I guess because we are hearing stories from their point of view. Although they do sound right but i always wonder if we hear these same stories from another one's point of view will our thoughts still be same?
The first story… I hate people like that. Who take everything personally and play the victim. My dad is 6’0. You don’t see him trying to go on jump on my sister and I’s bunk bed smh. It’s not shaming it’s just common sense…
0:05: The SIL is both stupid and inconsiderate. She definitely should replace the swing. And the husband still should have taken his wife's side. He needed to take the side of the wronged instead of the wrongdoer, even though the wrongdoer is his sister. (This first story has me thinking of the statement, "This is why we can't have nice things!") 5:23: What's the big deal with twins wearing different colors if it only means people can tell them apart? It doesn't seem the mom is stifling their individuality. Plus, the boys seem to enjoy this. 8:10: Delaney is your typical bridezilla. If I were this girl, I would tell Delaney to not only find another flower girl, but she wouldn't be attending her wedding. I'd wish her a nice life, though. Plus, I wish this girl all the best.
The SIL one is similar to mine. The kids at my school always go through my stuff and break them. They didn't even pay me back that day and they said "it's just books, you can just buy some new ones". Those were belong to my *dead relative..*
Some things can hold people or things above the weight limit without immediately breaking(even with such a vast difference between the limit’s and the person’s weight), but it speeds up the “wear and tear” process significantly(think needing to replace it in one year rather than the expected five). If I were Op, I’d tell the husband and SIL that the swing isn’t “just a swing” but is actually the special gift my 16 year old(meaning he started saving at 14) saved up for and bought just for me because he thought I deserved something nice, and SIL just spit on his hard work without a shred of guilt or empathy.
The story about the girl losing her hair during chemo hit home for me. When my mom had breast cancer for the third time, she had chemotherapy and lost her hair for a good while. It was about shoulder length before chemo and she cut it short to prepare for her chemo. Her hair started coming out later on in clumps due to the chemo. My stepdad shaved it off for her and she was bald for the rest of it. My sister was also engaged that year, but wouldn’t be married until about a year later. But because my mom has naturally thinner hair and there was also a chance her hair wouldn’t come back, my mom was really worried that she wouldn’t have any hair to style at the wedding. I did offer her my wigs, but she preferred not to wear them because they made her scalp itchy. It grew back in time and now her hair is down to her shoulders. I honestly hate that the girl in that story has to be dealing with cancer, especially considering she’s only 13 years old. And that cousin of her’s…..let’s just say Delaney is lucky she’s not my cousin.😂
That last story just made my heart break. That little girl has cancer and all the "soon to be bride" cares about is her wedding?! How heartless can you be? I really wish that the husband overheard the whole ordeal to take the necessary actions. I can't help but sympathize with that little girl and the emotional turmoil she just went through, above her physical ones! 😭
I wouldn’t call a teenager a little girl, but YES - I wish the groom would just come in and put that bridezilla in her place! I feel so bad for her ; - ;
Something that bothers me about the first story is that ops family (and by extension, her HUSBAND) knew that she wanted that swing for two years. Why was it up to her teenage son to get her something so expensive when her husband probably had the money to spare? I think the husband is more shady than most people realize, and op definitely needs to have a serious talk with him.
1st story: the fact that the SIL did not even apologise to OP for breaking the swing. and the swing was bought by OP's son, to which she cherished. I'd probably force her to pay or just straight up won't allow her to step foot in my property. I feel bad for OP, since her son bought it 2nd story: imo i don't think OP is wrong though, like she said at first, she and her husband are forgetful and she was scared of getting them mixed up. furthermore, OP says that she will give more colours to the twins once their personality & traits are there - basically once the twins each have their own personality & traits, it'll be easier for OP & her husband to identify who is who and will give a wider range of colours to them
I'm a twin and when we were little our mom would dress my sister in blue and me in pink and only put us in matching/semi-matching clothes for special events, like photos or parties. I don't remember how old I was, but I think that at around kindergarten age, she started encouraging us to have our own senses of style and whenever she took us shopping she would ask if we saw anything we liked and go from there.
That's so sweet! Honestly I can see why parents do this, because as someone working at a kindergarten and having triplets in the group in which the twin girls are completely identical and the mom always dresses them to match, color, style, everything, it's a real hassle trying to figure out which kid I'm even looking for 😅
the story about the girl losing her hair&getting yelled at for having cancer made me so mad. its not her fault she has cancer, its not her fault her treatment caused her hair to fall out and look like a hot mess, it wasn’t her fault she shaved it because she didnt like the pain. and the fact that she said that to a child is just- i hope delaney made a complete fool of herself at the wedding 🤡 ty for listening to my rant, and sorry for any mistakes as i am not native english speaker
I love watching your videos. First story. She is not in the wrong it was a gift given to her by her son on her birthday. The sister-in-law should have listened to her in the first place. When the sister-in-law broke the swing she should have apologized & compensated for the swing. The husband is also in the wrong... his sister just broke the birthday gift that their son given to his wife & then he sides with his sister and says it's just a swing. The wife was right to be angry. Second story. The mother in this story is not in the wrong. If they are identical twin boys in toddler years they might not have a big difference in their personalities yet so having a designated color for one twin like blue for Atticus & green for Ezra is a great way of telling them apart. The boys even get to pick the designs on their shirts so it's not like everything is the same. The mom even said the designated color would stop at age 2.5 or 3 (by that time they probably can tell their twin sons personality differences). It is not as if the designated color would last until adulthood. The cousin of the husband has no right to question a parents choice of how they dress up their children during the toddler years. Third story. The girl (13) with cancer in not in the wrong. It's her hair... her body she has the right to shave her own hair because losing her hair in clumps due to chemotherapy was bothering her. She also already has a wig the was the same color as her hair it's not as if she is going bald for the wedding. She also didn't choose to have cancer. To her cousin named Delaney grow up girl you are about to get married & here you are acting like a child because your cousin cut her hair without your permission. You know... your cousin who is diagnosed with cancer, who is undergoing chemotherapy & losing her hair in clumps because of it. The same cousin who already told you what was happening with her hair.
I love how the husbands cousin is getting mad that the mom is choosing what the babies wear when they literally can’t even develop memories until they are around 2 years old. And even if the could know what was going on, why would they even care it’s literally just a shirt
She wasn't even shaming, that was factual, if the SIL was about 200lbs more than the weight limit on the box it is indeed in the least possible way the hammock could have withstood her weight. Maybe it might have been okay if she was only 50lbs over the limit. Shaming her would be more of telling her, "If you weren't so fat" and so on. Although to me that would not have been justifiable but understood.
@@misachitachibana7214 It's possible that the weight limit on the box is lying so that the company don't get sued by their product constantly breaking and people injuring themselves, so they aim lower so that their product will not break as easily. Cuz let's say the actual weight limit is 300 pounds but it says 250 on the box. But if you actually weigh somewhere between 250-300 pounds it's probably not a good idea to sit in the hamock regardless as it's dangerously close to the limit and that means it could break easily regardless. Like if you weigh 301 pounds it's suddenly DANGER but if you weigh 300 exactly it's "safe"??? Hahahah omg. If I weigh within close proximity of the absolute limit I would not use that item cuz I'm not gonna be a test dummy for how durable this object is and risk getting injured lmao. That woman is pretty dumb honestly and also in denial it sounds about her weight in general. According to Google this is how to calculate: Pressure = Force ÷ Area Force = Mass x acceleration Those tiny strings don't care about your weight, it cares about the physics. (Force divided by area)
That first story, if it was "just a swing" then buy another one and apologize. Why are you making a big deal over "just a swing"? Ugh, I hate people sometimes.
That swing story pisses me off every time I hear it. I am also considered morbidly obese, and I can tell you that the sister-in-law was being a total asshole. That or she’s delusional. The twin story though! I think hubby’s cousin is trying really hard to stir up drama. OP is right, those boys have No Idea about fashion yet, and that’s normal for such young children. Once they start forming personal opinions about their cloths, they will certainly let their parents know. 🤣 At 1.5 years old, they’re probably still all about how quickly they can shed their cloths! 🤣
My MIL did something similar with a birthday gift as in the 1st story… makes me mad every time I think of it: Once in a while I splurge on myself as my husband and I live mostly frugally. It was my birthday and I bought myself a $150 cooking pan (yes I know it’s too expensive but I wanted it for over a year and was so excited to have it). I used to leave it on the stove as I thought it looked nice and when guests visited I’d put it away. My MIL visited once and saw me put it away commented how nice it was. I agreed but told her I didn’t want to use it with others as the washing of it CANNOT be scrubbed otherwise it’d remove its nonstick function. I went to work and came home late that day after a long day and saw her aggressively scrubbing it… she said she had wanted to try it out as she was impressed with how nonstick it was… I calmly took it from her, dried it and explained that scrubbing would remove that feature. She laughed saying I was exaggerating. Literally took out an egg and fired it to show her how it stuck and charred now on the pans surface. She immediately burst out in tears and locked herself in the restroom. I couldn’t help myself and I went to my husband and started laughing at how pissed I felt, I couldn’t help but just laugh. She slept over and would cry whenever she made eye contact but never once apologized or tried to replace the pan. It’s been 2 years and she has not once mentioned it. I love this woman so much but Omgoodness this memory upsets me immensely
I would’ve gone and broke my husband’s most prized possession and laughter, repeating what he said! Then told his sis to get out and take him with her!
I would do that to the husband and that sister and then saay "It's only that, no big deal" and see how they like it :) then tell them to get the frick out
@@Kyutie. yeah 3 years ago (I think) you were super shy! In the spicy noodle video you just gave a little wave. But now, you make an intro but not a super long intro like most videos that people have to skip through, a good intro
the first story already got me mad. like, y’all don’t go to a restaurant and break a plate and just say “it’s just a plate”. i’d make sil pay tbh, the same way you would pay for a broken plate in a restaurant
Omg the last story! Delaney was way out of line! She was SOOO on the wrong! Disrespectful, insensitive and heartless! Inconsiderate too! She had no right bullying the poor 13 year old like that!
I've had a couple of friends who recovered from cancer. I never did care that they lost their hair. I did make a point of telling them, when their hair grew back after treatment, how good it looked. Their hair grew back finer, and wavey where before it had been straight. I've had cancer myself, but I never needed chemo.
Ah that first one makes me mad. I have had something precious broken by a sister and wasn't apologozed to. In fact, was told "you shouldn't have left it out."
AYO- I’m an old fan, you’ll probably never see this. But I used to watch your videos like an addict a few years ago. I was surprised when I got your notification, but hey it’s nice to see a creator from my childhood. I look forward to your content in the future. (sorry for the grammar, English is my second language)
Hey, Kyutie! I've noticed that you're really good at acting out the people in the stories, lol. It infuriates me sometimes cos you're really good at acting out generally horrible people, but I'm impressed nonetheless.
Your videos make me feel like I am talking to a friend and we are reading posts online. The way you express your own thoughts and read ours in the Comments feels like a good talk over some topics. Thank you, I watch your videos during my study breaks, I have deleted all social media and rarely get out of my room, because I am preparing for a very important exam.Even then I Don't feel lonely because it's always great to have you here.
Many families don't even have the financial freedom to choose their clothing style. Yet it doesn't cripple their personality growth. Being rich in personality also means you don't allow yourself to be defined by materialistic limitations.
I'm most definitely unreasonable I expect that if someone damages a present I give to someone, they should pay the cost to replace it if they break it. Also, don't order services on my phone number! It's not your number and you will not get to enjoy the service, and I don't want the cost! Both of those happened to me, and it took way too long to resolve the problem. In the end, I had to cancel the telephone subscription and switch to another company. Umm, I think I just described reasonable. It was the other person who was unreasonable.
My heart just broke for the girl in the last story. My cousin has alopecia and my sister and I donated all our hair when we were little. I’ve grown it out just to donate it three times now so that children with cancer or alopecia can still have a beautiful head of hair.
@@shadowboxer1 Thank youu! I stepped it up a notch. Shall it do it again tomorrow? Only one way to find out: Tune in on *Shining in Silver (and Sometimes Gold) with J S* exclusively on The Kyutie Channel! 😁
I swear your videos literally always make my day better 💕 Also I can almost guarantee you won’t remember but I commented on another video almost a week ago now and mentioned falling at track and field which resulted in very painful injuries so just thought I’d say I’ve almost fully recovered but there will definitely be some scars.
Individuality counts when a person has likes, dislikes and wants. They’re 1 they probably are worrying more about why there are so many people, or excited for food. Honestly, what would she even do to have them be individual? Take them to the store and ask them to pick shirts, ask them to magically start talking about what they want for their clothes and walking around the store looking for shirts?
The 13 year old with cancer is my hero. She saw her circumstance and did the right, mature thing so she wouldn't be a distraction at her cousin's wedding. Her cousin, however, I can't even process what her issue was or what was going through her mind.
Okay so whoever needs this if you ever have something that you absolutely love and don't want anyone to break it tell others something along the lines that how much you love and how heartbroken you would be to have any damage to it to the point that you might have to consider breaking ties with the person who broke it while introducing it....the first conversation would be kinda warning to them and if they love you enough they'll leave the item alone
6:50 my sister was blue and I was pink when we were younger. my parents dressed me up in pink because everyone thought I was a boy (I was also bald till I was almost 2) and idk why the blue for my lil sister. but it doesn't affect our "individuality" 😂 we're babies. we grow up based on experiences and love, not what we wear. can't imagine if someone said this to my mom lol
I would‘ve probably smacked the sister across the face after yelling at her in my rage and then i would‘ve broken down crying! She never gets nice things, her son saved up two years to get her something she wanted for years and the sister didn‘t even care that she destroyed it. And you can‘t replace something with emotional value!
I hope the bride in the last story got left at the alter for what she said. Like the girl was like “Oh yeah, I thought I’d just get cancer so I can ruin your wedding” like NO!!!! NO-ONE EVER CHOOSES TO GET CANCER. There’s a special place in hell for people like that bride.
Story number two: It’s literally clothes first off and second off, they’re too young to have opinions. My brother is three and doesn’t give a crap about what he wears, he just wears what we give him. We’ve tried having him pick out clothes but he just leaves and doesn’t tell us anything. That person needs to chill
@ 3:51 This is why I can't have anything nice. No sooner to I start using it before someone has to go and break it for me! I bought some solar lights for my sidewalk. Not even 1 week after I set them up than someone came around in the middle of the night and broke them all. There were only 8 of them, and they weren't that expensive, but my goodness, have some respect for other people's property.
None of these people are wrong. The swing one is just insane. I'm around 245 lbs. but I have been 300+ lbs. before. It's difficult to find things that can hold your weight, but the point is, if it can't hold your weight, it can't hold your weight. There's no way around it. I struggled with this issue when looking for computer chairs. She warned her it wouldn't hold her weight and she didn't listen and thought it was funny. Are you kidding me? I've had people tell me that something won't hold my weight and I just didn't sit there. Simple. And if I did happen to sit somewhere and broke the chair, I would offer to pay for it or at the very least half of it. Ellen, you are amazing and I love your videos. It brings so much joy to my day when I get a notification that you uploaded a video.
Hell yeah her weight is a problem in this situation along with her attitude. She needs to grow up and replace that swing, if she really wants to, maybe one that can hold her so she won't destroy it again
Even if the SIL in the first story fits the weight limit, if OP told her specifically not to sit on it, she shouldn't sit on it. It's their house and their rules, she's just a visitor. She openly disrespected OP, so of course she shouldn't expect to be treated with respect in return.
I never knew that loosing your hair was painful. I spent years pulling out my hair(it was a stress/anxiety response to what was going on in my life) and it never really hurt. I never really knew that having your hair fall out could be painful in any aspect but then again my hair would constantly be cut because of the bald spots so for years I didn't have to struggle with tangled hair.
I literally never got to choose what to wear until I was like 8 ish I think ,I also had outfits picked out for me so no she wasn't in the wrong they would hardly care what they were wearing tbh
Ugh if I was the girl with cancer I would have either not gone to the wedding or have gone to the wedding, threw the basket of flowers at Delaney then if I had the wig, I'd rip it off, give her a face, then run away crying
My kids could tell very good what they want to dress with 1,5. If we did dress them in something they did not like, they just did not work along with us or undress the minute we turned around. So I think the twins like it
the 3rd story, the girl (13) i feel so bad for, her cousin had no right to get mad at her like that, it's not the cousin's hair so she don't get a say in what happens with it.
10:20 WOW thats just plain rude. my mum had cancer three years ago, it was one of the toughest times, and if anyone had said anything about it that's not nice, I probably would have started crying. If I was having a wedding, and the flower girl got cancer, I would let her choose, what she wants to do, I wouldn't mind if she wore a wig, if she shaved her head and didn't wear a wig, just as long as she is comfy, and not self conscious. I wouldn't have gone to the wedding if that happened to me.
1st Story: It's totally okay/fine for OP to be angry. Someone saved up money to buy them that nice gift because they (OP) rarely get nice gifts. OP's husband should be siding with OP instead of siding with OP's SIL (sister in law). OP told SIL what the weight limit was (even showed SIL the box) and told her not to sit in it. SIL sitting in it anyways and the item breaking/ripping as a result shows disrespect towards OP's property/possessions. It's SIL's own fault that she fell on her butt. It's also SIL's fault that the item broke. SIL should've compensated OP for damaging the item or at least apologized. 2nd Story: The husband's cousin shouldn't have complained. There is nothing wrong with the wife and husband having most of the shirts be a particular color for each of their kids. 3rd Story: It was wrong of Delaney to say those things to/act that way towards OP. OP can do what she wants with her hair. I agree with Kyutie (Ellen) that cancer is a lot for a teen to go through and that the girl didn't want to lose her hair.
Hi Kyutie !! Since someone has told you that they were an old fan. I have been inspired to tell you also. I had an old account, but I can't log back into it since I forgot the password and stuff. But I used to watch your videos like right when you posted them, and I always left comments. I was named 'Aesthetic Names' But I'm not sure if you really remember. I don't expect you to since you have a bunch of viewers. But I would like you to know. And I hope you read this.
People kill me with the it's just a... whenever they tear something up that meant something to you. No it's not just a swing. That was her swing and she should have immediately offered to pay for her swing.
Hold up 😂 I am a big girl (not as big as the women in the story) but you know better if your a big girl to not sit on that swing!!! Extremely disrespectful for her to do that!
The twins one 😭😭 I'm new at a kindergarten (I go to a caretaker school so it's like a not paying job in a sense) and we have these triplets. Two girls and a boy. The two girls are identical, and the psrents keep dressing them to match, and it just confuses me, I never know which is which. I know I shouldn't have, but I was so happy when one of them started wearing glasses cuz I could fineally tell them apart, but then 4 months later the other got glasses too and I'm back to sqare one 😂 ..and as a new caretaker in the group, this sure is troublesome, so please, please do something so I can tell identical twins apart, sure it's not like life threatening, but I literally don't know which I'm talking to
Like the sister-in-law couldn't respect the person's rules and like she's lucky she didn't just kick her out cuz she could have and I probably would have done it after what happened and I would argue with like my husband saying like why are you on my side I'm right and like I told her not to sit on it but she still decided to and like if you're at where at anyone's house you should follow their rules that doesn't mean that you're going to agree with them but it means you should just do that to be respectful
Bruh I didn’t even pick what I wore to school till I was in like some where from 5-6th grade I don’t remember what grade I was In exactly but I’m fine my individuality was not affected
Omg the swing story, like she didn't listen to THE OWNER of the swing, broke it, and DIDNT EVEN APOLOGIZE???? I feel bad for the owner of the swing
Ikr? The fact that she was like “aw that’s a bummer” and still didn’t take a hint! OP is definitely NTA
Sad, since her own child bought it for her, it would mean I lot to her.
@@mazieglick563 yeah
I'd sue
@@chaosspy6723 sounds like a smart thing 2 do
I felt infuriated with that first story. As a person who receives thoughtful gifts once in a blue moon I totally understand her righteous anger.
I feel awful for her
@@chloeeng6811 same
It just shows the sister doesn't respect her
Seriously a rude thing to do. 😠
dag, all i do is thoughtful gifts
The funny thing is, 75% of the people who are writing these stories aren’t in the wrong, and they just have toxic people around them
And those toxic people are telling the OP's that they're wrong-They're being gaslighted!
YEAH, like.....
I would say a solid 90
@@nancyomalley6286 gaslit* but you’re absolutely right!!
I guess because we are hearing stories from their point of view. Although they do sound right but i always wonder if we hear these same stories from another one's point of view will our thoughts still be same?
The first story… I hate people like that. Who take everything personally and play the victim. My dad is 6’0. You don’t see him trying to go on jump on my sister and I’s bunk bed smh. It’s not shaming it’s just common sense…
0:05: The SIL is both stupid and inconsiderate. She definitely should replace the swing. And the husband still should have taken his wife's side. He needed to take the side of the wronged instead of the wrongdoer, even though the wrongdoer is his sister.
(This first story has me thinking of the statement, "This is why we can't have nice things!")
5:23: What's the big deal with twins wearing different colors if it only means people can tell them apart? It doesn't seem the mom is stifling their individuality. Plus, the boys seem to enjoy this.
8:10: Delaney is your typical bridezilla. If I were this girl, I would tell Delaney to not only find another flower girl, but she wouldn't be attending her wedding. I'd wish her a nice life, though. Plus, I wish this girl all the best.
Yes
The SIL one is similar to mine. The kids at my school always go through my stuff and break them. They didn't even pay me back that day and they said "it's just books, you can just buy some new ones".
Those were belong to my *dead relative..*
"iTs JUsT BooKs" i hate how the kids don't even consider how much the books are worth. Both in money and how much it would mean to someone.
Some things can hold people or things above the weight limit without immediately breaking(even with such a vast difference between the limit’s and the person’s weight), but it speeds up the “wear and tear” process significantly(think needing to replace it in one year rather than the expected five). If I were Op, I’d tell the husband and SIL that the swing isn’t “just a swing” but is actually the special gift my 16 year old(meaning he started saving at 14) saved up for and bought just for me because he thought I deserved something nice, and SIL just spit on his hard work without a shred of guilt or empathy.
@I am me Definitely
The story about the girl losing her hair during chemo hit home for me. When my mom had breast cancer for the third time, she had chemotherapy and lost her hair for a good while. It was about shoulder length before chemo and she cut it short to prepare for her chemo. Her hair started coming out later on in clumps due to the chemo. My stepdad shaved it off for her and she was bald for the rest of it. My sister was also engaged that year, but wouldn’t be married until about a year later. But because my mom has naturally thinner hair and there was also a chance her hair wouldn’t come back, my mom was really worried that she wouldn’t have any hair to style at the wedding. I did offer her my wigs, but she preferred not to wear them because they made her scalp itchy. It grew back in time and now her hair is down to her shoulders. I honestly hate that the girl in that story has to be dealing with cancer, especially considering she’s only 13 years old. And that cousin of her’s…..let’s just say Delaney is lucky she’s not my cousin.😂
That last story just made my heart break. That little girl has cancer and all the "soon to be bride" cares about is her wedding?! How heartless can you be? I really wish that the husband overheard the whole ordeal to take the necessary actions. I can't help but sympathize with that little girl and the emotional turmoil she just went through, above her physical ones! 😭
I wouldn’t call a teenager a little girl, but YES - I wish the groom would just come in and put that bridezilla in her place! I feel so bad for her ; - ;
Something that bothers me about the first story is that ops family (and by extension, her HUSBAND) knew that she wanted that swing for two years. Why was it up to her teenage son to get her something so expensive when her husband probably had the money to spare? I think the husband is more shady than most people realize, and op definitely needs to have a serious talk with him.
I agree
1st story: the fact that the SIL did not even apologise to OP for breaking the swing. and the swing was bought by OP's son, to which she cherished. I'd probably force her to pay or just straight up won't allow her to step foot in my property. I feel bad for OP, since her son bought it
2nd story: imo i don't think OP is wrong though, like she said at first, she and her husband are forgetful and she was scared of getting them mixed up. furthermore, OP says that she will give more colours to the twins once their personality & traits are there
- basically once the twins each have their own personality & traits, it'll be easier for OP & her husband to identify who is who and will give a wider range of colours to them
I'm a twin and when we were little our mom would dress my sister in blue and me in pink and only put us in matching/semi-matching clothes for special events, like photos or parties. I don't remember how old I was, but I think that at around kindergarten age, she started encouraging us to have our own senses of style and whenever she took us shopping she would ask if we saw anything we liked and go from there.
That's so sweet! Honestly I can see why parents do this, because as someone working at a kindergarten and having triplets in the group in which the twin girls are completely identical and the mom always dresses them to match, color, style, everything, it's a real hassle trying to figure out which kid I'm even looking for 😅
the story about the girl losing her hair&getting yelled at for having cancer made me so mad. its not her fault she has cancer, its not her fault her treatment caused her hair to fall out and look like a hot mess, it wasn’t her fault she shaved it because she didnt like the pain.
and the fact that she said that to a child is just-
i hope delaney made a complete fool of herself at the wedding 🤡
ty for listening to my rant, and sorry for any mistakes as i am not native english speaker
The swing was such a thoughtful gift from her son, anyone would be mad. I'd be holding that grudge for so long.
Me too
I love watching your videos.
First story. She is not in the wrong it was a gift given to her by her son on her birthday. The sister-in-law should have listened to her in the first place. When the sister-in-law broke the swing she should have apologized & compensated for the swing. The husband is also in the wrong... his sister just broke the birthday gift that their son given to his wife & then he sides with his sister and says it's just a swing. The wife was right to be angry.
Second story. The mother in this story is not in the wrong. If they are identical twin boys in toddler years they might not have a big difference in their personalities yet so having a designated color for one twin like blue for Atticus & green for Ezra is a great way of telling them apart. The boys even get to pick the designs on their shirts so it's not like everything is the same. The mom even said the designated color would stop at age 2.5 or 3 (by that time they probably can tell their twin sons personality differences). It is not as if the designated color would last until adulthood. The cousin of the husband has no right to question a parents choice of how they dress up their children during the toddler years.
Third story. The girl (13) with cancer in not in the wrong. It's her hair... her body she has the right to shave her own hair because losing her hair in clumps due to chemotherapy was bothering her. She also already has a wig the was the same color as her hair it's not as if she is going bald for the wedding. She also didn't choose to have cancer. To her cousin named Delaney grow up girl you are about to get married & here you are acting like a child because your cousin cut her hair without your permission. You know... your cousin who is diagnosed with cancer, who is undergoing chemotherapy & losing her hair in clumps because of it. The same cousin who already told you what was happening with her hair.
I love how the husbands cousin is getting mad that the mom is choosing what the babies wear when they literally can’t even develop memories until they are around 2 years old. And even if the could know what was going on, why would they even care it’s literally just a shirt
It's rude to shame someone for their weight but the comment in the first story is completely justified for sure.
She wasn't even shaming, that was factual, if the SIL was about 200lbs more than the weight limit on the box it is indeed in the least possible way the hammock could have withstood her weight. Maybe it might have been okay if she was only 50lbs over the limit.
Shaming her would be more of telling her, "If you weren't so fat" and so on. Although to me that would not have been justifiable but understood.
@@misachitachibana7214 It's possible that the weight limit on the box is lying so that the company don't get sued by their product constantly breaking and people injuring themselves, so they aim lower so that their product will not break as easily. Cuz let's say the actual weight limit is 300 pounds but it says 250 on the box. But if you actually weigh somewhere between 250-300 pounds it's probably not a good idea to sit in the hamock regardless as it's dangerously close to the limit and that means it could break easily regardless. Like if you weigh 301 pounds it's suddenly DANGER but if you weigh 300 exactly it's "safe"??? Hahahah omg. If I weigh within close proximity of the absolute limit I would not use that item cuz I'm not gonna be a test dummy for how durable this object is and risk getting injured lmao. That woman is pretty dumb honestly and also in denial it sounds about her weight in general.
According to Google this is how to calculate:
Pressure = Force ÷ Area
Force = Mass x acceleration
Those tiny strings don't care about your weight, it cares about the physics. (Force divided by area)
That first story, if it was "just a swing" then buy another one and apologize. Why are you making a big deal over "just a swing"? Ugh, I hate people sometimes.
That swing story pisses me off every time I hear it. I am also considered morbidly obese, and I can tell you that the sister-in-law was being a total asshole. That or she’s delusional.
The twin story though! I think hubby’s cousin is trying really hard to stir up drama. OP is right, those boys have No Idea about fashion yet, and that’s normal for such young children. Once they start forming personal opinions about their cloths, they will certainly let their parents know. 🤣
At 1.5 years old, they’re probably still all about how quickly they can shed their cloths! 🤣
My MIL did something similar with a birthday gift as in the 1st story… makes me mad every time I think of it:
Once in a while I splurge on myself as my husband and I live mostly frugally. It was my birthday and I bought myself a $150 cooking pan (yes I know it’s too expensive but I wanted it for over a year and was so excited to have it). I used to leave it on the stove as I thought it looked nice and when guests visited I’d put it away. My MIL visited once and saw me put it away commented how nice it was. I agreed but told her I didn’t want to use it with others as the washing of it CANNOT be scrubbed otherwise it’d remove its nonstick function. I went to work and came home late that day after a long day and saw her aggressively scrubbing it… she said she had wanted to try it out as she was impressed with how nonstick it was… I calmly took it from her, dried it and explained that scrubbing would remove that feature. She laughed saying I was exaggerating. Literally took out an egg and fired it to show her how it stuck and charred now on the pans surface. She immediately burst out in tears and locked herself in the restroom. I couldn’t help myself and I went to my husband and started laughing at how pissed I felt, I couldn’t help but just laugh. She slept over and would cry whenever she made eye contact but never once apologized or tried to replace the pan. It’s been 2 years and she has not once mentioned it. I love this woman so much but Omgoodness this memory upsets me immensely
I would’ve gone and broke my husband’s most prized possession and laughter, repeating what he said! Then told his sis to get out and take him with her!
I would do that to the husband and that sister and then saay "It's only that, no big deal" and see how they like it :) then tell them to get the frick out
I love you Ellen I really think you've become more confident over the years I'm really proud of you and I hope you continue to grow as a person.
awww!! thank you for being here and watching me grow!!
@@Kyutie. yeah 3 years ago (I think) you were super shy! In the spicy noodle video you just gave a little wave. But now, you make an intro but not a super long intro like most videos that people have to skip through, a good intro
I'm pretty sure giving them separate defined colours would help with their individuality.
the first story already got me mad. like, y’all don’t go to a restaurant and break a plate and just say “it’s just a plate”. i’d make sil pay tbh, the same way you would pay for a broken plate in a restaurant
Unreasonable people who won’t listen are the worst. Bonus points if they guilt trip you.
Omg the last story! Delaney was way out of line! She was SOOO on the wrong! Disrespectful, insensitive and heartless! Inconsiderate too! She had no right bullying the poor 13 year old like that!
It wouldn't hurt for people to listen, but they let their pride get in the way🙄
I've had a couple of friends who recovered from cancer. I never did care that they lost their hair. I did make a point of telling them, when their hair grew back after treatment, how good it looked. Their hair grew back finer, and wavey where before it had been straight. I've had cancer myself, but I never needed chemo.
imagine being angry at someone for having cancer... oh my god.
That first story really pissed me off. Respect people's boundaries, please. There is a reason why people say no.
Ah that first one makes me mad.
I have had something precious broken by a sister and wasn't apologozed to. In fact, was told "you shouldn't have left it out."
Its not body shaming… there’s no other way of saying it. She was too heavy for the swing, that’s not shaming her that’s just facts
AYO- I’m an old fan, you’ll probably never see this. But I used to watch your videos like an addict a few years ago. I was surprised when I got your notification, but hey it’s nice to see a creator from my childhood. I look forward to your content in the future. (sorry for the grammar, English is my second language)
Guess she saw it🥺
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The fact that saying truth in this generation is considered bullying,shaming and harsh. 🙄
Hey, Kyutie! I've noticed that you're really good at acting out the people in the stories, lol. It infuriates me sometimes cos you're really good at acting out generally horrible people, but I'm impressed nonetheless.
Your videos make me feel like I am talking to a friend and we are reading posts online. The way you express your own thoughts and read ours in the Comments feels like a good talk over some topics. Thank you, I watch your videos during my study breaks, I have deleted all social media and rarely get out of my room, because I am preparing for a very important exam.Even then I Don't feel lonely because it's always great to have you here.
Many families don't even have the financial freedom to choose their clothing style. Yet it doesn't cripple their personality growth. Being rich in personality also means you don't allow yourself to be defined by materialistic limitations.
Ngl the blue/green twins reminded me of the kratt brothers! (Also really smart on the parents for figuring a way to tell them apart!)
I'm most definitely unreasonable I expect that if someone damages a present I give to someone, they should pay the cost to replace it if they break it. Also, don't order services on my phone number! It's not your number and you will not get to enjoy the service, and I don't want the cost!
Both of those happened to me, and it took way too long to resolve the problem. In the end, I had to cancel the telephone subscription and switch to another company. Umm, I think I just described reasonable. It was the other person who was unreasonable.
Perfect for unwinding, I had a crappy, painful day today and your video came just on time when I woke up from my nap.
My heart just broke for the girl in the last story. My cousin has alopecia and my sister and I donated all our hair when we were little. I’ve grown it out just to donate it three times now so that children with cancer or alopecia can still have a beautiful head of hair.
I hate when people say "it's just a ..." and then they can't even fork over the money for it.
Your hair is so pretty today!!💕💕
Omg Ellen I love your hair!! It's so beautiful and I love this video too! You're amazing
Your am I wrong series is probably one of my favorite series’s besides entitled people loved the vid ❤️❤️❤️
Am I Wrong is my favorite series by far! 😁
It's such a good series!
J S is golden tonight! ====> 🥇
Congrats you are first!
@@shadowboxer1 Thank youu! I stepped it up a notch. Shall it do it again tomorrow? Only one way to find out: Tune in on *Shining in Silver (and Sometimes Gold) with J S* exclusively on The Kyutie Channel! 😁
@@ATM2306 Thank you! :)
I swear your videos literally always make my day better 💕
Also I can almost guarantee you won’t remember but I commented on another video almost a week ago now and mentioned falling at track and field which resulted in very painful injuries so just thought I’d say I’ve almost fully recovered but there will definitely be some scars.
I’ve been watching you for about a month im Addicted to your Contant. Your better at reading then i am. Lol
Individuality counts when a person has likes, dislikes and wants. They’re 1 they probably are worrying more about why there are so many people, or excited for food. Honestly, what would she even do to have them be individual? Take them to the store and ask them to pick shirts, ask them to magically start talking about what they want for their clothes and walking around the store looking for shirts?
The 13 year old with cancer is my hero. She saw her circumstance and did the right, mature thing so she wouldn't be a distraction at her cousin's wedding. Her cousin, however, I can't even process what her issue was or what was going through her mind.
Delaney how dare you that’s so selfish it’s heartbreaking she said that to her. I feel so bad for the kid I want to give her a hug.
Okay so whoever needs this if you ever have something that you absolutely love and don't want anyone to break it tell others something along the lines that how much you love and how heartbroken you would be to have any damage to it to the point that you might have to consider breaking ties with the person who broke it while introducing it....the first conversation would be kinda warning to them and if they love you enough they'll leave the item alone
Love it when Kyutie is being herself. ❤️❤️❤️😊😊😊
6:50 my sister was blue and I was pink when we were younger. my parents dressed me up in pink because everyone thought I was a boy (I was also bald till I was almost 2) and idk why the blue for my lil sister. but it doesn't affect our "individuality" 😂 we're babies. we grow up based on experiences and love, not what we wear. can't imagine if someone said this to my mom lol
Hey, thank you for all the vids and stories you make 😁
3:00 it's like someone burning your fav childhood toy and then says "it's just a toy"
I would‘ve probably smacked the sister across the face after yelling at her in my rage and then i would‘ve broken down crying! She never gets nice things, her son saved up two years to get her something she wanted for years and the sister didn‘t even care that she destroyed it. And you can‘t replace something with emotional value!
I hope the bride in the last story got left at the alter for what she said. Like the girl was like “Oh yeah, I thought I’d just get cancer so I can ruin your wedding” like NO!!!! NO-ONE EVER CHOOSES TO GET CANCER. There’s a special place in hell for people like that bride.
Story number two: It’s literally clothes first off and second off, they’re too young to have opinions. My brother is three and doesn’t give a crap about what he wears, he just wears what we give him. We’ve tried having him pick out clothes but he just leaves and doesn’t tell us anything. That person needs to chill
The swing story is astonishing- if I go to someones house and they tell me I can sit on something I still won’t sit on it.
I’m crying ur hair is rlly pretty
@ 3:51 This is why I can't have anything nice. No sooner to I start using it before someone has to go and break it for me! I bought some solar lights for my sidewalk. Not even 1 week after I set them up than someone came around in the middle of the night and broke them all. There were only 8 of them, and they weren't that expensive, but my goodness, have some respect for other people's property.
Omg I miss youuuu!! I wasn't able to watch your videos for months 😭😭😭
The story with the girl with cancer, delaney is absolutely psychotic
Sorry I'm late ellen just know that your videos are amazing and you never fail to make my day better 💜💜💜 P.S. Aussi! Aussi! Aussi!
None of these people are wrong. The swing one is just insane. I'm around 245 lbs. but I have been 300+ lbs. before. It's difficult to find things that can hold your weight, but the point is, if it can't hold your weight, it can't hold your weight. There's no way around it. I struggled with this issue when looking for computer chairs. She warned her it wouldn't hold her weight and she didn't listen and thought it was funny. Are you kidding me? I've had people tell me that something won't hold my weight and I just didn't sit there. Simple. And if I did happen to sit somewhere and broke the chair, I would offer to pay for it or at the very least half of it. Ellen, you are amazing and I love your videos. It brings so much joy to my day when I get a notification that you uploaded a video.
My day starts with your video 🙂 love from India ❤️
Hell yeah her weight is a problem in this situation along with her attitude. She needs to grow up and replace that swing, if she really wants to, maybe one that can hold her so she won't destroy it again
Even if the SIL in the first story fits the weight limit, if OP told her specifically not to sit on it, she shouldn't sit on it. It's their house and their rules, she's just a visitor. She openly disrespected OP, so of course she shouldn't expect to be treated with respect in return.
"It's just a swing".
DUDE?!?!
Some people act too entitled
I never knew that loosing your hair was painful. I spent years pulling out my hair(it was a stress/anxiety response to what was going on in my life) and it never really hurt. I never really knew that having your hair fall out could be painful in any aspect but then again my hair would constantly be cut because of the bald spots so for years I didn't have to struggle with tangled hair.
Losing your hair
I literally never got to choose what to wear until I was like 8 ish I think ,I also had outfits picked out for me so no she wasn't in the wrong they would hardly care what they were wearing tbh
I’d like to think that in the first story, the op was thinking more about safety. What if the SIL got hurt?
dude i LOOOVEEE swings. i'd be so upset!😅 anyway, 1 it was a gift and 2 the parent already said not to use it and it's their swing. that is enough.
Oh she paying for a new swing if it was me!!
I would damage something of hers then say oh it's just a whatever I broke.
Ugh if I was the girl with cancer I would have either not gone to the wedding or have gone to the wedding, threw the basket of flowers at Delaney then if I had the wig, I'd rip it off, give her a face, then run away crying
My kids could tell very good what they want to dress with 1,5. If we did dress them in something they did not like, they just did not work along with us or undress the minute we turned around. So I think the twins like it
the 3rd story, the girl (13) i feel so bad for, her cousin had no right to get mad at her like that, it's not the cousin's hair so she don't get a say in what happens with it.
10:20 WOW thats just plain rude. my mum had cancer three years ago, it was one of the toughest times, and if anyone had said anything about it that's not nice, I probably would have started crying. If I was having a wedding, and the flower girl got cancer, I would let her choose, what she wants to do, I wouldn't mind if she wore a wig, if she shaved her head and didn't wear a wig, just as long as she is comfy, and not self conscious. I wouldn't have gone to the wedding if that happened to me.
The first one makes me wanna just... **grabs chancla and hits phone aggressively**
1st Story: It's totally okay/fine for OP to be angry. Someone saved up money to buy them that nice gift because they (OP) rarely get nice gifts. OP's husband should be siding with OP instead of siding with OP's SIL (sister in law). OP told SIL what the weight limit was (even showed SIL the box) and told her not to sit in it. SIL sitting in it anyways and the item breaking/ripping as a result shows disrespect towards OP's property/possessions. It's SIL's own fault that she fell on her butt. It's also SIL's fault that the item broke. SIL should've compensated OP for damaging the item or at least apologized.
2nd Story: The husband's cousin shouldn't have complained. There is nothing wrong with the wife and husband having most of the shirts be a particular color for each of their kids.
3rd Story: It was wrong of Delaney to say those things to/act that way towards OP. OP can do what she wants with her hair. I agree with Kyutie (Ellen) that cancer is a lot for a teen to go through and that the girl didn't want to lose her hair.
The bride should be ashamed of herself my God I don't believe this 😢
I read the first one on the website called bored panda. That story made my blood boil. NTA.
i love the earrings! where are they from?
Hi Kyutie !! Since someone has told you that they were an old fan. I have been inspired to tell you also. I had an old account, but I can't log back into it since I forgot the password and stuff. But I used to watch your videos like right when you posted them, and I always left comments. I was named 'Aesthetic Names' But I'm not sure if you really remember. I don't expect you to since you have a bunch of viewers. But I would like you to know. And I hope you read this.
I walked on my own when I was 5 or 6 months old.
For the second story, no you were not wrong, that’s actually kinda smart
People kill me with the it's just a... whenever they tear something up that meant something to you. No it's not just a swing. That was her swing and she should have immediately offered to pay for her swing.
Imagine trying to tell a child with CANCER what to do with her hair
Why is life so weird 😫❤️❤️
I feel so bad for the first wife. The pathetic husband doesn't even get her any thing and he has the gull-!!!!!!
SECOND STORY, LMK WHERE DELOONY LIVES I CANNOT HOW DARE SHE HONESTLY
My Ma bought me T-shirts and sweatshirts in pink and purple from the mens depament.
Hold up 😂 I am a big girl (not as big as the women in the story) but you know better if your a big girl to not sit on that swing!!! Extremely disrespectful for her to do that!
How much you wanna be thar for the last story if OP would've left it the way before she shaved it, the bride would've still complained
The twins one 😭😭
I'm new at a kindergarten (I go to a caretaker school so it's like a not paying job in a sense) and we have these triplets. Two girls and a boy.
The two girls are identical, and the psrents keep dressing them to match, and it just confuses me, I never know which is which.
I know I shouldn't have, but I was so happy when one of them started wearing glasses cuz I could fineally tell them apart, but then 4 months later the other got glasses too and I'm back to sqare one 😂
..and as a new caretaker in the group, this sure is troublesome, so please, please do something so I can tell identical twins apart, sure it's not like life threatening, but I literally don't know which I'm talking to
Like the sister-in-law couldn't respect the person's rules and like she's lucky she didn't just kick her out cuz she could have and I probably would have done it after what happened and I would argue with like my husband saying like why are you on my side I'm right and like I told her not to sit on it but she still decided to and like if you're at where at anyone's house you should follow their rules that doesn't mean that you're going to agree with them but it means you should just do that to be respectful
LMFAO “i’m so .. quirky 😜”
Bruh I didn’t even pick what I wore to school till I was in like some where from 5-6th grade I don’t remember what grade I was In exactly but I’m fine my individuality was not affected