My Specific Person DUMPED ME: How I Got Him Back FOR GOOD! | Law of Assumption
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- Опубліковано 9 жов 2024
- Hi, friends and Maryfestors! In today’s video, I am going to be telling you the story of the time I manifested my specific person (YAY!) and then he quite swiftly dumped me (BOO!). It’s okay though, because not only did I manifest him back but I manifested the ultimate commitment: marriage! I will be walking you through the things I did wrong during the first breakup and how I changed my techniques (and outlook) to manifest him back for good!
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I made similar mistakes! I spending so much money on psychics to tell me if we would end up together. One psychic is who pointed me in the direction of manifestation. Before finding law of assumption I worried about losing him and I did….a couple of times! But in January I found you! I found your video where you said “I’m going to manifest him back and back for good!” And I did that. Followed your advice and went balls to the wall!!!! It was easy living in my 4D and when he came back I almost spiraled again. But I had just watched your video on “okay I got my SP back and now what!” So your videos helped me truly understand the importance of SC!
And I am so glad you found me, Jess!!!! Soooooo proud of all of your progress and looking forward to receiving the invite to your wedding. 😉🥰
Same
I am experiencing hot and cold behavior from my SP now. I spent a lot of money on psychics before to finally come across LOA and realizing that it’s all in me. Like you Mary, I reached out to different coaches and took pieces of advices and created my own way that I feel works for me. Every day I discover something different that helps me improve my manifestation of our loving and happy relationship. Thank you for that video ♥️✨
@@ManifestwithMary I have a date in mind already!!!!!
Oh my god I just went to a second psychic today 🤦🏻♀️and my psychic of 10yrs said it was witch craft when I told her I wanted to marry my SP. Why would she say that? 😧
@@Princess-ef2ux it doesn’t matter what she says, what matters is what you think. Remember no one has free will. You desire your SP because your SP desires you!!!!
So grateful for finding your channel! I found LOA about a month ago after my SP told me that he was emotionally unavailable to continue dating me. Our connection is so strong, so I didn't understand why he would cut it off. Although I started trying LOA, I also spent HUNDREDS of dollars on psychics during this time. He came back into my life (as friends) & after listening to the psychics telling me that we're soulmates, we'll be together before the end of the year, I pursued him a week ago when we were hanging out and he told me he still wasn't ready & that his mind hadn't changed. I couldn't believe it. The FIRST thought that popped into my head was that I couldn't believe I spent my money on psychics & that I will NEVER call them again (still cringing over this one). And the second thought was "okay, let's do this for real with LOA" because I believe in it because it's the law. So, here I am, hanging on to your every word. I decided last night that I'm removing him from the pedestal and working on myself & then this morning I find this video!! I'm not going to focus so much on him because I really need to change my self-concept but he will be back....because I said so.
Same thing as me, we got it
“seeing him as my husband but not you know…nick jonas” 😂😂😂 this is why i love your channel
Your makeup is everything today! Literal goddess
Omg thank you 🥰🥰🥰
I just wanted to say that your energy has something very healing and it made me feel really good and light.
Please let me know your thoughts on today's video! Did you make some of the same mistakes I did when manifesting SP? What are you doing differently now?
This video was powerful. Working on myself and giving him space.. it terrify me but I have to trust my power.
It was so empowering when you told me about your story Mary. I have been manifested my SP since 2 years ago after we broke up. Even now we get back to each other very closely but still I am continue to manifesting him that we will get married. I know that we are the sweet couple and continue to focus on my self concept. Negative story just get away.
I got ill early in my relationship making me unable to walk, this left me feeling very worthless. Created a 3p in this time but not a physical one just someone my sp would talk to out of work. I was home alone a lot so my mind spiralled. I got healthy literally 2months after the break up like a miracle. Last two years there's been hot and cold etc but last week she actually came to my house and spent time together intimately. She has messaged first most days since I'm not reacting to colder days as it's just playing out atm but it's been an interesting journey so far.
In the beginning, It was all about him, now I am focusing more on myself and it feels good. Manifesting has become easier for me too. Manifesting doesn't feel forced, it's come naturally. I'm not obsessed with my sp anymore but still affirm for him. I know this question has already been asked but I'd like to know what your husband was really thinking while you two were in NC, as you were manifesting him.
Really liked today's message because I can relate to it! My relationship fell apart but then I manifested them back and it was amazing for about a year. However, then it happened all over again. Now I am at a point where I am working on me, giving him plenty of space, not reacting to anything and seeing where this all goes.
Great video which reiterates Bible verse _"Thou shall have no other Gods beside_ *ME* "
You are the only one to be idolized in your universe,.. the minute you put anyone above you, as your God i.e on a pedestal, you will definitely be treated that way 🌸💗🌸💗🌸
Psalms 82:6 to them, “I said 'You are gods." 🙌🏻
Yes!!! 😍😍😍
Wow the part where you said you are looking up at him and he is looking down on you. That made sense. Great visual
Thank you!
“he’s not…justin bieber” has me cryinggg 😂😂😂😂😂
Everything that you said I really resonated with. I love your videos so much and I appreciate you and your channel! Although my situation is different, still there are many similarities. My SP and I have never broken up, we have been in a committed relationship for the last 3 years… Living together for 2 1/2 of those. But, In the beginning he was the one to say I love you first… He was the one to tell me he was marrying me etc etc. and then suddenly about a year ago it all switched and he became unsure. It really messed me up emotionally, mentally, physically. Just super depressed, desperate and just overall shocked not understanding where it all went wrong. (Until
I came across LOA) So for a while things were complicated.. we were still living together and still together as in not seeing anybody else… but it was still out there on the table that he wasn’t sure if this was going to last or not Or what he wanted. Whether or not To be with me, or be single. I was super anxiety ridden everyday thinking am I wasting my time? Then just a few days ago we were on our couch and we had a very emotional conversation. We were both in tearssss telling each other how much we love each other and then he told me he wants to make it work. He said he doesn’t want to give up on us, that he loves me so much and that we owe it to ourselves to get through the hard times together and grow together because he knows what he have is so special and beautiful. So I guess as of right now I feel like my manifestation is kind of trying to push its way through but not quite there yet if that makes sense. My end goal is to have him be 100% sure of me again and ask me to marry him. and through your videos and law of assumption I have realized that self-concept is SO important. If not, the most important. And you are right I need to work on giving him space and refocusing on myself. I need to dig real deep because I know I have a a lot of deep rooted emotional issues from Childhood trauma with both of my parents being addicted to drugs and one passing away from it. The thing is during the pandemic we were both laid off and spent every single day together 24/7 to the point that we both actually became codependent and when it came time to go back to work HE actually suffered from separation anxiety. The thing is though, my codependency kind of stuck around a little bit more than his. So yeah just want to say thank you for all that you do and the videos that you make. They really help me to stay focused and stay in alignment to my end goal. 💗💗💗
A question for your husband: what made you unsure after being so sure of her at first. And how did you come to the realization that she was in fact the one you wanted to marry?
Mary, I love your videos, I've manifested my SP back over and over and over again and this time I'm really just exhausted from affirming all about him. Last week after your video about SC vs SP, I went full on on SC and I had really awesome movements with SP that night itself and for the next few days. And then I went back to my old state. My question is if you could answer...were you ever resentful towards him and how did you deal with him seeing other people while you guys were not together? I don't want to date others while I manifest him back so I want him to do the same, to wait for me and work on himself while I work on me and our story.
Affirm:
I'm my SP best choice...only choice
I'm worthy of the love I desire
I always get my manifestations
I only manifest my positive thoughts
I've always been successful in my relationships
I'm so grateful for this beautiful life
I love this person I'm becoming; I'm courageous, loving and I exude love and light
...start with those general affirmations and continue to grow from there. Your SP won't meet anyone better than you and you HAVE to know that. You are everything he's always wanted...you're the best version of YOU and you're getting better and better as the days go by. I know it's hard to feel these things now bc your focus is on worry and fear but there's nothing to fear. You WILL get your hearts desires bc they're your desires and your 3d has to conform to your thoughts. Don't worry about what your SP...they'll be back just like you want but make sure you're doing the work on YOU in the meantime. Make sure you're becoming the kind of person you'd date, you'd love...you'd commit to. Sending you love and light ❤️
@@Hailey0605 Thank you for that. The more I work on my SC and general affirmations including relationships, I feel like the harder it is to let go of the resentment towards my SP for what he had done in the past. I just want him to be accountable about what he had done, but EIYPO right...I now feel like I need to change a lot about how I view him, because other men reflect my new SC state but with him, it's somehow lingering still. I'm struggling with letting go totally of the old story.
I let my sp go a week ago. He keeps trying to text me. And want to be friends. I literally told him no, I dont want to and I cant JUST be friends. I have a feeling. He will be back again
I think you really only drive your sp away if you believe you're too damaged, and you need to be "fixed".
I was sooooo screwed up in the head when I manifested my husband of 8 years. I didn't know I was manifesting him, but I totally was.
I had extreme jealousy issues, tons of childhood trauma and past abusive relationship trauma.
Yet he's never left me.
We've helped each other through our trauma, and he accepts me.. even the broken, ugly, dark pieces.
Just because you've experienced life, does not mean you can't maintain a serious relationship.
It's an LOA concept that gets dragged into law of assumption.. and turned into an ASSUMPTION. Just my two cents. Love your videos
I don't disagree at all! All of our lives are based on our own assumptions and our assumptions can be built up by our lived experiences (or traumas) a lot of people struggle to manifest without addressing those traumas, but not all do! If you haven't created any negative assumptions/beliefs/rules in your life then go forth and kick ass! I on the other hand...Definitely had. 😂🥲
@@ManifestwithMary I feel that.. did you learn loa first? I think that might just be the difference. Loa tells people they don't deserve a stable relationship unless they feel XYZ and do XYZ
Mary is so relatable and adorable! love watching your videos girl!
EIYPO...you've got to LOVE yourself.
This is exactly what happened to me. We were apart and she started seeing someone else and I manifested her back. Once I had her back it only lasted a week and she went back to him. I put her up on a pedestal and stopped manifesting our relationship because I thought "I got her back, the work is done." Boy was I wrong. Now I'm manifesting her back again and this time it will be for good. ❤️
But doesn’t that sound exhausting? The only way to keep someone around is by manifesting them all the time. You’d have to remember everyday or every other day to manifest her to stay or come back?
Why not manifest what’s meant to stay? What’s meant to last? What you deserve. And you deserve someone who truly wants you in the way you want them.
You can manifest someone all day long but it will never alter their will and their desires, it will only reconnect their path to you.
@@imontosomething2609 I didn't mean manifesting her to stay once I have her back. I guess I mean working on the relationship as a whole instead of putting her on a pedestal. Lift us both up together.
@@estebanrivera8820 Oh ok gotcha. And honestly I wrote my reply before watching the video and already had ideas what she might have said in the video so I misjudged here. My apologies.
Great video and awesome advice! I think it’s important to change your self concept and the way you view them and to focus on the end goal. Only one to change is yourself and trust the process of changing within. I would ask your husband if he would think of you all the time? Even though we all know he would I just want to hear him admit it 😂
I don’t want to force anything is better to let go and move on.
Your skin and light makeup looks soooo beautiful. Your look is soo beautiful on this video...now I have to start the video over because I wasn't listening lol.
Literally crying this is accurate 💕
❤❤❤ I love this… I’m giving my sp space too and trusting in the unseen in our love. Some days are better then others, this encourages me.
Gurl! I almost had a heart attack reading the first half of the title. I legit thought you broke up with you hubby! Its my dyslexia lmao.
Also what's your opinion on natal charts? They are suppose to tell you about how your life will be but honestly what happens if you natal chart is absolute trash? Like can you manifest away any bad karmas?
I have the same question. Can you please answer it for us Mary?
Omg that is too funny!! 😂😂😂
Regarding natal charts, much like psychic readings, tarot cards, etc. I don't think that they tell you what your future MUST be unless you assign meaning to them. I also don't believe in karma in my universe with regard to myself but other people are an entirely different story. 😂
This speaks so loudly to me. I love your videos and I appreciate your content.
You are positively radiant!
Thank you 🥰
Great video as always, Mary. Thank you. I will watch the other one after work today.
I wanted to ask your opinion on revision? Mixing SC and SP affirmations into a new story altogether. Is it more like that? Or something else/deeper than that?
Lately when I say an affirmation where I mention he is my husband, or I am his wife, I can feel it on my left ring finger. I always felt happy, content before…but I never felt that until recently; and it’s consistently. Only during those times.
♥️
You look sooooo pretty!!!
Thanks, love 🥰
It`s 10,5 months of no contact. I`m at datingapps now talking to other guys. Have not forgotten about this SP but nothing is changing. And before people write this, I have done A LOT of self concept for a long time. Listen to a lot of night tapes with self concept etc. So that is not the issue.
*I know exactly how you feel, Best Powerful Spell to manifest your ex back or Special person is Papa Ray Spell solutions on UA-cam, he brought back my husband in less than 48 hours**
Hi Mary 🥰 I just wanted to thank you for your videos and for sharing your personal story with us! I love and appreciate your honesty in your videos and your energy overall! I feel like you really care about us (unlike a lot of other coaches on yt that only want views). Also your story really inspires me. Before I found your channel, there was an annoying voice in my head that would tell me "if it was meant to work out, it would work out the first time", but now I know it can still work out, no matter how many times it didn't in the past. Things will fall into place as soon as you truly believe you are worthy of your desire.. Anyways, I wish the absolute best for you and your husband and I can't wait for the q&a video! 😊💖✨
Omgosh Mary you look gorgeous!!!
Thank you, love! Still glowing from our trip to Hawaii 🥰🥰🥰
can you please make a more in dept video about how you worked on your self concept? i just say affirmations but i dont feel its working
Absolutely! In the meantime just search for "self concept " in my videos because I've posted a few so far on things you can do besides affirming 🥰
You can work on your self concept by doing shadow work, creating healthier habits, changing your appearance, going to therapy, ect.
I feel like I am so strong in my self-concept….I manifested a new SP and was SO in this great energy and mindset and confident and out of nowhere last week, it took a negative 180 that I still don’t understand and can’t figure out ☹️
Keep going! Keep reaffirming your Self-concept to yourself every single day. Listen to music that you ENJOY and keeps you in good spirits, and do things that help YOU feel great and raise your vibration! I listen to "I am" and other subliminal videos, and I wear my makeup how I like and style my hair and attire in something I feel good and sexy and confident in, and I try to tell myself kind things that I would want others to tell me. "Wow, you look great! You are stunning!" etc. Treat yourself how you want to be treated by others including your SP and watch your life become better and better :-)
This is the first video of yours I’ve seen and I absolutely love your honesty about manifesting an sp and I’m struggling to do that but I am slowly working on self concept like accepting my body and deciding what career I really want to do and stop being afraid to express myself. I miss my sp and love him so much I want him back but I feel like I need to let go.
Mary, could you please make video of your husband’s side of story what happened during the 2 months you guys went back together and suddenly he dumped you again and what’s in his mind; what he felt?
You look good hun
Thank you 🥰
Ur so beautiful wow I’m so happy your happy and you got what you wanted in the end! This video was so useful thank u sm
gosh i love ur eyes u kinda look like angelina jolie
I think Angelina is better than lots of VS angels even the most know ones.
Need rest of story and yes hurry with the dual video …very exciting Mary
Omg yes the breakup gurus I was searching those a long time in the beginning I find it manipulative aswell
*I know exactly how you feel, Best Powerful Spell to manifest your ex back or Special person is Papa Ray Spell solutions on UA-cam, he brought back my husband in less than 48 hours**
Oh my god the braces are off 🥰😍
I love your energy 😭🤣💕 and your lipstick! what lipstick is it?
He’s not Justin Bieber… he’s not Channing Tatum… ok… I couldn’t help but laugh 😭
😂😂😂
This is exactly how I think, I mean our guys are never Mister Universe ( I really want to tell this to his face but I shouldn’t react grrr) yet either men are too proud or cocky, why the hell they think thy should put us in this situation?
Amazing video..right on time
Thank you!!!
You look so good!
10:20 shoot even Justin Bieber and Channing Tatum don’t need to be on the pedestal 😎
What did you do for all that you mentioned (anger,trauma etc) was it only self concept? Or shadow work and all or entirely something else??
Do you think it was telepathic energy involved too? Thank you so much
You look beautiful!
What if your SP got married whilst you are manifesting his come back? How do we go on from that?
Can you please give us more information on what exactly you did to build your self concept? I understand following the exact same things might not work for me, but I'm definitely open to new ideas :)
If there's a video that has already been made on this, could you please link it?
I don’t know!! I thought i was in my bridge of incidents because last year he was a stranger and he moved in with me (as a friend) well friend with benefits.. and we are best friends we spent so much time together like we are family now. But we started arguing like crazy and he said.. I don’t think we match to be able to date in the future.. i am so defeated now I thought my bridge of incidents was perfect and it happened quick now i am in and we are best friends last year he called me once a month i was nothing so i had a really good progression in less than a year..
Did you guys moved in living together and he dumped you or just come back together without moved in during those 2 months?
Yes I want to know how was he feeling wen u wer trying 2 manifest him was he like thinkin bout u all the time ?
*I know exactly how you feel, Best Powerful Spell to manifest your ex back or Special person is Papa Ray Spell solutions on UA-cam, he brought back my husband in less than 48 hours**
i wonder if i can talk to Mary personally some time, or if i can have some coaching.
Thank you so much
Hi Mary, my sp and i are back together but there is still no continuous communication between us and I would like him to send messages and make more contact what to do? Thank youu!! You’re videos are the best! Very helped me❤️❤️
I'd like u to ask him what was he feeling? Like what changed ?
Yes!!! I am curious what his answer is going to be...in the past he said he loved me a lot and I had a fat booty, so he decided to finally just go for it hahaha
@@ManifestwithMary haha 😂 love your humor. It's so amazing, i have started working on my own self concept really really hard. Like i don't affirm for sp anymore, just visualise the end state everyday three times. And the more i work on myself, the more i relate to u. Like earlier i could feel that I'm similar to Mary in some ways but now i feel that energetically too. I mean so many things have been similar. Just so grateful to have found you and resonated with u. ❤️
And the best part is your voice keeps playing in my head, "don't do this. Don't let fear and anxiety get the best out of u. You've got this. Keep on going." I have inner conversations with u all the time 🤣
How long at a time did you go without speaking to each other ?
Could you do an affirmation video on affirming partnership?
But I would love to hear your end.. the process when he decided to get back to you.. why did he said and how that happened and how you was feeling in that moment? You have a video about it?
I am trying to get this...
Did you ever contact or pursue him during this or did he come to you?
What were your main affirmations like both for sp and self concept? Also did you have any 3p problem?
How long did you gave him space till he came back for good?
Can u share the inner work u did ?
Ahah similar story. He came and I thought only my insecurities. He showed himself as an asshole and gone. I know create me and him again. I only feel sometimes impatient. I am in the 3rd year and sometimes wanna give up.
I always recommend just taking a break and only working on self concept for a while if it's been a long time without movement.
@@ManifestwithMary Thank you. I am taking care of myself now. I think I will give up with that guy. I mostly dont want to affirm for him or someone else. I choose to be alone. Not everyone is gonna marry or have a relationship. I generally dont like affirming for someone. I only "rarely" feel an urge to create him in his new version. To create someone is not worth to take your personal time.
Mary tell me...I had a guy who I rejected n we got back n he told me he would be more responsive but since dat day he is ignoring my msgs n not responding even to my good mornings...shall I msg him now...I want to manifest marriage n we are in diff corners of the world n never met...pls guide...n shall I stop the msg ...will he forget me..I don't know wat irritated him...even after our fight we were talking..but again we started n decided to restarts n now next day he went quiet....am confused...shal I msg him or no
I would lean back and give him space to message you first while you are focusing on self concept and your wonderful, beautiful life. He will not forget you, if anything it will draw him closer. Remember that circumstances don't matter-- you could manifest this man if he was sitting on Mars!
@@ManifestwithMary thanks Mary....but what a happened???..it was not even wen we fighted dat he was unresponsive even one day...always first to wish me mornings ..but wen we decided to strt again he went to ignore n become silent...some hours later
Pls guide me affirmations...I am doing ur sc n sp affirmations n taken up ur 21 days marriage challenge from Sunday n suddenly this happened on Monday...shall I continue with those or any other advice sis
Mary, how long did it take for you to manifest your sp back after the second time you guys broke up?
6 or 7 months.
@@ManifestwithMary Thanks for replying ❤️
🤔 But why do I get the feeling that this is a manifestation video for you to get him back by a few Freudian slips during your story.
I'm confused by your comment. What do you mean?
Where is that other video you were talking about?. I don't see them on video nor in description.
11:45 -12:05 that part!! Gurlll yes indeed , it's the knowing and faith , I'm actually at this phase now and I know this is key !! @manifestingwithmary
My question for your husband would be was his emotions ever going back & forth when you would be on top of the manifestation game & when you would start to spiral? Example, he would be feeling like getting back together when you were thinking positively about the situation and when you were thinking negatively, he didn't want to get back together.
𝖕𝖗𝖔𝖒𝖔𝖘𝖒 🤔
Hi Mary thank you for sharing your story with us! I never leave comments in youtube but your energy is just so so special I can’t help to do this🥹
I really want to know what did your husband feel when you were in nc?
Also, have you ever done revision and what is your point of view of it? I did manifested my sp back once, but same with you, he’s out again, and he kept on telling me that we didn’t match and we were not happy together, so now I’m really working on my SC. It’s weird though bcs my SC is really good on other things🥲
I saw a lot of people commenting that they are in the same situation though, so really really thank you for bringing this up for us! Much love❤️