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  • @InnerEngineering-ix1rl
    @InnerEngineering-ix1rl 3 роки тому +46

    This is my dream wife 🤩 with the qualities you mentioned. After your lecture, I am enlightened to become a Iskon member. I am not joking but very serious. It's the right path for a stable society

    • @alexanderg8466
      @alexanderg8466 Рік тому

      Yeahh very utopic society.. in reality things are not white and black

  • @Rishabh-Dev
    @Rishabh-Dev 3 роки тому +21

    A relationship without affection is nothing but a deal.

  • @ParulSingh-ki6qx
    @ParulSingh-ki6qx 4 роки тому +41

    She looks like she is having so much kindness ( karuna) .so sweet lady.❤️

    • @aptituderec1120
      @aptituderec1120 4 роки тому +3

      Kindness to do u even that things have a limit she is saying if u r husband goes and sleeps if another woman don't complain
      If he beats u don't complain
      If u r in laws torture don't complain
      if u r neighbours bully u don't complain
      If u r husband takes u r money and use it for wrong purpose don't complain
      Basically a person who's brain is lost and if the person who is mentally retarded syas this kind of words
      I would really want her to ans this she gonna smile and not even complain if her husband cheats her

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 роки тому

      @Sanjana Roy Sometimes GOD Gives us many chances to get out of that situation....he helps us in many ways ...we need to trust God and follow what he is trying to guide us...Jai Shree Krishna 🙏🙏

    • @T.Ragnarok12977
      @T.Ragnarok12977 Рік тому

      @@aptituderec1120 abe sapne se bahar nikal aisa kahi nahi hota aur hota to to vo uss video pe naji hoti
      aur vaise bhi ye sab follow krne wali ko koi ise prblm hoti bhi nahi.. women triggers mae

  • @dhirajjadhav29
    @dhirajjadhav29 4 роки тому +63

    In this Kaliyuga, If some one got this kind wife .Then Every home become heaven .

    • @assumeformlessness2111
      @assumeformlessness2111 3 роки тому +5

      Kaliyug is over 9 years ago, this is transition phase

    • @theultrabasedputin9099
      @theultrabasedputin9099 3 роки тому +2

      Satya vachan

    • @monikabisht16
      @monikabisht16 3 роки тому +18

      It is possible only when you are able to change yourself .
      If she is housewife ,appreciate her.
      If she is working women ,help her with her household .
      Don't fully blame women .
      One can kind a good wife by changing their own thinking of not doing any household with her

    • @theultrabasedputin9099
      @theultrabasedputin9099 3 роки тому +9

      @@monikabisht16 I know people who do so and yet get insulted and cheated by their wives

    • @Ashish_Singh2595
      @Ashish_Singh2595 2 роки тому +4

      @@monikabisht16 the problem with guys and girls today is that they only want to get appreciated and understood by others but they don't want to appreciate and understand each other, egoistic and narcissistic qualities are taking over and you know who is to be blamed for this it's the Indian education system, bollywood nudity, islamic and western invaders who once attacked India and destroyed some of our Sanatan culture, ego, too much self centered love, lust, pornography and western media and western woke culture are the reason we are facing so many issues between Indian women and men. The social media made me so angry I started hating myself, humans and women because all that we see on media is propaganda which is sweet poison for every human, now that I understood about hatred is that it leads you to nowhere I am again on my path towards love for god, love for humanity, respect, love and care for women which I had for them before this social media came into existence.

  • @bc9629
    @bc9629 Рік тому +4

    A woman like this , will be the delight of every man ! Unfortunately I don't have this . But too the men who have women like this , treasure them .

  • @ankitarai3359
    @ankitarai3359 7 років тому +69

    Hare krishna ...so gracefully explained each and every single words are gems in grahastha jevan.. learned alot
    Thanks you so much Maa for sharing those gems..

    • @amrtamadhavidevidasi1781
      @amrtamadhavidevidasi1781 7 років тому +8

      ankita rai My pleasure dear to be of some service to you.. people so sweet like u will be loved not just by the spouse but everyone.

    • @amrtamadhavidevidasi1781
      @amrtamadhavidevidasi1781 7 років тому +4

      ankita rai also pls watch my vedios on how to save marriage and why marriages fail then it will be more clear.

  • @varshamilind4713
    @varshamilind4713 5 років тому +31

    I loved this video. ..today only I had argument with my husband. ..I. was surfing u tube & saw ur video,I just thought this is only for me..thank you very much for such a inspiring,motivating & positive vib..talk😊

  • @alexanderg8466
    @alexanderg8466 5 років тому +55

    I am not from India, but she is right.. Well done!! I wish the girls from my country are like her :c

    • @animeshgupta1444
      @animeshgupta1444 Рік тому

      Which country?

    • @alexanderg8466
      @alexanderg8466 Рік тому

      @@animeshgupta1444 I am from south america, I speak spanish.. However, this is an old comment. I kind of disagree with her now

    • @Pearluniverse11
      @Pearluniverse11 4 місяці тому

      @@alexanderg8466why?

  • @realbigmanoncampus
    @realbigmanoncampus 2 роки тому +6

    Hare Krishna. Such wonderful teachings if understood would make so many households live in peace and in Krishna consciousness.

  • @nrr5585
    @nrr5585 3 роки тому +12

    Can someone please answer my question, if a wife loves his unconditionally, respecting his family, talking sweetly and cooking with heart his favourite meals and smilies when he returns from work and in turn husband
    doesn’t respect her feelings, ignoring her never appreciates her cooking and whatever she does for him and does verbal abuse, domestic violence because that’s what the in laws taught him to do so , then what should a wife do and react to this as she is emotionally tortured??

    • @csinghK
      @csinghK 3 роки тому +3

      Wife should leave him. Krishna has taught to fight wrong even if they are your own people. Example Mahabharata

    • @monikabisht16
      @monikabisht16 3 роки тому +2

      File a complaint against him and wife should leave him .

    • @btsv7970
      @btsv7970 3 роки тому +1

      Vice versa ...if wife tortures too emotionally or physically , husband must file a divorce

    • @alokda6791
      @alokda6791 Рік тому +1

      If a wife do even 50% of what you have written in first part of your comment then it will never ever happen what you have written in second part of your comment.

    • @Aryavarta225
      @Aryavarta225 Рік тому +1

      Double him and give to the next person

  • @lizapradhan8055
    @lizapradhan8055 6 років тому +8

    Very nice 💖
    Thank you so much 😄
    Hare Krishna

  • @swatimishra697
    @swatimishra697 4 роки тому +10

    Thank you for such practical and easy to apply advice. Hare Krishna 🙏😊 love and respect are foundation of any relationship. But you have explained so nicely.

    • @aptituderec1120
      @aptituderec1120 4 роки тому +5

      Did u lose u r mind not even one advice given by her is not meaningful she is saying to make husband's climb the head and keep a smiling face when he comes home after being drunk u have something called has brain use it

    • @infinity_shows_149
      @infinity_shows_149 3 роки тому +1

      @@aptituderec1120 What’s the problem with you? Looks like you have a big fat ego. I hope you stay alone forever.😊

    • @T.Ragnarok12977
      @T.Ragnarok12977 Рік тому

      @@infinity_shows_149 shes have actually fat brain and belly💀

  • @kanikanankar
    @kanikanankar 10 місяців тому +1

    Hare krsna mtj.
    Thank you mtj. These are extremely wonderful teachings. 🙏 i will try to implement these in my life.

  • @rajeshwarijanwadkar9369
    @rajeshwarijanwadkar9369 7 років тому +4

    Thanks a lot . Such a great thought. Please make more such videos.

  • @bachelor843
    @bachelor843 6 років тому +11

    4:05-4:22 my wife always doing like that to me,you are absolutely right i feel the same thing when she talked to me like that,... Im in a struggling stage of my marriage life for almost a year,we have so much misunderstanding....i really don't know how to overcome it....

    • @amrtamadhavidevidasi1781
      @amrtamadhavidevidasi1781 5 років тому +5

      Sharing this video and duties of husband and then both of you promise to follow your duties. You start following your duties first. Then she will automatically follow her duties. All the best to you. Hare Krsna- Regards - Amrta Madhavi Devi dasi

    • @Mandakinimatada
      @Mandakinimatada 4 роки тому

      @@amrtamadhavidevidasi1781 you r so sweet mataji

    • @aishushobha8014
      @aishushobha8014 4 роки тому

      @@jineshrajan2036 (resharing mataji's comment) Sharing this video and duties of husband and then both of you promise to follow your duties. You start following your duties first. Then she will automatically follow her duties. All the best to you. Hare Krsna- Regards - Amrta Madhavi Devi dasi

  • @isha897
    @isha897 5 років тому +19

    Hare Krishna Mata ji. I love your point that the husband's are very nice by heart. My husband is a non- devotee, but still takes me to temple and festivals, he wishes good for people in general as well. But I sometimes get upset that he is not a devotee but then I have faith in Krishna that on day by Krishna's grace he will start devotion.

    • @aishushobha8014
      @aishushobha8014 4 роки тому +5

      yes, Maa your good karma will bless him, he is so caring , being a non-devotee he still take syou to temples, you keeo chanting Krishna-Radha Name, it will slowly show its magic on him too. :)

  • @0106py001056
    @0106py001056 6 років тому +24

    thank you mataji for showing us the proper path to be a good wife . these r the ways a working wife also can follow.

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 років тому +6

      We are happy that you liked our videos. keep watching.Hare Krsna

    • @AmanSingh-hd5dj
      @AmanSingh-hd5dj 4 роки тому +2

      @@hktv108 how to be a good daughter and sister 😇

  • @GoddessTMarie
    @GoddessTMarie 6 років тому +9

    🤣This is great!!/I love it!!

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 років тому +1

      Stay tuned to experience the bliss in holy name .Hare Krsna

  • @dipakpingale
    @dipakpingale 6 років тому +16

    Thank you so much mam. Whatever you explain us, it's really true and me & my wife try to use these things in our life.

  • @healedlife6286
    @healedlife6286 5 років тому +6

    So nicely explained ..tq Hare Krishna

    • @aptituderec1120
      @aptituderec1120 4 роки тому +1

      Yea so well that if a person follows it they are not gonna have brain it can make a person go crazy

    • @nikunshvaish6813
      @nikunshvaish6813 Рік тому

      ​@@aptituderec1120 are you mad abhi chutiya hai kya har kisi ka life ma ghus rahi hai jaka apna ma bapp ko seva kar tujhse kaha kya kisi na follow karna ko hutttttt bedbhi randi 😊

  • @VijayKumar-kz9rx
    @VijayKumar-kz9rx 7 років тому +21

    nice one , now a days we miss people like you mother and so there are divorce cases increasing.

  • @ashwanisoni2231
    @ashwanisoni2231 2 роки тому +1

    awesome explanation: Mata Ji you are absolutely right and I'm experiencing everything opposite to what's said in this video.

  • @My-Foodie_S
    @My-Foodie_S 3 роки тому +21

    That's why many parents don't educate girls...teach them how to keep ur husband happy , seek his attention by cooking and all...dedicate ur whole life for ur husband bcz he is provider for u...All the best girls...just I will say...u have only one life use it for great purpose bcz womens are great creature of God...use ur potential for some great purpose...and if u get someone like u...definitely make him ur partner and not owner...by the way do as u wish its ur life at the end...Jai Shree Krishna🙏🙏

    • @yesiamabnormal
      @yesiamabnormal 2 роки тому +2

      🧐

    • @AbhiramN_1289
      @AbhiramN_1289 Рік тому

      Education is important regardless of gender. Have you seen the fools that think Africa is a country or can’t do algebra even if their livelihoods depend on it.

    • @Yeshuaismygod7
      @Yeshuaismygod7 4 місяці тому

      Poor Western society full of broken homes miserable husband and wife relationship and sad lost children, drugs and alcohol and all kinds of problems, if only the wives knew how much power they have to make society happy or miserable just by making their own house a safe heaven of peace and happiness...western people are running to eastern cultures for help, but eastern young people wanting to copy everything western culture is doing...

    • @Yeshuaismygod7
      @Yeshuaismygod7 2 місяці тому

      Poor Western society full of broken homes miserable husband and wife relationship and sad lost children, drugs and alcohol and all kinds of problems, if only the wives knew how much power they have to make society happy or miserable just by making their own house a safe heaven of peace and happiness...western people are running to eastern cultures for help, but eastern young people wanting to copy everything western culture is doing...

    • @vini8123
      @vini8123 Місяць тому

      Sorry, we don’t believe in false one life abhrahmic stupidity. We should function basis intellect not whims for mind and senses. Hare Krishna 🙏

  • @hemantgoyal20
    @hemantgoyal20 5 років тому +6

    Very thoughtful videos mataji. Very inspiring.. can you translate the same in hindi or start making videos in hindi too related to grihasthashram practices

  • @mitanjalipradhan9826
    @mitanjalipradhan9826 3 роки тому +3

    Hare Krishna, jai srila prabhupada, very sweet voice mataji

  • @vinodhinir5593
    @vinodhinir5593 5 років тому +7

    Hare Krishna mataji dandavat pranam
    Very nice lecture but if in-laws are not devotee (KC) then what should do either we should follow the in-laws rituals ??

  • @evaarenas9272
    @evaarenas9272 7 років тому +10

    Tell more of home duties and more of the job with the children

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  7 років тому +1

      Thank you for watching .Plz follow this link .Hare Krsna
      ua-cam.com/video/Dm_jw5c5LIA/v-deo.html

  • @chandandubey9670
    @chandandubey9670 6 років тому +9

    Mataji i bow my head in front of u ..for giving scripture lesson to this modern generation. I m heartly thankful to u.make a lecture on shrimati sitaji maharani and anushuiya mataji's conversation.

  • @kanchitadutta360
    @kanchitadutta360 4 роки тому +2

    Very nice gyan Mataji. Dandwat pranam.

  • @monalisadash6112
    @monalisadash6112 4 роки тому +8

    Mataji what to do or how to react when husband torture his wife.....

    • @subhrodiprakshit8923
      @subhrodiprakshit8923 3 роки тому +4

      If that is there... Then it is not a husband.. Please don't call him husban.. Rather a demon who beats his companion and torture her...... The dharma and Shastras taught us all to leave that demon and hee need proper treatment behind the bars..

    • @assumeformlessness2111
      @assumeformlessness2111 3 роки тому +2

      Your husband is torturing you? Or you just asked a generic question?

    • @monalisadash6112
      @monalisadash6112 3 роки тому +2

      @@assumeformlessness2111 No no the couple are one of my relatives,my uncle....actually the husband is not bad, just his attitude is like this or the sacraments are like that he is very short tempered and split all of his anger on his wife and when the wife start objection then she gonna beaten up..if wife does not objecting then that's completely fine

    • @monalisadash6112
      @monalisadash6112 3 роки тому +1

      @@subhrodiprakshit8923 but she can't leave because of her daughter and also she is not selfdepend....she is very helpless and hopeless

    • @privacy8239
      @privacy8239 3 роки тому +1

      @@monalisadash6112 They should go for some marriage counseling and the husband needs to be taught to change. If he does not then wife and daughter should leave. Such a man who beats his wife is a bad man.

  • @Raghs14
    @Raghs14 6 років тому +11

    Thank you Amrutha ji for sharing. Wish such education are given in school and colleges as mandatory curriculum. We can save lot of family and kids future.

  • @vishakhanilawar821
    @vishakhanilawar821 7 років тому +10

    Thank you so much Mataji...
    wonderful video

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  7 років тому +2

      Thank you for watching .Hare krsna

  • @sakshinbhutani
    @sakshinbhutani 3 роки тому +13

    I think these days women are also provider, and why should they develop same taste, glorify man unnecessarily. Why not keep simple, live like friends, enjoy and cherish each other. If women doesn’t like the house etc, convey politely. Respect without compromising self respect. Become independent. Help him live with a partner and not a maid.
    Everyone has a stomach, lets both cook. Share the burden. In comments men have written that how can women these days demand men to cook along with office. Men expect the same. Mam I request everyone to respect each other and celebrate companionship.
    Live and let live.

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 роки тому +1

      💯👍👍👍

    • @infinity_shows_149
      @infinity_shows_149 3 роки тому +6

      A homemaker wife’s contribution will always be honoured and respected by people, no matter how much you people try to degrade her.😊

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 роки тому +6

      @@infinity_shows_149 Bt Practically it is not happening....if housewives are respected then it will be well and good...bt nowadays it was not happening....u can see news for ur better knowledge....bcz of men dominate society....women need to change and men should support her...bt many men cannot digest it😅 at the end its there ego....totally understand buddy

    • @nikunshvaish6813
      @nikunshvaish6813 Рік тому +1

      ​@@My-Foodie_S keep your opinion with you every body have different expectations

    • @Aryavarta225
      @Aryavarta225 Рік тому +1

      ​@@nikunshvaish6813 brother I think islamic women are the best.they are real women .

  • @My-bx8vk
    @My-bx8vk 6 років тому +2

    awesome advice...thanks a ton mataji...👌👌👌👌👌👌👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @priyaamsrs618
    @priyaamsrs618 6 років тому +3

    Very nice video mataji. Thank u so much.

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 років тому

      Thankyou for spending time with us. Hare krishna

  • @vritibarai3860
    @vritibarai3860 11 місяців тому +2

    Why these injustice in marriage for women that she is the only who has to leave her parents and her comfort and stay at in law's house..
    Why is she is forced to do household work cleaning and all and not husband.
    Y after marriage she has to serve her inlaws - a full time maid to their house
    and all these are not 1 day task its for lifetime and after all these injustice and then be nice and softspoken
    this is exact life of a Gulaam

    • @Utkarsh_Kumar215
      @Utkarsh_Kumar215 2 місяці тому

      Correct. It seems such wives are Just living suppressed life. They don't have their own life n this saddening

  • @vidb8554
    @vidb8554 6 років тому +16

    a very nice video.
    i am so glad as so many females were shared their comments in positive.
    i am touched. thank u all.
    Hare Krishna

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 років тому +1

      Thank you, Plz stay tuned for more devotional melodies.Hare Krsna.

  • @dt3132
    @dt3132 3 роки тому +3

    This video gets better and better as it goes along. Really good stuff

  • @minaxiswaminarayan800
    @minaxiswaminarayan800 3 місяці тому

    माताजी, आपकी अधिकतर टीप्स सिफॅ घरेलू महिलाओ के लिए ही है।

  • @preeyagoyal5786
    @preeyagoyal5786 5 років тому +7

    Very true Mata ji🙏🙏🙏

  • @indubhan9745
    @indubhan9745 3 роки тому +2

    Hare Krishna Mata Ji 🙏🙏
    If husband and in-laws are totally opposite ( they don't follow rituals, they are not devotees, they make home messy and then say it's ok, they create problem in our bhakti) then what should we do

  • @999999preeti
    @999999preeti 7 років тому +5

    very nice lecture Mataji..pamho

  • @mr.noodleclown9420
    @mr.noodleclown9420 Рік тому +1

    Hare Krsna Mathaji... My wife dont cook at all at home, and whenever I'm back from work, first thing will happen is, she will go inside her room and closed the door, like telling me indirectly that it is my turn to take care of our Child., I've even have a conversation with her regarding this matter but ended up with fight. Almost every day this same thing happening, and i seek for my mother in law help, she said that might be of my past life karma, instead of talk to my wife to do her responsibility.So Sad.

  • @maakehaathonse7980
    @maakehaathonse7980 2 роки тому +2

    Kya patni ka ashirbaad lena koi paap hai?

  • @priyaamsrs618
    @priyaamsrs618 6 років тому +4

    I have one question mataji. If in laws behavior and his thinking is not correct then what will do mataji. Plz reply to this question mataji.

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 років тому

      It generation gap we need to adjust we with them.

  • @SanPot123
    @SanPot123 Рік тому +2

    My wife is exactly opposite of what she says 😢..always complaining, quarelling, fighting...

    • @thomas_m3092
      @thomas_m3092 2 місяці тому

      Get a lawyer and divorce her.

  • @DEEPJYOTICHAUDHURI
    @DEEPJYOTICHAUDHURI 25 днів тому

    I am searching for a similar discourse with legal basis by an advocate specializing in family laws. Please recommend any video if one such exists

  • @ravitalveda
    @ravitalveda 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you mataji, All glories to you _/\_

  • @purvisoni758
    @purvisoni758 3 роки тому +15

    If you want a good wife first learn to be a good husband, it is not always the duty of wife , because of women like her, men think they are superior in every sense

    • @dimpibaruah7399
      @dimpibaruah7399 3 роки тому +1

      Totally agree with u sister

    • @ankurmehta550
      @ankurmehta550 3 роки тому +5

      Totally disagree with you sister..... and I would request you not to have such attitude..... saying in good spirit please don't take otherwise....

    • @subdas4215
      @subdas4215 2 роки тому +3

      I think u will never be a good wife with such wrong attitude in you .. U will not make a good family thank u

    • @AbhiramN_1289
      @AbhiramN_1289 Рік тому +1

      It is supposed to go both ways.
      Manusmriti 9.22
      “When a woman is united in one form with a man possessed of certain qualities, she becomes herself endowed with similar qualities,-like a river united with the ocean”
      Medhatithi clarifies:
      “If a man wishes to guard his wife, he should guard himself also against evil habits; and it is not the woman that should preserve her chastity. Since if the man has a bad character, his wife also becomes the same; just as the wife of a man possessed of good character becomes good. For instance the river, though herself sweet-watered, becomes saline like the Ocean, when she joins this latter.“

  • @prettielashes
    @prettielashes 3 роки тому +3

    Question: are you suggesting a wife to do these things and still work?

  • @vidb8554
    @vidb8554 6 років тому +11

    a very nice vid. thanks....my respect n gratitude to u....ur husband must b a lucky one...Hare Krishna

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 років тому

      We are happy that you liked our videos. keep watching.Hare Krsna

  • @jagamohansahani2555
    @jagamohansahani2555 7 років тому +10

    Thank u mataji hare Krishna

  • @tani6462
    @tani6462 7 років тому +3

    Hare Krishna Mataji,
    i love to hear you.Your videos are very nice and gives me immense pleasure.Mataji, i have a question for you. My husband and i are married for 8 years now and sadly we are not blessed with babies.Can we adopt? I am very eagerly waiting for someone to call me maa. Sometimes i think it might be lord's wish.Is this our past karma that we are not blessed with baby?
    Thank you Mataji.
    Hare Krishna.

  • @miryalaharish6636
    @miryalaharish6636 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Mathaji, i will explain to my wife. Small doubt my wife and my mother both do pooja and rituals daily to Renuka Matha (Yellamma/ lord parashuram mother.) but i will not shown much interest to their rituals... So, on this we both get little clashes.. How to deal at this time.

  • @neha14
    @neha14 7 років тому +22

    I wish if you could make video what working(9 hrs office) wife could do..as we dont have any detail in our scriptures for working wives.. I think time was way different :)

    • @hansrajshinde9613
      @hansrajshinde9613 6 років тому

      Hi neha!

    • @angelforfreedom
      @angelforfreedom 6 років тому

      For pertaining to duties of females and males during our current period of Kali Yuga, our Tantra Shastras have ample edicts for purposeful living within these modern times. Hope that helps.
      Hari Aum.

    • @tesdiva9401
      @tesdiva9401 6 років тому +2

      Tell me about it!

    • @amrtamadhavidevidasi1781
      @amrtamadhavidevidasi1781 6 років тому +1

      Good point. Work adds to stress in a responsible wife and mom. But if it is inevitable then.. let her ADD GOD(Krsna) to her schedule daily by chanting Daily. Secondly it is very essential for a working lady to hear Srimad Bhagavatam daily while doing household chores. The more she practices values picked from Srimad Bhagavatam the more she will transform in her consciousness and her behavior and personality as a whole. Then.. when her personality becomes as expected by Krsna then she will be able to follow whatever is told in the video for duties of women as well.

    • @The_Pradhan_The_Headstrong
      @The_Pradhan_The_Headstrong 4 роки тому +1

      If there is a will , then there is a way. If you want to be happy in marrital life then you have to do something for them . I think , Cooking should be done by wife . Keep smiling .

  • @priyaamsrs618
    @priyaamsrs618 6 років тому +3

    I have one question mataji. If in laws behavior and his thinking is not correct then what will do mataji.

    • @shikhakhindri7678
      @shikhakhindri7678 6 років тому +2

      Nothing you can do.. get away from these people and chant Hari naam.

  • @MuraliManoharGupta09
    @MuraliManoharGupta09 5 років тому +2

    Kindly make a video in Hindi medium wife of role after marriage. Thanks

  • @narayanpatil7181
    @narayanpatil7181 4 роки тому +5

    Mam but what about our Happiness...we do every possible think that they want... But then also they don't have much value of all that things we do for them..😞they literally forget what kind of effect we have put for there family or for there children...

    • @aptituderec1120
      @aptituderec1120 4 роки тому +5

      That's don't listen to her she is a criminal let's report her she is saying to keep a smiling face and behaviour all teh time so that the husband will won't do anything for you becoz u r happy even if he is beating without u r mistake, and even if he sells the wife even then be sweet which means basically to remove brain from women body

    • @subhrodiprakshit8923
      @subhrodiprakshit8923 3 роки тому +2

      Yes in that case you are talking a reality and not as a femininst... I understand your emotional condition and concerns.. Yes then know the answer also---
      Yes our dharma does not teach only women about there responsibilities or duties.... Rather also there are very strict teachings for men as well as husband from childhood for there marital life.. And they have to folle it if we are talking about a dharmik bondage.... Whre are love and cute fightings.. 😍😍😍😍😍😍

    • @aditshukla
      @aditshukla 3 роки тому

      @@aptituderec1120 cool down, cool down😅

    • @priyankaraina969
      @priyankaraina969 3 роки тому +1

      This aunty belongs to 1940s...

    • @nikunshvaish6813
      @nikunshvaish6813 Рік тому

      ​@@priyankaraina969 oh so you belong to do called 2022 I don't no and is wish the women like you should no get marry to any body and be independent and live with your parents dont go to someone home and ruin jhis life

  • @cricbeebuzz3438
    @cricbeebuzz3438 3 роки тому +16

    Women empowerment has played a huge role in breaking families and creating disturbance between husbands and wives.

    • @nonenone2647
      @nonenone2647 3 роки тому +14

      How does that related to women empowerment??? 🙄🙄🙄 Bcz of you country is lacking in women empowerment

    • @assumeformlessness2111
      @assumeformlessness2111 3 роки тому +2

      @@nonenone2647 moron

    • @nonenone2647
      @nonenone2647 3 роки тому +4

      @@assumeformlessness2111 double moron

    • @assumeformlessness2111
      @assumeformlessness2111 3 роки тому +6

      @@nonenone2647 Feminism is an globalist agenda to break the basic structure of families

    • @nonenone2647
      @nonenone2647 3 роки тому +15

      @@assumeformlessness2111 male chuvinism is agenda to spoil or put down women

  • @wanted9927
    @wanted9927 5 років тому +5

    English is 100 percent

  • @jesh26197
    @jesh26197 Рік тому +2

    This is so fucked up! You have to glorify him, and how he treats you? Like a servant

  • @TSNR
    @TSNR 7 років тому +5

    Very true

  • @csinghK
    @csinghK 3 роки тому +3

    Hey Krishna I know You are listening and thinking when I gave these teachings?
    Are we talking about duties of a wife or a tamed animal.
    The same pandavas whom Draupadi kept happy bet her dignity in the world's worst gamble of the all yugs. Krishna saved her. Only he could.
    This is kalyuga.
    In kaliyuga people totally forgot that we are here to fulfill the purpose of our aatma/soul.
    Keep your aatma calm. Seek the truth even if it's bitter. See the good as good and bad as bad. Aatma always knows who is good.who is bad and aatma is not your desires.

  • @vardayanishukla5178
    @vardayanishukla5178 2 роки тому

    Hare Krishna mataji dandwat pranam....i will definitely try to apply it.

  • @tesdiva9401
    @tesdiva9401 6 років тому +13

    So it is all about putting up a show. Acting the way he likes, and never being yourself. I am fed up with this shit!

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 роки тому +1

      💯 agree

    • @pg18099
      @pg18099 8 місяців тому

      Haha shit!
      This is the kind of language we are learning from our western overlord?
      When this kind of thinking props up, what you wrote, that's when the heavenly home starts breaking and this is happening in western society and even in India to some extent.

  • @hemangidasi4482
    @hemangidasi4482 4 роки тому +5

    If husband (devotee with second iniciation), public person, not chanting, not practise spiritual life (we live in Holy Dham), ignores wife, talking only when he has "mood", if I want to talk, he always close the door, always, other devotees also same thing saying, that he just doesn't want to listen, he always thinks that he is correct, and all others are mistaken, he abuses (same as all gents of his family, his father, his brothers to their wifes)... I cooking as he likes, all different items from not only Indian kitchen, and likes it very much, I'm looking nicely, talking nicely, at-least, all around people saying that, nicely taking care of our daughter... And he always saying you are bad wife, bad mother, insulting in different ways with many words which I'm not using in my language at all, how after such behaviour from his side I can, I have to talk more sweetly to him etc.??? Everything what you sad is correct, it's very nice, but husband also can do same good and nice things towards wife and daughter!!! Or marriage means only one way street, without any willings, wishes, feelings from wife's side??? If I trying to best from my side (during last 10 years), I accept so many "tapasya", inconveniences, never asking so much from him, just accept and being happy with what he gave... and he is continuing to be rude, uncultured, ignores, he is not changing even if doing my best service to deities, to him and our daughter... How talk to such husband???

    • @hemangidasi4482
      @hemangidasi4482 4 роки тому +1

      And also he always criticising, always still unhappy, always too much concentrating if I do some small mistake, but he never sees when do mistakes, any small thing making him talking about divorce, I don't accept idea of divorce at all, before God, before society, before deities we are husband and wife, and he always trying to skip it

    • @aptituderec1120
      @aptituderec1120 4 роки тому +3

      Just give him divorce lady believe me u will find someone better peace of mind is imp and if that is not their then what's the use and Don't listen to this old bitch becoz she is literally lost her brain and she is saying awife should never complain even if her husband is gonna kill her

    • @aptituderec1120
      @aptituderec1120 4 роки тому +5

      U also say that u will give him divorce first live a life of u e dreams live independently and make u r identity do the things that u always wanted to do help u r self becoz no one can help until u will help ur self from what u wrote it is concluding that u r husband doesn't needs u he won't respect u obviously becoz u don't have boldness u don't have courage start u r life again and listen to u r heart and even think with brain don't think what others will say it doesn't matter at end of the day their are many successful women in this world who have been divorced and they made their identity and are well respected

    • @subhrodiprakshit8923
      @subhrodiprakshit8923 3 роки тому +1

      @@aptituderec1120 lol feminazi

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 роки тому +2

      @@aptituderec1120 💯 Agree sister....I had done all this things with my husband...still he insults me or make joke of my education, my family....he only listen to his mother....everything thing...he has controlled me so much that I can't even talk to my parents in calls....He has no time for me...don't talk to me for many days ....busy in his mobile..watching movies or playing games.....I had given him divorce.....now I am an independent women....More Happy then previous toxic shit with that immatured Mamma's boy...

  • @janvika9
    @janvika9 Рік тому +2

    And what if Husband never shows affection or attention to his own wife? And married her for his own gain? Is it selfish of the wife to not go out of her way in this way to make him feel loved and cared for when he doesn't do the same for her? Hare Krishna 🙏

  • @tapas..6936
    @tapas..6936 7 років тому +5

    Hare Krishna, if women thinks in this way then it will become sattya yuga (not kali yuga). Very nicely explained grihastha ashram. Thank you mata for your explanation

  • @bharathkashyap4435
    @bharathkashyap4435 Рік тому +1

    Me and my wife are trying to go for a divorce. But I want to give one last chance to her for sake of my son. Can you counsel her?

  • @tarunjaiswal260
    @tarunjaiswal260 Рік тому

    i think these learnings are so important,that it should be taught @college levels instead of all these kachra that's being taught in education system.

  • @roopsarun
    @roopsarun 2 місяці тому

    Appreciate you matajii but what if husband betrays wife

  • @MN-ej6gp
    @MN-ej6gp 5 років тому +16

    We need to be an emotionless human and be a robot.

    • @aptituderec1120
      @aptituderec1120 4 роки тому +4

      Yea with no brain

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 роки тому +5

      Ya thats wat she is saying 😊

    • @subhrodiprakshit8923
      @subhrodiprakshit8923 3 роки тому

      @@My-Foodie_S No lady.. That's not what is she saying.... View her other vedio on husband's cuties.....
      ua-cam.com/video/0QjBGJ2T3LA/v-deo.html
      Don't judge by half knowing....

    • @subhrodiprakshit8923
      @subhrodiprakshit8923 3 роки тому

      Everyone in this post modern world is just emotionless materialistic egoistic depressed human robot.. Nothing else,. That's not new...
      She is saying something for better advancem with relationship management as per masculine and feminine with spiritual guidance.....
      She has also on husbands
      .. ua-cam.com/video/0QjBGJ2T3LA/v-deo.html

    • @subhrodiprakshit8923
      @subhrodiprakshit8923 3 роки тому

      @@aptituderec1120 have you brain?
      Are you sure?
      But it don't seems to be...
      Hearing this vedio do you Think that is the moral? Oh no!
      Even so called western gender war making, equality crying, feminist crying societies Nd generations are more emotionless, selfish, depressed, suffering from. Identity crisis, and robot like materialism sufferers.... Why should we copy them?

  • @cricbeebuzz3438
    @cricbeebuzz3438 3 роки тому +8

    Nowadays it is just the opposite.. Wives talk rudely with their husbands, repeated arguments, back answering and quarrels. They want husbands to cook and do all the house hold work and take care of children along with his job or office work.
    They criticise him in all aspects and think that their life had become a hell after marriage. (Even though their husbands give 100% dedication, sacrifice, loyalty and commitment to make wives and children happy)

    • @aasthathakurathi274
      @aasthathakurathi274 3 роки тому +9

      Household chores are not only a woman's business ... nowadays both husband and wife works outside...so both should do equally.
      ....if u will quarrel at ur wife then what by expect she should stand with a smiling face like an abla nari ....

    • @shreeshiva9421
      @shreeshiva9421 Рік тому +2

      ​@@aasthathakurathi274 : the quarrel part u r talking about is mostly started by females 🙄 who are not abla naari anymore. Nice how u criticised but u again played ur victim and woman card

    • @T.Ragnarok12977
      @T.Ragnarok12977 Рік тому

      @@aasthathakurathi274 wtf men can nver do household chores its not our nature.. why do u expect us for that? u ppl are reason hindu boys are loosing interest in dindu girls the so called independents who dont want to work in home in her home but to become sl^ve in corporate
      gilrs like u will become mother how would u give sankaras to yourchild? its mothers duty child is attached to her mother more than father.. what willu do to have so much money if your child will have less affection for u iin future coz u r not withh him her but being sl^ve and left himm her with rented stinky nannies? wtf girls think deeper pls

  • @Nutan854
    @Nutan854 4 роки тому +19

    Actually chankya PANDIT was very strict about women's duty.he wanted to make women slaves of man.there r many man who can tolerate his wife's voice.srila Prabhupada left his wife because she was not soft spoken. What a rascal philosophy. Both r equal and should treat everyone equally.

    • @shreehari2681
      @shreehari2681 4 роки тому +5

      What about sex ?
      They Say That is Done For Only Child
      But Husband Want - Not For child

    • @swatimishra697
      @swatimishra697 4 роки тому +8

      Wish what you said was true. Vedas and scriptures are ocean of practical knowledge that can be applied in professional or personal life. Women have a very important and powerful role to play in Grihast life.
      Husband and wife both have equal importance in family life. Unless u start comparing your wife to Bollywood heroine and men to Bollywood hero. Which is laughable.

    • @swatimishra697
      @swatimishra697 4 роки тому

      @@shreehari2681 Become a hare Krishna couple and do things right then.

    • @Nutan854
      @Nutan854 4 роки тому +7

      @@swatimishra697 I too like Vedas. Every day I read bhagwat geeta,but u just read once about the conditions of women in history.many women reformers wrote how they were forced to work at home and they were not getting any respect for that.womens were considered as slaves of man.if wife dies man marry another women,if husband dies women were suppose to were white saree.Women were not allowed to marry men if she become widow but men can easily marry dozens of wife after death of one wife. Would u like to justify it?

    • @Nutan854
      @Nutan854 4 роки тому +1

      @@swatimishra697 CHANAKYA PANDIT said women can never become pure by fasting, chanting, worshipping but they become pure by drinking feet washed water of her husband.do u agree sister??? This statement is right.u can Google it if u doubt.

  • @pulkitgoyal8685
    @pulkitgoyal8685 3 роки тому +2

    As a wife or girl can they work outside?

    • @assumeformlessness2111
      @assumeformlessness2111 3 роки тому +2

      The problem is if they work outside they won't get enough time for taking care of kids and Home, kids needs their mothers

    • @T.Ragnarok12977
      @T.Ragnarok12977 Рік тому

      never leave her and marrya good girl

    • @RimaDesu00
      @RimaDesu00 6 місяців тому

      Lol they need father more than their mother ​@@assumeformlessness2111

  • @ronniesingh5424
    @ronniesingh5424 4 роки тому +6

    Hare Krishna Very true I am 24 and will only marry a girl who have these characters in them

    • @assumeformlessness2111
      @assumeformlessness2111 3 роки тому

      Got her yet ?

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 роки тому +7

      Marry a girl for companionship and not for maid

    • @nikunshvaish6813
      @nikunshvaish6813 Рік тому

      ​@@My-Foodie_S don't need your opinion it's his life his wish

    • @RimaDesu00
      @RimaDesu00 6 місяців тому

      ​@@nikunshvaish6813 lol then no one will marry him cause no girl wants to be a maid in their own house

  • @kk-ct4dl
    @kk-ct4dl 7 років тому +2

    Nice speech

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  7 років тому

      Thank you for watching .Hare krsna

  • @aasthathakurathi274
    @aasthathakurathi274 3 роки тому +17

    What is the of this.....now men and women both are working outside .....a man wanta a working lady ....and expect her to cook take care of everyone tolerate family members with a smile and she should never show anger even if she feels so.....do everything according to husband and in laws....this is the essence of woman??? really??where is her individual personality.... because of this type of mentality and influence a woman has to burry her own soul for others....

    • @subhrodiprakshit8923
      @subhrodiprakshit8923 3 роки тому +3

      Who is not even hurrying her ot himself for all? Everyone is doing that in some ways and no one can escape that.... So call individualists are also doing that....
      She is talking and saying in this vedio not only just according yo shaastras. But also as per realities of there world.... And to maintain a more balanced or healthy family life...
      Don't underestimate tha power of mother or women.. Their essential part is important and essence is very important for all as they are capable of mult tasking management ability in general...
      That the power of making and dont overlook or underestimate the power of maker of us.... The family... A smile has much potential or even just a hug can dilute manu situations as per need.....
      Men and women are companions and so aren't competitors to quarrel regarding duties..... They are unique thats why fullfill each other.... They are different in nature and formings.. Different mindset. That effects upon their special roles or qualities in some points to make... That's the essence... Women are our first teacher also as mothers.... S
      We should no forget that... Who influence and give morals and teachings from first time of life....
      Cooking or taking some special care doesn't make you under rather it is power of management that feminine can handle to build or manage a family along with other duties done by husbands....
      It is not according to your husband or in laws....
      It is according to need situation and management ... A women in family is greater in making power... In some special cases... Thats not ignoring individual personality.. Rather living collectively with individual performance.... That's is all about making and building together by performing duties and responsibilities as per male female nature and special roles.if needed....
      Personality is not living alone with ego it id about living collectively and maKing upby management

    • @nikunshvaish6813
      @nikunshvaish6813 Рік тому +2

      So why these types of want to do marriage just avoid marriage and stay with your parents

    • @T.Ragnarok12977
      @T.Ragnarok12977 Рік тому

      u r a independent p^mp who is never loved by anybody and never should be.. u p^mps just do socalled job or sl^very of corporate world which results u to have a lot tension due to work load of job.. a job which is just opposite of nature of women. So yeah u couldnt understoood this.

    • @pg18099
      @pg18099 8 місяців тому

      ​​@@nikunshvaish6813
      If you can live for the entirety of life that way, good for you.
      But after 40's and 50's when people are alone, a deep urge to be with some1 hits them.
      Then they repent, when I had the time, why did I do all the tantrums or could have made some adjustments and be with someone and happier in old age.

  • @wanted9927
    @wanted9927 5 років тому +3

    Very cool cool

  • @bhavyasuman5884
    @bhavyasuman5884 6 місяців тому +1

    So it's mean ki husband ka gulami Karo right?????

  • @glatreg9060
    @glatreg9060 2 роки тому

    Is there hindi version of this video

  • @prakashkamadhenu4734
    @prakashkamadhenu4734 6 років тому +6

    If any woman want to be happy in this life then one is to follow the scriptures as mataji mentioned but this is 99.99% hard to accept nowadays. If it is difficult to accept the scripture at least one could follow their grandmothers footsteps then some what may be happy by this if one want to be happy completely then following scripture is must otherwise it is simply waste of time in fighting for equality and there will be suffering throughout the life.

    • @The_Pradhan_The_Headstrong
      @The_Pradhan_The_Headstrong 4 роки тому

      Ya bro

    • @swatimishra697
      @swatimishra697 4 роки тому +4

      True, it's difficult to find Krishna conscious boys who live life by vedic principles and families too. The decline of Indian men is very evident in the type of films, serials and available in Indian media sadly. Hare Krishna women have to be very conscious as choice is minimal.

  • @amishaverma6283
    @amishaverma6283 6 років тому +1

    Mataji plzzz i want to contact you

  • @My-Foodie_S
    @My-Foodie_S 3 роки тому +14

    Wife is not mom to his husband...nowadays women also becoming financially independent....they want bestfriend for lifetime...and not someone to whom she requires to please all time....be real to each other ....accept flaws and support to achieve purpose of life together.....Life is not all about ur partner....women nowadays also taking responsibilities of there Parents...and they require partner.. who also understand and support her 😊.... Its My view....If u are not agree thats totally fine..😊 Hare Krishna🙏🙏

    • @shakyajitmaulik5579
      @shakyajitmaulik5579 3 роки тому +2

      Husband IS Wife's best friend and so is the wife Husband's bff.
      “The wife is a man's better half. The wife is the *foremost* of *friends* . The wife is the root of dharma, profit, and desire. The wife is the root of salvation. They that have wives can perform religious acts”. (MBH 01: LXXIV)

    • @shakyajitmaulik5579
      @shakyajitmaulik5579 3 роки тому +3

      Now if wife wants other best friends then fine 🙂

    • @infinity_shows_149
      @infinity_shows_149 3 роки тому +3

      Keep fighting sister. I hope you stay alone forever..😊

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 роки тому +6

      @@infinity_shows_149 Nobody is fighting dear...😄...Do Whatever you want ..its your life...I have just share my opinion, may be u disagree...and thats totally fine...and I hope for u ...that u will do wat she is saying to please ur husband for WHOLE LIFE..😅😅 ..My Blessings with u🙌...😘

    • @My-Foodie_S
      @My-Foodie_S 3 роки тому +4

      @@shakyajitmaulik5579 u definetly don't understand What I have tried to said...but thats fine🙂

  • @ranjanmahapatra2119
    @ranjanmahapatra2119 6 років тому +1

    So nice learning

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 років тому

      Hare Krsna !!Thank you for appreciating our kind efforts.

  • @andanini
    @andanini 3 роки тому +3

    i love my wife especialy when she is honry

  • @spiritualsense3978
    @spiritualsense3978 6 років тому +4

    Can you publish something on the role of husband's family?

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 років тому

      plz click the following link
      ua-cam.com/video/h1Y6yCmbg0c/v-deo.html

  • @dnrajguru9527
    @dnrajguru9527 7 років тому

    Hare Krishna mata ji. i want to talk to you. how can i contact u?

  • @havishashah9521
    @havishashah9521 7 років тому +1

    Hare Krishna. ..Mataji....Very Nice ans Useful Speech

  • @swatidwivedi2272
    @swatidwivedi2272 6 років тому +3

    Thanks

  • @priyankamandlik2124
    @priyankamandlik2124 5 років тому +1

    Very nice

  • @manjitachari1071
    @manjitachari1071 7 років тому +14

    What if husband is abusing the wife?.. if he doesn't know to respect a person?.. if he follows wrong path?.. shd we still keep quiet?

    • @Joysandhopeswithekta
      @Joysandhopeswithekta 7 років тому +8

      Manjita Chari call police take ur stand:) according to krishna papi se bada papi paap sehna vala h

    • @juancortez120
      @juancortez120 6 років тому

      that is not loving yourself

    • @shikhakhindri7678
      @shikhakhindri7678 6 років тому +2

      There is no cure to sick minded people.

    • @The_Pradhan_The_Headstrong
      @The_Pradhan_The_Headstrong 4 роки тому +1

      Call the police . 😓 Some sick minded people are there . But there no. Is very less.
      I don't understand how anybody beat his better half . In my whole life I didn't see such incidents . Only I heard about it through crime petrol , savdhan India.

  • @krishnanamamrita5521
    @krishnanamamrita5521 7 років тому +2

    very nice explanation mataji
    thank you

  • @Vaishnava_Vlogs
    @Vaishnava_Vlogs 3 місяці тому

    Hare Krishna, i dont want to get married anymore 😢

  • @gayatri0986
    @gayatri0986 Місяць тому

    Only wife should speak sweetly...what about husbands ...if husbands are heroes wives are heroines...Both are equal 50..50...We should also get equal treatment ..what they expect from us same we should also get in return ....Some points I agree not all whatever told in video Jai Shri Krishna

  • @priyaamsrs618
    @priyaamsrs618 6 років тому

    Ok mataji. Hare Krishna.

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 років тому

      Holy name is like nectar ..Experience the bliss .Hare krsna

  • @priyaamsrs618
    @priyaamsrs618 6 років тому

    Thank u mataji. Hare Krishna.

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 років тому

      Thank you for your kind appreciation.We will come soon with more exciting videos.Stay tuned.Hare Krsna

  • @priyaamsrs618
    @priyaamsrs618 6 років тому +1

    Hare Krishna mataji.

    • @hktv108
      @hktv108  6 років тому

      Holy name is like nectar ..Experience the bliss .Hare krsna

  • @sidhantmanu4486
    @sidhantmanu4486 4 роки тому +4

    Srila prabhupada in bhagwat geeta as it is has commented demons believe women and men have equal rights. Women's should never be given independency!! Wow what a nice philosophy.........

    • @s.spirituality8435
      @s.spirituality8435 4 роки тому +3

      Really?

    • @sidhantmanu4486
      @sidhantmanu4486 4 роки тому +2

      @@s.spirituality8435 yes dear. Read it once.it is said by prabhupada not bhagwat geeta.

    • @T.Ragnarok12977
      @T.Ragnarok12977 Рік тому

      @@sidhantmanu4486 hes right see the west where they got so called independent to roam naked around

  • @balajipedapolu6118
    @balajipedapolu6118 6 років тому +2

    Good but need to concentrate little more from where you learn these all things.