She does seem to be a bit of a tragic case. Agree that she's ok looking, which is enough to get you through the "door" of dating a big enough portion of men. If anything the fact that she has become well known might make it more difficult for her to find somebody half decent. Enough judgement, hope you're good!
I think one of the main reasons why people talk so much about her looks is because she's constantly talking about other women's looks. I don't like it, but she's opened the door for everyone to do it to her.
@@bluenorth3965 That rules goes without saying. Its not about that. Maybe a better rule to concentrate on is "you shouldn't complain about it if you actually do it too". I dont care about that chic's moral compass. Im complaining about the moral compass of people who are constantly on their moral compass
I think it's funny that she gives marriage advice but she can't even get a relationship. I saw her mom replied to someone about Pearl and she's like, when she gets life experience her views on these issues will change lol
simple reason why she won't get "picked": average age range that most if not all HVM seek is 18-25 (last I checked, she's 27).....and I'm not clowning on her looks but it would be assumed that those HVM also seek other women more younger and attractive
You and Basti have had a discussion about whether to have Blake in a Spanish-immersion program or a German-immersion program? I realize this is a little outside the point of this video, but for whatever my opinion is worth, if you have the option to put her through one and then the other, I recommend putting her through the German-immersion program first, just because (in my experience) German is a much harder language to learn than Spanish, so the sooner she tackles it, the better. I say this, having learned it. Spanish is fairly straightforward. In transitioning from English to Spanish, the only part of it that I would really call a challenge is learning how to handle the preposition differently. Otherwise, Spanish grammar is _glaringly_ straightforward, compared to English and German.
Well. I just mean a mutually beneficial relationship by which both people feel the relationship is balanced. No one feels taken advantage of and both feel equal.
@@caffinejedi - Typically, being "taken advantage of" would obviously involve some type of motivation, such as financial. Other than that, the only other thing that comes to mind is sexual. Not very difficult to deduce that one. I'm not sure what else would make a relationship "mutually beneficial". Hmmmmm
I don't like when people go for her looks, but you're definitely better looking than her. And the reason she doesn't get picked is because she's always chasing conservative black religious men who only date within their community.
I will be honest, I don’t think Pearl is ugly at all-but she definitely has a lot of physical features that make her an easier target for her appearance to be insulted. For starters-she objectively looks much older than her age. She’s in her late twenties but looks at least 34, could even pass for 40s. I know genetics makes everyone age differently so i’m not saying this to put her down, i’m just saying that it’s one of the easiest things to insult about her. And I think Pearl KNOWS this. She’s self aware enough to know that by rage baiting, she’s going to get a lot of hate comments and it’s going to generate a lot of social media clout. If anything it’s probably what she wants to achieve. to people like Pearl, all attention = good attention. Maybe this is a hot take, but I don’t actually have too much of an issue with people making fun of her appearance. I don’t encourage it by any means, and i think people SHOULD focus on criticizing her takes first before making fun of her looks-but at the same time, I’m really not gonna waste my breath defending her against bullies. the thing about Pearl that makes me lose any sympathy for her is that she habitually insults the looks of other women (particularly plus size women, calling them “whales” and other childish things), constantly drags older women, etc etc. So i just don’t really care if people do the same thing back to her. 🤷♀️ not encouraging it!! not saying i would do it! i’m just saying that if other people bully her, i’m not gonna care or call it out. she put herself in that situation, she knew what she signed up for.
I think the simple truth is that most people are pretty superficial. Not to mention that, by definition, half of the population is below-average (okay median but close enough) intelligence. When they decide they don't like someone, they're gonna resort to the most base, obvious insults, because criticizing the right character traits is non-obvious and _hard._ I sometimes agree with the tradwife concept, but it really, really requires a good man to be right for the woman to take on that role. You can't have some broken guy with tons of neuroses, you can't have some slacker, you can't have someone who treats you or other people badly. But a good man makes being a tradwife kind of appealing, because I think confidence, providence, protection, integrity etc. instinctively makes a woman feel good and secure enough to let go of certain things society tells her she needs, when really she should be _complemented_ by her partner's traits and skills, instead of overlapping all of them. Same for the man. There's only so much time in a life and pairing up to share skills is a good way not to waste it.
I mean it in the least misogynistic way possible, but she looks much older than she is. Maybe it’s the wardrobe artificially aging her or just her takes. Idk.
no, its her under eye wrinkling primarily and their unevenness, secondarily her dynamic forehead lines, then her facial structure and posture in general, then her body shape and height, then her greasy hair, and finally her dated clothing.
She does seem to be a bit of a tragic case. Agree that she's ok looking, which is enough to get you through the "door" of dating a big enough portion of men. If anything the fact that she has become well known might make it more difficult for her to find somebody half decent.
Enough judgement, hope you're good!
I wish people would stop judging her looks period and just concentrate on the issues
Right it's nothing wrong with her at all I watched her channel sometimes too!
I think one of the main reasons why people talk so much about her looks is because she's constantly talking about other women's looks. I don't like it, but she's opened the door for everyone to do it to her.
@@bluenorth3965 Yea well if we do it to, what grounds do we have to say what she does is wrong? Makes ZERO sense unless you like this shit
@@m0thdm I don't like it, and I don't do it, but you shouldn't dish it if you can't take it.
@@bluenorth3965 That rules goes without saying. Its not about that. Maybe a better rule to concentrate on is "you shouldn't complain about it if you actually do it too". I dont care about that chic's moral compass. Im complaining about the moral compass of people who are constantly on their moral compass
Throw the shoe! Get em !!! 😂
I think it's funny that she gives marriage advice but she can't even get a relationship. I saw her mom replied to someone about Pearl and she's like, when she gets life experience her views on these issues will change lol
That being said...whats worse crazy cat lady or weird bird lady?
simple reason why she won't get "picked": average age range that most if not all HVM seek is 18-25 (last I checked, she's 27).....and I'm not clowning on her looks but it would be assumed that those HVM also seek other women more younger and attractive
You and Basti have had a discussion about whether to have Blake in a Spanish-immersion program or a German-immersion program? I realize this is a little outside the point of this video, but for whatever my opinion is worth, if you have the option to put her through one and then the other, I recommend putting her through the German-immersion program first, just because (in my experience) German is a much harder language to learn than Spanish, so the sooner she tackles it, the better.
I say this, having learned it. Spanish is fairly straightforward. In transitioning from English to Spanish, the only part of it that I would really call a challenge is learning how to handle the preposition differently. Otherwise, Spanish grammar is _glaringly_ straightforward, compared to English and German.
@12:36 - Symbiosis is not a balance @12:43
Quite the contrary. A balance would be two opposites.
Well. I just mean a mutually beneficial relationship by which both people feel the relationship is balanced. No one feels taken advantage of and both feel equal.
@@caffinejedi - Typically, being "taken advantage of" would obviously involve some type of motivation, such as financial. Other than that, the only other thing that comes to mind is sexual. Not very difficult to deduce that one. I'm not sure what else would make a relationship "mutually beneficial". Hmmmmm
I don't like when people go for her looks, but you're definitely better looking than her. And the reason she doesn't get picked is because she's always chasing conservative black religious men who only date within their community.
I will be honest, I don’t think Pearl is ugly at all-but she definitely has a lot of physical features that make her an easier target for her appearance to be insulted. For starters-she objectively looks much older than her age. She’s in her late twenties but looks at least 34, could even pass for 40s. I know genetics makes everyone age differently so i’m not saying this to put her down, i’m just saying that it’s one of the easiest things to insult about her. And I think Pearl KNOWS this. She’s self aware enough to know that by rage baiting, she’s going to get a lot of hate comments and it’s going to generate a lot of social media clout. If anything it’s probably what she wants to achieve. to people like Pearl, all attention = good attention.
Maybe this is a hot take, but I don’t actually have too much of an issue with people making fun of her appearance. I don’t encourage it by any means, and i think people SHOULD focus on criticizing her takes first before making fun of her looks-but at the same time, I’m really not gonna waste my breath defending her against bullies.
the thing about Pearl that makes me lose any sympathy for her is that she habitually insults the looks of other women (particularly plus size women, calling them “whales” and other childish things), constantly drags older women, etc etc. So i just don’t really care if people do the same thing back to her. 🤷♀️
not encouraging it!! not saying i would do it! i’m just saying that if other people bully her, i’m not gonna care or call it out. she put herself in that situation, she knew what she signed up for.
I think the simple truth is that most people are pretty superficial. Not to mention that, by definition, half of the population is below-average (okay median but close enough) intelligence. When they decide they don't like someone, they're gonna resort to the most base, obvious insults, because criticizing the right character traits is non-obvious and _hard._
I sometimes agree with the tradwife concept, but it really, really requires a good man to be right for the woman to take on that role. You can't have some broken guy with tons of neuroses, you can't have some slacker, you can't have someone who treats you or other people badly. But a good man makes being a tradwife kind of appealing, because I think confidence, providence, protection, integrity etc. instinctively makes a woman feel good and secure enough to let go of certain things society tells her she needs, when really she should be _complemented_ by her partner's traits and skills, instead of overlapping all of them. Same for the man. There's only so much time in a life and pairing up to share skills is a good way not to waste it.
Society is telling you ,you need a job? Isn't that common sense?, or that you need a two income household in order to afford rent?
"Female Andrew Tate, but less successful" 😂
Yes it is. That is the only reason. Make her a 7 and shorter guys would be lining up.
I mean it in the least misogynistic way possible, but she looks much older than she is. Maybe it’s the wardrobe artificially aging her or just her takes. Idk.
no, its her under eye wrinkling primarily and their unevenness, secondarily her dynamic forehead lines, then her facial structure and posture in general, then her body shape and height, then her greasy hair, and finally her dated clothing.
@@nfvjgrofgjvoldlkgvlo in other words, her looks
@@RandemNJ yes.
Chirpy birds are cute!