How to Embrace Your Dark Side and Overcome It
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Reminds me of a quote I saw sometime, "You can't truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of great violence. If you are not capable of violence. You're not peaceful, you're harmless"
Beautiful
"The gateway to wisdom, and the gateway to development of personality which is exactly the same thing, is precisely through the portal that you do not want to climb through."
The world needs people who are not afraid to do hard things. We need to look fear in the face, and charge forward to confront it. That's how good people are made.
Jordan is brilliant. This generation needs you. Than you for your work. 🙏
Lol noo he isn't. Hasn't done anything for anyone but himself.
@@jurjcluners8490 What are you talking about? How blind can a human being be
He’s teaching a class of students in this video
@@aakankinskywalker384 Good luck to your journey also brother. See you at the top.
Love you Jordan Peterson is there anything we can do for you? You've helped so many people so much, hope you're doing well
@@PablitaPicasita highly disagree, he gets incredible satisfaction talking and meeting with the people he has helped, you dont need to be rich to provide something
Hi, this is Peter Jordanson, I am the son of Jordan. Just enjoy your life, me and my dad are cool . Thanks
@@PablitaPicasita Money can't buy everything fren
@@Spaghettiest in most cases can.
@@lannys488 Why are you trying to kill positivity right now with as bad as everything is? Seriously, what is it that compels you to to argue and shut down support for the sake of arguing and shutting down support?
Go stand in the corner blaire witch style
When I was young it always struck me that metalheads tended to be nerds playing bad guys, they usually had solid friendship codes. Now I just understand it as people seeking to learn not to be harmless in an environment that seemed aggressive to most of them.
Also it's helpful to be able to channel anger you feel in a healthy way through music and not through non-consensual violence.
0:35 - Being able to be cruel and not being cruel. 👌🏼
In years to come, when the tides have turned and sanity prevails, people like Jordan shall be hailed as Hero's of a generation.
You have to recognize the darkness in you so that you can work to achieve the fraction of divinity within you.
Wow. That's amazing. Fraction of divinity. That's powerful.
I've watched so many of Dr Peterson's podcasts, interviews, lectures, etc. And it just horrible how this man is misunderstood and taken out of context. Dr Peterson is the most authentic and consistent lover of humanity. The attacks on this man should open everyone's eyes to what is really going on this world. He is a true treasure to those who are trying to get better and a thorn in the side of enabled and narcissistic. So if his words hurt, then u r probably convicted or narcissist. Hell yes it hurt to hear I was being pitiful. But I was able to get back in the fight because of this man. Thank you Dr.
You made us strong Dr. Peterson! We'll take the future by a storm, and channel our vices in a productive way ❤️ thank you sir!
Thank you again, Dr. Peterson. I need this.
The title implies that “overcoming it” is always the best direction. I will agree that letting the monster out all the time is bad, but sometimes the monster is the only one who can do what is necessary.
This is very important that ppl learn!
I've heard it before, as part of a longer lecture, but these cuts are great, as far as they don't lose their contact. Thanks for spreading your pearls 💜!
This is something I've been thinking for the past year or so, and you put it into words perfectly.
In this you speak to me. The darkness inside frightens me, but it is what has kept me safe. Thank you.
Be the warrior in the garden.
I like the way Jordan never tell at their students, I watched his almost all videos teaching at classroom non in one video he had yell anyone And I loved the way how students remain quiet and stay silent while he is speaking
That was exactly what i needed now
hey i watched this, recently even the whole lecture, i've watched the lectures about 5 times now and it's just something nice to do every year or so..
Thank your Dr Jordan🙏
Thank you
Understanding brings wisdom...
a conversation with you. bucket list.
Thank you for sharing.
Love to the Good Doctor JP
Very reasonable idea.
The path to enlightenment quickly takes you to the gates of hell, and the only way out is through.
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I love jordan b Peterson♥️♥️
God bless you. I needed to hear this
Seems like he spoke all that in _one_ sentence. Never mind - he's brilliant!
*THIS IS FOR YOUR SUCCESS*
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Just imagine these students looking back at these classes with JP ….My god ….what a gift …
Thank you jordan.
@1:26 Here JBP equates confidence with dominance. His usual reply to hostile journalists who accuse him of bolstering dominance hierarchies is usually to insist he's talking about competence hierarchies.
Thank you #JordanPeterson
Jordan Peterson is the bomb.
I’ve been missing this side of JP for a while now. I feel like there’s been a bit of a tonal shift in the last few years to his content.
Bound to happen , after he has gone through so much in last 2-3 years !! Nearly died ! Hence what ever he was then and now , i personally feel happy just to see that "HE IS THERE" !
Always remember that you are not your ego!
The best thing about a round table is that it is the same shape no matter how it is turned.
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My country going strong🎵
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Mind blown.
The Truth is That when Protecting Family and Friends, from EVIL - or those acting evil toward Family & Friends - Then I will become Dark & Dangerous toward the EVIL, and then Only.
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Looking forward to your points of view.
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Self development is key to embracing ones own dark side,,, Strong foundations are required on which to build controllable rage and anger
then there is the processing for both selection and management
This all has to happen naturally.. as people work and play they get used to the various situations.. and at the same time develop the logic and reasoning necessary for climbing the levels of competence and ability.. the next is resilience and resolve
But do not forget.. that life is balanced.. the rage and anger is nothing without the love and the caring.. a balanced individual will have much greater control of their dark side if they are able to care for others.. and also to reach greater levels of each
1:55 - The Shadow reaches down to HELL
I'd like the lecture more if he paused more often, to give a moment of though for the listener. 🍺 cheers, love your work Mr. Peterson!
SO HOW?
take yourself to the uncomfortable positions, have higher expectations for self and live up to it!
Ty Dr. Peterson. Great lecture. Could you look into Game of Thrones and give your perspective on Theon of Greyjoy's hero's journey? His decent into hell and then reemerging a better hero as a result. Would love to hear your thoughts on Game of Thrones.
I just watched Life of Pi, and that movie reflects this lesson almost exactly!
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Was living in da edge so close 2 committing suicide, bt after I had a dose of jorden perterson my father ,I'm at peace n tackling each n every thing as it comes
I wonder if there's a distinction between "where you don't want to go" (which ultimately makes you stronger and better, if you do go there and conquer it) and "where you're better off not going" (because no one can be good at everything, so why push yourself to try to do something you're hopelessly weak at?)
That, to me, is an extremely interesting question, that has been conflicting me for several years already.
I wish a had a clear cut answer. i think it's a matter of "there's no clear cut answer", it depends on each person, and also on each situation. It's a constant balance that requires constant conscious evaluation. Which takes effort. Which summarizes on "Know yourself" (and also helps you know yourself).
Also some places are better to stay away from, not only because you could be hopelessly weak, but also because it might "break you" (as you break a bone, get killed, traumatized, disabled, etc). Or it might just be a characteristic of you (eg trying to be something you're not).
The more i read about trauma, the more i think that the mechanisms that make you not-face your stuff (denial, dissociation, etc) are actually rudimentary protection mechanisms that are healthy and needed, is just that we need to keep pushing little by little or retry once we're stronger, and not depend on a such a coping mechanism for this situation (which ideally should be short term).
Also a key-point, i think is, the suggestion is "looking where you don't wanna look" more than "do what you don't want to do", is quite different if you try it long enough.
I had situations that i didn't wanted to confront. and after long uncomfortable work with them, the solution wasn't to "just let things be that way, get good, toughen up" but actually accept i needed something different and to make a change outside, the growth came from a different aspect.
Jordan mentions a couple of times about "Thinking through" and i think "through" is the keyword. I had many situations that i thought over and over and didn't made progress, because i was un/consciously avoiding to think about them (but compulsion brings them). but when i managed to sit and think them _fully_ and _through_ then the resolution came.
The counterpart to this (i think), that leads to the exact same conundrum is the (sometimes spiritual) lesson of "acceptance of reality as it is" (but only as you confuse acceptance to submission or "do nothing"). It's almost like the opposite to confront your shadow, but has the same conflict. (i think you can "accept" everything, but it's not healthy to always do nothing about it).
@@nand3kudasai I think you form a vision for yourself, then ask yourself the necessary actions to get there. The actions to get there isn’t necessarily easy to confront. If they are difficult and not easy to confront, you can consider them to be “Where you don’t want to go” And are necessary actions. The actions that aren’t corresponding with your vision or path, can be considered as “No one can be perfect at everything.” Also, tackling the actions that are difficult to confront yet aren’t corresponding with your vision or path, is what I think, meaningless suffering. When you tackle difficult actions, it is better to have a reason or purpose on why you’re doing them. Having a reason can lead to you having a deeper sense to your approach and learning.
What is better - to be born good or overcome your evil nature through great effort ~ Paarthurax
I don't think people who hate Jordan Peterson have heard him speak before.
Trying to integrate the shadow and understanding what I'm capable of, is it normal feel intrigued with malevolence? Like a plan to kill everybody in the house, just to know what I'm capable of and if I could even think about it and then plan it properly.
What's is the damage of over estimulation of the shadow's thoughts, would i become bad or degenerate my actual self? I'm kinda afraid
Can you write a book on that
The words about the patriarchy at the end really got me thinking/enlightened (I'm beginning to become a fan of Jung's archetypes, too).
Due to my involvement in the fight against gender ideology I'm in conctact with many feminists, left-leaning ones, and their view of the patriarchy is what often leads to tension resp. to me withdrawing for a while. Because it's engrained in their sense of self and something they won't let you doubt.
This good king - evil king dichotomy in combination with the dark side within us all really helps me to develop a helpful perspective on this topic and to strengthen my ground.
Interesting thing anyway, this dark side. I've been saying for years now that veganism is an attempt to get rid of this dark side, to deny it. As is - not for all but many - the fight against global warming and the whole woke stuff, BLM, CRT, Affirmative Action, Antifa etc. etc.
They all struggle to accept that they're the evil ones, too. They are terrified and can't cope and when they yell at conservatives, at pro-lifers, at "TERFs", they in fact yell at themselves, at their own dark self.
In German there's a phrase: "Weil nicht sein kann, was nicht sein darf", roughly: "Because it can not be what must not be." That applies here strongly, I think.
Edit-P.S.: Wondered where that phrase comes from. Its from a poem by Christian Morgenstern. For those interested:
de.wikisource.org/wiki/Die_unm%C3%B6gliche_Tatsache
You're hilarious. They're the bad evil ones and here's an ancient German war quote proving it.
Genius for a mortal
That last minute or 2 really hit the mark on whats going on around this world or the west crap. (one of the many things). get and give at the same time, almost all the time.
start with nothing and end with more then nothing.
“The fact that you have limitations means that the plot of your life is the overcoming of those limitations.”
(I suspect this means that I must accept my flaws and limitations, not give into them, rather to work to break free of them-to break free of a fraudulent affectation of who I am, and explore the limits of who I really am. Fine, but who am I? This is, I suspect, that state of chaos Dr. Peterson spoke of regarding the Jewish people leaving their bondage in Egypt only to find themselves in the desert. So...I am no longer a slave, but now there is room to become Nietzsche’s Ubermensch and make up my own rules? There is a piece missing here and I think it has to do with destroying the concept of God for the reality of being human with an inherited moral code with which we created God. I need to go for a walk. I just hope it won’t be a forty year slog through snake infested sands. It’s not about finding out what I could be, it’s first finding out who I am...that Oracle of Delphi thing: Know Thyself.)
Kevin Meehan taught me that already being as atheist as the best. Just remember to be in ontology because if you can't fight the be. I remembered always . Got plenty more where that came from. -carnrage/spawn (hell)
I like the villain movies because the toned down characters aren't very believable. The problem with that is that the good guys aren't all that believable either.
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Ayooo. Sorry I'm late. You guys taking notes?
Whoa! stopped the video... ...who said I want to overcome my dark side????
“Allow yourself to cruel”
I’m not sure that’s a great idea. What if it’s enjoyable? Would be more difficult to control after having a taste wouldn’t it seem?
KABE=W👍
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Superman, where are you now??
If you want to find your dark side it's quite easy: think about something that makes you as angry as possible (real or imagined).
Next, imagine what you would do about it if you had the means to do anything your mind can dream up. Continue to press that line until thoughts stop surfacing.
If you're doing this honestly much of what came up was very dark, brutal and evil.
Finally, you need to understand you are NOT allowed to pin those thoughts on the thing making you angry. This is what YOU are like when you're mad, it's all you and always was. You think you'd be the benevolent dictator? Try the exercise again, sunshine. Get a hold of it or it will get a hold on you.
He needs to run for office in the US
But how do we practically apply this lesson on how to embrace our shadow. Like, I'm totally capable of being a horrible cruel bully, but now what? Do I just say I know I can be a bully, but I will choose not to be a bully and then the mission of integration is accomplished?
It’s like superman he has a lot of powers but chooses to remain peaceful and a hero instead of a conqueror
This guy is talking about me. 🤯
All of us have that kind of polarity within us. I wish you strength and wisdom to face it properly and integrate it into your life.
If you enjoy challenging ideas and if mastery and masculinity are subjects that interest you, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
Looking forward to your points of view.
All the best to you!
I keep my inner Archangel in a jar , like Pandora did ! Not a box , that was movie script
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Made you think ! Progress
i don't know what he means by 'dark side'.....i understand fear and anger and everybody has to learn to manage their fear and anger....but 'dark side' is not synonymous with anger.....'dark side' implies evil and evil implies a directed intelligence not a raw basic emotion....some 'dark side' is fun and profitable for some people in some circumstances and some dark side is horrible....
'dark side' suggests moral computation and moral computation suggests moral code and moral code usually suggests some kind of religious consideration.....
pitiless cruelty in the form of sadism suggests psychopathy which is a mental personality disorder roughly analogous to being color blind in the physical disorder world, rather than simply a moral dark side....its debatable whether psychopaths have any awareness that they are dark people with a dark side doing dark or 'evil' things.
most people have the potential to do evil but their 'dark side' is small and weak and not a controlling factor in their personality
Just more of the "myth" that exposure results in good things. Experience has taught me how wrong this can end up. As a psychologist he's supposed to know that people are at various states of being ready or not to face that.
Sith Lord
Where is BORAT??
Find BORAT
Our benevolent dictator?
Sesquipedalian!
There's a battle going on inside of me, inside of all of us. The spirit and the flesh. The attributes of the spirit are good. The lust of The flesh, the pride of life, the lust of the eyes is dark.
Unfortunately, my friends don't see nor understand what Jordan is saying here. Which means one thing for their lives, and another thing in our friendship. IMHO, they are drawn to me for saying the things out loud that need to be said ( i.e. social issues, their marriages, religion ) that they don't say for themselves. They are moreso weak. In all fairness, I am not arrived and have been working on incorporating my Shadow Self for decades, really. It's also partly why I watch anti-heroes and villains in movies, to Jordan's point.
Do you believe in God?
What do you mean when you say "do"
What do you mean when you say "you"
What do you mean by "believe" when you do you believe in God
What do you mean when you say "in"
What do you mean when you say "god"
Yes Mr Peterson care to answer your own question?
I'm just struggling to understand this shadow part. I mean, wouldn't that be relative? If you put a chicken living in heaven without any knowledge about evil or hell, does he have a shadow? So the so called shadow wouldn't be something pushed to us throughout our upbringing? Through music, movies, experience, etc? Maybe the so called thoughts are from the collective entities. Why would you identify with it?
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When I saw the thumbnail I thought "Well Deadpool is a bad example, because he is irresponsible and crazy and drawing everyone around him into utter chaos" ..... wait....
If God is good then he is not all powerful, and if he is all powerful he cannot be all good - Lex Luthor
Follow your own advice Mr P
I was really searching a lot to find a coment like this so can you be articulate so we can have an discussion
How are you doing with that "Dark Side" of yours, Jordan?!
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As for being cruel and then Not being Cruel.
Ask Jesus Christ into your life and you are
Inviting the Holy Spirit of God/Jesus to do what man alone can Not continue too do.!
With out the Spirit of God man will eventually fail at this Task, God fights my battles every Day. Amen. Hallelu Yahh.!
I disagree. The key is not to recognize you are capable of evil and then choose good. The key is to recognize that you are capable of evil, yes, but then you should go on to recognize that the majority of evil done is justified in the minds of those that do it. So the goal becomes not falling into the cognitive patterns that would justify evil.
Peterson’s way of looking at it would leave a person still at odds with a part of themselves and therefore not integrated.
Day 77 of VERY highly recommending that you read Berserk.
If you were a person without flaw like how Superman evolved, you would be less interesting.
Thank goodness he's Canadian so the incels can't elect him president.
poor mr. p. so afraid.
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I Bet you are someone that is Hurt by Peterson telling the truth. But you cant Accept it and now you try to say stupid Things
@@discordius1020 dr Peterson was right about the name and personality, the complete picture👍
MrGobsmack = Wu Mao
Romans 12:2 talks about renewing the mind with Gods Word,
Equadistant letter spacing makes the bible unique with computers they found words coded in the text at regular intervals, in genesis there are the names of numerous trees found at regular intervals ie every 98 letter , some words intersect like a crossword like “clinton” and “president” , 66 books written at all different times all with these words coded into the txt , impossible to all except a supernaturel God