The problem is the intellectual dishonesty whenever this topic is raised. A small slap every now and then is spoken about like it's a beating to within an inch of your life. It is important to discipline children. The consequences of not doing so later in life are *far* more devastating than a few light slaps on the arm or leg earlier in life.
I have worked supporting children with EBD (emotional behaviour disorder) for years and have two boys and a daughter of my own, I have never smacked a child to teach them, I talk to them, you didn't learn to read by being smacked did you, also how can you say hitting other people is wrong when your doing it to them, it's bad lazy parenting, take them away from the situation and give them a strong talking, if you cant your a weak parent who struggles with conscious emotional control.
@@paulmuaddib3470 lazy parenting! Listen to the virtue signalling commie. If half these inner city kids see the back of a hand and learned SOME respect, maybe they wouldn't behave like wild dogs. Unfortunately mate outside your utopia there are people who only understand the fist or boot and that is because they run amok as kids when they needed to understand the difference between right and wrong. Yes its a last resort.... A necessary one.
@@paulmuaddib3470 you make a good pointi reason with my son these days but i did get in trouble for smacking him. My son knows now i cannot smack him. However because he knows this he is also aware that whatever he does at school has no consequences. The teachers who pressed for a charge against me were the same teachers who asked me to discipline him because he stabbed one of them in the hand with a pencil.
The amount of kids that are utterly vile are kids that have no fear because they know nobody can touch them. Theres no best way but taking away the option just gives kids more power
have you noticed the less strict we have gotten the more chaotic kids have become ? or grades have fallen ? kids will just use this as a threat to get what they want ... its the same with the law the less strict we have gotten the more people get away with stuff they shouldn't get away with. Kids will only adapt to this and the problem will only get a lot worse in the future.
No, the kids should be given rules & regulations. If they break them, they should be told off, if that doesn't work and other methods of discipline doesn't work, then a slap on legs or hand should be applicable. It worked for my sisters, me, my cousins and none of us have been affected badly from them. Sick b.t.h here!
Anyone with half a brain knows that there are kids without discipline these days who know they are untouchable. A smack is one thing, severely beating is reprehensible. C'mon man.
I got smacked as a kid. Feared and hated it more than anything I have ever experienced. I was a good kid but through fear of pain. I am in my 40s with two lads and made a vow to never hit them when they were born. They're good kids. In the adult world you are not punished through physical violence. Why should it be different for kids? .... but keep the State out all the same.
Children need boundaries! I suggest those who have never had to restrain or sma k their child have probably had paid child care, or allow their kids to abuse their parents natural authority. Giving kids sweets, bribes, extra computer time, etc in order to control their child are ruining their characters and self control. Once a kid knows that there will be consequences to rebellion they respond to verbal correction.
It's wrong to smack a child. Adults commit far worse things than children but no-one is allowed to smack them. How would adults feel if every time they did something wrong at work their boss was allowed to give them a smack. You can't even shout at your employees these days without it being a form of bullying. You can commit murder but you don't even get a smack so why hit children
My two were disciplined in a loving way and they’ve turned out well. I’ve seen a lot brought up by the “experts” who can’t mind their own business and it’s a disaster. Bit still they persist in poking their noses into other peoples business.
When I was 5 I told my mum to f*** off, I know real classy. She gave me a good slap for that and I definitely deserved it! Kids can be horrible and lack the mental development to consider things like an adult, the only way is through positive reinforcement to incentivise good behaviour and if they cross the line you need to put them straight for their own benefit.
Unless your saying that most people in the past was damaged by a smack. This is aload of Cobblers How about making the child go to school from 9am-3pm 5 days a week 9 months a year. With no choice or say in the matter. Forcing test and stress and punishment with detentions for making a mistake.
Absolutely not! Never mind banning it bring back more! My child, my rules, were talking a slap, a snack, not battering them here. But then of course we get to the real issue of people breeding who simply shouldn't be allowed. You think these yobs running around terrorising estates, or the wild animals in London got a smack, or that thier folks care?...
I grew up with it and believe in it... first of all, it teaches through reverse psychology why not to do it ourselves and kids who grew up without it end up being the worst for doing it because they never experienced it... sometimes irrational kids like adults need a slap to bring them back to their senses... however beating with belts or other objects or punches is what should be outright banned altogether, which is what I grew up with... swatting them in their heads toughens them up for the real world... It taught me to duck and always be on my toes... Kids make mistakes and instead of punishing our kids we should be helping them to pick up the pieces and learn from the mistakes... Sheltered people don't know how to handle it when they grow up and are put in situations that they have no experience in....
Honestly, where has common sense gone?. Kids are shits, positive reinforcement is ok, obviously beating like you would an adult isn’t… is it that hard to grasp?
@@sphtpfhorbrains3592 .. well you keep sitting your kid on the stairs and by the time they are 12 you might be able to say they have adhd and ill carry on having two good kids that get most things they want but are grateful and also know their limits. They come in on time and talk to adults like they should. It's not like they get smacked up all the time and haven't for awhile. Because they have learned their limits and I have never bruised them. A preventative measure is always better than trying to fix a problem as the problem is already there...
The problem with this is like everything else you get the ones that take it too far and everyone is tarred with the same brush I was smacked as a child it taught me right from wrong I’ve grown up okay She is turning a smack into a beating There is non to show it doesn’t work
This is a really difficult subject, I think the sudden shock of been pulled back to scare a child is a lesson you need to teach them along with telling them why you done it. Most parents who "smack" their child as a form of punishment do not to abuse their child those children are abused out of sight so it prevents nothing in those cases. I'm a believer in firm but fair having worked with children, I wouldn't report someone for smacking a child on the bottom or on the wrist but I choose other ways to make sure my children respect me because now they are older and almost as big as me (I'm 4"11) if I used that to punish them now I wouldn't have their respect enough to listen other than to smack them so as I say its a difficult situation
Smacking your child s a sign of weakness. But that's all it is. I can proudly say that I never struck any of my children - but God I was sorely tempted on many an occasion!
I dunno about smacking but I was thrashed regularly as a child every Sunday morning whether I deserved it or not and it never did me any harm so I say, stick it to the next generation! 😠
It did do you harm. You are angry and sat there encouraging child abuse. You want generational abuse to continue in perpetuity because you suffered it. Seek help.
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The problem is the intellectual dishonesty whenever this topic is raised. A small slap every now and then is spoken about like it's a beating to within an inch of your life. It is important to discipline children. The consequences of not doing so later in life are *far* more devastating than a few light slaps on the arm or leg earlier in life.
Succinct and my sentiments exactly x
I have worked supporting children with EBD (emotional behaviour disorder) for years and have two boys and a daughter of my own, I have never smacked a child to teach them, I talk to them, you didn't learn to read by being smacked did you, also how can you say hitting other people is wrong when your doing it to them, it's bad lazy parenting, take them away from the situation and give them a strong talking, if you cant your a weak parent who struggles with conscious emotional control.
@@paulmuaddib3470 well done you 👏
@@paulmuaddib3470 lazy parenting! Listen to the virtue signalling commie.
If half these inner city kids see the back of a hand and learned SOME respect, maybe they wouldn't behave like wild dogs.
Unfortunately mate outside your utopia there are people who only understand the fist or boot and that is because they run amok as kids when they needed to understand the difference between right and wrong.
Yes its a last resort.... A necessary one.
@@paulmuaddib3470 you make a good pointi reason with my son these days but i did get in trouble for smacking him. My son knows now i cannot smack him. However because he knows this he is also aware that whatever he does at school has no consequences. The teachers who pressed for a charge against me were the same teachers who asked me to discipline him because he stabbed one of them in the hand with a pencil.
The amount of kids that are utterly vile are kids that have no fear because they know nobody can touch them. Theres no best way but taking away the option just gives kids more power
Yep its gone to far kids arent incontrol but they think they are just like a cat does, the cat is right the kids couldnt be more wrong if they tried.
have you noticed the less strict we have gotten the more chaotic kids have become ? or grades have fallen ? kids will just use this as a threat to get what they want ... its the same with the law the less strict we have gotten the more people get away with stuff they shouldn't get away with. Kids will only adapt to this and the problem will only get a lot worse in the future.
I think a lot of these boys in London running around with knives, could of done with a few smack bottoms 🤔
Or perhaps a few less and a few more conversations
@@paulmuaddib3470 👍
No, the kids should be given rules & regulations. If they break them, they should be told off, if that doesn't work and other methods of discipline doesn't work, then a slap on legs or hand should be applicable. It worked for my sisters, me, my cousins and none of us have been affected badly from them. Sick b.t.h here!
What a load of rubbish. Why don't the government leave us alone and let us raise are children as we see fit.
Less government the better
Discipline is necessary. Beatings are out of order.
So these kids don't understand consequences. It does work as a punishment
Anyone with half a brain knows that there are kids without discipline these days who know they are untouchable. A smack is one thing, severely beating is reprehensible. C'mon man.
A smack with an explanation is quite simply a loving parental response to bad childlike behaviour. TuTT, TuTT.
If I gave my wife a slap thats domestic violence, but slapping the kids is discipline?
I got smacked as a kid. Feared and hated it more than anything I have ever experienced. I was a good kid but through fear of pain. I am in my 40s with two lads and made a vow to never hit them when they were born. They're good kids. In the adult world you are not punished through physical violence. Why should it be different for kids? .... but keep the State out all the same.
None of their business. Who the 'f' empowered these people to interfere in other people's lives. Do one.
They deserve a damned good thrashing.
I remember when I was a kid my nan would wash my mouth out with washing up liquid when I was misbehaving… and later on in my life I respect her for it
As soon as she started talking in round two I knew that she lost this round.
I smacked my boy when he punched me in the eye after being told not to.
My god, she's she's *a completely emotive bint.
Children need boundaries! I suggest those who have never had to restrain or sma k their child have probably had paid child care, or allow their kids to abuse their parents natural authority. Giving kids sweets, bribes, extra computer time, etc in order to control their child are ruining their characters and self control. Once a kid knows that there will be consequences to rebellion they respond to verbal correction.
It's wrong to smack a child. Adults commit far worse things than children but no-one is allowed to smack them. How would adults feel if every time they did something wrong at work their boss was allowed to give them a smack. You can't even shout at your employees these days without it being a form of bullying. You can commit murder but you don't even get a smack so why hit children
My two were disciplined in a loving way and they’ve turned out well. I’ve seen a lot brought up by the “experts” who can’t mind their own business and it’s a disaster. Bit still they persist in poking their noses into other peoples business.
I used to get a slipper across the bumcheaks! Only when I needed it... But the the mention or thought of it kept me out of trouble.
When I was 5 I told my mum to f*** off, I know real classy. She gave me a good slap for that and I definitely deserved it! Kids can be horrible and lack the mental development to consider things like an adult, the only way is through positive reinforcement to incentivise good behaviour and if they cross the line you need to put them straight for their own benefit.
Unless your saying that most people in the past was damaged by a smack.
This is aload of Cobblers
How about making the child go to school from 9am-3pm 5 days a week 9 months a year.
With no choice or say in the matter.
Forcing test and stress and punishment with detentions for making a mistake.
Absolutely not! Never mind banning it bring back more!
My child, my rules, were talking a slap, a snack, not battering them here.
But then of course we get to the real issue of people breeding who simply shouldn't be allowed. You think these yobs running around terrorising estates, or the wild animals in London got a smack, or that thier folks care?...
I got smacked and I deserved it every time I leaned from it. So I do not agree with her at all.
I grew up with it and believe in it... first of all, it teaches through reverse psychology why not to do it ourselves and kids who grew up without it end up being the worst for doing it because they never experienced it... sometimes irrational kids like adults need a slap to bring them back to their senses... however beating with belts or other objects or punches is what should be outright banned altogether, which is what I grew up with... swatting them in their heads toughens them up for the real world... It taught me to duck and always be on my toes... Kids make mistakes and instead of punishing our kids we should be helping them to pick up the pieces and learn from the mistakes... Sheltered people don't know how to handle it when they grow up and are put in situations that they have no experience in....
Yeah let's ban discipline and instead just hand our kids knives, placards and drugs.
No how are they supposed to know what they do has consequences. They'll be wanting to free prisoners next.
Honestly, where has common sense gone?. Kids are shits, positive reinforcement is ok, obviously beating like you would an adult isn’t… is it that hard to grasp?
No but smacking MPs should he made legal
Mandatory
But what if they piss you off?
Sometimes kids need a good smack!
I don't care about what the research says, smacking can be effective.
What research? Asking a kid who's just had a damned good spanking if he thought that was good for him?
The psychologist is right
Nothing wrong with a slap on the backside now and then to keep them in order
Doesn't work. Evidence, research, etc. It just makes the parent feel vindicated.
My child my rules. I will punish when I think it's deserved
A child is not your property. They have inalienable human rights, including the right not to be physically abused by a parent.
@@sphtpfhorbrains3592 .. well you keep sitting your kid on the stairs and by the time they are 12 you might be able to say they have adhd and ill carry on having two good kids that get most things they want but are grateful and also know their limits. They come in on time and talk to adults like they should. It's not like they get smacked up all the time and haven't for awhile. Because they have learned their limits and I have never bruised them. A preventative measure is always better than trying to fix a problem as the problem is already there...
@@nubie1100 A proper abuser you are. You should be reported to the NSPCC.
The problem with this is like everything else you get the ones that take it too far and everyone is tarred with the same brush
I was smacked as a child it taught me right from wrong I’ve grown up okay
She is turning a smack into a beating
There is non to show it doesn’t work
This is a really difficult subject, I think the sudden shock of been pulled back to scare a child is a lesson you need to teach them along with telling them why you done it. Most parents who "smack" their child as a form of punishment do not to abuse their child those children are abused out of sight so it prevents nothing in those cases. I'm a believer in firm but fair having worked with children, I wouldn't report someone for smacking a child on the bottom or on the wrist but I choose other ways to make sure my children respect me because now they are older and almost as big as me (I'm 4"11) if I used that to punish them now I wouldn't have their respect enough to listen other than to smack them so as I say its a difficult situation
I won't ✋. It's needed they have to know limits
Smacking your child s a sign of weakness. But that's all it is. I can proudly say that I never struck any of my children - but God I was sorely tempted on many an occasion!
Yeah i imagine people at the shops thought the same thing
All missing the point. There should be a licence to breed to begin with
No.Next.
She’s destroyed her own argument
How about u raise your kids I'll raise mine
I dunno about smacking but I was thrashed regularly as a child every Sunday morning whether I deserved it or not and it never did me any harm so I say, stick it to the next generation! 😠
It did do you harm. You are angry and sat there encouraging child abuse. You want generational abuse to continue in perpetuity because you suffered it. Seek help.