Round of applause for Uncle Jim. People who cheat are trash. Those who try to justify cheating are putrid trash. Years ago, when being gay was illegal/unacceptable, a guy turned up at my house, three months after my husband left for work and never came back. The guy was sobbing on my doorstep, begging me to tell my husband to "come home", in front of my four children, the eldest was four yrs old and the youngest just four months. I gave him an untypable response. I then packed everything of my husband's into a black bag and threw it out of the window. I then phoned his boss and told him to tell my ex where his belongings were. It gave me the push I needed to divorce the abusive sleezebag and come out. Best day of our lives.
The affair with the boss…. The question is, was the boss pressuring her for work reasons? Saying that she would get fired, or not promoted, or simply her work life being made miserable if she didn’t? Or did she at least feel like that was the case? If so, sexual harassment all the way. Of course, if she did fully consent, that’s a whole other matter.
@@chloeeng6811 Sexual harassment is severely underreported. And, oftentimes, the person being harassed has convinced themselves that they’re not being harassed for one reason or another - or simply don’t understand that they are. Or, they believe that if they did say something, no one would believe them. Or that it was their fault. This is why people can carry the burden and shame from being sexually harassed for years. As a survivor of sexual harassment myself (yes, men can be and are sexually harassed - sometimes by women, and, as in my case, sometimes by other men), I know this very much to be true.
@@thottusthottusxoxo Thank you for your kind words. Was over 20 years ago (though for a bit over 2 years). I honestly don't bring it up for pity, but to shine light on the issue. My take is, don't say that everything happens for a reason, because some things are just senseless and without reason or justification. At the same time, don't feel sorry for yourself for things that have happened to you or you witnessed happen to others. Instead, allow God to help you use these experiences to bring good out of them.
A bit random, but it's all I gotta say: Put my dog out into the backyard. Went to drop my friend off at his house. Came back, realized the gate had been left open and now my family was running around searching for her. (She's 14.) Employees at the pizza place near my house had her, my brother got her from them. Thank you, to the people who found my Ginger.
You're lucky. I came back from school and luka (my 1 year old dachshund) was missing. It was normal for him to just escape, run away and return a few hours later..But even after 5 days- he didn't..Last Saturday, I found out that a car crashed into him and he got tossed into the gutter...rotted in the gutter for two days with flies hovering his body and he slowly decomposed there..Until a lady found him and asked ppl to bury him. The last memory I have of him is him resting his snout on my shoe as I hurriedly ate my breakfast and scurried out of the house waving him goodbye. Lil did I know that that would be my last goodbye. I later on found out that the car that crashed into him was my friend's mom's car.
@@p.v7098 I started to tear up reading that, I'm so sorry. I'm always worried about something like this happening to my dogs to the point where I have anxiety attacks pretty much every week. It's a really horrible thing and I really hope you're ok now.
It's a win-win situation for the first one. The girl won't have to stress about hiding her other man, and the first boyfriend dodged a bullet lol. I just hope that the little sister didn't get in trouble for that.
Story: was dating this guy for 5 months and in the last month he was making excuses to annoy me and get on my nerves. Was lying to me several times but I dismissed it until one day I had enough. Tried to break up with him but he wouldn’t let me and then 2 days later broke up with me. After two days he went on a date. Added him on my friend’s account and texted him trying to flirt 1 day before the breakup, he flirted back and didn’t tell me anything about the girl. After the breakup he told my friend that I was the one cheating(he doesn’t know she’s my friend) and then accidentally told her that he knew another girl for a month and we’re exchanging calls and texts and met up twice for dates before that date he posted. He didn’t know she was my friend and she told me and we figured he has been cheating for a month. Also he was the one who texted her first and didn’t admit to anything. After the breakup he just said that he doesn’t wanna see other girls or speak to them and that we should stay friends. Didn’t speak to me once since and blocked me on everything after finding out I found out everything and he still tried to lie to my friend but she knew me and saw everything with her eyes. Probably convinced everyone else he knew that he was the victim.
Hey, Kyutie! 😀I was just binging your videos a minute ago!😄And I agree with you, calm people are VERY SCARY!😄😂And your outfit is giving me Pretty In Pink vibes! (It’s an 80s movie about a girl and she wears a lot of pink.) I absolutely love it!😀Stay awesome, Kyutie!😃
One thing I never understand about cheating stories is why the person who gets cheated on is angry at their ex’s fling instead of their ex. Like, your ex is the one who cheated. Why are you angry at the person who they used to cheat on you? I can understand if other person knew about it and still went along with it anyway, but if other person didn’t know the cheater was already taken why are you getting angry at them? If they didn’t know they aren’t the one in the wrong! It’s your ex who is!
Because the ex didn't use the person to cheat. The person knew they're taken and still did it. So, that person is the same kind of trash like the ex. If you can you should destroy them too as well as the ex. Make the trash suffer
@@JohannaNazareen1225 But the point being made is, the person they're cheating with could be in the exact same boat as the first person being cheated on - they're both being cheated on by someone, doesn't make either of them trash. But even if they do know and are participating in infidelity willingly, a stranger doesn't have a responsibility to be moral on your behalf
@@T_Cup I wouldn't call it being in the same boat. If you are cheated on, that person whome your partner cheated with knew they were maried or in relationship. They willingly went on with it. So they brought it uopon themselves. If they get cheated on too is just because once a cheater allways a cheater is being proven to be thruth. If they cheated with you they will cheat on you too. But if that cheating partner was ok with cheating when they were the one a person was cheating their spouse on with, why are they a victim now when they're being cheated on?
@@JohannaNazareen1225 Let's say we're both dating the same guy, and we don't know he's cheating on both of us. So both of us are in a relationship where we're both being cheated on. I'm not cheating with him because I think he's my partner, which for me makes you the mistress. You're not cheating with him because you think he's your partner, which for you makes me the mistress. In that scenario, we are both victims. Neither one of us knows about the other person, because we're both being tricked. Get it? Not everyone who's dating someone knows that person is taken by someone else, so they're not automatically guilty. When you meet someone and they tell you they're single, and you have no proof saying otherwise, you don't know they're taken when you start dating them. However, lots of people who willingly cheat with someone who's taken are usually told that the person the cheater is with is abusive and mistreats them, and that the only reason they stay with them is because of the living situation or the kids, etc. So even people who agree to cheat aren't automatically bad people either, you don't know their side of the story and they don't owe you that because they have meaning to you and you have no meaning to them, that's how being strangers works
@@T_Cup yes the first part where both parties dont know that their partner is two timing are victimes. But I wouldn't personal accept to be with someone who says they're in abusive relationship. That wouldn't solve anything. They're still with that person. So I would rather advise them to break it off or I wont be with them. If it's thruth that they're in abusive relationship I would ofer my help, but before they break it off no, I wouldn't be with them. Especialy because I know so many people with the story that their partner is the worst but when I digg a little under the surface it is not the thruth at all. And they're just stalling the cheating partner by saying their spouse is abusive or the worst.
If you got caught buying baby supplies you could easily say “oh they are for a friend, coworker,sibling ect.” And the friend probably wouldn’t have even mentioned it. What an idiot and a weirdo to play along
I feel bad for the people who were the "other (wo)man" and didn't know it because they didn't sign on for that crap. The ones that did know are usually dumb enough to think that "they won't cheat on me because they love me."🙄
7:52 In my personal opinion, if I were to find out that my boyfriend/girlfriend were cheating, of course I'll be insanely pissed of at them. However, if I find out that the other person was very much aware that my boyfriend/girlfriend is already dating someone else, they'll both equally feel my fucking rage. They're both equally at fault.
"I then had to hold my heart in my chest and my stomach in my abdomen while a group of children, including my two small daughters sang Happy Birthday and had a great time" I just feel bad for the husband and his kids especially, it's gonna end up messy poor guy ):
I relate so much with you on dating. When I see how unhappy partnered people are around me I'm happy to be single, but when I go to events and I see couples I feel so lonely. Nobody likes me, and when someone finally does I don't like them back. I only like guys that don't like me.
Hello kyutie. I'm not the kind of person to be usually commenting on your videos..But I watch every single one of 'em everyday. I really don't know if you'll see this but- I just wanted to say that...You make me feel a lot better..I had a dog, luka..A one year old pure bred black dachshund, male, with deep sunken eyes and a ferocious voice, very distinctive and defined features. A truly handsome one. But at the same time, he was the most adorable little thing on the planet. The way he wagged his tail and slept on my lap as I sang him songs melted my heart. Around a week ago- i had came back from school and found out that luka was missing. It didn't quite alarm me cause he was the kind to just randomly run away and return after a while..But...Time passed..And 5 days later- he still hadn't come home. Last Saturday, I found out that he got into a car crash, got tossed into the gutter and rotted there for 2 whole days..With flies hovering his body and..The decomposing stench of a carcass smell coming out of the gutter. His body laid there till a woman found him and asked for him to be buried. I later on found out that the car that hit my dog was..my friend's mom's car. This happened around a week ago and I was so..sad that I cried day and night..I was a mess..I grieved over his death so much that I refused to eat, sleep or get out of my room. I became sick after that because I was that much of a mess..I'm still recovering..But I just wanted to say..That...You make everything so much better..Your love and affection you show to coco really reminds me of luka. Your sweet, calming and charming personality calms me down..And your smile makes me smile too. ily for being such an amazing person and such an amazing dog owner. I hope you have a wonderful life. If you read till here..Thank you for hearing me out. Good day.
This remindes me of my cousin who found out her boyfriend was cheating they had been toogather for a few months and that day I went to her house she told me he was showering and got a text from a women it said "hi babe can't wait to see you tonight " that woman started texting my cousin saying "he's mine "and those stuff at school he starting doing stupid stuff like once he got on a table in the school cafeteria and started screaming... it has been a few months they are friends
There was a girl in her her home when she was not there but her twin sister was and she was lost forever In The basement. (I hope you understand what this means)
I think the dad might have liked him in the second one regardless of what OP thinks. More like exposing what his daughter was doing so OP would know and simultaneously showing everybody that it was the daughter's fault
The thing is.. Like, some of the people here could be lying about the partners cheating just to ruin the relationship due to jealousy/cuz they have a crush on them but we could never knew
@@elysialvr I know it was just a way of me saying that i like her more than any other youtuber ( basically saying she’s my favorite) promise i’m not trying to cause any harm :)
Round of applause for Uncle Jim. People who cheat are trash. Those who try to justify cheating are putrid trash. Years ago, when being gay was illegal/unacceptable, a guy turned up at my house, three months after my husband left for work and never came back. The guy was sobbing on my doorstep, begging me to tell my husband to "come home", in front of my four children, the eldest was four yrs old and the youngest just four months. I gave him an untypable response. I then packed everything of my husband's into a black bag and threw it out of the window. I then phoned his boss and told him to tell my ex where his belongings were. It gave me the push I needed to divorce the abusive sleezebag and come out. Best day of our lives.
The affair with the boss…. The question is, was the boss pressuring her for work reasons? Saying that she would get fired, or not promoted, or simply her work life being made miserable if she didn’t? Or did she at least feel like that was the case? If so, sexual harassment all the way. Of course, if she did fully consent, that’s a whole other matter.
Maybe but if it was one of these why did she say anything blackmailed by her boss
@@chloeeng6811 Sexual harassment is severely underreported. And, oftentimes, the person being harassed has convinced themselves that they’re not being harassed for one reason or another - or simply don’t understand that they are. Or, they believe that if they did say something, no one would believe them. Or that it was their fault. This is why people can carry the burden and shame from being sexually harassed for years. As a survivor of sexual harassment myself (yes, men can be and are sexually harassed - sometimes by women, and, as in my case, sometimes by other men), I know this very much to be true.
@@thottusthottusxoxo Thank you for your kind words. Was over 20 years ago (though for a bit over 2 years). I honestly don't bring it up for pity, but to shine light on the issue. My take is, don't say that everything happens for a reason, because some things are just senseless and without reason or justification. At the same time, don't feel sorry for yourself for things that have happened to you or you witnessed happen to others. Instead, allow God to help you use these experiences to bring good out of them.
A bit random, but it's all I gotta say: Put my dog out into the backyard. Went to drop my friend off at his house. Came back, realized the gate had been left open and now my family was running around searching for her. (She's 14.) Employees at the pizza place near my house had her, my brother got her from them. Thank you, to the people who found my Ginger.
@@Nameless82284 Omg I’m SO FREAKING sorry about that bro. Can’t you sue them for something like that?
My friend lost her dog and I know how it feels 😢. Glad you got her back❤
You're lucky.
I came back from school and luka (my 1 year old dachshund) was missing.
It was normal for him to just escape, run away and return a few hours later..But even after 5 days-
he didn't..Last Saturday, I found out that a car crashed into him and he got tossed into the gutter...rotted in the gutter for two days with flies hovering his body and he slowly decomposed there..Until a lady found him and asked ppl to bury him.
The last memory I have of him is him resting his snout on my shoe as I hurriedly ate my breakfast and scurried out of the house waving him goodbye.
Lil did I know that that would be my last goodbye.
I later on found out that the car that crashed into him was my friend's mom's car.
@@p.v7098 aww I'm sorry for your loss. Luka is definitely in a better place now💕
@@p.v7098 I started to tear up reading that, I'm so sorry. I'm always worried about something like this happening to my dogs to the point where I have anxiety attacks pretty much every week. It's a really horrible thing and I really hope you're ok now.
That little sister is smart 🤣❤️
Moral- never cheat on your partner, especially if you have a younger sibling.
@@cutercills9x9productions9 yeah they will tell
It's a win-win situation for the first one. The girl won't have to stress about hiding her other man, and the first boyfriend dodged a bullet lol. I just hope that the little sister didn't get in trouble for that.
Story: was dating this guy for 5 months and in the last month he was making excuses to annoy me and get on my nerves. Was lying to me several times but I dismissed it until one day I had enough. Tried to break up with him but he wouldn’t let me and then 2 days later broke up with me. After two days he went on a date. Added him on my friend’s account and texted him trying to flirt 1 day before the breakup, he flirted back and didn’t tell me anything about the girl. After the breakup he told my friend that I was the one cheating(he doesn’t know she’s my friend) and then accidentally told her that he knew another girl for a month and we’re exchanging calls and texts and met up twice for dates before that date he posted. He didn’t know she was my friend and she told me and we figured he has been cheating for a month. Also he was the one who texted her first and didn’t admit to anything. After the breakup he just said that he doesn’t wanna see other girls or speak to them and that we should stay friends. Didn’t speak to me once since and blocked me on everything after finding out I found out everything and he still tried to lie to my friend but she knew me and saw everything with her eyes. Probably convinced everyone else he knew that he was the victim.
Uncle Jim slayed
UNCLE JIM!
Yesss he handled it like a damn boss ✨😌
Respect for Uncle Jim
The way she say betrayal sounds like she saying THE BITCHTRAYEL lol
AHHAHAHAHA LMAOOO made me laugh
Cheating is so heartbreaking.
Yeah it is
Ellen is very wholesome hands down. Please take care of your health everyone!
Hey, Kyutie! 😀I was just binging your videos a minute ago!😄And I agree with you, calm people are VERY SCARY!😄😂And your outfit is giving me Pretty In Pink vibes! (It’s an 80s movie about a girl and she wears a lot of pink.) I absolutely love it!😀Stay awesome, Kyutie!😃
One thing I never understand about cheating stories is why the person who gets cheated on is angry at their ex’s fling instead of their ex. Like, your ex is the one who cheated. Why are you angry at the person who they used to cheat on you? I can understand if other person knew about it and still went along with it anyway, but if other person didn’t know the cheater was already taken why are you getting angry at them? If they didn’t know they aren’t the one in the wrong! It’s your ex who is!
Because the ex didn't use the person to cheat. The person knew they're taken and still did it. So, that person is the same kind of trash like the ex. If you can you should destroy them too as well as the ex. Make the trash suffer
@@JohannaNazareen1225 But the point being made is, the person they're cheating with could be in the exact same boat as the first person being cheated on - they're both being cheated on by someone, doesn't make either of them trash. But even if they do know and are participating in infidelity willingly, a stranger doesn't have a responsibility to be moral on your behalf
@@T_Cup I wouldn't call it being in the same boat. If you are cheated on, that person whome your partner cheated with knew they were maried or in relationship. They willingly went on with it. So they brought it uopon themselves. If they get cheated on too is just because once a cheater allways a cheater is being proven to be thruth. If they cheated with you they will cheat on you too. But if that cheating partner was ok with cheating when they were the one a person was cheating their spouse on with, why are they a victim now when they're being cheated on?
@@JohannaNazareen1225 Let's say we're both dating the same guy, and we don't know he's cheating on both of us. So both of us are in a relationship where we're both being cheated on. I'm not cheating with him because I think he's my partner, which for me makes you the mistress. You're not cheating with him because you think he's your partner, which for you makes me the mistress. In that scenario, we are both victims. Neither one of us knows about the other person, because we're both being tricked. Get it? Not everyone who's dating someone knows that person is taken by someone else, so they're not automatically guilty. When you meet someone and they tell you they're single, and you have no proof saying otherwise, you don't know they're taken when you start dating them.
However, lots of people who willingly cheat with someone who's taken are usually told that the person the cheater is with is abusive and mistreats them, and that the only reason they stay with them is because of the living situation or the kids, etc. So even people who agree to cheat aren't automatically bad people either, you don't know their side of the story and they don't owe you that because they have meaning to you and you have no meaning to them, that's how being strangers works
@@T_Cup yes the first part where both parties dont know that their partner is two timing are victimes.
But I wouldn't personal accept to be with someone who says they're in abusive relationship. That wouldn't solve anything. They're still with that person. So I would rather advise them to break it off or I wont be with them. If it's thruth that they're in abusive relationship I would ofer my help, but before they break it off no, I wouldn't be with them. Especialy because I know so many people with the story that their partner is the worst but when I digg a little under the surface it is not the thruth at all. And they're just stalling the cheating partner by saying their spouse is abusive or the worst.
If you got caught buying baby supplies you could easily say “oh they are for a friend, coworker,sibling ect.” And the friend probably wouldn’t have even mentioned it. What an idiot and a weirdo to play along
I feel bad for the people who were the "other (wo)man" and didn't know it because they didn't sign on for that crap. The ones that did know are usually dumb enough to think that "they won't cheat on me because they love me."🙄
Uncle Jim is the best guy this video lol
Yeah!!!
7:52 In my personal opinion, if I were to find out that my boyfriend/girlfriend were cheating, of course I'll be insanely pissed of at them. However, if I find out that the other person was very much aware that my boyfriend/girlfriend is already dating someone else, they'll both equally feel my fucking rage. They're both equally at fault.
Uncle Jim was so litt for that one ✨✨
Just break up! Don't cheat!
"I then had to hold my heart in my chest and my stomach in my abdomen while a group of children, including my two small daughters sang Happy Birthday and had a great time" I just feel bad for the husband and his kids especially, it's gonna end up messy poor guy ):
it was the wife who cheated
@@sofiamahon6098 sorry i knew that let me edit my comment, i worded that wrong.
Thank you for the update, I love these videos a lot. Although, I do miss your gameplays.
Off topic but is it just me or does kyutie these days looks absolutely gorgeous her accessories and clothes is just a vibe 😩
Lonely Rotten Potato🤣🤣
Eeee I love your hair today!!! It’s very very pretty and the hat is so cute!! ❤️❤️ I love the video ^^ keep it up
aw, thank u!!~~
We stan Uncle Jim
Uncle Jim isn't calm, he's british. 😂
YES THISSSS
I relate so much with you on dating. When I see how unhappy partnered people are around me I'm happy to be single, but when I go to events and I see couples I feel so lonely. Nobody likes me, and when someone finally does I don't like them back. I only like guys that don't like me.
Hello kyutie.
I'm not the kind of person to be usually commenting on your videos..But I watch every single one of 'em everyday.
I really don't know if you'll see this but-
I just wanted to say that...You make me feel a lot better..I had a dog, luka..A one year old pure bred black dachshund, male, with deep sunken eyes and a ferocious voice, very distinctive and defined features. A truly handsome one. But at the same time, he was the most adorable little thing on the planet. The way he wagged his tail and slept on my lap as I sang him songs melted my heart.
Around a week ago-
i had came back from school and found out that luka was missing. It didn't quite alarm me cause he was the kind to just randomly run away and return after a while..But...Time passed..And 5 days later- he still hadn't come home. Last Saturday, I found out that he got into a car crash, got tossed into the gutter and rotted there for 2 whole days..With flies hovering his body and..The decomposing stench of a carcass smell coming out of the gutter. His body laid there till a woman found him and asked for him to be buried. I later on found out that the car that hit my dog was..my friend's mom's car. This happened around a week ago and I was so..sad that I cried day and night..I was a mess..I grieved over his death so much that I refused to eat, sleep or get out of my room. I became sick after that because I was that much of a mess..I'm still recovering..But I just wanted to say..That...You make everything so much better..Your love and affection you show to coco really reminds me of luka. Your sweet, calming and charming personality calms me down..And your smile makes me smile too. ily for being such an amazing person and such an amazing dog owner. I hope you have a wonderful life. If you read till here..Thank you for hearing me out.
Good day.
Oh my gosh that's so awful!
Please stay strong❤💜
May Luka rest in peace.
@@mannajacobc.2269 Thank you.
Uncle Jim slayed. 👍I would only add :"you have 7 minutes before I brake your knee caps with my baseball bat"
Ellen your new hair looks soooo good !!! omG you’re so so so pretty. You’re my girl crush! Ily 😙💕
I love how her intro doesn't take really long like other UA-camrs. :D
love your hair >•
ahh thank uu!!~
@@Kyutie. you're most welcome!!! ♡°
YOU’RE SO PRETTY OMFG- HOW???
Imagine how many people are watching this at the same time😌
That’s a cool thought!
This remindes me of my cousin who found out her boyfriend was cheating they had been toogather for a few months and that day I went to her house she told me he was showering and got a text from a women it said "hi babe can't wait to see you tonight " that woman started texting my cousin saying "he's mine "and those stuff at school he starting doing stupid stuff like once he got on a table in the school cafeteria and started screaming... it has been a few months they are friends
ur hair is so prettyyyyy
Yes, talk to the kids. They say things, they dont know how to hide and lie
Who else is just binging Kyutie’s videos?? Once I’ve started I can never stop 😭😭😭🌸🌸♥♥
There was a girl in her her home when she was not there but her twin sister was and she was lost forever In The basement. (I hope you understand what this means)
I think the dad might have liked him in the second one regardless of what OP thinks. More like exposing what his daughter was doing so OP would know and simultaneously showing everybody that it was the daughter's fault
If someone is as calm as uncle Jim in that situation. Know that they u r not getting back together with them ever again
I love your accent “co-worka✨💅🤔”😭😭💀
Ahhhhhh sorry that I'm so late ellen I was at my birthday dinner so I couldn't get here on time but just know that the video was amazing 💜💜💜
Happy birthday!❤
@@mannajacobc.2269 Thank you 💜💜💜
The thing is.. Like, some of the people here could be lying about the partners cheating just to ruin the relationship due to jealousy/cuz they have a crush on them but we could never knew
Kyutie>>>other youtubers
you dont have to bring down other youtubers when complimenting our queen! :(
@@elysialvr I know it was just a way of me saying that i like her more than any other youtuber ( basically saying she’s my favorite) promise i’m not trying to cause any harm :)
@@aalayahwrighr3740 thats fine! I love her too! your comment just seemed like u were bringing down other youtubers, sorry for that!
@@elysialvr It’s fine :)
you are soo prettyyy ❤❤
am I the only one who is very afraid to hear one of these stories where it's about me
Yeah i think you’re the only one lol
Ellen Where do you get your earrings from
0:40 he definitely liked him
omg the best friend is the best
You and me both sister I'm glad I'm single
Kyutie is da best!
BUSTED!!!😱😬
Love your videos Ellen
the first one… oh💀
EXPOSEDDD
Third!
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@@shadowboxer1 ^^
its my birthday today😁
happy birthday!!
@@Kyutie. omg thank you for replying that really made my day.
Happy Birthday!
@@aathira741 thank you.
Hi Ellen hope you have a good day 🙃
thank you! have a good day/night too!
@@Kyutie. 😵 wow you really read my comment thanks
Hiiiiii! ❤
Congrats you’re first! 🥇💗
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I ❤️ Ellen 2019-present
Love you
Hiiiii!!
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I got 400 likes! 😁
On the vid (not mine)
OMG HII
Hey 🖐🖐🖐
Hallo🤩
Ou im really early
Early for once lol.
First!
ur not first unfortunately
@@elysialvr My first time commenting first and I'm not even first. A round of applause for me👏👏👏👏
Actually second.
But here's your silver medal! ====> 🥈