American Men VS Russian Men (character, investment, “in bed” etc)
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- Hi all!
I knooow that’s a very controversial topic, but that’s how I see the difference between Russian and American men. Your opinion may differ, and if it does differ, let me know in the comments below I would love to discuss!
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Modern American culture crushes the souls of men. It’s sad
It hasn't crushed us despite your futile attempts! We're still men!
Bond 🇬🇧 James Bond 🇬🇧
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Modern culture Doesn't crush us you fool.
@@steffanhoffmann8937 you guys are a bunch of simps lol
@@bigvee401 and you sir? Or indeed your excuse( 🇺🇸 ) for what you call "culture"... Has damaged not only the English spoken word; but also its citizens (🇬🇧) good standing abroad, as tourists.
Because for some inexplicable reason; they think WE are YOU!
Hmmmm! Not in my backyard (NIMBY).
Your people, generally speaking; can't point out correctly, other countries on an atlas.
@737PilotDocSportelloLovesShastaFay what an absolutely ignorant uninformed comment. I'm from 🇬🇧 and I can assure you that USA actually does!
My boyfriend is Russian, he is like the sweetest person alive, really loyal, gives a lot of gifts, really caring and protective too. Seems like Russian men like to help a lot in stuff and it's true that they seem to know about everything. Also the part about them being hard to open or serious with some people is true. But oh god, I love my bf.
They've also got a greater knowledge of beating their women eventually! Especially the ones living in Ukraine!
@@steffanhoffmann8937 I think that's generalizing tho. And wtf, there's family violence in every country lol.
@@isabellasoyuz3007 hmmm! We're all entitled to our opinion! However? In UK and other civilised countries? If you beat a woman? You'll go to prison! It's a risky business!
However; domestic violence in Eastern Europe, generally speaking, is somewhat ignored! According to my experiences; when I was a British English language consultant in Odessa. Trying to rectify and dismantle; the abomination named "AMERICAN ENGLISH"
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Have a wonderful day!
Bond 🇬🇧........ James Bond 🇬🇧😂
@cmnts Mexico :3
@cmnts my bf is not in Mexico right now, but there's a good amount of Russians here :3
"Americans treat sex like a recreational sport" HAHAHAHHA. Good video.
Not men who are shy , introverts. Usually ones who think they aren't handsome. A relationship comes 1st.
Camila my Italian mother taught me how to love and I’m a romantic 😉
@@mikeprzlomski2092 yeah im sure that was several centuries ago
Ya I guess your right
@@mikeprzlomski2092 does it work?(what she told you)
I'm an American woman. I've dated Russian, Persian, Spaniards and Colombians. The Russian and the Persians treated me the best. I felt like a princess and "protected". Sexually, they were also the most fun and assertive in bed lol! :-) almost married one of them :-) American men need lots, and lots of lessons😬
jajajajaja okey. But the latinos are Fun!!!!!
i'm a happy persian guy after this comment
@@mistersebbas3370 Sí!
@@RojitaCali im happy russian after your comment about us)
Spanish are the worst 😢
American men not having self confidence must be a recent development. I was surprised by this comment as the biggest complaint is the past was that we were too full of ourselves and arrogant. I can see where some of us are a bit intimidate by Russian women as they are so gorgeous. The women we see from Russia take much better care of themselves and look like models.
Only some, who want foreign boyfriend. With russian guys they middle.
Arrogance is the complete opposite of self Confidence. Its like south and northpole
I’d say I find good traits in both American and Russian men and also negative ones. I am a Russian living in America. For example what I love about American men is that they are not fast to make fun of someone who looks different or someone less fortunate. They are less likely to make jokes about a bum on the street or a handicapped person. There’s a bigger sense of equality here in america. Whereas Russian man can act superior and not see a human in a bum( not all) but there’s a big group. They can act as if they are better than Americans just because they think they’re smarter or have better values. Terrible tippers when it comes to Restuarant staff( just my experience). Maybe men in russia are actually different than the ones here. But I found them to be a little rude to staff. American men are a little more polite and humble when it comes to the lower class of society. But what I don’t like in American men is they’re lack of direction, lack of spirituality and values. Men tend to sleep around here a lot, maybe because the women here are easy so both genders are destroying the values of society. But I’ve had plenty of American men ghost me because I didn’t want to have sex before mairrage. Whereas Russian men respected me even more for that and where willing to wait. It’s a lot more common and more normal in Russia for people to only have sex in a serious relationship or after marriage. Here men expect this from you sometimes on the second or third date, it’s messed up. Men here in America are afraid to bring up any talk about their desire for a family, whereas Russian men are straight up about their desires to build a family eventually. It’s almost out of style here to mention marriage.
Okay, also what I don’t like about Russian men is their mentality that they own you once you are together, it’s almost required if you to inform him about your whereabouts. American man are a little more trusting and respect a woman’s value and her dreams a little more. But Russian men are better at encouraging your dreams if they are the type to be supportive. And also they’re more willing to help you achieve them by working harder and investing. Also Russian men tend to keep their word more, they say there gonna take you on a date at 7 pm on a Friday, they will be there, no excuses, no ghosting. They know that a real woman will never talk to them again if they don’t show up or ghosts. Whereas American men can’t ghost then text you weeks later pretending nothing happened. Maybe because women here are more willing to call a man out and demand respect. Anyways, I think both men have great qualities and some shortcomings, but in the end it really is about the values a person has. Good values and raised right equals good men regardless of culture. Maybe we don’t connect so well between our cultures because of our mentality so it would be ideal to be with someone from your own culture, but don’t limit yourself, you might meet an incredible person either from America or Russia, who knows 🤷♀️. I hope this helps.
As an American male I've always paid for dates granted its the likely the difference between rural more traditional culture and urban "modern culture"
In the southern US, if a man asks a woman to go or do anything. She does not pay for a single thing.
Ok, you made me felt in love with a Russian man that I don't even know! Hahahahahaaha!
I love you too dear
Same goes for us, Italians, we are romantic and knights till death
You western women have only yourselves to blame. Forcing your feminist propaganda bs on your men has turned them into less masculine guys at best. And self-identifying gays at worst.
Same for me, I'm Spanish btw :)
I actually spoke with an American woman previously who seemed to have the Russian experience with all her past relationships: every one was awesome in the BEGINNING only. They would always act really nice/chivalrous and seemingly had everything that you could want in a man, knowing exactly how to win her trust and favor - but almost as soon as she had a kid with them, all of the initial romance disappeared and they would suddenly turn into demons.
I heard that this type of scenario happens often in Russia, which is the reason for their high divorce rate. Men tend to slack off majorly after getting married or having a child, leaving the woman to be the only stable income provider - which in turn makes him feel like less of a “man” and makes him feel that he has to elevate his testosterone in other ways such as getting into heavy drinking/alcoholism, going out to sleep with other women, etc. I also read that this is largely why Russian women do not believe in ideal relationships and realize that they need to be OK on their own in the event that things do not work out, which is a mentality that American women would be very wise to adopt as well.
My wife (Russian) doesn't like spending money. Maybe that is because she lived through Perestroyka. I'm English, btw. She had a career, her own flat (bought outright) etc. etc., and she gave it all up to live with me ;) When we met she was 34 and I was 35. We've been married 20 years. When we bought our house (with a mortgage), she put down half the deposit. She likes that I listen to her, and treat her as equal, but she still expects me to put up shelves etc. ;-)
So everyone is different, but certainly some of what you say is definitely true.
A number of years before that, I dated an American woman - SHE was the money-obsessed one.
EDIT: my wife (Russian) doesn't like men who drink alcohol, so maybe that was why she had to look further afield!
I think what you expect for a date definitely depends on where you come from. I absolutely do not expect a guy to pay on the first date and would feel even uncomfortable with it, but I am very American :) That said, I have had American guys offer to pay on dates all of the time. I have also received flowers from American men many many times and had cutesy creative acts of kindness and interest. Have you ever dated an American?
Also, hookup culture does exist in the US but I would not say it is the default or a stereotype.
giving constantly gifts play a substantial part of a relationship with a Russian men🤑...western men would consider this as "buying" the woman; they put the love in front of everything...now it's up to you what is more "romantic"...
It's just a different love language.
Russian girls think it's love when they pay, not the oposite. And it doesn't mean the girl will sleep with you after that or something. It just shows a woman that the man takes responsobility and can support a family one day when they have babies.
@@Bohemiane54 Exactly. And it's not just about relationships. Russians don't go empty-handed to other people's homes and bring little nice gifts.
It's really surprising for us to see that sometimes people don't even bring gifts for birthday parties.
And the person that invites them will make some nice dinner or lunch for them. Russians will always share their food and make sure that no one is hungry. And gift giving is a big thing between friends. It doesn't need to be anything fancy or flashy. Just little nice gestures to show that you care about people.
@@Bohemiane54 Russians are disposable people. Most of them don't care about other people except their close friends or family. They are much more cold hearted compared to Americans or Western Europeans.
Now you should compare the the difference in men once your in a committed relationship, or married!
Ma'am, Russians are white version of Indians, basically We love & protect are love once, family, friends, our grandparents our grand children's, we take care of our land, agriculture farms, cars bikes, we study hard, and respect boundaries that If that woman is not mine than we should don't cross our limits, but if that woman is mine then, Babe, I love you♥️ & I care you, pay your bills and also takecare of our kids and whole family.
And protect ourselves from anyone who fucking Dares to mess with my family.
Russians are living their true life apart from smart phones.
Note--> This is all about majority of people's of Russia and India.
BTW lots of respect for you to describe real characteristics of a particular person's and,
lastly this flower💐 is for you ma'am.
Bye.
You're English is pretty good! Good work
Some women and men doesn't like to be 50% and 50% in everything. I like to cook to my man I like to be the "woman" in the relationship eventhought I work too and I don't have problem paying somethings. Some people like to be completly equal in everything, cleaning up, cooking, takingcare of the house, providing for the family and it's completly okay.
But some people just like to let the man be the alpha of the relationship, let him to take care of us as a women of course as the same that we take care of them as men in other conservatives ways. It's nothing wrong with it neither It just depend of the life that you as a woman or as a man want to live. The wrong thnig is that here in America everything is sexism when a couple wants to live in that way with out bother no one.
American guys are not anywhere close to the same. Our personalities differ from where we are in the country. You will not find this pathetic version of the american male in the mid west. We run the show, we are extremely courageous and confident. Per the sex, thats all depending on the person. Most guys I know are wanting to make sure that our girl is sexually satified.
I agree with pretty much everything except the confidence thing. I think we are trying to be polite in not forcing our opinion or ourselves on women.
I think if youre living in a country and dating local men/women then you should adapt to their culture (within reason, of course).
Every dating culture has its pros and cons. My takeaway from this video is that Russian women are likely very hard work and require a lot of love/dedication.
I'm American and friends with benefits makes me sick 🤮
STOP you're making me want to go to russia and find a man.
Im here)
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@@olegmcrussian245 не знал что американцы так тащатся по русским)
@@olegmcrussian245 но знаю точно чего у них точно нету, так это духа)
@@revenge5318 американки ты хотел сказать
I chatted with one Russian man, next day he declared me as his girlfriend. When I said, we just friend, he can't take it, then keep asking why I reject him. If I continue chatting with him for a week, I think I already his wife, without I even realized it. But he is really nice guy and 10 years old young than me. Hehehe
American guy here, First you are gorgeous and second from your story you seem to be more chaste and moral than most American girls which is very surprising to me and respectable.
✌️Well done Sophia🙂Character counts❣️
this is so relatable...much love✌️
I'm french🇨🇵 I just wanted to hear the story of the French guy because I read the comments.
To avoid all the blablabla it's here : 9:34 😅
Not that it's worth the effort. 🙄 I thought the guy had offered some really dirty trick to her 🤣but no ! just a random guy with false expectations 🙄 (maybe the tanned type that we have in Paris)
On the other hand I think that girl is being a bit harsh on American guys and patriotic over Russian guys.
Anyways, nothing like a french lover 💕 she may have missed here opportunity that day !😉
Or maybe he missed an opportunity for a meaningful relationship with a great girl that would lead to that at some point 😉
Hmmm, seeing this makes me want to try dating a Russian man. I am American with a Hispanic background and have dated the american cliche and the Hispanic men and failed miserably:). Thanks for the video.
you’re so nice and i love this video! i’m subscribed now ☺️
Hello
I wish I could find a Russian guy in the U.S. Once I’m an adult and after I done with college.
IN THE USA, AMERICAN MALES ARE NOT MASCULINE
But you are latina? Aren't your man same as Russians or are they more like Americans?
In the U.S., some of us “older” guys do pay for everything on the date. When me and my wife were dating, I picked up the tab. Now some of the younger generation may “split the bill” but most of us old guys still go by the old rules and customs
Isn't it weird how the things russian women consider as "alpha" behaviour are seen as beta or weak or desperate in America
The french guy was kinda rude x) In France usually when a guy invites you to watch a movie in the evening at his place he wants to have sex and if you accept his invitation it means you want to have sex too ahah, it’s a tacit rule lol
Not sure what nerdy American guys she’s been around?? Lol. A man does not split here. Maybe split when you are young and broke. But I never have split. And if the woman tried to force us to split, I knew she wasn’t my type. I think we Americans are too honest. If we don’t know something, we say so. The USA is changing culturally so fast though, thst how I am is regarded as way old school. Now a days a guy in USA can wear a dress. Say he is a woman. But stilll dates only women. And probably expects the woman to pay for dates. You know because he is now a lady lmao. Things got complicated here. It’s why I moved to Serbia and was lucky to meet my wife. Though niw 3 years in America, I think the bs is rubbing off on her lol. She becoming a snow flake. I’m going to have to tell her mom ha ha
As an American man (as I’m sure is the same for a Russian) a lot has to do with the society they are in.
A few things you mentioned that you would have to live here to understand why they are. For example you said a Russian man will fight but an American man will not. I can’t speak on the Russian side but based on how I think most men act over there from tv there are little consequences to fighting. In America don’t fool yourself that the men don’t want to fight, but when you consider there is a very good possibility you will get arrested, go to jail, possibly lose your job it makes you think about what you do a little more. Is it worth all of those things just to fight and what is fighting really going to gain? Now grow up like that where you can’t really fight for important things and you don’t even think about fighting for the insignificant things I believe Russians would. I’m sure they would both be opposite if growing up in the others society.
The same goes to the aggressiveness of men. I’m the US being confident is great but being arrogant is a huge turnoff to both men and women. If you don’t know what you’re taking about don’t act like you do. Be who you are and not try to act like someone you’re not. When you say Russian men will say they know actually how to do something when they never did it to us in the US it is very annoying. Someone mentioned it reminds them of Arabic men which is a stereotype that we find a lot. Sure there’s times it will come off as confident but over the long term if you act like you know something you do not it will come out and in the end people will have less confidence in you and think you just have a big head and are just arrogant. That’s probably why you don’t find American men acting like they know everything, If we know about something we will be very confident but we don’t try to fake it. Again I just think it’s the society and culture.
This leads into the dressing up. American men are in general more casual but this fluctuates widely where you are at in America. There’s areas where jeans and a hoodie is absolutely fine while there are other areas where you would be extremely embarrassed. Overall I would say the more causal is more wide spread in America. Sounds like it’s just the society norm for Russian men to dress up with nice clothes and what not. I can see where this would be attractive for women. For American men I know some of the wealthiest people I know dressed very casual. When asked any they didn’t flaunt their money they all basically replied “who am I trying to impress by showing I have money? What does that prove anyway?”. This goes back to being who you are and what are the society’s norms.
Being persistent when trying to get a woman’s attention is fine. Being overbearing is considered creepy over here. Woman are strong with their freedom and not controlled. If they are interested you don’t need to pry it out of them. If they are not and don’t want the attention you don’t continue to be persistent, at that point you’re desperate.
For the Russian men are confident. I do see what you’re saying but when you tell me they call to check up on their girlfriends and constantly checking to see what they are doing that says otherwise. That says they are not confident although they act like they are. If they are confident they would think like American men “I’m a great guy, I treat her well, I have a lot to offer, and I’m (really) confident she really likes me. There is no reason for me to keep track of her. She will be honest while she’s is out and return to me.” To me checking up all the time shows you have doubts if you’re enough and insecure.
Hope this explains some of the social factors on this side of the pond.
A russian girl helped save my father's life in the concentration camp under Stalin. So, I want a Russian/Ukrainian lady. Sort of repaying the favor, and I have run out of marriageable American women to meet. I passed up all the good ones.i do get more than 100 letters every day on just 2 eastern European dating sites.
lol 100 letters...thats a business Arty
I'm looking for true love
How old are you
You look like me. I always am hit on in bars by Russian men. But if they are in the US I think they are up to something.
“they are more pushy or aggressive”
me: 😍
Russian women are beautiful
liar
All Asian guys are the same.😂
You’re pretty (not an Asian guy)
Some Americans want Crimea to join Ukraine. I read Internet news about Kyiv and researched other places on Google. Many of their citizens go on holiday by driving from kyiv to Crimea (a region which is mentioned in a gift proposal-Bill, which was never signed by Khrushchev). or to Odessa, Ukraine. At lawmaker's level and above, the Soviet Union was like a democracy (to it's lawmakers and leaders). Despite President Boris Yeltsin not seeing the 1954 Soviet bill , he already knew this much:: 1954 proposed bill was never signed by Khrushchev proposing to gift Crimea from Russia to Kyiv. This was why Yeltsin never ever tried to check who may have signed it:: President Yeltsin vowed to keep giving aid to Kyiv from 1992 onwards, plus cheap petrol and diesel and free heating oil or cheap heating oil plus rent - cash from Moscow to Kyiv. Why? Yeltsin said he did not want to see the Crimea bill document as Kyiv needed money, and knew 1954 bill document had insufficient signatures. Yeltsin said that if his new non-communist breed of lawmakers in 1992 were to see that the 1954 document was not signed by President Khrushchev, Yeltsin will be compelled by his young-turk minded lawmakers to stop paying rent to Kyiv, which Yeltsin didn't want to do. Yeltsin was aware that Khrushchev repeatedly told few number of civilian delegates of concerned Crimeans visiting him in his big office in Moscow over few time that KHRUSHCHEV NEVER SIGNED any document giving Crimea from Russia to Ukraine. Khrushchev used to say to visitor- Crimeans in his big Moscow office, "Just trust me! You all know me, I am Nikita Khrushchev! I did not sign any Crimea gift bill in 1954 or after 1954 removing Crimea from Russia." After fall of communism and the iron curtain, the people of Crimea and Moscow and other people wanted to see the actual document or bill that House and Senate lawmakers of 1954 (except two men) never saw, to see who signed it: Two ethnic Russians who were lawmakers (member of politburo) drafted the bill. They signed the draft copy of bill. But their parliament NEVER passed the bill into law with two- third majority where the president of the Soviet Union Nikita Khrushchev was supposed to have finalised the proposed bill into law, with his own signature. Yeltsin did say that if after Yeltsin's officials or newer lawmakers digs out the secret proposed bill of 1954 proposing gifting land, he will only hand over Crimea to Kyiv on a silver platter provided Yeltsin finds in future that his predecessor Nikita Khrushchev had actually signed it, :: with or without sufficient signatures of two-thirds of authorizing lawmakers. Nikita Khrushchev never signed this 1954 gift bill just like he promised Crimean delegations visiting him in his Moscow office while he was president. So the Crimea bill on gifting Crimea was not made into law, mainly because it was without the signature of Nikita Khrushchev. It just had the two signatures of the two ethnic Russian lawmakers who co-wrote the draft copy (probably as per orders and whims of Nikita Khrushchev) and only original of the proposed bill. Next, within 1954, the official(s) of Khrushchev filed the proposed Crimea bill in secret file cabinets for posterity without sufficient signatures::: they did not want to open a can of worms, where law-makers may have fist fights both at the House and at the Senate over the proposed bill gifting land. Khrushchev simply told lawmakers (member of politburo), "From now on, let's keep paying rent for Soviet bases in Crimea to Ukraine, as the Ukrainians need the money for other expenses. Lawmakers, please do not question why I am paying rent to Ukraine for Crimea military bases. Ignore that rumored Crimea Bill proposal, which will not be put up at your desks. Uh-uh! That bill will not come to your desks any more, for your approval. I Nikita Khrushchev never signed it. It's on a secret file cabinet." So, Ukraine got rent for properties it never owned for about 50 years.
How lives of americans change if Crimea join the Ukraine ? What's the point for them ?
This seems more like an age difference, I'm an American man in my 40s, I open the doors my woman, pay for the date, only have sex with one person at a time etc. The younger generation don't do this as often, and it goes for both men and women, partially cuz feminists have convinced them it's a bad thing to do, and partially cuz sex has become easy with apps etc, the culture has shifted in favor of cheap fun versus meaningful relationships.
How do you only have 2.5k subscibers?
My Russian Boyfriend is nothing like what youtube and media posts claim them to bem Yes when he wants to be Affectionate its when he wants to and only at home never in public.
We rarely ever go out and enjoy night on the town, he'll make excuses to stay in basement play video games.
He is guarded at family socials and rather not be there if can be avoided. My Russian boyfriend moved in 2 years and now 9 months after 4months dating and then the pandemic hit.
Yet now still no engagement, no ring to show, my family and friends think I'm wasting my time as if he were a real man he'd propose not jade me and drag me along with false hope of engagement. And yet, and yet he is living in my house I pay for and the bills to as rent through my family.
Only 2 months ago did he start helping with cohabitation house bills 50/50. Says I'll be his "Future Wife"....When its been well over 2 years + and I'm not waiting forever as we are in late mid 30's to settle.
I want to stay optimistic however financial a better job he claims he will attain when?, he says when things around the house are how he wants them.....uh seriously this is 21st Century reality check. Fact this is my house your more like a roommate by how you treat me yet say when I know I deserve better that I'm a girlfriend to him....does he even know what that means?
Every week with this attitude of its woman's job to do this or that, projects needing to be done to house he says he'll do or finish never get done. Yet he has audacity to tell me to do everything on time and how he wants them quickly done. This moving in to cohabitate then not help with the bills should have let him go a red flag there, said he didn't smoke and starts smoking 3 months in a lie and blames me for it ....another red flag. Everyone said I should have let him go at that point but I held onto hope.
2 years 9months in I bring up marriage and engagement and wanting a baby.....his comments every time "I don't think your ready" and "we have all the time in the world just a piece of paper" Just to get any affection from him its a joke and given up trying and have become numb to when he wants lovin time because he only wants it on his terms could not care less about my feelings and wants, noPe its all a game to him.
He'll say because I don't have the house how he likes it and cook clean how his mom does that he is waiting aka 'holding out on moving forward and him stepping up'.
I would think after years to assimilate her in U.S he'd understand a relationship means 50/50 and that includes place up keep, no woman who wants a relationship is going to be your maid-servant taking care of you like your mommy dearest.
While you deny her emotional and physical intmacy/love and use the "If its not how I want or like things" to hold back that essential part in a relationship. After a year and 6 months you should know where you stand and that this behavior is childish he can go back to his parents then.
If you won't meet her needs and wants, while making excuses not to change for the better and move the relationship forward like my Russian Boyfriends been doing, only so much to put up with before you cut him loose and move forward with your life.
You can try to be optimistic, however if the guy isint what's above in how Russian men are in a relationship call it reality check red flags 101.
If you ask him why he can't A. B. c. & D. in a supposed 1year + relationship then you know he is just lifting you up to keep you with him like a trophy and has absolutely no intent to take it to the next level this goes for a Russian Boyfriend in U.S or another for that matter .
If you give an ultimatum after two years of his 'manipulative-gaslighting-disrespectful-manchild-unrequented-fake-relationship boyfriend' he claims you guys have just so he won't be alone.
He'll push back in defense cause he's been caught. My boyfriend every time I bring it up he pulls this. He'll make any excuse to say your the reason its not working and not hold his actions and behavior in check.
Refusing an ultimatum shows he never wanted a serious relationship and didn't want to commit to you in the long run, just keeping you around till he finds a "delusional better ideal woman to play house with" .
Stop trying to please him and treat him like your married, no ring no engagement in sight after two years move on.
kick this loser out, he settled down very well, let him go home to mom
he won't marry you :) if he was interested in you, he would do everything that you described
totally agree with you !!
This channel called Russian chick 😂
Got netflix and chilled lmao
Hi!
Could you make a Spanish translation with subtitles for this video? The fact is that Latin girls are beginning to be very interested in Russian guys. I'm Russian by the way and I am married to a gorgeous Russian woman and I have a beautiful daughter growing up. But I know a lot of girls (young women) from Latin America (Argentina, Chile…) who wants to know more about Russian men.
Golden Offside с того, что mi ex novia es latina desde Argentina, tres de mis amigos rusos están casados con chicas latinas (desde Colombia, Ecuador, Uruguayo), una docena de mis amigos tienen novias latinas... yyyy ya! Conozco un montón de chicas de Latinoamérica que quieren conocer hombres rusos.
Curiosamente yo soy una de ellas, me interesan los hombres rusos :-)
I'm Mexican and I fucking love Russian men
@@lilamagna9991 a mi tambiennn mucho
I'm from Uruguay and I want this classical men style. I'm bored of how men are in my country. Romance is dead.
She sounds biased
“A man should be confidend because he’s a man” gotchu girl 😂😂😂
She isn't wrong.
@@glebb..3416 it’s a very stereotypical and childish statement or she meant it differently and phrased it wrong... but from how it comes off, it’s like saying “a dog should listen to it’s owner because it’s a dog”
It just doesn’t make sense if you think about it.
@@St3mi02 How does it not make sense? From where are you?
@@glebb..3416 I just told you why. Just because you’re a man doesn’t imply you should be confident. It applies to everyone...men, women, boys and girls. You should be confident no matter you gender or situation or anything. I don’t get what confidence has to do with being a man.
And to answer your second question, I’m europian. Czech republic to be more precise. And the reason why I wrote the first comment in the first place is because there is many men (including me) whose life situations, mental health conditons/issues and circumstances just don’t let them feel confident at all. So if you’re struggling in life as a man and don’t feel confident, according to her you’re not a man. And that’s just crazy to me.
Just to set things straight. I’m not “hating” on CONFIDENCE. Obviously confidence is a very good thing and everyone should feel that way.
@@St3mi02 true man, and here in russia this kind of statements ("men should be confident", "men should be strong" etc...) were very popular, because of this social roles back in USSR times. Now It's not that often when I'm receiving this kind of statements, but still. And I'm glad that this stereotypes passing away within the time
Srry for my grammar
Very nice presentation...when I was 14 a Soviet soldier in East Germany parted straight away with his little Russian-German dictionary and his photo to let me hv it. Fifty odd years later I met him, wife and family and all. Absolutely warm hearted people. I never forgot him and he remembered me too.
Der Gauleiter der Ukraine, Eric Koch, ist nicht zufällig Ihr verwandter? =)
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Edit: our second anniversary is in two weeks and since I’ve posted this comment a lot of things have changed. We have a completely different relationship now, where he appreciates me for my femininity that I was casting aside before due to a lot of reasons. He treats me like an absolute princess and I love being protected and provided for. We have a really traditional relationship now and it works amazingly for us. I was so focused on this idea of equality that I wasn’t letting him be chivalrous for me how he was thought to be and naturally tends to act. Now I don’t even have a single worry when we go anywhere as I know he’s got it. I hadn’t felt this safe and happy since I was a little girl. We are just different and the ways we can take care of each other are different. We are planning to get married once he’s able to support us comfortably
This is pretty accurate, my boyfriend is russian and oh boy is he an alpha male. He’s extremely loyal and caring and protective all amazing things but I did have to fight a lot to get him to consider me his equal and not something he owns. He rarely jokes and is super determined, I can’t be irrational with him everything has to make sense and be improved. It also took a really long time for him to open up to me, sometimes being his girlfriend feels like a job! But he’s amazing and I’m really happy
How do you like his accent? I am russian myself and wondering how american girls see it.
Janizary - I’m Italian but we do speak in English as he lives in Canada
He doesn’t have a really strong one, just on some words or when he’s tired. I personally really like it, I love when he speaks in Russian, his voice gets lower and I find it really attractive. His mom however has the strongest accent, it sounds a bit odd but I don’t mind it as I can still understand her
Janizary - The Russian accent is hot.
Rarely jokes? I’d get so bored. Russian accents are super hot though
He's also probably got many girlfriends 😂
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The Russian guy that i was seeing is such gentlemen, compared to the US ones
LOL:) But again, not all Russian guys are such gentlemen
Russian men are way better than Western men! They are awsome, very musculin
Sara Jasmine Russian men do not give freedom tho
@@MultiRingtail it depends from what kind of "freedom" you Want.. If you Want the freedom to go around from pub to pub and drunk till the morning with some slutty friends, or hanging out with other men That you claims to be just "friends", Like Western women do, Then I think That every normal Man Will not be happy about this. Stop bashing eastern Europe men, They are the sweetest People ever.
Sara Jasmine I’m actually half Russian myself
And what you are talking about is more likely to happen in Eastern European countries which is one reason why Eastern Europe is the highest in terms of alcoholism
wait till you date Swedish man they won't even talk to you afraid you may sue him😂😂😂
Wait fr? 😂 idk if that’s sweet or not
Poor guys :/
Wish French men were like that lol. They are so upfront & aggressive
Sweden is screwed the feminist movement has destroyed dating culture.
@@leftistcommunistsoyboy6757 Same here in the states. So much as flirting with someone is dangerous these days because of the obsessive sexual harassment culture. Then on top of that, everyone is socially dysfunctional and only interacts with their immediate social media circle. If you talk to someone in real life (especially a girl) they immediately fall back to "I have a boyfriend" or "creep" because they don't even know how to speak to another real human being.
HELP ME a Russian boy just admitted to me that he is usually cold, he admitted this in a real random moment so I think he wasn’t lying. But he never treated me in a cold way..OMG I WANT TO MARRY HIM
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I wish more American women and men for that matter were more honest and straight forward and treated sex as more sacred. It seems in Russia, most people are on the same page about what behaviors are expected between the two sexes. In the US, men and women are all over the place about what they expect in others and how to act around the opposite sex. Most people are indirect and try to imply how they feel while expecting the other person to be able to read various 'signals'. Love often becomes a stupid game of mind reading, figuring out what the other person expects, and figuring how to act in response to the other person's expectations
Haha. . . very true
Spot on
Thank you.
Exactly
1 Corinthians 6:9-10
I’m a Russian girl living in the US and agree with this video
Привет. Где в штатах, Я в Техасе.
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I’m a American man living in the us and I can not confirm. I’ll take yalls words
That’s so great and sweet, where do you base?
as a Polish i prefer man in Russian style :D i think that Polish men are much closer to Russian but more polite and it depends on region, family and
social environment. Spill the bill is so rude, even when im going out with my girlfriends one of us pays, next time another one. Polish men always pay in first date, but when it comes to next dates its depent on this men. I know that lots of Polish trying to be like West Europe people but i really dont like it.
@The Slavic World of Weles from Navia no wlasnie pisze ze to mi sie nie podoba, ale nie kazdy taki jest, wiec o co chodzi? Mozna znalezc normalnych ludzi, z wartosciami ale jest ciezko niestety.
I am an American Man, and got to know a Russian girl and everything you said is true. Russian girls want a confident man who is strong willed and shows no signs of a weakness. They like a guy to be clean cut, gentlemen who brings flowers all the time, and they expect you to be very serious about your life.
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That's the thing I don't like in Russian women - you need to be "somebody" or to show that you are this "somebody". You don't have an opportunity to be yourself
@@mikhailphilippov2862 excellent description
@@mikhailphilippov2862 i didn't understand
@@mikhailphilippov2862 they want you to be a confident self
I totally agree with you ..and your beautiful! I'm dating a Russian man and I'm sprung on him I'm falling for him hes tall handsome and very gentleman.. thanks
I'm American and I don't like my country's casual attitude toward sex at all.
As a Russian man living in America I can agree with this. Everyone always assumes I am not living in America my whole life because of how I behave and my traits. It's very obvious that I was raised to be a gentlemen, but still be a man. Compared to American men who were raised differently and have do not have same values.
Actually it depends on the heritage of this "american" (it's a nation of immigrants) and on the state he lives.
In the south we are raised to be a gentleman
@@mikhailphilippov2862 not all Americans are immigrants. Some Americans families have been here since the 1600s. They are the original Americans, and of course native Americans
But it's the same with girls, they both just have diferrent values.
What do you do in your life?
I’m a young guy in California... my family would agree much more with the Russian culture for young people. I feel like a fish out of water here.
Wow it must be hard especially in California but u should be proud u aren’t like the rest
Stay strong my brother in Christ. Or move to Russia, it’s much cheaper and they just said this week they are a sanctuary for conservatives fleeing woke countries. Easy application for residency.
I am Czech, and I think Russian woman are just very beautiful and feminine. They are not cheap, have great taste, know how to behave, talk, are educated...I am very inspired by them. And when it comes to men, unfortunately it is true, when we talk in stereotypes. Not everyone is like that, of course, but generally yes it is true and I agree with you.
@Ante D Well, it depends whether there is love or not, right?
@Ante D No, I don't and I am not looking for anyone. Good luck to you!
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Do you like women too?
Well...what can I say...some western issues which are good in the west in Russia mean...weekness.
In the west you can let her make own decisions and that means that you trust her and give her freedom. In Russia that means weekness, that you are not manly enough to take responsibility and to make a decision for both.
In the West you call psychologist if you have problems in the family, technician - if you need to repair something, police - if you met hooligans or see something against the law. You often need "third side" to solve your problems. In Russia that seems you're too week, that you can't solve problems by yourself. Btw snitching in Russia is awful. If you have to fight - you should fight.
100%. I’m Russian and I’ve dated an American guy. Once we discussed an interesting topic, that there’s something cunning about Russian nature :) The qualities that Russians appreciate the most are courage and resourcefulness. We think that just a lil bit of cheating and ability to solve problems in unusual ways even if you have no skills or knowledge, is a better way to survive.
And when I dated him I’ve realized, that it’s engraved in Western people’s minds that they have to be “good“ for everyone, do what’s “right”, to follow the rules, to listen to recommendations from certain authorities. And it REALLY did seem like a sign of weakness to me, like he couldn’t have his own opinion and be more flexible and free sometimes.
@@TheLouisan Well, it's because people in the West can live...but cannot survive.
In Russia there is quite an opposite thing - we can't live, but have a great experience of surviving. Tatars, swedes, Napoleon, germans, our own nobles, that enslaved us for 2 centuries, bolsheviks, 90-s...
The westeners didn't have any experience of surviving.
Yes, they follow the rules, but these rules are the rules of LIVING.
When you survive, you have to make a decision by your own and there is no time to search a paragraph of the "rules" that matches the current situation.
From the other side, you have to be "good" in Russia too. If you don't behave like a "real man" or a "real woman", you look strange. I'e. if you are a man and you like sewing or if you are a woman and you hate cooking.
@@mikhailphilippov2862 херово, на самом деле, мы так и будем выживать, пока другие будут жить. стереотипы это не оч хорошо, особенно в отношении женщин и мужчин
@@jesslishman Скажем так. Вот почему когда война или какие иные катаклизмы, то на Западе тут же выкидывают белый флаг, а мы воюем, боремся и побеждаем.
Но как только наступает мирная жизнь, то они на коне
Im from Russia, no wonder its hard for me to connect with American girls. They're too different, bad way
Move back to Russia comrade
I'm Chinese. I wonder about your experience
how different? how do you connect with Russian girls?
@AssixTV 1.4 billion population suggests their guys do have some appeal ))
@AssixTV not always true. Chinese guys in Russia can take Russian girls easily, but Russian guys can not date Chinese girls there. It is because of the money issue. Chinese girls are realistically hagglers in terms of money and citizenship. What you describe might be possible in America, because the American mass media and Hollywood played a mean role in disgusting Asian man’s attractiveness.
I believe what you’re referring to is related to the gender ratio inequality in China. That might be possible, because there’s too much man outnumber the woman.
Everything we know about Russian sexuality we learn from internet porn. That poor French guy must have been so confused to find that he couldn't just take you.
funny enuff most of them are either pornstars or escorters that willing to do everything to get $$$$
@@happysaladd8951 yeah sure, you met the 60+million women that live in russia. What a fuckin joke lol.
Why the hell is she talking about a French guy? She had no, or declared no experience with American men. Go to Iceland, Scandinavia, GB, Netherlands and you will find much more willingness and openness for such sexual attributes or behaviors.
It depends if a man is hot or not. She didn't liked him, her kitty was sleeping. That's why. Maube an italian would be better.
Yes, AND the French are sex monsters, we merely adopted the porn, they were born in it. Sad very sad
i'm living for the accent😗
I love this!!! As a solo female black traveler...I'm gonna be honest I ALWAYS develop a small temporary crush on the European men in the 8 countries I visited😂😂😂😂 I'm American and the guys in my city are TERRIBLE!!! I live in Baltimore and alot of them sadly lack father figures so in a way they have to 'raise themselves" which breaks my heart :(
Needless to say I love your video!!!! New subscriber here 🥰🤗
hmm...........
ZOGchilds is why
9 from 10 russian women would not date black boys
I am an Iraqi Arab, I love Russians very much, and I love the Russian man♥️♥️♥️
No wonder the guy tried putting the moves on you, youre absolutely gorgeous
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I love russian girls. They are so pretty and their accents are so attractive 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Well due to ur ethnicity I and immigration over their I don't think you would make it in but you could just find a Russian woman some in the west
Bro I'm Latino and same! Im heavily attracted to Eastern Europeans
Russian ladies are so effin beautiful... Cheers from Philippines 🇵🇭
I agree with a lot of what you're saying about American guys except that we don't chase because we have so many options. It's really because of radical feminism that labels guys who chase as 'creepy' or 'desperate' and American girls will be turned off by this behavior, while Russian girls (in my experience) love to see a guy working hard for them and it's a turn on.
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So if you don’t “chase” a Russian girl what will she think? She will lose interest?
@@paulbylina2271oftentimes, yes
I've found most Russian men to be nice and laid back, not pushy or aggressive. Also they do pay for the date even though I insist on paying my part. Russian women seem to expect A LOT of courting/gifts. It's unusual in American society for a woman (of any backgrounds to expect it). If the Russian woman gets too demanding with the American man, she will scare him away. Perfect example, Anfissa from 90 Day Fiance.
30 yrs ago they expected it. But at the same time, women in America actually acted like women in the past.
American women have to learn how to have standards. The issue, like the girl in the video said, is America being full of easy women making it easy for men to get sex with minimal effort hence why men don't want relationships anymore. Once women learn to shut their legs and make men chase and seduce them again, they'll continue getting bare minimum 50/50 dates where the guy acts more like a friend than a potential husband.
It's the Russian women that makes the man be aggressive. She will try to seduce him then say "this man keeps bothering me" They expect to say no and the guy still persue her. It's a little of both- also Russian men more like that. But I guess once the Russian man gets around normal girls then he will act more laid back and normal.
@@doomslayer1984 women in the past in america used to get beaten up and it was accepted
@@native_tendencies7305 So what? Do you really think that only happened in the US?
Interesting♡ I'm 16 and idk but I've been obsessed with Russian men and culture for like 2 years now...🤦🏼♀️ like even when they speak it's hot🙊
Ikr it hurts
same!
You're very easily impressed obviously!
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where are you from?
I am an older American woman and think I've only paid or split the bill 2 or 3 times. If a man likes you, he _wants_ to pay for your meal or spend money on you. Most American men want to use women for sex and think a $20 dinner guarantees that. Depends on how the man was raised, of course.
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American men are really femenized, that's why
I feel like I would pair better with a Russian woman, my last girlfriend (American) hated when I tried to make any decision for us like where to go to eat
There are two types of American men. Country guys and city guys. Country guys are traditional and are confident alpha males. They make up the majority of men who join the military and fight our wars. The city guys are more docile, timid and are beaten down by feminism. Of course, these guys are the young urban professional types. There are other urban guys who grew up in poor neighborhoods and are a little rougher. Then again, they might have grown up in broken homes and could have criminal backgrounds.
Very true...
So true. However, I'd say the whole "alpha male" part about country boys is more something that we joke about. Though yes... there are some that are annoying like that around here.
Very true...
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do you mean whites or blacks?because there is a difference in behavior between a white man and a black man. The black man is not as affected by mainstream and feminism as the white man. Most of these things are aimed mainly at whites.
@@MedioGypsy you spoke the truth.
Your story is a bit ridiculous about dating a french guy, because most russian guys would also expect you to have sex after several dates and then agreeing to go to their place. If you don't like a guy you shouldn't keep dating him and wasting his time, and if you really like him you can tell him honestly that you're really attracted to him but you're not ready for sex, but you do like him, if he really likes you too he'll probably understand and wait. but in your case it sounds like you like attention and free dinners with guys you have no intention to be with even in the long term and that's dishonest, so don't be surprised when guys are confused or annoyed by your actions.
I'm not American but yes russian ppl are way too serious 😳
Are you Russian?
@@fromchopin no, why? But I know some Russians
@@livics610 you have a pretty profile pic so I just thought I’d ask 😊
@@fromchopin awww 10x
But I am (South-)Eastern European, Balkan actually. Romanian
@@livics610 damn.. wish I lived there 🥰
Good for you to keep your standards no matter where you are! You didn’t fall trap to him. And I think you’re pretty spot on with most of this. No idea how it could be offensive to anyone.
Not true American men such as my self will fight for the girl I did for my wife and still will if need be
Not many of us are left tho in America.
U dont seen russian men, when you see a Russian you cross to the other side of the road, don't make me laugh XD
you're just different man
@@freak-vr5ss Im just Russian, believe me the Russians have more spirit
I think Russian man are so handsome 😍 I don't have a chance 🤣
Yes, they are)
Actually you have 70-90%😀
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Haha french men are scary 🤣🤣
I have always been confused by Russian women who say they must split the bill on a date. I have never known a situation where I would expect a women to pay half. This is extremely unusual to split the bill.
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Agree agree AGREE!!
My Russian man treats me like a princess, but I never dare to take advantage of him. He is protective, honourable, honest, smart, deep, generous and very handsome. Much better than the Australian men who are all soft and sensitive 😆
EDIT: He turned out to be a simp. EW.
But I’m American.. hi
@@Pankaj-ti8rv what the H€LL are you even talking about??
Australian men are probably the worst out of all men on earth 😂. Even more so than American x3
What is a simp? Too submissive?
@user-xq7pd8dz5j yeah. Being submissive as a man at all. Lacking masculine frame
I lived in St Petersburg for a while. I absolutely loved the city & people. Anytime I would go out with a female, even if it wasn't a "date", I always paid for our coffee, museum tickets, maybe shaverma, etc while we were walking and talking. The girls couldn't believe that as an American, I was willing to pay for everything. I was confused by this but they told me that every foreign guy they have ever met all wanted to split costs on dates. I couldn't believe that any man could be among so many beautiful & brilliant women and not want to show appreciation for their time & company.
OMG OMG you're so cute>
beautiful & brilliant women - lie, russians are not pretty and very accessible
@@alexandrp125 are u from Russia?
@Nicholas Millington But I married one 😉. Hard not to date a person that you didn't previously date. But thanks for the meager troll attempt and fail 😘
I am a Russian woman and I think we are the best. In the East and in the West.!:)
Well hi
The thing is, don't go "watch a movie" with a french guy if you only want to watch a movie, especially at his place, because he certainly doesn't want to watch any movie unless you are only friends lol nothing to do with being in the us
Same in Mexico lol
Same in every country I guess (except for Russia) lol
why to call it "watching a movie" then?
@@valentinabarrientos in Russia watching a movie is watching a movie.
@@user-xo5zt3ig6h I like that. Direct and sincere
Somehow your channel appeared when l opened my UA-cam bookmark. Perhaps because l am already subscribed on three other Russian sites, all of them l love tremendously for their rich perspectives of life generally, and of life in Russia..
I am Polish and have also lived and studied in America, so l must begin by saying all Russians should take the deeply rooted anti-Russian statements from Washington with grave seriousness. It is my observation that Russophobia is deeply rooted throughout America and it would not matter who is in power in Moscow, the hostility by American rulers to your country would be the same. For myself, as a Pole l wish your people peace, good health, prosperity and happiness. Please do not be so hard on your country (as many of my fellow Polish are) but if you are unhappy with the government demand changes--peacefully. Women in Poland came so close to achieving rights for themselves and failed. They should have taken to the streets to achieve full equality for everyone, something that would have struck the hearts of all Polish. (Well, l have digressed, a problem of mine. One subject at a time.)
I would like to comment at greater length because you brought up very interesting comments and for the moment do not have time to answer every point. However, you did quote directly from your reading of how Americans relate to each other, from what source l have no idea, but it is my view that the article you quoted is absolutely true. The question is, how does this phenomenon effect American society, is it good or bad? My own conclusion is that it is a serious indication (or mirror) of the disintegration of America.
Intimacy is a highly evolved characteristic, a necessary trait for the establishment of social stability. It is actually biologically desirable that human relationships be monogamous, whether for life (soul mates who are strongly and happily attracted to each other because of their intimate compatibility across all dimensions of interests) or for shorter durations time periods (serial monogamy, mating that results from a couple "testing the waters", by living together for however long is needed to determine if they are compatible or not.)
And if not, a difficult break-up, but preferable if lifelong unhappiness is to be avoided. Then the ongoing struggle to find a true partner.
But Americans are, to borrow a word you used this video, Americans have no investment in creating a communal life, where people care about each other. People call each other "friends", but those relationships are as hollow and empty of meaning just as much their sexual encounters. In many cases they are also intoxicated "in bed" so what is the point? The coupling, if one could call it that, is utterly meaningless. I had one relationship with an American women and it taught me never again to trust, much less date an American. Not to attempt to befriend someone, because to have an American "friend" (male or female) was to open the door to constant disappointment. They are always happy on the surface, but mostly they are superficial and even selfish.
So to summarize, that quote was absolutely correct. My experience of America is that it is a soulless desert. One gigantic Las Vegas. It is in the end my opinion, no more or less. But it is based on my experience.
I will respond to your other points later, after watching the video again. You made very interesting comments.
Wow. Such a good prospect, thank you for this. I'm russian so I like reading people's opinions on culture and backgrounds of my country, especially from eastern europeans. You mentioned russophobia in american society (not like it was surprising) and I wonder how bad it is in Poland. And the comment itself felt like essay, more true than documentaries. Again, thank you
@@jesslishman It was pleasure to respond with at least one reverse angle perspective, that based upon close, long duration observations and [US] continent wide travel. My universal experience when befriended by Slavic peoples of any nationality is their kindheartedness and hospitality. We live in precarious times and unfortunately, the leadership of most Eastern/central European governments is run by a conspiracy of fools, detached from their publics and unhinged in their animus to neighbors. At the moment, it is the people of Ukraine, Russia and Poland who are suffering the most as a result of Western meddling in their affairs.
@@walterzielinski6654 true. Government is what separates the younger and older generation in my country now. someday patience would have to break, but with our mentality, mass dissatisfaction won't grow into something more than mass dissatisfaction, unless we get rid of our soviet past that weighs on us. People who want the latter are called russophobes, but as its known, the most russophobic country is Russia itself
@@jesslishman It saddens me terribly to read that last sentence, but I understand where it comes from. My own younger countrymen are more anti-Polynizm than the people I met in a America a few decades ago. But why do we share the same predicament? It goes back to the disintegration of CCCP and every country among the former Sov satellite states welcoming Western 'input' into the liberalisation of their economies. Walesa last one 5 year term in office, enough to disable the economy. But Yeltsin [I believe] was improbably elected to a second term so that foreign finance could loot Russia's wealth and plunder its social welfare system, an indifferent, often drunk but significantly enriched President should be blamed as much as the Sov system that existed before.
If today we live in a time of intense torment, then it is not because we failed but because of the West. Think of it, the war in Ukraine is being fed by $40 billion of American weapons assistance being given directly to extreme right-wing militias, Zelensky, whatever his campaign promises, unable or unwilling to stop it. But he loves the media attention however, portrayed by Polish journalists as a heroic figure. 🙄 Honestly, I cannot persuade friends and relatives to look back to our country's rich history to consider what we as Poles could have achieved on our own without the help.of the EU.. I believe that is true for Russia as well, and every satellite state within Moscow's former orbit.
I am sorry for rambling on so long. Your reply was a welcome opportunity to ventilate my feelings. My sincere best wishes with your video channel endeavours and, as well, for a quick end to this tragic war.
In USA if some guy invites you to his place regardless what, they are expecting sex or at least “making out”...I know a Russian guy friend and he sleeps around doesn’t wanna settle down 😂 he said he doesn’t like to date Russian women because they are all about money. Actually Asian women too, they expect men to pay most, but American guy usually expects half half esp in marriages unless he is super rich or women stay home
fu*ck USA
Im a girl from Hong Kong. I hate the asian dating culture too, some women here expect their boyfriends to treat them like goddess and obey to everything they said. Some men expect their girlfriends to be the typical ‘feminine girl’
This is why I want a conservative man, with biblical values and uses those values in how he treats others and his future wife. I am a conservative myself and yet whenever i go out or even when I go on social media, it’s all about sex and one night stands and getting recklessly drunk/high.
Like it’s so irritating to see what is being pushed on our generation and how it affects the way people here in America see relationships. I just want a loyal, faithful, Christian man who will respect me and love me and I will do the same for him. Because it’s not one sided. BOTH people in the relationship have to show their partner the same love they want to be given.
It’s just so hard to be able to trust people in today’s society. Everybody just cares about themselves and their own pleasures, and no one wants to make sacrifices for anything or anyone. No one wants to be responsible. It’s all about me, me, me.
*sigh*
@@remingtonbennett I don't think you should have used the word "some", coz those types of woman and man exist in every country. Words such as "in general , majority, vast majority, most" are probably more adequate in your context.
We’re all different
I like this video more than all the others that addressed dating Russian men. I have a date with a Russian man tomorrow! Thank you! I just subscribed!
Hello
Since Russian guys are more shy with emotions, do they comfort when a woman cries or just like watch her cry? Do they get angry when their woman cries? Does a woman just hold it in and never cry? I’m very curious
I don't care if it's just manipulation. I'll try to do what I can if it was for real.
not shy with emotions, its insecurity.....they would be dismissive of waterworks from a female, it would be interpreted as you trying to embarrass him or manipulate him. yes you live a life of silent despair if you take one of them. good luck
Of course they won't get angry and comfort a woman and of course It's totally ok for them to cry.
Sorry to say that but your small Ego is so Attacked. All you are herein for is to bash russian man. U seem to me like a simp living in his mommys basement, cause you write the same bs over and over again, that russian man are insecure ( in general) . Its the Biggest bullshitt ive ever heard.
Here a psychological fact for Rick soyboy
"Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times" - G. Michael Hopf.
I live in an area with a traditional Hispanic and Native culture. We're completely different than standard US guys then. And trust me, few are shy weak or beta in any way. That sexual harassment thing is unfortunately even here. I'm in Northern Arizona.
no kidding lol that sex harrassment goes hand in hand with delusional self evaluations
Since she’s getting her Search info from a Russian IP address, you’ll get information more favorable from your location. That’s a FACT.
I know this because it’s my Job.
Yes that's true. Though she is getting at least some of her info based on her own personal experience.
Sthu
Привет, хорошо фильм! Мой Русский не хорошо, я пытался - я учусь. Вы очень прекрасны! До свидония!!!
Для начала неплохой русский. все получиться.
Not bad, Im Russian, if you want I can give you a little Russian training
Ah I don't know why I'm just seeing this, but this is so accurate. I'm Russian/Lithuanian and I've been in relationships with both Russian and American men and Russian men are so incredibly alpha male. They're very giving and gift you a lot and can be so protective, but American men have a bit more respect and don't control you. My current long term boyfriend is mixed Islander/Spanish from Texas and he's significantly more respectful and kindhearted and given than any Russian man I've dated. I just feel like a lot of Russian men really fall into aggressive stereotypes and I can't stop being reminded of my father haha. It's nice that Russian men are super confident and it's very attractive, but my Texan is doing just fine with all that. Love this video and you!
@@thistagworked agreed. I'm pretty neutral/liberal leaning but regardless I still like a partner who has a bit of old fashioned gentleman in him. Like yes I'm a woman and I should be equal as a human but like take care of me and spoil me a bit haha 😂 California men annoy me, I've been living in CA too damn long.
@@thistagworked I mean that's a pretty harsh generalization, the majority is liberal but there's a lot of people here who aren't on that end of the spectrum. A lot on the other end tbh.... And nah I'm likely staying pacific northwest area but def out of California. I already got a Texan man, that's enough for me. I can't do the heat 😂
hey i have few questions
are all russian men super confident or just confident.
and dosent the persistent part of a man push you off beacause you feel that you won him over?
@@nios7700 personally, I don't really like the persistence. To a point it's okay but Russian men sometimes seem to forget about boundaries. (Though living in America I've actually found that American men are a bit worse on the respect level as compared to Russian men). Most Russian men I've met are insanely confident, but even if they're not super alpha, they're still confident. There's not much sensitivity and touchy feely topics in Russian culture like american culture, so boys grow up a bit more emasculated than here
@@alicetsvinev2776 dont you feel that you way more get attention from men in the us so you dont see it as valuable(compliments and or gifts?) or being persistent you feel done with a man too available ?
I think American men don't chase women like Russian men because it wouldn't work & it would likely backfire.
Also, many American women are offended if you offer to buy them things. A few days ago a woman refused to let me buy or even split the cost of a plan b after we had sex. I've come across that a few times now.
This video was very interesting, I was expecting sex to be more liberal in Russia because of how much people say the US is weird about sex.
Plan B potentially kills a (baby) human being.. 😭😱😡
As an Italian myself I really see my person and all the guys I know in the Russian's traits... To me, the new America culture is weird and hypocrite: a few months ago I dated and American girl in Rome, she was talking about toxic masculinity and so on... Sister, putting nail polish on my fingers doesn't scream "My sexuality is confident"... I am what I am, I don't need to show the world my tastes. Two hours later she was staring at me, drooling on my elegant outfit and classic Italian manners... Make up your mind lady ahahah
i’m sorry for that man, we american men are so tired of the american women that we just date foreign women
It’s so weird to see the guy version of my name lol
Also, there’s a word for the girl you were describing. It’s called acting “woke”. Which is sadly a popular thing here in America. (ESPECIALLY on social media and with rich company advertisements)
Basically it’s virtue-signaling, but not really caring enough to do anything other than “talk” and complain about whatever they think is a pRobleM.
For example, “toxic masculinity” and the two faced, hypocritical reaction you got from that girl.
Sounds like you got a HIPPIE/liberal chick....Those women will end up lesbians or single or both.....
@@Laking1234 the women out here forced all the men to go rose-color pilled