Specific Person (SP) RANT! The Mistake(s) That People Make: How to AVOID THEM & *FINALLY* Get SP

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  • Hi, friends! In today’s video, I am going on one of the rant-iest rants that I have ever ranted! I see so many people who are manifesting SPs making so many of the same mistakes over and over again (many of which I made myself) and I am here to give you some TOUGH LOVE so you can get back on track and get your SP once and for all!
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  • @nawaranzara6004
    @nawaranzara6004 2 роки тому +45

    Did anyone notice, right before you applied the mask.. you had the assumption of the mask not falling off and it didnt!!!... wow, you literally proved the method working right infront of our eyes... so cooolll

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +11

      Omg I had to go back and watch that part and you're totally right! Easy to manifest when I had such little resistance to the idea of them staying put. Good catch!!!

    • @nawaranzara6004
      @nawaranzara6004 2 роки тому +3

      @@ManifestwithMary Yeaaa, I was shocked all through out the videooo...

  • @HealerGenevieveASMR
    @HealerGenevieveASMR 2 роки тому +41

    “This is not about changing anyone else in your reality, IT’S ABOUT CHANGING YOU.” 👏👏
    This FINALLY became a truth within me a few weeks ago. I was manifesting just to see changes in the world around me all while there wasn’t much deep change in how I felt and thought about myself. Was still in an anxious place. Once I realized how TRUE this concept of “no one to change but self” actually is, I finally clicked into an elevated state of truly feeling like I already had what I wanted and needed without ANY PROOF from 3D because it’s MY assumptions that create my state, not what anyone around me is doing or not doing.
    That was a lot of caps but I LOVE your rant and I’m so glad I finally get it within myself now. I no longer look for proof of anything, I’m not even anxious to hear from him. I just know he’s mine and I’m literally that powerful. 🔥

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +4

      I am SO proud of you for all of your growth, Genevieve! Wishing you so much love and happiness 😍❤

  • @amberlinkel4811
    @amberlinkel4811 2 роки тому +23

    100% so important to "get my shit together" and focus on my self-concept! And persist! We are creators!

  • @xJustJadie
    @xJustJadie 2 роки тому +37

    My toxic trait is thinking my SP is manifesting me, that’s why I feel the pull and want to text them 😂

    • @bandanagiri8971
      @bandanagiri8971 Рік тому

      😂😂😂

    • @s010s
      @s010s Рік тому

      I wish I had that toxic trait. All I hear in my ears is how my SP wants to be friends with me and how I told him never to bother me again. 😢

    • @Stylewsiya
      @Stylewsiya 9 місяців тому

      Me tooo!!!!

  • @esiontour
    @esiontour Рік тому +1

    Your videos are just awesome. I love them.
    My SP and I have had no contact for almost 3 years. I came to conscious manifesting almost 2 years ago. And I was like you describe for a long time. But I never gave up and I'm not giving up. Meanwhile I am calm and relaxed, I know there is movement in the background and he will someday be my husband.
    So long I am working on myself so that I am absolutely ready to have a happy marriage. And manifest financial freedom and much more to me.
    Your videos help me to just keep going.

  • @mirageoflights
    @mirageoflights 2 роки тому +5

    bae this made me tear up when u said i deserve the kind of love that people write songs about and that if you dont like how your sp is treating me then create it, cuz i am so used to people telling me to move on and that i deserve better. yes, i do deserve better, and i'm going to create it with who and what i want !!!! thank you mary!!!

  • @MissArtisticSasnuhy
    @MissArtisticSasnuhy 2 роки тому +8

    “this isnt a chess game where we’re trying to outsmart that person”
    I needed to hear that…

  • @aeryialfischer699
    @aeryialfischer699 2 роки тому +17

    just wanted to share a little success story. so to work on believing in the law i decided i would manifest a book, i’ve been manifesting my sp at the same time but to trust the law i wanted to try something smaller as well. i didn’t know where, when, why, or how i would get a free book but that was what i was manifesting. and today i got my book but to make it even crazier my sp was the one that gave me my book! i planted two separate manifesting seeds and they ended up growing together when i walked away and let it happen! i said i want my sp to think about me and he ended up walking by a book drive on his campus he thought of me and bought me a book from that book drive. i got two manifestation in one planting the seed and letting it do it’s own thing works

  • @ManifestwithMary
    @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +22

    Are you planning to tune in on Sunday for this RANT?!?! If you're manifesting an SP, trust me, this video is a MUST WATCH!!!

    • @Jeniffer61867
      @Jeniffer61867 2 роки тому +1

      Yes imma watch it for sure. Is it enough to affirm for 1 hour for a new lover? And 1 hour for a sp who's my ex? I can't affirm all day long, it's overwhelming 😒😕 I visualize for a few minutes and do gratitude exercises everyday too.

  • @jazminlaurenyoga
    @jazminlaurenyoga Рік тому +3

    Thank you, Mary 🥰. Everything you talk about really resonates with me. I manifested him back and now I’m manifesting marriage and sometimes I get frustrated but this was reassuring

  • @khushbooyadav1827
    @khushbooyadav1827 2 роки тому +12

    I am so so grateful to the Universe for bringing me to your channel. I literally feel you're a best friend or big sister guiding me through my manifestation journey... Much love from India to you Mary! ❤️ You're a beautiful soul. I hope when you see this comment it brings a smile on your face because God knows you deserve it! 💕✨

  • @zarajames3805
    @zarajames3805 2 роки тому +13

    Blue is my favourite colour too 🦋..💙 I met my sp 3 years ago. He was only consistent this last year. But now it’s a big old mess randomly and I am desperately trying to sort it out. And now both of us are sick and movement has stopped and I hate it lol. I didn’t have to do anything before and now it’s a seed that is just chilling with no 🌱 sprouts… lol. Perfect timing Mary as always 💙💙

  • @anonymousbutacolleague7274
    @anonymousbutacolleague7274 2 роки тому +8

    Also I have started incorporating some self care on Sundays too. Thank you

  • @evolutionofabutterfly8544
    @evolutionofabutterfly8544 2 роки тому +2

    “Because Mary said so” 😂😘 you’re simply the best.

  • @MrsMelMel1977
    @MrsMelMel1977 2 роки тому +2

    Girl you haven't ever lied I pretty much stalk his social media and always wonder who he's talking to 🤣🤣

  • @jenna_baker
    @jenna_baker 2 роки тому

    i'm fuckin blown - i just wrote and published a song today about him. crazy synchronicity analogy

  • @scarlettlav
    @scarlettlav Рік тому

    Girl I was exactly doing this, i keep digging the seed. Thanks for the analogy. I think my root chakra is really unbalanced. Been doing meditation and healing the root causes and I feel more at peace!

  • @ms.m666
    @ms.m666 2 роки тому

    Officially making you my big sis (since i am the oldest i need some big sis time)♥️
    The thing with not reaching out for me is that he might not contact me, because he didn't show me any signs he is attracted to me. I know i can manifest him, but logic gets me. Shame on me for being creative and letting logic get the best of me

  • @mona6879
    @mona6879 2 роки тому +17

    Mary did you ever have second thoughts about your SP while you were on a dating website & had better candidates? I’m getting all this attention & I know it’s due to my self concept. The conversations are so good as well. I’m starting to feel like an ice queen like I’m too good for my sp. lol the feelings are still there but it’s to the point where I don’t feel like affirming for him. good thing perhaps? What’s your take maybe it’s a topic you can discuss in a video. I’m still persisting with night time affirmation tapes but I don’t really care to affirm towards him. Is it also bad that I’m weighing out the good and bad when it comes to him?

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +25

      I did!!!! I actually started seeing a guy I was really into and was ready to end things with SP once and for all. I'll definitely cover your question in a future video...it's a good one!

    • @mona6879
      @mona6879 2 роки тому +3

      Thank you so much. I feel really bad but I don’t know what I want anymore but I still can’t stop thinking about my SP. So I’m persisting with self concept. I figure time will tell. Thank you Mary your advice is gold 💚

    • @victoriagonzales5164
      @victoriagonzales5164 2 роки тому +2

      Yes! Interesting topic! Also what if you hear things about him, it’s kind of 3D. Reminds me a bit of Neville when his partner dancer even plot the wife to block him from marrying his girl or SP…not easy when you have doubts about him even if for some unexplained reasons you’re drawn to this person despite so many other great guys

    • @barborabechova7320
      @barborabechova7320 2 роки тому +2

      That's a great question, i was about to ask it too. I am even kind of like ,, i dont care if he will come back or not, i am happy now. If he will,ok. If he won't, ok." And I dont know if it's me loosing interest or it is just me being surrended?

    • @mona6879
      @mona6879 2 роки тому +1

      I love all these responses ☺️ thank you ladies for the support. 💜 very good points

  • @bradleyrenfroe2776
    @bradleyrenfroe2776 2 роки тому +7

    What is this idea from Florence Scovel Shinn, of an SP of the Devine Selection? She has said that if a person is not meant for you, you won't be able to manifest them no matter how hard you try. That doesn't seem to be part of the Law of Assumption idea. what she was talking about seems more Law of Attraction. I mean, Law of Assumption is supposed to reject the idea of something being meant to be.

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +11

      That is definitely NOT law of assumption. When I was manifesting SP, I saw a very well known psychic who told me that I was a powerful manifestor but I'd never be able to manifest SP. Limiting beliefs abound. The only thing that holds true is your own powerful ability to manifest anything and everything you desire.

    • @bradleyrenfroe2776
      @bradleyrenfroe2776 2 роки тому +2

      @@ManifestwithMary let me guess, this psychic said it wasn't meant to be, right?

    • @user-lu1nt1cm8m
      @user-lu1nt1cm8m 2 роки тому +1

      @@ManifestwithMary you literally answered a question I’ve been seeking!

    • @lucamajic2453
      @lucamajic2453 2 роки тому +1

      Well you know, everyone has their own limiting beliefs, and Florence Scovel Shinn released her first book 1925, it was another time back then and what she was teaching is also awesome and helpful but is more what I would call "God/religious based" manifestation, and not really the same thing as law of assumption. What I've experienced is that your reality and possibilities really just depend on your beliefs. If you believe that something is possible, it is. Talking from experience right now.

  • @anonymousbutacolleague7274
    @anonymousbutacolleague7274 2 роки тому +7

    Not trying to brag, but I am persisting still. It started in 2018 and I am not giving up on us

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @mollahyo
      @mollahyo 2 роки тому

      same,, since end of 2019. one of his friends even asked me once, "you haven't given up?" and i said "no i won't give up!"

  • @phoebe9825
    @phoebe9825 2 роки тому +5

    I have been affirming that my Sp wants to have children and although I'm really enjoying taking a social media break he did post this very self-deprecating thing about how it's world book day and he didn't have anyone to make a costume for this year.

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +2

      Oh wow, that is definitely some movement there. Well done!!!

  • @ladywrld5863
    @ladywrld5863 2 роки тому +1

    It's been 7 months. I called him. Dude was talking To me the way as it was 10th of may 2021. I haven't talked to that guy for 7 months and he's still mad at me??? I mean what the fuck

  • @JesusJuice630
    @JesusJuice630 Рік тому

    this is the most helpful video i have watched from you thank you!

  • @jessica.brunelli
    @jessica.brunelli 2 роки тому +4

    You said 'Por favor' ❤️❤️❤️ it means please in my language, Portuguese! ❤️🌼 It made me smile 😊

  • @emmasbs683
    @emmasbs683 2 роки тому +3

    Omggg tysm for making this video

  • @Barbie_22
    @Barbie_22 2 роки тому +3

    Gosh I just love you ♥️ Well said Mary

  • @astrohiddenlife
    @astrohiddenlife 2 роки тому +3

    Came late but goddamn I love your energy ❤️!!!

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому

      Thank you!!!! Hope to see you in the chat next week 😊

  • @discoveringmyinnerme2023
    @discoveringmyinnerme2023 6 місяців тому

    Thank youu mary❤ i needed this

  • @martasmith1333
    @martasmith1333 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you. Again perfect timing.

  • @Khushmina4
    @Khushmina4 2 роки тому +1

    You are saviour 😭🙌🏻🥰🥰🥰

  • @sansankitty9740
    @sansankitty9740 Рік тому

    Hi Mary! Thank you so much ❤ I only have one affirmation “Sp & I are together” how can I know it implies everything I want?

  • @devischoat541
    @devischoat541 2 роки тому +3

    Hey Mary I am so greatful for everything. Love you❤❤

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much, Devis! Sending so much love to you ❤❤

  • @sunflower1230
    @sunflower1230 2 роки тому +5

    I’ve heard that it all depends on us how fast that seed blooms. The more blocks we have the longer the seed will take. So if it’s taking too long it must be our limiting beliefs right?

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +3

      Yes! Once I started digging deep into my own SC and limiting beliefs, that's when i really started seeing some movement :)

  • @annabl90
    @annabl90 Рік тому

    4 years and still not in contact with him :(
    I texted him last week : zéro answer 👍🏻

  • @fencyjenus
    @fencyjenus 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much Mary ❤️✨

  • @TheEmelda
    @TheEmelda 2 роки тому

    Mary, can you do a video on the Sabbath? I’ve entered into a state where I am not at all concerned with whether or not my SP conforms. And, this came after he texted me many times in one day and sent me a gift in the mail. I only just learned of this state of consciousness called the Sabbath and I’m eager to get your take on it.

  • @Jeniffer61867
    @Jeniffer61867 2 роки тому +3

    Is it enough to affirm for 1 hour for a new lover? And 1 hour for a sp who's my ex? I can't affirm all day long, it's overwhelming 😒😕 I visualize for a few minutes and do gratitude exercises everyday too.

  • @toodlesshereenfan3296
    @toodlesshereenfan3296 2 роки тому +1

    Loved it 🧿❤️🙌🏽

  • @PassionatelyTaylorMarie
    @PassionatelyTaylorMarie Рік тому

    braces Mary 🥹 I obviously love you without braces and I’m so happy that you have a smile that you want! braces, but such a vibe though so freaking adorable

    • @PassionatelyTaylorMarie
      @PassionatelyTaylorMarie Рік тому

      hahahahahaha 7:39 I’m so weak. I had a real talk to myself in the month of November and ask if this was really just inspired action or am I chasing? he was so happy to talk to me and engaging but I stopped taking breadcrumbs and stopped reaching out first. lol started hardcore self concept beginning of December even more than I thought I was 😭
      much better now ♥️ I trust us and I don’t check on him at all. whatever he is doing has nothing to do with me so idc 😂

  • @abhigail1238
    @abhigail1238 2 роки тому

    Girl you're so motivating and inspiring. Much love ❤️😘

  • @AyuJogaComigo
    @AyuJogaComigo 9 місяців тому

    Thank you. No, really, thank you

  • @rose_1x
    @rose_1x 2 роки тому +1

    thanks sister 😎

  • @idfelix2000
    @idfelix2000 2 роки тому +3

    Mary Lou I have been at this for months so much hot and cold behavior could I be saying the wrong affirmations? Yesterday I cried 😢 I try so hard …

    • @lovinonlee
      @lovinonlee 2 роки тому +4

      Hot and cold behavior is due to not having a very strong self concept. Focus 80% on self concept and 20% on sp. There is really no such thing as wrong affirmations. If you assume that your affirmations will work, then they will.

    • @idfelix2000
      @idfelix2000 2 роки тому +2

      Thank you

    • @lovinonlee
      @lovinonlee 2 роки тому +1

      @@idfelix2000 Np! Also having a strong self concept will help keep your sp as well. Good luck!

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +4

      I agree with Alex. The words of your affirmations don't matter as much as the intention behind them ❤

  • @willisjacksoniv9745
    @willisjacksoniv9745 2 роки тому

    I’ve been watching the flower 🤦🏽‍♂️. Checking bf messenger… then checking to see if they get on Grindr 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +1

      Knowing is half the battle. All that matters is where you go from here 😊

  • @princessjl067
    @princessjl067 2 роки тому +1

    Best video ever 💕

  • @drewisours
    @drewisours 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this ❤️

  • @ERIEITSPRETTY
    @ERIEITSPRETTY 2 роки тому

    I needed this big sis!

  • @FoundRetreat
    @FoundRetreat 2 роки тому

    Excellent 💯🙏🏻🔥

  • @tracyschomer6436
    @tracyschomer6436 2 роки тому

    Hi Mary I love your vids and I watch you along with a few other of my favorite law of attraction people that I follow. I was able to successfully manifest my sp after we were actually broken up he came back and now we live together. The only thing is he’s not the super affectionate type but I have been able to successfully change this little by little. Do you have any tips on how to manifest more affection? We love each other and he’s said it many times but it’s just the showing of affection esp the kissing part I want to amp up! I am a subscriber and always look forward to your content. Thank you for being you!

  • @leannegerth4844
    @leannegerth4844 2 роки тому

    Here’s me heading straight to the “don’t spiral” video now....

  • @Bond10000
    @Bond10000 2 роки тому +1

    Hello! Couldn’t “persisting” turn into obsession? Could you please define persisting without obsessing? Thanks!

    • @Anna-ro1he
      @Anna-ro1he 2 роки тому

      I’m wondering the same.. isn’t it giving false hopes or turns into obsession?

  • @Khushmina4
    @Khushmina4 2 роки тому +1

    But Mary it’s long distance & he doesn’t see me , how can he feel me….. ??? Does this mean i have to be more active on social media to reach him out?

    • @lucamajic2453
      @lucamajic2453 2 роки тому +2

      I'm not Mary but I can answer this. No, you just do what she says, don't question the process and how this whole thing is unfolding, you're just delaying the process with this. Do your techniques and self concept and how she says leave the seed alone and TRUST. that's how I manifested literally everything so far. I sometimes even forgot to think about those things at all when they manifested, you don't need to affirm all day until it comes to you, and more important, you don't ever ever get in action because it seems logical and makes sense to you (like being more active on social media)

  • @abhilashakumar2942
    @abhilashakumar2942 2 роки тому

    I have a question, I manifested my SP to be a certain way/ not fighting etc , so he controls me a lot . He doesn’t appreciate me finding boys on fb etc and I haven’t in years , it so happened that I found he searched up 10 hot women. I didn’t expect him doing this after HIM making such rules . I didn’t manifest that even close to it . I’m in a shock . What thoughts should I align to have him not control me ?

  • @allycarrillo7314
    @allycarrillo7314 2 роки тому +3

    👍🏼

  • @shivamiltiwari9541
    @shivamiltiwari9541 2 роки тому +2

    When u started talking of new beauty product I just moved the video in 2 seconds to 5minute directly and got the important informations ☺️
    If u really want to grow your channel then even 1 sec of video must add some real value .......
    Good luck...!

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary  2 роки тому +1

      A lot of people have specifically asked me to talk about the products I use in case they want to incorporate them into their own skin care routine. I'm happy you found a workaround though 😊

    • @shivamiltiwari9541
      @shivamiltiwari9541 2 роки тому

      @@ManifestwithMary I gave honest suggestion and this is how people do while watching you tube ... I m in profession where time creates wealth ..( Equity trading ) ..you contents are good and this is why I had subscribed ...keep good work on..

  • @Manifestandchill
    @Manifestandchill Рік тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @kumarl3759
    @kumarl3759 2 роки тому +2

    ❤️❤️💕💕💕💕💕

  • @hanahana-qv3dq
    @hanahana-qv3dq 2 роки тому

    But my sp didnt wish me a happy birthday what should I do now ?