Tina Campbell: How I found out my husband was cheating || STEVE HARVEY

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  • Опубліковано 8 гру 2015
  • Gospel singer Tina Campbell tells Steve Harvey how she found out her husband Teddy was in an extra marital affair.
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  • @rocknrollch1ck
    @rocknrollch1ck 8 років тому +1651

    She should've left and found herself a better, stronger man that can avoid temptation and treat her like a lady.

    • @MzJazzy123100
      @MzJazzy123100 8 років тому +10

      +rocknrollch1ck True!

    • @adissonevana6366
      @adissonevana6366 8 років тому +45

      marriage is work

    • @joshuamcdowell5782
      @joshuamcdowell5782 8 років тому +91

      +rocknrollch1ck She's weak. She is confusing her weakness with faith. No woman is staying with a man who cheated on them with multiple women. He actually admitted that there was more than one woman on the reality show.

    • @angelabennett3847
      @angelabennett3847 8 років тому +40

      +Joshua McDowell How is she weak for choosing to work through her marriage? I think God is honoring her for that. If he wanted her to walk away then he would've told her. now I wouldn't stay. That's just me. It takes a strong person to want to stay and actually work it out because there is still love and dedication there. she did it for the right reasons for her.

    • @angelabennett3847
      @angelabennett3847 8 років тому +12

      +Joshua McDowell How is she weak for choosing to work through her marriage? I think God is honoring her for that. If he wanted her to walk away then he would've told her. now I wouldn't stay. That's just me. It takes a strong person to want to stay and actually work it out because there is still love and dedication there. she did it for the right reasons for her.

  • @queenme23
    @queenme23 6 років тому +1239

    Whhhhhhhhy do women Always stay??? Men leave at the thought of his woman cheating. Just aint right.

    • @blacksilkrose777
      @blacksilkrose777 6 років тому +19

      Queen ME Depending on what could have been the root cause of the cheating to begin could be a huge factor for her. She must genuinely love him from her soul and was willing to give him another chance. There are always myriad of reasons why men cheat..the most common is pure greed. She you're feeling yourself and the opportunity arises you give into the temptation at hand without a care in the world. With them you factor in the love, amount of time invested with each other, their family etc. All those may have been a catalyst in her decision to stay and work it with him. With me when it happened my ex was not apologetic nor humble about what she did and that was enough for me to walk away. I needed to safe guard me and my peace of mind. Every situation is uniquely different so people handle their relationships according to what works for them.

    • @muhammedahmed3291
      @muhammedahmed3291 5 років тому +5

      @Abdul Haleem You should leave.

    • @pleaseenteryournamehere9593
      @pleaseenteryournamehere9593 5 років тому +15

      Queen ME men cheat on desperate women. I know many women who liked me too much those types

    • @84legit
      @84legit 5 років тому +21

      Abdul Haleem bro they are never satisfied. you just gotta do you . Trying to figure them out is infinite. Its not all ...but the nature is not far from the rest . Lesson is never rule out any short comings . Remember .. never give someone tooo much credit and trust . Be prepared for the worst .

    • @Phat_336
      @Phat_336 5 років тому +9

      So true. I couldnt be that weak.

  • @blacklotus8320
    @blacklotus8320 8 років тому +909

    I wouldn't trust him to cut my grass.

  • @lenalove8138
    @lenalove8138 6 років тому +531

    I pray that every woman has a man that absolutely adores them and never cheats on them.... now with that being said I 've been with my husband 25 years and I have never had any anything... but I also told him if I ever find out you are cheating I don't care if we have been married for 107 years I'm out of here, cuz if I can control myself with all these gorgeous dudes walking the face of the earth so can you

    • @missy5585
      @missy5585 4 роки тому +29

      LenaLove
      Please say it again....😳

    • @angelakuehe6740
      @angelakuehe6740 3 роки тому +13

      Exactly 💪

    • @janekindle7424
      @janekindle7424 3 роки тому +12

      I like your way of thinking 😀

    • @amunford1
      @amunford1 3 роки тому +8

      Amen.

    • @pansysgarden
      @pansysgarden 3 роки тому +7

      Preach it. Congrats on many years of marriage. Nice to see women like yourself putting your foot down and knowing your worth. I don't blame you. I would be the same way. Too bad Tina didn't know her worth when she took Teddy back after what she learned about his wild life.

  • @Joyjoy12149
    @Joyjoy12149 7 років тому +617

    Look at Teddy just sat there with that guilty face

    • @uniquelove4522
      @uniquelove4522 6 років тому

      Munesu Munesu. Anna

    • @romancetrtmusic
      @romancetrtmusic 6 років тому +8

      nOTHING HE COULD DO... BUT ACCEPT CHANGE MAKE UP AND MOVE ON!

    • @gumptownguh
      @gumptownguh 6 років тому +6

      That eat ass face😂

    • @freereign911
      @freereign911 4 роки тому

      😂

    • @wandawilliams5255
      @wandawilliams5255 4 роки тому +21

      The question is.... is he looking guilty cause he cheated or because he got CAUGHT 🤔🤔🤔🤔

  • @ZhoniaP
    @ZhoniaP 8 років тому +40

    The fact that he stayed lying when she came to him in such a willing way is what's so frightening. He denied all the way down till home girl baited him out

    • @cali.songbird
      @cali.songbird 4 роки тому +3

      Learning about Narcissistic Personality Disorder has helped me to not be shocked by his behavior. They think and see the world differently than a person who has empathy for others.🌹
      ( *"Assoc. Direct"* is a great channel to learn about Narcissism.)

  • @sweetgirl4u247
    @sweetgirl4u247 Рік тому +74

    I was cheated on in my marriage. I remember that day. All I asked was why. I didn't get an answer. When I applied for the divorce. I said I just want to know one thing. Why? Still no answer. 6 years later, I realized the why never mattered. Ladies and Gents life is too short. Love yourself and let go.

    • @patriciajones4622
      @patriciajones4622 10 місяців тому +6

      Truth. My husband cheated as well and I recently got divorced. I'm pretty sure if the roles were reversed, he would have left Tina.

    • @matinaki1644
      @matinaki1644 9 місяців тому +3

      Those people only love themselves. They just like the company of others.

  • @YourGoodKarma
    @YourGoodKarma 5 років тому +426

    Prime example of a woman loving a man more than she loves herself

    • @destinystarkhan8888
      @destinystarkhan8888 3 роки тому +19

      But singing about Jesus. But she stayed. No way.

    • @pansysgarden
      @pansysgarden 3 роки тому +15

      I'm with you on that. She can't possibly love herself if she's going to accept the man who did that to her. Then she preaches to the world through her music. Talk about a hypocrisy.

    • @indiyahblaque878
      @indiyahblaque878 2 роки тому +43

      The Bible says two becomes one flesh, so she loves her Husband as herself. And she chose to forgive her Husband, which is what God wants. It’s the epitome of the Gospel of Jesus. As Christians, we “cheat” on God with our sins/idols/etc. He forgives us and we’re in right standing with him. Our marriages should mirror that.
      It wouldn’t be a sin for her to divorce her Husband, because the bible talks about reasons to divorce (which infidelity is one) ,but her staying shows how committed she is to her family and Christ.
      If you’re a Christian, please don’t bad mouth another woman for choosing her family.

    • @itsjemmabond
      @itsjemmabond 2 роки тому +1

      That's deep.

    • @lotusflower3154
      @lotusflower3154 2 роки тому +3

      Yep because he’s not gonna stop

  • @kenyahampton7918
    @kenyahampton7918 8 років тому +374

    I couldn't stay. I am sorry!!!

    • @uniquelove4522
      @uniquelove4522 6 років тому

      Kenya Hampton. Silt

    • @lalaakins6306
      @lalaakins6306 6 років тому +9

      Why are you sorry?

    • @helenayoung4064
      @helenayoung4064 4 роки тому +4

      Exactly

    • @sexyslimmw
      @sexyslimmw 4 роки тому +2

      Kenya Hampton and in the near future, she’s gonna wish she hadn’t.

    • @LeratoM98
      @LeratoM98 4 роки тому +4

      Don't be sorry. You still have your pride and dignity.

  • @rishka9083
    @rishka9083 7 років тому +671

    that's exactly why u don't allow other woman to have any part in ur household..

    • @leanophologolo9066
      @leanophologolo9066 5 років тому +16

      @NM1Raider i agree that some men are really just cheaters but some are not. The thing is Rishka K is right because when you bring another woman into the household it creates temptation and some men are able to resist it completly but some try and end up failing. Example its kinda like starting a diet, and someone puts a piece of cake in front of you....you might end up eating it unlike if there was no cake at all.... A man should not cheat but the temptation t cheat should also be minimized..... Dont allow another woman to run yur househld and all those things

    • @leanophologolo9066
      @leanophologolo9066 5 років тому +16

      the real thing is find a man who will resist the temptation to cheat because the temptation will always be there but some men are able to resist it more than others and inturn dont create an enviroment that creates such temptations

    • @leanophologolo9066
      @leanophologolo9066 5 років тому +2

      @NM1Raider i understand you eyyy....... honestly cheating is never right at all and some people like cheat because maybe the wife is away all the time or lack of sex or communication and some people always resolve to cheating.. i feel like these situations should be discussed among a couple and adressed and get to a resolution and if not then leav, not cheat....do you agree?

    • @leanophologolo9066
      @leanophologolo9066 5 років тому +1

      i am with u on that

    • @leanophologolo9066
      @leanophologolo9066 5 років тому +1

      @NM1Raider you must be a really loyal and faithful person...stay that way ey

  • @QueenChastity
    @QueenChastity 8 років тому +537

    Ain't no way in the world I would still be with a sorry ass man who cheated on Me...FOH!!! She deserves better.

    • @joshuamcdowell5782
      @joshuamcdowell5782 8 років тому +83

      +Chastity B. If it was the other way around, he would've left her

    • @belissimahoney69
      @belissimahoney69 7 років тому +33

      AND multiple times......ccccchhhhhiiiilllllddddd

    • @tatianajavae2922
      @tatianajavae2922 6 років тому +5

      Everyone is different. Some women can look past it and forgive out of being in love, others can't. Marriage isn't the same as dating. It's a serious commitment and those vows mean something. A lot of women say they wouldn't stay until it's THEM and they are deeply in love with someone.

    • @blackberries1269
      @blackberries1269 6 років тому +32

      Nah, I know myself. I'm OUT, once that happens. You betrayed me, lied to me, opened me up to diseases, and played me for a fool. Deeply in love my ass. I can still love you from a distance but I ain't staying with you!

    • @CurtisReese-tl7ip
      @CurtisReese-tl7ip 6 років тому +7

      Your man is probably cheating and you don't know it, so don't say what you won't do.

  • @xhottestpink
    @xhottestpink 5 років тому +90

    Dont destroy material things, use that energy to pack your bags!!! Period

    • @ramonaharris920
      @ramonaharris920 2 роки тому +8

      To pack HIS bags!!!!!!

    • @xhottestpink
      @xhottestpink 2 роки тому +4

      @@ramonaharris920 i stand corrected ! HIS BAGS is right !!

  • @ameliahorn1
    @ameliahorn1 7 років тому +109

    He will continue to cheat, She should have left. It was heartbreaking to watch when it aired. Love you Tina, stay strong

  • @PurveyorOfCuriosities
    @PurveyorOfCuriosities 8 років тому +316

    Why would anyone stay after the trust is broken? I don't get that.

    • @prettyrikkirozay
      @prettyrikkirozay 8 років тому +7

      +Keith A Sanford we are lead 2 believe that when we leave and find a new love, they will just do the same...

    • @PurveyorOfCuriosities
      @PurveyorOfCuriosities 8 років тому +23

      Rikki Lewis But if you find love elsewhere, why stay? I believe in the power of forgiveness, but no one forgets.

    • @iamsds84
      @iamsds84 8 років тому +34

      You never know what you will do until you're faced with it. I've been there, so it's very important you consult God for guidance and let Him be your safety and peace while you go through the process. I know for a fact He can mend broken marriages, rebuild the foundation of trust, and pour a love that has never been experienced if you let Him. He works best when it's an absolute mess so that everyone will see Him in all His glory.

    • @uniquelove4522
      @uniquelove4522 6 років тому

      Keith A Sanford. Silt

    • @neverknew3343
      @neverknew3343 6 років тому +2

      Keith A Sanford at first i wanted to work it out then i realized my ex didnt make many changes. He is an amazing father though.

  • @NkrumahTure
    @NkrumahTure 7 років тому +334

    Teddy don't deserve Tina.

    • @javiercruzjuegosgamplaysyt8459
      @javiercruzjuegosgamplaysyt8459 7 років тому

      if yoou really want her back (and I know you do) you needto stop everything and gо watch this video right now =>>> twitter.com/5b6fa1152bbf721c2/status/790853501416935424 Tina Campbell Hoow I found out my husband waas сheating STEVE HARVEY

    • @mathismathis2351
      @mathismathis2351 7 років тому +21

      NkrumahTure We don't deserve forgiveness but God still forgives us!!

    • @lalaakins6306
      @lalaakins6306 6 років тому +10

      Dollie Mathis nobody said she couldn't forgive him! The problem is she chose to stay

    • @jaleesadean2724
      @jaleesadean2724 4 роки тому

      He ain't even all that good looking

  • @Faithful1ne07
    @Faithful1ne07 8 років тому +105

    Teddy aint NEVA gonna live this down. They on tour talkin about how he cheating. LMBO!

    • @Faithful1ne07
      @Faithful1ne07 8 років тому +14

      +vstevens11 I hope not. I know it's a testimony, but dang how long u gonna keep reliving it? You can't heal properly if you keep ripping off the scab off.

    • @jekyra7nuenglishk695
      @jekyra7nuenglishk695 3 роки тому

      😂😂😂omg i was just watching them episode and she sho nuf talked about it, in fact that was her opening act before each song🤦🏾😂

    • @veeedgee
      @veeedgee 2 роки тому

      😭😭😭😂😂😂😂

    • @erikahaynes3987
      @erikahaynes3987 2 роки тому

      Right!

    • @kabelo_m
      @kabelo_m 2 роки тому

      lmao! 😂😂 Till this day she still talmbout "my husband cheated on me"

  • @MissyP224
    @MissyP224 6 років тому +7

    His face says it all, he does not care one bit. Please leave your husband.

  • @willh8682
    @willh8682 8 років тому +708

    It's refreshing to see a Christian practice what they preach. She forgave her cheating husband................... BUT STAYING WITH HIM....................????? The bible aint say all that................................................

    • @Ln_a
      @Ln_a 8 років тому +84

      If she wanted to get a divorce because he cheated she could do it. That's where divorce is allowed in the bible. The bible also talks about forgiveness which she chose. Basically she is here to strengthen people who believe in sticking it out till the end. Not everyone has to agree with her

    • @amandaclbn8324
      @amandaclbn8324 8 років тому +10

      +Ln Dark the bible says you can get a divorce if you're cheated on?

    • @Ln_a
      @Ln_a 8 років тому +15

      +Mandy X'O-twod gurrl yasss. U ain't never 'heard' St. Paul speaketh????

    • @amandaclbn8324
      @amandaclbn8324 8 років тому +15

      Ln Dark lmao No! I ain't knoweth that

    • @Ln_a
      @Ln_a 8 років тому

      +mimi love lol mimi 'love' correct with love hun. Don't turn this to war. Everyone still has an opinion. Wrong or right.

  • @kadeee55
    @kadeee55 8 років тому +366

    N HE SITTING RIGHT THERE!

    • @classytwnty1
      @classytwnty1 8 років тому +4

      hell no

    • @MsTruSoul1
      @MsTruSoul1 8 років тому +19

      +kadeee55 I was finna sayyyy. I was like "hold tf up aint that him right there" nahhhhh

    • @shellyb6926
      @shellyb6926 8 років тому +44

      +DCKidd lmbo. yup that's him. that must be a really awkward feeling for him every time she tells that story lol.

    • @nealmariec
      @nealmariec 8 років тому +40

      +Shelly Bellz LOL!! Very awkward and he just sitting up there with that dumb look on his face, like yep I did that

    • @MuSiCLoVeR401000
      @MuSiCLoVeR401000 8 років тому +1

      +N Marie , LMFO !!! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @ckmissghana
    @ckmissghana 7 років тому +136

    The question is, would he have forgiven her if she was sleeping with a male family friend? Would he have forgiven her if he found out that she was cheating on him with multiple men over a long period of time??

    • @sonyab2u974
      @sonyab2u974 4 роки тому +15

      Nope!

    • @carmel422
      @carmel422 2 роки тому +10

      Because men have for self respect and they find it disgusting to be intimate with something tainted. If the shoe were on the other foot he would have dropped her like a bad habit. How much do you love yourself?

    • @divine1642
      @divine1642 2 роки тому

      Not!

    • @cynthiastevens8302
      @cynthiastevens8302 Рік тому

      Probably so because she has the bag right?

    • @nataniasarahsisya3484
      @nataniasarahsisya3484 Рік тому

      Noooope!!!!!! Men are selfish like that

  • @giantkiller56
    @giantkiller56 5 років тому +40

    I guess drums aren't the only thing Teddy's been banging. Oooookay, I'll see myself out.

    • @kabelo_m
      @kabelo_m 2 роки тому

      Shut up 😂 😂

  • @CadaverQT
    @CadaverQT 4 роки тому +25

    she confronts him with it and he still tries to hide it. That's EXTRA wrong.

  • @Journeyofthehouse
    @Journeyofthehouse 8 років тому +47

    he had SEVERAL AFFAIRS!!!!!!!!!!, and continued to lie to her,,, smh

  • @EGR610
    @EGR610 7 років тому +28

    To be a public figure of positivity and come on national tv and bare your soul this way, is unbelievably bold and amazing. I have so much respect for Mrs. Tina. Steve you truly are the best!

  • @shaedavis53
    @shaedavis53 7 років тому +64

    I cant fault Tina for wanting to work on her marriage that is her choice. If it was me, Teddy would have been gone. I guess thats the worst part about love. It makes you tolerate things you never would!

    • @zoelife7272
      @zoelife7272 3 роки тому +6

      i would love my partner until i don't love them anymore - FROM AFAR
      Forgiveness is not only about what is comfortable or tolerable for the one hurt, but what is subsequent to forgiveness, and what is right.
      i'll continue to love you, but i'm gone.

    • @juliebee2494
      @juliebee2494 Рік тому +4

      WTH is wrong with desperate ass women? When a man cheats on you with multiple women and lies to your face when you beg him for the truth, there IS NO marriage. SMH

  • @BelindaJoy
    @BelindaJoy 6 років тому +28

    Cheating is the worst. I just don't understand people that are capable of doing that, betraying someone you love. How can a man look me in my eyes and tell me he loves me and then turn around and lie to me? Boggles the mind.

    • @DiandraStarShine
      @DiandraStarShine Рік тому +3

      because he doesn't love or respect her or their marriage or children. worst example ever & pray by now she learned to love herself & the kids more than she loved the man he never was, he's a sociopath.

  • @lee48lee68
    @lee48lee68 8 років тому +279

    He cheated with her friend, had multiple affairs and she stayed married to him? What a pathetic view of love and marriage she has.

    • @sonyab2u974
      @sonyab2u974 4 роки тому +32

      Right, I feel like they promoting disfunctional struggle black love to single black women so we end up unhappily married just to say you're married....smh

    • @llw53one
      @llw53one 4 роки тому +19

      Lee48Lee That was mean marriage is supposed to be forever. If SHE feels that SHE is making the right choice then we should support her as long as her voices are not harmful to herself and or anyone else. It does not make her pathetic it makes her courageous. We may not agree with her choice but it is her choice.

    • @lalasclawset
      @lalasclawset 4 роки тому +9

      llw53one agreed. ‼️‼️‼️

    • @free2bme144
      @free2bme144 4 роки тому +22

      This is not a testimony of strength or of undying love, it is devastating for anyone to be in this situation. A man who loves you, who really respects you and your relationship doesn't cheat. He wouldn't risk loosing it all. That's not the cost of being with someone...

    • @JRenee-Sings
      @JRenee-Sings 4 роки тому +10

      @@llw53one
      You said it right marriage is supposed to be forever but it takes two people to work on that. However, she has every right to leave even the Bible makes room for divorce when adultery.

  • @LadyTrucker43
    @LadyTrucker43 8 років тому +35

    I could not have stayed

    • @teresahill8194
      @teresahill8194 5 років тому +1

      Miyoshi A, me either infidelity is a drop dead deal breaker for me.

    • @roseiswine8294
      @roseiswine8294 2 місяці тому

      I could not have stayed....and did not stay

  • @120letsgo3
    @120letsgo3 2 роки тому +22

    Go on and "live right" without him.
    It's crazy to me how a woman will forgive a man who cheated on you with multiple women. He don't love nobody but himself.

  • @2Ariam
    @2Ariam 8 років тому +216

    Ya, He'd be gone coz you better believe if it was the other way, hedda moved on!!

    • @cathywilliams9184
      @cathywilliams9184 8 років тому +5

      Congratulation Tina on your big wins Elev. 8 Hello Beautiful.best song Destiny, best female performance, best album It's personal.and congratulation to you and Erica for best faith program Mary Mary.

    • @DarkroomMedia007
      @DarkroomMedia007 7 років тому +12

      Yep he'd be packing his bags if he would have found her with her pants down! Men are notoriously giving a woman her pink slip 4 physical cheating and even give her the boot if she even did some emotional cheating! that is really a twisted mentality... however, there are some is it bad that will keep her but punish her and never let her forget and that's kind of even worse then getting the boot. 🤔

    • @kjsgirl8792
      @kjsgirl8792 7 років тому +10

      Maria Mutitu men just can't tolerate the thought of another man bringing his wife any kind of happiness, pleasure, or smile. But some think it's ok if they blurred the lines.

    • @uniquelove4522
      @uniquelove4522 6 років тому

      Maria Mutitu. So

  • @Ravenovah
    @Ravenovah 8 років тому +363

    I'm sure there is more women then her, he is waiting to see if she figure them out, this is why, he is still quiet..stay tune!!

    • @eliciaday3551
      @eliciaday3551 8 років тому +56

      there is more than her,on the show she found out later about MULTIPLE affairs.This is just the first incident how she found out

    • @eliciaday3551
      @eliciaday3551 8 років тому +10

      let me clarify on their reality show she found out about more not this show lok

    • @julianrichy5830
      @julianrichy5830 7 років тому +3

      to those of you who don't know her this woman is a big time gospel singer

    • @Prettiestma4
      @Prettiestma4 7 років тому

      Raven Ovah lol

    • @uniquelove4522
      @uniquelove4522 6 років тому

      Raven Ovah. Ok

  • @1ZAMOT
    @1ZAMOT 4 роки тому +11

    I will never understand staying. I just can't!

  • @Tscranton1
    @Tscranton1 8 років тому +43

    Tina, needs to move on!!!Bringing that man on National TV. is not going to make any difference..

  • @lovely31bluprint
    @lovely31bluprint 7 років тому +85

    A man is only faithful to his option
    ~Chris Rock

    • @Lovesabigaili
      @Lovesabigaili 7 років тому +4

      Karen Alexander/Ownet I don't get it 😫

    • @jojohns9670
      @jojohns9670 7 років тому +5

      Newsflash.... Unless he has a tiny dicky, weak erection, or is impotent, he's gonna cheat if he's a man!

    • @Amariellah
      @Amariellah 7 років тому +6

      +Joshua Johns I agree I wish all of us women could get that! A man being faithful is a MYTH

    • @lovely31bluprint
      @lovely31bluprint 7 років тому +2

      I thank everyone for their replies

    • @Deikoka
      @Deikoka 7 років тому +3

      +Amariellah really? thats heartbreaking to know. smh. dam wtf do we do then? 💁

  • @TSM32701
    @TSM32701 8 років тому +18

    I'm not sure how forgiveness means talking about it over and over in front of multiple outlets. How can you move on?

  • @blessingmeeveryday3962
    @blessingmeeveryday3962 7 років тому +12

    Tina was to quick to forgive and take him back. Why do she not believe he will chill for a minute, then cheat again ? When someone knows you have a weakness, most will play on that weakness to death. Her husband had to many affairs to even think about forgiveness.

  • @AfricanGirl
    @AfricanGirl 8 років тому +20

    See u can't trust those closest too you!!!! I trust no 1

  • @kjdnyhmghfvb
    @kjdnyhmghfvb 8 років тому +25

    That lady clapping is letting it be known, she will be on the ID channel, don't try her.

    • @rijoyce8996
      @rijoyce8996 3 роки тому

      RIGHT!! I caught it too 🤣😂 She’s got that “Bernadette Vibe” 🤧 #WaitingToExhale #MovieReference

  • @michaellawson6222
    @michaellawson6222 7 років тому +7

    never cheat on your wife. never

  • @1jennifer89
    @1jennifer89 8 років тому +59

    It takes a strong woman to go through what she's been through, in the public eye, and still move forward in her marriage. She needs our prayers you guys, not criticism.

    • @lalaakins6306
      @lalaakins6306 6 років тому +11

      There's no strength in her choosing to stay!! Rather, she's setting a terrible example for her kids! This is not inspiring in anyway

    • @sharonwilson6777
      @sharonwilson6777 3 роки тому +1

      I SAY N THE NAME OF JESUS! GOD BLESS! ALL IS WELL! FATHER GOD WILL SEE & B BY HER THROUGH IT ALL! DAD WILL TAKE CARE OF HER! LEAD, GUIDE, SHOW HER THE WAY N ALL RIGHTEOUSNESS FATHER GOD I PRAY 🙏! HOLY SPIRIT BREAK OUT! COVERED BY THE BLOOD OF JESUS! AMEN & AMEN! 🔥🔥🔥🗝

    • @marykariuki7381
      @marykariuki7381 2 роки тому +4

      It takes a stronger woman to leave. Women stay because they don’t want to alone or want a marriage to work. Starting out on your own is much harder

    • @matinaki1644
      @matinaki1644 9 місяців тому +1

      Nobody is criticizing her. It is just that she has a hard journey to overcome huge trust issues (if she ever accomplishes that) only because he loves only his self. None else. Period. Those people only love themselves and use others for company and fear of being alone. I am sad for the lady not against her. Women overcoming that kind of thing easily are the ones who are not emotionally invested in their relationship, they are just there for the split bills, social status, having a family and fear of being alone (some of those or all of those reasons).

  • @jacquelineperry9594
    @jacquelineperry9594 7 років тому +7

    she has accepted his cheating.he wont stop.when oppurtunity presents itself again he will cheat again.he likes the excitement of cheating.

  • @kimberlybarksdale1579
    @kimberlybarksdale1579 3 роки тому +14

    I remember when all this news broke out. Tina you were strong. I had a similar situation with my ex husband & I had to move on. The betrayal was to real & hurtful to stay

  • @amberts180
    @amberts180 6 років тому +20

    Your story helped someone mend a family, helped a woman feel less insecure, and taught me the importance of sticking to my principles. Bless you!

    • @dontdomeboo81
      @dontdomeboo81 Рік тому +2

      you gonna stick beside him regardless ? 😳

  • @WhittyHutton
    @WhittyHutton 8 років тому +33

    Tina girl you are strong! I couldn't do it he would have been gone I'm sorry I just couldn't be with him anymore but I hope things are better

  • @Outofbounds7
    @Outofbounds7 7 років тому +9

    Should've left immediately after it happened the first time.He's a grown man & there are choices& consequences....he can go ruin somebody elses life..

  • @ginab.4605
    @ginab.4605 8 років тому +26

    Angry of this magnitude happens when you put your "all"l in a person...She was head over heels in love with Teddy as she should be. It showed all over her face on their reality show. This was HIS problem. It had nothing to do with what Tina did or didn't do. He clearly cheated because he chose too. I swear lust demons are the worst....

    • @SuckerPunch92
      @SuckerPunch92 2 роки тому

      And it broke the marriage. It’s really sad.

  • @johnnycuff4647
    @johnnycuff4647 7 років тому +139

    she should have left. this sends a bad message to women

    • @amcmilette88
      @amcmilette88 7 років тому +9

      Johnny Cuff ppl have different tolerance levels man. I know that's my deal breaker. It's only a bad message when women don't have their own minds but she has her reasons I ain't gonna judge.

    • @uniquelove4522
      @uniquelove4522 6 років тому

      Johnny Cuff. Ok

    • @nqobilentuli4244
      @nqobilentuli4244 6 років тому +2

      It's her marriage and no one else"s.

    • @denisseparker1358
      @denisseparker1358 6 років тому +4

      +Nqobile Ntuli &it will be her Christian ass locked up when she kills him.He will doing it again.Making a fool out of her self on t.v. talking about shooting up cars&stabbing.The man don't want you &he has that right.Set him free,free yourself&work on yourself.He's not the only man left.She knew something was off&ignored it classic.Co-parent&move on.

    • @TheWizzie2012
      @TheWizzie2012 5 років тому +1

      Which women? As a man, i will be worried about my daughter staying with a cheating husband. As a father, I will be proud of my daughter showing maturity to handle challenges in her marriage responsibly. We celebrate special forces in the military because they refused to quit. Why can't we celebrate couples who refuse to quit on each other when all hell breaks loose? Something is wrong with this hedonistic society. When will people grow up and face challenges in relationships like adults? That's why marriage is not for kids.

  • @lilpinkbubbles6592
    @lilpinkbubbles6592 7 років тому +7

    Zero respect for Teddy and all cheating men. She should give him a taste of his own medicine. He knows he can cheat on her and he will continue to do it.

    • @84legit
      @84legit 5 років тому

      Lil Pink Bubbles who says she haven’t ate her sister . Trust no one lol 😆

  • @sunnydays4812
    @sunnydays4812 8 років тому +46

    I would not have taken him back! I don't care how many years I've been married or how many kids I have with a man, my kids life and health comes 1st! And I know Tina is a gospel artist and a Christian and no one is perfect I understand that! but I wonder why she went so crazy and broke things and threatened people? Over her husband a man????? I would of been running to my Dr to be checked out for all diseases 1st and then I would of filed my divorce papers ASAP!!!! Steve Harvey looking at them like Tina you a mess you should of ran!!!! It's written all over Steves face lol😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @cathywilliams9184
      @cathywilliams9184 8 років тому +5

      +Michelle Stars Come on now Steve will tell you he use to be a dog.god can change anyone.

    • @sunnydays4812
      @sunnydays4812 8 років тому +2

      +Cathy Williams true!!!!!

    • @antoinettemorgan8998
      @antoinettemorgan8998 7 років тому +9

      Cathy Williams Steve use to be a dog until he found a woman who won't tolerate that bs. ppl only do what you allow them to do. Tina is basically telling her husband not to get caught anymore and make a fool out of her..

    • @Lovesense25
      @Lovesense25 6 років тому

      Antoinette Morgan on the contrary, he did cheat on his current wife, & she chose to stay. But I get your point though

    • @taymanp4107
      @taymanp4107 6 років тому

      Michelle Stars I bet you single with kids with that attitude. First all understand what marriage means. Those words, Through thick and thin to death do us apart, Those words people say I do to, Well THAT'S why she stayed.

  • @Tscranton1
    @Tscranton1 6 років тому +34

    Working on being RIGHT😩 He needs to be kicked out. PLEASE ladies DON'T allow any man to continue to have affairs and you stay with him, there is not a scripture in the Bible that a spouse have to excepted that Mess. She's what you call DESPERATE

    • @jeanetteNYC2020
      @jeanetteNYC2020 4 роки тому +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤🌝🌝🌝

    • @tinatiller3371
      @tinatiller3371 4 роки тому +4

      Agreed. She is also insecure about herself because she may feel she is not worth more than putting up with a lair and a cheat. Bad message she is sending to her daughter and other women that look up to her. No woman should put up with a man like that. Forgive and move on because her husband broke the marriage vows not her

    • @jeanetteNYC2020
      @jeanetteNYC2020 4 роки тому +2

      @@tinatiller3371 I don't understand why these women feel the need to talk about it in public settings, if she is going to take him back then don't talk about it, it's not a healing process...

    • @Shanna13
      @Shanna13 3 роки тому +1

      👏🏾👏🏾

  • @janyagibson3690
    @janyagibson3690 3 роки тому +4

    People forget that love don’t hurt AT ALL.

  • @JErica86
    @JErica86 8 років тому +28

    I'm sorry I've been with my husband for almost ten years and I probably would've did the same amount of damage! Then you cheated on me with someone that was close to OUR KIDS! #YouDoneLostYoMind

  • @evelynwashere13
    @evelynwashere13 8 років тому +23

    You know at first I thought she should have left him, shouldn't talk about it but then I had to remember we are to forgive and have faith in God not people's predictions, there are people, male and female, that are going through this that are trying to stay strong in their beliefs and not only have to deal with the pain of betrayal but shame from the public, so if her testimony can help others get through then that's what she should do, I pray that this is her reason for her testimony and we should leave it at that

  • @chikFromMTL
    @chikFromMTL 8 років тому +190

    always the woman speaking, how about the man speak for himself?

    • @twill5077
      @twill5077 8 років тому +12

      because that would only make matters worse.

    • @beauphomasterpiece3795
      @beauphomasterpiece3795 8 років тому +10

      I agree he needs to say something but maybe he did and that's the only portion we see

    • @cathywilliams9184
      @cathywilliams9184 8 років тому +5

      +Raquela Davis Yes he did.I watched the entire show. he took full responsibility for his actions

    • @chikFromMTL
      @chikFromMTL 8 років тому +1

      mimi love dumb ass

    • @uniquelove4522
      @uniquelove4522 6 років тому

      Rise & Thrive. Silt

  • @gloriastewart9434
    @gloriastewart9434 8 років тому +22

    I don't think there's any thing wrong with forgiving people, however when you lie about it it makes it harder to forgive that person. I wouldn't be able to forgive him once he lied

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 3 роки тому +1

      Yes!

    • @A_Notes
      @A_Notes 2 роки тому +3

      I'm on the same energy. It was one thing to do it but the fact that she brought it up repeatedly which should have told you that she knew about it she was just giving you a chance to confess. And she told you I'm willing to stay and work through it. But you kept lying

  • @ladybugeartha4429
    @ladybugeartha4429 5 років тому +10

    You live right... but also live well... and that may sometimes mean living without the unfaithful

  • @UnpopularOpinionByNkiruka
    @UnpopularOpinionByNkiruka 8 років тому +138

    Who are we to Judge?!?!! This is TINAs life. She CHOSE to stay in her marriage and work it out. How many of us where dated men who our family and friends told us not to but we did anyway! We all have our own pair of shoes to walk in and there is only room for one. You live your life according to what you believe is best for you. Other people's opinion will cause you to stay in constant confusion bc 9 times out of ten it is coming from a broken place. Do WHAT WORKS FOR YOU!

    • @sadepayne
      @sadepayne 8 років тому +1

      AMEN! PREACH

    • @user-Abasha
      @user-Abasha 6 років тому +16

      Chenequa Cash If you don't wanna be judged then keep your business to yourself.

    • @shonmosley4215
      @shonmosley4215 6 років тому +2

      Chenequa Cash Dateing and marriage are two different things!

    • @IWantToMature85
      @IWantToMature85 6 років тому

      Lady J lol I just saw you on a divorce court comment

    • @703amthegreatest
      @703amthegreatest 6 років тому

      Nicky U said it best..

  • @privacyaccount394
    @privacyaccount394 2 роки тому +9

    He’s lucky to be alive. Him and that other woman

  • @lynnbrown2921
    @lynnbrown2921 8 років тому +11

    Body language is something else. He's still cheating --- it may not be physical (yet) but it's still mentally there and I bet she knows it too. It'll be interesting to see where they are in 5 years. If he's sold on their lifestyle - he'll stick around and perfect his cheating ways --- that's just me

  • @earlcage3722
    @earlcage3722 8 років тому +72

    People are so quick to judge. Until you have walked a mile in their shoes don't judge. Some of the people judging them have probably never been married or are not in a relationship. She is standing on the principals of her faith in God not man. God says "Put not your trust in man." She trusting God for her marriage. And the women that sleep with her husband are already empty. They have no morals and suffer from low self-esteem. What ever you sow in this life you will reap it before you leave here. Amen

    • @deejay4183
      @deejay4183 8 років тому +4

      I think most people don't know what the word commitment means. For them, it's "as long as things go the way that I want them to go," which isn't life at all. As long as you deal with people who are fallible, then you will deal with the effects of the fallible.

    • @cathywilliams9184
      @cathywilliams9184 8 років тому +2

      +deandrea johnson Very wise statement. What I always say to people just keep on living.

    • @deejay4183
      @deejay4183 8 років тому +1

      +Cathy Williams right. I think of how many people say they are committed to be Christians and find it difficult to stay committed to God in everything you do. The one who sent his son and forgave our sins, the one as we say put food on the table, healed our bodies, but can't stop sinning, smoking, druggin, won't fast cuz it's too hard and then say well God know my heart, but then expect another human being to be more committed to you than they are God.

    • @susiebear3316
      @susiebear3316 8 років тому +10

      yes we all judge sweetheart including you just like you are judging the women that have slept with her husband and not her husband for going outside of their marriage do you get it I am married and neither I nor my husband would put up with this type of BS this is drama so don't try to school anyone here passing judgement and if you remember she is a so-called gospel singer with a reality show and looking for approval of the world so let's not get started

    • @susiebear3316
      @susiebear3316 8 років тому +6

      +deandrea johnson that was not a wise statement the values & vows of marriage say for sickness and in health for richer or for poorer it has nothing to do with adultery my vows did not include that I have to stay in an event of adultery nor did it say anything for my husband as well that's something that you have control over the other things not so much it's telling you to be long suffering and not be shallow minded but as far as adultery is concerned that is a selfish self-serving act that majority of men do not forgive when wives commit
      so no woman should be obligated to forgive a man that does that and when men know that their wives will leave them they're less likely to do it (you should forgive but not stick around for it to happen again)
      it's a commitment that takes work and of course weak people don't want to work at that commitment so they try to blame the other person or not sticking around to be taken for granted

  • @Umbilal271
    @Umbilal271 6 років тому +4

    He don’t deserve her.

  • @LuxbyNish
    @LuxbyNish 8 років тому +8

    This was so awkward wth him right their. Tina speaks on it in a laughing matter but clearly she knows things will never be the same

  • @somer.6681
    @somer.6681 8 років тому +17

    I just remember that episode or the clip I saw from the show and she was going crazy and I felt so bad for her...but to see she went back to him is disappointing because it seemed as if she was completely broken and to cheat on her with a friend just makes it worse.

  • @yumiko0017
    @yumiko0017 2 роки тому +7

    I said that I wouldn’t stay with a cheater. While in my mid 20s, I did. There came a point where I left. I couldn’t deal with it. Not only that he was abusive. No way in the world I’m going through that again. I’m worth much more.

  • @oceanbella
    @oceanbella 7 років тому +8

    I'm confused to why she's still with him?? I'm pretty sure he's going to cheat again he was a little bit too quiet.

  • @katanyalasane2081
    @katanyalasane2081 5 років тому +3

    I got married March this year and my husband left April this year,I haven't heard anything from him nor have I seen him,mind you we stay in the same city probably minutes away...he went back to his baby mama,he never stopped talking to her and I didn't find this out until after he left..but I'm saying that to say this,there is no reconciliation,I have filed for divorce and there is nothing he could do or say to make me change my mind...

    • @indianajosephine4881
      @indianajosephine4881 5 років тому +2

      Sis, I hope your okay? I really hope you are pulling through. You deserve so much better and you are worth so much more. This is not the end of your story sis. GOD can take your mess and turn it into a message of victory and beauty if you let HIM.

  • @teniurabailey1321
    @teniurabailey1321 8 років тому +4

    thank you Tina for sharing your story

    • @pansysgarden
      @pansysgarden 3 роки тому

      Took a lot of courage for her to do that.

  • @holistic7980
    @holistic7980 8 років тому +25

    Girls if he did it once he'll definitely do it again.

    • @joshuamcdowell5782
      @joshuamcdowell5782 8 років тому +3

      +holistic79 He did it more than once

    • @shelocsher2396
      @shelocsher2396 4 роки тому +1

      And he did it 1,037 times so we know there’s no end for this one

  • @blacknesslove09
    @blacknesslove09 7 років тому +21

    Its all up close and personal for tina as she wanted to leave but foubd a better way PUBLIC REVENGE! Ill take you back teddy but we gone capitalize off of this!!!!

  • @meekyw.4010
    @meekyw.4010 5 років тому +14

    Damn her husband just didn't care at all. "She said 2 of them" how many were there?

  • @itcouldntgetanybetter8066
    @itcouldntgetanybetter8066 7 років тому +15

    Look at her husband , sitting there like a proud cheater. Poor woman , she has absolutely no backbone.

  • @ritneyjr
    @ritneyjr 8 років тому +3

    keep your friends close and keep enemies closer!

  • @briethecandlereviewer4291
    @briethecandlereviewer4291 6 років тому +6

    The person he did it with though omg

  • @butterflyygyrlsworld5106
    @butterflyygyrlsworld5106 8 років тому +32

    Girl BYE

  • @ZiggysCorner
    @ZiggysCorner 8 років тому +66

    The love she showed through this situation was admirable. Sleeping with somebody that she knows must have been heartbreaking. And for her to actually forgive him im still surprised. Whoever that girl that used to work for her is i hope she beat her ass too! Some females so disrespectful. How can you bite the hand that's literally feeding you.

    • @joshuamcdowell5782
      @joshuamcdowell5782 8 років тому +6

      +Zee Cee He slept with more than one woman actually not just the one person she was talking about in this interview when she first found out.

    • @ZiggysCorner
      @ZiggysCorner 8 років тому +5

      Damnnnnn, that's crazy Joshua. And she took him back again? Wow that's come real forgiveness

    • @beautifullyblessed6112
      @beautifullyblessed6112 6 років тому +6

      Zee Cee the lady was unloyal ,but her husband he took those vows not the woman

    • @uniquelove4522
      @uniquelove4522 6 років тому

      Zee Cee. Silt

    • @honeywest39j95
      @honeywest39j95 11 місяців тому +1

      @@beautifullyblessed6112not a good argument at all. The woman also knew that he was married; but still decided to be a nasty hoe and slept with someone’s husband. One is no better than the other. They were “both” wrong because she knew he was married as well. She was trash anyway because she worked for the wife and knew her personally. I can’t stand trifling broads like that.

  • @nothandonyoni559
    @nothandonyoni559 8 років тому +19

    Gal you can do better by yourself.

  • @Lyunea
    @Lyunea 3 роки тому +3

    What I learned is that you don't know what you would do until your in the moment. I'm referring to other life experiences.

  • @curtistinemiller1560
    @curtistinemiller1560 5 років тому +4

    Action speaks louder than words.cheating communicates to me you are not trying to be with me you are just lusting and being deceptive and showing you dont. Value our bond........

  • @johnswife888
    @johnswife888 3 роки тому +1

    “Die wrong or live right” powerful!

    • @lee48lee68
      @lee48lee68 3 роки тому +1

      They’re just words. This woman is pathetic.

  • @rayquanellis6902
    @rayquanellis6902 6 років тому

    Wow GOD BLESS U DO THE RIGHT WAY SO WE DONT GET LEFT BEHIND SUCH A POWERFUL STATEMENT

  • @Drfeelinu
    @Drfeelinu 8 років тому +10

    Damn he lied about it twice

  • @jazzyjatlanta5131
    @jazzyjatlanta5131 8 років тому +6

    She found out about 2, so there's more and probably are more! One too many for me.

  • @plentyoo
    @plentyoo 12 днів тому

    Absolutely a Beautiful Song. I'm in 💕 Love.

  • @TheQueenPalace
    @TheQueenPalace 8 років тому +2

    I'm glad that she was able to explain how she found out. In the past she kinda went around it. She came to Charlotte a few months ago and it was nice to experience her voice and testimony in person!!

    • @TheQueenPalace
      @TheQueenPalace 2 роки тому

      @Eugene Denson the one he slept with? Wowwww I'm going to look

  • @joycajet
    @joycajet 8 років тому +13

    Stand for your marriage. Marriages are always being attacked spiritually. Pray for your wife and husband.

  • @coacharcy5801
    @coacharcy5801 4 роки тому +4

    Nowadays it’s shown that there is no point of confronting your spouse when cheating is tolerated. It’s really sad

  • @peacegarden19
    @peacegarden19 3 роки тому +17

    Love her honesty! I love that Teddy was man enough to be there to admit his wrongs! I never had the STRENGTH it takes to stay with a man that cheated on me- I get now, it takes a certain strength to get through this and marriage is not easy! So happy you both are getting through this...you’re an inspiration, NOT a weak woman.

    • @juliebee2494
      @juliebee2494 Рік тому

      STRENGTH?? You must be outta your damn mind. That's the classic case of a WEAK ASS woman who doesn't have the STRENGTH to dump this sorry POS. Multiple affairs? He does NOT love her. Lies when she begged him for the truth? He does NOT respect her. I hope you're at least smart enough to know it's only a matter of short time before he either cheats again or she comes to her senses. SMH.

  • @theodorelaurence1790
    @theodorelaurence1790 2 роки тому +3

    This is why the existence of single women is so important. Every single woman limits men’s options and puts pressure on them to do act write. Men behave miserably when they have options. They are just not responsible with options. More single women, fewer options to choose from, better behavior.

  • @JAN-xs9qr
    @JAN-xs9qr 6 років тому +6

    I say this too all women especially black women. Until we realize our self worth this is the disrespect we will allow, except and continue to get from our men. It took time and more time of heartbreak for me understand that and understand what that meant.

  • @MeTraD_Blk_Swn
    @MeTraD_Blk_Swn 5 років тому +6

    He gone do it again. Because she stayed. That threat dont work honey you have to actually LEAVE! Snoop dog wife showed you how to do it. Havent heard anything about snoop cheating SINCE.

  • @livlovsucceed3894
    @livlovsucceed3894 4 роки тому +5

    She's doing all the talking and he's still doing all the cheating.

  • @eugeniawilliams8034
    @eugeniawilliams8034 5 років тому +3

    Yes, I love myself more.

  • @bridgetsampson4149
    @bridgetsampson4149 2 роки тому +4

    It’s amazing how we say we would never stay once infidelity has occurred be careful what you say what you would and wouldn’t do!! I’m glad you are working on your marriage and being able to forgive and move forward!!

    • @SuckerPunch92
      @SuckerPunch92 2 роки тому +1

      This is very true. I think it’s from low self esteem. Disrespect is better than being alone.

  • @laj4186
    @laj4186 6 років тому +3

    36 months of pregnancies and this is how you're honored

  • @marywilson6354
    @marywilson6354 3 роки тому

    Her testimony of forgiveness 🙏 is very inspiring and and helpful to show she had an human emotion about some thing so personal and hurtful kudos to her for sharing a very personal invent in her like much respect to her in him for sharing there trails in the public eye and God has made them stronger together now . So happy for her. And him

  • @erikhopkins9488
    @erikhopkins9488 4 роки тому +2

    Dang bro. You gotta lovely wife.

  • @jessicahewitt3318
    @jessicahewitt3318 8 років тому +29

    I don't understand man sometimes. they don't appreciate their own wife that love them so much and specailly she have kids. I will do same thing like her.

  • @blackdollar2009
    @blackdollar2009 8 років тому +8

    She a fool!!

  • @tonetone111222
    @tonetone111222 2 роки тому +1

    One day this video will be used in court!! He just got got!

  • @fel6533
    @fel6533 4 роки тому +2

    Multiple affairs??? Hmm, more than once with the same person is enough for me. I get trying to make it work but trust is not easy to regain.