How do I stop settling for the wrong one?

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  • Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
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  • @krystalklearliving
    @krystalklearliving 7 років тому +55

    "Do you love you? A person who loves themselves doesn't allow anyone access to them? Are you okay with you, young lady? When you look in the mirror do you see beauty or do you see pain? Do you see struggle? Because when you look at that mirror and you look at yourself and you say 'I am fearfully and wonderfully made that God I will wait however long because what you have me waiting for will be worth the wait'. And many of us get weary in waiting"...Pierced me like a sword...

    • @nessablesswhyte9833
      @nessablesswhyte9833 5 років тому

      Am telling you, like a sword... we as women we worth so much more if we only stop and think!! Thank you jesus am a child of God so am no longer a slave to fare

  • @aamc689315
    @aamc689315 7 років тому +22

    I settled once and now I am on this path of being single and focused on God. Doing for Him not for me.

  • @1k2thewhy
    @1k2thewhy 9 років тому +52

    God should be number one single or married. Choose wisely. Choose to count the person as a blessing if he or she is not the one for you. If your "content" being single it's a lie because if you desire to be married the desire is always there. Pray/fast/serve/ read his word. True God is working on both people and continues to!!

  • @samanthahill2925
    @samanthahill2925 7 років тому +115

    hmm..."when someone comes into your life, ask who sent them..."

    • @tevinballislife8130
      @tevinballislife8130 6 років тому

      I liked that one. Great Video team thanks

    • @ericturcott9764
      @ericturcott9764 6 років тому +5

      My jaw dropped on that one!

    • @TropicalJewels777
      @TropicalJewels777 6 років тому +1

      i dont think most ppl would know how to answer that question, especially if it a spiritual thing and a physical thing

    • @doriswilliams59
      @doriswilliams59 6 років тому +3

      I know this is old. But yes that question though.

    • @Jonathan-mm5zx
      @Jonathan-mm5zx 5 років тому +1

      Great question to ask, the enemy strikes when we are most vulnerable. Full armour at all times

  • @islandgirlxx3465
    @islandgirlxx3465 7 років тому +25

    We need more men like him in this world. God bless him!

  • @lionelluva
    @lionelluva 7 років тому +29

    Love this video! I totally relate to the young woman about settling in a relationship. I, too, decided to leave based on my future children. I adore kids and I wan to be a mother. The guy I'm currently talking to is NOT the one for me, yet I find myself settling so much. I don't see myself as He does, causing me to make unwise decisions and compromise daily.

    • @ericab9644
      @ericab9644 7 років тому +6

      We are both in the same boat. I have been watching these videos everyday for the past week. I really desire to change my heart and want what God wants for me. I hope the same for you as well!

    • @rianlmb4813
      @rianlmb4813 7 років тому

      Alexandra Griffiths So what did you choose?

  • @mayperez1420
    @mayperez1420 7 років тому +11

    So deep what she said about her unborn kids. I wish I would have thought about this before I got married and had kids. So important to marry someone that is a good example and a person who loves Christ above all.

  • @karenmcgee1869
    @karenmcgee1869 7 років тому +12

    Amen! LORD, I will wait on YOUR promise for the man of GOD that YOU have for me. In the mean time, make us both whole before YOU bring us to one another. Awesome message!

  • @kenyekimlambert2889
    @kenyekimlambert2889 6 років тому +4

    Oh man... God will deal with our heart first before bringing that man or that woman... Wow... That brought tears to my eyes. Thank you

  • @DaVinci1120Da
    @DaVinci1120Da 7 років тому +41

    I think people don't really understand marriage. It's a lie to say that God will only bring you someone when your are spiritually ready. The bible speaks of no such thing. The way christian today view marriage is heavily influenced by their worldview. Marriage is a covenant, a mean to sanctification. It allows you to see yourself for who you are and thrive to become better. your spouse is your mirror. The man should mirror Christ while the woman should mirror the church. Marriage is just an image of the things to come when we become one with Christ. Best way for a woman to know whom she should marry is to know if her future husband mirror Christ, and one way for the man to know whom he should marry is to know if the woman in question is a truly follower of Christ.
    Marriage is not a destination but a condition. Singleness is not a season but a status. Singleness is not a gift either if you are meant to marry. We often confuse the gift of singleness ( no desire for relationship) to singleness as a temporary state.

    • @intercessor6785
      @intercessor6785 7 років тому

      DaVinci1120
      I agree with what u say but me personally I should had waited bc he's not where I am in Christ and I feel that he will never get there

    • @intercessor6785
      @intercessor6785 7 років тому +1

      DaVinci1120
      but I understand the wife sanctify the husband or the other way around but what if he doesn't get saved and it's to late

    • @DaVinci1120Da
      @DaVinci1120Da 7 років тому +2

      Salvation is a whole other issue, that is why I said the woman should make sure that the husband mirrors the Image of Christ. that is, he is walking in faith and is thriving for perfection, becoming more like Christ, less like the world.
      If you are married with an unbeliever, unfortunately their is nothing you can do at this point other than praying, be more like Christ yourself. You are the salt of the earth, the lighthouse, the light of the world. You can make a difference but it will take a lot of energy to do so. Just prepare yourself.

    • @intercessor6785
      @intercessor6785 7 років тому

      DaVinci1120 I pray all the time and we attend services and all but he still hasn't changed I know that it takes time and my timing is not God's timing that's just like I was ministering to a sister a few days ago and he asks me a dumb question is she trying to change u really that's how I know that we're not on the same page God help me ok u said pray but really is that working on his behalf ijs

    • @DaVinci1120Da
      @DaVinci1120Da 7 років тому +4

      I'm not married yet so I can only give advise based on biblical principles and observation.
      It's not your role to change him. Your role is to give him an example to live by. You can either be that example or try to fight an uphill battle trying of your own strength to change him.
      It will take longer than you want. God will use that situation to shape and mold you into the daughter that he wants you to be, someone who is patient, loving, joyful, peaceful, kind, good, faithful, gentle, and self-controlled. You know, the things you should have cultivated in the first place while looking for your husband.
      God's goal is to mold us into the image of his son.
      Trust in God's grace, pray without ceasing, and enjoy your marriage.
      Their is no perfect marriage, but there is a perfect God.

  • @tutu1822
    @tutu1822 7 років тому +10

    Amen true whn God is preparing for the right guy e devil wil send the wrong person. We tend to settle fr e wrong guys yet e one God created for you would b right around the corner. We should fast and pray continuously and ask God to show you your man cz e devil comes to steal,kill and destroy. Therefor we should stand firm in the Lord for he knows the plans he has for you to prosper you not to harm you.

  • @ruthkamwi_youtube
    @ruthkamwi_youtube 4 роки тому +1

    ”your heart will settle until it finds the one who made it.”👏🏾

  • @elmyra.jackson
    @elmyra.jackson 5 років тому +2

    How I stopped settling for the wrong one? Years ago after 2 divorces, I asked the Lord to help ME be the right one for the man He desires for me!! 23 years later, I know God's choice for me! I'm just waiting for him to come to me!!

  • @ericab9644
    @ericab9644 7 років тому +4

    Thank you so much for helping me realize what my worth is...she clearly explained what worth looks like and how to evaluate any guy based off of her future. I have a son, and I want the absolute best for our home. His father is around and is a absolute great father to him, but I can't continue to see myself in the light that the world views me in. I am so grateful for all of your videos.

  • @thesunflowersshegrew8936
    @thesunflowersshegrew8936 5 років тому +4

    This walk in Christ is soooo hard! It almost feels impossible when your so broken ... 😰😢 Pray for me!!!

    • @trustgodalways3025
      @trustgodalways3025 5 років тому +1

      Flower Child keep holding on, keep going. It will become easier. Father in the name of Jesus I pray You help this dear sister in her walk with You. Carry her Lord and remove any obstacle in her path that is trying to hinder her and weigh her down. Amen.

    • @thesunflowersshegrew8936
      @thesunflowersshegrew8936 5 років тому +1

      TrustGod Always I truly appreciate your encouragement!!! Thank you 🙏🏽 💞

  • @Learninghowtorebuild
    @Learninghowtorebuild 9 років тому +5

    I think what the girl said at the end was dead on. thanks for sharing..

  • @ravenshanks
    @ravenshanks 6 років тому +2

    Smh God is amazing the young lady in the gray shirt reminds me of me I so needed this

  • @JoiChanell
    @JoiChanell 9 років тому +8

    Wow, dead on. God bless them for sharing!

  • @jollygoodgordon5580
    @jollygoodgordon5580 4 роки тому

    *im a 25 years old re-Born Christian virgin brother. I love jesus and im waiting for my queen that God has for me, but focusing on god is more important to me right now, creating that intimate bond with him.*

  • @lizwanyana8001
    @lizwanyana8001 5 років тому

    What a blessing! God I’m listening to you speak: Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @mikewhiskey3466
    @mikewhiskey3466 7 років тому +5

    What is Danielle and the guy in the red shirt UA-cam channel?

  • @rmarie2435
    @rmarie2435 7 років тому +4

    please tell me where she got that "pure again" shirt from

  • @debracasseday4960
    @debracasseday4960 6 років тому

    That's some truth right here. God bless you and keep you all.

  • @GodskidUr1
    @GodskidUr1 7 років тому +6

    Ive met a whole lot of counterfeits!!!!

    • @delchetty6126
      @delchetty6126 6 років тому

      Gods kid so have I ... and it really messes things up!

    • @indrialove8514
      @indrialove8514 5 років тому +1

      It’s like they keep coming 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @thandilelujabe133
    @thandilelujabe133 7 років тому +3

    Wooooooow... This is so true and thank you God.

  • @ReaLTruBadGurl1
    @ReaLTruBadGurl1 5 років тому

    "The Counterfeit always come before the real!" Yessssss.... ALWAYS ❕

  • @kikatis3313
    @kikatis3313 7 років тому +3

    I needed to hear this..

  • @justdelightful8338
    @justdelightful8338 6 років тому

    Wow you talking heavy!! And I truly thank God!! Halleluyah!! Amen..

  • @eurekabryant7840
    @eurekabryant7840 8 років тому +3

    THANK YOU AMEN

  • @Ms_show
    @Ms_show 7 років тому +2

    This just really blessed me 😭

  • @tamikoburrell3174
    @tamikoburrell3174 7 років тому +2

    Good word. Thank U and God bless.

  • @nessablesswhyte9833
    @nessablesswhyte9833 5 років тому

    Hes speaking so much truth because even now am asking God who sends him???

  • @Servant_musiz
    @Servant_musiz 6 років тому

    Real stuff bro. Love your videos bro..

  • @christinacubillo632
    @christinacubillo632 7 років тому

    Omg brother thank you so much ! You helped me so much 🙌🏽👏🏼👏🏼

  • @raygeinejarrett6592
    @raygeinejarrett6592 7 років тому

    Praise God!!

  • @lynnnduhhx0
    @lynnnduhhx0 5 років тому

    Does the girl in the grey that spoke on the issue have a channel???!

  • @saraputni9111
    @saraputni9111 8 років тому

    Thanks for sharing.God bless.

  • @gracelay05
    @gracelay05 5 років тому

    Thank you!!

  • @tinastephens-johnson3546
    @tinastephens-johnson3546 7 років тому

    Thank you!

  • @MichelleeMC
    @MichelleeMC 9 років тому +1

    Thank you for this.

  • @siritaanderson3759
    @siritaanderson3759 6 років тому

    Amen

  • @estherpianim8798
    @estherpianim8798 7 років тому +1

    Yesssss!!!! 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @sagenosnibor9173
    @sagenosnibor9173 6 років тому

    SO GOOD

  • @Legittuber
    @Legittuber 7 років тому

    True true true

  • @gloriazarwolo8428
    @gloriazarwolo8428 8 років тому

    That's good

  • @jrdorl2861
    @jrdorl2861 5 років тому

    Why people are always looking for what they can get in a relationship not what they can give in a relationship..... God love us and Gave us His son.... Jesus loves the Church Gave her the access to God ... the church in return must love Jesus by obey Him... we Do not know What Love is, so our understanding of relationship will alway Skued to what we Can get from it ..... selfishness can not grow a relationship it merely strained it ..... until we Learn to be complete or whole in Christ Jesus, so our thirst can be quenched , we would never learn to stop put our wants and desires first as Jesus did so we can have life. When you Love someone you put your desires and want last b4 his or Hers'..... why do you think we are struggling in our relationship with God .... always want God to do this and that , never put God first as a result our relationship are always fractured because the person is not to our standard..... are we up to God standard, he love us regardless . Has God sold Himself short by settling for ppl like us .. God bless you and. Jesus loves you all

  • @ink2047
    @ink2047 6 років тому +1

    So God expects you to sleep only with one human.. what if you never find your soulmate? Should you opress your need for sex and never do it? Or should you just marry someone, but maybe regret it? I feel like only lucky people can live the way God wants to. And also.. and if God wants us to be in a happy marriage and sleep with only one person and last one, why didn't he give us that person? Certainly some people are in a bad situation believing this way, pressuring themselves.. while the human instincts are waiting to come out somehow. 20 years, 30 years.. 40 years.. Is it really what God wants? To make us become opressors of ourselves?

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e 5 років тому

      Seek The Living God for the answer to your questions. He'll give u UNDERSTANDING to His Word.

    • @melmel3703
      @melmel3703 3 роки тому

      🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @tumingculu993
    @tumingculu993 5 років тому +1

    Do not use God's name in vain😣but good advice❤🤗