Self Concept? Or Specific Person? | Law of Assumption

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  • @ciggytwiggy
    @ciggytwiggy 2 роки тому +80

    Affirming for SP alone is tiring and gets old after a while. But ever since I focused only on myself, I feel like I'm walking on air, every day. I can even FEEL SP and I are already committed after our recent meet-up. Guys have been asking me out and asking about right and left. It's the truth guys, when you truly love yourself, the world will be as well. And guess what, it has only been a week of Self Concept affirmations and doing what I love. Imagine it being your WHOLE being.

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +8

      Yes!!!! This is a testament to how powerful this stuff is! 🙌🙌🙌

    • @classycheeks4352
      @classycheeks4352 2 роки тому +5

      Same here!! I've been feeling amazing doing SC affirmations and spilling out "I am so grateful" and "Isn't it wonderful" statements just for the past 4 days and 5 ex's have contacted me expressing how they want me back. They think I'm amazing and 4/5 of them want to marry me. They all want to spoil me and take care of me and take me on trips and want to make me happy in general! The results have been truly spectacular!!

    • @madelen1234_
      @madelen1234_ 2 роки тому

      But you don`t do self concept to have other guys to pursue you if you have a desired person either. That is just so ridiculous.

    • @classycheeks4352
      @classycheeks4352 2 роки тому +1

      @@madelen1234_ If someone wanted to do this for any reason, they get no judgement from me. After all, it's their reality, so they can do what they want.

    • @ciggytwiggy
      @ciggytwiggy 2 роки тому +4

      @@madelen1234_ I think it is just a by product . It is not done intentionally.

  • @Nash_Aurora
    @Nash_Aurora 2 роки тому +12

    Mary : Self concept or specific person
    *ME AUTOMATICALLY* :
    Of course it's self concept

  • @jess-eff4833
    @jess-eff4833 2 роки тому +51

    It is sooo important because it shifts our mindset from that of lack to receiving mode! I noticed that SC helped me see all the things I was affirming for….when I had a negative SC I could only see what I was missing.

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +5

      That last sentence there hits HARD, babe!

    • @jess-eff4833
      @jess-eff4833 2 роки тому +6

      @@ManifestwithMary right? I look back at conversations I had with my SP and I ask myself, “how could I not see how much effort he was putting in? How did I questions his feelings for me?” And I was sooo anxious at the time. This time, I’m keeping him for good! I am amazing! I am a goddess! I am gorgeous and he is always prioritizing me! And guess what….he’s obsessed 😍

  • @christinexd0pe
    @christinexd0pe 2 роки тому +19

    GIRL, when you were ranting about the social media stalking & checking who they follow, what photos they liked, etc I ugly cackled 😆 only cause THAT WAS ME! Before I did all the work on myself. What actually motivated me to change was my SP. My feelings for him were so strong that when I did do old toxic habits like social media stalking, that shit hurt like hell, I was always anxious & drained, I didn’t have a good self concept, & I was manifesting outcomes that I DIDNT want to happen. It also helped me determine whether or not my feelings were real & pure as they felt & not just some unhealed abandonment wound from my past. Now in present time, I no longer stalk, I did the work & have the best self concept & the feelings are still there. So, now I can fully trust & whole heartedly believe that it’s all working out & I can live in the end 🙂 I don’t need external validation to make me feel good, confident or loved. It’s the best thing I’ve ever done for myself, but I still love watching your videos cause I sometimes still need this reminder, especially on the harder days! ❤️

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +1

      That is wonderful! I don't even know you and I am SO proud of you!!!

    • @RA-is6yq
      @RA-is6yq Рік тому

      Update?

  • @orquidiavazquez1788
    @orquidiavazquez1788 2 роки тому +14

    Yes ✨, every night i journal but before i go for a run, shower get myself cute for bed put some perfume and do my skin care read a chapter of my book then journal. My Sp call me at 10:00 p.m so I could go see him, i was like nooo Sr. You text me before 7:00 pm if you want to see me 👸✨ i am not one night woman!

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +3

      Yes, ma'am!!!! LOVE those boundaries you are setting for yourself and all of the love you are showing yourself. So proud of all your growth ❤️✨️

  • @phoebesitsup477
    @phoebesitsup477 2 роки тому +3

    A year ago I was like "uuuugh do I have to?" but loving myself is so fun, I want to spend the rest of my life doing it

  • @shuhuitan565
    @shuhuitan565 2 роки тому +23

    When you felt that you are irreplaceable in your SP life, secure and calm is really helpful.

  • @traciecook6193
    @traciecook6193 2 роки тому +6

    I needed this today. I've been focusing on myself more lately, but I do find myself checking out my SP's 3rd party. I am going to focus exclusively on myself, and when he realizes how great I am and how lucky he is to have me, I'll still focus on me.

  • @amberlinkel4811
    @amberlinkel4811 2 роки тому +5

    This is such a great reminder! Yesss SC shld come first! We shouldnt be neglecting ourselves for the sake of sp. When we are 100% in love with ourselves, sp will follow suit!!!

  • @ManifestwithMary
    @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +9

    Hi, friends! Do YOU think self concept is important when manifesting a specific person? Why or why not?

    • @ms.dentist
      @ms.dentist 2 роки тому +4

      Hello Marry, i think self concept is incredibly helpful in keeping the specific person for a long term
      Else..lack of self concept creates hot and cold behaviour later and lack of self concept may also result in repeated patterns and pushing specific person away

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +2

      @@ms.dentist yes, exactly!!! 👏

    • @ms.dentist
      @ms.dentist 2 роки тому +1

      Also..can you please make a video and affirmations on getting selected in dream job

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +1

      @@ms.dentist yes, absolutely! I'm recording more videos this weekend, so I'll have that one out for you in June 🥰❤️

  • @virgo15goddess
    @virgo15goddess 2 роки тому +6

    Not the eggplant emoji 😂. Not acceptable, it's where he shows up to my door to surprise me with flowers and begging for me to commit to him. Affirming my SP realizes that I am the best and the only woman and without me he is not his absolute best unless I am in his life.

  • @ik2476
    @ik2476 2 роки тому +14

    Mary, this is by far, the best explanation of self concept, and the importance of it, that I’ve ever heard. I never thought of it that way. You’ve given me a lot to think about. Thank You.

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you!!! I was really proud of this one when I was done editing. ❤️🥲

  • @Nash_Aurora
    @Nash_Aurora 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks for saying the tattoo and hotness of our sps. So relatable 🤣

  • @Nash_Aurora
    @Nash_Aurora Рік тому +1

    I came here again because I m starting this again

  • @hallow_yelloww2874
    @hallow_yelloww2874 2 роки тому +1

    I re-watched this 3 times today. This morning I woke up and there's a voice saying..I can't affirm for SP anymore. Eff that. I'm releasing the struggle. I'm gonna just focus on me and I started cleaning my room too (after watching your other video where you mentioned about this). A few months ago, my SP came back after 6 months of "quiet time", and only after several days of me doing self concept only during the day and do more things to make me feel happier. Prior to that, I was affirming mostly for him during the day. He is mine. And the star of my life is me, focus is on me and I am going to prioritise me.

  • @bradleyrenfroe2776
    @bradleyrenfroe2776 2 роки тому +3

    Mary I just had something happen two days ago. Last year I developed feelings for this girl who was a co-worker knowing she was with a guy already. It hurt me but I could not help but imagine scenarios of getting her. I got super depressed, desperate and drank alot. Eventually I found that streaming app where I met my current SP. I then eventually discovered the Law of Assumption and began to manifest her. When I was in the early stages still checking my current SP's Social Media two months ago, I just got rid of a third party. I then saw that my former SP from last summer and her guy were engaged around Christmas. I didn't think much of it as I was into my current SP. One day realizing my power. I wondered if I could manifest my previous sp so I thought about them ending their engagement for a few minutes then I just thought nah I still want my current SP. Well two days ago a thing popped up on my Facebook. My former SP changed her profile pic. It only had her. Her relationship status no longer said engaged, it now said single. I am no longer interested in her though as I am still going to persist for my current SP but I have to wonder if this is BBL?

  • @aditinaik6301
    @aditinaik6301 Рік тому +2

    We need more of these Mary. NOBODY EVER EXPLAINED ME THE END STATE MORE THAN YOU. YOU ARE LITERALLY A GODDESS OKAY???!!! THANK YOU 💖

  • @HealerGenevieveASMR
    @HealerGenevieveASMR 2 роки тому +4

    You’ve knocked it out of the park again!! When you said “Go! Take all my power away!” I felt that 😂🤡 I know so many people are having breakthroughs watching this! 🌱

  • @sbuceeh
    @sbuceeh 2 роки тому +5

    Great video Mary!!!❤️❤️❤️ I totally agree…self-concept is waay more important than SP affirmations because this is how you set the tone of how things work in your life going forward! ❤️

  • @sincerelymely
    @sincerelymely 2 роки тому +8

    Thank you Mary! Really needed this reminder to focus on self concept and living in the end state! ❤️

  • @jessieppinger2308
    @jessieppinger2308 2 роки тому +2

    Omg......it clicked. It literally just clicked. I've been working on my self concept and when you said that if you have them as a priority or them on a pedestal, and not prioritizing yourself.. they have to see themselves that way and prioritize themselves.....!! Ahhh. Because EIYPO ♥️♥️ For some reason i never looked at it thay way. Thank you!!! 💡 🤦🏻‍♀️🤌🏻

  • @DJ-tn5wo
    @DJ-tn5wo 2 роки тому +3

    I cannot get enough of your videos !!!

  • @chitraroy2210
    @chitraroy2210 2 роки тому +6

    Hey Marry Good Evening from India. Getting support from you is also one of my already received manifestation. Your videos helped me a lot not only with my manifestations but also with my self-love journey. Love you a lot ❤❤❤

  • @Barbie_22
    @Barbie_22 2 роки тому +4

    I learned this the hard way 👁👄👁

  • @ukulele4thesoul
    @ukulele4thesoul 2 роки тому +8

    Love your videos Mary! You always hype me up and remind me that I'm on the right track✨️. Stay golden girl 💛

  • @viktoriaobraztsova7977
    @viktoriaobraztsova7977 Рік тому +2

    Girl, you helped me so much
    thank you 💋💋💋💋💋💋💋

  • @angelagracehere
    @angelagracehere Місяць тому

    Best video ever. Just what I needed today!!!

  • @ACuppaJo
    @ACuppaJo 2 роки тому +3

    favourite youtuber

  • @pranitapurushottampaunikar8368
    @pranitapurushottampaunikar8368 2 роки тому +4

    Loved this video!!! ❤️ Please do more impromptu (or planned) rants on SC and putting yourself on the pedestal! - maybe how to do the latter? (Different/ unique ways)

  • @pixiemcq9621
    @pixiemcq9621 2 роки тому

    I know some LOA youtubers have recently said forget SC but for me you should do what makes you feel good about yourself. When I feel good about myself I feel more opportunities present themselves to me regardless of whether I’m manifesting them. I also think it helps keep your mood up when you’re not seeing your manifestation just yet. Go Mary!!! You are wonderful 🥰

  • @marin8365
    @marin8365 2 роки тому +2

    You always put a big smile on my face. Because you always get to the point, the point of my reality. Thank you Mary

  • @shanm6677
    @shanm6677 2 роки тому

    I felt bad at first by going out with someone else, but now that you say you should awesome!!

  • @AlwinaVU
    @AlwinaVU 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video Mary, you made something hughe click in me with this one❤️ suddenly I saw a few things clearly and they fell into place. Just because of how you said it it made the pieces of my puzzle fit toghetter ❤️thank you

  • @Life-so3wx
    @Life-so3wx 2 роки тому +1

    You can do both at the same time. You should affirm for all aspects of your life. But I do agree that SC is most important.

  • @TheRockprincess216
    @TheRockprincess216 2 роки тому +2

    Sometimes I feel like you be speaking straight to me 👀

  • @Pamandmanny
    @Pamandmanny Рік тому +2

    Tried manifesting so with so meditation at night and kept having bad dreams with him, I did a self concept meditation last night instead and had a good dream with him

  • @ricardoayala2158
    @ricardoayala2158 2 роки тому +1

    Affirming for self concept when low self esteem is never been a problem get boring or exhausting quick and is what it making me want to give up the techniques all together. I know my worth and how Amazing I am and I was for my SP. But this techniques doesn’t feel natural at it feels forced because is something I know.

  • @pandabear8551
    @pandabear8551 2 роки тому +1

    Needed to hear this! Thank you!

  • @Jeniffer61867
    @Jeniffer61867 2 роки тому +10

    Self respect, self discipline, self love, self care are all self concept, I agree with you when you say self concept is not just words but also our actions and attitude towards ourselves. I make sure to treat myself with a high self concept😊. As for affirmations, I do self concept affirmations for 15 minutes each day? Is it enough?

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +3

      Absolutely! That's about how much I do now and it really helps! ❤️❤️

    • @Jeniffer61867
      @Jeniffer61867 2 роки тому +2

      @@ManifestwithMary you and I have soo much in common. Love ya❣️

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +2

      @@Jeniffer61867 and I you! Thank you for always supporting me ❤️❤️

    • @Jeniffer61867
      @Jeniffer61867 2 роки тому +1

      @@ManifestwithMary my pleasure 😊

  • @mikasablackerman6776
    @mikasablackerman6776 Рік тому +1

    I’ve started doing this so I deleted Instagram off my phone (I was using it to procrastinate and check his social media). Now I’m trying to focus on myself. I’m trying to focus on self care: eating better,exercise,therapy,buying new clothes,and watching tv shows I like lol. I’m trying not to worry and check on him because I know he’s my faithful,loving husband. Why creep on my husband? 😊

  • @estebanrivera8820
    @estebanrivera8820 2 роки тому

    Great motivation to get back to living myself. That's when my sp came back before. She left again because I put her before me.

  • @pahiralove1782
    @pahiralove1782 2 роки тому +1

    Needed this vidoe and got this at a right time 💓💓 thank you universe
    I am a Queen
    I am always choosen one
    I am irreplaceable 🌸
    I am worshipped 💓💓
    Thank you universe 💞

  • @rntko7316
    @rntko7316 2 роки тому +1

    I definitely needed this rant! Thanks Mary ❤️

  • @classycheeks4352
    @classycheeks4352 2 роки тому +2

    I really enjoy these videos so much. Informative and funny!!

  • @ms.dentist
    @ms.dentist 2 роки тому +5

    Hello Mary, Can you please make a video and affirmations on getting selected in dream job

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +3

      You got it! 🙌

    • @ms.dentist
      @ms.dentist 2 роки тому +1

      @@ManifestwithMary Thankyou sooo much❤️❤️
      Truly grateful 🙏🏻

    • @jess-eff4833
      @jess-eff4833 2 роки тому +2

      Yes this is a great topic! I interviewed for my ideal promotion and I am struggling with keeping my SC on point!

  • @vivianlee8706
    @vivianlee8706 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much, Mary! We all needed this! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kgb896
    @kgb896 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you!! ❤️🥰

  • @jamieleigh807
    @jamieleigh807 2 роки тому +2

    Amaizing video.

  • @lj5689
    @lj5689 2 роки тому +2

    Hey mary..this was amazing..thank you!!

  • @moonchildchick
    @moonchildchick Рік тому

    Okay so I just gotta say that this is funny. I was talking with an old friend/ ex FWB that I hadn’t spoken with in a while and he told me that he has always found me Beautiful, Intelligent, Fun etc which are literally the first 3 words I use when I affirm self concept

  • @stevecom8184
    @stevecom8184 Рік тому

    Thank you ❤️

  • @LiLbAbYgIrLy
    @LiLbAbYgIrLy 2 роки тому

    I definitely needed to hear this and loved it explained this way! I’m definitely guilty of all you said but it’s a new day to change that and focus more on me and let him come along and value me as I will learn to value myself more. Can you explain what exactly self concept is though?

  • @vasanthah7297
    @vasanthah7297 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you❤🙏

  • @nituchoudhary7988
    @nituchoudhary7988 2 роки тому +1

    Love you ❤️

  • @laurakatherine1992
    @laurakatherine1992 2 роки тому +1

    Mary, I got my SP in a matter of weeks! My issue is that I was thinking we were really over, so I started working with a realtor to put down roots in the area now that I know my job will be keeping me here (not far from him). Should I tell him I'm actively looking for properties? I'm thinking this could scare him in a good way where he might tell me to wait on it until we figure out where this is going. This was always a part of my plan (to buy myself a home if things didn't work out between us and I knew where my job would take me). At the same time, I don't want to mess up the energy or play games. Any advice? Love you!!! ❤

  • @Nash_Aurora
    @Nash_Aurora 2 роки тому +1

    Once I was changing my beliefs and became super hyped up and my sp texted me that time at 3 am. I was like "Umm. Dude I'll pretend I didn't see that.”

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +1

      The shift happens SO quickly

    • @Nash_Aurora
      @Nash_Aurora 2 роки тому

      @@ManifestwithMary I don't know why but I feel like I need to trust the process more.

  • @Nidhi-rf1rc
    @Nidhi-rf1rc 2 роки тому +4

    I love you!!! Okay?

  • @MissArtisticSasnuhy
    @MissArtisticSasnuhy 2 роки тому +3

    Im doing all of these things I swear and still no movement.., Im almost on the verge of giving up .., 😒

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +2

      Take a break for a while to just focus on yourself. If you start feeling burned out, it is okay to take a step back and truly focus on you ❤️

    • @MissArtisticSasnuhy
      @MissArtisticSasnuhy 2 роки тому

      @@ManifestwithMary I even decided to make the first move and call/text him for Christ sake affirming genuinely that he’d continue to pursue me…. Thanks for this reassurance Mary- I really do need a break it was all too much for me.

    • @MissArtisticSasnuhy
      @MissArtisticSasnuhy 2 роки тому

      @@madelen1234_ sameeeee. Like literally same its become exhausting…. Some coaches say we keep reacting to 3d but I can confirm for sure that I havent and Ive been persisting all through ought this journey, and like I want to feel the love, go on dates, have sex enjoy life with. Maybe some people just cant be manifested…

    • @madelen1234_
      @madelen1234_ 2 роки тому

      @@MB-xv7er I think that is limiting beliefs.

    • @MissArtisticSasnuhy
      @MissArtisticSasnuhy 2 роки тому

      @@MB-xv7er absolutely… Sammy Ingram once said in one of her videos that it usually works cuz MOST people are spiritually ASLEEP… but I guess my person isnt, and in all honesty hes pretty tough and in some way spiritual as well… I just REAAAAALY effin thought Id have him back by now- I started March 1st 2022 on the new moon. I DID however eliminate a 3rd party so I must give myself credit for that but other than that the mofo wont BUDGE. I even called him to give a hint… then texted him- no response…. So I fully surrendered. I had an akashic records reading a few weeks ago and I asked them what to do in my specific case and they literally said surrender- thats what will work. So I did… ive deleted his number from my phone, telegram, deleted his messages and photos- the whole shebang. Im not giving him
      Up for GOOD, but I did ask the universe to reunite us when its in our highest favor…. So yeah

  • @miestantedelibros5442
    @miestantedelibros5442 2 роки тому +1

    I was just focusing on bbl but Im back

  • @sadiatasnuva4227
    @sadiatasnuva4227 2 роки тому +1

    I manifested a sp without SC & guess what? It's over after 8 months 😂 So I don't have any sp now because I'm giving 4 months to myself. I'm done with my shitty SC also I'm tired as hell 😴 .. fuck sp..

  • @amandacoleman8179
    @amandacoleman8179 2 роки тому +1

    Im fairly new to this and it’s confusing because we’re constantly told to persist and not waver from or assumptions/affirmations so do we stop affirming and just start focusing on ourselves?

  • @chumisamteto9854
    @chumisamteto9854 2 роки тому +2

    Great video. Hey, i want to ask something ,though I don't want to repeat the old story. I've been working on self concept for a while now but i struggle with setting boundaries and embodying the new self concept. I find myself still doing things that put sp on the pedestal uknowingly, and talk down on myself and i always notice that when someone calls it out. Do i have to wait for the new self concept to become a natural part of me where i naturally put myself first and i am naturally confident or do i have to put actions that match the new self concept even when its hard to do so right now?
    I don't know if this makes sense, but i hope it does. Thanks in advance.

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +3

      I say do both. I always tell my clients "fake it till you make it". Pretend to be THAT guy/gal with rock solid SC and eventually you won't have to fake it anymore ❤️

    • @chumisamteto9854
      @chumisamteto9854 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much🙂. Its just that I tend to beat myself up for not being there yet with my self concept, this is really helpful will surely try doing it and apply what you have said in the video.
      Also I really love your channel❤

  • @lindsaytillman8121
    @lindsaytillman8121 Рік тому +1

  • @godisking3649
    @godisking3649 2 роки тому +2

    What about if u already in a relationship & living with them n u trying to get them to do the things u crave & desire? 4 yrs in a relationship n things not as harmonious as they were the 1st 2yrs we were inseparable
    But now things don't feel the same it feels like the love an attention disappeared 😕 and it makes me so sad cos 😔 we really do love each other It's the romance n passion n 😢💔😔 bliss we missing and I want it back 😢💔 can anyone help me out with what I should start with to change the outcome....I want more love more attention more intimate sessions
    We barely even speak to one another because it's just something off about how we progressing in this relationship

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +1

      I'll try to cover this in a future video ❤️❤️

  • @kaynemartin8491
    @kaynemartin8491 2 роки тому

    My SP went ghost on me. Finally texted me after manifesting her to finally hit me up again then went ghost on me again lol 😭 i mean I know we just met but what a man got to do i want this girl 😩

  • @natasha.sh.
    @natasha.sh. 2 роки тому +3

    💜

  • @angiraguha8624
    @angiraguha8624 2 роки тому

    Mary I just want to ask you that if thought creates our reality then why sometimes people used to say that what we think it doesn't happen life always did something different .... Hope u Will reply ...many many love from India 😍

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому

      Those are just limiting beliefs on their part but, if those people believe those ideas, then they MUST be true in their universe. Hope that makes sense haha

  • @luvtunes09
    @luvtunes09 2 роки тому +1

    🌈😘

  • @kasukihajima7639
    @kasukihajima7639 2 роки тому +1

    If I had multiple breakups with my person can I still manifest him? 🥺😔

  • @BhimSingh-ve7up
    @BhimSingh-ve7up 2 роки тому +3

    👍♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @shanm6677
    @shanm6677 2 роки тому

    Can I say affirmations with the obsession subliminals that I find in videos on UA-cam

  • @BoopMeHard
    @BoopMeHard 6 місяців тому +1

    🤍

  • @florabernard3064
    @florabernard3064 2 роки тому +1

    thank you for sharing this information with us, angel🫶

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