The #1 Shift to Saving Your Marriage (Developing The Antithetic Mind)
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- Опубліковано 7 сер 2024
- THE #1 SHIFT TO SAVING YOUR MARRIAGE (DEVELOPING THE ANTITHETIC MIND)
In this video, I want to show you the #1 and most crucial internal shift to develop that will do wonders in saving your marriage, as it has for myself and thousands of my clients.
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0:00 - The Antithetic Mind
1:27 - What is the Antithetical Mindset?
3:11 - The Difference Levels of The Antithetic Mind
10:47 - The Implications of the Antithetic Mind
16:18 - How to Cultivate the Antithetic Mind
20:59 - Additional Resources For You
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Hi Geoffrey, I love all of your videos. It's been 6 months and I'm still watching your videos. I actually learned a lot. I appreciate you giving us this free content. I learned to make the negative feedback loop and turning it into positive. My ex-girlfriend and I split up six months ago, and after rewarding her with positive feedback, she is actually less angry and resistant. And she said last week that she's busy and doesn't want me to visit her, and she also said that we would talk at the right time. It kind of pressures me a lot about what will happen in the future. I'm still building my bulletproof mindset and not being tethered to the outcome and to certain events that might happen in the future.
Hey Christian. How are you guys today?
Yk I was thinking about this and came to the occlusion of having to make it a habit. We're probably thinking way too much in the process than the actual practice we have in our hands. What's your opinion on this? I should be joining the program soon to actually get the deeper things that I'm still not understanding! I'm such a hard egg to crack even to myself like wtf!
every time I watch geofferys videos Im literally mindblown ALWAYS
Im always like ohhhhhhh.
Keep up the amazing content
Thanks buddy! Awesome to hear :)
seriously.
Amazing program. I am still in the first phase and the things I have been able to accomplish in my life ever since have been life changing.
Hell yeah! So much more to come in Phases 2-6 of the program!!
Geoffrey I need your help. I was in no contact for two months with my girlfriend( distance relationship). She started contacting me telling me she love me
, miss me quite a few times. So decided to go and meet her. I've booked my flight and i told her that I'm coming but what happen was like that night she was happy and was welcoming me to come but the very next morning she told not to come she needs more time. Should I just go or cancel my trip??? Please help
@@sezolcho4379 bro literally do what you would wish to happen if that were you.
I love your videos. I am a woman and I am learning a lot. You convey things in a manner that is so objectively logical that is comprehensible yet explaining quite complex nuances involving the layers of identity and consciousness. Beautiful work you're doing out there. ❤️
Love it! Appreciate it and I am glad you're finding value!
Yes 100%
My comment is, simply thank you.
How much each of you give and how little each of you take for granted, will determine the success of a relationship.
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Pray for me I want to be a great man father and husband I've been working for 3 months i want her back cause I've realized how this is all my fault because of the victim mindset and low self esteem....I pray she takes me seriously and reconciles because of the leader I strive to be
Your a genius!
The circles and the video were great examples. What a shame people are more complicated than numbers because I got the answer within 5 seconds.
Try having a personality where your identity changes moment to moment and you are a truth seeker….sure it’s good in some ways, but also leaves your exhausted at times
That is why we prioritize internal shifts and identity shifting. Most people are imprisoned by their own rigid sense of identity.
Like I said, true freedom and power is when you are able to break free of your shackles so that you can become whoever you want to become, to accomplish whatever it is you want to accomplish.
man i can imagine it must be frustrating seeing you have created something to revolutionary and game changing yet people constantly misinterpret you
Haha. You know what they say - Even if you can walk on water, people will still criticize you and say that you can't swim. :)
There will always be critics, and haters, but at the end of the day, my 1,000+ clients we enroll per year and their success stories speak for themselves!
Most coaches and professionals steer away from these tougher topics as it brings critics, but I want to teach you guys the things that actually work (not just what sounds good).
UNIQUE IMPORTANT VIDEO, you're not going to find this anywhere else
one thing i struggle with is where is the balance? if only one is this truly neutral, inquisitive balanced then how to fight the fatigue of when it isn't matched....
Internal shifts always need to be coupled with effective frameworks. When the 2 are done masterfully, you change the whole environment and culture of your relationship & communication.
And history and many studies (including the experience of thousands of my clients) always suggest that when you change the whole environment and culture, you'll be surprised at how much your partner's behavior changes along with it.
Watch any and all of my client stories, they will tell you the same pattern, regardless of what their situation is.
So worrying over "who does more" is just playing victim and a waste of time & energy (Focused on the true, but useless), especially when there can be a lot done, and when you can channel your time and energy to change the environment or culture of the relationship.
One approach feels good in the short term (to pin the blame on others and away from yourself) but leads nowhere. The other may be difficult to hear at first, but always leads to growth.
@@GeoffreySetiawan Im having the same struggle with shifting completely into being ok with the unbalance.
It makes sense psychologically. I'm finding the complacency of it not connecting emotionally my biggest challenge.
Bottom line, I feel like I'm training myself to settle for less than.
@@racheljohnson1356 See my comment above :) Get busy playing victim & blaming, or get busy doing something about it!
Get busy succeeding despite...
Or get busy failing because...
:)
Important revellation for me
"wrongfully certain"
That is me
This is my ex fiancé. I like your videos because it makes me feel not insane for everything I went through. Not gonna send him helpful videos anymore because you can bring a horse to water but can’t make it drink. If I sent this video to him he’d how this doesn’t apply to him”. So I give up
I have so many regrets. I lost the love of my life and she sent me stuff like this all the time and I said the same thing your ex did. It wasn’t until I lost her that I actually opened up my mind to these videos. I went back and watched them all and it broke me. I was so wrong and thought I was right. I believe it’s ego and pride. I’m sorry you went through that and I will always be sorry to her even now it hurts deeply and it’s been 3 years.
@@tittos9651 it’s been a year and a few months since we broke up. Other hurtful things have transpired but I still love him deeply. Some days I wish he just show up on my doorstep, but i know if he hasn’t implemented the changes in his life, we will never work. So, I say all this to say, if you feel like you have been doing the internal work and making the changes, I would not give up on her unless she’s already with someone else… But only try again if you know you’re in a better place and doing it for the right reasons, and not just out of guilt or to ease your conscience.
I’m finding it very difficult to have a more antithetic mind set after my partner had an affair and some other lies came out. We’re trying to work through it but ever since it happened, because I distrust her words and feelings, I feel like I have to constantly stay sharp to any lie and be able to intérprete lies. How do I fix this ? I used to approach things with curiosity, openness and I feel so fooled that I’m on edge now and project a lot of negative assumptions.
Look up my videos on untetheredness, bulletproof mindset, and paradox of change.
Just tell her I think If I felt neglected or unheard I would look for attention other places too, I have felt that way before , is that what you are feeling? I want you to know I'm here for you and we can work together to get thru this.
Did you raise the fee for the program from 2k to 3k?
Yes, and we will most likely raise this to $6,000 by the end of the year.
6k I don’t think so;)
@geoffry setiawan is this all applicable if I cheated on my girlfriend and want to make it work?
Hi Emmanuel,
Let me ask you, based on this video you just watched you tell me. Is learning these skills and mindsets applicable in all situations?
Check out below my list of clients who have come from very dire circumstances to now having the relationships of their dreams.
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