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  • Опубліковано 20 бер 2021
  • Alex and Oliver head to Hampshire in a bid to help save the Nook and Cranny Restaurant. Having spent his professional career as head chef in other people's kitchens, Malcolm decided to fulfill his ambition to run his own restaurant. But three years down the line his dream of having a successful business to support his wife and seven children is now keeping him awake at night, and working all hours to put his passion on a plate is costing him dearly.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 233

  • @mogrey8538
    @mogrey8538 2 роки тому +108

    That kitchen is immaculate. I hope these people are still in business and extremely happy.

    • @italianstallion9170
      @italianstallion9170 Рік тому +6

      my would be immaculate if it was never used..!

    • @jaylaw5969
      @jaylaw5969 Рік тому +3

      ​@@italianstallion9170 ouch!

    • @martinfpavey
      @martinfpavey Рік тому

      @@italianstallion9170 Mine* not my and you don't need the ".." before the !

    • @pamelalalaable
      @pamelalalaable 10 місяців тому

      ⁠@@martinfpavey you don’t need the “ before and after the .. either.

  • @womanonabicycle
    @womanonabicycle 2 роки тому +37

    I just love how Alex is always so kind.

    • @zsigzsag
      @zsigzsag Рік тому +2

      She didn't used to be. In some older shows she was the, "Gordon Ramsay" of the hotel business (before he got into it).

  • @rafaeltorres4728
    @rafaeltorres4728 2 роки тому +57

    He is cooking better and with more confidence than many of Masterchef's contestants.

    • @martinfpavey
      @martinfpavey Рік тому +5

      Yes indeed! His enthusiasm leaps off the screen. He really cares and he's a nice guy too.

    • @tmfromdenmark9158
      @tmfromdenmark9158 Рік тому +2

      The contestants in Masterchef are amateurs.

    • @akashmukhopadhyay9335
      @akashmukhopadhyay9335 Місяць тому +1

      Those are contestants, he is a trained chef.

  • @shaunna6673
    @shaunna6673 Рік тому +46

    Upon Googling, this restaurant appears to be doing well in 2023. I'm glad I looked it up instead of taking other comments of it being closed to be true. I wish them every success!

    • @akashmukhopadhyay9335
      @akashmukhopadhyay9335 Рік тому +3

      Malcolm tried to take his own life & disappeared twice after the show but much before the pandemic. He did check himself into a mental institution.

    • @2009MrsJones
      @2009MrsJones Рік тому +3

      Doing great with new owner! 🎉

    • @janetroberts2262
      @janetroberts2262 11 місяців тому +4

      It may be doing well but under new ownership

  • @rafaeltorres4728
    @rafaeltorres4728 2 роки тому +57

    I love Alex's shows. You feel happy and cheerful seeing the progress. This family os lovely! God bless them ❤️

  • @davidsmith7653
    @davidsmith7653 Рік тому +10

    The kitchen is immaculate, in fact the whole place. Cleanliness is one of Gordon Ramsay's pet peeves and he'd be ecstatic for a change. Clearly the guy is a well experienced head chef. The restaurant has all the basics in place.

  • @mariawerner8447
    @mariawerner8447 2 роки тому +15

    They don’t seem to have much business sense…Letting people bring their own bottle to a licensed restaurant when they’re desperate to make money??

  • @stefanomazzon4075
    @stefanomazzon4075 2 роки тому +25

    Wow , were these people lucky to find Alex when they did , weeks from closing down !
    Very good chef , turned it around , food cost so important , redesigned the restaurant , and hey presto !
    The restaurant business is a continual labor of love!
    Brava Alex
    Saluti Stefano !

  • @monicdavis6150
    @monicdavis6150 2 роки тому +27

    A restaurant and 7 kids no wonder she is crying. I’m hoping for their success. They have me nervous!

    • @suzymarshall4898
      @suzymarshall4898 Рік тому +8

      Yeah. 7 kids. How could you spend enough time with each of them even if you didn’t run a restaurant?

    • @akashmukhopadhyay9335
      @akashmukhopadhyay9335 Рік тому +2

      @@suzymarshall4898 Malcolm tried to take his own life & disappeared twice after the show but much before the pandemic. He did check himself into a mental institution.

    • @mindgames470
      @mindgames470 Рік тому +6

      typical one person's dream and the other getting dragged along kicking and screaming situation. 7 kids! and he expects his wife to be working too? I mean, come on! blows my mind that they kept having children after buying the restaurant and not making any money. way to set your children up for life.....

    • @fullyasleep8209
      @fullyasleep8209 6 місяців тому +2

      I know right, I gasped when they said 7 kids…no wonder she doesn’t want to be there , bless her

    • @FigaroHey
      @FigaroHey 3 місяці тому

      @@suzymarshall4898 When you have several children, they tend to entertain (and even look after) one another. The more kids you have, the easier parenting gets precisely BECAUSE they are not all looking only to YOU for all their needs and whims every minute of the day. The older ones keep an eye on the younger ones, and all the kids play together and keep each other occupied. The most work is one child - who has nobody but the parents to turn to for every little thing in life. Two children is much easier if they get along: they play together and the older one naturally will alert you if the younger one is getting out of hand. And when you have three or four, they can help you with all kinds of chores around the house (working together with parents is one of the times good conversations happen with children), and you have far less work to do as they get older. I have a friend who has four kids, ranging from 17 down to 10. She does almost no housework anymore. The kids have been doing it for some time (they've been raised to enjoy doing things around the house and they feel accomplished and valuable in the family because of their contribution). The kids take care of the animals. The kids at least help with cooking, and the youngest loves cooking ON HIS OWN and often will chuck everyone else out and take over the kitchen to prepare meals on his own voluntarily. Since he was ten years old, the oldest one has taken notice of what's needed from the shop and gone on his own to pick up milk or bread, etc., when the family is running low. He's also always kept a watchful eye on younger siblings, without being asked. In a big family, everyone pitches in and helps, and the parents actually have less stress. And the kids are less demanding because they have each other to talk to and spend time with. People who have never been around a big family always think it's a massive crime against humanity to have more than 1.5 children. They just have no clue how well it actually works. Of course, the wife being at home would be very helpful and probably her real desire.

  • @user-wm7wj5vl3v
    @user-wm7wj5vl3v 10 місяців тому +4

    Bring your own bottle is not allowed anywhere in Scandinavia! It’s very difficult for restaurants to make money from food, so drinks are where they make their profit! Why on Earth did he allow customers to bring their own alcohol??

  • @williamf4544
    @williamf4544 Рік тому +23

    Malcolm is amazing i hope he is feeling better and doing well now after all the horrible lock downs and stuff that changed so many of out lifes in many ways

    • @akashmukhopadhyay9335
      @akashmukhopadhyay9335 Рік тому +4

      Malcolm tried to take his own life & disappeared twice after the show but much before the pandemic. He did check himself into a mental institution.

    • @tmfromdenmark9158
      @tmfromdenmark9158 Рік тому +3

      He is a nice guy, but it was only his dream, not Christines …… They have 7 kids 😮
      It is not fair to her at all

    • @withgoddess
      @withgoddess 10 місяців тому

      ​@@akashmukhopadhyay9335Proof?

    • @akashmukhopadhyay9335
      @akashmukhopadhyay9335 9 місяців тому

      @@withgoddess internet search

  • @susanelainesanner
    @susanelainesanner Рік тому +7

    Still experiencing intermittent wafts of PTSD embedded in my eyes and ears from having watched Gordon Ramsey several hours over my tolerance level (I no longer watch), I find Alex and Oliver knowledgeable, experienced, helpful, enabling and oh, so refreshing. I just found this series today. It is a good day. Thanks for posting.

  • @hillfarm7044
    @hillfarm7044 2 роки тому +63

    As a farmer I love how Alex and Oliver educate chefs on importance of local. I find it surprising that 80% of customers say local is important. I don’t think they are American opinions- folks over here don’t know what fresh tastes like. New customers are also surprised that our produce tastes good.

    • @a697ag
      @a697ag 2 роки тому +11

      This comment makes me sad. I think it's a matter of which part of the US as in the NY/NJ area where I live farm to table restaurants, eateries that source local are something customers really look for and appreciate. Not everyone of course but as my auntie used to say "that's why God invented Fords and Chevies"

    • @angelbulldog4934
      @angelbulldog4934 2 роки тому +11

      I grew up on a family farm on the east coast of America (of Welsh/English heritage). Nothing like fresh produce (only heirlooms and cow manure to fertilize), eggs, milk (unpasteurized), butter...we had little money but when we sat down to eat, I thought we were royalty! You're performing such a valuable service to your area. I hope they appreciate you. Nothing from a box or tin can compare. God bless you and your family.

    • @sonaterese799
      @sonaterese799 2 роки тому

      @@a697ag Love your Grndma's saying

    • @annother3350
      @annother3350 2 роки тому +3

      Sometimes you just need a bit of Ras El-Hanout -- dont sue me!

    • @daviddenham1511
      @daviddenham1511 Рік тому +1

      No, just clueless

  • @akashmukhopadhyay7992
    @akashmukhopadhyay7992 2 роки тому +20

    The children are angelic, dears please pray for your parents success. Great episode and adorable family.

  • @cherbrowne1637
    @cherbrowne1637 2 роки тому +19

    Huge thank you for this. Alex is a joy to watch.

    • @hunkhk
      @hunkhk 2 роки тому +3

      yup, love her

  • @michaelgreer4790
    @michaelgreer4790 2 роки тому +15

    Alex is a true wonder.

  • @Holidaygal
    @Holidaygal Рік тому +3

    June 2023, I just googled their restaurant. Both Malcom and his wife are there and doing well in Hook UK. Uses both the name Nook and Cranny and the Nook Eating House

    • @annemariebuckley4551
      @annemariebuckley4551 Рік тому +3

      It’s now owned by Anthony and Deborah. They bought it a while back.

    • @Holidaygal
      @Holidaygal Рік тому +1

      @@annemariebuckley4551 thanks for the update.

  • @starb0rn
    @starb0rn 2 роки тому +11

    What a nice family.

  • @sandraford4235
    @sandraford4235 2 роки тому +7

    They could’ve put a table and chairs outside to make it look bistro like at the beginning ,

  • @FigaroHey
    @FigaroHey 3 місяці тому

    Most of the time when Alex says, 'Darling,' you have the feeling it's her code word for 'Idiot.' Look at the fury in her eyes when she says it. It's like she has complete contempt for the person she's talking to much of the time.

  • @MrWindermere123
    @MrWindermere123 2 роки тому +7

    Those mirrors on the wall look like bric a brac or car boot sale stuff. Alex is very classy - I'm surprised she didn't suggest photos of local scenes or art by local artists (and for sale with commission to the restaurant). Also, as a non-foody even I know that a carpet in a restaurant will be difficult to clean. You can sweep or mop a vinyl/wood-effect floor in seconds.

    • @Padraigp
      @Padraigp Рік тому

      I would never eat in a resteraunt with a carpet. Just would. WAlk straight out.

  • @Robin-op8op
    @Robin-op8op 2 місяці тому

    You would think Malcolm would hug his wife when she was crying. 😮

  • @martinfpavey
    @martinfpavey Рік тому +3

    The restaurant still appears to be open according to the website.
    Doesn't look like they're doing the super club though - they have a Special Wednesday offer with four courses for £25. Great episode. This is a tight family.

  • @shazaada4life176
    @shazaada4life176 Рік тому +5

    Throughly enjoyed this..the family are lovely and Malcolm has to be the most passionate and self driven chef I have seen..thank u Alex for giving us such good shows to watch..everything you seem to touch turns to gold!

  • @becksgroom49
    @becksgroom49 Рік тому +3

    The menu looks wonderful - wish that place was nearer to here!

  • @christinagreaves7932
    @christinagreaves7932 2 роки тому +11

    Anything alex does is ace

  • @dotsyjmaher
    @dotsyjmaher Рік тому +4

    So sorry..I hope they are ok now

  • @annother3350
    @annother3350 2 роки тому +4

    In a hurry? You can watch the first two minutes and you've seen it all!!

  • @alcoyne3333333333333
    @alcoyne3333333333333 4 місяці тому +1

    I really really hope that lovely family are doing good 👍 ❤

  • @FigaroHey
    @FigaroHey 3 місяці тому

    One reason people don't go to a little local restaurant like that is because a lot of people just don't eat out. You can probably get together a supper club in a city or bustling town, but if you're just in a residential neighborhood where everyone is out all day working or commuting to a city to work, or retired and not much for going out... you just don't have the kind of people in the neighborhood who will eat out enough to go to your place regularly. If they ran a pub, they might have an easier time becoming the locals' local, but a restaurant with upscale food? Is the neighborhood upscale with people who have plenty of cash to spend on dining out and who would rather eat close to home than go to or remain in the city for an evening out? I live in a residential neighborhood with a few shops, lots of houses and flats and schools, a park... But a restaurant would really struggle to get any customers. If people want to eat out, they go into the city center where they have a wide array of restaurants and nightlife. This place looks like a corner shop turned into a restaurant. Wrong location might be the problem, no matter how many people drive down that street or walk their dogs in the area. I have a constant stream of people walking dogs, walking to and from the bus stops, walking to and from the schools, picking up kids from the schools, or going to the little convenience stores in the neighborhood. But there's one cafe/bakery type place in the area and I've never seen more than one person in there any time I've gone by. People don't go out to eat IN THIS NEIGHBORHOOD because it's a commuter neighborhood.

  • @ediapaff8858
    @ediapaff8858 Рік тому +7

    I feel like you should not take such huge risks after having children. I don't think it's fair to put them in jeopardy like that

    • @akashmukhopadhyay9335
      @akashmukhopadhyay9335 Рік тому +1

      Exactly, Malcolm tried to take his own life & disappeared twice after the show but much before the pandemic. He did check himself into a mental institution.

    • @ZenzeroCAM
      @ZenzeroCAM Рік тому +2

      Especially if you have SEVEN children. That’s absolutely insane

  • @c.t5136
    @c.t5136 2 роки тому +5

    They've got a long way to go, but I hope they get there.

  • @dirkbogarde44
    @dirkbogarde44 4 місяці тому

    Great people..they deserve to be successful.

  • @BJ-bi9xv
    @BJ-bi9xv 8 місяців тому +1

    oh lord, what's a reality show without someone crying…SIGH!

  • @garthrichert5256
    @garthrichert5256 2 роки тому +8

    Oh what beautiful children. They are sooooo important. Their hearts need you more.

  • @BoxersRealty
    @BoxersRealty Рік тому +1

    It's odd that an owner of a restaurant would not know, there is more profit in wine, liquor, beer and soda, than food? I was shocked when on the opening night, it was BYB. Especially when the establishment is already licensed. Wine has a huge mark up. Especially if served by the glass.

  • @99fruitbat94
    @99fruitbat94 2 роки тому +14

    Googled them but the last review for the Nook was 2018 . There are listings for the Nook and Cranny at the same address and the photos are the same place but it lists the owner / Chef as being French . Admittedly I am old lady on a computer . I am wondering if the Pandemic Lock downs may have proven too costly 😕 The Nook seemed to have limited opening times

    • @hogwashmcturnip8930
      @hogwashmcturnip8930 2 роки тому +9

      I found exactly the same. I assume the 'French' Nook Cranny was before this couple But there is nothing after 2018.They seem to have vanished from the face of the earth! There is not even any sign of a new business in the building. Unless it is a takeaway with pics only of the food .Mysterious.
      Another mystery is: they took the carpet up Before the 'Supper Club' but then it is back when the Supper Club happens! As is the dresser.
      Did the missing party of 5 show up? Considering financial success or failure appeared to depend on it I feel we should have been told. ,Odd things ''Reality' shows.

    • @acs6785
      @acs6785 2 роки тому +2

      It's still open but think it's u Derek new ownership

    • @clare2401
      @clare2401 2 роки тому +5

      So the N&C was bought out by Debbie and Anthony about 2 years ago.
      They had already owned a successful restaurant in the area and came back for the N&C.
      They are doing well but I think that's because their old customers from their last restaurant followed them there.
      There are lots of recent reviews on trip advisor and they have a decent following on social media

    • @fluffyfour
      @fluffyfour Рік тому +3

      @@hogwashmcturnip8930 Yes, I noticed the switched decor issue. Most odd!

    • @akashmukhopadhyay9335
      @akashmukhopadhyay9335 Рік тому +1

      Malcolm tried to take his own life & disappeared twice after the show but much before the pandemic. He did check himself into a mental institution.

  • @samanthaabreu782
    @samanthaabreu782 2 роки тому +50

    The worst part is when you googled them to know how they are now and find out that everything went wrong. They don't own the restaurant anymore and Malcolm had a nervous breakdown in 2018, there's no information about them updated, really sad :(

    • @Luna.3.3.3
      @Luna.3.3.3 2 роки тому +18

      Ohh no. That is very sad news. I'm glad I'm not the only one who googles a place that are featured in shows.

    • @Whoiskevinjones
      @Whoiskevinjones Рік тому +27

      How could he not have a nervous breakdown running a restaurant with 7 kids?

    • @PointNemo9
      @PointNemo9 Рік тому +12

      ​@@Whoiskevinjones If he focused on the restaurant and if his wife were a full-time mum.

    • @fennecfox8623
      @fennecfox8623 Рік тому +8

      I did a bit of digging and he seems to be in a good place now and running a new business called BBQ Boss. Don’t quote me on this though as I could have gotten some details wrong.

    • @patricialivingston5349
      @patricialivingston5349 Рік тому +4

      Sad. 7 children is a lot of pressure. Too many complex menu items. They were afraid to ask for money. Fantastic food, underpriced. Bring your own bottle... when alcohol is important to generate income. Small, easy, fresh tasty dishes. Very distressing to learn of his nervous breakdown. Not everyone can be a businessman/woman.

  • @Fjhlotynbongfv
    @Fjhlotynbongfv 11 місяців тому +1

    40:16 why’s Alex so grumpy at the poor girl 😂

    • @TheAtl0001
      @TheAtl0001 5 місяців тому +1

      Slip in editing?

  • @sharonharding3478
    @sharonharding3478 11 місяців тому

    Alex knows her stuff I love her x

  • @violetultravioletta
    @violetultravioletta Рік тому +1

    7 children. Blended family. No wonder they are exhausted.

  • @sonaterese799
    @sonaterese799 2 роки тому +4

    interesting but I often wonder what happens when Alex is no longer around

  • @suejowell
    @suejowell Рік тому

    Now that the best kept secret is out ....there should be no looking back for the nook...❤

  • @thornbird6768
    @thornbird6768 Рік тому +1

    I love lamb and it looked great 👍🏻

  • @Whoiskevinjones
    @Whoiskevinjones Рік тому +3

    Looks like the blue "pub carpeting" was still on part of the dining room floor?

    • @suzymarshall4898
      @suzymarshall4898 Рік тому +1

      I noticed that too. They must have pulled old footage to fill the space. I had to re watch it several times. 😆

  • @kaydavis6752
    @kaydavis6752 8 місяців тому

    I laughed. Pumpkin and rhubarb season is at completely opposite times of the calendar. Now, pumpkin soup as a starter with an apple or pear dessert would definitely be doable.

  • @tomsautocadstudio6446
    @tomsautocadstudio6446 Рік тому +2

    for the supper club I would have done a deposit at booking or a no show fee of £10 per person the no show fee would also be payable if you canceled within 48 hours.

    • @Padraigp
      @Padraigp Рік тому

      What is supprr Club?

  • @None-685
    @None-685 Рік тому +1

    Wishing that was in my neighborhood.

  • @dagmaraszapar4103
    @dagmaraszapar4103 2 роки тому +10

    With 7 kids to support they decide to get a restaurant which is a risky business every one knows that. Very immature and irresponsible move.

  • @silencesays228
    @silencesays228 11 місяців тому +1

    This is making me hungry.

  • @virginiamoss7045
    @virginiamoss7045 Рік тому +2

    The outside does look uninviting; no wonder people might think it's closed. Start by pruning that bush blocking a window; then at least have potted flowers with lots of color so that it looks like someone cares for the place. Adding maybe an outdoor table or two with colorful umbrellas on the lawn/future patio would help in season. A colorful awning over the door would also emphasize the entry.

  • @fourroadsnorth2723
    @fourroadsnorth2723 2 місяці тому

    Seven children?! How can even two full time parents look after this never mind run a business? Someone is being very selfish here.

  • @KlingonGamerYT
    @KlingonGamerYT 2 роки тому +6

    HES A DECENT CHEF

  • @fourroadsnorth2723
    @fourroadsnorth2723 2 місяці тому

    And HE had a breakdown? Oh dear. If anyone should have had a breakdown it should have been his wife, working and caring for seven kids.

  • @jennyvanniekerk9600
    @jennyvanniekerk9600 Рік тому +2

    Just crazy. Buying a business in the hope of.....

  • @zerooneonetwothree1872
    @zerooneonetwothree1872 2 роки тому

    Nooking great!

  • @thomasmezei3231
    @thomasmezei3231 Рік тому +2

    Oh dear, I so wish I didn't follow up this restaurant on the internet. It's so upsetting I won't sleep tonight, those lovely people and enthusiastic Malcolm you could see him buzzing with excitement. Now I read he had a breakdown and I can only imagine his pain. and his lovely family too all being his dream. What a shame, if only I could help them....

    • @mollyscot1563
      @mollyscot1563 Рік тому +1

      You won't sleep after watching a tv programme??? God, your life must be blessed.

  • @bomdever8268
    @bomdever8268 2 роки тому +14

    The lady should hand over her duty in the restaurant to an employee and become a house wife as it's clear that restaurant is not her vocation!

    • @fluffyfour
      @fluffyfour Рік тому +9

      The whole point was they couldn't afford to hire someone, so she stepped in to help her husband's dream.

  • @r8chlletters
    @r8chlletters 11 місяців тому +1

    I’m surprised she didn’t have them put some big pots of flowers out front…seems like an important first impression missed

  • @chriswalford9228
    @chriswalford9228 Рік тому

    Looks great on a plate why the slate?

  • @tamaraatkinson940
    @tamaraatkinson940 Рік тому

    How do they not get involved in local things? Government, societies, etc.

  • @jesselepooh
    @jesselepooh Рік тому +3

    ey lets overpopulate DOH

  • @jesushitler2000
    @jesushitler2000 Рік тому +3

    Any new restaurant fail rate 60%

  • @user-hl2ov8nd9n
    @user-hl2ov8nd9n 2 роки тому

    There is something not inviting about the entrance...put some beautiful big pot plants and change the doors...

    • @DeKat-84
      @DeKat-84 2 роки тому +3

      The doors fit in with the traditional style of the building and surrounding area. In my opinion, It's the signage that is the issue. It isn't clear from the signage whether it's a restaurant, tea rooms or pub.

  • @tsvandyke
    @tsvandyke Рік тому +1

    doesn't matter how clean the kitchen is .. having a clean kitchen does NOT pay the bills or put the kids through Uni !

  • @geojoanne1
    @geojoanne1 Рік тому

    Just realised her brother in law was one of the judges off Great british Menu

  • @tonkatruck1968
    @tonkatruck1968 2 роки тому +8

    Alex Like Wine.... Only Improves with age.

  • @tsvandyke
    @tsvandyke Рік тому +1

    43:00 ... "sales are up 30 % - after the make over" ... ( lets review - if have ZERO visitors 'before the makeover' ; when your resaurant fits 30 ... 30 % of (max seating ) 30 is 10 people ... ( in reality - ONLY 10 people visit your restaurant a week ? ) .. .that number SUCKS - 30 % would be a lot better if your place fits more than 30 seats.

  • @alcoyne3333333333333
    @alcoyne3333333333333 Рік тому +1

    We all know the tv producer picks the restaurants for the show.
    I've only watched a couple of episodes so far but there seems to be a pattern of the chef's wife/partner not been happy from the very start saying it was his dream! it's like a storyline they are going for . I hope those lovely people are doing good ..
    I know someone that did a home renovation show once and they ware told to act a certain way which wasn't very nice and out of Character for them.. 😢 it affected them after the show and one of them needed lots of help to recover..

  • @maryearll3359
    @maryearll3359 7 місяців тому

    Being a chef is so stressful itand he's carrying it all on his shoulders with untold pressures that can't be imagined. I think Alex wasn't very fair with him - a new carpet and layout is all very well and good but gave him high and perhaps unreasonable expectations - he's still carrying all the weight on his shoulders. So very sorry he was unwell, I do hope he's mended ❤

  • @alanblissett9834
    @alanblissett9834 2 роки тому +1

    The background music to much

  • @markwilliford4567
    @markwilliford4567 5 місяців тому

    Small business owners have a tough time..

  • @monkeytennis8861
    @monkeytennis8861 Рік тому

    Those carpets

  • @Bongwater33
    @Bongwater33 Рік тому +3

    "Nook and Cranny" is a gross name for a restaurant - it sounds like a part of your body you need to wash out carefully, not somewhere to eat!

    • @catslove3884
      @catslove3884 Рік тому +1

      It does sound like a used book store. Or even a yarn shop.

  • @dlross173
    @dlross173 2 місяці тому

    With 7 kids…. Ooomph. My parents did the same with 7 kids. They risked everything and lost everything. It has taught me that when you have so much to lose, you have to look at the reality of your situation and see if it’s possible, then evaluate the risk of what you’ll lose and how it affects the people around you. I read somewhere in the comments that they no longer own the place, but the place is successful under new ownership now. I also read from the comments that Malcom tried to kill himself before the pandemic, and he had to be checked into a mental institution each time. Shame.

  • @lizmacrae4970
    @lizmacrae4970 Рік тому +2

    Good gracious are all these people eating free? ….and the consultant bloke giving advice which could have waited ..while the chef was busy was just stupid…people under pressure don’t need more.

  • @joebarrett4353
    @joebarrett4353 Рік тому +2

    what are you doing having 7 kids when you have no money coming in? That strikes me as irresponsible

    • @fourroadsnorth2723
      @fourroadsnorth2723 2 місяці тому

      Totally. It's not like you are running a 19th century farm. First you make the money and then decide on how many children.

  • @user-gj1me4mf5c
    @user-gj1me4mf5c 3 місяці тому +1

    How many kids??? 😱

  • @bellareid3488
    @bellareid3488 Рік тому +7

    7 children... seems irresponsible nowadays but I wish them well.

    • @italianstallion9170
      @italianstallion9170 Рік тому

      some people just can't stop humping look at Stacey Solomon and Kerry Katona, and Katie Price.

    • @j.j.9123
      @j.j.9123 4 місяці тому

      A blended family.

  • @paulmorgan6269
    @paulmorgan6269 Рік тому +1

    Ok first danger, he's using slate as a plate. Trying to do ultra high dining ?
    Needs the basics and build up a customer encouragement.

  • @redroselace9545
    @redroselace9545 Рік тому +6

    5:40 how can some men let their wives get to the level of despair and not put them first is beyond me

    • @jacobmassey3897
      @jacobmassey3897 Рік тому +3

      Chef mentality is different to a bloke who works a regular 9 to 5

  • @davelee9527
    @davelee9527 2 роки тому

    💖💖

  • @Luna.3.3.3
    @Luna.3.3.3 8 місяців тому

    2023 - It appears this couple do not own it anymore. Hope they sold up under good circumstances.

  • @cinnamongirl4896
    @cinnamongirl4896 9 місяців тому

    Not fussy on this husband, his wife broke down in tears twice because of all all the pressure to live his dream and he just sat there looking into the camera? I feel sorry for this woman, looks like he is very much the boss and she has to just agree to keep him happy. Not healthy.

  • @lucygray6162
    @lucygray6162 Рік тому +9

    Why did the Victim-Wife decide to have three children at the same time they were trying to establish the restaurant? Wasn't four enough? Or was it a diversionary move that didn't deter the husband from HIS dream? I got very tired of her making sure we all knew how miserable and burdened she is, and I feel that Alex didn't have much sympathy, either. Those meds just wouldn't level out 25:38 , and Alex had that "Whooops! A little too much halcyon today" shock in her eyes.

    • @virginiamoss7045
      @virginiamoss7045 Рік тому +1

      Why is the wife required to participate in her husband's dream? Or expected to do anything that she does not want to do as long as she supports herself adequately otherwise. Her role, if she chose it, is primarily child care and, if not, she should make enough of her own money to pay for child care. As for producing more children, I believe the husband had a part in that; hopefully they decided together to create them so it's as much his fault as hers.

    • @alcoyne3333333333333
      @alcoyne3333333333333 Рік тому

      I think to be fair the TV producer picked a few unhappy wife's in this series 😢 its a pattern in this show and I'm sure they edited it and encouraged her to say it a lot.

    • @virginiamoss7045
      @virginiamoss7045 Рік тому

      @@alcoyne3333333333333 We must all remember that these reality shows are not reality. Editing and camera angles can both create any narrative they want and need to capture viewers. They seem to be trying to entice male viewers with all the peek-a-boo boobs scattered about including Alex's.

  • @lizmacrae4970
    @lizmacrae4970 Рік тому +2

    That poor woman….

  • @billybollockhead5628
    @billybollockhead5628 2 роки тому +5

    Blooming heck guys! Close your legs or take a cold shower... 7 kids!

  • @LisaSpinoula
    @LisaSpinoula Місяць тому

    15.03

  • @MrHotjoe25
    @MrHotjoe25 Рік тому

    so who serves a pie on a napkin for that price!. such a shame...........................

  • @noongourfain
    @noongourfain Рік тому +3

    Maybe they should run a daycare instead?

  • @wgrady222
    @wgrady222 2 роки тому +5

    Poor woman, 7 kids and working all hours to help her husband.

  • @mollyscot1563
    @mollyscot1563 2 місяці тому

    Love Alex but the editing on this episode is terrible. They got rid of the old carpet and put down a new floor. Then, we get the new, all important supper club.... with the old carpet.

  • @i.m.7710
    @i.m.7710 Рік тому

    Nook eating house?? - is underwhelming. I prefer a farm to table name where the name tells what you do.

    • @virginiamoss7045
      @virginiamoss7045 Рік тому +1

      Yeah, kind of underwhelming.

    • @mellowmarkable
      @mellowmarkable 11 місяців тому

      I think The Nook is okay, but 'eating house' is a bit weird. I would have gone for The Nook restaurant or The Nook restaurant and bar...

  • @team3383
    @team3383 2 роки тому +4

    the wifey needs to move out and leave a place for a waitress.

    • @virginiamoss7045
      @virginiamoss7045 Рік тому +1

      A waitress who would work for free? They didn't have the money to pay for help.

  • @vanessaboyd8676
    @vanessaboyd8676 6 місяців тому

    why do people need napkins under their pies - just saying...

  • @catslove3884
    @catslove3884 Рік тому +5

    Chef rubs his hand over beard and face. Then he cooks??

    • @virginiamoss7045
      @virginiamoss7045 Рік тому +2

      I've noticed things like this seem very common in these videos, never sanitation gloves or bound up hair, even no proper commercial kitchens with 6 sinks and a commercial dishwasher.

    • @pamelahaze3211
      @pamelahaze3211 10 місяців тому +1

      Yuck..
      One of my pet peeves

  • @i.m.7710
    @i.m.7710 Рік тому +1

    7 kids and work as a waitress. Going a bit too far with the SuperMom gig.🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳

  • @misterwolf9227
    @misterwolf9227 Рік тому

    Their menu looked delicious. I'd of ordered Fish, beef, liver. veggies.

  • @cdugral
    @cdugral 2 роки тому +10

    7 children? Well…. Just why?

    • @ElePranaityte
      @ElePranaityte 2 роки тому +3

      Why not?

    • @mattiestorin
      @mattiestorin 2 роки тому +10

      @@ElePranaityte because they're clearly struggling to afford them.

    • @MarkWhiley
      @MarkWhiley 2 роки тому +6

      They were both in marriages previous with children.

    • @hogwashmcturnip8930
      @hogwashmcturnip8930 2 роки тому +1

      @@MarkWhiley So they had already proved their fertility. Then go on to have another 3 in quick succession when they have chosen a gamble That is not fair on the kids, let alone themselves. They have really screwed up their priorities. Not only do we not need 7 kid families on an overpopulated planet, but they are spreading themselves too thin. I would prefer to get a sound foundation to bring them up in before I started popping brats like rabbits. If they went bust, who is going to look after them? the taxpayer presumably. Feckless.

    • @FigaroHey
      @FigaroHey 2 роки тому +3

      Love?

  • @stephenobrien5909
    @stephenobrien5909 2 роки тому +8

    She can't put a sentence together without crying.

    • @DeKat-84
      @DeKat-84 2 роки тому +6

      Not going to be a very effective business owner if they have a breakdown every time they have to make a difficult decision!

    • @Josie2013
      @Josie2013 Рік тому +3

      Her constant whining is annoying. But it was very selfish of the husband to go forward with his "dream" when she clearly was not interested in running a restaurant.

    • @virginiamoss7045
      @virginiamoss7045 Рік тому +2

      How many children have you raised in a clean and neat home while being made to work at someone else's dream? I'm surprised she wasn't the one to have a nervous breakdown instead of him.

    • @stephenobrien5909
      @stephenobrien5909 Рік тому

      @@virginiamoss7045 Have you never heard of the word no? If she felt like that then she should have told him and made sure she would not be involved.

    • @virginiamoss7045
      @virginiamoss7045 Рік тому +2

      @@stephenobrien5909 Women are conditioned by society to defer to their husbands, and to all others as well; for so long women were second class citizens and male DNA has long absorbed that. It's only young men who are being taught differently; that's where my hope is. Yes, she should have made that clear, but at the same time they are partners in life and she may have felt obligated to at least help him get started, thinking it would be just a short time. It didn't work out that way.