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Narc abuse can make you so sick. It makes you doubt everything about yourself and everything you do. They are insidious and it starts off slowly so you may not realize what is happening. I am glad you did not spend years in a relationship that made you sick. I speak from experience unfortunately.
It's difficult. It's been a very emotional and toxic relationship and yet has been so hard to let go of because of the hopes and desires I've had. I'm sure a lot of you can relate. Meditate, focus on hobbies and family... those who love you and have worried about you. Focus on your happiness and what you truly deserve. Namaste 🙏
I remember watching a video of a person saying that if you want someone to chase you, you should NOT text and they'll eventually appear. Problem is: I ACTUALLY wanted his abusive ass to never contact me ever again. So if you want someone back you don't text them, and if you want them to disappear you don't text them? Like wtf are we supposed to do, dear lawd.
stg i’ve been thinking about going off on my ex because he took advantage of me,tore me down,and s* xually assaulted me. i’ve had breakdowns because of him recently but i’ve been trying to move on. it hurts because i did so much for him and i ignored all the red flags because i just think people are flawed and we’re all human yk? and i didn’t even think he sxually assaulted me until he left me and i realized what he did to me was sxual assault. it hurts and part of me wants him to feel that pain and that hurt but i know that’s not the way to go about things,he will eventually get his karma and i already have spoken up about how he treated me and that’s all i can do. all i can do is hope his friends keep an eye on him and make sure that doesn’t happen to anyone ever again.
When Toni said it takes half the time of the relationship to get over it, it BLEW MY MIND I knew my best friend for more than 15 years and ended up falling in love with her, there was a lot of drama, a break up for 2 years, then reconciliation. After that we stopped talking and it's been another 2 years and I'm still struggling to contact her AGAIN. So this was practically marriage in terms of how long the time of the relationship was, how well we knew each other and how much in common we had. No f**king wonder I cannot get over her yet... 😐 She's asexual and I'm queer and both women so the level of emotional connection was too much I guess, because we were just friends without any romantic drama until I came out. Man, relationships are HARD Thank you for the video, I hope the person who requested it is doing better now 🥺
@@telepathicbutterfly8855 I know right, minds that act and think alike and as always shine like the star that you are. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖🥰💖🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰💖💖💖💖💖💋
You are right sweet sassy professor tingles, I can relate and as always remember shine like the lovely star that you are universe darling. Xoxo 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖 sassiest of the queens: lady 🦋
Ha! My BF and I just broke up- but we're continuing to live together for a month and half, till the lease is up. I spent all day deleting anything that reminds me of him from my phone and email. Next is getting rid of anything he got me 🤷♀️ I'll be deleting his number before I leave so I can never ever talk to him again.
zzzont zoo it! (this was a custom vid, to book ur own, links below!)
Book a Healing, Tarot Reading, or Custom ASMR: tonybomboni.com/book-online
Patreon, Cameo: tonybomboni.com/services
My ASMR Albums: tonybomboni.com/asmr-albums
Narc abuse can make you so sick. It makes you doubt everything about yourself and everything you do. They are insidious and it starts off slowly so you may not realize what is happening. I am glad you did not spend years in a relationship that made you sick. I speak from experience unfortunately.
It's difficult. It's been a very emotional and toxic relationship and yet has been so hard to let go of because of the hopes and desires I've had. I'm sure a lot of you can relate. Meditate, focus on hobbies and family... those who love you and have worried about you. Focus on your happiness and what you truly deserve. Namaste 🙏
Day 147: sometimes I'm sad that I have never had a relationship. But on the bright side at least I don't have to deal with breakups and exes
I haven't contacted mine since Dec 31 2022 and feel it's an accomplishment!
I remember watching a video of a person saying that if you want someone to chase you, you should NOT text and they'll eventually appear.
Problem is: I ACTUALLY wanted his abusive ass to never contact me ever again.
So if you want someone back you don't text them, and if you want them to disappear you don't text them? Like wtf are we supposed to do, dear lawd.
...block them?
@@lolollo4481 let me introduce you to the world of abusive narcissistic people: they always find a way
Find a way , for him to break up with you, so he thinks he is in control. And then run dont look back
Oh, it's long gone now. It was something from years ago that i reminded due to the video subjetc. It wasn't easy task but eventually he gave up.
@@NathComH glad 2 hear that. Live your life, wish you the best
My ex’s bday just passed and I was soo tempted to wish him a happy birthday but I stopped myself. So glad I did
It takes the might and patience of a 1000 suns
stg i’ve been thinking about going off on my ex because he took advantage of me,tore me down,and s* xually assaulted me. i’ve had breakdowns because of him recently but i’ve been trying to move on. it hurts because i did so much for him and i ignored all the red flags because i just think people are flawed and we’re all human yk? and i didn’t even think he sxually assaulted me until he left me and i realized what he did to me was sxual assault. it hurts and part of me wants him to feel that pain and that hurt but i know that’s not the way to go about things,he will eventually get his karma and i already have spoken up about how he treated me and that’s all i can do. all i can do is hope his friends keep an eye on him and make sure that doesn’t happen to anyone ever again.
When Toni said it takes half the time of the relationship to get over it, it BLEW MY MIND
I knew my best friend for more than 15 years and ended up falling in love with her, there was a lot of drama, a break up for 2 years, then reconciliation. After that we stopped talking and it's been another 2 years and I'm still struggling to contact her AGAIN. So this was practically marriage in terms of how long the time of the relationship was, how well we knew each other and how much in common we had. No f**king wonder I cannot get over her yet... 😐 She's asexual and I'm queer and both women so the level of emotional connection was too much I guess, because we were just friends without any romantic drama until I came out. Man, relationships are HARD
Thank you for the video, I hope the person who requested it is doing better now 🥺
LOVE these life advice videos 🤩🤩🤩
Love your life advice videos, thanks Tony! 💖
The past is the past. Time to move forward!
Exactly!
❤ to all who can join the chorus of relating to this! I saw this just before doing it myself 🙆🏻♀️ Every chain can be broken 🦄
Yes exactly
My thoughts exactly friend. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖🦋
@@tonyawykle4966 🤸🏻♀️🌈🌝💎🧿🪆💓
@@telepathicbutterfly8855 I know right, minds that act and think alike and as always shine like the star that you are. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖🥰💖🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰💖💖💖💖💖💋
@@tonyawykle4966 💞
Thanks for the advice, Tony.
:-3
Great life advice Tony!! 💗💗💗
love your talks
sending everyone who's reading this strength and energy to heal from the past
Perfect timing👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
Hello
Please also do a life advice on friendships too!
TRUTH!! thank you tony!!
Man, I was about to do this literally less than 2 minutes before I got on youtube and saw this vid haha
You are right sweet sassy professor tingles, I can relate and as always remember shine like the lovely star that you are universe darling. Xoxo 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖 sassiest of the queens: lady 🦋
This could not have been better timed. THANK YOU for saving my ass.💀
Ha! My BF and I just broke up- but we're continuing to live together for a month and half, till the lease is up. I spent all day deleting anything that reminds me of him from my phone and email. Next is getting rid of anything he got me 🤷♀️ I'll be deleting his number before I leave so I can never ever talk to him again.
That is wise advice!
@ASMRer It's just time to MOVE ON! I don't need reminders and we don't need to be friends.
I would love a how to deal with lonely ness
An ex sent me a fb friends request not today Satan lol an ex is an ex for a reason
It must be the Virgo full moon 🌕
TONY HOW DID YOU KNOWWW! I swear youre watching me 👀 🤣
We are all connected
HE TEXTED ME OUT OF THE BLUE WHILE I WAS WATCHING THIS VIDEO HELP
WTF
He didn't.
Yasss I can relate to it!
Absolutely!
Hey tony
Hey Brodes!
Holy hell u replied !!! I’ve been watching u for years thanks for all the triggers
He literally texted me yesterday 💀 fml
:)
LOL
Early
Hi early poopsie