I'm a disabled veteran and last week I was leaving the VA Medical Center and I said excuse me ma'am to a person! This person then begins to lose their minds stating it was a he or something so I simply stated I said excuse me and I personally don't care what you are or identify as and it continued to follow me abd yell at me all the way back to my pickup! I just got in abd started the truck hit the gas pedal a couple of times so I couldn't hear it over my exhaust and I just drove off! I'm not playing along with anyone else fantasy because I have to much of my own drama! God bless y'all from rural West Texas!!
@@karenv5103 Exactly. You show good manners, and they mistake kindness for weakness. Truth is, they’re bullies looking for victims; whilst playing the victim. I know two, trans ppl in my town. They are adults, both have good manners. I have no problem with adults making their own choices, even if I think they’re making poor choices. It’s not my business. But bullies making demands.. ? Or worse, Preying on children… ? That should never, ever be tolerated. Beyond disrespectful… And It’s infuriating.
Nice, I run into "SHIMS" along with illegal immigrants about every day at a popular gas station that's a major stop for travelers right off the highway, I either feel the need to puke or cry = Bahahaha, so I just smile and hold the door if needed and I think THEY freak out. Oh their faces
NO, they need to understand that WE THE PEOPLE won't DENY our OWN BELIEFS & VALUES, and we're NOT going to cater to a LIE, just because they want us to!
They/them is not singular. I don't care who says it's not! I'll call someone by their name, unless they want to be called, IT! The pronoun police and alphabet police should realize we don't believe in delusional thinking! I'm a proud straight, Conservative, God loving woman, and a Republican.
Your buddy is spot-on. If they get you to react to them, you dance to their tune. You don't, they are stuck trying to forever make that first step to be in control. And ain't nobidy snywhere wants to see *me* dance anyway.
Dear Severs!! Don’t ever throw the check on the table especially with an attitude. The closing should be “thank you for coming to see us today, please come back” or something to that tone. I would have requested a manager and I would have explained why I’m not leaving a tip today. Thank you Zach for that. I needed to hear it
@@melissahaire7058 Born and raised here too! Just outside of Burlington. Thick Vermont blood….. nothing else👍🏼 Zach is amazing! I wish he’d come to Vermont!
@juliebessett8127 I grew up in Burlington! My husband is from Hinesburg, and we live in South Burlington now! Very true, Vermont blood here too!! I've commented on a few of his videos about coming here to Vermont! It would be such a good time!! 🤣
@@melissahaire7058 I grew up in Williston! I went to CVU, graduated in ‘87. Oh my gosh! I work at the hospital in the OR. I’m in your area every day! My grandmother had a house in So Burlington, on Simpson Ct. We were there playing several times a week. This is all too funny! I’m so glad you contacted me! This is all such a coincidence! I didn’t think anyone else from Vermont would watch Zach! 😂
WOW Zach that was remarkable. I've never encountered anyone like that before and if I ever do I'll keep this story in mind. Us older people have definitely learned a thing or to. WTG ‼️ Love you and your friend 💕💕
Well said and done. Salute to that Veteran and all who serve, as well to who maintain of the logics and structures we were raised with. Its our values, culture too and our ways not just theirs. Its our Constitutional Right to speak, beleive, and yes not give where we do not see fit. Its called freewill and they have issues with Godbon that one not man. God bless all. ❤🇺🇸❤
Zach, the waitress or waitor job is to give you an enjoyable experience. They should be fired. Could you imagine if a couple of people went there after a funeral? Nobody wants to be bothered with nonsense and you don't know what that customer is even going through.
Classic narcissist behavior. I had a pharmacy person start to be rude I stopped her before she could begin to speak and said "You are deeply confused. I am profit. You are overhead".
Bwahahaa that's a good one lol..cant even imagine the look on their face.. im in the pharmacy alot and have dealt with similar from these people who think they're doing you a favor by doing their jobs.. lotta that goin around in all fields..
Mad respect for your Veteran Friend! This is not the country he fought for. I respect a persons right to live how they choose. They do not have the right to demand I believe as they do. This whole gender/sex/pronoun movement is just ridiculous. There are two genders PERIOD!! Be who you wanna be, but I don’t have to buy into it. Basic biology is basic biology!!
For sure no tip and I would have asked for the manager and told him I'm not paying this bill because we could not eat in peace because your employee wanted to push their political agenda in the workplace
Eh, maybe, not sure I'd go that far though, since the restaurant has to cover the cost of the food. I like that he kept it between them. I would love to find out if that waitress learned anything though.
FAFO as the old saying goes treat others as you want to be treated. Hell I was raised old school and the best lesson I learned was just be a decent person.
Had the same thing happen tjis weekend sort of. Im a server & this 1 customer comes n everyday. Hes an older man & i believe he may be dealing with dementia. Well as he starts getting ugly for no reason, i just kept smiling and agreeing with him. The more i smiled the more this poor guy got mad. I learned this same thing at that time. No matter how much i wanted to get mad i knew he was probably sick & couldnt help it. Im human so i cant say i havent gotten mad b4 but this time i tried not to with all i could muster. The more i smiled the more mad he got. If u allow someone to get u upset when thats all they were trying to do n the 1st place. It will eat them up if they cant get to u. Its not easy to keep ur composure but if u can u will eat their tails up not being able to get to u. Glad ur friend did that. It can be a blessing to ur day to not let them ruin ur day. God bless ❤
Exactly Zach and your buddy!you respect me and I'll respect you!its a two-way street as us old folks say!and I don't need to address anyone,if you don't know what the hell you are by now then their the ones with the problem not you young men!love yaw so much ❤️!
Thank you so much Zach for the great advice. Over the many years people have treated me like crap and I always get upset about it, but like you say I'm letting them control my life in that way and making myself miserable for nothing. It's not worth it
I agree with him and you. And for those who don't know "Yes'em" is a "NON-BINARY" reaction in country slang. 'Em at the end of a word is mam, them., him.
Yes!!! I don’t know how many times I’ve said to people, if u give them a reaction, you give them a win, you given power, ignore them… they no longer have power and no longer feel scene. It’s quite brilliant actually!
can I hang out with you? you r a hoot. thank you for the lesson learned. I work for the airlines were I am not allowed to say ma'am or sir. (I still do, waiting to be fired over it) I am a 63yr old woman with a 20yr old beautiful girl. I spent all 20yrs teaching her manners. I will treat them as a human being. but you can not teach an old dog new tricks. 😆🤣All I have for them is YOU DO YOU AND LET ME DO ME.... gosh I keep telling my self Gods got this. God bless those that are so confused. Lets Pray🙏
I have a buddy at work who is transgender and I love the dude like a brother ..but I work him just as damn hard as every other dude on the crew since we're all men ...and he has never once complained about it. He comes in every single day and works his ass off in the heat just as hard ..to be honest harder than most of the other guys....He earned "him/he" in my opinion and I respect the shit outta him....He doesn't get offended if someone calls him she or her bc hell he's got common sense and understands....but as far as I'm concerned he earned it from me. I said all that to say respect is earned.
Good morning @ZachRushing☺☕that right there is exactly what My Dad taught me growing up...I had to sit here and smile towards the end, I could hear My Dads words in my ear. He also taught me that not everyone deserves your attention, not everyone deserves a response and not everyone deserves your respect. Have a great day 😁
You're buddy was absolutely right Zach. Back in my 20s my son's biological father, my "bio." Mother (Grandma was truly my mom always), and my bio. Moms bf taught me that lesson.. what they all have in common is that they're all sociopathic narcissists with antisocial personality disorder. I do not say this lightly or uneducated either. The last 2 of those people have still not figured out that I've put the wall down with them and will never speak to them again, nor do I give one care in the world about them after the things they've done. Again, that decision wasn't made lightly. Some people are looking for a reaction. Either they're looking for an argument for attention. Either way not getting it from me. Otherwise I'm giving them what they want. That is not what I want, for sure 😉 keep on keeping on Zach.
Zach, as a Patriot and prior Military, I love your thoughts. It still makes me PROUD AS FUCK that there are MEN still like us around. I raised a son, and have 4grandsons, and all of them still love this country. My son and I tell them how it used to be, and gave raised then with those values. God Bless you sir, and keep killing it! MAGA!
awesome story and advice. ❤ Zac. I watched this x2. I think you should have asked for the manager and told the mgr the waitress badgered you guys throughout your meal about her damn pronoun problem.
I have yet to encounter a situation like this, but when my day comes, man oh man someone's feeling are going to be hurt. I refuse to feed into their delusions, period.
Zach...I'm not country but I'm from the south....I just wanted you to know your content makes a difference in people's lives...even your video about your grandmother...I grew up in Miami and my grandmother raised me. She was revaluationari...she use to smuggle people out of Cuba to free them from Castro...she is more of a man than any man I have ever met...please don't stop creating content...you don't realize how much your videos help to better people just by keeping it real. I salute you!
Very true, some people don't understand how I stay calm dealing with people or situations. I reply because emotions exhaust me, and I prefer not to exhaust my energy nor life.
Thanks for posting. This is a good lesson. It did not matter what or who the waiter was, they are there to perform a service. That is it. No one cares if they are male/female or who they bed, just keep my tea cup full, my food brought to the table, you will get a good tip that you like, and we will get along just fine.
As a born, raised, and still live in the Deep South southern woman my grandma taught me early how to hold my tongue, be polite, then when the time is right throw the facts at them hard and fast while doing it so politely and kindly that they aren’t sure if they’ve been complimented or ripped to shreds or both. That way you leave them speechless. I think that’s one of southerners super powers! Plus the older most of us get we just don’t care anymore. And we ain’t taking no one’s bs. I worked in a mental health clinic that served 4 counties for 5 years. At that time therapists were taught not to go along with anyone’s delusions. Speak to them kindly and sweet but tell them they are confused. Then tell them how things really are. Now they’ve been advised that if someone identifies as a unicorn to go along with it. I refuse to ever go along with any delusions. Each of us has the right to create our worlds like we want them in our minds. But we don’t have the right to make anyone else live there. I prefer to think it’s back in the 80’s when life was easier and a lot more simple. People didn’t get their feelings hurt over everything! Heck we weren’t allowed to have feelings. We dealt with them thru sarcasm, making fun of each other, & humor. I miss these days when you could say something about someone and they didn’t care. If it wasn’t your family or close friends no one cared what anyone else thought. They should be ashamed because you’re not supposed to air your dirty laundry! I don’t want to know nor do I need to know what anyone’s sexual preferences are! Keep that private and in the bedroom!
I would say, “I’m a gen X feral child and well you should know we don’t handle being told what say or think. I only see one person in front of me of me so just tell me your name and I’ll use that.” Damn… my country ass had enough problems with grammar class that I repeated two levels. You just touched on the one issue that lord help the person that talks to me that way. Can we Bless your heart and you can guess my tone. Oh and I’m a 3rd generation Democrat who will always vote for policies that help me not against me or irrelevant to me. Don’t clump extreme left with the Democratic Party just like the far right is not conservative republicans. Those far leaning left or right are in their own party in their minds and are delusional to think the majority of humanity is behind them.
They need to learn that their delusion does not trump my reality. Be what you want. I don't care. But do NOT force your BS on me.
Yep and I am going to use that exact statement. Don't force your bs on me.
Mr Ford, it is not your reality.....but simply REALITY. GOD Bless.
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Exactly!
How fragile are you child?
You and your friend BOTH Nailed It!! As a former waitress, I would NEVER force my beliefs on Any Customer!! That’s Obnoxious AND Rude 😡
Honestly can't believe they continued to eat there. Messing with my food is a worry.
I would leave if I were in that situation.
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So then dont you think this story is a little suspect?
@@lorireed8046sshh logic gets in the way of a good story like it's 2016 and people gave a hoot about pronouns
I'm a disabled veteran and last week I was leaving the VA Medical Center and I said excuse me ma'am to a person! This person then begins to lose their minds stating it was a he or something so I simply stated I said excuse me and I personally don't care what you are or identify as and it continued to follow me abd yell at me all the way back to my pickup! I just got in abd started the truck hit the gas pedal a couple of times so I couldn't hear it over my exhaust and I just drove off! I'm not playing along with anyone else fantasy because I have to much of my own drama! God bless y'all from rural West Texas!!
You were excusing yourself and got treated like crap in return. Annoying
@@karenv5103 Exactly. You show good manners, and they mistake kindness for weakness. Truth is, they’re bullies looking for victims; whilst playing the victim. I know two, trans ppl in my town. They are adults, both have good manners. I have no problem with adults making their own choices, even if I think they’re making poor choices. It’s not my business. But bullies making demands.. ? Or worse, Preying on children… ? That should never, ever be tolerated.
Beyond disrespectful… And It’s infuriating.
Nice, I run into "SHIMS" along with illegal immigrants about every day at a popular gas station that's a major stop for travelers right off the highway, I either feel the need to puke or cry = Bahahaha, so I just smile and hold the door if needed and I think THEY freak out. Oh their faces
Thank you for your service and sacrifice. And for keeping it real!❤
“Don’t California My Texas”-Creed Fisher.
You have a wise friend. Sounds like he has very good manners too. God bless you both. Thank you for sharing. 😊❤️
Amen. Been saying that for years. Fastest way to get under someone's skin is by not letting them get under yours!
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NO, they need to understand that WE THE PEOPLE won't DENY our OWN BELIEFS & VALUES, and we're NOT going to cater to a LIE, just because they want us to!
AMEN!!!! Said perfectly!!!
They/them is not singular.
I don't care who says it's not!
I'll call someone by their name, unless they want to be called, IT!
The pronoun police and alphabet police should realize we don't believe in delusional thinking!
I'm a proud straight, Conservative, God loving woman, and a Republican.
@@loripolston6695so true! ❤❤❤
Could not said it better myself! Thank you!
Amen sister you are absolutely right I agree with you 100% 👍👍.@@loripolston6695
That’s how a lot of the older people kill them with kindness you are right I agree with you
He handled that like a boss 😊
He handled that like a boss 😊
But his friend wasn't kind at all.
I am impressed. You're right about that ppl just want power over you. I enjoyed the story. Thanks Zach ❤
Your buddy is spot-on. If they get you to react to them, you dance to their tune. You don't, they are stuck trying to forever make that first step to be in control.
And ain't nobidy snywhere wants to see *me* dance anyway.
I am impressed, this was much needed! Amen!
Dear Severs!! Don’t ever throw the check on the table especially with an attitude. The closing should be “thank you for coming to see us today, please come back” or something to that tone. I would have requested a manager and I would have explained why I’m not leaving a tip today. Thank you Zach for that. I needed to hear it
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Amen!! ✝️🙏🏼🇺🇸🐘
With love and respect to you from a Veteran in Vermont.
I live in Vermont, too!
Born and raised here!!
@@melissahaire7058 Born and raised here too! Just outside of Burlington. Thick Vermont blood….. nothing else👍🏼
Zach is amazing! I wish he’d come to Vermont!
@juliebessett8127
I grew up in Burlington!
My husband is from Hinesburg, and we live in South Burlington now!
Very true, Vermont blood here too!!
I've commented on a few of his videos about coming here to Vermont!
It would be such a good time!! 🤣
@@melissahaire7058 I grew up in Williston! I went to CVU, graduated in ‘87. Oh my gosh! I work at the hospital in the OR. I’m in your area every day! My grandmother had a house in So Burlington, on Simpson Ct. We were there playing several times a week.
This is all too funny! I’m so glad you contacted me!
This is all such a coincidence! I didn’t think anyone else from Vermont would watch Zach! 😂
💜🤘💯💣💥 He said it Brotha, what an awesome Dude, and please thank him for his service !
Love this!!! 😂😂 At times, silence can speak louder volumes than anything you could ever imagine!!!
With age comes wisdom in a God fearing man.
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WOW Zach that was remarkable. I've never encountered anyone like that before and if I ever do I'll keep this story in mind. Us older people have definitely learned a thing or to. WTG ‼️ Love you and your friend 💕💕
I don't have to do shit dude, here in America if I don't want to accept something I won't. So kick rocks and cry about it 😂 good job Zach 🤙🏻
Well said and done.
Salute to that Veteran and all who serve, as well to who maintain of the logics and structures we were raised with. Its our values, culture too and our ways not just theirs.
Its our Constitutional Right to speak, beleive, and yes not give where we do not see fit. Its called freewill and they have issues with Godbon that one not man. God bless all.
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I'd done the EXACT SAME THING!!! Much love and respect Zach!!! ❤
That's AWESOME and so TRUE. You have a Blessed Evening 🙌, love ya ❤
God bless you and your friend. He's absolutely right. Preach to 'em, Zack ❤
Zach, the waitress or waitor job is to give you an enjoyable experience. They should be fired. Could you imagine if a couple of people went there after a funeral? Nobody wants to be bothered with nonsense and you don't know what that customer is even going through.
Absolutely well done!!!
I admire the interaction you've dictated!!!👍
Classic narcissist behavior. I had a pharmacy person start to be rude
I stopped her before she could begin to speak and said "You are deeply confused. I am profit. You are overhead".
Ooooh, LOVE that!
😂😂😂...Great line!!!! 👏
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GREAT REPLY😂😂
Bwahahaa that's a good one lol..cant even imagine the look on their face.. im in the pharmacy alot and have dealt with similar from these people who think they're doing you a favor by doing their jobs.. lotta that goin around in all fields..
Don't just get "her" fired. Get the rest of "her" fired too. 🤣
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Mad respect for your Veteran Friend! This is not the country he fought for. I respect a persons right to live how they choose. They do not have the right to demand I believe as they do. This whole gender/sex/pronoun movement is just ridiculous. There are two genders PERIOD!! Be who you wanna be, but I don’t have to buy into it. Basic biology is basic biology!!
Yes.. you learned something very true.... don't ever forget it!!!
Wise beyond his years!!
Oh my gosh. I love you. Thank you. Keep it up. Yes, killing with kindness is the way.😊😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤Bod love everybody but God .ove the south.😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Your buddy is soooo right! Good for him and I agree with you tooo! Stand for your own beliefs not someone else’s!!!
Much respect to your friend. Great lesson.❤❤❤❤
Hell Yeah Zach to you & your buddy👏👏👏 People like this is what's wrong with our Country.. Shiiiit‼️
EXCELLENT STORY. Keep them coming sir.
That was a great message and BIG lesson! Thanks for sharing❣️👍💥
Thanks Zach. Needed reminded of this today 🙏❤. I really appreciate you. Sending love
Thanks for sharing I needed to hear this right now.
Amen. Silence speaks volumes.
Love your story!!! Thank you
I love this. Had similar experience last week.
@ZachrunningWill almost 3 years. We share the same views. Love your teeshirts. Stay safe.
For sure no tip and I would have asked for the manager and told him I'm not paying this bill because we could not eat in peace because your employee wanted to push their political agenda in the workplace
Eh, maybe, not sure I'd go that far though, since the restaurant has to cover the cost of the food. I like that he kept it between them. I would love to find out if that waitress learned anything though.
That would have surely brought the point home.👍
@@NavvyMomBut an employee like that should be expected to do their job professionally.
@WillZachrunningWill a couple years I believe
@@helened6896 I totally agree. Hence I agree to no tip for her. BUT I'm not on board with the diner not being paid for the cost of the food.
Awesome i would have not been so polite. He sounds like a man with true integrity 👍👍👍
I love it. That is why I enjoy watching your videos over and over.
My dad used to tell me smile and walk away. It kills them every time ❤❤❤
FAFO as the old saying goes treat others as you want to be treated. Hell I was raised old school and the best lesson I learned was just be a decent person.
Zack God bless you and your friend. This made me smile so thank you for sharing.
Had the same thing happen tjis weekend sort of. Im a server & this 1 customer comes n everyday. Hes an older man & i believe he may be dealing with dementia. Well as he starts getting ugly for no reason, i just kept smiling and agreeing with him. The more i smiled the more this poor guy got mad. I learned this same thing at that time. No matter how much i wanted to get mad i knew he was probably sick & couldnt help it. Im human so i cant say i havent gotten mad b4 but this time i tried not to with all i could muster. The more i smiled the more mad he got. If u allow someone to get u upset when thats all they were trying to do n the 1st place. It will eat them up if they cant get to u. Its not easy to keep ur composure but if u can u will eat their tails up not being able to get to u. Glad ur friend did that. It can be a blessing to ur day to not let them ruin ur day. God bless ❤
Amen. Great lesson from what sounds like a good man. We need father figures for many reasons and this is one of them.
Exactly Zach and your buddy!you respect me and I'll respect you!its a two-way street as us old folks say!and I don't need to address anyone,if you don't know what the hell you are by now then their the ones with the problem not you young men!love yaw so much ❤️!
Thank you so much Zach for the great advice. Over the many years people have treated me like crap and I always get upset about it, but like you say I'm letting them control my life in that way and making myself miserable for nothing. It's not worth it
Absolutely love it... You keep going brother
I agree with him and you. And for those who don't know "Yes'em" is a "NON-BINARY" reaction in country slang. 'Em at the end of a word is mam, them., him.
Yes!!! I don’t know how many times I’ve said to people, if u give them a reaction, you give them a win, you given power, ignore them… they no longer have power and no longer feel scene. It’s quite brilliant actually!
We can all learn something valuable from this... Thank you sir
Only one word comes to mind regarding this factule lesson you learned, and that word is AMEN!!!!❤
Wow powerful message and cool friend you have ❤
I love that lesson, and thank you for sharing. ❤
Loved this story thanks for sharing it!
Thank you for sharing! Love it!
Wow just wow Amen brother amen
👏👏👏👏👏I love this!!! Great lesson learned.
Amen🙌🙌.... That ending. Perfect!!
can I hang out with you? you r a hoot. thank you for the lesson learned. I work for the airlines were I am not allowed to say ma'am or sir. (I still do, waiting to be fired over it) I am a 63yr old woman with a 20yr old beautiful girl. I spent all 20yrs teaching her manners. I will treat them as a human being. but you can not teach an old dog new tricks. 😆🤣All I have for them is YOU DO YOU AND LET ME DO ME.... gosh I keep telling my self Gods got this. God bless those that are so confused. Lets Pray🙏
What a message my sweet friend.❤
I have a buddy at work who is transgender and I love the dude like a brother ..but I work him just as damn hard as every other dude on the crew since we're all men ...and he has never once complained about it. He comes in every single day and works his ass off in the heat just as hard ..to be honest harder than most of the other guys....He earned "him/he" in my opinion and I respect the shit outta him....He doesn't get offended if someone calls him she or her bc hell he's got common sense and understands....but as far as I'm concerned he earned it from me. I said all that to say respect is earned.
I send MUCH love to you AND your buddy!!!!!
I like your buddy .. good for him ❤
Perfectly executed!
Nothing better than a tall glass of sweet tea being served up by the clueless. Bless the heart!
Good morning @ZachRushing☺☕that right there is exactly what My Dad taught me growing up...I had to sit here and smile towards the end, I could hear My Dads words in my ear. He also taught me that not everyone deserves your attention, not everyone deserves a response and not everyone deserves your respect. Have a great day 😁
Oh that was a great story! Such good wisdom!
You're buddy was absolutely right Zach. Back in my 20s my son's biological father, my "bio." Mother (Grandma was truly my mom always), and my bio. Moms bf taught me that lesson.. what they all have in common is that they're all sociopathic narcissists with antisocial personality disorder. I do not say this lightly or uneducated either. The last 2 of those people have still not figured out that I've put the wall down with them and will never speak to them again, nor do I give one care in the world about them after the things they've done. Again, that decision wasn't made lightly. Some people are looking for a reaction. Either they're looking for an argument for attention. Either way not getting it from me. Otherwise I'm giving them what they want. That is not what I want, for sure 😉 keep on keeping on Zach.
Zach, as a Patriot and prior Military, I love your thoughts. It still makes me PROUD AS FUCK that there are MEN still like us around. I raised a son, and have 4grandsons, and all of them still love this country. My son and I tell them how it used to be, and gave raised then with those values. God Bless you sir, and keep killing it!
MAGA!
GOD BLESS U AND YOUR BUDDY...
God Bless you
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I learned somthing
New from you today 👍😁
Truer words.... 👍👍👍
THOROUGHLY love your vet friend. Also 100000000% correct. Both of you. NOT giving a shit about other "feelers". And "KILLING them with kindness"
Your buddy is exactly right! Everyone should ignore these sick people.
I would have asked for the manager, at the end of the day, all people want is pleasant polite service, not this crazy drama scene!
awesome story and advice. ❤ Zac. I watched this x2. I think you should have asked for the manager and told the mgr the waitress badgered you guys throughout your meal about her damn pronoun problem.
I had a similar situation. I said "IT needs to turn around and walk away before it really gets its feelings hurt." It started crying and ran away.
Should I? Yeah, probably should... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Great video. I always love how you tell it like it is. Your videos are awesome 👍🏻🙏🏻
Awesome advise, thanks for sharing.
I don't usually leave comments, but this time I have to. Loved your story so much.
Stud, you’re awesome! I always enjoy your vids!!!
I have yet to encounter a situation like this, but when my day comes, man oh man someone's feeling are going to be hurt. I refuse to feed into their delusions, period.
Zach...I'm not country but I'm from the south....I just wanted you to know your content makes a difference in people's lives...even your video about your grandmother...I grew up in Miami and my grandmother raised me. She was revaluationari...she use to smuggle people out of Cuba to free them from Castro...she is more of a man than any man I have ever met...please don't stop creating content...you don't realize how much your videos help to better people just by keeping it real. I salute you!
Ditto!! Cuban growing up in Miami and loving his messages.
Great advice and story twin
😂 your craziest fella lmao 😂😂😂
Very true, some people don't understand how I stay calm dealing with people or situations. I reply because emotions exhaust me, and I prefer not to exhaust my energy nor life.
Great wisdom.
😂😂😂 Yes! Tell COUSIN "IT" That GOD CREATED TWO GENDERS! ✝️🙌😂🙏✝️
What about hermaphrodites?
@@Mike-h8b3f GOD HELPS EVERYONE TO MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION . . .NO MISTAKES!✝️💙👑🍷🙌🌹💖🙏✝️
Thanks for posting. This is a good lesson. It did not matter what or who the waiter was, they are there to perform a service. That is it. No one cares if they are male/female or who they bed, just keep my tea cup full, my food brought to the table, you will get a good tip that you like, and we will get along just fine.
I could watch this video every day fucking spot on
I love how your buddy kept asking for sweet tea & make the server keep getting it. Haha. He handled the situation very well.
I love hearing your story's of aha moment's and impressed by people or a person.
As a born, raised, and still live in the Deep South southern woman my grandma taught me early how to hold my tongue, be polite, then when the time is right throw the facts at them hard and fast while doing it so politely and kindly that they aren’t sure if they’ve been complimented or ripped to shreds or both. That way you leave them speechless. I think that’s one of southerners super powers! Plus the older most of us get we just don’t care anymore. And we ain’t taking no one’s bs. I worked in a mental health clinic that served 4 counties for 5 years. At that time therapists were taught not to go along with anyone’s delusions. Speak to them kindly and sweet but tell them they are confused. Then tell them how things really are. Now they’ve been advised that if someone identifies as a unicorn to go along with it. I refuse to ever go along with any delusions. Each of us has the right to create our worlds like we want them in our minds. But we don’t have the right to make anyone else live there. I prefer to think it’s back in the 80’s when life was easier and a lot more simple. People didn’t get their feelings hurt over everything! Heck we weren’t allowed to have feelings. We dealt with them thru sarcasm, making fun of each other, & humor. I miss these days when you could say something about someone and they didn’t care. If it wasn’t your family or close friends no one cared what anyone else thought. They should be ashamed because you’re not supposed to air your dirty laundry! I don’t want to know nor do I need to know what anyone’s sexual preferences are! Keep that private and in the bedroom!
They are trying to silence you totally. I get the same thing done to me. I just learned to ignore and keep on being myself. Be true to you. ❤😂😂😂😂
Great story!!! I love it!!
I would say, “I’m a gen X feral child and well you should know we don’t handle being told what say or think. I only see one person in front of me of me so just tell me your name and I’ll use that.” Damn… my country ass had enough problems with grammar class that I repeated two levels. You just touched on the one issue that lord help the person that talks to me that way. Can we Bless your heart and you can guess my tone.
Oh and I’m a 3rd generation Democrat who will always vote for policies that help me not against me or irrelevant to me. Don’t clump extreme left with the Democratic Party just like the far right is not conservative republicans. Those far leaning left or right are in their own party in their minds and are delusional to think the majority of humanity is behind them.
He handled it very well because if you ignore people when they persist in that you do something and don't give them a reaction they get up very upset