Dr Umar Ifatunde on Pan-Africanism, Black Love & Wigs vs Natural
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- Опубліковано 6 лют 2025
- This week, we caught up with the one and only Dr. Umar Ifatunde, and trust us, we got into it! We dove deep into the principles of Pan-Africanism, black love, the challenges black women face in relationships, and the wigs & weaves vs. natural hair debate - plus so much more.
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“Don’t take the kinks out of your hair, take the kinks out of your mind” - Marcus Garvey 🔥🔥
@@MikeJones713_ BM always say stuff like that is 🔥 -- but they continue to uplift whiteness and devalue blackness.
@ yes, Eurocentric beauty standards have been damaging. We gotta recognize natural beauty again!
@@MikeJones713_ Based on how BM behave, I'm not sure they ever did. They can never explain why they've allowed themselves to be so manipulated by WM.
@@chocolateangel8743 great point, it’s the lust for the white woman that has seduced many, BW need more appreciation
@@chocolateangel8743it seems your issue is differentiating between 🦝s and Black men. Black is a sociopolitical term, it is not a shade of skin pigmentation. 🤷🏾♂️ Until ppl learn this from rigorous reading of brilliant Black thinkers who've been long gone, they'll be better off not dating.
Umar coming through for a podcast with 1.9k subscribers, on a whole other continent, should be applauded. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
That’s facts. Her podcasts is about to blow up now
Trying to Hit 🎯
Facts
Right? He gains absolutely nothing from being involved with this
Facts...didn't know this channel until this interview....
“I guess this isn’t a CIA setup” 😂😂😂
I am a Black man from the United States, and I have been to Brazil and South Africa. Despite the geographical differences, we share more similarities than one might think.
from SA here and I completely agree with you ♥
True. I have lived in the USA, UK, and Australia. Differences are slight at best.
We ask you to visit Liberia 🇱🇷, too🙏🏿.
From Kenya and No, we do not. Black Americans are really American, with a liberal culture. Africans are more conservative
Yes with the more westernized countries like you listed
I love that Umar shows up to these smaller platforms.
@illijah I notice that too.
Yep👍🏾💯 Totally Agree
@@illijah they paying him
@@SakBoyyy I highly doubt they are paying him. He doesn't even charge for speaking engagements, just wants his flights paid for. But they SHOULD be paying him, the amount of traffic he drives to these micro platforms.
@@illijah I wasn’t aware that he only requires you to cover his travel expenses thank you for informing me that’s quite impressive that he is spreading this wisdom and knowledge for free with out being paid maybe he does really care about African people but to be fair he does refer to black Americans as African people I mean only a person who really cares would go that far
Great insight, doctor. My daughter makes six figures but married her high school sweetheart, who was bagging groceries. She married him and wrote him a resume which allowed him to him to get a great job. He doesn't earn the same income as her, but they are amazing together. They have beautiful kids and are living that life. Like mother, like daughter.
No, it's not. He's basically telling BW to lower their expectations -- because BM don't know how to successfully navigate the patriarchal society we live in. You're basically bragging about the fact your daughter allowed a man to leech off her -- in exchange for a ring and wedding that she probably had to help pay for. Your son-in-law hasn't provided her with anything she couldn't have gotten on her own. BW are the only ones expected to tolerate this.
Congrats, how did you raise a unicorn as her. Her chosing to marry him tells me he has good qualities and drive.
@teechanakira9987 yes! He just needed an open door to success
@@eleoraadiyaisrael6127which most of us need, not a woman to take care of us but to give us a little nudge for an opportunity. Awesome Daughter you have
Rare but congrats on your bloodline being secured
“take a deep breath king kong is here” this ninja 😭😭😭
He has no job, and wants two wives, and he's 50 years old.
he has 6 certifications and a doctorate degree, he works as a school psychologist and he also evaluate children and also he used to be a principal in a couple of schools in philly before he blew up, his number is literally out there and i’m pretty sure i missed a lot things but he is definitely good + wth is his age matters ? he mentioned that he is looking for women who are in their 30’s and 40’s but i’m confused why are so bothered about this topic in the first place ?
@@Neighborhood_Watch007 your slander attempts won't work 😂😂😂. Try new techniques
😂😅😅
@@baerkaabnaab2388 Where is the lie?
Interviewer becomes interviewed, knowledge is power. Big up brotha Umar.
😂
Dont ever F with Dr Umar... He's in another level
He just said women have a biological clock right? Men do too but anyways so with that said why would a black woman waste her precious time and resources helping a man become what he shouldve been vs getting with one who is already got his stuff together and regardless of race because he already stated that mixed people can be/are black? 😂
Hopefully she uses this knowledge l..but my guess is that she won't.
He just gave black women the nail in the coffin. This dumb ass Umar gonna promote why the snow bunny is the greatest intelligent being on the planet right now 😂😂🤦🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️ he said it not me. Black are the best but except here here and here and here and there lolol😆 can you make this up. Please leave this video up. Black women ain't never gonna do that you hear her. That is a defeating statement. Its over white women win.........😢 he a dumb ass.
“Take a breath, King Kong is here” had me weak 😂
I read this comment as soon as he said that 😂
I'm with Dr Umar, totally. His views are often controversial, but most of the time, 'HE'S ON POINT'.
Only controversial because most of our community is no longer as conscious as we used to be(strategical racism from the white supremacy power structure) so not a lot of people think this way anymore which is causation for Dr. Umar to drill into our peoples skulls even with the rest of the world watching which causes more controversy!
Controversial is synonymous to changing the status quo
Controversial is good, it forces people to think and make change, we live in times where people get offended by everything and ashamed of nothing
Never be with anyone Pan-African totally 😂
He literally told BW to go work their ass off each day to give men WHO HE DOESNT EVEN REQUIRE TO MARRY YOU FIRST, to give them their paychecks for a "vision". If "snow bunnies" are willing to take on the project then let them. Then he goes on using European standards to judge BW but wants BW NOT to use those same standards to judge BM. IF BW MUST DO WHAT WW ARE DOING TO SUPPORT BROKE BM THEN BW SHOULD JUDGE BM TO THE STANDARDS OF WM. STEP UP AS WM DO THEN. When's the last time you saw WW as a group help broke WM and give them $700 a week?! Dont worry I'll wait .
I SEE DR UMAR,I CLICK, GOOD INTERVIEW, GOOD VIDEO ❤ From South Africa 🇿🇦
She definitely wasn't ready for this interview... he definitely dropped the mic on her a couple of times... he definitely told the truth about how African women want the finished product!
How was he ready?
@@commonsenselogic how wasn’t he ?
@Ripkb824
Because most of what he says is stupid. He's not going to help black people by speaking jackassery. Constantly preaching white supremacy when there is none, which he has no evidence of, means the real issues go unaddressed. You don't need to build "institutions" or "industries" to be successful in the west. You just merely take advantage of what exist. Which black people can fully participate.
@Ripkb824
Because most of what he says is stupid. He's not going to help his community by speaking jackassery. Constantly preaching victimhood when there is no oppression, which he has no evidence of, means the real issues go unaddressed. You don't need to build "institutions" or "industries" to be successful in the west. You just merely need to take advantage of what exist. Which all people can fully participate in.
.....so what??? Whats wrong with that? You guys who cant find a woman willing to date yall make it obvious yall dont have experience dating.
if it aint nappy I aint happy 🤣🤣
East Africans have softer hair
Lol not all east africans. Dont confuse the horn of africa and east africa. Also what do u have all.with soft hair.@@lucymax2178
@Melissa-k2i9o No he doesn't. It's alright to not like him, but when you make up lies about your opposition, they've won.
Real Talk!
Big facts !!!
Sisters, please understand that when the brother suggests that snow bunnies know how to pick potential, he doesn't mean picking young pookies, hoodlums, drug dealers, drug peddlers, or criminals. He means a brother who's staying out of trouble and working hard toward a goal in business or a career. We don't even want our sisters to date criminals, why would we want you to hold the losers down for any reason, and consequently bring the community down.
That's the point. Sisters only want to pretend/project potential onto the pookies that make her coochie tingly , and she can have authority over him. Thunking Black men cannot be controlled by the box and thus are not who sisters agree to be with despite being approached by TBM. You see how they ridicule pan-African brothers by calling us hoteps. Thus we can state that the Black woman's primary criteria for which man she wants to be with is whomever she believes is controllable. She's looking for a man who will be the woman in the relationship.
This is why you MUST #sysbm.
@ Been married since 23yrs for 16 years to a beautiful Ethiopian sister who prioritizes family and raising our 3 kids.
Gentlemen, find a decent lady when you're both younger and marry early before they accumulate all the unnecessary relationship baggage that comes with dating multiple partners.
@@Truth259Nobody realizes how bad it gets until after 30 when you look around and say damn.
@@nursemcfarlane6655 So true!!
No ice,no rice,no spice,no sand,no salsa ! 😂😂😂
I LOVE HIM 🇯🇲❤️🇯🇲😊
😂😂
He is playing ya’ll.
You love a scammer?
@@SaharaKnows how?please explain
@@memelove391They can't explain, only criticize.
Sis simply was not ready 😅
Definitely wasn’t 😂
Cooked an African delicacy this evening 😂
She definitely wasn't
😂
Not true. She was bringing real scenarios and his aggressive style essentially silenced by critique, without providing thoughtful responses where there weren't pat answers
I normally love it when women podcast with Dr. Umar because they give another dimension of emotional intelligence. But when she said "what's the guarantee," my soul damn near left my body. Girl, what?
you caught that?
She is a feminist you heard it for yourself
Where's her Dad? Were's her GOD? I mean soo many questions when she said that.......
I died when she said I’m friends with black females lol
Sounds like something I’ve heard white people say 😂😂
I'm with the interviewer on this. You cannot, I repeat cannot waste time with the potential of a black male. BM DO NOT PROTECT BW let alone provide, and yeah I get it they are racially targetted and all of dat, but the bm cannot and does not even offer the bare minimum, let alone does he want to. And when that bm does become 'the finished product' or whatever he feels that is, which is usually financial/monetary mixed in with the low self esteem and self hatred, he wants a leftover bunny to feel like a white man... to feel as though he has 'arrived' and that he has finally made it. Most bm are breaking down/belittling/abandoning/verbally/physically abusing and UNALIVING BW in record numbers and you think there's something wrong that sister wants a guarantee!!!!???!!!?? Are you serious? Heck yes, we DESERVE a guarantee! At minimum. Its called standards.
Dr Umar is intelligent n hilarious at the same time 😂
Will this fake King ever put a ring on a woman. Kings have many wives and he can't find 1🤷🏿♂️🤫 she said emotional intelligence. What you say about my mama? #prison
# incarceration
Hes gonna just breeze past her criterias😂 black men have emotional intelligence😕 she was cooking him you just a d ride bra
He just gave black women the nail in the coffin. This dumb ass Umar gonna promote why the snow bunny is the greatest intelligent being on the planet right now 😂😂🤦🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️ he said it not me. Black are the best but except here here and here and here and there lolol😆 can you make this up. Please leave this video up. Black women ain't never gonna do that you hear her. That is a defeating statement. Its over white women win.........😢 he a dumb ass.
She’s so new to podcasting and I love how she’s able to receive the knowledge and wisdom Dr Umar is sharing. I hope she continues to go forward 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
She's been objectively interjecting the entire time with having no clue as to what he's saying, Cos often times after objecting to his facts, she'd come up with a clueless response
She has not received it. She kept pushing back.
She drowned what are you talking about...
@@anyimcarter1000Right ! Umar told the truth and she simply didn't want to hear it and kept interrupting him, Dr. Umar said black women want a finished product and that white woman will meet a brother at the starting line while a bw will be waiting at the finish line, by then it's too late! Dr. Umar came with Truth, facts and logic and experience traveling the world and she came with emotions, typical bw.
@@Virgilenzali737Typical brain washed westernized black woman.
One thing I loved is that he laid the foundation of black couples and problems they encounter. He didn't hold any biases.
This is the reason why i love African Americans they are so militant and speaking fact they are the blueprint when it comes to be proud of Blackness. Give them respect and ❤ Shout outs from Gambia West Africa!
Being militant with no real strategy.
Not really..all talk no action
@@wambokodavid7109and what action has your people taken?
Yes the blueprint in negative social behaviours
@@MelaniaRose lmao and your people are the blueprint of nothing especially not in recent times. Have several seats.
I appreciate how the Interviewer was honest and sincere. It brings out the best in conversations, and this is a great example. These were hard to ask, and hard to answer questions, so thank yall for the content and the service to the black community. RISE UP ✊🏿.
Dr. Umar OWNED this interview.
Umar is exporting pimp mentality. I'm glad that young lady recognizes Umar is a fool
Umar is an embarrassing failure. He isn't a real doctor, definitely not licensed or practicing. It is scary how ignorant people are that follow him.
😂🤣
He really didn’t. Being loud and aggressive isn’t winning, it just shows you lack communication skills.
@@karzymimi42True 🤣😭🚩 I wanted to hear her share her views too without constantly being interrupted.
Loving this pro black movement globally - making my heart melt
Pro-Black Movement is trash
This convo has opened my eyes to how what a woman prioritises in a man signals if she’s ready to commit or she just wants something to make her feel good.
Prioritising height over emotional intelligence for instance clearly signals I just want to look good so I feel good, a clear sign of someone fearful of commitment
Interviewer was happy with Dr Umar until he started poking holes into her black man biases 😂😂
I'm so glad he shut that down 😂 immediately. You can tell She's not used to these type of "black men" . That's the group of black men the ladies can't find
Got real emotional
All of a sudden. Reality started to dawn 😂
She didn’t lie
@@12tribestilidie
Good.
Black men need to stay as far away as possible from women like this. They're draining.
Alkebulan is the original name of Africa
mmyeah, but it's only the oldest we know so far. I wouldn't be so sure it's "the" original one like there have never been no others. I tend to believe that Alkebulan coexisted with other names. I follows the same logic as the name of God. We have ALlah, ELohim, OLorun and can guess God's name in these languages is basically "L". In Arabic we get Allah and Alkebulan. If that makes sense, since Allah, Elohim and Olorun all refer to the same diety, still coexist today and come from the same root "L", I like to think that Alkebulan also coexisted with other names that started with either El/Il/Ol/Ul depending on the region, time and local name of God, or with "N", like in Unkulunkulu, Annunaki and Enlil/Elil.
When he was talking about relationships, if you would listen to what he said, he actually said what the lady eventually started to define as a decent black man 😂. It seemed like she did not even know that. That’s why he said what he said first and actually showed people by pulling it out of her what they are looking for in a black man. Money job 6 foot whatever and other things. This is exactly what he’s talking about. She proved his point.
Materialism!
If the shoe was on the other foot the man wouldn't think twice about investing in her this is the reason why black men are dating out white women get those guys in the beginning. That's why I'm open the dating anyone black women only care about themselves.
Most people haven’t a clue what they really want, much like Dr. Umar you have to coax it out of them. Believe or not, most have a laundry list but the minute consistency respect and affection shows up to the party, suddenly they’re singing a different tune. Companionship is so not about the external and contrary to popular belief, most people can serve the same purpose in our lives. We have multiple soul mates when we’re open minded
She did that.
She responded to want to be right , typical BW.
I have no problem investing in my husband. No problem at all. Once he has vision, ambition, drive, and determination, I'll support my King 🤴🏾 🙌🏾
Husband not a boyfriend
That part
Exactly! Umar not talking husband he talking boyfriend. Umar saying as a 50 year old man pay him $700 a month for 2 years so he can level up then I might marry you. If that ain't the biggest con game ever.. women beware of these type of men!
So..... peep thisHow do you get a husband if you don't invest in him as a mate yet? With that logic a man should treat women in your world view also. Also, pick the right mam to build with and it will be a better return om your investment. I am 16 years married, I built a life with my wife/of together not alone
@@AleciaCampbell-dz5un PLEASE go back to 19:49 and listen. Did you not just hear what the man said about a snow bunny? in order to be a husband you got to be a boyfriend first so if it's in progress in progress of building something hold him down! even if he was a good friend, our people need to be more supportive of each other ANYWAY🌹
I love Dr. Umar. He speaks on what truly needs to be addressed and isn’t afraid to say what others are scared to. My bad dating experiences have really shaped my perspective over time and opened my mind to supporting our Black men more. It’s helped me become more understanding and appreciative as well.
blessings to you 💜
Umar know his stuff! No one can beat this man in a debate
He's a hypocrite
@@Xian127 …and nobody can beat his scamming for a nonexistent school.
Clearly you have not heard THEEE woman called Candace Owens!
He lost a debate to Jesse Lee Peterson 😂😂😂😂
He got western education
Umar stands on business! Black power to my brother!
Why can't he stand on opening FDMG? 😂😂😂
Umar stand on scamming
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31:10 😂😂😂I can never get tired of this one :No ice No rice No spice... WHHAAT! He dropped the speaker and mic at the same time for this one😂😂😂
She wasn't ready. 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀 We need part 2
I think she was ready but Dr. Umar is a lot and his ego was a lot, good brother but he needs to let people speak.
@@freethoughts87 Umar is operating on a very different intellectual frequency that the interviewer. He was invited there, specifically to speak. What the interview should do more of, is listening.
But that's like pulling teeth for some.
@@freethoughts87 she likes dr Umar as a person. I don’t think she cared about his ego and all that because they’re the same sign. Us Leo’s understand each other pretty well.
@keke2296 What does that have to do with liking him and his zodiac sign, I like Umar as well, but he does speak over people all the time and in all his interviews. So if being a Leo means having a big ego and talking over people, I am not glad I am not one.
He got some points but hes also missing somethings. Like, he's making excuses for why BM cant provide, but then got the nerve to turn around and suggest BW should help financially knowing they strugggle too 😂😂 though he JUST said men should be providers not women. If youre not a provider, you have no business dating. Next thing, why is he not giving excuses/understanding context as to why BW cant provide for a BM in that way as easily as a WW? WW got money and or can run back to her family if the BM rings her dry, BW dont have that luxury alot of the time. So no they dont want to and shouldnt invest. BM yet again asking BW to be their backbone and for what? What large number of BM are building BW outhere? 😭
When he said Breathe King Kong is here 😂 Love him
Spoken with power!!
You can really tell Umar has battled the plagued western women mindset for quite some time now the way he is able to disarm the hosts opinions that are back by “I think” & “I feel like” answers while not having to diminish her or be rude. very good show much to take away !
Aka democracy
Facts, b/c for yrs he always attacked BM ONLY, never w/the proper balance. Ive watched him for yrs, around 20, and I see the growth...
@@Thunderbult3000These aren’t “attacks” and framing it as such isn’t conducive to conversation.
These are observations designed to promote a thinking mind and based on the reception, I assume it had some effect.
Dr. Umar is book smart on some subjects but a trained mind knows he is speaking foolishness. He mixes false history and racism which is all most Blacks need to hear 😂He only speaks to some women… not his equal
@@getinloser666 BullS+×t. Im a 30yrs student of the subject, been on it before Dr. Umar was even popular. Ive sided w/him battling these morons in our community who always attack him for no reason, except him wanting the community to want and do more, on our own. And to this day he still dont get the support he shld. Its always this way in our community. Anyone that attempts to make anything positive happen, once they get some attention, here comes the hate and the naysayers, slandering, spreading lies and falsehoods. Ive seen it too much. And to this day I still defend brother Umar although I do not agree 100% w/every single perspective he comes with. And the main one has been over criticizing and critiquing BM for yrs, all as he held BW up high no matter what, even in times where they are dead wrong. He even subtly attacked other men in the different sectors, who aim to talk to, reason with, correct, check, or merely discuss key important topics with, to, and abt BW..
Im just now seeing Dr. Umar adjust a few months ago, addressing some of the relationship problems BW have when it comes to BM. Just now, in 2024. And I saw the slight change, its b/c BM have tried everything in the last 25yrs to reach BW, understanding that the silence w/support doesnt work. BM thought, BW were intelligent enough to understand it all, then correct themselves, but were dead wrong. Theyve only doubled and tripled down..
It appears that Umar is recognizing this now, hes tried other approaches, but it hasnt gotten better, so I feel hes now leaningtowards the tougher more direct approach. And it does seem to be working much better...
I think this beautiful African Queen was overwhelmed by Dr. Umar's wisdom and intelligence. I really enjoyed this interview, or should I say, this teacher and pupil session.
Milt, he wasn't letting finish her thought half of the time and you can't deny that his physical presence is intimidating . i could see her hold back
Facts!!!
I think Umar Johnson was disrespectful in his overtalking of the host instead of letting her ask her questions.
He talked over her and was chauvinistic. she held her own. He was arrogant o and disrespectful
She was shocked by the ignorance of a man basically asking women for reparations!
This man always talks about things that I noticed since I was very young. Unless Afrika is free, no black man or woman will be free anywhere in the world by Dr. umar
This is an awesome and cintillating discourse. Africa Unite Now!!
I appreciate how the host held it together cause Dr Umar can start Umaring 😅
This woman exemplifies the Ethiopian mindset that many females in Addis Ababa aspire to embody nowadays. Pick your man at the finish line of the race without any interest in understanding the challenges he faced to complete the race, nor the willingness to support him in finishing that race. **It is essential to practice the art of effective interviewing...I clicked after seeing Dr. Umar, as I had not previously engaged with her content. Did she mention at the conclusion that this is a relationship podcast?! oh man I wonder where the herd is being led on this podcast.
You spelled ''every where'' wrong.
@@Defarenacheshow the hell does that add to his comment ?
Many Ethiopian women run their own races to get to the finish line, overcoming their own unique sets of challenges, and the you expect them to pick a brother who failed finish his own race?? Aren't we men supposed to be stronger than women? Therefore, how is she ever supposed to look up to him and respect him for failing to finish his race??
@patriceesela5000 this has to be the most goofiest response just say you want to be with a gold digger cause that’s the only woman who would think like that
You proved his point.
That's so powerful what the Dr Umar says.. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
As a clinical psychologist who have spent my career in both education and the criminal justice system, I have met so many great advocates but no one comes even close to Dr. Umar. I may not agree with every single stands that he takes but ultimately he wants the best for the black community and will always have my respect as a result of his actions. Very few individuals have the discipline and knowledge of self require to maintain their positionality across the spectrum of time. Say whatever you want about him but not once has he changed his narrative and purpose!!!
Agree
Dr Umar has been everywhere I love it!!! ♥️💚🖤 And love him…. All black everything
This was an excellent discussion that I honestly struggled to keep up with. I just could not take my eyes and mind off that woman. She is absolutely exquisite.
We must continue empowering Africa we have no choice but to do so.
What we’re doing to ourselves is absolutely insane. How can we expect to heal and thrive when we remain fully integrated with the very people who caused us so much pain and destruction?
We should demand that they leave us alone so we can begin to truly heal and rebuild. Imagine this: a beast enters your home, destroys your family, shatters everything you hold dear, and then comes back to sit with you, watch football, and share a few drinks. Wouldn’t that be insane?
Exactly! That kind of madness seems normal only in Africa.
This is why we’re so hard on each other-because we never took the time to heal from the trauma. Instead, we carry the pain, passing it onto each other, generation after generation.
We need to break this cycle, reclaim our power, and focus on building ourselves up. Healing begins with acknowledging the harm, setting boundaries, and creating space to thrive without interference.
The same neocolonialists we are so eager to integrate with are still looting over $500 billion a year from Africa, while 600 million Africans still live without electricity or running water.
When will we wake up?
What will it take for our leaders to wake up?
It's so sad to see Gen Z Black Americans constantly debate with and put down Africans living in their countries and America. I can tell as a Black British person of Caribbean origin, we are far more conscious about our heritage and history. We love our countries and visit as often as possible. We take holidays there as tourists and trips to see family and friends to reconnect. Millions of Black Americans claim to love America, yet America does NOT and will NEVER love them back. They would ship all of them back to any African country in a heartbeat.
Africans are extremely tribal only thing African Americans can do is go back to Africa with they riches and help those tribes then maybe they will accept yall lol other than that them africans not fking around with no African Americans keep it 💯
@matthewprince9705 as an Af-Amer in America, I agree. We're so divided here it's annoying at this point. In the case of visiting countries in Africa from America, the flights prices are crazy unless it's planned far in advance. In America's internet it's hard to find undiluted history unless you have like minded people connected.
@@matthewprince9705Black Americans aren't putting down Africans and blacks were here in America before white settlers showed up so called Black people were invaded and in the white washing history they'll show Spanish looking Indians or Native Americans but we the Black or the real Jew Americans, were here and are the Aborigines.
There must be a focused separation amongst black people. And it should be constant. It should be so constant it’ll force black people to choose a side. That is where it should start. And it should be public AND privately regarded.
Wow, this is so uplifting, it’s important to stay inspired.
I feel a deep sense of emptiness, it’s been 2months since jack left and everyday feels like an eternity without him.
My mind’s been flooded with memories of our time together. It’s so painful that I’d never get to experience the little things with him again.
I’ve texted him several times telling him how much I miss and want him sadly he replied none. Guess all I can do is just hold unto the memories.
It’s ok to grieve dear It’s clear that you’re not just missing jack but a part of yourself that you shared with him. Your message to him is a testament to the love you still have for him. It’s takes courage to be that vulnerable. It’s ok to feel the pain of heartbreak but don’t loose hope.
My own heart break story is one of devastation . It was sudden and brutal leaving me lost. Desperate for solace and guidance, I reached out to a spiritual counselor who was recommended by a friend for help.
That sounds intriguing, I’m curious what exactly does the spiritual counselor do?
His name is fatherabulu and he's an amazing spiritual counselor who specialize in helping people reconnect with their ex
I’m grateful for your suggestion, you have no idea how much this means to me.
Time is the healer. I just went through this as a man. Don't fall into following some random so called relationship person as a response.
I love this conversation. I like how Dr Umar is firm but loving in his way of argumenting. He's been repeating the same arguments for decades now, he knows every argument and how to debunk them lol. I love his lion energy. This is good education for those who are new to these concepts. He is 100% right tho. We do need to keep our love, our money and our culture for ourselves first and be 100% unapolegetic and non negociable about how ti is shared with other nations who are always ready to exploit us. But I can also see how it's overwhelming to realize the amount of work it will require and how we will not see the end result of this generational pharaonic project ourselves. But it all start with a change of heart and mind and a lot patience and love for one another since we dont move and awake at the same pace. I'm 100% working for it and always happy to see more and more people embracing this mentality.
Dr. Umar's message is right on point. Unity is the first priority. Without that, nothing else will happen for us. Unity first.
"Africa has to be strong" - Dr Umar 2024.
Wheres the school? GP 2024😂
@@gpayne3728 where is your common sense? pay attention 🤡
Get rid of China first 😂
Appreciate the wisdom that Br Umar brought to the podcast and her listeners
After listening to the whole thing, this the same shit we dealing with here in the US. I see Australia ain’t no different, may even be worse when listening to her!
Australia is a rabidly feminist place
And she lied saying that they're different. She really thinks people are stupid to not know any better. She's very young and has a lot to learn before trying to correct someone old enough to be her father 😂
This is the first time I've seen him speak truth to women
welk u never seen him. he spoke to men too😊
Because he told bw to take care of weak a** bm that are bums.
Then you don’t watch his videos
Facts
You must be new, he speaks truths to everyone
I think the interviewer learned a lot in this interview. You can tell she wasn't as informed on some of these things, but it was good that Dr. Omar had this conversation with her also white women do support black men when they have nothing more than black women. I would say that is due to fear of not having a man provide which stands from lack of fathers in the household. So it all comes from somewhere as black women we just have to be a little bit more aware and lifting or Black kings up.
This was a great convo. She asked sincere logical questions and was open to Dr Umars perspective. Great interview!
That was open? 😂
Yep she was more open.
I agree. She was open. Allowed him to speak. She kept it classy.
11:50 baby girl winta was flabbergasted “FACTSSSSS” 😂❤
She is Gorgeous and so sophisticated, classy and authentic. Oh my Goodness, Diva-licious. Dr. Umar is nothing but the truth. I can listen to you all day and in 2025. I will be doing so.
It's interesting to see many BM agreeing with him in the comments about BW wanting the final product while we grew up seeing and still see BM using BW as their comeup women.
The second they get successful they leave for anything non black.
Everyone knows that, and that's the reason why we see now some BW reluctant about being the builder.
Ladies, a real man would never ask for your money. And no men will respect you for being the builder, regardless of the race.
i hope you realize that most black men are married to or with black women in america stop believing fake narratives being put out by agents of chaos relationships and marriage are not always going to be perfect human beings have flaws
@@markparham They're watching too much TV 🤦♂️
Thank you for saying that.
Beautiful interviewer and excellently critical information. ✊🏾 She said, "There might be some love there is crazy." 18:16min mark😊...We definitely need to reclaim black love. We need each other more than ever in these times... 🙏🏾
💯 we need each other.
Absolutely Real Talk👊💯
People Need 2 Be Genuine etc👌
She's absolutely GORGEOUS ❤
This was one of my favorite interviews in 2024. Great content keep up the work!
Dr Umar is The Provisional President Of Afrikan People ✊🏿🔥✊🏿 Great Interview ✊🏿
No he's a scammer
@jahlove2002 No he's not. You are
@@jahlove2002 keep trying 😂😂 You may one day succeed in soiling his name
@@baerkaabnaab2388he spoke his own name. When he’s not talking about himself when is he praising any other black man that’s not deceased? What other black man has he ever worked with? I’ll wait! Only times this clown speaks highly of anyone black it’s a woman and he’s oversexualizing her!!
@@jahlove2002And you're ❓❓❓
Dr Umar, I'll really love to have a talk with African Leaders whenever there's an African summit. The problems we're facing around the world is we ourselves as Africans. I'll be very grateful to see you anytime in the African Union Summit.
i loved the interview. the lady is inteligent, polite and humble. much love from Cape Verde Islands, West Afrika.
She spoken like a true African and you wonder why there are issues and problems in the black community worldwide 😂. She just showed you why
😂 facts
No such thing as black community. We come from different countries and cultures
Sugar Water.
LOL
Sorry but Africa's problems are not the same as black America's ...Africans are fighting white colonialism, Black Americans are fighting eachother
This guy's confidence is admirableand even catchy...
"take a deep breath, King Kong is here" is insane 💎
Too many black women looking for a finish product. That part
Most black women aren't finished
Agreed!!
It is absolutely true that too many sisters are searching for finiah products. I agree completely.
Why wouldn't they? dating off of potential is stupid we live in capitalism and money determines how far you can go in life.
@@gregorydavis8699they have the worst results as a group they don’t get to be picky
love this podcast ❤❤❤
“No snow bunnies!! Warm peanut butter bunnies only!!!”😂😂😂😂😂😂✊🏾✊🏿
He is a psychologist ! She can’t play word games with Dr.Umar 😉
She tried her best to be disingenuous, but he pulled her back down to Earth real quick 😂
They are not on the same level. She looks like Ethiopian. As Ethiopian and East African, I find her too much focus on income oriented prestige and relationship. Intellectually, she was not ready for this.
@Mindfulconsience intellectually, she's not ready for anything serious period. Her mind is too modern and materialistic altogether
Exact
Interesting interview and interesting comments on the video. I like that she TRIED to stand up for her beliefs but also allowed him to have his words. They will pick your words apart and try to humiliate you because there is a need to feel more powerful than someone, anyone.
Sis, don’t you argue with these men. If you do you’re angry and aggressive, if you don’t you weren’t “ready” for this interview. Obviously, just continue to want better for yourself and your people bc at the end of the day, you can’t win in the eyes of others. When he had the gumption to suggest black women do not hold bm down, I just about fainted. Let them say whatever while you do your thing. Great job❤❤❤
17:01 is real & deep. Most black modernized women will invest in feeding a man, traveling & dating a man but reluctant on investing in & with him in BUSINESS.
Where’s your fathers and uncles to invest in your business? When the Asian man wants to open a business he crowd funds with the men in his family. Same with the Indian and same with the Arabs. Same with the Latino and white boy. Black American men rely too much on women when you should be relying on the men in your network. The reason you don’t go to black men for investment is because you know black men aren’t serious, they don’t trust each other, and there are consequences if they don’t get an ROI. You go to women because you know you can take advantage of them.
He is absolutely right! Too many "black women want a finished product!!"🔥🔥
Black males will always be unfinished.
Black men can reach 80 years old and still be unfinished.
😪
That is what we want but we accept other because we are realistic. But all men want a daddy even when they are a chubby. Blk women have always and still help and support a man without. The blk man that comes into his own leaves a blk women behind upon his success not all but to many
@@ZarmaryZ I don't do snow bunny what he said is the truth to some extent! They do cultivate and grow with you. I have seen it so many times more than sistahs especially in this gen!.
Thank you for this beautiful classic
I don't blame her for needing a moment. This man is going fast, yet I understand where they're both coming from.
Asking a woman to give a man you’re dating $700 a month is CRAZY!!!! I would never tell my daughter to sign up for anything like this, run!!!
But spending $700/month taking a girl out on dates is not crazy?
not giving investing
and comparing black women to black men while telling bw to not compare bm to white men .Bm are the only group of men with biggest victim mentality.
@Nestaarnaki that's not an investment
@@selfishgirlsgofirstyou are bed wenching all over the comments
I haven’t actually sat down and watched a full episode of Dr Umar on a podcast. This is the first time and I loved it! What a man!🙏🏾 his responses had me laughing although I know he’s being real I’m totally taking it all in but the part “what kind of black man are you struggling to find?”🤣
Unc don’t play! If you’re about to have a conversation with Dr Umar you really have to be ready for him to break eveything down with crystal clear clarity. I love it! Great conversation 🙌🏾
As a man that is married. I wouldn't want a woman to bank roll my dream. I do believe that women can do better at investing in time.
Truth in plain sight not easy to handle as u are part of the contratry!! wigs vs natural!!!...we need to stop pretending not get the truth! at the end of the day we ridiculous!! am proud of you Dr Umar ! THANK YOU! 🤗 Gabon ,Central Africa.
She said she know black women and shes friends with black women so there for she dont even identify as a black woman but yea umar thanks for telling it like it is they wamt a decent black man but dont want to invest in their dreams to make him great and successful man dr umar never lies he always on point
😂 yea i caught that.
Thats bc were not black. If we reproduce with non habesha does offspring come out habesha? 9.7/10 times the answer is no. So how are we "black" ? Ill wait.
let's be real is she ?
@@PHlophe she isnt and im not were habesha we have own culture food religion calander customs gestures language and so on. Shes just using his name for views.
@@PHlophe most of all we have our own identity. So dont flatter yourselves so quickly.
The story of black love is one where we need to talk abouy healing the subconscious mind. Theres unresolved trauma that can't be ignored because as within so without.
Thank you Dr Umar ❤
You did an excellent job Queen 👑👏🏾
No she did not. She kept pushing when Umar made vital points.
@@Virgilenzali737 she challenged and offer her and her cohorts perspective and when given valid points and rebuttals she accepted.
@@lareinedafrique4215when did she accept ?
@@Virgilenzali737 Dr. Umar interrupted almost 3/4th's of her Q&A's. But overall it was a pretty decent interesting interview.
Yes she did lmbo
Dr. Umar always comes with the fire 🔥
All the time , he definitely was called to do this
He needs to open that fake school 😂😂😂😂
I love this man. Protect this man 🙏🏽
She wasn’t ready For him and she has a-lot of growth to do.
Dr. Umar Johnson is Fire 🔥 period 🔥 and black women should sit at his feet and be educated. After all, he is a man and a man for black people!
Awesome podcast with Dr. Umar! The young lady was simply listening to respond instead of listening to comprehend the responses. Dr. Umar too often had to say “stay with me” for her to not stay around long enough for him to finish his response.
19:50 - Regarding finances, we make the mistake of looking solely at income because deep down, we truly don’t understand finances. In reality, it’s not what you make, it’s what you keep. Today, it’s not about love, it’s about the man’s money and his utility. I think black love is done. Please prove me wrong. I’m begging to be proven wrong. I want to be proven wrong.
A lot of women invest in their man and get deceived hence the reluctancy I rarely hear about a man investing in a women.
It happens both ways
😂😂😂
Rarely hear about men investing in a woman?? Explain the divorce rate ratio between men and women and who usually gets half of the others assists or sometimes all of it?? You have to be living under a rock or turn a blind eye saying this non sense
Why is it that absolutely no one online can spell womAn correctly? It's so stupid.
@@aaronflowers8881 women is correct as I’m referring to multiple women so whose stupid?
I invested in a poor educated and intelligent poor man from a poor country who is definitely not lazy and have a vision but there is no guarantee of anything but so far it’s looking good.
I’m glad she stood up and disagreed with him and gave him pushback
Where? She agreed with 98 percent of what he was saying.
@ yes she did agree with some things as I also did but she didn’t agree with everything
nope she said nothing
she contradicted herself too much, that was the psychology in him bringing that out. She doesnt understand that our women want the snowbunny lifestyle, forgetting how much a black man that they want sweat out blood, tears and half his sanity to reach it, and that they're not just going to pick anybody.
He is speaking facts. Becky is one the ground floor with the Black Men. Keshia looking for the end product. ❤❤❤❤❤
Lies yal get Becky after the bag
@@AuraAroma-j3o Becky helps get the bag and will give hers up for you to double it. Keshia thinks we're her personal welfare system.
@ look at the facts! NFL draft in Detroit this year all the or most 90% of black boys had Becky on their arm?
none sense !
@ Facts are the facts! Me myself I love Keshia, but Heidi is winning the game in 2025
Big ups for putting Ifatunde in the title. Integrity over clout. Respect.
The problem with holding down men is when a woman does that as soon as he becomes a doctor or lawyer or millionaire he will leave her for someone else. That's the fear.
That's a freaking lie, and women are more than likely to monkey branch from one man to a richer one. The divorce is 80 percent caused by women FOR FINANCIAL REASONS.
That's a freaking lie, and women are more than likely to monkey branch from one man to a richer one. The divorce is 80 percent caused by women FOR FINANCIAL REASONS.
That's a freaking lie, and women are more than likely to monkey branch from one man to a richer one. The divorce is 80 percent caused by women FOR FINANCIAL REASONS.
That's a freaking lie, and women are more than likely to monkey branch from one man to a richer one. The divorce is 80 percent caused by women FOR FINANCIAL REASONS.
That's a freaking lie, and women are more than likely to monkey branch from one man to a richer one. The divorce is 80 percent caused by women FOR FINANCIAL REASONS.
WOWWWW!!! Wintana big ups!!! such a great conversation
Thank you ♥️♥️♥️
Dr. Umar is one of the most outspoken individuals when it comes to addressing the economic, social, and political failures within the Black community. He particularly emphasizes the notion that Black women often fail to support Black men who are still in the process of achieving success. He contrasts this with the recognition and support that white women often provide to Black men, which I believe is true and cannot be overstated.
I concur with Dr. Umar's argument and can attest to it from my own experience. Fourteen years ago, many Black women could not see the potential in me, which validated his point of view as more than just a hypothesis. Today, I am a civil/structural engineer at the peak of my career. However, it would have been even more fulfilling if I had met a supportive sister earlier on, so we could have motivated each other and conquered the challenges together.
Now, I am a proud father of two boys with a wonderful Black queen, but I recognize that not every man is as fortunate as I am.
He is talking about Weaves, Men of other ethnicities, racial groups are talking about Global moves, tariffs, trade, infrastructure, and overall movement of money. The scope is small with this one. How long is he going to talk about the same BS?!
He was asked a question about it, and he responded
That's my complaint too
He can he talk about that when even those among us who are professional/corporate, still have an elementary mindset!
Black men do nothing but gossip. It’s why they are act the bottom. They have no interest in building. Need to stop going on podcasts and and finally finish his school.
We can’t talk about anything as long as our women mind is gone. We need y’all to reclaim yall minds or we gotta have them convos without considering y’all the window closing for black women
Black women definitely don’t be looking for a finished product. Just another excuse from black men. All my life I’ve only seen black women hold down black men and get a slap in a face for it in the end. You always hear black women complain for decades now about how black men once they become successful they drop the black woman that was there now you have a few that don’t wanna go through that and now it’s a problem. SMH.