1 Does he know God 2 Does he love himself 3 Can he lead 4 Does he love himself 5 Can he provide protect 6 Is he a good listener 7 Can he forgive 8 Can he appreciate time alone allowing you to have time alone. 9 Not anyone's perfect, so you place people before God and who ever you pick give them over to God and trust Him throughout the marriage. I have a lot to say on this, but this was very good.
1. How is their relationship with God? 2. 80/20- they focus on the 20% you've done wrong more than the 80% you've done right. 3. Insecurities 4. Can they provide your physical, emotional, & spiritual needs. 5. Selfishness** 6. Unhealed scars (parralelling you to their ex) 7. Lusts/addictions 8. Priorities (God, Family, work, ministry, career) 9. Pride 10. Health 11. Money habits (spending) 12. Communication 13. How do they treat their family? 14. Unbalanced emotions (ex: always leaving) 15. Do they have your back?
Amen🙏🏾. All very good points (from a mature woman, was married over 20yrs, divorced 10yrs & dating again (sigh). The struggle to find a "whole" man is 😊real❗️ People don't take time to heal from the past, nor look in the mirror to work on themselves. Singleness is necessary time alone to allow God to work in you. Don't rush or skip past this season😇
I liked all of what you said, What I learned from past relationships is 1. Beware of Someone who doesn't know Jesus Christ as Lord. "Don't be unequally yoked." 2. Watch their actions, not their words. 3. Trusts your instincts about their intentions. 4. Watch the reverence the have for others, especially their view of the opposite sex. 5. Do they respect you're humanity or do you feel like an object to them. 6. Would that person be someone, you could grow and build with? 7. Do they encourage you and support your dreams? 8. Do they show that love the word speaks of in Corinthians. "Love is patient, Love does not boast....
Good word. We must always look at the totality of a persons character. Yes, there may be some areas under renovation and that's expected, but when all the issues seen are always someone else's fault. Run, your life and destiny may depend on it. Thanks for sharing.
Loved it Sir, but I need to get the following out...I hate when men try to use God to get to us as if we are clueless on the characteristics of who God is. But Moving Forward: I very big on trust and transparency; I would love to hear your thoughts on the matter.
***** how about you find somebody you can deal with and grow with... Why do we waste our time or cause others misery... The easiest thing to do is leave.
Hi Josh...Been watching your videos all night & have learned so much! I am blown away. I have gained so much biblical wisdom tonight! Wow. You have such an anointing! God bless you!!!!
Oh my... I had to make the screen BIG... I normally listen to you but never really watch b/c of how busy I get but I saw that person and I was like...that's not him... Wow... But what is unchanging is your heart to teach then and now. I'm so sorry to myself that I didn't come across your wisdom years prior. Keep doing what God has gifted you to do. Awesome teaching!
Thank you Josh, today was the first day for me to watch your video I enjoyed everything I heard exspecilly if they have a relationship with God, reading, fasting, praying, very enlighten. Would like to hear more.
Red Flag #1 Are they human and alive?... 🤣🤣🤣 You will know, time will tell, take it easy and be grounded. Don't dwell on the negative on Earth or I'm anyone but to overcome it... forward and manifest the Light and Love you desire by focusing on that.
1 Does he know God
2 Does he love himself
3 Can he lead
4 Does he love himself
5 Can he provide protect
6 Is he a good listener
7 Can he forgive
8 Can he appreciate time alone allowing you to have time alone.
9 Not anyone's perfect, so you place people before God and who ever you pick give them over to God and trust Him throughout the marriage.
I have a lot to say on this, but this was very good.
1. How is their relationship with God?
2. 80/20- they focus on the 20% you've done wrong more than the 80% you've done right.
3. Insecurities
4. Can they provide your physical, emotional, & spiritual needs.
5. Selfishness**
6. Unhealed scars (parralelling you to their ex)
7. Lusts/addictions
8. Priorities (God, Family, work, ministry, career)
9. Pride
10. Health
11. Money habits (spending)
12. Communication
13. How do they treat their family?
14. Unbalanced emotions (ex: always leaving)
15. Do they have your back?
Amen🙏🏾. All very good points (from a mature woman, was married over 20yrs, divorced 10yrs & dating again (sigh). The struggle to find a "whole" man is 😊real❗️ People don't take time to heal from the past, nor look in the mirror to work on themselves. Singleness is necessary time alone to allow God to work in you. Don't rush or skip past this season😇
I liked all of what you said,
What I learned from past relationships is
1. Beware of Someone who doesn't know Jesus Christ as Lord. "Don't be unequally yoked."
2. Watch their actions, not their words.
3. Trusts your instincts about their intentions.
4. Watch the reverence the have for others, especially their view of the opposite sex.
5. Do they respect you're humanity or do you feel like an object to them.
6. Would that person be someone, you could grow and build with?
7. Do they encourage you and support your dreams?
8. Do they show that love the word speaks of in Corinthians. "Love is patient, Love does not boast....
Good word. We must always look at the totality of a persons character. Yes, there may be some areas under renovation and that's expected, but when all the issues seen are always someone else's fault. Run, your life and destiny may depend on it. Thanks for sharing.
Loved it Sir, but I need to get the following out...I hate when men try to use God to get to us as if we are clueless on the characteristics of who God is. But Moving Forward: I very big on trust and transparency; I would love to hear your thoughts on the matter.
15 is a lot and nobody prefect and a good marriage is a progress of 2 people growing together...
***** how about you find somebody you can deal with and grow with... Why do we waste our time or cause others misery... The easiest thing to do is leave.
Sometimes the 20% outweighs the 80%.
I wish I knew this before I got married....19 years ago!
Hi Josh...Been watching your videos all night & have learned so much! I am blown away. I have gained so much biblical wisdom tonight! Wow. You have such an anointing! God bless you!!!!
“Let love guide you!”
Amen....... The content of a persons heart
Lol @ Healthy and leave me with the kids. So many people think its a shallow thing, but really it is about future and not just how they look!
so blessed
real eye opener. thank you
GOD BLESS YOU
KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK.
Oh my... I had to make the screen BIG... I normally listen to you but never really watch b/c of how busy I get but I saw that person and I was like...that's not him... Wow... But what is unchanging is your heart to teach then and now. I'm so sorry to myself that I didn't come across your wisdom years prior. Keep doing what God has gifted you to do. Awesome teaching!
I wish I would have heard this before I got married.
That was so thorough. I completely agree.
Thank you Josh, today was the first day for me to watch your video I enjoyed everything I heard exspecilly if they have a relationship with God, reading, fasting, praying, very enlighten. Would like to hear more.
You are such a blessing, thank you for this!
Amen to that I pray that God will give me what it takes to remain single.
Very good information! I receive this message in Jesus name! #GodisFaithful
Josh is so amazing with his messages God bless him always I m truely listening and learning thank you sir
I pray God Bless you and your Ministry and stay focus and and allow the spirit to take control God Bless!!!
POWERFUL!!!!🙌🏾✊🏾
Sometimes have illnesses they can only maintain. The health statement is selfish. Or you probably want to be more clear.
This is good. God first, then family, THEN work.
Great Advice ! 👍💪😊
Would you marry yourself today?
yes i roc baby
that's a good question...
Red Flag #1 Are they human and alive?...
🤣🤣🤣
You will know, time will tell, take it easy and be grounded. Don't dwell on the negative on Earth or I'm anyone but to overcome it... forward and manifest the Light and Love you desire by focusing on that.
Lust, emotions are blind. Is very deceiving.👂👂👂🙏🙏
made me realize some shit... thanks brio
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Excellent.....
wow, I found it by accident, brilliant content, thank you!
Well said.. Thank you
Oh shoot, I dealing with a few of these points myself
How do you balance your emotions?
Some real shit
Well Said!!
Are you a minister
amen
bro*
This is really good.
M