, and very positively. I was content letting people think what they wanted about me. In fact I use it to my advantage with some people.
I can relate.
Same
John, it's almost as if you were just writing about me. Probably about 6 months ago I just sitting here and came across the video and was intrigued. Then I was dumbfounded once I realized they were describing me. I've been very interested ever since. Yes, very few alphas stand a chance against me. I stop, I think, I process and I know exactly what I'm going to do and say, whereas most alphas just think they are cool know everything.
oooo how much sigma you are
good for you
Seems like quite a few of us on the planet, but God knows we struggle because we don't SUCK UP TO AUTHORITY ESPECIALLY WHEN WE KNOW IT'S LIMITATIONS.
I’ve learned to appreciate avoiding alphas as much as the situation dictates, unless on “good ground”. I’ve found the majority of alphas to be narcissistic and bullheaded. Often alphas will create a “crisis” only to be the “savior”, the “answer” to the very crisis they created.
I’m more the Tsun Zu type…tactics are everything. Knowing when to hold, wait, watch, to think and think more and from as many “angles” as possible. Knowing when to “walk away” and when to “dig in” is extremely important in ALL aspects of life. If any situation dictates an immediate response, it’s likely I’ve already thought of as many of the “what ifs” as possible prior too such. Eg, if A then go to B and on. However from my experience, many alphas seem to misplace this methodology (waiting, watching) for weakness. If I were in business I’d likely appreciate this. A useful tool. Very interesting video. Thank you!
As a beta male, I respect this 😎
As a beta male, I respect this 😎
I am what this video is describing and it’s very comforting to find information I can actually relate too when my whole life I’ve been looking for answers to help me better understand why I seem so different than everyone else.
Had so many stalemates or lose/lose situations with alpha males. A few of them learned to steer clear, and fewer learned to work well together.
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Please tell me everyone in the comments is joking
I'm afraid not.😅
fr
🤣🤣🤣🤣thank you
Wait for the next personality to come out that make sigmas look like pussies, and the same names will pop up claiming it
I know YOU MUST FEEL MORE COMFY WITH COOKIE CUTTER LINGUISTICS.. 🥱
As a sigma man whom worked in US ARMY special forces with alphas, I don't think we're opposites. I think we're just different. All of the alphas I know were cool once that realized I was who I am. The thing I always noticed is that I & the alphas (normally at least two of them, the boss & his boss, when I wasn't the boss) always came to the same conclusions, but from a different angle. So, that just means we're different, not opposites. When I was the boss, I noticed there were no challenges to my authority as boss from alphas. However, when they were the boss I didn't really challenge them I just had lots of questions, solutions to those questions & they ALWAYS agreed & eventually they stopped asking questions when I went off script, because they knew what I was coming up with would be better than what they had originally planned.
Thanks for sharing this, Nick! That's great to hear! It sounds like you found ways to work together effectively without having to compromise your values or identities. There's something special about the trust and mutual understanding that comes from reaching the same conclusion despite differing backgrounds and experiences.
i respect alphas a alpha has taught me i need to be more bold and not hesitate on anything i desire..
I can say as sigma male true power can bend and destort real time in reality... Sigma wizards can appear out of no where without people noticing even having the ability to get one place to another faster without even noticing it yourself. A casual walk can become a sprint in mind to time traveling
Hahaha
Sigmas are often the guy sitting back observing social interactions, wondering why the best person isn't the alpha.
You better not approach a sigma male with aggression because you will be disappointed with his response. He acts as if you are no threat. This leaves the alpha male more furious and panicky knowing the sigma male's unpredictable actions.
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"You can't know a person who hardly ever speaks". Most alphas can't succeed intellectually unless he has the support of the group. He's just smart enough to know not to mess someone who can shut him down.
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When I walk in the room I hear danger buzzers going off in people's heads it's hard not to laugh but easy to see who is thinking it
Really great information sir. I thank you for this. I fit the type completely. The only flaw I see for me is that I do not wait for an alpha nor anyone else to give me power or permission in a situation. If the bell rings. I'll answer the call. I am very good at navigating through things, seeking wisdom and understanding. The sigma is fearless when called upon in my opinion.
As a beta male, I respect you 😎
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Mature Alfa have gained Respect to Sigma after encountering Defeat at younger years. Sigma tend to outpace Alfa's dominance over time while Sigma maintain its confidence for taking care of themselves. Alpha become BETA as they lose their Testosterones and find defeats from life as their Age while Sigma continue and maintain to Thrive. While Alphas are Lions, Sigmas are NOT Lone Wolf but rather (Tigers, Leopards, Jaguars who don't need social "acceptance/validation" while very cleverly blend/disguise watching from afar - observing, dominant and Confident to fight strategically.
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Correction, a sigma could always understand alpha's point of view, the reasonings, the motivations, and how to actually compromise with them. While the other way around, more frequent than not, is impossible.
I’ve ran across some that will see it my way. But the difference is that we empathize because depending on the situation we would react like them but they would never act like we would.
We understand the reaction but we like to act not react.
As a beta male, I respect your opinion 😎
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@@nidduzifah7715 🙄
30 years ago, my team encountered a new corporate "Senior Manager" (alpha boy) who initially walked up to us all and said, " My name is xxxx xxxx and remember, it's my way or the highway." Within a few months, his baby blue older classic Mercedes was (apparently) attacked with baseball bats. Alpha boy transferred out a couple of months later.
So the sigmas chose the highway for him
@@tedmaudlin5074 yes
They see me as an opponent.... every fycking time😳 but in seconds they regret it. Don't take ppl for granted,just because you seem to know everything 🕵️
Love the don't take people for granted part
@@its_just_marvlus phucch likes.....truth rules.
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I’ve commented this on another video before. IMO, I believe Sigma males are evolved versions of Alpha males. They no longer need a pack to show their dominance, nor do sigmas react caveman like when they anger. Sigmas evolved to control that anger, and use intelligence to calculate their moves before reacting to a situation. Sigmas are dominant when they need to be.
Sigmas are alphas less the obnoxious need to be the center of attention.
I am sigma....🗿🗿🗿🗿🍷🗿🍷🗿🍷🗿🗿🍷🗿🍷🗿🍷🗿🍷🗿🍷🗿🍷🗿🍷🗿🍷🍷🗿🍷🗿🍷🗿🍷do not cross me alphas🗿🗿🗿🗿🍷🍷🍷🍷(sigma smile)
so sigma 🗿🗿🗿🍷🍷🍷 ⚠️BEWARE ALPHAS⚠️
I'm batman...
Wow!! This was an excellent explanation of two opposing forces!! Well done 👍
I don't buy into this stuff 100 percent but I recognize Sigma traits for sure. I do feel I match a lot. I'm usually able to steer clear of verbal and physical conflict personally and if it arises at work other person usually doesn't get a barbaric response from me and is terminated. Shortly after. Above anything I feel people with Sigma traits have very good fight or flight reflexes...and very good knowledge on when and how to use each.
It's s spectrum like the INJF. So one person can be 5% sigma and another 85%.
I don't know what my percentage is but think that I'm a mix between Sigma and Omega. I have characteristics of both but not 100% for either.
I clashed with an ALPHA Narcissist at one time in life at work. The second I realize what I was I knew I could beat him overtime. In good times there was respect in bad times he’d lose every time with me. His short term thought and aggression would go away and mine was a slow plotting simmer. It is true, you don’t know where SIGMAS are coming from and smart ALPHAS know it. The dumb ones are easy! By the time they realize they are losing it is too late. Time and patience is advantageous for SIGMAS.
Be careful. Narcissists may employ flying monkeys to take you down if they realize they can't manipulate you.
Flying monkeys are people who unwittingly believe their lies about you and help the narc.
@@davidm4566 hé totally did that!!!! But time fixed that!. Trust me he has had enough of me. Now I ignore. You just cannot give them energy again.
Salutations, fellow Σ’s.
As a Σ in my late 40’s, I’ve observed in the topic: Σ vs. Α
Σ =‘s CHESS MINDSET
A =‘s CHECKERS MINDSET
A safe, & stress-free 2023 to you all!
#3 explains so much of why certain men have refused to listen to me when I knew they should have. They'd let the littlest things affect their judgement and never see me as an equal, only to come back later and tell me I was right.
"Position yourself on the Battlefield where you can be Tactically Effective." Cpt JP Sigma US Army Ranger
So true. Many times I've won fights against guys much bigger than me with an icy stare and a genuine appeal. They always backed down. Nothing scares an Alpha more than seeing that look in the eyes of a confident Sigma. I can handle myself and do a lot of damage on my way down, but I've never had to. Alphas get it. Stand tall, even if you're 5'6".
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Um in my experience it depends on the alpha. I've had plenty of alphas work with me. Usually there is a challenge which moves into respect. Because as a sigma strategy is already in place before you come out of shadows. Thats the real edge. Most alphas fear loss of respect in the open. Its like tricking a child. If you leave a back door you win
maybe they were just big egos nothing else
Alpha male mentality is in a way very immature and primitive. Sigma males are the more evolved type of man. They calculate and are two step ahead while alphas are more intuitive and act before thinking. Almost all the traits that make an alpha powerful or interesting, are adapted and improved by sigma males.
The opponent or obstacle is never too big to conquer for Sigmas because they can outwit, outsmart and find many other ways to do so.
Not true. Alphas are the ENTJs as far as personality and Sigmas are the INTJs. ENTJs are usually in the leadership position because of their ability to socialize but they are intuitive. They can be obnoxious when they are young but thrive because they consistently want to be better. So the older they get the more wisdom and less likely to be boisterous as their younger selves. INTJs are generally smarter but are known as the mastermind. They are not the face of the company but their ideas are the ones getting implemented.
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We are in three words Confident Observant Introverts. Many deem us Gentleman Alphas but no we are not the toxic energy of high confidence and extrovert.
I’ve worked with alpha males plenty of times and in my experience I’ve noticed a lot of differences. However as a Sigma male I found working together in some cases enjoyable and really productive. Regardless this world needs more and more Alpha and Sigma males.
Tbh this all feels like a weird power fantasy when in reality every man has a bit of both sigma and alpha male qualities. In my mind what I categorize as a 'great alpha male' would not only be ambitious and power hungry, but obviously he would also observe, listen, being patient and plan too (which are sigma qualities)
Similarly a 'great sigma male' would need not just cautiousness and smarts but also the courage and qualities to lead when the need arise, and social skills to approach someone to get what they want (alpha male qualities),, and those needs to be trained so they kinda need to be 'alpha male' too for a time so it becomes even more blurred
That is exactly why the best kind of man would be... a Sigmalpha Male *thumbs up
Yeah I agree bc I couldn’t figure out if I’m sigma or alpha when I’m both
Until I read you’re comment. Obviously not perfect just flesh and bone I am both though
And every man has woman hormones but what matters is obviously what you are during crunch time.
And if in situations where you must execute you usually act like an alpha then you are an alpha.
This isn't rocket science.
It's tegrity.
"Do what thy manhood bids thee do, from none but self expect applause;
He noblest lives and noblest dies who makes and keeps his self-made laws."
Sir Richard Francis Burton 1821-1890
This is the way.
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“as a sigma” 🤓
I didn’t think these comments were gonna be real😭😭😭
Too much self proclamation isn't needed,just be you. The energy you give off may bring on the weak but remember they view you as a threat and you possess something they lack.
Death Note is one anime that demonstrates these characters.
Always been the Sigma sided since a child, always swimmed against the current, avoided groupies, always analyzing my surroundings and understanding behavior from a distance, and then apply theory & trial and error.
A Sigma never afraid of death
I think alot of BETA males who don't wanna admit to themselves that they are a beta male will classify and call themselves sigma males to make themselves feel better. Wouldn't an actual sigma male not feel the need to state he is a sigma male?
Nah its not how its works.
To be a sigma male you had to have a significant level of confidence.
Without confidence u cant be alpha or sigma.
A sigma male is an introverted alpha male thats the main difference.
Most false sigmas are actually omega. You can spot them quite easily. You are absolutely correct with the last sentence.
I just hate the loudmouthed and attention seeking behavior of the alpha
“Ice cold blue eyes that trembles a city” 😎 but there is “the flame that burns inside”. Called a soul by some Brother 🙏🏻 Great and a very meaningful vid (always is 😁)👊🏻
I'm just me and couldn't define myself as alpha, beta or sigma, but I think my stepson is a sigma. Very focused young man, doesn't say much at all but speaks 5 languages, very strong , very intelligent guy. He's 15.
Im not a beta. I don't follow anyone blindly. I am quiet and watch people. Might be the main reason why Im mostly a loner and spend a lot of time alone. Im not afraid to call someone out when necessary. I don't look for trouble. I have no problem walking away. But I will stand my ground when I know I have no other choice. I also know when to let my ego not get in the way of my brain. But I never thought being this way was a Sigma attitude.
I believe we have tendencies of all three,
Beta, Alpha, Sigma.
A very powerful man with money and resources can be very Alpha in business but when it comes to women they crumble and turn to betas, and they are sigmas when it comes to being alone with himself.
Not entirely sure if I would be considered a Sigma, but some general things I know: Once you have a general sense of the flow of your workplace culture, it can be frustrating to get drawn into a confrontation or conversation then recognize the projected outcome, and willingly back down and be left feeling like a "im a bitch" just because you recognize you have nothing to gain and its better to prepare for the broader outcome. This is why I find it better to work indirectly, behind the scenes.
Before commenting, understand your not sigma.
Every person is masculine and feminine. Not just male sigma. This is all sigma vs alpha.
True alpha: sigma
Apha: beta mentality (highly aggressive) challenges alpha
Beta: challenges alpha position
This keeps each on their toes. Look at the wolf pack its run by a sigma. Ur beta dog is ur alpha male/female. He sits back plans lets beta do most of the work til he speaks.😂 we have this set up all wrong in human hierarchy.
There is strength in silence...
The thing to remember about a Sigma is that they follow the beat of their own drum and are outside the hierarchy. If it doesn't interfere with that beat, they don't really care. And if challenged, Sigmas always have the option of simply saying - bye-bye. From experience, what will trigger a Sigma is sometimes not clear, so a Sigmas reaction can often shock. Mutual respect? With a few exceptions, don't you believe it. I respected and was friendly with some Alphas, but for me, most were transparent and boorish - far too concerned with politics and position in the hierarchy.
o really ? are you another shigma?
@@kaihusravnajmiddinov5413 Not these days - but I once was. I am more of a Zeta now. It should not need to be said, but I will say it anyway - in my opinion.
@@bhobba so many letter named personalities appeared these days (like alpha , Betta , gamma, Perma , terma , yottas etc. )
These are just fake definitions. Just mood conditions.
@@kaihusravnajmiddinov5413 I agree that what was once a simple categorisation is now more complex, so what you said seems quite reasonable. Many more people now say they are Sigma, even though it is the rarest. It makes you wonder. How I became a Sigma is an Alpha was kind enough to take me under his wing at work and teach me this stuff. He didn't use Sigma etc. but gave advice based on the kind of person I was. I was never going to be an Alpha, but I understood being quiet, thoughtful, watchful and going my own way. For me, it was hard but helped enormously. That was over 30 years ago now. I retired 20 years ago and didn't care anymore, which is more Zeta than Sigma.
A Sigma is an advanced Alpha! although sometimes Alphas Underestimate him cause he seems to be a Beta when dealing with an Alpha.
Or was a humbled alpha, if you will. Only happens with age.
Interesting that this is described as Sigma, the eighteenth letter of the Greek alphabet. Also symbolized as a mathematical sum, or standard deviation. Makes me curious as to the roots of such naming morphology?
£ could be a loop if it’s to infinity. Therefore, a sigma personality could be thought of as a loop of unbreakable confidence.
24/7 got this ready to fight aura.
It's long time ago, and its really rare, that people treat me with no respect. But they do this only one time.
The last time, it was a "friend". Then I challenged him to a boxing sparring.
But he don't want.
Better a patient person than a warrior, one with self control than one who takes a city.
Hard being a sigma when you’re more handsome than the alphas
No it isn't, just do like I do and give off a "serial killer looking for his next victim" vibe. Everyone leaves you alone when you do that.
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If your trying to prove to others your a sigma male, your immediately failing the definition of one
Correct
We also don't care about the labels
Any time I’ve had someone try to dominate me my lack of concern disrupted it.
Also, where is a video about when us Sigmas actually get into a fist fight? I was raised in martial arts and boxing, and when it came time when blows were gonna be traded my lack of concern made most simply back up. It wasn’t/isnt nothing but a pop quiz.🤷🏼♂️
A favorite quote: "When things get out of control...look for the quiet one and stick with him. He's fixing to cut fence and sort some bast_rds out."
First time I knew I was a sigma was when threatened by an alpha dude over the phone. I asked him where he was she told him I was coming to meet him. He didn't know what to do.. When I finally got his location and met him we ended up shaking hands.
Not understand
I'm an older sigma male and have had success in leadership roles in a heavily laden alpha male environment. It is like herding cats at a time but being able to be focused on long term maneuvers for success has shown them who I am and has given them the evidence that it is better to work with me.
As a beta male, I respect this 😎
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Bro what is this 😭😭😭😭😭
This comment section is hilarious 💀
Are you the tiktok femboy 🌈 who dances on skirt 😂
Explains why bullies could never get over on me like I seen them do with others around me
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I assume if this video popped up on your feed randomly, the universe is telling you something…
Y’all are so corny oh my GOD😭
Y’all can not be real 😭😭😭
I love to call out alphas and their fallacies. There's nothing more gleefully enjoying than pointing out the fallacy of humans and homo sapiens alike. Ahh yes, just make sure the child support check is in the mail
I identify myself as a sigma. And, so far, didn't have trouble interacting with guys I could signal as alphas. Pretty much as the video explain, kind of a "silent gentlemen agreement" takes place, they know to respect my space, but somehow also understand that I have no interest in challenge their leadership... and in many occasions we get along quite well actually. Don't know how, as not a single word on the matter is exchanged, I guess its instinctive, body language reading, or kind of telepathy. 🤔🤷🏻♂️
🤓 “I identify myself as a sigma”
Alpha works 1st shift, Sigma works 3rd shift. Alpha has something to show, Sigma has something to prove.
Alpha asks the question and demands answer, Sigma ask question to end the conversation.
If Alpha is a morning coffee, then Sigma is water.