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  • @bluebell8557
    @bluebell8557  5 років тому +17

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  • @cherriwaves9294
    @cherriwaves9294 4 роки тому +411

    I believe Daisy belongs with her husband too but, not in a romantic sense. Not like "oh look how cute they are" but how they easily discard people like yesterday's fashion and cover up the tracks with their money. As the quote near the end says "Tom and Daisy are careless people" and although Gatsby was no exception i believe he deserved a better ending.

    • @bluebell8557
      @bluebell8557  4 роки тому +68

      Poor Gatsby couldn’t see that she was in love with her husband. In my opinion, she never wanted anything serious with Gatsby. I feel like she just wanted to make Tom pay for how he treated her in the past. The minute he promised to treat her better, she left Gatsby and didn’t look back.

    • @141kujoe
      @141kujoe 3 роки тому +11

      This was meant to be tragic. It was never a love story!

    • @cherriwaves9294
      @cherriwaves9294 3 роки тому +8

      @@141kujoe I never said it was a love story. I'm saying that he deserved a better demise. This when I watched it wasn't about the romance it was more like "Money speaks but money can only do so much."

    • @ntiisw
      @ntiisw 2 роки тому +10

      I think the kind of love that is an obsession with a person, is not really about love at all. It is about loving an image that you have in your head, being devotional not to that person but to that image. You are obsessed with someone, because you obv. Admire him/her but that is to satisfy a part of you that is unsatisfied, this kind of love is selfish because it is about self pleasure. It is about gaining the approval of the other, trying to fill a void that you have within you. So people should stop romantizing obsession, because it is a way to self love through the acceptance of the other at the end of the day and its not the romanticism that makes you climb mountains for this particular human being, it is the approval you need from them, the love you need from them that will make you feel satisfied. This is a selfish love and this was gatsby's love. So people should stop blaming daisy for choosing Tom (her kids' father). gatsby's love was never about daisy but more about himself.

  • @littlelaguna9379
    @littlelaguna9379 4 роки тому +393

    If Tom didn't feel anything for Daisy he would have left her long ago, and it goes the same for Daisy. Even when she had her chance with Gatsby she still couldn't let Tom go. Tom and Daisy are each other's safe havens when the world gets too loud and out of their control. It's love, but it's a sad love, a love that will never truly get fulfilled.

  • @stuggie7881
    @stuggie7881 4 роки тому +156

    The different beliefs of love are interesting to analyze. Gatsby believed in soulmates, and he thought Daisy would reciprocate, which of course she didn’t. That I believe is his downfall, not the failure to realize the passage of time. If she had believed Gatsby was her soulmate, they would have ended up together.

    • @bluebell8557
      @bluebell8557  3 роки тому +3

      I’m interested to know what you think daisy’s belief of love is. If Gatsby believed in soul mates, what about Daisy? How did she see love?

    • @stuggie7881
      @stuggie7881 3 роки тому +13

      @@bluebell8557 That’s pretty complicated. I think Daisy’s belief in love changed from the time she met Gatsby to the plot’s present. She probably had a view of love where she wanted to be with someone that was a good fit for her back then (though not to the extreme of soulmates). She definitely loved Gatsby more when she got married looking at how she reacted the day of her wedding to that letter. You can argue that Gatsby didn’t take into account how Daisy had changed over time as his failure to realize the passage of time (his traditionally-attributed flaw), but to me her belief of love is a function of time along with other variables.
      During the plot’s time period, Daisy's belief in love probably changed to where she would’ve wanted to just be with someone with more stability after experiencing more of life. She knew Tom had been unfaithful all along, but since she saw how Gatsby had made his fortune, she decided it was just probably easier to stay with Tom even though it was clear Gatsby was more devoted to her than Tom was over those five years. It seems pretty clear that Gatsby’s view of Daisy being his soulmate never changed over those five years.
      I saw in another reply of yours where you say you had plenty of evidence showing if Tom hadn’t been unfaithful, Daisy would have never cheated on him with Gatsby. Just curious to hear what those moments are.

    • @bluebell8557
      @bluebell8557  3 роки тому +10

      @@stuggie7881 oh no I meant that there's plenty of proof that Daisy actually loved Tom and isn't planning on leaving him. Here's my interpretation: Daisy loved Tom, maybe even saw him as a soul mate. I truly believe Daisy loved Tom more than she loved Gatsby. Daisy Loved Tom and that's why she married him "I've never seen a girl so in love with her husband" but she turned on him after Tom turned out to be unfaithful and had a woman "in New York". Also, in the garden, after Gatsby tells her they need to tell Tom, she says this: "remember how much fun we had? I don't know why we can't just have fun like that again" that line always struck me. It showed that all she was looking for was a good time and to feel wanted. Another scene that really struck me was the confrontation scene. While Gatsby was going off "she never loved anyone but me" and "she never loved you", Daisy is terribly quiet. Not saying a single word. No one comes close to Tom in her eyes, not even Gatsby.
      The reason I believe she wouldn't have cheated was because its obvious she married Tom for love, not money. So she would have no reason to cheat because she would've been happy. This is proven because she leaves Gatsby as soon as Tom tells her "he'll take better care of her from now on" and "let me take care of things". This leads me to believe that if he initially treated her better, she would have been more than happy with him and wouldn't need to seek love and acceptance and fun from someone else.

    • @stuggie7881
      @stuggie7881 3 роки тому +4

      @@bluebell8557 Those are some good points. It’s been a while since I saw the movie, and a REALLY long time since I read the book, so I’ve been basing my analysis on the movie. To me, her reaction to Gatsby’s letter the day of her wedding showed that she probably preferred Gatsby over Tom. Does “preferring to marry” really mean being more in love? Not necessarily. On top of that it’s hard to compare Daisy’s feelings for Tom vs. her feelings for Gatsby because I don’t think Daisy and Gatsby knew each other for a long time when they first met five years before. Daisy and Tom clearly had spent much more time together, 4+ years up to the plot’s time period, so in that sense she loved him more because they were able to develop their relationship much more deeply. Gatsby seems to be that ex or that gut feeling about someone you’ve met that you thought had great potential, but it just didn’t work out in the end.

    • @bluebell8557
      @bluebell8557  3 роки тому +5

      @@stuggie7881 yesss exactlyyy. I think by that time when she received the letter maybe she did love Gatsby more but by the time they started their affair, I think she was more in love with Tom. Probably because of the reasons you’ve mentioned. Time and all that.

  • @bawoman
    @bawoman 3 роки тому +230

    Tom and Daisy deserved each other and belonged to each other. Whether it was real love or not, who knows, but they are the only 2 who spoke their language and the only 2 who could tolerate each other long term.

    • @EdbauEsteban
      @EdbauEsteban 2 роки тому +6

      Tom was a cheater

    • @fairyblu6929
      @fairyblu6929 2 роки тому +14

      @@EdbauEsteban and so was Daisy. I agree with the og comment, they deserve each other, real love or not and the only ones who will ever understand each other.

    • @ericad8412
      @ericad8412 Рік тому

      At the end of the day they belong to one another in Hell they're 2 peas in a pod but in dysphoria.

    • @PATHOLIAR-cz7pn
      @PATHOLIAR-cz7pn Рік тому +1

      As if that justifies them killing people and destroying people’s lives. Yeah they spoke each others language- the love language of hell.

    • @uwidoug
      @uwidoug Рік тому +1

      “They deserved each other “

  • @dianacaplat7342
    @dianacaplat7342 6 місяців тому +9

    I saw the movie and then I read the book. It changed my perception about Daisy and Gatsby's relationship....Daisy was an obsession in all aspects....and she just got back to him because of hurt for her husband's cheating....but they had so different views of what this rekindling was ...

  • @heema147
    @heema147 Рік тому +25

    For all of you saying that Tom would've left Daisy if he never loved her and if she never loved him if you actually read the book Daisy was a catholic and never believed in divorce. Tom was only with Daisy because for his image and reputation, his mistress Myrtle came from the poor while Daisy was his image of wealth that's the only reason why he stayed with her.

    • @boredom6507
      @boredom6507 7 місяців тому +7

      Daisy wasn’t catholic, Tom only said that to justify why he wouldn’t leave her to Myrtle.

    • @briewilga9054
      @briewilga9054 2 місяці тому +4

      That was a lie Tom told Myrtle. But I agree that Tom would never have actually married Myrtle because of how it would look.

  • @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607
    @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 2 роки тому +16

    I never saw this movie bc the actual book was so tragic. This video is fucking fantastic though, it really makes me want to see this

  • @Muirmaiden
    @Muirmaiden 3 роки тому +122

    Honestly, I think Carey Mulligan had much better chemistry with Joel Edgerton than she did with Leonardo DiCaprio. Mulligan even said she would like to work with Edgerton again, especially in a film about Daisy and Tom's relationship.

    • @bluebell8557
      @bluebell8557  3 роки тому +5

      Wow! Cool! Never knew she said that.

  • @thytranthiminh4814
    @thytranthiminh4814 4 місяці тому +6

    To be honest, I think that she never spends real love on Gatsby and just want to revenge on his two-timer husband, poor man, Tom was true, she loved him and his money and when Tom promised to treat her better, she left Gatsby without any moment hesitated.

  • @lukasmiller486
    @lukasmiller486 2 роки тому +33

    So many people hate Daisy but part of me pities her because you can tell in this scene 3:37 she’s going to have a lot of regrets. I hope she would find a way to forgive herself and make peace with the past.

  • @0tocci029
    @0tocci029 3 роки тому +67

    They truly deserve eachother. They have very much in common and I certainly believe Gastby deserved a better ending but him not able to move on or take no as an answer was his demise
    Edit: The reason I believe daisy and Tom deserved each other was because they were fueled by selfishness and craved pleasure. Even if it was temporary.

    • @bluebell8557
      @bluebell8557  3 роки тому +5

      Yess he should’ve left a married woman alone. Sometimes when you believe someone is meant for you or is your soulmate, you forget that they’re their own people who might want something else for themselves.

    • @MaryMargaretteWhite-ek5tn
      @MaryMargaretteWhite-ek5tn Рік тому +1

      @@bluebell8557He did try to win her back…..and she chose to stay with someone who treats her like a possession and cheats on her repeatedly. In the end Gasby still “wins”….he became a rich man and when he’s ready could chose whoever he wants.

  • @LMerci
    @LMerci 5 років тому +35

    🌼 Hauntingly beautiful🌠

  • @Amalthea11
    @Amalthea11 5 років тому +23

    Beautifully made! I think I finally have to watch this movie 😘

  • @ShellShockerSporanox
    @ShellShockerSporanox 4 роки тому +18

    Surprisingly great music video! Fantastic job!

    • @bluebell8557
      @bluebell8557  4 роки тому +3

      Sprightly Woodland Gnome thank you!!

  • @monkeymeme911
    @monkeymeme911 5 років тому +58

    I thinks Daisy belongs with her husband too. I love this video!

    • @bluebell8557
      @bluebell8557  4 роки тому +11

      @@Tajjeeralak I genuinely believe she would've stayed if he didn't continue treating her like crap. I honestly think that she wouldn't have looked at Gatsby twice if Tom wasn't cheating on her and humiliating her like that. I have my own proof from the movie and the book but honestly everything is opened to interpretation.

    • @rubies200
      @rubies200 9 місяців тому +1

      At the end, Daisy realized what she was about to do to her and her daughter's reputations. And she knew by then, where Gatsby's money came from. But I do believe she would've walked, if not for her daughter.
      She told her daughter to be silly little thing and marry well.

  • @iamgouravmishra.mba08
    @iamgouravmishra.mba08 3 роки тому +4

    Best Edit I've ever seen for the great Gatsby

  • @EdbauEsteban
    @EdbauEsteban 2 роки тому +16

    Tom was a cheater... Gatsby never cheated

  • @debabratamanna1358
    @debabratamanna1358 3 роки тому +79

    Gatsby shouldn't have come back to a married woman's life, he made a big mistake

    • @bluebell8557
      @bluebell8557  3 роки тому +9

      💯🙌🏻

    • @UMCentral
      @UMCentral 7 місяців тому +1

      He should’ve went with someone else. Daisy is quite literally a villain alongside Tom.

    • @christopherviggiano9367
      @christopherviggiano9367 5 місяців тому +1

      Idk if he would want to live without her

  • @zuzu6483
    @zuzu6483 3 роки тому +28

    Tom and Daisy are careless and selfish

  • @ntiisw
    @ntiisw 2 роки тому +30

    I think the kind of love that is an obsession with a person, is not really about love at all. It is about loving an image that you have in your head, being devotional not to that person but to that image. You are obsessed with someone, because you obv. Admire him/her but that is to satisfy a part of you that is unsatisfied, this kind of love is selfish because it is about self pleasure. It is about gaining the approval of the other, trying to fill a void that you have within you. So stop romantizing obsession, because it is a way to self love through the acceptance of the other at the end of the day and its not the romanticism that makes you climb mountains for this particular human being, it is the approval you need from them, the love you need from them that will make you feel satisfied. This is a selfish love and this was gatsby's love. So stop blaming daisy for choosing Tom (her kids' father) gatsby's love was never about daisy but more about himself.

  • @noorie_noorie_
    @noorie_noorie_ 2 роки тому +1

    Beautiful edit!

  • @sleepyokapi
    @sleepyokapi 3 роки тому +47

    daisy kinda manipulated gatsby, she wanted to be with him in some sort of sense to get away from the control that is her husband, but it didn't last very long. they were never really made for each other since they were both cheating (both of them were pretty selfish) as shown here. i honestly don't think she should be with anyone but she doesn't have that sense of independency so erm idk. but i loved the video despite my opinion being different from yours. i love the song choice as well.

    • @bluebell8557
      @bluebell8557  3 роки тому +8

      Omg thank you!! I totally agree with this! Daisy so used Gatsby to get back at Tom. To me that was obvious. I never really considered her being on her own. I definitely think she should be on her own over her being with Tom if he doesn’t change. That relationship can never be anything other than toxic if Tom doesn’t actually change his ways and stop cheating.

    • @rubies200
      @rubies200 9 місяців тому +1

      Daisy would never leave Tom, even if she wasn't Catholic. And she wasn't selfish; her reputation would've been ruined. And that would reflect back on her daughter. So, she took the crumbs Tom threw at her. If it wasn't for her daughter, I think she would've chanced it.
      Also, I hope Daisy was pregnant from her affair with Gatsby. And Gatsby's son would have inherited Tom's fortune. Serves Buchanan right.

  • @boop5287
    @boop5287 Рік тому +6

    Codependent goals lmao

  • @daintyhippie
    @daintyhippie 4 роки тому +57

    I absolutely love this video! I'm one of the odd ones, too, that love Daisy and Tom together. Do you think Tom loved Daisy at all? I think Daisy truly does love Tom. Gatsby is just someone she turns to for affection and attention Tom is directing elsewhere.

    • @bluebell8557
      @bluebell8557  4 роки тому +20

      For sure!! I think they both loved each other very much! I think he’s just one of those guys who can’t stick to one woman and Daisy isn’t the kind of girl to overlook something like that. As for Daisy and Gatsby, she only went to him to make Tom pay. I truly believe that if Tom wasn’t unfaithful, Daisy would have never cheated on him with Gatsby. They hint that fact quite repeatedly in the movie and book actually. That she doesn’t actually love Gatsby and she isn’t planning on leaving Tom. My video tries to highlight those moments when their love for each other really shows in the movie. I especially love the moment when Tom realises he’s won “ please Tom I can’t stand it anymore” and runs out of the room while Gatsby stands and begs for her.

    • @taniskaborah4564
      @taniskaborah4564 3 роки тому +5

      I believe Tom and daisy love each other in some twisted way

  • @thezodiacgirl7166
    @thezodiacgirl7166 Місяць тому

    I think these two are interesting, and somewhat doomed. Not in a sense where the two can't be together like Gatsby and Daisy. The two are doomed as for how their relationship is how it is. In different times, perhaps with the two being different people, the two might have a healthier and more loving relationship.
    However, this is the 1920's, where social classes were important, and to hold that prestige, old families have their children married off as a political and social arrangement, with no room in-between for affections. Tom might have loved her or shown affection/interest in her at some-point, and Daisy was cited via Jordan that "she had never seen a girl so in love with her husband", but that's where the line might end. The two might have affections for each other, and even real love at some point. However, that deteriorated once their marriage was sealed and was cruising along, as the two had an arrangement to be together to hold their families legacies, nothing more and nothing less.
    So these two then cheat on each other to seek people who'd fill that void, that lack of intimate affection. Tom used Myrtle and Daisy used Gatsby. The two felt something for each other, however that's nothing close to love. Daisy doesn't believe in divorce, that and she's groomed to be married to a man to help her with her finances and living so it's not like she has anywhere else to go. If she's married to someone she's married to them for life. Tom was her for his image and for the sake of holding his families name, as it's considered a dishonor to be married to someone lower than him in social class. The two's affection can be stretched so far the two remain, however the main reasons being? It's for the sake of themselves. It's a selfish love that keeps deteriorating them at their core, and keeps them going at the same time.

  • @bridgetmassey3237
    @bridgetmassey3237 11 місяців тому

    I love this music video

  • @stevennx13
    @stevennx13 9 місяців тому +1

    Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings. Proverbs 31:3 (KJV)

  • @sydgee4769
    @sydgee4769 3 роки тому +8

    it’s true that daisy never loved Tom instead she was always in love with jay mr gastby. But in my opinion she should’ve been married to jay and not to Tom lots of good memories with her and jay

    • @bluebell8557
      @bluebell8557  3 роки тому +7

      I actually believe she loved Tom, not Gatsby. At least not when the affair took place.

    • @taniskaborah4564
      @taniskaborah4564 3 роки тому +11

      I actually believe she loved Tom and never loved Jay because if she did love him she should have left Tom and married Jay after he got rich but she never did and she didn't even come to his funeral and let she also let Jay take the fall for accident so its pretty clear she never love Jay

  • @tamale4864
    @tamale4864 3 роки тому +16

    Daisy is a horrible person.

  • @katerinae.4492
    @katerinae.4492 4 роки тому +5

    thanks for making this. tom x daisy my favorite ship in TGG!

  • @mariafernandalopezdavila644
    @mariafernandalopezdavila644 4 роки тому +7

    What's the song?

    • @marcy_inwersja
      @marcy_inwersja 4 роки тому +7

      White Mustang by Lana Del Rey

    • @bluebell8557
      @bluebell8557  4 роки тому +3

      ua-cam.com/video/F4ELqraXx-U/v-deo.html

  • @amirahimkamara177
    @amirahimkamara177 Рік тому +1

    I want daisy to be with gaspy

  • @ratuadilFF
    @ratuadilFF 8 місяців тому

    Aku sibuk, aku tdk pernah menyukai dendi ,,
    Bila mereka berkeliaran disekitarku, semua karena dia melakukannya tanpa izinku , bukan pula di bawah perintahku,

  • @yulyabarca7304
    @yulyabarca7304 3 роки тому +3

    I didn't hear anything because of the song.